No Jumper - Adam22 & Blu Jasmine Go To War: Entitled Women, Simps, Sugar Daddies & More!

Episode Date: July 15, 2021

Blujas is super confident in her stance regarding her lifestyle and how she likes to be taken care of. She says girls should treat their body like a temple, while accepting gifts from men who want to cater to them. https://www.instagram.com/blujas_/ ----- NO JUMPER PATREON http://www.patreon.com/nojumper CHECK OUT OUR NEW SPOTIFY PLAYLIST https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5tesvmDS8h50LkjnSAWMOs?si=j6sJD6DkR4mk5NZZWnlK7g FOLLOW US ON SNAPCHAT FOR THE LATEST NEWS & UPDATES https://www.snapchat.com/discover/No_Jumper/4874336901 CHECK OUT OUR ONLINE STORE!!! http://www.nojumper.com/ SUBSCRIBE for new interviews (and more) weekly: http://bit.ly/nastymondayz Follow us on Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/nojumper iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/no-jumper/id1001659715?mt=2 Follow us on Social Media: https://www.snapchat.com/discover/No_Jumper/4874336901 http://www.twitter.com/nojumper http://www.instagram.com/nojumper https://www.facebook.com/NOJUMPEROFFICIAL http://www.reddit.com/r/nojumper JOIN THE DISCORD: https://discord.gg/Q3XPfBm Follow Adam22: https://www.tiktok.com/@adam22 http://www.twitter.com/adam22 http://www.instagram.com/adam22 adam22hoe on Snapchat Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

No Jumper coolest podcast on the world. And today, the lady of the hour. An hour only? Or the week at least, I guess. Okay, thank you. Taking the internet over, huh? I'm trying. Yeah.

You know. How does your life change since you gained all this notoriety? And also, I mean, I guess I should kind of map it out for them. You went on some podcast that I'm probably never going to watch you get in my life. And you talked about basically. basically some relationship stuff talked about, you know, how a guy was affording you a whole lot of stuff, and then you broke up and you didn't want to give it up. And then that led to you going on Kevin Samuels and fresh and fit. And you've just basically been involved in this whole media whirlwind, which I find kind of interesting because, you know, back in the day, people used to go viral for something and then that would just be it. You'd never hear from him again. You had this, like, viral moment. And then all of a sudden you just use that as kind of like leverage to get on all these different platforms and build up your personal brand. Right. It's kind of fascinating. This is the very, very 2021 come-up story. Right. I mean, I've gone viral before for doing skits and stuff like that, but it was all like shaking ass. You know what I mean?

I had no real substance or not that what I went if I before I had substance, but it was my truth, you know, versus what shaking ass. So I lost my page at 150K. After all this or before? Prior. Okay. Maybe like four months ago. Right. And now, so I was building up my new page. This was currently at 9K. And then now, I was, you know, I'm at 28, almost 30 within the last week.

Okay. So that's been pretty cool. Are you getting reached out to by a lot of people? Like, what kind of connections is this helping to foster? Yeah. Like, I still have the big steppers, the big steppers in my DM. You know what I mean? Who?

You know, the guys here and there. I'm not really like a snitch like that. That's smart. But they know who they are. And so, yeah, they still checking for me. So that hasn't changed. You know, I obviously have opportunities. like being here and all the other podcasts that are hitting me up.

And we're working on a couple of things. You know, I have a party that I'm looking to start. A lot of guys and girls have hit me up looking for either like sugar babies or sugar daddies. So I have a website, sugar social.com. Our first party is set to be in August in New York City. And how long have you been working on this? So funny thing is that I used to run the back end of, underground lap dance parties.

And so I already had a list of 10,000 verified men from New York City. So basically prostitution. Like strip club, lap dance, you know what I mean? Because there's all kinds of weird New York City underground. Because the strip club is out there are like fucking Nazi Germany, right? Like you just can't do shit. You can't get naked. Yeah.

But here you can't get naked either. So, yeah, no, we don't promote prostitution. Don't snitch on me, Adam. Are you kidding? No, I don't. Okay. Yeah. No, I encourage the prostitutes of the world to just keep doing their thing.

And I encourage all the guys out there. if you want to pay for some ass and smooth that out in your life go for it i rather my man pay for ass than like build relationships really big facts i should ask my girl that if she would rather i cheat with just a random or a prostitute a prostitute 100% pay that whore and come back home that's a good question i should ask for that yeah yeah which one you think she would choose i don't know okay because i feel like she would i feel like her concern because i don't think my girl would actually believe that I have feelings for another girl. Okay.

That would be the thing that would actually piss her off, though. She thought that I was fucking a girl that I liked. At the end of the day, if I fucking prostitute, it's kind of like, I think she would be mad at me because I'm putting her in danger with SDDs and stuff. But I think random, I think prostitutes probably, I don't know, I'd never have prostituted myself, and if I did, I would say, you know,

I don't have no shame in my game. But I think that prostitutes, because it's their job, probably have more, you know, probably check. themselves more than girls who are just fucking guys. Right, but if you're fucking 40 dudes a day, then I mean, your odds of getting SDD are just way higher than the average. Gross.

Okay, let's get off this conversation. This is too much for me. Too much prostitution talk. Yeah, ew. What? You're not into it? You fucking just said that you work in this industry. Yeah, but prostitution is overboard.

Yeah, it's a lot. You just don't like talking about it, even though it's something that's realistically probably part of your life. You can talk about it. You can talk about it's like dudes come on here and talk about selling drugs. Yeah, they're snitching on themselves. Yeah, I'm saying. That's what this shows for.

To snitch. Yeah. Wow. What's this blue seal of approval on your throat there? It's a chakra, aka throat baby. You know what I mean? Take it to another dimension. Okay.

You know what I mean? Is that really what it symbolizes? No, it's really a throat chakra, which means like speaking your truth and being authentic. So, yeah. Whoa. You got the motherfucker just drive by? Yeah. He went fast.

Loud pipes. Wow. Okay. But, yeah. I mean, would you say that the response that you've been getting from this has been mostly positive or mostly negative? I don't, it's negative 100%, but I don't get why. Like, I'm so confused as to why it went viral to begin with still. And I don't get why people are so mad.

I'm like, damn, can a bitch get her bills paid and just chill? Like, I don't get it. I don't get it. Can you help me understand? I think that, like, you on that podcast, to a lot of people, myself included, sort of just like personified everything that's wrong with women all in one. It's just like one quick clip that just really exemplified everything that men are scared that women are becoming, which is not really that fair because you're just one woman. You only speak for yourself, really. But yeah, it definitely, I think...

I speak for the city girls, the pretty girls and the hot girls. There's a lot of other girls, too, for sure, yeah. But I mean, I think it's like when you look at like why Kevin Samuels is popular now, why fresh and fit are blowing up. I think it's because they just... Majority of men are broke. The majority of men are seeing the sexual marketplace turn into something where only rich guys are being rewarded and guys are expected to just like give so much to women who basically like don't have anything to offer or aren't really like contributing or becoming part of this. It's like the standard for men is becoming so high.

Whereas the standard for women has sunk so low. I don't think so. It's just kind of like a bizarre reality we ended up in. I don't think that it's sunk low. I think from the beginning of time, men have always been the ones who were set to, you know, get the money and bring it back to the woman or the household in which the woman just took care of. You know what I mean? Right. So I don't think that women have, you know, I mean, it's pretty privilege, you know.

If you're beautiful, if you have good pussy, if you know what I mean, you're in the industry or around these people, if you have some sort of intelligence. You're going to get what you want in life. But in a previous generation, I think that the average woman would have been ashamed to acknowledge that, like, basically the main thing that she's bringing to a relationship is just good pussy and looking good. I mean, but the truth is the truth. I know. And in a way, that is the interesting thing, is that it's like women now are realizing the

value of their own vagina and that they're choosing not to just be like groupies and to just go fuck a rapper for free. Exactly. Instead, they're choosing to like, okay, I'm going to, like, actually sort of exert some pressure to get something material out of these guys. So that they're not used. Yeah. You know what I mean? And I feel like the more men you have sex with, the more your value goes down as a woman.

And so if you're walking away with absolutely nothing, then what have you done? 15 minutes of what? Yeah. You know? When did you feel like, there must have been a time period in your life where you were just fucking for nothing? And then at some point you just kind of realized. I mean, I don't ever fuck for anything, but there's a standard of men that I would fuck. You know what I mean?

I think from young, like 13 years old, I had, I didn't know it was finesse. We didn't know nothing about City Girl stuff, you know what I mean? But guys would always try to talk to me. So that's like your Bible, huh, the City Girls albums, huh? Yeah. Really? Yeah. Get a nigger for his bread.

