MON PT 2: Tales From Bobby’s European Vacation + Eddie vs. Lunchbox In Cursing Around His Kids + Bobby Thought He Was Getting Scammed By Eddie
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02:56Listen to soccer moms on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast.or wherever you get your podcasts.This is the Bobby Bones show.Hey, Bobby.Okay, where do we start?I can talk a little bit about my vacation.I post a lot of pictures.I try to do one place at a time.
03:15But for Valentine's Day, for my wife,I got her trip, got us a trip.A little bit of it, too,had to do with the fact that one of the tripswe tried to go on last year,we made it all over to the airport,and then she got so sick.We were not able to go on the trip at all.
03:28but we went toParis, which is in France.Yes, yes.My second time to go there,it is,it's tough to say this.It might be my favorite city.Really?
03:40I know.It's awesome.It was a little cold.Even in March,I didn't want to go on winterbecause winter, winter hurtsand I don't want to be outsideduring winter, winter.
03:52Not even here.I don't want to be outside.I don't want to see you guys.Winter, winter.I want to stay home.Heck, sometimes in spring, too.Not nice.It's awesome.
04:02It's clean.It's safe.It's massive.It might be my...The museums are crazy cool.We didn't even go to a museum this time.Paris might be my favorite city.So that...
04:14And then we went to Germany.Because we just took a train because there's something to me that's like romantic.Not like romance.Like, ooh, let's make out.Nostolic.Well, not nostalgic because I haven't done it before.but like dreamylike fantasy land
04:33like that version of itabout taking a train across Europe because I only heard people do thatlike when people would be like I studied overseasI'm like oh it's been awesome to be a rich kidand so we took a trainand that kind of sucked one part of itI wasn't that the train wasn't coolwell only one part was I
04:50I booked this thing I took care of it alland some of the stuff I didn't do that wellbut overallsome of it was greatI didone of thebusiness classis better than first class
05:04how's that possibleexactlyexactlyjust differentit's just flippeddon't knowthat's confusingI feel like business class
05:14like if I would think of itit'd be like an airplanelike just three seat throwsand that's itwell but business classis first class now on airplanesit doesn't matterwe took trains
05:24some good some badI went to Germany, never been to Germany.Again, I want to just say this.I'm not kidding.I'm not for hyperbole for the purpose of it.So there's no purpose here.I had the absolute, in Munich, I had the absolute best.It wasn't a hot dog and it wasn't a brought worst.
05:45It was some kind of in the middle of sausage.I want to make love to it.Oh, that's not good.That's probably not a good thing to say about that.No, I want to make love to it, not have it make love to me.It's a sausage.Big difference.No big difference.
05:59So.I just feel like.I don't even like sourcrow and they didn't call it that.But I had it as they made it, but with mustard and they put mustard.It was special.You ever see an episode of Everybody Loves Raymond where he goes to Italy?And he is so like wound up and he can't enjoy anything.And he's just worried about like paying stuff and getting work done.
06:24And he stops and he has like a piece of pizza or like a little ice cream.And all of a sudden he's like.and then his life opens up a little bit and he's like man I should just enjoy that that hot dogwas it white I don't know why why does color matter well because I googled like Munichbig long sausage no no no that's not what you want that's not do not go google it yeah don'thit images just don't need images whatever you do but it said a wise worst is a white sausage aavarian specialty. If you go to my Instagram, it's the one, it's like four back right now.It's the color of a hot dog and it is probably two feet long. I'm not exaggerating.
07:09It was one of the greatest things I've ever eaten in my life. And I had high expectations becauseyou're in Germany and you're like, I'm going to eat it worst. So it's going to probably be good.It's unbelievable. I just kept my wife's like, why do you keep shaking your head? Because I would eat it.like I would do this watch I'd take a biteand she'd be like why do you shake your headI'm like because I don't believe it I just don't believe thisthat it's so good yes I'm not kiddinga hot dog you didn't call it a hot dog right I didn't call it anything
07:40I did teach the lady Englisheverywhere everybody knows English everywhere you goit's amazing it's like the universal language some accentsaren't as good as othersalmost everybody learns English becausethey learn it in school and culturethere's a lot of EnglishSorry, American culture, musically, over there.
08:01So I haven't really been anywhere where they don't know English.This trip, nowhere.Previously, a couple of places, but it was easy and quick.And some lady was like, what did you call the, but you put on top of cup?And I was like, lid.Lid?Lid.Leed.
08:25Hmm.Lid.Lid.saying did exactly the same way that you'resaying it? Not really, but it...He's not Russian.You sound like... Hey, no, hey, Russian and German.Not a lot of difference in the accent, I'm telling you.
08:39I probably did sound a little Russian, but...You were there, man. We believe you.So we're in a place called Baden Bodden, Baden.And then we went Munich.Have I told you about this hot dog had?Yes. Okay, move on.Yeah, I'm still trying to figure out if it was a Wise Worst or a Bach Worst.If you go through that scroll, I maybe have another.
