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Why Nobody Knows How to Act in Public Anymore

August 13, 2026 42:300 comments♥ 0
00:00 I don't know if it's because lockdown melted our brains or because we all spend so much time online, but walk outside and you'll see someone acting like they're in The Last of Us. [screaming] That's a viral Tik Tok trend where Sophie Rain and other influencers scream
00:24 in the middle of the street so people will turn around and make them look like a celebrity. [screaming] [music] >> Sorry, I'm actually so sorry. It's a Tik Tok. >> What's next? Robbing a bank so it feels
00:44 like you have money. Like, what are we doing here? Someone pointed out some of the people didn't even turn around when they heard a girl screaming, presumably because they're used to influencers doing stupid things now. So, at this rate, someone's actually going to get robbed to start screaming and people
00:57 will think it's like a Tik Tok skit. And nobody knows how to mind their own business anymore. This woman who doesn't work at the store complained that some guy in the store seemed unemployed. He had the general ambiance of unemployment. And when he asked her about it, she started hiding under like
01:13 a t-shirt. >> Excuse me. You're the one that said it looks like I need a job. than that. Um, yeah. Are you mentally ill or something? Why are you running from the camera? Like, what's good with you? You was just talking mad [ __ ] to me [screaming] and now you're running away.
01:26 >> Look, look, look, look. >> Someone said she's running towards you and screaming, "Get away from me." Make it make sense. This McDonald's employee decided to shoot his shot when he definitely should not. >> Guys, you actually >> Oh my gosh, you guys are the best.
01:43 >> You're welcome. >> Thank you. >> Can you give me your phone number? Oh my. No. >> For what? >> For never mind. I was only asking. >> I'm 16. >> Oh my god.
01:52 >> He really said never mind. I was only asking. Yeah, that's what that's what asking is. Hey man, do you want to try to assassinate the president of Japan with me? Uh, no. And I'm going to arrest YOU FOR THAT. WHOA, BUDDY. I was just asking. It was simply a query. At least he apologized, unlike these women who
02:09 targeted a 16-year-old boy. >> What' you say? >> I'm cute. >> I'm cute. Yeah, you guys are cute. >> You look cute. You hell. >> Those are some trolls. >> Someone said, "Bro is really suffering from success." People of no shame. Watch
02:24 this girlfriend try to embarrass her boyfriend, but because he is even less shame than her, she gets outmatched. >> Oh, did you fart? >> Yes, I did. Because I've been very insecure about my medical condition. I've been going to the doctor that I can't control and it's been affect him
02:42 at his own game. Someone commented this was the exact moment he thought. You know what? And because we've become used to people acting unhinged in public, things that used to seem really strange don't anymore. >> Hey, can I throw yarn at you guys? >> Behind me.
02:57 >> Can I throw yarn at you? >> Throw yarn at us. >> [music] [music] >> So, that was this popular trend called rejection therapy where you ask people to do crazy things to get over your fear of people saying no, but these guys said
03:22 yes. Someone commented maybe they were practicing exception theory. What if they're also doing rejection therapy and so they couldn't say no? That would like create a vortex. People always ask what happens when an unstoppable force meets an immovable object. But what happens when someone doing rejection therapy
03:37 meets someone doing acception therapy? People get especially upset when tourists act inconsiderately, even when they're a tourist themselves. >> It's happened again. When are the [ __ ] GOVERNMENT GOING TO LISTEN? GET ILLEGALS [screaming] OUT NOW. MORE BRITAIN CIVILIAN.
03:55 >> Someone said, "I'm not like other tourists. I'm one of the good ones." But for some reason, even non-influencers have started doing the most when they see someone they know in public. >> Oh my Jonah. Hi. Hi. [clears throat] Give me a hug. And don't just stand there. I'm standing
04:13 there like we don't even know each other. Hi. What are you doing here? Oh my god. Hi. Hi. Hi. Come touch my legs. Hi. Hold on. Nice to meet you, Andre. Hi. >> They'll be like, "OMG, what are you
04:35 doing here?" And it's the local grocery store. One girl confessed, "This is me. >> I'm fake AF." >> But at least there are still some considerate people. [music] Joshua Basset. [laughter] First of all, that's crazy that you could recognize
04:55 him from so far away. But second, don't be afraid. Josh is very nice. And while most of the time people are acting obnoxious in public with no good reason, there is one exception. Society makes me feel like a terrible, unevolved Neanderthal every time I go to the grocery store and they ask me, "Did you
05:12 know that if you round up 14 pennies, you will save every child with emphyma in Zambia?" And I'm like, "No, I'm sorry. I don't know what this is. I don't know who you are. I'm sorry for the chimpanzees in the Gobi Desert, but no. >> Excuse me. Do you care about women's
05:28 rights? Oh, not today. No. Do you have any money to spare for orphaned puppies? [ __ ] the puppies. Sign this petition to stop global warming. Uh, that's okay. I'll just let it happen. Excuse me. Would you like to give some charity to underprivileged youth? Oh, I would never do something like that.