I never heard them. So I don't really know. I don't really know what they're talking about. I just, I'm not a song or two. I don't know. I probably heard him in the club or something. something, but like, I don't really know what the fuck they're talking about. I'm totally honest. I still haven't really dug into all that. I mean, it's a little bit, you know,

it's a little bit on the ratchet side. It's a little bit on the raw side. But all in all, they're saying, you know, you don't just do these things for nothing, you know, get what you can out of a man. Get what you can while they're there. Right. I think my problem is just dudes who actually accept this state of affairs and actually, like, feel like it's a worthwhile pursuit to, like, actually spend their money in that way. Well, I mean, you have a really? You I have to understand that I'm a guy, multi-millionaire, run multiple successful businesses, et cetera. I've never done anything even close.

And also, sexually, I would say that I've been fairly successful. I've had sex with a lot of girls throughout my life even before I had money. I have been a relationship for five years, so I'm, like, kind of tapped out in terms of, like, understanding the current marketplace. But I never even, in my whole life, never even thought about buying a girl an apartment, in a car. I swear to God, before the relationship I'm in now, I never spent more than like a hundred bucks on anything for a girl ever. That's wild. But I mean, you also got to take into consideration that you have pretty privileged too. You have those blue eyes, you know what I'm saying?

You got the light skin. You got the beer going on. So you may get away with certain things like that, but not every man is, you know, less, so to say. I don't feel like I have pretty privileged. I feel like I'm a pretty average young guy. Also, I'm 37. Yeah, you don't look it. Really? No, not at all. Well, that's nice. Thank you. 32. Yeah. You got a little Botox, you know what I'm saying?

You can stay 32 for the five more years. What is Botox? Because I know my girls got it, but I never really thought about it. It makes your forehead those lines that you got stiff gone by young again. The problem is, though, like, when you're giving head and you've had Botox in your forehead, that you can't, like, look up the way that you're supposed to. Really? Well, like, in porn, you know, like, if you're giving head, you can just look straight ahead.

It's all good. Nobody cares. But when you're doing it on camera, it's kind of, like, required that you, like, when you watch porn girls do it, that's the number one thing they do it. roll their eyes up so that like they make eye contact with the camera you know they don't go up they do like I don't get it doesn't matter at time until the until the movement stops working okay got it right here's a question I had what is this dude that you're talking about your ex who I guess maybe lay it out for them a little bit explain what you said on the podcast that has become so controversial yeah so basically um I my ex still pays my bill

he's been paying it, we've been broken up, maybe it's going on two years now, and he's been continuing to pay it. The initial question was if somebody gave, if somebody gave you a gift during the relationship and the relationship broke up, would you take it back or allow them to take it back? And so I said, you know, I was given gifts, like I got my apartment as a gift, I got my car as a gift, I got many other things as a gift, but my apartment and my car are the things that had longer-term payments, you know, like your apartment until the lease ends and the car until the lease ends. and yeah they're still being paid for so I guess my main question about this guy is

what the fuck is wrong with him like do you think he has like really bad like issues with his mom or something? Not at all actually he grew up in a two family home went to private school, has a lot of money but why would he keep paying for his ex's shit two years after they're broken up? I don't know you have to admit that you think it's crazy right?

I got that OJ glove. You know what I'm talking about? But you said he's not even fucking still. It doesn't matter but it's good. It matters. It was good. It was really that good. There is no memory of pussy on earth that is going to make me continue to pay for it after I'm done with it.

That's you. But why do you think that... And I kind of agreed when I was listening to the Kevin Samuels thing, and I'm hearing you talk about like three months is standard. Six months is very nice. I could understand that if I were the kind of guy that was like going to put a girl in an apartment or whatever, that like, yeah, maybe you don't break the lease immediately. Like, yeah, all right, I get that. But two years, like, what the fuck is he doing? Like, does he have so much money that paying for that is just nothing to him?

Because then I guess maybe it makes a tiny morsel of sense. I don't know what so much money would be considered, but I guess to him, he's not in a struggle doing this for me. $5 million? No, I don't think he makes $5 million a year. Then he shouldn't be doing this. It's irresponsible. Listen, I have guys that literally offer me cars that I've never had sex with before. I am no relationship.

Who are there? What is wrong with them? What is wrong with them? What is right with me? What is the, like, but what are they supposed to be getting out of that investment? They're getting the enjoyment. You know, some people do drugs. But you said they're going to sex with you.

Yeah, some people, but just probably giving something to a beautiful woman and feeling like they've helped her get to a space probably makes them feel good about themselves, makes their, you know, makes them feel good. I don't get that. Why would that make you feel good about yourself to just throw money in the fucking trash can? Some people go to the casino. Some people do drugs. Some people drink.

Some people waste their money on women, you know? Like it's different things. Right. I mean, you go to the casino, but I mean, when you place a bet on black, I mean, there's like a 49.5 chance that you're going to double your money. Mm-hmm. If you buy a girl a car that's never going to fuck you, then what the fuck is the boy that's a zero percent chance of you getting anything out of it? And if you get something out of it, you get what? A fucking pleasurable, enjoyable, like five-minute nut?

Like, I mean, to me, I've never understood the concept of paying for pussy. And I have, I paid for, I have to clarify, back in the day, in Asia and stuff, we'd be on trips, we'd, you know, go get our dicks sucked and shit like that. But I never, I don't count. That's another country. But this is not even pay for play. This is just pay because I'm a woman, I'm beautiful,

I have goals, I have ambitions, I, you know what I mean? I do, you know what I mean? So men are just turned on by that and they want to help me. It's like you opened a lemonade stand where you're charging money, but then not actually giving them the lemonade. Right. And they're buying it. It's called theft where I'm from.

No, because it's trans- I'm transparent. I mean, I'm not promising anything, you know? I'm just trying to wrap my head around the mind of a dude who wants to do this. I've literally had this luck my whole life, you know? Like I said, I remember from 13 years old, a guy asked me for my phone number, obviously an older person. And then he came to me, I already had a phone. And he came to me, but I was like, I don't have a number because I don't have a phone, but I lied. And then, like, literally two days later, I seen him again.

He had a phone for me. and he said I paid for it for six months. And this is me at 13. So a phone is like a car at 13. You know what I mean? You're like, oh, my God, I got a phone, free phone. You know, once again when I was 18, a guy I was just friends with. We hung out all the time.

I told him I needed a car. He bought me a range rover. You know, like a few weeks later, I gave him the buns. You know what I mean? But there was no, I don't think there was an initial expectation of it. Were these guys aware that they were committing statutory rape? Statutory rape? When you fucking underage girl?

who can't consent legally? No, the guy who got me the phone, I never fucked him. I mean, he barely even called me. He never even bothered me after that. It was weird. Like, we probably talked on the phone like two times, and then, like, he'd never, like, harassed. Yeah, I don't even remember him bothering me.

Okay. The guy that got me the car ended up getting into a relationship with him, and he spoiled me for some time. But then there's guys that, you know, rappers and athletes offer money. I've gotten literally credit cards handed to me from athletes who make. make, you know, 90 million

dollars contracts handed to me and haven't even fucked, you know? Like ate my pussy, but that was all. Bible. But why would they, I just don't get it. Like, what is the thing that they're getting out of that? Maybe I turn men on financially.

What? Maybe I turn men on financially. How do you get turned on financially? Like, a man wants to spend his money on me. Like, he wants to make me feel good, and that makes him feel good when he spoils me or makes me feel good. Like he, you know, babies me.

I would feel so horrible about myself if I was spending money on a girl that I wasn't in any sort of like, you know, I buy my girl nice things, you know, and take her out shop and take her to the mall, et cetera. But, I mean, we've been together for five years. We have a kid together. We're engaged. This is a very obvious reason why I want to, like, buy her things that are representations. Now, that being said, me and my girl are not, like, materialistic people at all.

Like, we just don't do the jewelry thing, really. I mean, she does a little bit. We're not super into the designer stuff. We don't have fancy cars. You know, I'm just very much like not that kind of person. So it's just like really flabbergasting to me why a guy would want to put himself into that position. I don't know. It just literally happened to me last week again.

I was coming back from Miami from the Fresh and Fit podcast. You fuck either of those guys? Huh? You fuck those guys? Ew. Like what? No. Why, ew?

Because I honestly, yeah, I'm not going to say that. Forget it. What? No, if you cut it out. Ew. Like, what? Like, no. I'm not, like, yeah.

I feel like unless it's financial men, though, it's hard for me to get turned down by a man. Like, to me, it's like, yeah, no, I'm good. You know what I mean? Yeah, like, unless, I think, like, even watching a man spend his money, like, recently I was at the strip club and watching a man spend his money, even on other women turns me on. You know what I mean? It's just like, it makes me feel like, wow, like you're a boss. I think you need therapy. Fuck you.