09:01I mean, I know I saw your post.So I know what to look for in the images.Was it white in the picture?No, but.No, but I have a picture.I have a picture of other than that.I have a picture of lots of meats together.It doesn't matter.
09:13My point was it met expectations and nothing in my life meets expectations.I think it does matter because how do we get you this experience again?Like, can we bring that sausage to you?Nah, I like to have local sausage.Well, I bet you could.Yeah, okay.Mike pulled it up. Is that on mything? Is that on my thing?
09:30Okay, it's called a largespezial brought worseSourcranton Ross de Lillebu.This is Lange.Oh, Lange, not Lange.I guess that means large.Lange's Special BratworthSourkeleton Razzuizel.
09:44$8. No, no,$8.50.And euro is about 10.So it's going to costabout $0.85 more.So it's about $9.30.Our dollar is not just strong over there.Oh, I can get these at Croaker.
09:57You can?I'm in a way.Whip you one up.Not the same way.And it was excellent.I had...Delang Rate.We went to one place because even the gas stations are clean.
10:08Guys, I'm telling you, as someone who hasn't traveled ever in their life until the last five or six or seven years, and I'm just stunned by everything that I thought was different.Gas stations are awesome in Europe.They have real food.You have to pay like a dollar to go to the bathroom, so there is no dirty bathrooms.The bathrooms are spotless clean.There was this one place we went into in Germany that said American food lovers go this way.And it was a picture that...They got you good.
10:37I didn't want American food.But I thought the sign was funny.I posted on my Instagram.The place was called Miss Pepper.And you can see it.And she has really blonde hair to look American.But the rest of her is not American.Like she has really dark eyebrows.
10:50You can tell they just like did someone out for a photo shoot.But we did that.And then we went to Austria, which never been to Austria.just know Arnold Schwarzenegger's from Austria.He is.Oh.Vienna might be my favorite city.Wait.
11:09Besides Paris.That Paris sounds.It was.It was.Just like that.That quick.Vienna waits for you.What do you do?
11:17Like what is there to, like Austria, what is the, like what do you do?So great question because as someone who has not traveled much, I can tell you my experience in traveling is the first time I go anywhere that's a city.like a Paris or any of the places that I've beenthe first time you go, you just do the things that are closeand you do the things that are knownas being a part of that city.If you go to New York City the first time,you probably go to Times Square.
11:44Statue of Liberty.You probably go, maybe you see the Statue of Liberty driving in.I've never even been on in the Statue of Liberty,so I've never done that.But you do maybe a Broadway play.So the first time you just do the main stuff,we've been to Italynow a few times.
11:59times, and this hasn't been announced yet, probably still 99%, but we, my wife and I have bought partof a domestic Italian basketball team. And so we're like almost, we're so close. I feel like Ican announce it. What is close? You mean? Like, you bought it, but then it's... We've agreed to all theterms. They just, it just hasn't been closed yet. And if it doesn't, who cares? Details, yeah. Yeah.So wait, a basketball, a basketball.team in Italy or a basketball team here?No, a basketball team in Italy. DomesticItaly, Italian basketball. Okay. Yeah. And they're
12:35terrible. That's pretty cool, though. Oh, so is itgood to get in? If they're terrible? Is this the timeto buy? No, because when we bought, they're pretty good. And they get,they're terrible. Oh. What happened?They probably heard we were coming, sothey're like, everybody run.How do you evenhear about that? It's just so far,
12:51guys. I just wish it wascloser. Well, it's onmy list of things to do.Italy? Paris.I'm going to say this.Or Austria.There's a reason I talk about it in the main show.I don't like talking about it because I don't like how it makes me feel.
13:07I struggle with talking about stuff like that because it's stuff I never got to do.And I had this association with people that got to do that were always rich.And I felt very less than because I couldn't do it.So I never thought it would be real.So now that I do get to do it, I don't like talking about it because I don't want people to feel like I felt when I would hear people talk about it.And they would be like, oh, I went to Europe.and I'm like inside I'm likeman that would be cool
13:31but I'll never be able to afford to do that soif you're like why don't he talk about it on the show that's whyI struggle with that kind ofand I have some real fun stories and maybe I do a podcastabout it but I don't like how it makes me feelto talk about that stuff and that is an internaltherapy type thing butif you're going
13:47you didn't even talk about it on the main showthat's why and also the main showthe listening is much more passivebecause we are live and it's a broadcastshow and people are listening to us that don't knowus as well. And I feel like I can talk about things with layers and nuance to you guys that areeither watching right now on YouTube or whatever social media it is or listening on podcast becauseyou do listen to us and you do may not care, but you are somewhat invested or have knowledge
14:13of our lives. So that is why. And that may make no sense at all. But that is why I don't enjoytalking about itto people that don't understandmy lifeand situationokaydoes that make senseokay
14:37it's a greatit's a great tripback to the can I talk aboutthe trains for a secondyeah so did you do likeovernight trainno no no no no I've tried to get my wife to do thatI want to do a train we go overnight
14:46yeah you sleep in thatyeah yeah and every time I try to find onethere's none of the I'm just my knees are jammed upin my freaking chin and I'm likeohThe trains are awesome, first of all, in the northeast even.When we were in New Hampshire, which I didn't think was a real estate, this is how less traveledI've been.
