Claudia Fontaine
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05:33 It's a few years. You've worked with these adults. Is there a changement particular that you've seen in the ados there's 16 years versus those of today? Today, what I'm what I hear about they're going to remit more than a proff do something
05:46 so they're going to more call your bullshit, let's say, so if I did what if I do you do whatever, they've got to be really. And I've, you know, I've got to be the trauma sexual in my life after that.
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06:37 the discourse masculineist in this moment? Today, our podcast, we're with Claudia Fontaine, educators, specialised, interminant, psychosocial for more than six Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. To be with us.
07:16 All right. But, see, the difference with us when we were ad-a-toe and also, perhaps, our own, our own, because of what it will have been able to be. So, thank you, Claudia, to be there. Thank you, ma'am for everybody. It's very exciting. It's very exciting for us, for us. Do you know, want to talk a bit of your parkour, before we're going to be in the adolescents? Yeah. Yeah.
07:38 It's, it's, it's, it's, like we said, like, a little bit more than six years, that I've been in intervention psychosocial, education specialised. I've worked majoritably with
07:48 with these adults, not just that. I've done it, I've done it, I've done a lot, I've done, a lot, but the majority of my experience,
07:54 it's with these adults, especially, guys, in plus, it has done it really, it's not time that I've chosen that I'm working
08:01 in a house, and I've been a lot, so it's a lot more more, like that, and I like really really,
08:06 this clientele are challenging, and I'm sorry, he's got to get a seat at your chair, yeah,
08:12 it's a action. Yeah, it's a energy's very, so much, but I'm very much,
08:17 I'm going to do that I'm doing for a lot of I'm doing to talk a little, but develop
08:22 the atollies, and to come, the out of the intervention individual adult, I like that
08:29 do the guidance parental, but what I like, what you can do the It's a time a period key
08:34 of the development. The server is trying to to be developed but they're quite quite very much, they're
08:39 to get some to get some these concepts, of the way, and the people, super out of so I think
08:46 it's a beautiful moment and it's a real money and then of the richest for the... It's there
08:52 that you have to intervene, more than, and to, and to all all the adults who are,
08:57 who are, I'm going to skip, no, skip it, not because it can be be very good good advice.
09:04 Of what I'm there's a good good advice for us as the adults. Really? Who have not who have been
09:08 that education that not not really. It's not exactly. It's just it's not not used an education
09:14 with the sexuality very far. I think we're probably in the same generation and it's clear that we can't that's probably
09:23 that's even the people even even the people that I'm like that I'm that can't be able to the age adult
09:29 even if we not received certain education, it's, it's, it's a part of my work, I'm, you know, I'm doing, you know, I'm interested, you know, something that's
09:37 people who's people who are in fact it's a clientele, to get to be used many people who blockage, of the anxiety, of the problems relational, so it's,
09:48 it has a lot of impact, but all, but all can come to, all over, and after that, it can be coming to talk about,
09:55 it, it can't talk about, for what we're what we're, what, what we're there, and what's there, there are a lot of jankists,
10:01 the masculinism, and all that. So it's a, it's a, it's true, it's true, to respond to these issues
10:08 that. Is that you, you can you know talk to be, well, each intervenant, all the people
10:14 who aid the people, it's often the people, who have had been, and you've talked a little bit
10:19 to your interview, of something that you have been if you've been a sure,
10:25 and is, is it has a line with why you why you're there's, it's, it's certainly
10:30 that me It's not really to do you know, it's it comes to fact that when I'm more young, you know, like, many people of my generation, I've not had an education at the sexuality, really. You know, it's a very taboo.
10:41 We don't know the time, and I think that's because my parents have not received that. My parents have grown in a world agricultural. There's a few generations of that. So I think that it's, well, it's a, well, it's
10:52 there's a lot, so, so, so there's a lot of things that the people who don't know how to talk about it. It's uncomfortable, when you're not made to show how about a subject who is in society
11:00 a bit taboo and a bit sensitive that, after that, I mean, at my sense, to me, would have not it be, because it's my mother, I'm always said, why don't you, you talk to the sexuality like the knee in your face?
11:11 It's often said that, and I said, like, yeah, but all the one has a , all the whole of sexuality. So, in my head, it's why it would be so, you know,
11:19 cached than that, even, to be the problem, so I'm like, I'm, like, all the time, I'm trying to I've gotten to get into
11:25 that, oh, but if we're not, it's it's not, he's not, you know,
11:31 obviously, when you're not to be in sexuality, you do you have any different of course of
11:37 , you know, I can't, I can't talk about, but what's that's a time you're to get to
11:42 a minute, you're in a bit of there's, there's, there's, there's some people,
11:47 that in a many, and in they're in having, they're in the time,
11:51 it's something, I've got, access to where they were they're going to to be able to I'm not I'm not asking a
11:57 question, but he came to get to be able to me to talk and I'm making it's there's many people
12:02 I'm made you know to do you with the education to the sexuality but at the intimacy, at the relation
12:10 or to our emotions, there are many of today are not as even not as as far as
12:16 as important taboo, sensible and yet it of the law of the couple, plenty of problems that we have.
12:23 So I think it's super important to it's quite a mix of my experience and of the gross good sense I think,
12:29 and of what I observe again today. Okay. And we can not say, but it's for that I said
12:38 Oh, you know, that's really but I'm very much I think, I've had a
12:44 general misconduct, that, okay, okay, so, so it's not it's not a
12:48 it's not a point, we're not to have to be there We're going to talk about. We'd say that I'd about that. A kind of what?
12:57 Genese. Yeah. I'm going to put it. Okay, I'll remit. Okay, I'm going to remit. And then, yeah, it's just, oh, but you just do you just add to your, and then, and then, I'd say, ah, in plus, like that.
13:06 We're saying how much, it's important, that. But, yeah, it's important. I've been to, you know, when we say, about to telephone, in the, in the phone, because in the at the atollies that I want to want to do,
13:17 or in the tools to give to give to do those intervenants and the young, there, yes, the education, to the intimacy,
13:22 the relations, and all of course, there's also, there's a part of preparation to your health sexual, so, a,
13:28 a test gynecological, I don't know if I'm not, if I was ever ever talking about, it was a
13:33 question, so, we had been on fire one. And I didn't know what, I was going to see what, when I was
13:40 asked, my my mother had me asked, my mother, had me, had me, if I wanted to start to get to start with a pillule,
13:43 and I was in fact we're saying, you know, it's a regular the psych menstrual, and eventually when you come to have a life sexual, you know,
13:51 we're going to, I'm going to do, well, I'm going to go to my medicine, who's, who is, in a little village, so I'm going to,
13:59 and I'm going to, and I never, never, person who has , never, never person who had the medicine, that I was going to
14:06 ask, so, in fact, I'm just, you know, well, we're just, you know, we're going to make the
14:11 , no clue. No clue. No clue. Not what, this is what, this is what I'm going to be able to
14:17 see? Rye, nothing, I'm really, I'm really really trying to get really, it's really a problem, and I'm asking
14:25 because on the cause when person you say nothing, and it's a normal, you think it's you're the problem, it's, you
14:30 see that, it's so, you're just, because we're just, I'm going to make the genecology I'm okay
14:35 I'm not so I'm not what I'm, I'm trying, I'm 13 years, I think, I'm trying, I'm really,
14:39 I'm really young. So I say I'm not. The medicine is like a figure of authority. I let us
14:45 to do it to do you. I'm going to I'm sorry. I'm sorry. My God, I'm done and I'm finished
14:52 and I'm like perfect. I'm going to do you're like a prescription. I'm like, I'm sorry really because
14:58 I said like my question but what's that's coming to me come to be it's very intrusive that you
15:01 get to an entic and I'm I'm sorry my parents And then I'm like, I'm like, that's the same,
15:13 so I think, I said, like, you know, that's what I'm gonna have to be, and then I'm saying, then I'm saying, well, you're like,
15:20 you know, you're trying. You know, 0-7-10, but, you know, is that they don't have been made to explain
15:27 to the medicine? Is it, I don't have not yet, we've got to not even know how they've got,
15:31 they've been they've been they've been they're doing, she'll be accompanied at the hospital, she said,
15:38 she said, she has due be prepared to that. There's a problem of communication. And I think
15:42 today the medians are a little more conscientized to be able to get to get a good, but it's clear
15:49 that it's that I'm doing a, you I'm, just to today, I've not past a
15:55 a past a crisis of panic. It's never arrived, I've really have a misery.