I mean, I'm just serious. Like, you have to. therapy for getting what I want just for living. Okay. If you're a woman who could get turned on by a guy for other reasons and then you also get turned on by a guy spending money on you, I guess I could understand. But when you say you only get turned on by a guy who's throwing money at you, I mean, that's like the first thing. And then, you know, then I'm curious now. Like, oh, okay, you're hot. Big Dick energy. You know what I mean? Uh-huh. What kind of financial circumstances did you grow up under? Like, were you poor growing up? Hell yeah. I was, I had my mother,

was 18. My father was 21. My dad had a couple of crack houses, so he had money in cars and stuff, but it was like hood shit. You know what I mean? So yeah, I have no bread. Uh-huh. They had to get it out the mud. I guess that does probably partially explain it. Maybe. I mean, just like your male role model having crack houses? I guess that's probably. Yeah. Got to explain some of this. But my dad did financially take care of me my whole life until I was 21 until I finished college.

Right. But he was also basically committing genocide, destroying his own community to make money to do. No, that was just why he was young after like he went. And no hate on people selling crack or anything because I understand a lot. It would be unfair for me to hold your dad to that standard when a lot of the people I interview have obviously probably killed tons of people with the drugs that they were selling. And I guess that's just, you know, it's acceptable part of the culture. But yeah, I don't know. It's just there's got to be more to this.

I don't know. What were we saying prior? The thing that really kind of, the best part in the Kevin Samuels thing that I saw was how you tried to like basically explain how it was illegal for them to kick you out of the apartment. And he, I think, kind of cornered you and made you realize that actually they legally. No, it is illegal though, especially during corona. Because they were trying to, I mean, these circumstances weren't the ones I was under because the person was paying my bills happily. But he tried to say if this was a circumstance. And I obviously, I'm not just going to give in.

I'm not going to be like, okay. you go. Like, no. Like, you're going to have to wait until, like, I get my shit together. Okay, but say it was me and we were dating and I was paying for an apartment that you were living in and paying for the car and we broke up, I would say, I'm taking it all back. And then what are you going to do? Like, I'm going to say, get it back in blood, bitch. Yeah. And I mean, I probably, like, if I got to send some people to, you know, kick you out of the apartment or whatever, I guess I got to do that. I hope they don't have to hurt you or whatever, but I'm probably, like to not be there since me being part of it doesn't seem like a good idea. But like, what are you

going to do? Honestly, dumb things have never happened to me. But I would just imagine that I would not, I wouldn't leave easily. And I don't have a shame in saying that. Like, I'm not, yeah, no, it's just not happening. You're not going to kick me out of space that you placed me in. Like, you're going to have to wait until I'm comfortable enough or until I'm ready to do what I need to do. It's just so interesting. You say you're not going to when legally it's their right to. And they it's the right thing in my opinion for them to be able to and there's nothing that you could do to stop them and if the cops were called or if it was taking a court they would rule that you were wrong like what jurors what what what basis does this this this talkiness have you know the laws

you know so I can't really fight that um but I know that I'm gonna stick it out until I can't yeah you're gonna have to drag me out of there yeah right so okay I'm I'm already so this guy think of all this newfound attention to his romantic situation or his financial situation, I guess. Like, what does he think of the fact that this has gotten so much attention and that it's basically about him, even though he remains anonymous? He doesn't care. He doesn't care. He probably thinks it's cool.

He hasn't really said anything in regards to it that's negative. He's definitely said, you know, he's a money person, so he's definitely said capitalize. He's definitely said, try to make it into something for yourself. You know what I mean? But he hasn't said anything. He doesn't feel it. any way he doesn't care. That's crazy.

Because I would think it would be like really embarrassing to, like even though he hasn't been named. But you'll be surprised that I've received cash apps from, from men after this. Like men are in my DM sending me money who I don't even know. Right. Who probably will never meet me, who don't know where I live, don't know anything about me but this, what they see on the internet, and they're sending me money. I mean, I guess it shouldn't be so hard for me to understand because the truth is

is that there's tons of girls out there who are like charging money for their only fans and then their only fans has like what like pictures of them in a bikini, whatever. Like not that, anything that crazy. And then meanwhile you could log right on to Pornhub and search that girl's name and see her getting fucked in the ass, whatever.

And dude's still like, I mean, if you're paying for the only fans, you kind of are just paying her for no reason, realistically. Because there's crazier shit on Pornhub. Not for every girl, obviously. Like, I'm sure you're not on there, but, I mean, I guess it shouldn't surprise. prize me so much that guys just want to give money to girls for nothing, but I can't, I can't

escape it. It's just baffling to me. I don't think it's for nothing. I think it's for just them existing. And I feel like, I mean, I feel like don't a lot of, what's Patreon? Don't people, like, men or whoever watch you skiv money to people just to listen to you? Patreon.com slash no jumper. Yes, but I mean, there's a lot of content on the Patreon that's, like, exclusive that they don't have access to. We can do naked girl stuff on there. we can do, you know, all kinds of drug types. Not that we have yet, but we're going to. And so they find value, even, you know what I mean?

But a person like me would be like, why would I pay for this? You know what I mean? Like you said, when I can go on Pornhub or I can listen to this on YouTube for free or whatever. So that's the part that I don't get. Because even on Fresh and Fit podcast, I didn't want to, like, put them on blast, but I was like, aren't you guys, you men paying to watch men? Like, I don't get it. Like, why wouldn't you pay a woman, like, if you liked her or if you had interest in her?

Like, what's the difference? Well, I mean, the difference is that like if somebody, you know, and apparently there are many people who are open to this, but if there's people who watch my podcast and they want to see more of the podcast or they want to see some extra content or, you know, some people do it out of the goodness of their heart because the reality is, is that you could be a huge fan and no jumper and it costs zero dollars, like for you to be a fan. You watch everything on YouTube for free. Some people see that. They realize at a certain point, like, oh, they have all these expenses. They have all these employees. Maybe I want to give them five bucks a month because that will. help make their whole operation easier.

Same here. So some people see a beautiful woman and they're like, maybe I want to buy her a car because that's going to help her get from point A to point B. Maybe I want to put her in a house because she's going to be sheltered. And it's going to be because of me that this is happening. The same exact thing. But I think there's a big difference between like a podcast that you get a ton of enjoyment out of and that occupies like many, many hours out of your week versus like just a random woman

just having a car or just. just living in a house. It just seems like much, much less common sense to want to support. Really? I think it depends on who you are and what you like to support. So some people may like to support a podcast, and some people like to support women. Some random woman having a nice car. Yeah, and that makes men feel good.

Listen, the other day, oh yeah, with the taxi situation, I was about to say that story, came off the flight to Miami, my phone was dead, so I had no choice but to talk to this person. I was annoyed at first. He's talking to me, telling me about the cars that he has. and I'm like, can you buy me a car? And at first he's laughing like, ha ha ha, whatever, whatever. And I'm like, I'm really serious. I really need a car.

Like my car is messed up, da-da-da-da, you know, bullshitting, whatever. And, yeah, so I exchanged. So then we were talking, you know, we continued to talk, but he wasn't, like, he wasn't really jacking it, like, during the, our initial, like, car ride, gave him my phone number. He's literally been calling me the last five, six days trying to get me to meet him at the dealership,

but I've been so busy running around with everything that I haven't had the chance to. every single day. Are you going to meet me today at the dealership? Are you going to meet me today at the dealership? Are you going to meet me today at the dealership? That he wants to get me a car. Don't know this person literally had a one-hour taxi ride that I didn't have to pay for. If you're driving a taxi, you're not making enough money to buy a random woman a car. I mean, I don't know. Some people, you don't know. I mean, you kind of do that. Like driving the cab is not the best job. I've watched YouTube videos about people who drive Uber and shit. They make like, you know, $500 a week, whatever.

I mean, it's cool. According to him, he has an ex, whatever the fuck, BMW. He has a Porsche. He, you know what I mean? He put his daughter through school cash. You know what I mean? So whatever money he has saved up, maybe, I don't know what's his financial situation, but I know he wants to get me a car.

And when I go home, I know I'm going to go get my car. Does it stand out to you that there's maybe like a possibility that he might, like, eventually stock you or like do some creepy shit or rape you or something like that? To me, that's like the first thing that comes to mind. Anytime somebody tries to offer me something for free, it's just a long- You think they want to rape you? Yes. No, alarm bells go off in my head.

Like, okay, I have guys come up to me and they say, oh, I own this place and we'll let you have fucking whatever rental car you want. Just like shut us out on Instagram or whatever. I don't do it because I don't want to be in a situation where someone's giving me something because then they're going to feel like they can ask me for something or they can, like, exert pressure on me. And I know that being in the position that I'm in, I don't want to have to, do anything for anybody. So I just say no. If I'm going to do it, people offer to work for me for free all the time. I don't want to fucking have somebody working for me for free. I want to pay you a fair amount and then I can actually lean on you to do the work that I need you to do.

