Club Shay Shay - Super Bowl Reaction: Kendrick Lamar won't let Drake breathe | Humble Baddies

Episode Date: February 12, 2025

In this episode, Sharelle, Ashley, and Alexis react to Jalen Hurts and the Philadelphia Eagles defeating Patrick Mahomes in Super Bowl LIX, Kendrick Lamar dissing Drake at the Super Bowl Halftime show, why Chris Brown should perform next, and much more!02:10 - Intro04:30 - Humble Baddies unpack the Super Bowl07:00 - Kendrick Lamar halftime performance31:43 - Relle’s Red Flags38:40 - Humble Baddies Mail(Timestamps may vary based on advertisements.) #ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We going in Paris, girl. Okay, well we, we, we. Yes. Enchanté. Yes, girl. The menage-a-trois. Get in. Well, we won't be menage-a-trois.

No. But it's a three. It's a... It's a... Let me rephrase that. So what is gonna be? Baby squad up, we finna go deep We just you, riding on our teeth, got what you need Baby won't you keep me company? Give me something to do when I get lonely I got something for you when we get home

If you let me put it down, when I hit the town Welcome back to another episode of Humble Baddies. I am Alexis Welch-Stattemeyer. I'm Ashley Nicole. And I am Sherrell Rosado. And we are the Humble Baddies. We are freshly back, landed and rested from beautiful Bourbon Street in New Orleans.

Yes. What a time we have. I mean, we did so many firsts. We had our first meeting green as the Humble Baddies. We did a live on Nightcapped. So we were introduced there with Shannon and Ocho and many other guests. A few podcast appearances.

That's right. You two were on Outside the Lines. Inside the Lines. Yeah. Shout out to Atoya and her crew. That was amazing. It was such a good time. Yes, yes. We stopped by a fashion show, the Off the Field Ladies Association. That was nice too, right?

That was so beautiful. Like, we laughed, we cried. It was just... it was amazing. It was a beautiful, beautiful event. It was. We were not ready for that, right? But they honored some of the victims of the attack that happened in New Orleans at the beginning of the year. So it was really good to be a part of New Orleans, have the cuisines and experience the streets

and many fans from all around the world, right? Shout out our favorite restaurant. Let's shout out Larry Morrow. Yes, shout out. Yes, Morrow's amazing. Listen, I'm still thinking about their food. My mouth is still water at the crab class. It's like, bring some out.

Keep bringing them out. Keep bringing them out. But the hospitality he gave us, it was amazing. So if y'all ever go to New Orleans, make sure y'all check out Morrow's. Yes, creole and Cajun food with the different tastes of both flavors. The jambalaya, the asoufe, the red fish. Red beans and rice.

Oh, yes. I mean, oh, it's taking me back now. I might have to go whip something up. We forgot something. We're going to have to go back and get our... What? Something. We just need an excuse to go back. Yes, yes. We're ready to go back. Yes, yes, we're ready.

We'll go back. I mean, I'm sure New Orleans wants to see us again. I gotta un-beak this back, girl. Girl, I'm sorry. Girl, what's up? The food was delicious, though, so yeah, shout out to Maros, it was absolutely divine. So, speaking of the big main event

that just happened on Super Bowl Sunday. How you feeling? How you feeling? Okay, so y'all see what's going on. As y'all can see, I'm a Kansas City fan. I still have love for Kansas City. We were defeated. Y'all got y'all ass.

Y'all got y'all ass. We did. Thanks. And the best team won. So shout out to the Eagles. Yes. I told y'all, if y'all would have listened to me, I said it. I said the Eagles are going to come and tear that ass up.

You know, low key, not only did they tear that ass up, it was a lot of records broken too. It was. I mean, the sacks were outrageous. I mean, it's just, I was expecting a better game. I was hoping for a better game just as a fan of football. Yeah, the game was pretty sad. It was a better game. I was hoping for a better game, just as a fan of football. Yeah, the game was pretty sad. It was a sad game. We were on a 24 at halftime. I was just like, at this point, I was like,

how are we going to either get back from this, or are we going to end up like, you know, the underdog, the story of the comeback, which would have been epic. Like the Patriots and the Falcons. Correct. The Falcons was 10, the Patriots up. But then the Patriots came back halftime. Was it halftime?

Third quarter. They came back and won. So I was thinking something like that was going to happen. They do say it was scripted. That's all the chiefs. Oh, we don't want to hear that. Like, we're saying this is the night. No, it's great.