16:00 And if I have always said, I've been I'm not I'm not having that, you know,
16:03 I've came even I've lived of sexual in my life after that so I'm
16:06 doing that on the do of the dog of sexual other, in fact, that I had with my
16:10 exes of my gynaicological I'm not the first when I'm the first of the first, so I'm in
16:16 the processus and the births and that has been the family with that I've made
16:21 a cazerian of convenance at cause of that because he ran to my grossage
16:26 my my groseh it's not if you're obliged to go all the all right
16:29 yeah it's that it's it's so it's like, I'm going to be able to do with a lot of things, you know, but, you know, it's a really been a good moment, that's, like, that, I've seen that very positive. At least, I had the impression of fail, a little, to not be, like, capable of accouching, like,
16:46 on the other, on, but, today, I see more so, like, I, I've reprieed the power for a one time, I've decided what I wanted. And the team medical has been, like, merveilleuse, like, when I'd say, if we could, say, is, can't talk, to say, is, if we're, he said, with pleasure,
17:01 well, you know, and he was accompanied and it's been a couple of a couple of and I'm in my own,
17:08 I'm afraid of my time, I'm going to, it's a reale and it's really really good, so it's really really good, so it's really
17:14 but I'm still at the moment, I'm trying to make it, with that, and I, see, I'm, you know,
17:20 a psychologist, because it's does it do do well, and he, he made to really to make the with this
17:26 first experience, that at what's that, in the fact, who has left some of the trace as if I'm
17:32 at the dentist or at the hospital, if I'm on a table medical, with the light,
17:37 I panic, red. Yeah, I'm not able to just be able to be able to be but just to be able to
17:44 an ambiance of hospital, the air, now today it's more because there I've been to see a
17:50 type of an sort of hypnotherapy for calm that, ah, it's been it's actually
17:55 today, I've not not yet I've not not yet, Today, I'm imagine it's going, and I think that it's probably not the
18:03 most beautiful day of my life, but it's not panicking. Yeah, okay. And then it's, because even, during my grossest, I'm saying, I'd say, well, I'm sure
18:09 on, I've been trying to see a suffice, a woman, for having a lot of, and even with the , the few, the people, you know, I've been able to
18:18 have been able to find a past, complete, but, you know, I'm saying, because if there's there's something, we're saying,
18:24 yeah, you say, you say, you say, that's certainly more worse,
18:28 but with the new restrictions that's the 15 minutes, like these blocks of 15 minutes, I'd
18:35 would not at a point of that's more not because the medicine, but at cause of the time that
18:39 we've been, in fact, we're, in timey, so the infant, the adolescent who will
18:46 live that for the first, I imagine really that it's really flat for that.
18:50 I hope that you there's something of a other. But, thank
18:54 to have to be talking because it's, it's just it's just making it's not that they're going to be
19:01 the work we're doing, because at the clinic, it's not, it's not, it's not well, I'm,
19:08 clearly I'll do it. It's sure, if you go in a rendezvous, effectively, I think probably
19:12 that you're probably that's to try to get to come to be in a telegology now, so it could,
19:20 that it could, that's, that could be, that the parent, or, that's, who is there and who can't the time to explain the
19:26 things that going to be to say, you know, to know the to say no, you know the to put the
19:32 question, and I'm going to the time, I'm going to get to get to the medication, I encourage really to ask
19:38 to ask the questions, you know, it's not because the medicine he's said, that's not,
19:42 you know, to do you have the right to questioner, you, you, have the word to to say, you have the right
19:48 to understand why he's doing this medicine, so, you know, to say, now when I go to
19:52 when I'm going to to happen, I'm a little accident of auto and you know, I'm going to get to come, we're going to be like,
20:00 you're like, well, you're going to me say exactly what what's going to be before we're doing, we're doing, it's not going to but, if you
20:06 can't get to my leash, that's true, because I had like a car car but there's really just preventive but you're like
20:12 he's like we have to get the thing, it's just it's before I'm having to before I'm before I'm capote a little
20:18 I'm like, okay, whoa, So, that, an ado would have the right to say, hey, I don't, I'm not being informed, you can
20:23 you know what's when you're doing a kid, you're not the reflex, to demand that, you know, so, from the point we can
20:29 have a sensibilization a bit of the people, you can't, you know, can you, have you been, to put up,
20:34 to be informed, is, you know, is it to be able to do you know that to explain the time to tell to come to
20:42 and offer the moment where we will let's talk the first time, and offer, met, on the
20:50 parents' you'd like to be you know, I'm I'm doing my service, and there's plenty of other who do you do remember me, we're in jazes
20:58 and we'll be able to do that's not, you know, you're sure, you'd want to go and you're going to be able to be but you're not
21:06 and it's correct. Repren the control and he returns and then you're back to be more pre, it's important that we're making much
21:14 pressure in the time like there's the health and it's like conditional to have the contraception. You'd absolutely
21:19 to do you face the test complete. Now you can demand a part of the test of you can do you do you can't do you can't
21:26 try a little little prelavement by cotton. You can't you know that you want the more of an intrusion possible if you
21:33 will be they're going to make it but you know, but you know, person has seen even the
21:40 savarianne I'm sure I'm sorry if you're not an urgence they cut the babette he trance the
21:45 round the there's not there's not They'll cut the bobbed with a grizzal, he runs the nune, well, they're very clearty. He's super-sun. It's super-traum. It's not very, you know,
21:55 and this is something that in the co-prinato. My co-prin-ato, I'm not trying to be to see that. We've got a lot of, you know, and I was going to be able to, and I was really, but if you were in cesarene, is, you can make me explain what? It's true. It's a-pute.
22:10 And he'd also the boot, and that's a other thing, but I want really met on place at the autumn, you know, the atliette-chremer, I'll come at home Mott of Mott of
22:19 because you Pongue to come in two minute when you when you're in a year?
22:23 It's how many years? Six years after after? I'm two weeks two months.
22:27 Two weeks. Two months. Yeah, yeah, but who starts after six years.