If you're working me for free, I can't yell at you and say, hey, you need to do this. Why the fuck then you get this done? Yada yada. I need to be able to rely on people and that just doesn't really make sense to me. Well, for me, I just feel like if you stand strong in your stance, I don't give a fuck what anybody feels or thinks or wants to do. You know what I mean? I mean, no one forced you to do these things for me. So it's like once you give it to me, it's mine. I do agree that these men, if they want to spend money on these relationships or whatever,

then that's cool. That's like their prerogative, et cetera. I do think we need to address like the SIMP culture where so many guys think that this is like a good use of their time or money. I think it just says like really horrible things about men in general that so many men are this stupid. But I think the fact that you think that you have the power to say no to them when they want to take those things away. That's the thing that basically ignited. But I do. I just feel like if you're going to give me something, you cannot take it away.

Like it's not snatchies. Like it's not like Indian giving. Like no, you're not taking it back. Like I don't get how that doesn't make any sense. Like if somebody buys you a gift or if someone gives you something like. Okay. In some things, you're right. Because, like, if we're dating and I buy you a watch, and then we break up six months later, and you say you gave this to me as a gift, I'm pretty sure that, like, legally, okay, it's your watch. I gave it to you as a gift. And I mean, certainly if me and my girl, if my girl left me, I don't have the right to say, like, oh, I mean, maybe the wedding ring is one thing because we haven't got married yet. But, you know, I don't get to say, oh, hey, give me all those Gucci purses back or whatever. Because- I feel like that's more simple behavior. So my thing is I want to change the coach.

the culture around the word simp. And I feel like men who do not take care of women or if they have money and they're not in their community doing what's best for the people around them, the women, which is, I feel like, yeah, that's a simp to me. Like if you don't think that it's okay to help women out or to cater to women, then to me that's a simp. Like you're not a man.

Like men are here to do that, to work and to help women. Either their woman or if they're single other women or I just feel like that's your duty as a man. To just help random women that you're maybe not even sleeping with? It doesn't have to be a random woman from the street, but women that you have interest in. Women that you, you know what I mean, you have something in mind for them.

Even if you have sex in mind but you don't get sex, I feel like you should still put forth. I mean, I feel like the thing that you're describing is a relationship, but you like don't want to actually be in a relationship. You just want to, like, get the benefit of being in the relationship from sort of, like, coercing the man into believing that he's going to, in the long run, get something more out of this. No, I've never lied. Could you imagine being in a relationship that was, you know, primarily based on, like, your feelings for the person?

Yes. It doesn't really sound like it. Why? Because it just sounds like there always has to be, like, a financial component in order for you to... I think that a man should take care of a woman. And I feel like once I choose the man that I want to be with, I am now his responsibility. I do feel like that. Right.

I kind of do agree with that to a certain extent in the sense that like if I'm in a relationship with a woman and she's going to be, you know, taking care of the kid and she's going to be home all day and she's just basically going to be doing that. Like I mean, my situation is very different because my girl makes a fuckload of money. But I understand that prerogative that like maybe I could imagine being a relationship. where if the girl's not bringing anything to the table, but she's taking care of the kids, she takes care of the house,

she cooks, she cleans, et cetera. And I'm sort of like paying her way through life as a result of that and we're in a relationship. That's not how my relationship is, but I could totally understand that that is pretty much how relationships have worked all throughout history. The man goes off and wins,

makes money. The woman stays home, takes care of the kids. That's fine. That seems like a very, very common setup. But like you want that, but then you don't want to be at home

taking care of the kids, you want to be running around fucking other guys for money. Fucking for money. I don't fuck for money, but... Whatever. Nor am I against women who fuck for money. But I do think that men... Yeah, I think that if you have money and your... If you have money and your interest is women, women, whether it be fucking or you like

them for eye candy, I don't know, whatever your interest is around women, that you should cater to that, cater to them. Like, take care of them. I only want men around me who really fuck with women. You know what I mean? I don't you want men around me who are really interested in women that really want to take care of women. Just women in general. Like some people donate to charity.

You think that a guy's charity should just be just women, just all women? I guess. I don't know about a charity, but I just feel like, yeah. I feel like, you know, the women's rights movement that we've watched play out all throughout our life, where, you know, women have basically been, like, fighting against so much of what you're, you're kind of talking about where like, you know, women want to have their own careers. They want to, you know, be considered equal to men. They want to, they want to not feel like they have to stay home and take care of the kids.

Right. I never said in none of the marches. I'm not for that. I think that I'm still a feminist because I believe women should do whatever they want to do. That was going to be my question. Do you consider yourself a feminist? Only be, not fully. Yeah, not fully because I still think that, you know, personally, my beliefs are women are, you know, a man is a little bit higher than a woman.

let's face it you know be real like men why because you got i just you guys are stronger could work longer make more money quicker don't have to sacrifice as much to get to the spaces you want to um and so i feel like men have more power when it comes to in the money aspect in the workplace i feel that you know what i mean that's what feminists are really against is that men have so much more so they should they should take care of us too the fuck they should get next to the men and they should take care of the women their community who believe otherwise. Uh-huh. Mm-hmm.

Interesting. I don't know. I just can't really, uh, I can't imagine. Like, I, I, I wish that I knew dudes who are like this because I know so many guys and I've never heard a guy say, yeah, I bought her a fucking apartment. I'm, I love taking care of this girl. I've heard dudes say, yeah, I've spent money on this girl because I was trying to fuck her or whatever.

I mean, sure that makes sense to me, but I don't know. I, like, who are, I guess maybe I, maybe I, I, I, I, I guess maybe I, do know these guys, but maybe they can tell that I'm not on board with their program, so they just would never confide in me. Like to me, even like buying a girl drinks or whatever, that's, I mean, that's crazy. You've had athletes and rappers and stuff on here. All of those men, a lot of them take care of women or offer women a lot of money. Like, I've been offered money to, you know, have sex and I've declined because I'm not just for money. That's not just like my motive. It's not just for money. I'm not going to give pussy up for money. But I've been,

offered by rappers, $5,000, $3,000, $7,000. To have sex? Yes, 100%. And you've never done it? Never. Why is that the line? Because, I mean, you like having sex, presumably, right? Of course, with someone that I'm interested in and someone who, like, takes care of me

continuously on a continuous basis. I'm not just going to have, like, sex with someone I really don't even know. Because, you don't have the time of these people, they don't even know you, and they just want to put it on the table. I've had someone who literally didn't even want to have a conversation with me, had someone else tell me about the $5,000 and then say like, but they just want to go in the room and do it and then get out. Like they don't want to even talk to me. You know what I mean? So it's like, why is it okay for men to do those type of things?

But then when a woman comes and wants to like take over the game, it's like so different. I think it's just kind of sad. Like when I think about this dude who's like, you know, trying to spend $5,000 to have sex. Like you'd be surprised who he is too because they make a lot of memes about him. They make him seem like, you know, he's, uh, um. Chad Hanks? Who's that? Okay.

No, they make him seem as though, like, people have been telling me, like, he needs to talk to me. Like, they make him seem like, uh, damn, I wish, like, you guys could cut things out so I could say, like, the name. But, yeah. I mean, we could cut it all also. If you want to tell me, we'll just, we'll cut it out. Scouts honor. Oh, okay. Yeah, so he's someone that people think, like, and he's literally offered me two times.

through another person, through a mutual friend that we have, $5,000. So he wants you to just be in a hotel room. He pulls up maybe like... Well, I was in there. They have like a studio house in Miami. Okay. So he had just wanted me to like meet him in the room. They didn't even want to have a conversation.

They didn't even ask me my name anything. Beat it down and just dip. Yeah. And that was it. No conversation necessary. No, none at all. I guess the thing that I don't really get is like... And this is a guy who could get pussy for free.

He could for sure. But, and, and, I understand that maybe, you know, he has so much money that he's just really looking for like efficiency of time. Like he just doesn't want to have to talk to girls, get their number, speak to him. We see this play out where like, you know, conversations leak in social media of him trying to line up sexual experiences and stuff like that. I guess I just don't understand the dude mentality of wanting to fuck every fucking girl on earth. Like at a certain point, it's like the law of diminishing returns, you know? Like I understand like the first 10 girls that I had sex with each one.

one was extremely exciting. Now that I'm at the point where I've had sex with hundreds of girls, like if I fuck a new girl tomorrow with my girl or whatever, then it's just not that big a deal to me. Like, I just don't care. I fuck so many girls that just seems kind of pointless. Yeah. And I would rather put my effort into developing a real relationship and focusing my time and effort into somebody who loves me that I feel comfortable with that's really adding something

to my life. I just don't understand the dude mentality of like, I'm going to get rich and famous. and then I'm going to just sort of like try to fuck every single girl on earth. It just doesn't really... It's really gross. Maybe I've been out of a relationship too long. I've heard of people that literally be in, like, famous people. Like, I've heard one time it was like, I wasn't in this house, so I'm not like, but it was like...