I know about this one. There was like, what, three interceptions? It was bad. They played horrible. I've never seen a debacle of like that in the magnitude of just heaviness of the chief. So, but it's OK. We have the last two rings. So not too bad.

It's OK to share the wealth, I guess. Listen, shout out to Jalen Hurts. He, the award goes, he's the humble daddy. He's the humble daddy. Jalen Hurts through 221 yards. He had two touchdowns. He did that. MVP.

Yep. Yeah, so shout out to Jalen Hurts. I was actually cheering for him too. I just, it's tough because, you know, he has, he's led by an all femalefemale team, a Black agent. That's amazing. You know, that you can see his love for his fiancee. And just, we love to see it.

We love to see all that good wholesomeness. And then shout out to this game in general with two Black quarterbacks. Come on now. And it's Black history month. Big deal. I'm rooting for everybody Black. That's right. That's right.

It was a win-win situation. It surely was. It sures. That's right. It was a win-win situation. It surely was. It sure was. I cannot complain. Like, it was just, for that overall, you know, it was definitely a vibe to be able to see it and just really understand it. And then, at least as cheese fans, we did have something to look out for. The halftime performance.

Right? But did y'all really look out, like, did y'all really see the halftime performance? I did. Absolutely. That's like the main event. I feel like a lot of people tune in more so for the halftime performance. But see the thing, I feel like people was upset. Did y'all see like the Twitter, the tweets? As we know, people gonna have something to say.

What they was saying, what, black Twitter or regular Twitter? Because black Twitter is a whole nother thing. They was going in. Black Twitter was going in on the performance. I loved the performance. I was turnt. I was turnt, but I felt like it wasn't to the capacity of what a Super Bowl halftime should be.

Ooh, I disagree. I feel like Lil Wayne would have ripped it out the part. I feel like more people know Lil Wayne's music. And for it to be in New Orleans, I feel like it would have hit home better. Because they were showing like videos of like the audience and they didn't know the music. What? It was some songs I didn't even know. Like some of audience and they didn't know the music. What?

It was some songs I didn't even know. Like some of the songs I didn't even know. I know Kendrick Lamar music. I knew the songs. But if you don't know Kendrick Lamar music like that, I mean, it's hard to get into it because he's a lyricist. He is a lyricist. You know, it's not just like music.

You just, I don't know. It's not just like music, you just, I don't know. It's very meaningful. And people, I think, were missing his message that he was making. I totally disagree. One, we had the sitting president sitting in the stands. You know we're coming off of this election and inauguration.

Did you keep singing the song? And I wasn't paying attention to him. I know one thing though, we have a Pulitzer Prize winning artist that is storytelling. And he had the platform on America's biggest stage. And not just America, I'm going to just, let's say the world's global stage is the NFL. And the fact that he basically told this president,

in his face, respectfully, not using any curse words, and using he took out a lot of major words that were catchphrases that you know, we all know to fill in the bank. Yeah, Kendrick was the epitome of social influence and standing on business and justice. He is right. I don't think everybody caught it. It translated. I think a lot of the people were just sitting there like. Did you pay attention to like his mic? It wasn't clear in the beginning because Kendrick is very controversial. Like he'll say something like he can spit something out. Yeah. Out of his music quick and it is yeah so I felt like the mic was intentionally low until his last song came on.

I just know that pop culture and the song that everybody is talking about and off of album and song and just like all these Grammy wins. He stood for so much and I loved it. Like the fact that he was on a game controller. The fact that he had Samuel L. Jackson being Uncle Sam, how we respect Samuel as being one of the highest, he's in some of the highest grossing movies we've ever seen. You have Serena who is the epitome of black essence and American culture. That was great. That was up in the face. You're likeena, who is the epitome of Black essence and American culture.

That was right up in the face. You're like, come on. But she's from Columbus. Sherri is from Columbus. She's just like Kendrick. So she's coming in there and, you know, walking. Well, that was a diss to Drake. It is.

That's fine. Because you know Kendrick's going to let us know. And then you just had SZA too. Like, SZA's on top. She's also an ex known of Drake as well. I didn't know that. So it's just like, you like, SZA. SZA's on top. She's also an ex known of Drake as well. I didn't know that. Um, so it's just like, you know, to me... Kendrick was being petty.