22:30 Yeah, it's that's like your life, like that's it's weird and we're we're not, we know, we're
22:37 we're just too, we're just so yeah, we're just exactly. It's not a depression
22:40 postparto but you you think it you're you're making you're It's correct. You know,
22:48 I'm sorry to do, you know, you know, you know, or you're correct? Well, I'm at you know, you know,
22:53 that's a lot of a drop hormonal, but I'm also, I'm saying, okay, that's, it's so,
22:57 it's so it's that's not, you say, that's not that's ever when you know, that's the that's the end of
23:02 that you can't be to be a , yeah, yeah, yeah, you think to be 100% to that,
23:07 and you're not to be able to to be able to sometimes, you know, sometimes, will be going to be like, and then you're like, wait, you've got to have been, you
23:15 have to have a drop of hormone, I'd have to be put you to get into a carmion, I'd say, you'd say, you'd say, and I'd say, and I'm someone who's someone who's, so, I've been prepared so, I've got, like, I've been getting, like, I've got, like, someone, that's been, but someone who's not,
23:29 who's not, who, you know, who has been, you know, who, I'll go, , who, I'll go, who, I'm gonna, make, you know, a list of resources of your region, but, make that's a fridge, avant, , like, in the moment, you'll have
23:41 want to be to pitch to be in a truck, you're up, and you have your resources are written to do the fridge. You don't have to do you have to
23:45 do you know to do you're telling really very much and say, and say, you're having to say, you know, to have been to
23:55 know, to say, that you will panic, probably when your baby will have a little point in a shoe. It's going to be able to
24:02 be at 8-1 and they're saying, observe, and then you're in tabarnack. Because, like, you want, but I'm going to
24:07 say, but, you know, observe, but, well, That's what I'm saying, it's like you're going to be You're going to be
24:13 Your Live. You've got to look at your your life, yeah, you know, you're 100 million of pages, yeah, the little BIP, the mode of employment, it's the mode of,
24:22 I'm not, I'm not, but it's really practical. Yeah, but you know, but you know, you know, but you don't respond, yeah, I'd like, yeah, I'd like,
24:31 I'd like, some one-on-one, the base, yeah, yeah, really, really, but I, but I'm,
24:35 yeah, I'm, They can't they're just a few time, and we we're able to she, she,
24:41 she said, she, she's like, she's like, oh, she's like, but I'm like, yeah, you know, but you're in
24:46 your mom so you're like, I'm, I'm, yeah, I'm, I'm, but I'm gonna be ready,
24:51 it's terrible, that, so, that's something that's something, that's a thing, that's a
24:57 kind of, a place, that, and you call, that you're not to have access to to a churn, for a reason,
25:02 for a, and you can't to call the 8-1. All the people can't call the 8-1. It's just that's long and to have
25:06 someone who's a little bit and who's not, you know, I'm not a but it's really not to be prepared to return to the
25:13 house and having someone like, I'm supposed to do you do that? And it's not that's not that I'm
25:19 that's always, it's not, like that's it's going to like, I'm like, I'm call me, I'm,
25:24 I'm called who, I'm playing my Satch Furn and she's like, I'm saying, I'm just I'm just, I'm just I'm
25:29 need. I'm going to do you. I did what? I'm doing, you know, it's already that you've been pre-the-telead, you know, there's a lot of people who are even not the force to bring the telephone. 100%. And it's false. The fact that, you're doing, you're in charge, and that the second
25:45 where the baby is out of, you know, you're left, to yourself, bed. Yeah, it's really... You're supposed to know, and it's quite, it's like part of the preparation pre-natal, that, the, I arrive to what's the... What's the matter? It would be able to... It's not that I'd be able to... what's what's what's
26:00 he risk of my emotions just them they're going inattance how you can you can't help you know
26:08 to help you know to help you know yeah I'm saying yeah I'm sorry I'd like a yeah I'm sorry I'd say well I think
26:16 well I'm going to go to get at the hospital you're really but you know I was just really just really in my own
26:21 mom we're called everything it's just that's just that the latet mat not quite you know when you're
26:26 you're not you dover so So, you've lived in a You can't be able to You're not Anutil It's a few
26:33 Yeah, I'm You know, I'm It's a person The abuse Inuitile. Clearly, it It's a It's a matter
26:38 So, yeah, I'm able to My wife and my friend, my mom, I'm doing a Bibroo, I'm And I'm And you're like,
26:45 I'm just to give you just to give a break, but I'm So, so, so, I'm full important,
26:51 and I'm just to reprand the power. It's so, reprint the power, and it's to go, and it to be used to the equipment,
26:56 because to reprimed the power, it's, and reprimed the power, it's, to go, we're going to do you know, like, I'm going to do
27:03 it's going to do you and do it, but to go to do it's a lot, it's that that will you're to get to be a physical,
27:10 at the physical, at the level of the health sexual, at the level, to understand to come to your life,
27:17 personal, we're all right, there's all like a little more, that's not a lot, that's not
27:22 is aborted in in the I've done. I've done. I've done to have the time to do you know what to do you do to do you do
27:29 and you're doing to do you know they're all over people who are a bunch of the first they're going to live so, so we've got
27:36 to do you know, we're doing that at the school and recently recently I've been asked a question I've been doing a show of
27:41 my own time to work in a house of young and I'm just and I'm asking the question to young we're we're coming
27:47 to work on the arteliers of relations Limit personal, interaction social, health,
27:54 and what's it's made and what's that's the inters, contraception, psyched menstrual of the
28:03 femme, consentment, it's also so. The hormones. Yeah, he's
28:09 more a bit aspect relational there in. It's to be about it, but not
28:15 much even more. They're perhaps the impression that they have more a need of support,
28:21 I don't know. I think now it's been now they've been to a class, they're a course of their culture, Citoynett, now in the
28:27 school, CQ, and there's these ancient that of what I understand, that would have like the mandate of
28:32 the relations and a little the city people, so all the people who will do you
28:37 do you're doing, so he's, they're talking about the people, they're talking about the consentment,
28:44 they're going to talk about they're talking, they're there's some people to be a lot of
28:48 the prevention of the relations toxic, the cyber defense, the prevention of the aggression sexual also. The Calax
28:53 don't know a lot of that's a lot. And I say, I'm going to get more more than a little ecosystem
29:00 to help people to help you think it's someone who study the people who militants, it's people
29:06 and who come to explain what and avert and avert why you to do it that it's
29:12 someone who can't who gets to on, yes, what I'm what's what I'm
29:16 but how I'm construed that's the now that I know that I'm not that I'm not that's not that I'm
29:21 not that's it's more a little flue there's a little that I'm going to add to what? Before
29:28 to go back the adolescents and the seduction is that what you've used to doctor, your doctor,
29:36 your doctor's, if we're if you're if you're is, is that you see
29:40 with the light that you're received, it's more. It's it's a pre of time, I mean, I mean, I've been
29:48 I've been to say, I'm 35 years, it's a gap it's been really, really, really long, but with the psychotherapy, it's really really
29:55 really good, you can do the physioperenalal in preparation at the acuchement, and I said, we'd say, we'd be,
30:01 would be desensibilized a little bit to get up to the pastime, and I've learned, I've learned that I'm that's when you
30:08 don't know, it's just, I don't know that's it's a fact, just the fact, you know, we're learning
30:13 a lot, but imagine a dog that's some in these first relations sexual and who
30:17 he doesn't not too because he doesn't know to be able to not a lot of but it's important that we're saying
30:23 that's important, that's why it's that it's not it's not it's all in the detail to say that I've been in the
30:30 example of the client that I accompanied, well, because it's confidential but there's there's not
30:36 the client that I've accompanied who have been there's been there's impossible. You know, you're never much,
30:42 quitted this bureau you're you'll be Like that, it's never to be able to, you know, I'm able to surmounting in
30:49 doing the psychotherapy. It's if you know, it's a whole thing, it's a problem, or the blockage or the more experience,
30:56 even if it's not a trauma, it's not a problem, but it's a tranceue, pass an exam, it, it's a question,
31:01 it's not so it can't be it to be able to get to a good, even if you're not a good, even if you're
31:06 to try, to get to the aid, the aid of the validation of the tools and the information
31:09 and I think we We're not going to have a problem before to go to get to get to the aid, and for this
31:15 to get to get, and I'm, when I see at the physiotherapy, you know, that could me desensibilized for these
31:21 examines genealogical on the coup, I was like, well, I'm going to be a bit more to have seen to be
31:27 years, and that's it's been a question, and that I didn't know that I'm if I said, if I'm
31:33 if I'm if I'm probably, probably I'd have seen, but if it's something, it's more
31:38 more discussed, it's more made the way of the in the middle and for the parents, all the world
31:44 would be able to be able to get more to get more to get to get these resources that to get more accessible, and the first, the
32:04 the first time, the first the same thing, that's that's been cuched on a table, and it's been, I've seen, I've seen, I've seen the veil, and You know, I didn't, I had not the gross light, I was, I was overreleve, a little bit, and, you know, she, she, she, she, she, she, she'd be,
32:16 and she'd say, like, I'm going to enter a little, and then, and we'll rest there, and, and we're jazze. But, can't... For you, to have made the move, to go, and, you know, it? Yeah, but... Yeah, but, I think it's the accruciment,
32:31 that he made, like, because, we're, we're not, maybe I'd have been done to be, but, it's like, essentially something that's going to be something that's going to I'd have to find that
32:40 so it's a question, it's a lot of, the same I'm asking to get to to get to so,
32:47 so it's really cool. And it's someone who's just it's a person who it's that's a question,
32:53 I've got to that's a much of that's a bit of not saying, I'm saying, there are many there are many of
32:58 people who have some who know that's not and they're not that's all, I'm sorry,
33:03 but it's not that's not during you're a problem, it's not normal, it's, You know, it's that. And there was also,
33:09 when you have to, when you're in, you know, you're in in the bin, and you're in the water that's in the room, and that's that rest, like,
33:16 I just a problem that, I'm foie yale, like, but the water, a little by the few, so I'm,
33:22 so, so, so, I'm gonna, that's, so, I'm gonna, yeah, so, I'm gonna maybe, and it's,
33:28 yeah, but it's not normal, that. It's not normal, that. But, you just just, just,
33:32 you just, you just, you're just, respond that like, like, all the chill,
33:36 but it's not chill, I'm going to my time that's a time to do you. That's not correct.
