To Catch A Cheater - Amara & Ethan - The Surprise She Didn't See Coming
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02:32The judges were like, you're trash.I don't know how you got on the show.Check out Not My Best Moment with me kept on stage on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcast.It's time to catch a cheater.Only on the Jeeble show.Amira is on the phone today for To Catch a Cheater, and she thinks that her boyfriend of two years, Ethan, might be messing around.So we'll see if we can help her out.Amira, sorry, you have to come on the show.
02:57way, but what's up? Why do you think Ethan might be cheating on you?Hey, um, so I wanted to call you guys because, um, I mean, just, it just kind of gets like a lotof like the guesswork out. Um, so like some backstory. I, uh, I teach English lit and I'm, I don'tknow. I just, I'm just really like perceptive and I believe in a lot of like patterns and, youknow, I'm, I'm really intuitive and I just want to make sure that my judgment isn't clouded becausethis is my boyfriend you know what I mean um so we have been together for about two years but wehave been living together for six months um we have an apartment together so you know I meansleep in the same bad I see his phone everything um and I I don't really know kind of like what's
03:49going on because he um he's just like recently started kind of being a little bit obsessed with hisphone um usually late at night like we'll read something together or we'll read individually in theand then like tell each other about the chapter that we read or something but like we're normallynever on our phones and he has been on his phone constantly and he doesn't normally um lock his phoneuh but he has recently and i've known this just because like he was in the shower and and i waslike checking the time and i just like tapped his phone and i realized that it was now locked andAnd this wasn't a passcode lock.This was face ID.
04:27Like, because we both, like, he works in tech and stuff.So we're both, like, nine to five.We're both out of the house.And at dinner, it's, you know, we always just kind of pay attention to each other and connectduring dinner.And once again, he's on the phone and he's texting and he's doing that, like, you know,who you're smiling at thing.Like, he's, like, smiling at his text messages.
04:49And I keep going like, hey, like, who are you talking to?And then he just goes like, oh, like, it's just like work.and then, like, what's his phone down?And because of this, I've just kind of been, you know,gawking out his phone a little bit and getting a little suspiciousand, I don't know, just getting in my head.And I caught, I glanced over and I saw a preview of a message.And I'm pretty sure it said something along the lines of let me know when she's gone.
05:20Whoa.Did you see who sent it?No, I did not.is he is he texting at night when you guys are in bed or is he like playing on his phone or it seems like he's constantly texting it's it's it's not that he's playing or anything it's like he'll like look at his phone and like respond to something and kind of have it angled away from me and then put it face down on the on the nightstand okay face down with a phone is kind of a red flag an angle yeah yeah you're right have you asked him anything about it um no i haven't because i i i don'tdon't know i just don't i don't know i don't want to read into his facial expressions or get intomy head or you know god forbid he's cheating on me and then he's lying and i or or if he's notcheating on me and then i think he is because i'm just i don't know i yeah i don't know it's kind ofa sneaky way of doing it but it removes all the guesswork okay well it's a service yeah we'll see
06:17if we can figure it out for you we'll play a song come back and you already told us what grocerystore he's a rewards card member at so we'll call him and pretend to be from thethe grocery store and say that every single month we choose one lucky rewards member who getsa free gift from us and is flowers delivered from our floral department and we'll see if hesends those to you or to somebody else okay okay thank you all right we'll get you to catch ateeter next on the podcast health stuff we are tackling all the health questions that keep you upat night yes i'm dr prionkawali a double board certified physician and i'm hurricundiboucomedian and someone who once googled do i have scurvy
06:54at 3 a.m.On health stuff, we're talking about health in a different way.It's not only about what we can do to improve our health,but also what our health says about us and the way we're living.Like our episode where we look at diabetes.In the United States, I mean, 50% of Americans are pre-diabetic.How preventable is type 2?Extremely.
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07:42I'm Robert Smith.This is Jacob Goldstein.And we used to host a show called Planet Money.And now we're back making this new podcast called Business History about the best ideas and people and businesses inhistory. And some of the worst people. Horrible ideas and destructive companies in the history ofbusiness. Having a genius idea without a need for it is nothing. It's like not having it at all.It's a very simple, elegant lesson. Make something people want.First episode, how Southwest Airlines use cheap seats and free whiskey to fight its way into the airline
08:17business. The most Texas story ever. There's a lot of mavericks in that story. We're going to havemavericks on the show. We're going to have plenty of robber barons.so many robber barons. And you know what? They're not all bad. And we'll talk about some of theclassic great moments of famous business geniuses, along with some of the darker moments thatoften get overlooked. Like Thomas Edison and the electric chair. Listen to business history onthe Iheart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. What do you get whenyou mix 1950s Hollywood, a Cuban musician with a dream, and one of the most iconic sitcoms of alltime? You get Desi Arness, a trope.
