First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - To Catch A Cheater - Sasha & Anthony - Red Flags, Red Roses, and a Redhead

Episode Date: August 28, 2025

Sasha’s two-year relationship takes a shocking turn when some suspicious “red” clues pop up—including mysterious hair, a neighborly encounter, and one very revealing bouquet of... roses. Did Anthony get caught red-handed? Find out in this can’t-miss episode of To Catch a Cheater on The Jubal Show. Think your partner might be up to something shady? The Jubal Show has you covered. In this explosive segment, The Jubal Show helps suspicious lovers uncover the truth by setting up the ultimate loyalty test. We call their significant other, posing as a grocery store’s floral department offering a free bouquet. You know.. a War of the Roses. The catch? Who they choose to send the flowers to—and what they write on the card—could reveal everything. Will it be a romantic gesture for their partner or a shocking betrayal? Get ready for twists, surprises, and jaw-dropping confrontations as we help our listeners get the answers they deserve. Subscribe to The Jubal Show's To Catch A Cheater / War of the Roses.➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:02:11 And only on the new hits 106.1. Sasha is on the phone today for To Catch a Cheater, and she's been with her boyfriend, Anthony, for two years. But now she thinks something might be going on, so we'll see if we can help her out. Sasha, sorry you have to come on the show this way, but what's up? Why do you think Anthony might be cheating? Well, you know, I'll be honest. I don't know, honestly, but it was my best friend when I was talking to her. And she actually told me I should email you guys because of how I'm feeling about Anthony.
Starting point is 00:02:39 And the thing is, he is an older guy. So a lot of my friends give me a lot of crap for it. And I think they're all concerned about me, especially how I'm feeling regarding him right now. and I don't know because he's always so sweet and it's so kind but there's just a lot of weird things that are happening
Starting point is 00:02:58 and even my friend is making you know a lot of comments about it and now it's making me question if he's like this great guy but it just doesn't feel like he's the same guy I fell in love with anymore how long? You said two years you guys have been together?
Starting point is 00:03:15 Yeah he's been together for two years and he's been great the whole time has your friend always been this way like in your ear from the very beginning or is it just starting to pick up right now? I mean, at the very beginning before we got serious, she wasn't really, you know, in my ear, as it were. But as time went on, especially since she is a little older than me, I feel like she's been looking out for me. You know, with good intentions that sometimes I do think she needs to keep her distance. So maybe I need to set boundaries.
Starting point is 00:03:42 But just as I'm trying to set some boundaries, there are just weird things that are happening between me and Anthony. And she's picking up on it too. and it's making me wonder what's going on with them. Well, what are the things that are happening? A couple weeks ago, I came home from like a long weekend. It was like a work trip. And it's important to note that I actually have really long blonde hair. But when I got home and went into the bathroom,
Starting point is 00:04:05 I noticed that there was in my shower just very long red hair. And neither I nor Anthony have red hair. Okay, that's weird. Okay, so did you ask him about the red hair? Yeah, I did. And, you know, he actually kind of told me it must have been on me from like a girl's night or something and that I didn't notice. And, you know, actually it does make sense because I do have another friend with long red hair. So it's very possible.
Starting point is 00:04:33 Is there anything else? Yeah. And I think this is the one that's making me nervous is when I got home from work a few days after this, I noticed that on my side of the bed, there was a phone charger, but it wasn't mine. And, you know, I did ask Anthony about it. I really did, and he just told me that it was mine. Oh, no. I forgot about it. You know, when he was telling me that, it does make sense to me, you know?
Starting point is 00:04:58 This is the proper use of gas lighting, if it truly was yours. The thing is, it's my friend who's the one that made me email you guys after what happened last week. And so what happened last week is I got home early and I was pulling into the driveway. And as soon as I got out of the car, Anthony came running out of our neighbor's house completely he like flustered and for some reason he didn't seem happy to see me and it was weird you wanted to know why i came home early you know very weird why we say the neighbors who's your neighbor yeah is it a woman did they have red hair i asked him about it like you know what he was doing
Starting point is 00:05:35 next door and he you know he had a very reasonable explanation he said he was just fixing the tv stand for the neighbor and you know it's something that he would do because he's a really nice guy and he's so nice okay but does she have red hair yeah she does and she is wrestling to the age but you know that doesn't mean anything
Starting point is 00:05:55 you know my friends don't like him you never know but all those do kind of sound red flaggy enough to try to find out right yeah well the thing is
Starting point is 00:06:06 he's always been such a great cry to me and that's another reason I came on the show because I really want to prove my friends wrong there's no way he would do something like this to me
Starting point is 00:06:13 okay well let's see if we can figure it out for you you already told us what grocery store he's a rewards card member at, so we'll play us on, come back, and then call him and pretend to be from the grocery store and say that every single month we choose one lucky rewards member who gets a free gift from us and its flowers delivered from our floral department and we'll see if he sends those to you or to somebody else, okay?
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Starting point is 00:10:01 and we'll see if he sends those to his girlfriend, Sasha, or to somebody else. But before we do that, Sasha, why don't you break down your situation again real quick? Well, my boyfriend is 10 years older than me, and my friends are very concerned about our relationship. and, you know, I did find some red hair in the apartment. I don't have red hair, and he did kind of come out of our neighbor's apartment the other day, very flustered, and she does have long red hair. I don't think he's cheating on me, though. He's a really great guy, and I'm on here to prove my friends wrong.
Starting point is 00:10:29 Okay. All right. Well, let's see if he's cheating or not. Are you ready for us to call him? Yes. Okay. Okay. Here we go.
Starting point is 00:10:44 Hello? Hey, this is Corbett calling from... I was looking for a rewards card member named Anthony... Ah, yeah, this is Anthony. Anthony, hey, please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call. I'm actually calling with a big congratulations. You're this month's winner.