05:43 >> Someone commented, "Cashiers do this when I have $12 in my bank account." Like, I am the underprivileged youth. Ask people in suits or the elderly, not 22-year-old students. Sometimes it really feels like that old Key and Peel skit. >> Let's save five children. Tony
06:06 [music] 1 2 3 4 5. >> But some people know when to leave early to not make an interaction awkward so we could all take lessons from this guy. >> How's the food here? Is it good? >> M. Are you having tacos? >> Mhm.
06:22 >> I want Look at the size of them. >> What? Are they fish? >> Did you get fish tacos? >> I got fish. >> What's What's that quesadilla? >> Yeah, >> they put real cheese in. >> I went to that house again. They suck.
06:32 >> No, this is so good. >> This is so good. I can't wait. >> Thank you. Enjoy your meal. >> You, too. >> Oh my god. You think about >> They're so good. >> Being that respectful has become so rare that that Tik Tok over 3 million likes.
06:47 Little interactions like this is really what life is all about. Okay, that's that's going a little far, Sam. No, you're wrong. >> [laughter] >> I hope you're wrong. If that is what your life is about, I don't I don't envy your life. This guy got angry over
07:00 someone's McDonald's order that had nothing to do with him. But the original guy was unbothered. >> You fat ass. >> Hey, HOP OFF MY I'M TRYING TO ORDER MCDONALD'S. >> MCDONALD'S. How can I help you? >> Can I please do um a large high sea?
07:17 >> Large high sea. And what else? >> Uh two double cheeseburgers. >> Okay. Anything you know? >> Yep. A 20 piece nugget. >> Yeah. Uh, a sweet and sour sauce, please. >> Anything else? >> Yep. Um, I'd also like a McChick.
07:32 >> Regular spicy. >> Uh, regular. >> And what else? >> Uh, a fish fillet. >> Anything else? >> Yep. And an Oreo McFlurry, please. >> And a large f and a large fry. Every time I go through a drive-thru, people
07:44 are like mad. >> Yeah. >> Behind me. >> It's definitely Yeah. >> It has to be. They're probably mad at my car. They're jealous of my car. It has to be, bro. >> Can you hear me? [laughter]
07:52 >> He just He won't stop. What now, bro? >> What'd you order? Huh? >> Anything else? Yep. But the real problem with acting so obnoxious in public is that you ruin things for other people. >> [music] >> You're [music]
08:39 [music] >> someone said girl beat her ass. Why hasn't anyone asked her to stop? YOU'RE MY VIOLET IN THE SUN. AND I THINK IT'S A REAL PROBLEM THAT society has lost manners, that no one has shame anymore because it means we no longer think of anyone else. No one talks about
08:54 politeness or etiquette when you're alone. Because etiquette and politeness is how you demonstrate that you respect other people in two ways. Number one, it's supposed to show that you respect them as a human being, that you're doing things to recognize they're a person with their own inner world and life that
09:08 shouldn't be interfered with unnecessarily. But secondly, decorum is practical. It facilitates ease of interaction. If you're so disrespectful and don't care about any societal norms that get in your way, you'll end up making sure everybody else has a worse time, like on the beach.
09:22 >> Without fail, every single year, some new shade seeking bullshitty product comes to market and has people acting like they were born yesterday. What the [ __ ] kind of [ __ ] is this? Look at this. Look at how much space they're taking up. And it's only two people. It's only two people. These people over
09:41 here, two people, small umbrella. Fantastic. I'm not saying stay in the sun. Get yourself some sun protection. But what in the holy [ __ ] is this entire country that you've colonized over here in the beach and just for two goddamn people to sit there? That's not Demir. That's not mindful.
09:59 >> Or at the airport. >> Airplane etiquette. He is gone. I'm 6'3. I'm sitting in an aisle seat and a lady comes next to me. She go, "Oh, I'm in the middle. Do you mind switching seats with me?" And I'm like, "Excuse me, I must have heard this wrong. You want me to switch seats with you?" She's like,
10:13 "Yeah, like do you mind? It's just more comfortable for me." I'm like, "Actually, yeah, I I do mind. I have an aisle seat for a reason. Being 6'3, I need a little bit more leg room." Later in the flight, she taps me on my shoulder and says, "Oh, sir, do you mind if we lift up the armrest? It's it's
10:26 more comfortable for me." Now, she is a larger lady. At this point, I'm like, I've been traveling too much for the day. And I'm like, man, with all due respect, with all due respect, I bought this portion of the plane. meaning my seat. It is more comfortable for me to put down my armrest.
10:46 >> Or people who just act like this. >> Are we still up for our sleepover? >> Dude, only if you don't eat my snacks this time because you do it every time. Every sleepover, you do the same thing. You eat the snacks. That's fine. You're over everything. You're basically family. It doesn't matter.