And they had girls coming in and out, in and out, in and out, like 10, 15 girls all naked and they're just like coming in and out the room, in and out the room. One next, next, next, next. Like, what? That's really gross. Right. Take these niggas for their money, sis. Like, fuck these niggins. Yeah, that is so bizarre to me because, like, I mean, number one, you're going to have to wear a condom in that scenario. And you know, they, let's be real.

Let's be real. But if you are fucking that many girls, like, fucking one random girl without a condom is a risk. Fucking 20 random girls in a night without a condom, you're a fucking maniac. This is insane. Like, you're going to get something. Why the fuck would you trust these girls? I feel like they're going to create a new bacteria. I feel like they don't even.

care. They don't. And that's why we shouldn't care either. And not even in regards to fucking, because I feel like we should care about our worth and who we give our vagina to, but I feel like we shouldn't care about taking these niggas bread. I mean, listen, if a dude is living like that, then by all means, I totally understand. I guess I'm just more worried about like normal people who are trying to form relationships and stuff and just sort of seems like, like if every girl adopted your mentality. I wish they would. Oh my God. I wish every girl would call people, men who do not want to splurge or spoil or in any way, shape, or form, whatever fits your caliber, you know, whatever level you're on, like, I feel like that is a sim. Like, you're not a man

to me. Like, and I really wish, and I cannot wait until girls, like, shut niggas down because niggas will, men will finesse you out your pussy. And then what do you get? That's why I think if I were to be giving, you know, a young girl advice about dating, 20-year-old, 19-year-old, whatever. She's kind of new on the scene. She's, you know, whatever. My advice would be, don't fuck the dude until you really like him and you really believe that you've spent enough time with him that he's earned it, basically. But in my mind, earning it is like spend a lot of time. Like, like, you know, like, I've had girls in my life who made it clear the first time I hung out with him. I'm not fucking you unless I hang out with you unless we go on 10 dates.

and that was annoying and frustrating to me because obviously I wanted to have sex with them right then and there but it also was like probably the smartest thing that they could have done because in those 10 dates at some point maybe I figure out wow I actually fuck with this girl enough that I would want to keep kicking with her after we have sex and then you know and that allows her to sort of like you know sort of weed out the guys like if he's not willing to hang out with you 10 times then he's clearly probably not going to stick around after that And I say this to girls all the time.

I feel like you should let a man like eat your pussy before you let him fuck you maybe like three to four times. I also feel like you should talk to the guy about your financial problems or things that you need. And if he's not willing to offer help, if he's a, that's crazy type of guy, don't fuck him. You know what I mean? That's crazy. Yeah. Like there's some guys you tell him your problem. They're like, that's crazy.

And it's just like, damn, no, you're not getting this. But there's other guys that offer help. Even a simple, what can I do to help? Even if it's not to the extent where they're giving you exactly everything you need. but they may have a connection or something that can maybe put a piece together to your issues, then I feel like that's a man you should fuck. You know what I mean? Right.

And that's what I would tell any girl that's 20 to 30 years old. I feel like that's your youth and that's your best time to get the most. You know what I mean? But what do you do? Like you're basically saying that like a 20-year-old girl only should be dating like a 30-plus-year-old dude because the reality is that when you're young, when you're in your 20s, you're not earning that much money. And you're probably investing a lot of your time into stuff like,

you know, college or learning a trade so that you can earn more money in the future. So then you end up in a situation where like no hot 20 year old girl is going to want to fuck a even hot 20 year old dude because they just are not at the stage in their life where wherever it's like if all a woman has to offer is pussy and all the dude has to offer his money, then you end up in a situation where it's all like 40 year old dudes fucking 19 year old girls, which I mean, hey, more power to you. But don't you realize that this is kind of like a distortion of society because then who the fuck is the 20 year old dude going to be?

you have his sex with. The 20-year-old dude is going to be focusing on getting money, and that's what I feel like young should do. I feel like when men focus on women, when they're young, especially, like in their 20s and they focus on fucking a lot of women, a lot of times, and I'm saying this from experience, from people that I know, they don't get many places. Why? Because they get hype off of pussy or whatever they get.

So I feel like men, 20 years old, 21, obviously you should fuck who you can because you're a man, but at the end of the day, I don't think that your focus should be fucking women. And I think women should talk to older men, because that you're going to learn. you're going to get what you need, you're going to get assistance. I mean, you've got to realize that your opinion is pretty divergent from like the mainstream. Like I see all the time on Twitter where there'll be like, you know, some 45-year-old or 50 years. Like Scott Dissick is dating like some fucking hot 19-year-old model or whatever. And everybody thinks that he's like fucking heinous, horrible guy because he's in his 40s dating an 18-year-old.

I mean, that's like a huge theme on social media. So I guess you would say that you totally disagree with that? disagree with the theme of... Of, you know, he's like a presumably wealthy guy in his 40s, I assume, and he's dating an 18-year-old, but you think that's how the world should be structured. Whereas, like, it seems like a lot of people disagree

with that. I mean, 18 and 40, that's a big difference, but I'm no one to judge. I do feel like when you're young, you should talk to older men. I don't know about 40. When I was 18, I was probably talking to 25 and 27-year-olds, and all the men that I spoke to were hustlers, naturally, so they owed, they had money. You know what I mean? It wasn't like they were 25 and broke. So or enough money where an 18 year old would think like, you know what I mean?

A car, an apartment, like those main things I always had. Would you date like a drug dealer like these days, like a real serious drug dealer? He had a ton of money, but he's like moving kilos of cocaine. Would I date a drug? I mean, maybe. But see, that's the whole thing. I probably would if he was smart enough and had like businesses otherwise, you know, like in other spaces. Or I would be the one to come in and say we should put this here and here

here, you know what I mean? What the kilos? Well, you're going to jail too if they come down on them. If you're living with them and shit. If I'm on no jumper talking about it, I'm definitely going to jail. All the drug dealers should hit her up. Period. Hit me up, scammers too.

I'm here for it. That's the whole thing. It's like if you're like perfectly down to fuck with a scammer or drug dealer, it's like, and much respect to the scammers or the drug dealers, but those those dudes are basically like taking their freedom and putting it on the line. I know dudes who are in jail for 20 fucking years for selling drugs. But you don't care about that because you're not really invested. than them having like a long happy life.

I mean, that's their personal choice. I didn't tell them to go sell drugs. Right, but I mean, realistically, it's probably one of the only ways that they could make a shitload of money at a young age. Without any skills or... It's like you're making money off your willingness

to take a risk. That's like the sole thing that allows you to make that money, you know? So what do you mean? What am I doing wrong? It just seems kind of fucked up to like solely want to be in relationships with people who are basically,

you know, where you couldn't possibly care about the direction that their life is going because they're doing something illegal. Well, obviously, if I'm in a relationship with someone, I do care. I do care. Right. But it's about not being in a relationship. That's the main thing. Like when you're in a young age, when you're young, I feel like you should use your youth to get what you can and get where you're going.

You know what I mean? Mm-hmm. As a woman. Right. Yeah. I don't know, man. It's just a fucking wild-ass world out there right now that I just don't feel like I'm capable of understanding. I don't understand why nobody understands this.

Like, I feel like to me, it's like, It makes perfect sense. I totally understand it and I realize that when I'm in the club in Vegas, that realistically the mind state that you're expressing is probably pretty close to the way that like the vast majority of the girls there think about this. I'm just really disturbed by it. But why? It never felt like that my whole life.

My whole life primary ways of meeting girls were like go to the bar, you know, you just start talking to some girl, you know, you like buy her drink, boom, you're hanging out. So you prefer women who just give them their whole body up for crumbs, for nothing, for no benefit. Out of attraction to me. Like that was how it would normally be. It was like, oh, you meet a girl at the bar or wherever, on the street, whatever, and you hang out with her. She wants to have sex with you because she's physically attracted to you. You want to have sex with her because you're physically attracted to her.

And there's just no concern for who has the most money or whatever. That's how broke people are. and I was a broke person for like a pretty large percentage of my life. But that's like very surface level as well. Like you're just talking about sexual attraction based off a physical appearance. Where I'm talking about if a man has money, he has ambition. He has like mental exercise. Like he can exercise his mental because he knows how to get money.