08:54Blazer, a businessman, a husband, and maybe most importantly, the first Latino to break prime timewide open. I'm Wilmer Valderrama, and yes, I grew up watching him, probably just like you andmillions of others. But for me, I saw myself in his story. From plenty canary cages to this nighthere in New York, it's a long ways. On the podcast starring Desi Arnaz and Wilmer Valderama,I'll take you in a journey to Desi's life. The moments it has overlapped with mine, how heredefined American television, and what that meant for all of us,watching from the sidelines waiting for a face like hours on screen.This is the story of how one man's spotlight lit the path for so many others and how we carry
09:34his legacy today. Listen to starring Desi Arnaz and Wilmer Valderrama as part of the MyCulturaPodcast Network available on the IHard Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast.If you're just joining us for today's To Catch a Cheater, Amira is on the phone and shethinks that her boyfriend of two years named Ethan might be messing around. So we're aboutto call him and pretend to be from the grocery store that he's a rewards card member atand say that every single month, one of our rewards members wins a free gift from us, flowersdelivered from our floral apartment. And we'll see if he believes that. And if he does,we'll see who he sends them to. If he sends him to his girlfriend, Amira or to somebody else,
10:09and then we might know if he's cheating or not. And Amira, before we call him, why don't you breakdown your situation again real quick for us? Sure. We have been together for about two years.We've been living together for like six months. He's normally never on his phone. He has been onhis phone lately and then I saw athe fact that he now has a lockon his phone face IDand I caught a previewof a message that was not super great
10:33to read. Okay and what the messagesay again? It said let me know when she's gone.Yeah that's shady. I'm so sorryyou must feel crazy right now. I do. I feel very insane.All right. Are you ready for us to call him?All right, let's do it. Okay.Hello?Hi, this is Corbel calling from B.
11:01I was looking for our rewards card member named Ethan.Yeah, this is him.Hi, Ethan.Please don't hang up.This is not a marketing phone call.I'm actually calling to say congratulations.You're this month's big winner.Thank you so much for shopping with us.
11:15Yay, we're clapping for you here in the offices and everything.Okay.That's great.What happens?Oh, well maybe you don't knowEvery single month we choose one lucky rewards memberWho gets a free gift from usAnd this month is 36 long Sim Red Roses
11:30A box of candy or chocolateAnd a card to be delivered to anybody that you wantAbsolutely freeIt's a $316 valueOh, okay, that's niceOkay, so the first thing I would need from youWould just be the first and the last nameOf the person that you want to send them to
11:44And then if you want to put anything on a cardAnd after that we'll get the address and that's itOkay, coolThe first name isSavannah?Savannah. Okay. Did you want to include a card to Savannah?Yes. And you can have it say, you've been my sanity. Let's keep this between us for now.Thank you very much, Ethan. And the last thing will be to let you know that this is actually a radio show.
12:09It's called The Jubal Show. Yeah, hi. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name is Jubal. How are you?Okay. I'm good. And we do a segment on the show that's called to Catch a Cheater, whereif you think your significant other might be messing around,you see who they send flowers to.And your girlfriend of two years, Amira, is on the phone.Wait, what?Ethan, what the fuck?You're sending flowers with my sister?
12:35What?Are you cheating on you with my sister?No, Mira.This is the call you think of cheating on you?I love what the reaction is laughing.Yeah.Okay, well, listen, what the hell is,let's keep this between us supposed to mean?
12:51and then also the other night on your phone,I saw that message where it was like,oh, let me know when she's gone.Was that from Savannah?No, yes.Okay, wait, let me explain.Let me explain what's going on, okay?And what the fuck, Ethan?
13:05Why are you sending flowers to my sisterand you're not sending them to me?I will tell you, let me explain.I'll explain.Okay, first of all, I'm not cheating on you.All the people in the world, I would shoot on you.I would not see on you with your sister.I wouldn't see on you with anything with anybody.
13:19Better.She's been helping me plan your birthday weekendAnd you had aWe both had you had a really rough semester at schoolAnd I wanted to take you awaySomewhere without you knowing all the detailsAnd that message when she was likeLet me know when she's gone
13:35It was about you leaving the apartmentSo we could sneak in decorationsFor the announcementFor the thing that I've been planning for youIs your birthday coming up, Amira?I meanKind ofIt's in two months
13:52So it's not something that wouldNeed to be taken care of like right nowI don't knowThis kind of sounds like bullshitIt's a big surpriseThat's the whole thingI mean listenYou know if I tell you anything about a surprise
14:05You're immediately going to guess itWe've done this a million timesAnd I want to keep this really quietSo then it's been helping me plan it for weeksAnd the flowers were just to thank youFor going above and beyondBecause I haven't even gotten anything yetI was going to get her a gift
14:15To be like thank you for all the helpwith the planning and everything.And this was just like, oh, it's free.Let me just do that.I don't know.Like, I just feel like you should have told me something.If I do, you're going to guess what it is.I mean, I mean, look at this.