10:59 >> Guys, >> every day. >> Every day. >> Oh, you said every day. >> April, this is so weird. >> Oh my god, that's so weak. >> It's so funny. video. >> Look at that.
11:13 >> Look, this is so Emma, bro. Look. >> Or at the movie theater. >> If you were, and I'm going to name drop. Hey, if you were at the Provo Cinear in the Provo Mall watching Obsession at 9:20, you >> we got a lot to talk about. Uh,
11:30 >> so we [music] we tried to watch Obsession. Okay. Um, >> emphasis on tried. >> Tried. Okay. [music] Probably got Would you say like 45 minutes in? No, I feel like even 30. [music] We probably got 30 minutes into the movie >> and walked out
11:43 >> and it's like 9:20 at night. What happens when we pull up to the movie theater that nobody on planet Earth is ever at? >> Everyone is here. We walk inside, a million and a half people. There's swing dancing going on tonight. >> So there's a million people for that.
11:59 We're like, "Oh, that's what everyone's here for." >> Wrong. [screaming] >> Nope. Everyone's there for [music] not just any movie, the one that we are watching, you know, in the movie theater that no one ever goes to because it's in our bum [ __ ] college town and it's so
12:13 rundown and janky >> and half of the stores aren't even open in this mall. >> Yeah, [music] that one. >> We're sitting smack dab in the middle because best seats in the house. >> Mhm. >> Didn't think anybody would sit there.
12:27 >> Wrong again. >> Nope. Fully surrounded to our right. Who's over there? Mr. Man jerking off in the middle of the movie >> by himself. By himself. >> By himself. Yes. >> By himself. Shut up by himself. Empty seat next to him.
12:39 >> Yeah. To our left, who is there? Big group of grown ass men who can't shut up the entire movie. >> I think they were want to be movie critics. There were like lots of red flags going on. >> And I said, "No duh. He just cracked the thing and [music] now she's obsessed
12:53 with him." Hey, Obsession. The movie. Yeah. Mhm. [clears throat] That one. So, yeah. They get to the scene, she takes off her shirt. Everyone in the audience, [music] >> I can't whistle to you. >> I can't whistle. >> They do the stupid whistle [ __ ] and
13:08 everyone's like, >> "That was a good whistle. That was so good." >> Yes. And keep in mind behind us, [music] big group of people who were talking so loud. So loud. And what's [music] in front of us? Big group of teenage kids, >> right? who also need to audibly have a
13:26 reaction to everything like her taking off her shirt and it's like boy >> and they have they have their Gatorade bottles and they're smacking back and forth in their seats thinking it's so funny. >> No >> jump scare.
13:42 [screaming] >> Like guys, >> why is movie theater etiquette dead? If you go to a movie theater, you should not be on your phone. You know why? And it's not just cuz Nicole Kidman doesn't want you to. and our stories feel perfect
13:56 and [music] >> powerful. >> It's because there's a phone screen 100 times bigger in front of you playing an amazing movie. Unless you're watching that Dire of a Wimpy Kid remake with Rodri's Chelganger. >> Oh, wait. No, wait. You're kidding. He
14:09 didn't just say what I think he did, did he? And Dr. Dre said he's locked in my basement. >> If that's the case, carry on. #notmy Rodri. Like whose mom is harassing random ad delivery drivers? >> You're door dashing. You know why? Why? Why are you entitled to be here with an
14:27 illegal car? Go ahead. >> I don't know. >> You know what? I'll do that. >> Do you homophobic? >> I No. No. Do you speak English? >> Yeah. >> Well, then speak it. >> She really thought she ate with that
14:43 line. Do you even speak English? Uh, yeah. Uh, okay. Then then do it. But why? >> But why? You know what? YOU'RE IN FLOWER MOUND. You know what? You know, go speak your language back in Mexico. >> There are people who disrespect social norms for a better reason.
14:58 >> Hey, excuse me. Hey, my phone just died and my mom is around here shopping somewhere. Can I use your phone real quick to call her? >> Yeah. >> Perfect. I appreciate it. >> Hey, Mom. I'm like freaking out right
15:10 now. I think I just met my dream girl. Easy. I don't work hard just to be all. [music] >> Yeah. I don't know. Hey, how old are you? >> Um 19. >> All right. She's 19.
15:31 >> I don't know. Hey, you got a boyfriend? >> No. >> Mom, she doesn't have a boyfriend. >> Hi, Mom. >> Yeah. Do you find me attractive? >> Yeah. >> Mom, she finds me attractive. Oh my gosh. Okay. All right. I love you, too,
15:45 Mom. All right. I got to go. I got to go. Bye. All right. Bet. So, my mom is going to text you. Oh, wait. I think it's still she's still on there. >> Oh, >> my mom is My mom is going to text you and she's going to set up a date for us. Okay.