He was, but everyone in unison in that whole Super Bowl, and even at home sang, A minor. So if you didn't know the words, you knew those two words. See, I thought he wasn't gonna sing it, because in the beginning he said something like, you know, people like the Sioux. Right.

I would sing it, but people like the Sioux with American culture. I know he had to sing that though. That's American culture again. He was gonna sing that song. Do y'all feel like it was intentionally like to basically let Drake, like with Drake, do y'all feel like after this Super Bowl performance,

his music career went down the drain? Absolutely not. This is what we need to see for the culture. This is what we need to see for music and entertainment. And what better way to really capture this on live TV and where now we're talking about it the next day. You don't think it was like a big embarrassment for Drake? Absolutely not. This is a farm of art.

Now, I can't wait to hear what Drake is gonna come back with. Drake has so many levels too, being an actor, being, you know, he can sing, he can touch the ladies, he can be champagne poppy, but he can get in his bag too. And I can't wait to see, because the whole point is he's been on the top. Drake has been the number one, you know, really the, not the enemy. I don't want to say the enemy, but the goal.

Hence why he's bringing on people as features and elevating them and giving them a different vibe. We're playing Drake on yachts. We're playing Drake in clubs in Europe, in Greece, things like that, you know? So I see it happening. It's, in Greece, things like that. So I see it happening. It's Drake. He's amazing. It's Drake.

But how do you feel when everyone, all the top dogs, basically are against you now? I don't think it's an against thing. I just think it's really like, it's still competition at the end of the day. And they always going to come after the top. And right now it's Kendrick. So that means everyone has to get their pens together, their thoughts together, their words, and their animation together.

So that way they can come to the top spot. That's what Rap Game Man is about. Especially with the men, they like to go back and forth and have that banter and me versus you. Whereas the ladies, for example, they can to go back and forth and have that banter and me versus you. Whereas the ladies, for example, they can go on tour and sell out and like come together and battle and do their thing, but like have a nurturing spirit.

So like, I just see it more as a sport right now. I feel like Drake could have, it could have reversed a little bit. I know Bootsy came out and said, nobody stood up for Drake, whatever. But I feel like that's false because DJ Khaled came out and said, hey, I got two songs that's coming out with Drake

or whatever, and Drake came back and responded. He came back and responded and was like, you must be talking about Drake Bill. Like that's a slap in the face, because DJ, everybody know DJ Khaled is that boy. And for you to go back and reply and make a statement like that, like, damn, like, he basically there for you. He's telling people, even though he's friends with you.

Drake came back and said. He came back and come in and he was like, you must be talking about Drake Bell. I'm sure they have songs to you. I don't know. All I know is I thought the Super Bowl performance was black as fuck. And I loved that.

Black excellence. Like, even if you didn't get, like, the deeper subliminal messages that he was obviously displaying, I just felt like it was amazing to see, you know, the all the black dancers, they were all black. Yes. They were all, um, how they did the flag, the red, white, and blue.

Yes. Like soldiers, right? Yeah, like, they're very patriotic. All of it was just very much just, the red, white, and blue. Yes. Like soldiers, right? Yeah, like they're very patriotic. All of it was just very much just, I don't know, it was raw. It was black. Intentional. I love that. Yeah.

Yes. So I love that about it. It was a great, it was a good Super Bowl. It was just different from, like, I probably would have preferred LaWayne to be honest. Just because it was in New Orleans. New Orleans, and I feel like Lil Wayne is more entertaining. People probably are more, I don't know. His music is more relatable. So you think he should be next?

No, I think somebody else should be next. Who do you think should be next? Chris Brown. Oh, it's definitely Chris Brown. Chris Brown. It's definitely Chris Brown. Yeah, Chris Brown. Chris Brown is like top tier up there with Michael Jackson.

I agree. He can perform his ass off. He's an entertainer. He's a performer. He can sing. And I just feel like, you know, he deserves a chance. I agree. He should be next.

Yeah. That would be my pick too, because it's just everything he can do. Flip. He's boinging. Dance. He got the energy. Like the crowd gonna stay going from start to end. And he's a generational talent. Right. We all appreciate him.

He's been going for decades, for sure. And he won some Grammys. So that's a big thing. Yeah, so it's his time. It's definitely he should be next. So we're gonna put that out there for the universe, as well as the committee. We want to see Chris Brown. Right, ladies? is definitely he should be next. So we're going to put that out there for the universe, as well as the committee.