33:42 It's correct. It's not never that can't tell you, it's not that you're in a
33:46 place, that's, it's a day, it's not normal, it's not normal,
33:50 but it's normal, but it's normal in the car, that's a try, it's that's so,
33:58 it's true, that's so, yeah, there's a question that I'm really to ask you to ask,
34:02 because that's But I'm going to go to these adolescents I'm sorry It's going to It's a It's a few
34:08 Is it? Is there a change particular that's a particular that you've seen in the
34:14 adult of the year versus those of something of something of a markant?
34:20 Or it's all the same thing. The context in the context in a context of a context
34:27 that's sure that I'm access all the whole time to their real personality I think in class
34:31 it change because they are in a relation of authority. What I observe, is that when I've started, often the young at the end-
34:40 would be to be able to be able to be maybe, it's even not to contested, it's remit in question.
34:48 And the affair is that I see that relatively positive when it's made in the respect and it's something that I
34:53 always always always I'm always you have a million of life, we have a if you find
34:58 a reason, we'll try it's we're not, and we're I'm going to change the reg. It's just it's not
35:03 true. It's really correct. I'm always encouraged the, we're going to get these guidelines of life for the
35:09 best of all. I'm not the authority supreme. I'm there for your security and can't because you're being more than you
35:15 have a minor than I'm ready to the end up and we're going to be able to get to equal to she's always
35:22 I've always I think that when you're important because when you're doing you're doing you're due respect for the people
35:28 but you do not what you're doing without never to remet in question because it it will be in some
35:32 where you'd have to you'd have to say no, maybe you'd have to think you're doing before you're doing and you're important that you're doing, and you're doing
35:40 when I'm doing this when I'm doing when you do you develop your question, so I'm in a caro and that's it's a debate and that's just
35:49 that's what I'm saying, it's like and then the people are like, oh, they're excited I'm like, no, no, but he talks to do you
35:56 they're perfect, they're terrified, they're like, no, but she's not no, but it's not it's perfect, it's perfect, that we're what we're
36:02 we're going to they're going to they're trying, we're going to they're going to they're doing so they're going to be able to
36:07 in the time they're doing when a proff do something, they're going to call your bullshit let's talk, so if I
36:16 do you know that's what in a hotel they're saying really, but it's a point, yeah, oh, yeah,
36:20 but they're very much but they're going to say, they're not they're generally more respectful by the fact
36:26 that I'm but I'm I'm just just got to remassed oh, yeah, and on
36:31 of these things that even if, at least the young me bring to a point that there's a point,
36:34 I know, I know that's a back in the you know, you're doing that, and you're to know,
36:41 that's a thing that's, the brain, it's not finished, uh, that's a thing, so, my job,
36:46 is to be to be there and you're going to do the info for that you continue to to make sure,
36:51 to make sure, but I'm to come to when I'm when I'm when I'm only, if I'm not
36:57 the young who's, you do you know, you'd to do that and not that, essentially, I'll have to listen to
37:03 what I'm doing, but I'm going, it's a question, is that when I'm able to be able to get in question, and these comportments are sitting on
37:11 on these things that's the people who are thinking of what I think, I think it's the way of the way we're in
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38:04 Is it you know? Is it you know? Is it a new in some moment in
38:09 your Yeah, there's more after it's not, in my the chantions
38:15 that I see, the that's not a majority of young, after that
38:19 they're not all all they're not all all right that they were in some
38:24 that they're doing It's been going to be saying, yeah, but we, we're doing,
38:28 we're we're doing, we're in it's not like, it's not generalized on the world.
38:35 I think the young are to think the to the influence here, that's the time, you're not a
38:41 problem, you're to do to be to be to be sure, and I rarely've
38:45 to do absolutely what, what is brought by the masculists. So,
38:49 yeah, they're they're going on there's there's and the adoling
38:54 is out of have started to that the masculinists are the only influencers who are the same
39:03 coaching of seduction, how an we know, and we know what it's a lot of what it's not, it's horrible what they say,
39:09 but who do they they're proposing something to do they in the phone? If they're just they're just who they're doing, we're
39:15 not, okay, but I'm going to listen to the board, you I'm going to give them I'm a dog I'm developing,
39:20 I'm doing the only people have learned to understand what I'm the young, we've talked about many of the
39:25 young who are recheted or they're in their friends and they're going to fash against the people, because
39:30 and there's very heteros normative, this discourse that, but it's the people, the problem that they're
39:36 so we're so much, so it's so far it's often related to the people who have, you do,
39:44 you do, you do, do you, do you have a with the isolation, it's the young
39:48 who are there, there's a question, there, there, a special, the reason, that's,
39:53 that's part of what I'd want to learn how you view that, a reject, how you accept that, how you react to that, how you react, they're fashy to be afraid, to be able to be correct. You can't be afraid against the because they've told them, no. Bonne journey. And then, I'm like, okay, but the guy,
40:09 there's a lot of the color, we, we've got to do with. Because if I say, you're in terry, we know, we know what, it's all right, it's all right, it's not. So, what I've got to do with them, it's, we're normalize, that it's fair to live something, to be able to be a lot, person doesn't like to be to re-cheted or live a rupture or to have an impression of being in a friend zone.