15:57 >> Okay. I'll respond to her for sure. It >> was good to meet you. Good to meet you, too. Bye. >> Someone said if he was unattractive, you're looking at a sexual harassment case. And I'll give you a pass if you're a little kid. Like, it's actually kind of funny how much this kid melted down
16:10 when he actually saw a real life furry. Bro is traumatized by the furry. No, sometimes I'll get furries in my comments and sometimes I'll get people scared of the furries in my comments. If you're an adult, you should not be kicking anyone out of a restaurant if they're on their headphones not
16:33 bothering anybody. >> Then go sit at one. when I was inside either. So I can I can totally go that's preferable to you. >> I'll call you back. >> But you also are in >> like the entitlement is insane. >> Public face is still the man.
16:50 >> I was here before you. >> It doesn't matter. >> You're coming in and doing >> your entitlement is literally insane. >> It's not a very courteous thing to do. >> It does. >> It's not a good example. I >> like in front of kids is crazy.
17:03 >> It's okay. You know what? It's not that big of a deal. >> No, that's just insane. >> I have a four-year-old son and I would happily move out of my way soon. >> Okay, good. Thanks. >> What was your name, sir? >> Okay,
17:15 >> I'm Ryan. >> Sarah. Nice to meet you, Ryan. That's literally insane. The guy that was in the yellow shirt was sitting at this table next to me. Um, minding his own business, listening to music, did a couple phone calls. I'm guessing he's working. He wasn't hurting anybody,
17:28 minding his own business peacefully. and the two ladies and their kids in the video came and sat literally right there at the table next to him. Now, mind you, there's other empty tables as well as all of the tables that are inside and tables on the other side of the building as well as tables right down the
17:45 sidewalk. They chose to sit right next to him. They were being loud. They were cutting up and the woman, the older woman, looks over to the guy and is like, "Can you go somewhere else? You're being so rude." And he was like, what? And so I chimed in and I was like, "Man, he was here first and he's not
18:02 bothering anybody. You can move." And she was like, "Well, there's no tables inside and it's so rude to be on your phone. This is a public place and you're just being so inconsiderate and rude." And then that's about when I started recording. So here's this part of the interaction. The next video that I'm
18:17 going to post is when I cussed this [ __ ] out. Um because after they bullied him into leaving, I was like, "You know what? [ __ ] you guys. I'm going to get on the phone now and I'm going to be double obnoxious." That's the next video. I just want to point out I would not have said anything else to these women, but
18:32 she approached me and said, "You're so rude." Okay, let me show you rude. >> Someone said, "So, people can talk to each other at their table, but if someone's having a one-sided conversation on their phone, that's not okay. How is it any different?" The one
18:46 time I'll say it's different is if the person's obnoxiously loud, but I don't think this guy was. This matters because when people are so socially rude, when you exclude someone you invited somewhere, it can really hurt. My son just opened the door and gave me a hug and said, "It's okay, Mom. It's
19:05 not your fault." [snorts] I don't normally post things like this, but I am absolutely humiliated. And I can't like I had to hold it together for the 15 or 20 minute drive home because I didn't want the kids to be
19:24 like completely like upset. So I was invited to a Fourth of July party the other day by my son's best friend's mother. And I thought it was possibly like a family party or just like a neighborhood party or something because it's like a a road in the woods kind of thing where they're at the end
19:46 and then her mother and her uncle and then like a couple other houses. But I don't know anybody. I'm I'm new to this area. I just moved a thousand miles away to be here. And uh [clears throat] [snorts] so I made an antipasto salad, like this big gorgeous salad, and I asked, you
20:06 know, is there anything you want me to bring? You know, thank you so much. I was so gracious. I kept reiterating that. Thank you so much for like inviting me. I don't know anybody here. like and I get there and the kids get out and I grab the antipasto and I brought one
20:24 beer with me because I was only going to drink one beer because I I don't know like I have kids to drive home [snorts] honestly never been treated like this before and I just I can't like imagine like having a party at your house and treating a guest like this even if like maybe it was a surprise. I don't know.