We want to see Chris Brown, right, ladies? Chris Brown. All right, Stevie. We want to see it. It's going to be hard, but they need to bring Chris Brown. Who pick? Is it? There's a committee.

I believe it's Jay-Z. I think it's part of that. Yeah, it's like a committee. And I feel like they haven't missed yet. I really do. Like, I appreciated Kendrick. It was great timing, just off of everything. Well, when they go to Atlanta, I'ma need G-Z.

I'ma need, I'ma need some real Atlanta artists in there. OK, y'all can do it. Who else would y'all do? Like, Future, would y'all do like, no. Big Boy, take it back. Should we take it back? Big Boy did it the last, like, I don't know if it was in Atlanta. It was Big Boy and Andre 3000.

Andre, I thought Andre. I think Big Boy did it. I don't know if Andre was on there. I can't recall, but. Cause it was with Maroon 5, remember that year? Okay, so anyways, next time it's in Atlanta. It's at Atlanta a couple years from now. I think it's in two years from now. 2028 is going to be there.

And so we really need some real Atlanta artists to be in the building. Okay, so we're going to put that to the committee now. There's way too many great Atlanta artists for them not to bring somebody from Atlanta. Would you mix new and old? Yeah, sure. I love, I love, but we got to have the older. You got to have the main Atlanta artists. for them not to bring somebody from it. Would you mix new and old? Yeah, sure. Yeah. I love, I love, but we gotta have the old. You gotta have the main and artist.

I agree. To bring out all the rest of them. I agree. Who would be that main one? Hmm. I would like for GZ to be the main one. GZ needs to redo the symphony. Ooh.

Bring out the whole, that's the vibe. I think it should be outcast or a GZ. Yeah, I like that. I like that. I wouldn't mind GZ being the main. I think that would be dope. Because he brings a different vibe to the city. Hmm. Yeah, I think that would be a good look.

But he have a mixture of the old street hood music and then the commercialized music. So it'll be a good blend. I love that. OK, well, we didn't skip from next year. We didn't plan the whole action. We didn't plan the whole Atlanta. I'm not mad at this.

Yes, yes. They need to put us on the committee. Yes. We'll get it done. That's what we do. So while we were at Nightcap, there was a big announcement. Any of you ladies want to let the announcement out? Well, it's already out.

But shout out to Shannon Sharp and his brother both. This is the first time ever breaking history. Both brothers are in the Hall of Fame now. Wow. So this is the first time that their brothers inducted into the Hall of Fame. Yes. Really? Yes. History was Fame. Yes. Really?

Yes. History was made. Wow. Congratulations to the Sharp brothers and the Sharp family. And it was nice to be there to witness it and hear his words from both of them. Yeah. It was emotional. It was. It was emotional to hear how Shannon felt about having his brother there, basically saying if it wasn't for his brother, he probably wouldn't be where he is.

And he speak highly about him. Like every time you hear him talk about his brother, it's like, it's amazing. Like, dang, I wish I had like a sibling that I could speak highly like that about. But that was a blessing. So shout out to the Sharp brothers, both are. Yes, congratulations.

Family, everything, yeah. Absolutely, congratulations. Who y'all think next? Ah. Philip, everything, yeah. To you both. Absolutely, congratulations. Who do y'all think next? Ah. Brother. Brother. Brother Wheeler. Hey!

I know that's right. Speaking of his sister. I am, mm-hmm. Who next? I think next it probably would be the Manning brothers. Yeah. Okay, so they bring in Eli next. I don't know, I'm just assuming.

I wonder if the dad is too, is Archie in the Hall of Fame? So the fact that it'd be a father son and another son. The father son probably would be Dion and his son. Yeah, huh? Shador? Shador. Shador. OK, well, we shall see.

To be continued. So Bourbon Street was popping. They did close off the streets so the fans can roam the streets and really take in that essence of the French culture, the Mardi Gras beads, the slushies on the streets. Oh, yeah, we got to get time on the slushies. I mean, just to go around and see. You know what? I want to say this.

Shout out to the city of New Orleans. You guys did a great job of hosting this year and accommodating everybody and making everything centrally located, right? When you got police officers, the Air Force, there was security, there was police on like every corner, every block. I felt so safe. Very safe.

And they were very helpful too. A few times we were lost and we would ask like the National Guard and they would be like, come on, you know, we'll show you where to go. They walked us down to a certain restaurant. So shout out to the National Guard for holding it down. And just that Southern hospitality from these handsome brothers that were out there and just really... You seen some, you like... You know, I did and didn't, you know what I'm saying? But just overall, everybody was just very warm.