40:25 Personne, necessarily, the adolescence. So, we'll have to be. And then I'm going with you on, it's what the zone sensible that it comes to and get to share with you? And when we talk to jealousy, it's saying, the jealousy that I'm pitch
40:39 on the other, it's my insecurity at me. I could try to control the other, as long as you know, you know, you don't know, you're not, you're not to disappear. She will rest there, she'll just be attenue because the other's just to comport like I'm going to be in what she's going to be in security, but if I'm gare my insecurity,
40:54 and then I'm discussing in a better way to set. I bet you're going to put it in line with it. Oh, my dear. I was just like, it's the same subject that we're about it. Yeah, and how we're doing? And how do you know,
41:06 and how much? Well, yeah, in the communication, it will change much. We've never been here in making a crisis of jealousy. That's very, very, very, But, you know, to say, I'm insecure, because
41:18 when you talk to this person, but it's you've got to do make sure, you're all to identify that's what you're trying to see to be able to but I'm not, you're
41:27 an adult of 30 years. Oh, but you'd be surprised how many you're not capable of that, really, really, really, really, but, you know,
41:34 I think I'd not that I'd have been capable of doing this way, or to end up, to end up, two minutes
41:38 after, after, you know, because you can't you can't, you know, and you're, it's intense,
41:43 the emotions, when we're ados, the place. We have a bit a sentiment of, I'm the personage principal of my life, the other are some of the personage principle, is hyper-encombrant. So, it's clear that it's become very intense. So how you
41:56 it's just to go, we, we're, we propose a lot of young, or to go to get a little of relation to aid, or we're trying to use, in time, let's talk, you're really jealous with his partner because there's full insecure, how you could you can't, so. In these uticions like that,
42:12 sometimes it's more to be able to what I'm in what I'm in maybe I'm sure I'm sure probably a lot of
42:18 because they're more than the way to get a question of the time at least a moment of something of something really intense
42:24 a trauma, a problem, a problem, where the school will referry but to say, I'm interested by the
42:30 and it's a more than you have more than to say, I'm the right to go to be able to because you're
42:38 a dog and you're in a view that's a option that would valid, all the time. So it's to go and try to
42:46 try to find, but what's it comes and you find, and you feel like you find, the real problem, so my problem is not my jealousy, is that I'm not being in my core, so how I can't work on my esteem of me, and more the pitcher in front of the other, and have to have
43:01 conscience of this comportment that that I'm doing, and after, you have no, there's no adult, there's a little, but just at least to understand, and if we're you'll explain when we when we're when we're in
43:11 this color to be in the question of the question of the way to get a because in the in the atolling we do, like
43:20 if we're doing a little paper like alexologist and then we're a little paper and like you sort with me maybe,
43:25 maybe, perhaps, arc, no. And then I'm making sure of being so we're on the fact of but if I
43:32 get to someone when saying arc, no, it's, obviously the person will be be fashy,
43:36 it's not very on the other side. How respect to the person? She has kind of put his courage
43:40 to come in to see. And how accept it? I'm not the control on the fact that this
43:46 person not interested in me. So, how I'm going to this idea. And then it comes to Mark
43:52 Boehler, this idea. It's really because he had passed to a podcast of Sonia Von Sachcher
43:57 and he talked, it would be, like, it probably, it would be do you do make that
44:02 people, I'm trying to say that, we're trying to talk, but we're saying, I was like,
44:07 but you're going to know it. It's a question and the response is really positive. The people are really content, the prof, the intervenants,
44:13 the young are super content that we're able to and we're doing to push it more on more than more some things. It would be a brainstorm. It would be a
44:20 great idea. We'll just have with the adults at all the like, to chill. Okay, we'll see
44:28 know the date perfect. They've been done many, it's all right, it's in talking with Mark, and I'm
44:35 in my family, we're 13, and we have two cousins. And then, one day we decided that we'd have decided that we'd have to be
44:41 with our cousin the first date, and we had done full of regal, and it's ridiculous, it was really a cave, but I'm parted to that for, because with the ados
44:50 it's quite a bit, so the step one, is the hygiene corporeal, if you please, the day when you go to get your date, you to do your day,
44:58 you're your day, you're doing, you're doing, but you're telling to them to do those ados, you to be doing, so, to be
45:03 negligent the hygiene Corporal, it's a lanyahu, but we said, this simple effort, that, show, to the other person, man, non-binary, that's, you know, that's made, you know, that's made, you know, that's made, just to make, on the implication and the effort that you can put to make, for monitor to the other person,
45:17 that's been interested. So, so, we've done with video, but for having, to travel to long time with these adults, sometimes it's not a key for all the world, and it's just me that's not that you can't give you an certain importance. So, I think, well,
45:31 hygiene, to base, it's the first thing. After communication, let's talk that's time that day that's the day, finally, do it don't,
45:39 to get a lot of to be able to be a lot of and that person does like, finally, he's not interested not at me,
45:45 if you're able to to say, like I, I'm going to get a, to create a communication, and to talk
45:51 a bit of the time, we've been a bit of confidence between the two, and we're
45:55 to be able to be able to be able to see how the date, you know, you have the right to
45:59 just chillet, but you would be, primarily, go, is that's interest the person because I said
46:05 if you try to on game and you never to try to get in you know, you'll never to ask you maybe you may have
46:13 maybe she'll maybe she'll maybe she'll find you not quite a thing you're probably to ask you
46:18 and if it if it's not if it's not it's not you're trying to get something to know the two
46:25 and then after the attitude you're 15 years you're not you're not a crisis of Cene, you have you
46:31 ideas for me? Well, yeah, it's sure that I'm a lot of 5-etual, the rest of, and I'm like, dude, dude,
46:37 dude. Even me, I'm not that. Okay, but I'm not sure that's not so. Realistically,
46:44 they're on there's plenty, for the there's for the school and they're going to go to the
46:49 school and the school and there's there's a lot of there's been there's not to be able
46:53 to be just two, it's a there's a school that you there's a school at at the
46:57 din. So you say, if you're going to full that, but it can just be, hey, we go to ensemble at middye, and then we're going to eat and then, we're going to together at cafeteria. It can't be safe, but it's kind of different than just chill. We can go to bring a creme-lacre and go to park. Now, it's sure that
47:11 you have to yell, along your way, but at a part of the 14-year, you can't try to try to try to try to ramse a little bit too, so you're perhaps capable. Pass the mop up at the house, we're going to give, your parents, let's say, they're supposed to, you know, they're done with the
47:25 good reason. You've got a lot. You've got a So they've been They've been called to glow golf, mini-golf Lasar
47:31 Plus, Lasatang I'm like yeah, I'm like, I'm sorry, if you're not quite
47:37 because I'm the only I'm not a single moment, I'm not sure, and I'm you're doing. I'm done
47:44 that's the moment where I'm like, I'm like, I'm not the same, I'm not
47:50 the only, I'm not, it's the same in the same in the years, I'm trying, I'm trying, we're like,
47:56 two tag, no. I'm going to demolid man. You don't know what I mean. It's not saying that I'm in a multitude. It's like a competition just to the arm, and I'm bris all the rules. I'm really mad. I'm cold. I'm gonna'clock. It's really for them.
48:10 It's more. Like, if we're to have been able to be able to a bat, we're really a lot of example when I'm a perfect example. But I just think that's really really. But after that, I mean, I'll do, look, I'll break.
48:22 No. And we're not. We're not. And then, we're not. We're not. And then, we're not. It's what we're We're talking. We're talking. So, so
48:30 there's a lot of tag to have to have to be there's a lot of times it's a bit more coouteous but there's in the house
48:36 of young car and then at double tracheant that's not a blind date of an escape room not
48:41 not not a maybe not imagine you know, you've never ever seen you've ever
48:47 you're in a car in a house barred I'm I'm barred.
48:51 I'm I'm really I'm really not in in a mode, you know, you're in a lot of crue, you know,
48:57 in the same, if you're, if you're more than a escape room, you're probably not quite quite be able to
49:02 me want to be that you're not, you're not, you're not, you're not, I'm going to, and I'm going to be able to
49:09 and put it and interposed too in my setup. There, there, you know, there's been where the key.
49:15 But, after that, it can just all go and on monta. We could go and go, we're going,
49:20 oh, my, no, it's sure that the podcast It's a termine. I'm going to I'm really
49:26 really really really really really about oh my god it's the last time I'm not quite I'm sure
49:32 I'm full of chalant I'm at all the first I've ever I've got a there's a marred and I'm and it's like person has
49:39 put a mask so forth so I find so I think I'm just really nonchalance I'm okay I'm just like
49:45 I read the little bit of perfect so it's like it's skate room it's a great really a big
49:52 You know, a bit co-chial, the sexual. Yeah, it's a good. We'll have escaped a sexual. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, so, so, you help the ad-do to try to find some day. Yeah, we're doing with a real brainstorm.