20:43 So, I walk into the house with my son's friend's mom and I'm carrying the salad and I have my beer and I just wanted to put the salad down and chat and introduce myself to everybody and I guess the homeowner's name is Stasia and her husband, I don't even know who he was. He walked by me kind of angry and
21:03 like ignored me, but I was like trying to introduce myself to everybody. And her uncle um my son's friend's mom's uncle and mother were there and they were the ones doing the fireworks and they had like 500 rounds and I'm just chatting, not even 5 minutes in the door and somebody walks in the house
21:23 and is like, "Are you going to introduce yourself to somebody?" Like it's really rude to walk into somebody's house and not introduce yourself. He's absolutely flipping out outside about some stranger. And I was like so confused. I looked like a deer caught in headlights because I thought I was invited. And
21:39 even the mother that like invited me, she was like, "What in the world?" Like I I mentioned that she was coming. Like, okay. So, and I was like, "I'm really sorry. I I don't even know whose house this is." And the girl goes, "Exactly. You shouldn't be in here." And I was like, "Okay." So
21:57 I walk outside and when I get out on the porch, the girl stage I introduced myself to it. Wouldn't even look at me. She turned herself looking away on the porch and there's these all these people just angrily looking at me and like nasty. And one guy was like, "Welcome to the neighborhood. See you later." And I
22:13 was like, "Okay." So I just dumped my beer out and I was just like I was totally distraught. Like I've never been treated like that. Like I left the salad for them. It was like probably a $40 salad. I used all the really nice Italian cut meats and like all the vegetables from my yard. I just
22:31 wanted to make a good impression. And like this is why you don't make friends in your 30s because this like people are so nasty. And like I I literally didn't mean to intrude. I just I thought I was a [sighs and gasps] I feel absolutely horrible cuz I ruined
22:50 my kids 4th of July. And like I just I feel like that was so unwarranted. I feel like it was just so nasty the way I was treated and the way that they just kind of gked. Like a bunch of strangers just like was standing on the porch looking at me like I was like this horrible piece of [ __ ]
23:10 [laughter] Welcome to the neighborhood. See you later. [ __ ] you. Like that hurt. [snorts] I'm like shaking right now. Are you kidding me? Someone rightly said, "The person who invited you should be embarrassed for not sticking up for you.
23:26 You showed up with food, gratitude, and nothing but love in your heart, and they treated you like you didn't belong." True. It's the same energy of those friends who make one friend feel completely unnecessary. >> That's my mom. That's >> You ain't even the fart.
23:43 >> You know what though? That reminds me. He's throwing a party tonight. >> Wait, really? >> Yeah. And I heard Jessica never seen her. >> That was incredible. Wait, you guys went to [music] Cancun? >> Yeah, but it was just like one
23:53 >> one time thing. Nothing special. [music] How do you touch grass, bro? No. No. Run it back. Run it back. No, no. I got this. I I got to teach him a lesson. He's crazy. He's >> You really think so? >> Hey, how you doing? >> I'm sorry, [music]
24:08 my friend. >> Oh, sorry. >> I felt that way. Have you felt that way? And this is what I think is at the heart of people being so disrespectful in public. It's part of a larger disrespect for other people that create situations like this. Can we all extend each other
24:23 grace? If kids are excited for a vacation and they're a little loud, maybe you can put on headphones. Do you have to turn around and tell them to shut up? >> But to be fair, some people said I had parents that would tell me to sit down and be quiet. It's called respect. And I
24:48 see that argument. If the kids became disruptive, then absolutely the parents should step in. But even when social media has taken over so much of the entertainment industry today, people still harass and make fun of somebody bothering no one for making a Tik Tok. I >> mean, there's nothing better in the
25:02 world than like >> Hey guys, >> what's up guys? >> How's it going? Hey. >> Hey. >> What you doing? >> Filming a video out here. How you guys doing?
25:09 >> Doing well. Is this your job? >> Yeah. >> Dressing up like an Elvis guy. >> Do you actually make money doing that? >> Um, yeah. Yeah, you can make money. Yeah. And and you dress like that every day. >> Even sounds like
25:18 >> Yeah, man. I always dress like this. >> I don't know. Home dog. >> Yep. What's your point, fellas? >> Well, I just got that on video, too. >> How sad does your day have to be to just do that to someone out filming in the park? I'll do it anyways.
25:34 >> The top comment is so right. They said, "I thought this kind of dialogue only happens in badly written movies." Yeah, those kids literally sounded like a John Hughes '8s villain. Ah, look at this nerd making a living from his Elvis impersonations. Do I get to date Molly Ringwald now? But this video is
25:49 absolutely destroying the internet right now because a customer started harassing a Jersey Mike's employee to the point where he started cursing her out, but she was so entitled that all the comments were siding with him. >> How I get treated on my birthday at Jersey Mike.
26:04 >> Yeah, [ __ ] your birthday. >> Okay, thank you. >> Yes, ma'am. >> Thank what you said. Who are you talking to? >> You recording that? >> Yeah. Who you talking to? Yeah, I bet you won't say nothing now.
26:14 >> My name is David. >> Yeah. What? You said get the [ __ ] out, right? >> Mhm. Please and thank you. >> That's what you said. Why? >> No. And don't try to be nice. You said get the out, right? >> You said get the [ __ ] out, right?
26:25 >> Say now. Say get the [ __ ] out. >> Okay. Yeah. Please. Thank you. >> Uh-huh. Jerk. >> Please. Uh-huh. Uh-huh. >> Yeah. >> Broke ass for $10. On. >> Uh-huh. Cuz it's my birthday and I asked for a birthday.