What if the dude's just rich? What do you got money from his family? I'm sure that you're not going to say no to that, right? I'm not going to say no if a guy who's rich wants to buy me things. Right, but if you got all the money from his parents, that doesn't mean they has ambition, you know? Yeah, but we're talking about the majority of the people that have money that, that I would come across. You know, I don't live in Cali.

I live in New York. So if you have money in New York, you have hustle, you have ambition, you're out there getting it. You know what I mean? It's not just, that's just a man that attracts me, a man who knows how to get it.

Where do you go in New York? Do you go to clubs? You go to strip clubs? Like, what's your social life like out there? Obviously, it's probably been on hold for a while because of COVID, but. Right. So I'm not really a social person,

like nightlife person. I have worked in strip clubs and stuff like that. made a joke today because someone said, where do I find, like, guys who want to spend their money on girls? And I was like, the strip club, like, become a stripper. You know what I mean? Become a stripper. You're going to find men who want to take care of you, give you money, et cetera. This is very true. You could just hang out of the strip club. You're going to find those guys. If you're not stripping and you're in there, yeah, I mean, they're going to gravitate to you.

Or you're a host, they're going to want to spend their money on you. So girls, if you work at a strip club, you don't have to necessarily shake ass. You can be a, you know, you can host or you can bartend. But otherwise, I've just always met people random. I don't know, it's just been my life luck, you know, that men just have always taken care of me. You know, I was thinking about it when you were talking about, you know, how you would expect a guy to continue to give you money after you broke up or whatever

or continue to pay for these things or whatever. I started to think, you know, if me and my girl, if I decided I wanted to leave her right now, how much financial support would I feel like I owed it? hurt and it's not really an issue because she's got plenty of money but if I if she was you know not having a lot of money well how would I approach it and in my head I'm like well we have a kid so of course you know even legally I'm going to be forced to you know pay X amount of money to her for probably you didn't have a kid and she gave you five years of her life and then you put you found

her you know in a regular space but now she's living in a mansion with you and she's driving whatever nice cars you have and and let's say she's only making a hundred thousand or maybe two hundred thousand a year that's not going to sustain that lifestyle that she's been used to for five years you're just going to like yeah but it's not like being in a relationship with me is going to stop her from pursuing her own hopes and dreams like you know i'm at work like eight hours a day she could have been working during that time period too it so happens that she has been but if a girl was just like if i if i if i get into a relationship with a girl and she just immediately stops grinding or working or working or hustling or doing whatever the fuck it is that she's working on,

then what the fuck is wrong with her? Why would I even want to be in a relationship with a person like that? No, let's say her financial standing is 100,000 or 200,000 and maybe she is chasing her dreams. Also, I don't think you realize that $200,000 a year is a lot of money for like 95% of people. Yeah, but it's not because, you know, I've made six figures and based on like my lifestyle and how much I spend, you know, how I spend money, it's really not a lot of money. Yeah, I mean, if you spend money like a crazy person, then definitely $20,000. a month is not going to be enough.

But I'm just saying like normal people here $200,000 a year. Or maybe like $150. Fuck, I hope I could get to $200,000 a year in my lifetime because that's so much money for most people. I didn't make that until, you know, the last couple of years in my life. But you know, as you get more money, your lifestyle change. I think that you, do you live in the same area that you lived in when you were broke? No, no, no.

Okay. And do you live in the same area that you lived in when you were making half the money that you make now? No, steadily. It steadily moves to a nice area. Exactly. So that's what I mean. So as you move up in regards to,

in making money, like your lifestyle changes. Right. The idea that the woman who isn't like earning enough money to stay in that position, though, that's the crazy part. It's like,

and that's the one thing that I've always appreciated with my girl. I met her and we were both at like very, very similar financial and fame levels, right? She saw how hard I was working.

She didn't think, oh, I'm going to like basically try to get as much money out of this guy as possible. She thought, oh, I see his grind and his ambition. I'm going to actually like push myself to make more money to be a better version of myself. Like never once in our relationship as my girl ever, like there's only meant a couple times where I fucking got an amount of money or like, you know, had a deal lined up where I could tell that she was just like, wow, like that's fucking awesome that you have that amount coming in or whatever because her attitude when she sees me making money is not i'm going to get as

much of that as possible that is going to motivate me to try to do better in my own regard and obviously during you're not thinking let me get as much as that as possible we're talking about a breakup so if adam if you put me in a high-rise condo we're together for five years and let's say we live separate we live in separate places you live in your own condo you get me a condo high-rise you're i'm not leaving the condo to go back to the hoods But you are because I'm not paying for the condo anymore. Well, then something's going to give. They're going to have to give you an eviction.

They're going to have to take me out of here. But they will. Like, I'll tell the employees of the condo, you need to kick this bitch out. It's over. Yeah, so then that will happen. But what I'm saying is if we had a relationship like me and this person, we're still friends. We're still very close friends. Like, although we broke up, we are still very close.

You know what I mean? So if I'm your dog, like, we're cool and you fuck with me and you know that I'm going to go back to the hood, but you have $5 million. Dog does seem like the opportune word for. the situation that you're describing here for the record. Fuck you. But if I'm your, you know what I mean? I don't want to, like, if I'm your nigger, like, I'm, me and you, me and you,

fuck with each other heavy. We don't have no beef. No, you didn't cheat on me. I didn't cheat on you. We just decided to go out separate ways for whatever reason. It just wasn't working out. You're not going to make me go back to the projects, right, Adam? After five years, after five years of loving me and me and you was good, you're just going

to throw me out like that. And that's why you got to take these niggas for their breasts. Because when it's time, if when they're done with you, don't kick you to the curve. You might be right because, yeah, I'm sending them back to the hood for sure. Exactly. Yeah. There it is. But, okay, this is the thing.

When I was saying, like, of course, if me and my girl broke up, I would be giving her money for 20 years for the kid. Let's say she didn't have a kid. No, but, okay. She does have a kid. For the kid, of course, I'm going to be giving you money for, you know, until the kid's an adult, until they're done college, whatever it might be. The thing is, is you want that money without actually having the kid.

The thing is, you're not. You're the kid in this situation. Big facts. You want, like, and that's what I think is so toxic for women in general is that the mentality that they should just be treated like children. Because it's created like a nation of women who just never grow up and are just like forced to just like feed off of rich men. It's just not sustainable.

It might feel kind of attractive to you in the short term. But ultimately, it's horrible for women. And I feel like most women. see that and agree with that. So you feel like a, I feel bad when women think, and I honestly feel like this, I feel bad when women think that they should work so hard. And like, there's some women who go 50-50, like on their rent and on their stuff with their husbands and stuff.

I feel really bad. Like, that's, like, really disrespectful to me. Me and my girl bought a house together. It's like a fucking $3.6 million house and we go halves on the mortgage payment because of why the fuck would we not? We go half on everything. Why would we not? It's like, if we didn't, that would be like her basically acknowledging that I'm like

the fucking boss of this. And then she, and then she rightfully would really have no say in the terms and conditions of our relationship. Like the fact that my girl can tell me don't go fuck prostitutes is basically, in my mind, contingent on the fact that we treat each other like we're equals. So we can ask the same thing of each other. But if I was just paying for everything, then it's like, how the fuck can you tell me the terms of our relationship?

If I'm paying for everything, then I'm the fucking one in control of this and you do whatever the fuck I say. And then I don't want to be in a relationship like that. Oh, yeah. I like, I mean, I like those type of relationships. Like, tell me what to do, Daddy. Like, I like a man who takes charge. I don't mind being submissive to a man. I don't mind a man telling me what to do.

I do, like, when my man tells me, you know, don't go X, Y, Z place. Like, I'm turned on. Like, oh, my man love me. You know what I mean? So, yeah. So, I mean, we're different in relationship types. But I would not go 50-50. I'm not going 50-50 with you.

For that I pay for it. Myself, find another nigga to pay for it. Like, why would I go 50-50? That's crazy. I feel like if you love your wife or your girl, you're going to want to take care of her. Like, if she's your baby, like you're going to want to take care of her. I do want to take care of her in ways.

We take care of each other in ways. But, I mean, the idea that I should then shoulder the entire responsibility of the biggest bill that each of us pay each month. And for the record, I mean, yeah, I could easily. just pay the fucking mortgage myself. Exactly. So I don't know what she's doing. You can pay the mortgage yourself.