We were walking to a store and the ladies are turning up, having a good time. They had us dancing in their vibe, giving us different slush tastes of the slushies. Yes. It was a good little vibe. Very accommodating to us. It made me feel like I was back at home.

Because I'm like, this is how the Southern hospitality is. This is how it is back at home. Everybody's speaking to everybody. There ain't nobody looking at you saying. Yep. It's like family. Yes. I just feel like they, New Orleans, did a great job.

And the weather was very fair to us. It was warmer than we thought. Yep. You wake up and you see this fog that just kinda is part of New Orleans and these weeping willow trees hanging over. And just the architecture was insane. The jazz culture, just the vibrancy, you know?

It was fun. It was good. It was a good city, a good Super Bowl, for sure. It was, it was. So shout out again to the mayor, as well as the state. Thank you for accommodating all of us. Thank you. Yes.

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Yeah, but it's funny because I'm sure she just brushed that on off. I mean, it's Taylor Swift. Like, have she ever been booed? That probably was her first time ever being booed. No. I mean, Philly was known for like to be a little ha ha ha. Why were they booed? Because they big haters.

Because it was predominantly eagle fans in the fan. So she just getting that... Well, that treatment, you getting the rowdiest known in the city. So the eagle's like, ah ah. You getting the rowdiest known... She's there for Kansas City, so the Eagles like, ah, ah. You getting the rowdiest fans. The Eagles are known to be rowdy in your face and very boisterous. OK, OK.

And then you have Kansas City is known to be the loudest stadium and the loudest fans in the NFL. I didn't know that. So the mixture of both of them is a combination that the NFL just like appreciates. Like, it was insane. I heard that he was supposed to propose to her too. I mean, we don't know. is a combination that the NFL just appreciates. It was insane. I heard that he was supposed to propose to her too.

I mean, we don't know. Yeah, that's what they were saying. They could have married for a week. I guess the fans maybe wanted him to propose. I don't think that's happening. Wishbone thinking, I don't know. I don't think that's happening. I wouldn't do it there.

That's for sure. And then they said he got his hair implants done. I saw a meme that he should have been saying he should have been rehearsing and practicing instead of getting his hair line fixed. But now he has a whole full head of hair. Did y'all see that? I did see that.

Yeah, he need to do a little panting commercial or something now. Just big haters, just because Taylor has definitely brought up influx of fans. I saw many little girls in a Kelsey jersey with their little skirts and all their beads. And so I... So they found out how they're doing too,

because they tell her in commercials and stuff, you know, they're trying to put her on camera. I forgot the statistics, but last year when she started coming to the games, it showed like a big... Influence. ...jumps in the jersey purchase. In the beauty group?

Yeah. Yeah. So, okay. Yeah. Yeah. So, OK. Shout out to Taylor. So also in attendance, Jay-Z was there with Blue Ivy and Rumi. So cute. So was they.

So cute. Yeah, Daddy did care. He does that. He's known to bring them to the show. And Blue Ivy is his twin. Oh, my goodness. He's getting so big. She's all young.

Oh, yeah. She's beautiful. She's so beautiful. Nice young lady. Beyonce was not see how beautiful. She's so beautiful. Nice young lady. Beyonce was not there. Because we know she's probably rehearsing for the Cowboy Carter tour.

We're going. We're gonna be there. Yeah, coming later. Coming later to be there. Listen, but we are next, where we going? We going in Paris, girl. Okay, well we, we, we. Yeah.

Enchanté. Monage à trois. Yeah, we gonna Yeah. Enchanté. Yeah. Monage de trois. Yeah. Monage. Well, we want to be Monage de trois. No. But it's a three. It's a us.

Let me rephrase that in Patty. Yeah. Patty. We, we. Let's go in. All right. We cannot wait for that. And so also, we had Dolce and Lady Gaga were seen

taking pictures in their suite for the Super Bowl. And Dochi just won a Grammy for best rap album. And she is literally the third female to win this award behind Lourdes Hill and Cardi B. So this is a big... Shout out to Lady Gaga. Yes. And she's a Tampa native? She's a Tampa native.

She gave a big shout out during her speech to Tampa. I said shout out to Lady Gaga. I meant, Dochi girl. We love Lady Gaga too. But this is Dochi's time. It is. Oh yeah, I love her. Dochi from Tampa.