26:37 >> It's your birthday. >> Yeah. Okay. Oh, goof ass. >> Uhhuh. Watch you watch you lose your job. >> Look, your man standing at the door. Come on. >> Right. Not saying anything to you. And
26:48 watch you lose your job, David. Broke asses on my birthday. This is how I get treated on my birthday at Jersey Mike. >> [ __ ] your birthday. >> Okay. Thank you. >> The top comment said, "Give this man a raise. He's definitely fired, but I bet he felt good saying that to someone so
27:02 entitled." Someone else said, "You asked for free food, but you called him broke. Make it make sense." But even that customer wasn't as blatantly mean as this girl at a Taylor Swift concert. >> Trash. >> Sorry, I'm using my trash. >> Is this woman for real? Why does she
27:24 care? Why is she saying this to strangers? Even Trisha Pis was upset. Once my friend was on the freeway in Los Angeles and this car just like cut him off and it was like bright pink with like sparkles on the side and the car kept like speeding up and passing all these other cars until finally my friend
27:39 caught up with her and he looked at who was in the car and Trisha Pis just smiled and waved at him. And now that I say this story I'm starting to realize a good percentage of my audience doesn't know who Trisha Pis is and that's okay. Don't that's a good thing probably. Anyway, when someone goes up to a
27:52 stranger and just says how ugly they are, it's because they have those thoughts all the time. They're constantly thinking about how ugly someone looks, how pretty someone looks, and more importantly, how ugly or pretty someone else is compared to them. They're constantly worried about their
28:07 appearance, which is a miserable way to live. For healthy people, it's not that we wouldn't go up to someone and tell them they're ugly, although there's that. It's that we're not spending 95% of our time thinking about it. We don't have to stop ourselves from commenting on someone's appearance because it's not
28:21 something we're fussing over. We have friends or a concert that we're enjoying that we think is more important than how some stranger in the row in front of us looks. >> Stop yelling. >> You can fight. >> Whoa, whoa, whoa.
28:37 [laughter] Hey, >> you can call the police. >> YOU CAN FIGHT. YOU GIVE ME MY MEDICATION. >> I want to push you. Give me my medication. >> I am here. You don't put your bag where I am.
28:52 Ryan, this is crazy. >> That is insane. Someone commented, "I assume that medication was her psych medication." Someone else said, "Bro, even her dog is on your side." She started the whole interaction off by yelling. And even if she was in the right, which she was not, people are
29:05 never going to listen to you that way because you've already disrespected them. Even if your requests are unreasonable, if you're just polite and have good intentions, people will give you the benefit of the doubt because you're treating them with respect. Literally 4 hours ago, I walked out of
29:19 my apartment and there was this girl just screaming at a woman across the street saying, "You're really going to act like that? You are nothing. You are worthless." I had no idea what was going on. But these interactions have just become far too common. And obviously, the people shouting all these mean
29:34 things aren't happy people. But the part of that interaction that stuck with me the most is her word choice. You are nothing. You are worthless. She's trying to make the other person feel less than her while she's screaming at them. That's exactly right. When you're screaming at someone when you are rude,
29:48 when you are obnoxious to other people, you're treating them like they're nothing, like they're worthless. That woman was just making it explicit. But everybody who screams at another person like that in public is basically saying what that woman said implicitly. And that's why people get so triggered and
30:02 so angry when people treat them like that. They're reacting as if you walked up to them and shouted, "You're worthless." Because you kind of did. Polite social norms are ways to acknowledge other people's value and that other people's time matters as much as yours. But apparently this is an
30:16 international problem. In Taiwan, a Taiwanese couple was harassed for not speaking English. But guess what? The manager yelled at them in English. >> I don't think you guys understand the circumstances. >> That's the reason.
30:29 >> Stop doing this. This is the restaurant. Okay. >> You're talking too much. I don't like this is in Taiwan. Okay. You want to speak, speak Chinese. >> Understand? Is that crystal clear? >> Wait. >> I don't care. This is restaurants. You
30:44 don't shoot people. You You want to fight? Fight with me outside. Okay. >> I don't want to fight. I don't want to fight. Man, >> go ahead. >> I'm not fighting. >> Someone said there's a Karen in every culture. Karens, the true heroes of
30:54 multiculturalism. But apparently, it's even worse in France. >> Listen, when y'all come to Paris, these people are rude. Do not say please. Do not say thank you. Do not say messy. Do not say bonjour. Do not say hi. Don't wave. Don't say nothing. Don't even say excuse me. Push a [ __ ] These
31:11 people are disrespectful out here. Someone said, "Perfect. I'm rude, too." But someone commented, "Maybe this is all because you said Messi instead of Merci." I'm just imagining this girl picks up her baguette, looks at the cashier, and goes, "Ronaldo ple." They just be like, "What?" Sorry. THEY'D BE
31:27 LIKE, I know like 1% of my audience is in France, so apologies. But apparently, it's gotten even worse. This woman claimed a waiter went full minority report on her and accused her son of crimes her son hadn't even committed yet. Good luck, folks. We're We're