It would just create this weird distortion of power where it's like, why would I be the one paying the entirety of the thing if you want to be an equal in this partnership? Like, I would be embarrassed for my daughter to realize that that is the arrangement that I'm a part of. You would be embarrassed for your daughter to know that you fully pay the shelter for you and your family? Yeah, because I want my daughter to grow up to be a fucking, uh, uh, an independent, strong-willed person that's not going to go out into the world and try to just

rely on men to be the basis of her identity and her value. Like, that's one of the most important things that I really want to, like, get across to my kid, if nothing else, throughout the course of her life. You are not what a man thinks you are. You are whatever the fuck. You want to be, and it doesn't matter what these dudes think of you, you know? Like, you define what you are. Don't let some fucking guy be the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, you want to be the, the,

the one who gets to tell you what your worth is. And it seems like you're like incredibly happy to just let men define your entire existence. Like your existence is the is the culmination of how much shit all these different guys have bought you. I really wouldn't say that because I'm the one who defines it because I'm the one who makes the rules. I'm the one who finds the men to pay for my stuff. You know what I mean? So I don't want to be disrespectful. But yeah, I'm not going to say that.

Forget it. but it wasn't disrespect towards you but I mean towards my personal yeah but yeah I feel like that isn't the case with me I feel like I'm still independent I'm just because I if you can't get it for me

he will and if he won't get it for me he will so what if you just got it yourself what if you like I do get it myself what if you took your time and your life and based it on you know earning enough money to have the things you want and buying it for yourself and a lot of women see the value in that that's true But I feel like I have a skill, you know, I have the luck and I have a skill and I can get things that is like, you know what I mean?

Some people wouldn't consider that. Shippers would consider it a job or bartenders or people who work in nightlife would probably understand me more. But I consider, you know, men to basically work for me, like work and help me. And don't get me wrong. I mean, hey, it's a good hustle if you can get it. I just don't think it's good for society as a whole. I think any dude who's engaged in this sort of shit is a total idiot. And I guess I get it that some dudes are so rich that they can just afford to.

So, hey, you know, we all got our hobbies. But then, you know, for women, I would just, I would encourage women to, like, not adopt that mentality because it ultimately is you treating yourself like a second-class citizen. No man's ever going to fully respect you if you're getting by in life like that. Do you think women feel respected now when men finesse them out of pussy? like when men talk to them and fuck them. Because at the end of the day, like when, if someone engages in sex, like, you're in my body. You know what I mean?

It's so different. And you know, everybody knows it's different. Sex is different for a man than for a woman. I'm sure. The standards are even different if a woman has sex with a lot of men versus a man having sex with a lot of women. Right. So, and a man even looks hotter or he's more in the field and it's more like competitive

for him to have sex with a lot of women. Like more women want a man who's like wanted by other women. More men don't want women who have sex with a lot of men. I mean, yeah, yeah, that makes sense. Yeah. You know what I mean? So your value goes down. So to me, it's like, I just, yeah, I forgot what the fuck I was going to say.

Kevin Samuel is, like, one, like, big theme with his shit is that he talks to a lot of women who just one day wake up and they realize, like, oh, fuck, I'm 35. I'm not hot anymore. All these ballplayers and rappers don't want to fuck with me anymore. Now I want to be in a relationship, but all the kind of guys that they want to be with basically aren't around to service the type of. relationship that they're trying to be in. Not that that happens to every 35 year woman, but it happens to a lot of them as their youth sort of fades and they're considered less desirable on the marketplace. And a lot of these women end up on Kevin Samuel's show and no offense, I could kind of kind of see you having a different kind of conversation with Kevin

Samuel's at like 40. Don't you think you're just going to end up at a point where it's like, oh, fuck, guys don't want to buy me anything anymore. I wasted all the years that I could have been spending trying to get into an actual healthy relationship. And now I'm just fuck. Now I'm old and I'm withered and nobody wants me. If you talk to women that even have a very independent mindset, they have issues finding men, period, for relationship material. You know what I mean? If you talk to women, because I speak to a lot of them all the time,

they're in my DMs, they want to know how to find a man who's going to splurge on them while they're in this stage. You know what I mean? Women, it's hard to find a man, period. You know what I mean? It's hard to find a man to settle down with, period, no matter what your mindset is. So there are women who are totally independent. work, have careers and everything. And a lot of the times women who have a lot of money and full

careers have even, it's even harder for them to find a man to, you know what I mean, get into a relationship with them. Yeah, but okay. Do you agree with that? Yes or no? Do I agree that it's hard to get into a relationship because a lot of guys are just not interested in committing and getting into a serious relationship? Sure. And do you also believe, do you also agree with women who may make a lot of money, it's even harder for them to find a man to settle down with? I think it might be harder in the sense that if you're a hardworking person who's earning a lot of money, then you probably are working a lot. Like most high earners also spend a shitload of time in the office working on whatever they're

working on. I know that that's true for me. If I was single right now, my dating life would not be as great as it might be for like a 21-year-old dude who just doesn't have that many responsibilities because the reality is that I'm working all the time and that's why I'm in the position that I'm in. But yeah, my advice to women would be go out and start your own. career, go out and build your own thing because then you're going to have guys who actually respect you and your mind and that business that you've built, that money that you've earned

as if anything, that's going to be the thing that actually makes a man respect you enough to want to form a relationship with you. If my girl hadn't actually like seized upon the opportunity that she had and made a lot out of herself, then yeah, I could totally see myself of being less attracted to being a relationship with her. I consider her my equal because of the fact that she's, you know, gotten to this point business-wise, not just because she's hotter, just because she, you know, is good at sucking dick or whatever.

Mm-hmm. But that's rare, you know what I mean? What you're saying, what you're saying is a very rare case. There are women who make a shitload of money and they can't find a man, period. You know what I mean? I think that women, while you're young, get what you can out of these men.

I feel like you should still build your career. You know, I have two Airbnbs. I sell designer clothes. I do other things other than, you know, get bred from niggas. You know what I mean? I think that you should still do that, but you should find the men who are going to assist you in meeting your career goals. You know what I mean?

There are men out there that want to help women. That's my point. Want to relieve your stress. Want to help women, like, period. Especially if you have ambition, especially if you have intelligence, especially if you plan ongoing places. I think that, if anything, I'm glad that we had this conversation because you've made me realize that I now have a new purpose.

in life, which is to convince men to stop tricking on girls. You can still buy my girls only fans, that's fine. But in terms of like all this, buying them, apartments and cars and shit, like, I just want to spread the gospel of not spending money

on girls. It doesn't make any sense. So you're telling one man not to get a car, but you're saying it's okay for a hundred men to give the cumulative amount of money for her to then get a car. Well, I believe in supporting content creators,

and OnlyFans content is, you know, it's content. Okay. So if you want to spend five bucks on the Patreon, you want to spend five bucks on OnlyFans, I totally understand. That's one thing. $5 a month, you know, like, because, you know, when I was young,

we used to go buy porno magazines. Like, we used to go to fucking Canada and buy porno magazines because we couldn't do it when we were like 15, you know? So you don't believe spending money on vibes. Like people who are good vibes, people who are going places,

people who you believe in, people who you like, you know, That doesn't... As a guy who got a lot of pussy my whole life without having to pay for it, yeah, that is really, really forward to me. Yeah, you have pretty privilege.

I told you that already. I don't think that was. You have blue eyes, I'm saying? You have the hair, the beard. Did you see the girl that went viral on YouTube for this one African American girl and she has all these videos that been going viral about how she doesn't have pretty privilege? No.

What is she saying? What is she saying? Basically just talking about how, I mean, it was really informative to me because I've never really heard a girl talk about what it's like. to be basically considered unattractive by the massive majority of men. And she talked about how, like, she'll walk into a restaurant. And for the record, I mean, it's not my opinion that she's not attractive. I would, you know, she's not great looking, I guess you could say.

But she talks about how she'll walk into a club and she'll see a little cluster of dudes and they'll all glance at her and they'll just look away right away because they just, you know, immediately they're biological trained to not give a fuck about her. And I know that that exists all the time with me and my friends. Like, I've seen that happen where a girl walked by, nobody looks at her. A girl walks by, she's bad as fuck. Everybody, uh, they all are like trying to think of something to say. I thought men were like that with every woman, just because you're just like a walking pussy anyway.

Like, I just figured that because that was my experience since 13, 14 years old. I've always, you know. But there's ugly girls out there. But I just, I never, I don't, I've never thought about the attention being different. You know what I mean? Because I'm just going to say, I've had a little bit of surgery. You know, I'm just going to say, I've had a little bit of surgery. You know, I wasn't always this cute.

And I still always got the same attention. Like, I still always got, you know what I mean? I still, I wouldn't say I was ugly, but, you know, I wouldn't say I was like the prettiest one in the room. You know what I mean? But it's energy, too. It's confidence. Like, if you carry yourself with your head high, you have value, you feel like you have worth. Even if nobody else sees it, eventually you're going to bring that to you.