She's from there. Yeah. She gave a big shout out to Tampa during her speech. Her speech was amazing. I loved her. It was so motivational. I had a fear during her speech. It was very touching. She seemed just very humble, very grateful.

Um, so she's our humble baddie of the week. Shout out to Dochi. Shout out to Dochi. You get that humble bad girl for a girl. Yes, I'm a fan. So we love Dochi. Maybe we could get a Lady Gaga and Dochi collab. Maybe for Super Bowl one year.

Uh-oh. Okay. You don't want it out there? We're speaking into existence for you, Do year. Uh oh. Oh, okay. You don't want it out there? I'm speaking into existence. Speaking into existence for you, don't you? Yes, all the best. Wait, before we close it, did y'all see the scrimmage?

Teyana Taylor was out there killing it. I was there. I was there. Oh, she was out there. She almost shook one of the bodies. And the body was bodying. She had turned her little jersey into a corset. Yeah, it was the celebrity football flag flag football game that took place Saturday night.

And it was so much fun. It was filled with so many influencers you had. I mean, I have a lot. You have Drew Spratt, Lila, we need to be in the net. Angela Grease. Because these kind of ladies right here can play. He had the Taylor shook it up. Jordan Childs.

Like it was a lot. Everybody was us here. It was a fun time. Shout out to Keeyaffa and Michael Vick. Michael Vick was one of the quarterbacks against Cam Newton for the black team. So listen, Mike, I was able to... If you want the next one, we're trying to place a little scrimmage. So were they playing tackle or was it... No, cuz I and he was yeah she was killing it she kept

coming over trying to like coach took me out she was playing defense she was playing offense she was ready she was a person that you want you gonna pick first the last one like girl come over come over here, because your ass athletic. She was out there tackling and it was not tackled. I love that. I love T. Shout out to T. I'm wearing her shoes, by the way. So shout out to Tiana.

But yeah, she's such a good player. We need to play the next one. Y'all avoiding that question. No, I'm down to play. Come on now. You already know I'm athletic. I play football every day. I got two plays in my house.

So we both hold a record. It's a whole bunch of athleticism. Athleticism over here. But we do got the WNBA All-Star that's coming up in summertime. Yeah, that comes into the competition. If y'all looking for somebody that don't, I can block. I can crossover. I can shake.

I can do whatever. I'm a two. I'm a one. Whatever you need. I'm a two, I'm a one, whatever you mean, I'm a three, I make it happen. So I mean, my scoring record was just broken back in my high school, so I'm just saying. Well, we need you to do it. I'm just saying, I can't do it, I can't do it.

My daughter is working on that, but. So if y'all need some people, y'all hit up the humblebatties. Yeah, we got you. Listen, I got videos of me crossing people up in heels and everything, I might have to play that again. You sure? Are you sure?

All right, all right. All right, you guys. You know what time it is? Oh, what time is it? It's time for Rell's Red Flag. Oh, no. We need to get you some green flags. Well, we're going to determine if it's a red flag or a green flag. Oh my God. Send me your red flag. We need to get you some green flags. Well, we're going to determine if it's

a red flag or a green flag. OK. I'm going to give you guys some scenarios. And y'all tell me. Perfect. Red flag or green flag or a whole ass. OK, the first one. He never plans a date, but always

wants to chill at your place. It's already getting in here. Is that it? I's already giving me... Is that it? I'm trying to listen. Is that it? Yeah. Oh shit, red flag. Okay. I mean, unless he's watching Wax and Riches on Netflix, then maybe we got something else

to talk about. So he go out. No, red flag. We gotta be outside. Red flag. Black man, I'm just at your place first of all. He don't got no house? Uh oh.

He's giving away his mama and the basic. Exactly. That's what it sound like. It's giving. He don't got no house? Uh-oh. He's giving his mama and the baby. Exactly. That's what it sound like. It's giving. You don't got no house. No, thank you. And it takes prep, you know, to be at your own space, clean up, get ready for that, get the mood right.

Yeah, no. Yeah, that's, yeah, no. He trying to come over to eat, sleep, and shit. Red flag. Red flag. No, that's a haul ass. The next one. You've been dating for months, but he hasn't introduced you to any of his friends or family.