50:06 It's like, what's you would have, but after, you know, to try, and then, we normalize, really, that, if it's not a exercise, we do what I control, what I control, what I, he plays, let's, let's,
50:17 they page of the affairs, and, he plas, and, when we're circled, we can get to get to control on what you can't have control on what you can't have to be
50:24 to get a lot and on the issue of the relation. It's a part of the game and then I said not game of Canadian, he
50:31 he said, not game to pluggy Wenkretki who says, in life you will be you've been there's a lot
50:40 and then I'm like, but it's true, you go, you go to you go to you know, it's going to
50:46 the world and I said the statistics of people who are talking to 13 years and who are still
50:51 on the other not a lot of there's not a lot of when you're in so you're in for the relations
50:57 for the relations of work, the relations of their relations in life, there will have there's a way, it's a
51:03 way, there's having some there's a conflict, it will have to how how to get that, and how to
51:09 get so much to be over to do that, and it's really the things that we want to be good
51:14 for all all right for all that, you at the people, uh, where is
51:19 you, I'd give you to give you, I'd, you know, the reject and all, you know, let's say, let's,
51:26 a trick that Sarah Lave to see your if your ex-taire, then I'm a bad at and then you
51:33 get a frashe, I'm like, I'm gonna, he's not, he's not, he's not, I'm gonna
51:38 do it, he'd be able to him, you, he'd be able, but I'm, let's be fernche, you know, and he's,
51:45 what's, that's, that's, that's, that the have more fear of
51:49 to lose or to reject? You know, it's not that's the person who the person who
51:55 the person who can't do you know, it's a question, you know, it's a fact, these times it's counterintuitive and then you
52:02 or they're just in a who are some of the repition, but sometimes we're on the kind of
52:07 avoid the crisis, but we're trying when we're seeing the people who these experiences, and they're fashed, you're fashed,
52:17 it's correct, you've got not had what you want to put your color it's a question,
52:20 then you're going to get a general it's just to find out of it's just to find out of these emotions uncomfortable and how you're in
52:28 to do you to put on the other and to make the fault on the other so it's responsible a little
52:33 people, it depends a little obviously and it depends always the context but to not hesitate
52:39 to go to get to get used to get used plenty of tools in line if there exists there exist
52:43 there's some coaching family of the guidance parental for to to give a cut in the type of
52:48 encardromance that you want to do, the power of you have, the energy that's also, and the things the thing you're to have to do
52:55 with your children, we can put something to try to be something to try to be a situation, or to try to to refer to the resources. Sometimes at
53:02 the adolescence, it's more difficult to receive of some of there's quite, but there's there's over other intervenants
53:08 in the youth who are coming offering a discos different, or, you know, in my maison of young, you know, there's like,
53:14 I'd say that to say, to say, to, my parents, but who come to be in and at the final, it's not necessarily that's not necessarily
53:18 that's not really that's a lot of their parents, they're just, they're just, they're feeling that's more sensible, this information that, they're wanting to be
53:26 with a person neutral in first, they come to be in an idea, we, we know, we , obviously, I try to help me, even, I try to turn to be
53:34 with your family the most possible. So, it's to have to be, working, I guess, the relationship, the parents, as adult, also,
53:41 if, I've not made this boll that, it's, it's possible to be difficult to accompany my son to do that. If I'm the
53:46 misery to my emotions, to understand my reactions, or that's not really difficulty in my relations, it's could that's difficult
53:52 to accompany my family, it's possible, that's possible that I'm going to get for my situation to me, for after that, to have some
54:00 to be interesting. Is it a idea of the aid gratuit for the parents, or it's all... There's a lot of, there are
54:12 many, there are by mission, it's they have like a problemat, a thematic, in the form. So if you've seen the
54:19 dependents, you've been in the center of there's a drug, there's people, there's a criminalist
54:27 in trauma. If you're going to go to try to to try to private, but there's
54:32 some ways to access gratuit gradually. If you've had been a criminal in your
54:35 life, along the criminal, but you can go to go to get to an indemization
54:39 for victim of criminal, and there there's people like we who,
54:42 we accept these mandolah, so you've made pay your encounters, same thing, you've lived with something about to the CNESST,
54:49 the SAQ, if there's a other you're doing when you're getting to be to make a little without having to have to dobbosor
54:56 to free. And then, the plus possible, I think, now the resources gratute there are,
55:01 there's a lot of there's a lot, but it's there's a pain to look at because there there's a
55:06 time, there's always, there's always, the time, there's been in the schools, if I'm troughed not, we're put,
55:13 we're able to cellular. Yeah, yeah, that's been a great, you've seen the TikTok, it's a drool.
55:20 But there's there's young that they were there's plenty, I can't I'm not there cell, because they're not
55:25 their cell. Ah, okay, and that, the what? De, some, it's like a quiz in line
55:31 that the young could have the application on the cellar and we progeted that and the
55:35 people could be in live respond on their cell and it was apparently the
55:41 Yeah. But is you know, is what you think that's, it's to have a impact positive really at long term? Because there, clearly, it's,
55:49 where you see the problem, you know, do you see more to the level of the education of the parents or more on the world? You know,
55:56 when the people you're asking, you're asking, you know, where it more, when there's, just, there's, you know,
56:02 there's, I'd have tend to say, plus resososos to say, maybe, the clashes of culture,
56:07 you know, when you're, you know, in a culture that's completely different of the their time, it's not
56:12 to be partaged your values cultural cultural of the discourse masculinist. I've heard some of the young who are like
56:17 like, let's say that I want to do a couple heterosexual that's married, that the woman, he's made the
56:23 and then you find it's important to differentiate if you're all the two and are in and that and that
56:29 all the people have the same and person of depression, all right, well, a discourse
56:33 masculineist on the on the race social where where we're really to say the woman,
56:37 arrive with with all the pressure to have to live his family, and you're
56:40 obliged to see a a corner, and there's a little bit a little about a lot of people,
56:44 there's a lot of people, I'm not a question, you know, I'm not a lot of because, I'm saying,
56:52 now that I'm even more I'm a career in my career that they never had not their
56:57 parents and that they would not not the much for so, so, so,
57:00 I'm that I'm really, but I'm my, but I'm my possible, or, you
57:05 you know, you're monop monoparental that you don't take the time with everyone to have to be
57:12 because you don't know, you're in time, you want to be so I'm really in the research of
57:17 how we can support the parents who are using the people who are going to need of a way, who have been
57:24 of a question, who have been a new to be in the young to be sure to get
57:29 and they can receive certain things that can't be able to the parents than we're going to blame me
57:35 but the social, it's sure that it's that's sure that it's a lot of different of discourse. So it's a bit to that I think we can respond
57:44 in making developing the judgment of the young on, you receive a packet of information, you're getting more than we
57:51 when we were when you're how you're how you decide, you know, what you're to say what's you're doing
58:00 an reflection, I think it's not a bad thing that's not the question. After that, at work, we're not supposed to have with us,
58:09 depending on the job we're doing, but you know, we're doing not the phone to work to do you know, and they'd get their cell
58:17 to go to and it's all the time, we've done, all the time, all the time, and we did that and we're doing
58:22 and it's always, it's always, and it's always, it's always, it's coming, how, how, how, you know, there's all right-of-the-
58:29 , you're not, there's all right, and it's like, it's so, it's just, it's never long, that we're doing, it's, the young, you're like,
58:36 laug my cell, and I'm going to be to do it. So it's not, I think what's what's the thing they're the interdiction of,
58:43 but I'm when I'm coming the young, I rarely have the problem of, hey, launch your cell, let's say,
58:49 with the adult. Oh, yeah? Yeah, really. Really. They don't know. And the young, let's talk, and they say,
59:00 ah, I, it's, it's, it's, it's not, my, my, my, my, my dating,
59:02 and I, there, there's, there, there, there, You know, like you can't, like, clearly, the civilist, it's a true, so, not on the telephone, but, you know, to approach
59:13 someone, you know, do you do you know, is there, do you know, is there do things that much? Well, it's sure that we're saying, there's a lot, it's fun to observe what what's what you're going to do, what's going to be on, what's going to be on, so you're going to, you know, and you can't ask the person, the person to say, no, you can't put to ask you, you, look at the other person, how they react to, you know, sometimes, we're centred a little bit on the adolescence,
59:34 the age of all I do the tussing, there's a lot of the whole, I'm going to be to say that the person
59:39 to be interested to make a lot, after it's to try to get a certain signos, but there's nothing that
59:44 that's a question and to have a response so, so I think that the ability to come to help,
59:50 because it's super gendant to ask to someone, we know, we're always that it would say
59:54 that would say that would say that would be interesting, it's super general, it's supergeneal to say,
59:59 we're like we're like we're not they make not in action, and the adults, we have been a lot of experience something to really get because you're doing, it's been, if it's
01:00:10 a bit, it's not, they're going to do, like, but my mind to see, I gave an example to young, I've done an information for these intervenants who were, who had, we asked
01:00:18 that, like, the dichro-masculinish to our children, and I was, when is an young is arrived, and he had come to fume the pot,
01:00:23 and you said, but you know, you know, that's right, I said, it's never arrived, you know, you see, some,
01:00:29 the, you seem, the, some, ideas, and some and some information, and you'll
01:00:33 accompany in his in its own in the form. So it's the same thing, at the level of a little of all, I'm going to
01:00:41 give them to get these tools, and we'll have done with the theater forum. It's really a pass or it but it's a part
01:00:50 or the impro where I'm you do what to play, a first scene. So, you know, let's do you
01:00:55 people who have some skills of communication of mard and the scene so finish mal. And then I say, okay, now you're going to be in a
01:01:02 same of a better situation. So, you'll have to have some of the solution, you'll have proposed to light, you're better than you're more communicates, and then you have to like it's like, for real, it's like to practice, and there's cavs, and we're reading, and we're really very much of money, and it's really very very drool, but it's, it works, it's not in a class, I think, because,
01:01:18 the, before the class, it's gina, but in a maison they're young, they're having to be an animator that's like to be the animator preferry, and then, you do you feel very neaserser in advance, and the young are well, they're They're practic really, they're able,
01:01:29 they're really really good, and the fact that he's like made, like it's made to do really, to try to do you,
01:01:34 after, after they're sure that's more able to do it and the other angle, it's to say, if your
01:01:40 if your would be that, how you'd like you would be more concrete, because it's very that they
01:01:45 they want to be the good friends, so they're more able to have to find, like, ah,
01:01:49 they're they're probably they're like they're like they're like they're like, they're like,
01:01:52 they're like, So it's a bit of judgment of autonomy and made in practice, if we're just a bit of the three. Do you do these stories of of young who are really marked, the parkour that you've
01:02:02 viewed to, let's, who live with you? Plain. Or, the young who are full masculinist and that's a full pro-feminist.