Starting point is 00:11:04 Oh, cool. I didn't know that you guys gave away stuff. When you signed up to be a rewards member with us, every single month we choose one lucky rewards card member who gets a free gift. And this month, it's 36 long stem red roses, a box of candy or chocolate, and a card to be delivered to anybody that you want from our Florida department, absolutely free. Dang. For real?
Starting point is 00:11:23 Yep. First thing I would need would be the first and last name of the person you'd like to send them to. And then if you want to put anything on a card, and then I'll get the address, and we are good to go. All right. Cool, cool, cool, cool, cool. All right. Go ahead and send them to Caitlin. Caitlin, and do you want to send a card along to Caitlin?
Starting point is 00:11:49 Yeah, yeah, yeah, let's do that. That'd be cool. What would you like to put on the card? Let's just say some gorgeous red roses for my gorgeous redhead. Yes, I can do that, and now I will let you know that this is. Yeah, she's just like my little hot project that I've got going on stuff, you know. Good for you, man. you know
Starting point is 00:12:13 hey also want to let you know this is actually a radio show it's called the Jubal Show Busted bro Hi I'm Nina Yeah I'm Victoria And my name is Jubal And we do a segment called
Starting point is 00:12:24 To catch a cheater Where if you think your significant other Might be messing around You see who they send flowers to And your girlfriend Sasha of two years Is actually on the phone Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa What's going on
Starting point is 00:12:35 Sasha you're on the phone? What the hell are you doing Is your project? No no no no you don't get to question me. What do you mean, Caitlin is your cause? No, what is, what is this, what is going on? Like, what, what are you, what are you on now, Sasha? Like, you know what I am just so angry right now. Like, my friends were telling me that you were up to something and I would, I was, I'm not, no, no, no, no, no. What, what is this a radio show? Like, what the hell are you doing, bringing me on a radio show for? I don't think that's the big issue, you came over to her house. you went over to oh my god you're talking about
Starting point is 00:13:15 she has no one to help her okay i was just being nice i already explained this to you i don't appreciate wasting my time by dragging me on the radio when we could have just had a simple car what do you mean by she's a hot hot project hey you
Starting point is 00:13:32 shut your f*** mouth stay out of it wow she is she is just the neighbor i'm just helping her out that is it And your little friend, is this, is this your little friend, like, getting you to do this shit in? Like, with her random conspiracy theories on TikTok or whatever? Does this not feel like a conspiracy theory?
Starting point is 00:13:51 You still haven't answered what Hot Project is. Okay. And you are calling her beautiful. Why are you calling her beautiful? This is, I can't believe that you're doing this to me. My friends were absolutely right about you. This isn't a conspiracy theory on TikTok. This is you going behind my back with the neighbor and then trying to gaslight me.
Starting point is 00:14:11 and just thinking that this is not real, okay? This is the problem with women nowadays. You know what? You're not listening. You don't listen at all. There's a bunch of stab lonely people with way too many emotional problems. Emotional problems.
Starting point is 00:14:26 You sound like a psychopath. You don't even understand what you're saying around the time. Oh, my God. Anthony, I love you. And you know what? I know my friends can be a lot. Oh, my God. Oh, no.
Starting point is 00:14:37 No, this is not. No, no. We're not doing that, honey. Okay, you know what, Sasha. Sorry. No, Sasha. Okay, Sasha, you know what? I'm sorry that thank you for apologizing.
Starting point is 00:14:50 Like that, that makes me feel a lot better. For what? Well, she just apologized. So I'm taking that and accepting that apology, okay? So for bringing me on this radio show when we didn't need to do this kind of thing, okay? And, you know, I'm sorry that I snapped right there, but honestly, I'm just kind of a hot sometimes okay no no no you made a really stupid mistake
Starting point is 00:15:16 and you know what but here no no no listen you've got to hear me out you've got to hear me out you know what you're willing to listen to whatever your friend says has ruined this relationship and yes i was including my trust is that what you wanted to hear right now my friends what push me into doing this because they knew something was wrong did you hear what anthony just said no i didn't
Starting point is 00:15:41 What did you just say to me? I wouldn't have slept with her if your friend didn't make me, like, just push me into her arms. What, wow. Are you kidding me? Oh, my God. I'm so sorry. You know what? I can't believe I even apologize to you.
Starting point is 00:15:58 You're the one who's blaming my friend for your infidelity. What is your, you should have just been, you should have just trusted me instead of her. What? You also shouldn't have just gone to the neighbor's house. I'll break up if you're going to do that. Kind of hard to trust somebody who's, like, cheating on you, though. You know what I mean? I thought I said shut your mouth, no?
Starting point is 00:16:18 He's a hot head, remember? Between me and Sasha, nobody else needs to be on this, okay? And I've already told you that I'm done with this relationship. I'm out. Oh, my God. Sasha. There's a lot there. I'm so sorry, but you definitely do not deserve that.
Starting point is 00:16:38 The way that he speaks to you alone. Trust me, this is your fault? This is not your fault. This isn't your fault at all. But don't let him try to talk you back into being with him. He sounds like the kind of dude that would. No, my friends won't allow that. We actually made a pact that if he was cheating on weed.
Starting point is 00:16:55 And remember, I didn't think he was that we were going to take all of his outside and light it on fire. And you know what? I'm going to text her because that's exactly what she's going to do right now. And I hope his Gordon's Redhead doesn't mind him wearing the same outfit every day because all of his clothes are going to go up in flames just like their relationship will. And she's gone now too.
Starting point is 00:17:17 She probably just could have left that last part out. But I'll feel you. Yeah. I'll feel the pain. The jubel shows to catch a cheater. Hi, it's Honey German. And I'm back with season two of my podcast. Grasias.
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