Yellow flag. That's my adoption. You can make it because I made haul ass. Yeah. Yellow flag. I mean, I feel like it depends because some people, if he lets you know like his intentions in the beginning, maybe he's, he told you he's moving slow, he not looking for nothing serious.

Everybody don't need to meet your family. Everybody don't need to meet their kids. That's true. Exactly. Exactly. I agree with that. I don't think that's a bad thing, but it just depends, make sure what y'all want is aligned.

In the beginning, if he told you like, you know, this is how I'm moving, then I'm gonna play green flag. But if it's like you haven't disclosed anything, then what you got over there? What you got going on over there? I definitely would say red flag instead of hall ass. And I like your yellow, so maybe we're gonna implement that.

But I would say red flag just because I wouldn't want my children to meet someone, for example. So like, I would include that as family. So it takes time to really understand about trust and also about just really who you're letting in your space. So I wouldn't be a haul ass yet. I feel like it does take a lot more investment in the relationship before you introduce in the family. That definitely, that's true. Yeah, that's true. He's great in person. Okay. But he's dry and he's a distant, and he's very distant over text. I don't see a problem with that. I mean, I feel like if he's good in person, that's good enough.

I mean, a text to me, because some people are the opposite. They're better in text, but in person they dry. That sucks. I would say green flag too, because I like in person person. Exactly. Same here. I prefer in person. I I like in-person person. Exactly. I prefer in-person. I feel like we're old school. We like the chase. We like intention.

We like time being spent. And yeah, so yeah, I rather that over tech. I like to check in in tech, you know, if it's quick because we can't always just be on the phone or always in person. But I don't want that to be the form of communication. True. Yeah. OK.

Your friend always disappears when you're going through tough times, but expects you to be there for her. Mm. Mm. Been there. I feel like I'm that friend that is always pouring into everybody.

But then when it's time for me to be poured into, it's like a ghost town. Really? I do. Yeah, just because I think I try to handle things on my own, too. You know, so I think it's partly on me, you know what I mean? Yeah. But I've definitely poured into a lot of people,

you know what I mean? So... I feel like I pour into friends, but not enough because I'm so busy. So I wouldn't call it a red flag because I know like I have so much going on. But if my friend like really, really, really, really, and they like, Sherelle, I need you. But they hate asking me for my help work because they know how busy I am. But I wouldn't consider it a red flag. But I know those are things that I had to sit back and look at because I do have friends that express like, hey, Sherelle, I really need you. And it has caused some friendships and we were on the thin line of, I was on the thin line of losing friendships.

So it's just, I had to pull back and be like, you know, you gotta take time out, put your busyness away and take time out for your friends. So I've been a victim of, you know, not being there when my friends were going through things, but it wasn't intentional. Understand. I think with friendships,

everybody is gonna feel that at some point. Like everybody's gonna feel like somebody could have been there for you more, or you could have been there for somebody more. You know, because life be life-in, and we all be going through stuff. And I have just learned to just, you gotta meet people where they're at. And, you know, I don't hold it against people anymore. I feel like when you expect a lot or expect something from somebody,

you just set yourself up for disappointment. So I take what I can from my friends and I might can get something from you that I can't get from you and I might can get something from you that I can't get from you. So I just try to fill my cup with everybody that God puts in my life, you know what I mean? And get what I can from who I need.

And a lot of times, if I still feel like I'm lacking, then I feel like I should just like pray about it, go to the Lord, because I'm probably looking in the wrong spots anyway for things that I need. So I wouldn't say like it's a red flag. Like, you know, everybody feels that way. And I think that that's normal and that's human. And I think that's my biggest thing

because I ran into situations like after things have happened and we talked about things, I need to learn how to be more soft. My biggest thing is my friends are, I wouldn't say afraid, but they don't like to come to me because I show too much tough love and I'm trying to work on like just softening myself

and just being more soft and come off more. I'm working on it, Lex. You are though. Being around you ladies, it's hard. But I can see and I do hear my friends out and I hear when y'all say like, your deliverance is too strong so that's what I'm working on as a friend and my mom as a a

future wife We're all working part of where we're all that that's very humble baddie of you. Sherelle. Thank you. I'm not a mean girl No, but some real stuff. That is something that I'm truly working on as a person. I agree. All right, you guys. That is enough of Real Red Flags.

If you all have any Red Flag scenarios, questions, reach out to us on social media or visit our website. You can always reach out to us by going to www.humblebatties.com. Thank you, Rel, for your red flag scenarios. What y'all think? Those were good. Nice and juicy. They were. Now it's time for Humble Baddies Mail.

