First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - To Catch A Cheater - Is Joel Cheating on His Girlfriend of 2 Years, Isabelle?

Episode Date: May 13, 2025

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boyfriend, Joel for two years, but now she thinks he might be cheating. So we'll see if we can catch him if he is in just a second, but first, Isabelle, sorry, you have to come on the show this way. What's going on? Why do you think Joel might be cheating? Uh, I mean, okay, Joel and I, we are both very much like the same. We're fun, we're adventurous, we, you know, our relationship has been really a good time. Like, we are up for anything. We met at a concert and not to say too much, but it started off pretty much on a high, on a climate high. Whoa, got it.

You know, Joel is just like, he's, he's just great. He's up for all the wild things that I'm up for. Like we are literally like this twin flame basically. And we've talked about, you know, possibly having another person just join us for a little fun time nothing crazy nothing serious no like polyamory or anything like that you can find okay and I just feel like unfortunately maybe he has already started that I don't know I don't I don't want to like jump to conclusions, but like, I don't know. I think that Joel, I saw something I wasn't really snooping, but I kind of was. I just want to make sure he hasn't started looking because we kind of talked about it, but haven't really started anything.

So what did you find when you were snooping? started anything. So what did you find when you were snooping? Um, OK, he had a computer open and I couldn't resist. I was just like passing his office. You know, we have like a little office space for him in our place.

And I was just like passing and I saw the computer was open and I was like, oh, and I it was, you know, I didn't have to put a password and you're like, he just left the room, which yeah, so it was just there., I didn't have to put a password or anything like he had just left the room, um, which, uh, yeah. So it was just there.

And I saw a chat with a friend of ours. His name is Sydney. She's just like a kind of more an acquaintance. We don't really know her that well. Like she's not like a really close friend. I'm telling that. And she's actually someone that we had talked about, um, joining us. So I was like, wait a second.

Has he liked her? You know, it was, I think it wasn't that flirty. It was just like a little flirty, like nothing major, nothing. And there was no like, Oh yeah, we're going to meet at this time. I didn't really catch him doing anything, but there's definitely like something, some conversation happening. We've never hung out with her that much. Like we just see her like at our friend's barbecues and you know, different places like that. So it's not, you know, it's not someone like straight off the street, but it's not the one that we really know that well either.

Okay. Did you guys talk about the rules of this or beforehand? So do you feel like he just went ahead and started doing this all on his own? You know, we just started talking about this. I feel like rules were not really established. I'm not really a rules person either, to be quite honest. But rules weren't really established. I think that we had, but we had jobs like let's figure this out. And we had just kind of left it back there. Like nothing, you know, nothing was really like, okay, we're going to do this. There wasn't really a huge plan. But if you find out that he started without you, you're going to be upset. I mean, I am because it's just like that wasn't, we, we had just started talking about it and

now I feel like he's taking initiative, which feels like he's doing it without me, you know? Right. You feel like you're left behind in that. Yeah. Yeah. Have you asked him about it? Is he acting weird towards you in any way? No, he's not. He's acting super normal. Everything's like nothing strange or off and like he's not, you know, I'm not like,

you know, where's Joel? Like, he's not like gone or, you know, coming home super late or like texting in like the closet or something like he's like being super normal. So nothing weird. So I'm just like confused. Like maybe he's just like a really good. I don't know. OK, well, we'll try to figure it out for you.

We'll play a song, come back and then do the usual. You already told us what grocery store he's a rewards card member at. So we'll call him and pretend to be from the grocery Store and say that every single month We give one rewards member a free gift for being such a great customer and it's flowers delivered from our floral department And we'll see if he sends those to you or to somebody else, okay? Get you to catch a cheater next I found out I was related to the guy that I was dating. I don't feel emotions correctly. I am talking to a felon right now and I cannot decide if I like him or not.

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app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Right in the middle of To Catch a Cheater, and if you're just joining us, Isabel is on the phone and she thinks that her boyfriend of two years named Joel might be messing around, so we're about to call him and pretend to be from the grocery store that he's a rewards member at and say that every single month we choose one lucky rewards member who gets free flowers delivered from our floral department and we'll see if he sends those to Isabel, his girlfriend, or to somebody else. But first, before we call him, Isabel, why don't you break down what's going on again

one more time? Basically, Joel and I are pretty centrist and we've discussed about bringing someone into this person playtime and we had mentioned this friend, Cindy, and then I saw that he had been texting with her on his computer and Joel is like not ever pushed me by the way to be like oh yeah let's do this let's have it he's never like this is more like my idea really so now I'm just like wondering what's going on. Okay so you think maybe he could be messing around with her behind your back instead of. I don't know, maybe they have already once, but by their messaging it sounded like,

you know, it's just starting. Okay, you ready for us to call him? Yeah, I'm ready. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, this is Corbett calling from ****. I was looking for a rewards card member named Joel ****. Hi. Hi, Joel.

Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call. I'm actually calling with a big congratulations and thank you for your business. You're this month's winner. Here's what happened. Congrats Joel. Joel What did I win? What's happening? Howard Oh maybe you didn't know every single month we choose one rewards member who gets a free gift from the store just for being such a

loyal customer and this month it's free flowers delivered from our floor department. You've actually won 36 long stem red roses, a box of candy or chocolate and a card to be delivered to anybody that you want within the 50 United States Absolutely free. It's a $316 value Cool. All right. Okay, so I just need the first and last name of the person that you want to send them to and then we'll get Whatever you want to put on a card and then after that the address and we'll be good to go Absolutely. So it's gonna be the Sydney Can you say? here's the Saturday.

Here's the Saturday. Here's the Saturday. Okay, that's fun. Hope Saturday's Saturday sounds like it's gonna be fun. Sure is. Well, great. And also right now I'll let you know that this is not a grocery store. It's actually a radio show called the Jubal show I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jubal It's a radio show called the Jubal show and we do a segment called to catch a cheater where if you think your significant Other might be messing around you can see who they send flowers to and your girlfriend of two years.elle, is actually on the phone. Oh man, uh... What? This is like...

You guys think this is like a cheating thing? This is like a cheating thing? Yeah, and your girlfriend Isabelle is on the phone. Hey, princess. Joel... I knew it. I knew it. I can't believe it. Wow. Okay. What are you talking about?

Yeah. What, what's happening? You're eating your, you're meeting Sydney and you're sending her flowers. Your note. What? That's definitely not what's happening. Joel, I saw the messages. I saw you guys messaging each other and look, we talked about a third, but we didn't really solidify like what that looked like.

And we kind of talked about, you know, Sydney and talked about how we thought she was cute, but like, I didn't think that you were going to go do that behind my back and, and, and, and just initiate and, and get the ball rolling. This is supposed to be together. We should just do this together. And now it feels like you and her just getting together. We drink the same amount, but you must not eat enough. Cause we sent those messages together. Well, you did.

We knew we had a full conversation and then we were like, let's do this. And then we got on the computer together and then we got it. We wrote the message we wanted to send her. Oh, my gosh. OK, wait, hold on. But we did everything. We did a vibe check. We did everything. What? And you don't remember, Isabel? Um, but we did everything. We did a vibe check. We did like everything. And you don't remember Isabelle.

I vaguely remember. I mean, one is not my thing and this is why I don't drink. Um, okay. I remember seeing that your computer, but then I, I remember bits of it. I remember bits of it. Yeah. We made, we made we made plans, pretty elaborate plans that were all involved. You're the things that you wanted to do this Saturday.

Oh, my God. Well, I guess that's something to look forward to. It's like you made a very nice present for yourself in the future. When you do $5 in your jeans and you're like, Oh, okay. So, so you guys drank a bunch and then message this girl that you wanted to ask if she would hang out with you guys in that way. But you don't remember messaging her, Isabel. I just I I just don't remember exactly what we said.

But now that he's like, obviously, like this up, I'm, I'm, I'm remembering. So he's telling the truth. It's highly possible that you just did not remember. Yeah, it's very possible that I didn't remember. Oh gosh. Good. Isabel. It looks like Joel isn't cheating. No. And you get to experiment and be adventurous. You've got plans on Saturday Me next time Sydney

Yeah, we're gonna see what happens with Timmy, I guess. And we are gonna keep it to at least one drink on Saturday. No drink or no drink. No. No. The Jubal Show's to catch a cheater. I found out I was related to the guy that I was dating. I don't feel emotions correctly.

I collect my roommates' toenails and fingernails. Those were some callers from my call-in podcast, Therapy Gecko. It's a show where I take phone calls from anonymous strangers as a fake gecko therapist and try to learn a little bit about their lives. I know that's a weird concept, but I promise it's very interesting.

Check it out for yourself by searching for Therapy Gecko on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Yo Kpop fans, are you ready? It's your boy Bom Han and I'm bringing you the K-Factor, the podcast that takes you straight into the heart of Kpop. We're talking music, idols, exclusive interviews, and even the real behind the scenes Kpop stories. Plus, you're the fans, you're part of the show, and you can get a chance to jump in,

share your opinions, and be part of the show and you can get a chance to jump in share your opinions and be part of The conversation like never before and trust me you never know where we might pop up next So listen to the K factor starting on April 16 on I heart radio app Apple podcast or wherever you get your podcast This isn't just the podcast is a kpop Experience are you in let's go go I want you to ask yourself right now, how am I actually doing? Because it's a question that we rarely ask ourselves.

All of May is actually Mental Health Awareness Month. And on the psychology of your 20s, we are taking a vulnerable look at why mental health is so hard to talk about. Prepare for our conversations to go deep. I spent the majority of my teenage years and my 20s just feeling absolutely terrified. I had a majority of my teenage years and my twenties just feeling absolutely terrified. I had a panic attack on a conference call. Knowing that she had six months to live,

I was no longer pretending that this was my best friend. So this Mental Health Awareness Month, take that extra bit of care of your well-being. Listen to the psychology of your 20s on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Kristin Davis, host of the podcast, Are You a Charlotte? Sarah Jessica Parker is here and she is sharing stories from the very beginning, like the time she forgot we filmed the pilot episode. I remember some things about shooting the pilot.

Right, I have some memories I can fill you in. That you're going to fill me in. Yes, but then you forgot about it in the very long time they took to pick us up. Listen to Are You a Charlotte on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You're listening to an iHeart Podcast.