31:44 actually going to cut this short tonight. I'm sorry, but we won't be serving again tonight. All right. I appreciate it. Have a good night. >> Not like for real. I'm going >> have to ask you to leave at this point. >> Okay. >> Well, I really wanted my chicken
32:05 sandwiches. >> Like, yeah, I would love my kid to be able to sit still at a restaurant, too. YEAH, I WOULD LOVE THAT. But not all kids are the same. >> [ __ ] you. >> But if you watch that video closely, the waiter says, "In that case," it seems
32:18 like this lady's not telling the whole story. And it looks like the comments agree. Someone said, "Waiting for the algorithm to show me the waiter's side." And I know I'm always recording when I unexpectedly get kicked out of a restaurant. Something's off here. These women started making fun of this kid for
32:32 making a minion Tik Tok, which is okay. It is a minion Tik Tok, but [laughter] until they found out how many followers he had. So, I was recording a Tic Tac at work to make this >> and then these rigged customers [music] walked in. Adorable. >> I was minding my own business and
32:47 everything. >> Oh my god. [laughter] >> It is so good. >> No. >> Oh. Yeah, I'm about to hit 2 million. >> Damn. Do you make a lot of money? Do Do
33:13 people actually make a lot of money or is it like ads? >> Um, no, you do make money. >> Someone commented, "No one's going to mention how that coworker stood up and defended him." And you could see how hurt he was in his face when he realized they were making fun of him. This
33:24 employee got so mad at this random ass girl because she had curlers in her hair. What? >> Excuse me. >> Hi. What's the house with curlers in your hair? >> Oh, yeah. I um I'm going out later, so I just wanted to like put curlers in
33:41 before I left. >> All right. They're not even curlers. What is it? Toilet roll. >> It's like the toilet roll holders yet. >> Disgusting. >> Oh. Um I just thought it was like quite like cost effective. >> I just thought it was like
33:55 >> Who even has that many empty toilet rolls? >> Oh, my mom saved them for me so that I could have like heatless girls. I'm going out later so I just wanted nice hair. But thank you. >> I don't even know if that's going to work to be honest. Uh, well, I hope so,
34:08 but I'll let you I'll put it on Tik Tok. If you want to follow me, you can have a look. >> All right. >> All right. Well, I hope you have a good rest of your day. >> Okay. >> Bye.
34:17 >> That was so weird. What the hell? >> Someone commented, "Bro, you're saving the environment and serving." Someone else said, "Oh, she is jealous of you, girl. You're stunning." But Karens can be men, too. Okay. Equality. This guy started complaining to an employee that a toddler Wait for it. Wait for it. Wait
34:33 for it. coughed. [ __ ] >> What the hell? >> She's sick. >> My daughter cocked and so they're harassing my three-year-old. >> No, I'm not harassing. She come. She's sick and she got all over. She knock with a face.
34:47 >> So they're harassing a three-year-old. >> No, I'm not harassing. >> Where's your manager, by the way? Can I talk to them? Cuz they're >> I mean, if >> what's the problem? >> She coughing. >> Okay.
34:57 >> And my wife's taking you to help her daughter turn around. >> She don't have any mask. >> Was I putting a napkin over her face every time? Yes. >> I didn't see it. >> This is a family establishment. >> Yeah.
35:07 >> Okay. Fine. >> Okay. >> So, she's welcome here. >> Yeah. Just >> Yeah. She won't come here. But >> you don't talk to a three-year-old. >> Put the mask on. >> You don't talk to a three-year-old.
35:17 >> Get mad. >> You don't harass a three-year-old. >> Can you sit down, please? >> Yeah. I'm sit down. >> You're not sitting down. >> Yeah, I'm not sitting. >> No, you're not sitting down. >> Excuse me, sir. Can you sit down?
35:25 >> I'm sitting. I'M SITTING RIGHT NOW. >> MY WIFE IS SICK, so we went out in public. Yeah, good catch, commenter. How can you be mad that a three-year-old's in public and might be sick if you brought out your wife in public who 100% is sick? This girl said, "As a cancer patient who has no immune system, I
35:41 don't expect anyone else to protect me from getting ill. That's my job." But this culture of being rude, it's no longer just relegated to influencers. It spread to pastors, I guess. Pastors who want to be influencers. >> Is that the water that you asked for? >> Yeah. A large glass of water from our
35:55 live stream. This is like a kid size. Free sample size. >> I'm sorry. >> I'm an adult. Bring out an adult size. Okay. You're messing the whole video up. There are a lot of people watching. >> Okay. Just delete that part. >> Can't. We're live.
36:09 >> You can't back up like 30 seconds. Live streaming. >> Okay. Well, that's an example of how certain people can be a stumbling block to other people and cause them to sin. Like she caused me to sin and become angry because she didn't get the water right. So, that's something you want to
36:25 avoid being a stumbling block to others. So, that was a good example. Um, you know what? Let's just Now I'm off. Can we just Let's just restart. People were going to restart. If you want to join the next live stream, please join. We're going to start over. Did this pastor really ask if he could cut out a part of
36:40 his live stream? My brother in Christ, literally. But that's not nearly as bad as him accusing a waitress of causing him to sin by getting him a water cup that is too small. Like, even outside of him being so rude. I just cannot relate to the mindset of actually caring about your water cup size. Like, send it pack.