Ooh. What do we got? We have Michelle from Salt Lake City, Utah. Hey, Michelle. OK, Michelle. Hey, humble baddies. I love the podcast and plan to watch the Netflix show soon. I need some advice.

My fiance and I are disagreeing about finances. We're planning to buy a house, but I have no idea where his money goes. So I just suggested we share a bank account. He got really defensive. Do you think couples should share finances, have access to each other's accounts, or keep everything separate? Would love to hear your thoughts.

Ladies, what are your thoughts on this? Let's help Miss Michelle out. Hey, Michelle girl. Hey, Michelle boo. Did you say that this was her boyfriend, fiance? She said fiance. Hmm. Yeah.

I feel like for this to be your fiance, you guys should have kind of already been aligned in what your plans were as far as buying a house and your finances. So since you don't know, you need to get one that ASAP. Y'all both need to sit down and have a conversation and, you know, really make sure that you know what you guys have planned for your financials.

It's just a little scary that y'all are already like engaged and you don't know that. Because finances are a big part of a relationship and can really like, you know, make or break your situation. So I would say before y'all even get to talking about a house, y'all need to have a conversation about how you guys go about handling your financial situation. Like, are you guys going to share a bank account? Why is he so, you know, why did he get upset about even wanting to discuss it and, you know, sharing your accounts?

You know, what is that all about? So I think there are some things that y'all need to tackle before y'all even start talking about buying a house together. I feel like, and I agree with you, Ashley definitely discussed finances is a big topic and it can make or break a relationship. It's hard to answer that question in your scenario because is he given a problem where he can't put money down? That was not discussed.

So if he's not responsible with his money, then yes, that's when you should be questioning where his money goes. But if he's responsible for his money, at the end of the day, that's his money. Some people don't like sharing bank accounts. Some people just, okay, this is my responsibility. This is what I'm going to take care of. This is your responsibility. This is what you're going to take care of.

But if it comes to a point where he feels where you feel like where he's not meeting his end of the bargain or whatever, then yeah, then I would question it and go in, like what the hell is going on. But with my situation, when Chad and I was together, hell, I still got access to his accounts or whatever, because I still help. He's busy. I help him pay accounts, but- And it's a trusting too.

Right. Yes. But I think it's something, like Ashley said, you guys, this is something in the beginning of your relationship that y'all should discuss. I feel transparency is key. I mean, the number one reason for divorce is finances still to this day and it has been for years. And you're bringing in two different incomes, you're merging two lives. You have to agree or disagree, but you have to agree on some sort of transparency, whatever

that could be, and come to a conclusion of this is what we need to do. Maybe it's a joint account and you still have separate accounts, but maybe for a household account or just something like that. I just feel like you have to be honest and open about both of you guys' situations because when it is time to Buy a home y'all know this it is the biggest purchase of your life the most expensive right biggest purchase So it's like this is like that's a commitment. Sometimes it's a 30-year commitment You never know what can happen when you never know so it definitely needs to be transparency on all those lines

Yeah, how do y'all feel about buying a house with somebody that's not your spouse? Mm. I never did it. But would you? Wow. If I see, well, it's hard for me because I'm going to take advantage of that VA loan every time.

Yeah. So for me, I would have to be married to that person unless it's investment properties that we're going after. I'm big on business deals. I'm talking about purchasing your home with somebody that's not your spouse. That's kind of hard. That's tough. That's a big purchase.

Yeah, but if you're... Yeah, that's a huge purchase. I would say if you're... yeah, that's a huge purchase. I would say if you're like, say it's a second spot, like if I have my primary, I will be willing to do a secondary, not a primary. But if I did that, we would have to get a lot of stuff in writing before. Yeah, exactly. It has to be a contractual agreement. For sure. Because they can up and leave anytime.

And if you don't have nothing in place, it's like, you know, you're reliable just as much as they are. Yeah, I agree with that. Just as much as they are. So that's a great question. And I just want to hear your ladies' thoughts. Thanks, Michelle, for your question. Thank you, Michelle.

From Salt Lake City. And you said you were going to tune in to Wax to Riches. Don't wait. And then now get your hot coffee, girl, because I know it's cold up in here. Get you some hot cocoa and curl up by the fireplace and tune in to Wags to Riches. Absolutely. Yes. Yes.

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