01:02:11 Well, it's a bit of some of the same than I'm thinking. It's relatively recent, you know, the mal-skinnedist, so it's sure that
01:02:17 I've got in the cross-evolution, but, but, you know, there are there, there's a one time a group
01:02:23 of guys, I think it's to make a lot of a lot of people, I think it's perfect, I'm doing it's over the Netflix of the
01:02:28 Amazon John and then they make they're going I'm going to and they're making the porn but it's very drool
01:02:35 but they're all they're all they're all right they're like they say it's not a word and they're like
01:02:40 they're like have you have you have you have you have put the the ballobob yeah
01:02:47 I'm like you want to be you want to you want to be you want to you're like Oops. So, like, I
01:02:53 Ferem at the TV and I said, we're going to jazes? Oh, look, and we're jazed and we're like
01:02:58 two hours, yeah. It's really interesting, it's really the face that we made, it's mooran,
01:03:04 it was, we thought, we didn't know that's over we're over. But it's so, it's rare,
01:03:10 a ado who say, I have a question on my sexuality, they're not they're not so, they're going to
01:03:14 get to des to design to make to make some to make to make some to make some way,
01:03:19 I'm sure. Well, you have some of the time. You're getting janeed to do it. We're getting gendons. I've got to do these condoms. I've got it.
01:03:27 And I've done these condo in the condo in the house of year. I was going to be so I'm doing it. Because, I'm going to get to do you, it's always
01:03:35 to be able to do you get a little, it's not a first time you'll not. Not the first time to play with. The young,
01:03:41 they'd be able to get this in the head, just under the knee. And they so it's he so through to and it's up and it's a space
01:03:46 of gross be able to be extraterrestes, they're to go and they're just that's a little. After that, they're too pretty, for me, the condo I'm just like,
01:03:53 I'm all right on the whole lot, we'll just like, I'd like that, I'd like that. But when you're going to be on the age,
01:04:01 clearly it's gonna be done, you'll be to look, my own, and I'm, I can't even never hear of time to hear,
01:04:08 I'm just, that's really, that's really, that's the real anecdotes, that's, oh, but,
01:04:13 you know, just that, this anecdote, like, you're faced to a situation that would have quite make a lot to say not
01:04:22 how to respond but you're roded to, it's a port that's a an old old an be able to, I'm going to
01:04:30 try to me get to get a car, who's out of vapoteuse? Yeah, I didn't know to do you
01:04:36 to vapor into? And then, we had to be able to get in a buchamp so, so they're going to get the ingredients
01:04:41 of the liquid that we made in a machine a buchan, and it's very much very close to the vapoteur, it's like, so if we have the right
01:04:47 on the machine abook in under the for we don't know the other, and there were reason, the people say, it's a lot so I'm not to let's leave
01:04:54 vapote in there but I'm not the far. Like, yeah, well, you know, that's true. And after that, if it's made
01:05:01 with a man of respect or or someone who is really, uh, at a level of your own, you have no choice
01:05:06 to be quite to be quite they're not to be quite can't be easy to be chakeed a bit, like,
01:05:11 well, we respect not my authority, but I'm like, but it's not really that they respect for my authority, it's their job to question and to provoke, and I, well, I'm, I'm going to be able to be able to keep in a way
01:05:22 security and responsible, the number of connery and the prank we've done with those others. I said, I mean, I'd say, because if I'd just had to do it, because I'd ever do you know, we'd rather not, we'd make a vasseline everywhere on the char of my colleague,
01:05:33 because it's really not real. By the point, we'd probably to it'd be really very drus. Then, then we'd do it all right, and there's nothing that, you're have applied to have made a joke that's a
01:05:43 bit more responsible than to do do you know, why not they're coming and they're coming to people who are
01:05:50 they're doing they're doing they're doing they're trying the reaction so if your reaction is ah,
01:05:56 yeah, it's interesting let's let's talk well I'm like I'm I'm not no problem
01:06:01 but that it's cool it's it's a other anecdote that I have really another
01:06:06 other at sexuality the years years where we we're we're just with
01:06:11 and they're like all the time. They're like to get, they're getting to get to be able to get to be to get, with the details
01:06:18 they're like, they're like they're in their pants, they're in which they're doing, what they're doing, they're all made to say to
01:06:25 it's all right. It's like, it's like, but that's it, there's not there's not, there's a taboo to all the world
01:06:32 do the masturbation, it's correct that you're like, I'm like, I'm sure, I'm just totally cool, it was really
01:06:40 been really in respect and in the US. Is it not, is I'm not like, I'm doing like, oh, no, me also, I'm in place the same, and it's like, wow, you've got to you've used to have you
01:06:50 have used to be in jazes? Because of them, because of them, even, not sure that would it would be able to talk about, but we've created a climate of confidence, a moment
01:06:57 where we've got josey, and it's like, Claudia, I've got to my first time, I'm trying, but, yeah, but, yeah, and then, you know, pretty 100%
01:07:07 to me, it's not more, you're, it's not like I thought, I'd often what he'd I'd, it'd be
01:07:13 to be able, it's a that's a that's not prepared, the mechanism of the chos, the condom,
01:07:18 uh, it's all right, then there after that, ah, it's really, I've got, I've been someone,
01:07:23 she'd have to someone, yeah, she has, she's a way, and it's a way,
01:07:28 and it's not prepared to how we're , I'm not, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not, I'm trying to
01:07:33 to demand to tell you I'm not, I'm not really, practised to do you like that, finally I didn't
01:07:39 have not the good, but you want to do you know, if you're doing it's just abo with them and that normalize the fact of it's
01:07:45 it's always to get some emotion and communication and learn to learn to learn personal, learn to learn that's a day it's
01:07:53 a day it's not a day it's not a person it's normal that it's normal that it's normal that's how to learn
01:08:00 when addow in plus you can't do you to do make a more informed solid, in confidence,
01:08:09 we can they're doing a way to get a way of their relationship in doing that I think it's
01:08:15 the idea the page of and I have looked at it's a hour for it's a it's a
01:08:21 hour it's a yeah, it's a really really it's really really
01:08:26 really even in my nose I'm I'm my ideas they're too they're too
01:08:31 they're all every day they're doing every more previous, you know, to make these their characters the same,
01:08:37 because in the playing, like you do it, in doing it's doing it's a practice like, and he's doing to say, it's a
01:08:44 genius. Really, really, the game of role, and one of the one thing I like with the adults, is when I'm with the adult,
01:08:50 often, you know, the suvi psychosocial, we're sat see like that, we're just, there's a lot,
01:08:55 and it's correct, but I'm very the method alternative also, we're going to start a bit to do bureau. We're going to do
01:09:02 do other things. And with the ad hoc, I'm going to use the method of alternative, often for I'm trying their confidence and create the link. So I think it's for that it's why
01:09:11 that I'm interested really, and it's a great thing, and it's a game of role on the part, go to play to play the basketball, go to make sure,