36:58 Sure. But actually getting upset in any way having your day ruined by the size of your water cup. My brother, you would not survive a recession. When the pastor influencer bubble pops, [laughter] you are not going to make it. What bro expected? Someone else said, "Druski skit incoming." My ex-girlfriend used to
37:16 say, "As soon as somebody was rude to a waitress, she couldn't continue dating them. So instead of breaking up with her, we went out to IHOP and I just punched our WAITER IN THE FACE." HOW you treat people you have nothing to gain from shows the kind of person you are. There was also this famous acting agent
37:30 who would always ask her secretary how the actor treated her after every audition and she would only hire the actors who treated their secretary well. You'd think people would at least still be courteous in the gym cuz that's a shared space where you're all paying a membership fee together, but no. People
37:44 will literally drop 30 lb weights on you if you stop lifting for a minute. >> Are you using? >> Yeah, I was. >> How many? >> Like two, I think. All right. Ow. Someone asked, "Why would he take it
38:02 from under you?" Yeah, that's kind of crazy. How is anyone defending him? People are defending him. And it's not just American citizens who don't know how to act in public. Our president doesn't either. Watch what happened when Marco Rubio wrote Trump a secret note. >> All right. Thank you. You You'll make it
38:18 back one way or the other. You're all going to do very well. I think really very well. Marco just gave me a note. Go back to Chevron. They want to discuss something. Go ahead. I'm going back to Chevron, Mark. Thank you, Marco. >> The top comment says, "Marco's like, I
38:33 hate this job." Marco, the moment he heard Trump start saying, "Go back, too." This gives the same energy as when Mark Ruffalo spoiled Avengers Endgame. >> Wait till you see this next one. Everybody died. >> Dude, not everybody. No. >> Was that No.
38:49 >> Hey, whatever. >> Can we rewind that? >> Not everybody. No, not not everybody. But let's be real. We all know a Trump/Mark Ruffalo. >> Oh, why did you just send me this message? Look, she just sent me a
39:02 message about you. Did you mean to send me that? What's it say? She looks really ugly. Did you Did you mean to send that to me? Oh, should I not have read that out? It wasn't about her, was it? Oh, it was about another another person with the
39:24 same name as you. That's that makes sense. Yeah. Oh, you just texted me again. Look over there. Oh. Oh, I wasn't meant to Oh, yeah. They've seen me now. >> Someone commented, "I genuinely hate people like this. It boils my blood." Sometimes people like this can even be a
39:46 safety hazard. >> All right, we're just going to wait. Hi, Emily. Please, there's a bus coming. Oh my god, there's police everywhere. >> That makes me really nervous cuz I shoplifted today. So, >> not too loud. >> Put it down. Pull it down now. Pull it
40:04 down. >> I wanted to shout through it. >> Excuse me. Can I have a picture? >> Emily, we're literally in public. Can you please stay a bit quieter? >> Ella, look at me. >> No, don't. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. Don't do that. Please, we're in public.
40:20 That man's got no hair. >> Emily, what did we say? >> Oh, sorry. >> Yeah, we can't say that out loud. >> Okay, I I do some of those. Not going to lie. Someone commented that's on me being autistic. But I have a lot to say about this final Tik Tok because I
40:32 actually disagree with it. [laughter] >> Hey, if they're not bothering someone, it's a public space and they're a little loud, I don't think you should be mad that people are laughing and having a good time. That's getting rarer and rarer. these days. Maybe I'm biased,
40:51 though, because every day in college, my best friend and I would sit at dinner together and make each other laugh so hard that sometimes people would look at us, but I want more of that. And if other people were laughing, I think that's great. So, be considerate of other people, but that goes both ways.
41:05 Don't start attacking someone if they've mildly socially inconvenienced you. If they didn't target you, if they weren't being malicious, if they're just having a good time. I think sometimes people get so angry at people who are just really excited and happy is because they're not. And so when it comes to
41:18 people screwing you in public, whether you're on the receiving end Oh my god. Okay, I'm going to resay that sentence. That sentence did not go the way I wanted it to. >> People screwing you in public, whether you're on the receiving end. >> Just treat everybody you meet with
41:31 respect, except the Not My Rodri. HE DOES NOT DESERVE ANY RESPECT. THIS guy was actually my neighbor for like 3 years. We actually like shared an apartment and my friends would always come over and shout not my Rodrik outside my window. So, I actually kind of feel bad. I'm sure you're a nice guy.
41:47 You're just not >> my Roger. >> I'll respond to as many comments as I can. So, tell me if you've seen people acting like a fool in public. Now, do you want to know the people who deserve the most respect in this world? I'll tell you. There's Bob, Eric, Guy, Matt,
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