14:29You've just been asking, like, super weird, and you know me.I'm just reading into everything, and you've been really, really weird.And, of course, I'm just going to think the worst.And then the next name I hear is, like, my sister's name.Well, you know me.I would never cheat on you with anybody, let alone your sister.And I'm not smooth enough to pull off a lie.And what it is, it's a weekend getaway.
14:50That's what I've been planning.It's a big deal.Do you have to text about that every night a weekend getaway?How long does it take to plan?Guys, it's a very, it's an all-inclusive thing.It's a big deal.It's a plane trip and then a boat trip.It was going to be like a whole big thing.
15:04So there's a lot of planning to do.Yes, it is a big deal.Okay.And you need my sister's help to plan that.If it's all-inclusive, then why do you need my sister's help?you know well first off i she goes on these trips all the time and you know that she goes onthese trips all the time she goes on these planes with hotels and stuff and yeah it is all inclusivebut there's a lot of like things to get to where it's like i gotta book the plane i got to book
15:30the boat trip and then you get to the thing and then there's the things you can do outside ofthe place and she's been in this place before so she was telling you all about it and i was likei don't take trips i don't know anything about this stuff so she was going to help me to get withthe entire thing and she's not coming nono but she was helping me plan the entire you can call her you can call her and ask her now that the surprise is ruined we need receipts yeah can i can i see that confirmationyeah i'm um i would like to see i mean you don't have to show me like the place that you've booked or anything but i would like somesome confirmation receipts and and date you know so that because this just doesn't i don't know Ethan this is this is weirdI think I just call
16:13Call Savannah and I'll send you an emailright now with all theall the playing that I've been doing and everythingIt's no problemBut like what if SavantLike what if y'all made up a storyAnd like she is like on the same storyOkay
16:25Well thank you for thatBecause now that's what I'm going to be paranoid thinking aboutI hope your sister's notI meanThat's your sisterI hope notBut her seatsThe Jubel shows
16:36To catch a cheaterOn the podcast health stuffWe are tackling all thehealth questions that keep you up at night.I'm Dr. Priyankawali, a double board certified physician.And I'm Hurricane Dibolu, a comedian and someone who once Googled,do I have scurvy at 3 a.m.And on our show, we're talking about health in a different way,
16:54like our episode where we look at diabetes.In the United States, I mean, 50% of Americans are pre-diabetic.How preventable is type 2?Extremely.Listen to health stuff on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,or wherever you get your podcast.I'm Robert Smith, and this is Jacob Goldstein, and we used to host a show called Planet Money.And now we're back making this new podcast called Business History about the best ideas and people and businesses in history.
17:25And some of the worst people, horrible ideas and destructive companies in the history of business.First episode, how Southwest Airlines use cheap seats and free whiskey to fight its way into the airlines.The most Texas story ever.Listen to business history on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever.you get your podcasts.What do you get when you mix 1950s Hollywood,a Cuban musician with a dream,and one of the most iconic sitcoms of all time?
17:51You get Desi Arness.On the podcast starring Desi Arnaz and Wilmer Valderrama,I'll take you in a journey to Desi's life,how he redefined American televisionand what that meant for all of us watching from the sidelines,waiting for a face like hours on screen.Listen to starring Desi Arnaz and Wilmer Valderramaon the IHard Radio app,
18:11Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcast.Hey there, Dr. Jesse Mills here.I'm the director of the men's clinic at UCLA,and I want to tell you about my new podcast called The Mail Room.And I'm Jordan, the show's producer.And like most guys, I haven't been to the doctor in way too long.I'll be asking the questions we probably should be asking, but aren't.Every week, we're breaking down the world of men's health
18:31from testosterone and fitness to diets and fertility.We'll talk science without the jargon and get your real answers to the stuff you actually wonder about.So check out the mailroom on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your favorite shows.On an all-new episode of IHeartRadios Las Culturistas, Emmy, Golden Globe and Tony Award winner, Sarah Paulson, spills on red carpet hacks.We saw these pictures and you're like, what is the story with this?She gets real about the inspiration behind her roles.Oh, no, there is no end to how people will behave.And she puts host Matt Rogers and Bowen-Yag on notice.
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