You know what I mean? There's men that like fat bitches. There's men that like all types of girls. So it's not like you have to be a certain type to get what you want. You just have to hold yourself to that standard. You should check out this video about pretty privileged from this one girl because I mean she makes it sound like guys are just not interested in her like that and I mean to me she doesn't look like the worst looking girl on earth but she's definitely not like way above

average looking either um because I would agree with you because like I've definitely had like less attractive friends who fucked all kinds of girls that I wouldn't personally want to sleep with and I thought oh well that's good somebody for everybody you know yeah uh I'm sure they're like you know those girls that I've slept with my life or been into that, you know, maybe even some of my friends didn't think were attractive or whatever. And, you know, that's totally fine. Like, people meet in the middle based on, like, their attributes, I guess, quite often. But, I mean, yeah, you are definitely privileged in that regard,

because I'm sure even without the surgery and stuff, you probably still, it's pretty decent. I mean, if you had guys buying your fucking phones and shit at 13. And shopping, I mean, that says something. So much, everything, all the time. Anything I wanted rides for me and my friends. Don't buy a 13-year-old girl a phone. He was probably like 17.

It wasn't like he was like so much older than me. Still weird. You know what I mean? He was a little older, but it wasn't like he was like an old man. Right. The 40-year-old buying the 13-year-old of phone sounds like actually crazy. That'd be scary.

Yeah. No, I've never had nothing like that. No, because I have memories when I was, you know, 12, 13 when I first started junior high, that there would be dudes driving up to pick up like the attractive girls in my age, the 13 year old girls that we all thought were hot when we were 13, the hottest girls in my school would have dudes who were clearly like 18 driving to school

and picking them up. And I do remember like, what's weird is that we didn't think it was creepy. I don't think that that thought ever really like entered my mind. I just thought it was like oh. You thought they were cool. Come on, let's know. I don't know that I even really thought about the dudes as being cool

but I thought that like, oh, the girls must be really high value if they have these older dudes with cars trying to fuck with them and sort of feeling like, oh, fuck, I can't compete with that. I'm not going to have a car for like four years. And I feel like that's what these guys who are commenting all over negative things. I think that's where it's coming from. You know, they're feeling like, damn, I can't compete with that. Even the women, they're feeling like, there are girls that are hitting me up and they're all for this. You look at their page and they're, you know,

average or pretty girls. And then there are girls who are talking shit and they're fat, you know, respectfully. I'm not going into anybody, but I'm just saying. So it's, I think that the people that are talking negatively, I think it comes from that space where they're looking at this and they're like, damn, I can't compete with that. Damn, if a lot of women think like this, who am I going to fuck? Right. Because you're defining this like landscape where it's just like young, attractive women and then old rich men and then older women are completely left out of it or like not super attractive women are left out of it. And then like dudes who haven't managed to either be like beautiful or made a shitload of money, they're all left out of it too. And then they can just date each other.

the fat and the ugly and the broke the young broke dudes and the old ugly women exactly this is not good for society we don't want those people having sex with each other survival of the fittest yeah I guess that is kind of what it is huh what are you planning on doing with all this

energy around you like you know doing all these podcasts and stuff it's kind of like at a certain point you're going to like run out of shows to go on or whatever I mean so I Heart Radio had contacted me about doing my own podcast so we're thinking about that and having that in the works. The party also starts in August

sugar social.com where we're going to have sugar babies and we're vetting these men heavily with making sure that they are who they say they are. They have the money that they say they have to splurge on you if you come to this party. I really hope some broke dudes sneak in there and pretend to be billionaires.

We've never had that issue. We have 10,000 guys on our list and they've all been, they're all very good guys. I feel so much more anti-simp than I ever felt before in my life now. Anti-meaning against. Yes. Yeah, that's what anti-means. But, like, why?

Because I just think it's bad for society. I think it's bad for men. I think it's good for a very small sliver of women. I think it's bad for all the other women. Well, then the people that don't stand in that, you know, they can just be with one another. So the girls who get with the program and it works for them and the guys who can afford to play the game, they can all be together, which is what it should be. Yes.

Okay, so you might do a podcast. Yeah, doing that. We're also in talks about doing a pipe. As soon as I get back a pilot for a reality show, I've had like two people hit me up to be in like indie movies, which they want me to be in like starting next month. So I've been like going over the lines for that. I mean, a lot of tons of opportunity has come out of this.

You know what I mean? This isn't the first time I've gone viral, like I said. This is the first time I've gone viral for speaking. But I've always had, you know, been in the circle and had like opportunity. and I've always, like, you know, created them out of the spaces that I've been in. Respect. There's a lot of money to be made. Yes, let's do it.

You have any ideas for me? Not so much. Probably nothing that you haven't already thought of. And maybe music. So initially when I first... That is not my idea, yeah. Yeah, maybe music, you know? No.

I'm going to do some city girl, hot girl. The world does not be more of that. A ton of that. The world has way too much city girl vibes already. How about finesse girl? I mean like hot girl, finesse girl The only finesseer I respect is Young Scooter Who's that? What does he done?

Great man. You should go visit him in Atlanta. He's a man who finesses? He finesses the plug. What? I don't get it. And you're for that? I'm for Young Scooter robbing drug dealers, yes. Okay. Okay.

I guess, and you're for men robbing girls out of their pussy without giving them anything to? No, I'm for consensual, agreements on sex between people where they have the same objective going into it. Whatever, really, whatever you want to do as long as you guys are both on the same page, I respect it. I just want to also encourage men, this is not how you want to live your life. Let's be real.

Men get more out of sex than women most of the time. Most of the time. If you ask a girl, how many times have you actually came off a fucking in the 15, 20 minutes? I think men get more out of that exchange. Yeah. You ask me most of the time. Yeah. I mean, when you meet girls who are like really, like, and this is a side note, but

I feel like so much of like how a woman's life ends up is sort of based on how much she enjoys sex. Because a lot of the porn star girls I know or whatever, the thing that stands out to me is they have huge sexual appetites and they love fucking. Like they're, they have like a large clitoris on average. So they like get a lot more out of sex. sex and as a result they basically behave like dudes which hey respect to them for that but a lot of women aren't like that i've known so many do you like that that's cool you're for that right i've known

so many girls in my life who basically like barely enjoy sex so as a result what do they do they get into a fucking long-term relationship that's not really based on sex and that's sort of and then they get fat and then yeah but then the girls i know who just love sex end up having a fuckload of sex partners and their life is sort of colored by that but it's It's just very weird to think that your personality is almost, or like, how you end up in your life is almost kind of like dictated by the size of your clit. Really? Or how much you enjoy sex, but yeah, like the size of the clit is kind of determinative of that, I think. I didn't know that.

I mean, I like to masturbate a lot. I think I have a high sex drive. If I do have sex with a guy, we're going to go like five times, especially in the beginning, you know, five times a day type of stuff. But I'm not into having most, like many partners. I don't believe in sharing myself with a lot of people. I just don't feel like for myself, you know, I'm a woman, I get clingy, I get attached. I respect that.

I fuck a guy, you're my man. That sounds very human of you right there, which is nice. Because a lot of this, you kind of sound like a robotic, like, sex, like a sex robot who's been trained to exert money out of men. Yeah, but which is why I don't give sex for money, because, or sex has nothing to do with anything that I talk about. You know what I mean? I straight talk about getting stuff.

that I want period for nothing in exchange, for conversation, for time spent, for energy, for, you know what I mean, vibes. I don't talk about anything that has to do with fucking. I believe that you should, you know, respect your temple. Like, I don't think that you should just be out here having one night. I've never had a one night stand. I don't think that you should just be out here having one night stands. I feel like for a woman, it's bad.

Men are built differently. And if you have sex with a man that has sex with multiple women unprotected, you're going to know. You know what I mean? Like, you're going to feel it. Like, just by you having sex with that man. I've been in relationships with men where I have sex with that. Like, I fuck them. They're my man.

But let's say they're out there fucking mad bitches. And I don't know. My energy is just off. You know what I mean? Like, I just get crazy or weird. I don't know. It just feels like I know you're fucking other people. It's almost like you want to be in a relationship.

Like a traditional relationship. I'm definitely a relationship girl with a guy who, you know, caters to the things that I like. Well, hey, simps. I want to hear from the simps in the comments more than anything. We love you. Us women love you. We need more of you.

You men that don't like to take. care of women, y'all can go be with each other. Yes. Period. For sure. Blue Jazz. No jumper. Coolest podcast in world. Check us out on YouTube and Patreon. What are you saying? Oh, and the producers on the screen right now. These are the people who are subscribed to the $25 tier of the Patreon. There's no sex involved. If you sign up for the Patreon, just your name at the end here and some other stuff. Check it on Patreon.com slash no jumper.

I miss my old outro. I got to smooth this one out, so it sounds less. ridiculous. But you can definitely see all kinds of videos of Blue Jasmine in various states of undress on our Patreon. Undressed? Just kidding. Appreciate y'all. Bye y'all.