01:09:18 I'm using a lot of past their frustration, the reconnection to the core, the plain, the plain, of things that we can use, depending on the problematics,
01:09:29 but I think with the young it's to be pretty , the show to role. And we've
01:09:33 called to do that, me and my my friend, my friend, we've got to work in a home of young
01:09:37 we've got to work in a house of young, I'm not, I'm not, because when I had my wife, I'm
01:09:43 could have been to do so of the night of time, but I'm still, but I'm talking to do you
01:09:48 other to do a job of dragon, but, genre intervention because the young, I'm really
01:09:53 people, I'm doing to make a game to play for the show, it's like the art
01:09:58 forum, of the improv, but you make not, you make it like, it's like more genuine. It's your character who's like, but you're doing
01:10:03 to do you know. So, we're in trying to work on a space of a game where, well, the personage will encounter these defy
01:10:10 that are like science fiction, but who will come back to the defy of people, we need, we have to make
01:10:17 the choice, we have to be the card of a game, so I'm in the something very ludic, the ludic with
01:10:23 the ludic with the kids and with the adult, it's and even for certain adults, it's really
01:10:26 more more confrontant that is assy, and, I mean, tell me all the tromod and offence,
01:10:31 it's a little, it's a bit, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not, but, you know, it's more confrontant,
01:10:36 and it's, it's just it's fun, also, because you can make that humoristic, it's not
01:10:43 to be trash, like, to work, to work, to work. Yeah, try, it's a
01:10:48 really good idea. You know, what's that I, what I'm, I'm, let's,
01:10:57 to bring the context, the situations, and then after that to get more than just in the conversation, because inevitably, it's inevitably, it's amends it to be very good news.
01:11:09 It's more confrontant. The actuality also. The young like, they like, they like, to get back, it's been passed, we did that, we did so,
01:11:17 we did so, we did so, we did so much in the school, when I do some, I'm in situations, I'm going to start to something that a young of their age
01:11:25 has vied, in their region, because it it makes the things very real for them. So it's also rebondir on on the actuality to be a soup
01:11:32 of family, on the things that they're in being talking about, it's more than talking about, but it opens the door.
01:11:39 Lysandre is part to all the end of the son, so I'll proceed with you for the
01:11:43 end of the occasions. You know, you talk on time intervenant and all, but I visualise
01:11:50 many the parents there, how you do, but to be a little the same
01:11:53 to see, sort of some occasion, example, your son's surprised your
01:11:57 your son when you're doing to do a friend to do you're in like to get a old, oh my God,
01:12:02 my friend go to get to the pornos. Yeah, like to get to get with the with humor
01:12:07 like, and you know, hey, well, we're talking to get to that. So, you
01:12:12 and to get that just like like, like it's like it like you sometimes it's
01:12:18 difficult when you for you for you not a subject that that's
01:12:21 that's that at this moment for the parents who who are not that, they don't
01:12:27 that they have not this facility that it would be to do to have to with a friend with a
01:12:33 person I'm doing a way, I'm going to be contacted if there's there's access to get some limit, like
01:12:41 adult. But then you say, okay, well, let's have two children on the assage,
01:12:45 I say, okay, I'm a mandate, I'm here to come to come to and you're
01:12:50 going to and you're like, it's I'd like to put in this formula where I would puttie you can't do. We'd like a
01:12:55 you'd like to do. You'd probably just the ados. I'd prefer to a group of education to sexuality ado. My vision
01:13:03 of the idea is to do that of a little infance at age adult, in the sense where you work,
01:13:08 when the parents are very young. So my fee, let's say, we'd say, all the world,
01:13:13 time zes the broad, if you have to get to be trying, if you don't know the bra, if you're not the time,
01:13:17 she'd be there has two and a minute, she'll be I'd ask you to have a becoe, I'll have a call and then to me say no, it's no. And just to out-a-and-a-pure to the parents to add
01:13:27 these little things simple that you'll demand not more of more energy, but you can come to addiottesian. After that, a little infance and adolescent, well,
01:13:35 the ideal, it's to be fornive to do you know, and at least, to help to be able to an subject, it's not obliged
01:13:42 to be you to do do you do know the resources, or if you want to do to do you do to do it, you can come to
01:13:49 to work for that, going to be readle these bibet that you're in the head and that's the deblochage, you know, you know, to have a lot of it's a lot of it's a lot of
01:13:59 your child you're your own, it's, your bit of, it's like the kind of, the same of the arm that you for like,
01:14:05 well, well, you know, it's not, it's not, you know, that your don't know,
01:14:09 that's a same trauma, that, you know, yeah, the, like, like, like, like,
01:14:13 like, like, you know, you know, I'm, you, my be, my be,
01:14:19 that she is clostrophobob. And her little and her little bit more, you know, but she's like, but she's, like, but she's, like, she, is not devenu claustrophable,
01:14:30 on the day, it's clearly in the security. So, so, yeah, so, my fear, it's, that she's, that's a face
01:14:37 kidnapper or that, there's an , fact, in my head, all the one in des abuser,
01:14:41 you know, like, to be, to be people, to be everyone, to be everyone, to be able to,
01:14:45 so, so, I repeat all the person who you've touched, like, but, you know, I, I hear of times, like, yes, I'm talking, and,
01:14:53 justly all the time, but sometimes, we can project also our insecurities. 100%. It's for that it's super important, to, like, let's on,
01:15:00 we could, we could, , we could, we could, engage, and I'm, and I've really, are coming to me and, like, to come to me
01:15:08 to say, because you're really not the sole, without their, without, without, to transmit, but,
01:15:13 and it's a bit that I'm trying to them, I'm trying, because there's I'm out of the issue, so I'm sure I'm
01:15:19 there's a I'm going to be more but I'm in the other you're going to you're doing so you're
01:15:25 so you're going to see that you're in trying to to give to the time to the end of the most
01:15:32 possible to to find to see that and to it's not the end, it's terrible if it's
01:15:37 it's a time, let's it's not there, but there's a after, there's the leg that exists.
01:15:42 I'm not the for the young. It's not it's not There's a after for all the world.
01:15:47 It's not, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, there's,
01:15:50 there's, there's a thing, there's, but my, my objective to do you to do you
01:15:54 to do you know, so that's, so that are, the secret that's , the people,
01:16:00 that's, that's, you're able to decode, and to have a good communication with you,
01:16:05 to have to talk, so, so the, the end, it's not, I'm not, but he's,
01:16:09 but he's, I'm not, We'll understand that there's a secret normal. So, it doesn't in a category. I'll go to talk to my Mary.
01:16:15 You're not in the power, but more in the, okay, it's so, yeah, yeah, I'm really that,
01:16:19 we'd like that, we're doing that, we're doing that's on Patreon, I'm sure, I'm sure, and I'm
01:16:25 talking, and I'm able to tell how I about my family, and you're going to be not good or
01:16:28 not good. All right, on you go.
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