15:03I didn't think New Hampshire was a real estate.I thought they just kind of made it up.And so went to New Hampshire, we took a train to Maine.And literally, I know some of you northeasterners are going to go, okay, dummy, but for usin the south, you walk to the train.And I grew up in Mountain behind Arkansas, we had trains.But that was a sawmill.You don't get near those trains.
15:24It's like a hobo train.Hobos would get on them and take rides.No, no, you sit in a train, and if you get in like a,you pay 18 bucks and sit in first class or whatever class it is and take the ride,it's like you're in the back seat of a nice car, except you're not getting cars.There's plenty of room.Get your computer out.You work.
15:44You can watch shows.Next thing you know, we ended up in Maine.We just got it off the train.It was awesome.The fact that we don't have that here is not crazy because we never had it.But it blows my mind how much easy.easier life is when you have public transportation that people aren't just peeing in.And so the Europe trains, we just, I don't know, you just get on and go.
16:04The second one was much easier.We did a two and a half hour one from, I don't know, wherever it was, went to Vienna.My favorite, my favorite city.They have mountains in Vienna?Yep.They have mountains almost everywhere because the trains you drive through the countryside and you see everything.Oh, pretty.Yeah.
16:21That's cool.Did you get to eat in the train?Like they have those little restaurants.Yeah, they have something that comes and takes your order.or something?Kind of.Oh, you go to the beverage card.Yeah, I'm not sure.
16:30We got confused.We even got lost.You can look on my, if you go through my Instagram,one of my last ones,I didn't know what the ticket said because it was all in foreign language.And so I took a picture of it and said,can you please help me?And it did.
16:47It told me what to do.Yeah, it says, we were going from Salzburg.Oh, Salisberg Steaks.Oh, no, I thought the same.Well, yeah.Germany.Here's the thing about that.Also, there's no, and there's no Vienna sausages.
17:04There's a couple of these things I know that I tried where I really wanted and we're just idiots.Honestly, I didn't even know Vienna was in Austria.Where were you?Austria.Austria.I thought, I would have said, if we were doing easy trivia and you'd be like, where's Vienna?I'd be like Italy.Okay.
17:20And what did you say?Salisbury steak.Because I thought the same thing.We're idiots.And what did you say?Salzburg?Salzburg.Got it.
17:26Very different.Yeah.But I thought the same thing.And also I looked for like local Vienna sausages like we have.Nothing?Yes, they didn't.That's not a thing.Hang it.
17:35So the whole ticket and you can go over, look for the one that says Austria on it.And it says, group and far as no, can't Klein.And that's nailed that.Yeah.That's what they said.And it says, Vaughn, which I think is from, Salzberg started off, knock, weeon,everything is in GermanGuys that's tough
17:56We gotHere's the thing about getting on one of these trainsIt's not like an airplane where it's likeOkay everybody take your timeThe train pulls upGet on or get lostAnd they leave youWe were like oh my god
18:09Oh my God oh my God we got bagsWe're trying to jump onWe're like we barelyWe were thereWe didn't know we're trying to get onAnd so if youI wrote we were scaredSee next frame
18:17And if you click over to the next frameIt goes from the ticketto the guy, my chat GPT going,yes, I can interpret this for you.This is an Australian Federal Railways group ticket for two adultstraveling from Salzburg to Vienna,key details, trainer, and I had to do it all in Englishbecause I had no idea what was going on.
18:35But that's fun after it's over and you do it successfully.And you ended up going to where you wanted to go.Yes.And I'll do this before we take a little middle roll here.I'm never going to mature to the levelmy wife would like me to mature.I'd like to say that up front.Vienna is W-I-E-N in German.
19:01Everything is Wiener.Wean.No, wean, but weaner.Look at my Instagram.You said it's W-E-I-N-W-N.Yes, but when it's described as doing things there, like the type, it's all weiner.So we saw a book about Wiener cafes.We saw a book
19:22Vienna cafesYesThat's kind of funnyEverything was we'reI could not stop laughingAt all the weiner thingsAnd she's likeDude
19:33How old are youI'm like it doesn't matterThis shows you it will never stopEverything's weinerWe'll come backMidrollAnd we shall returnBoom
19:44OkayA couple other thingsDoes lunchwalkshave to curse. Okay, Eddie, go ahead. Yeah, does he always have to curse? Like, especially, so I don't, by the way, I don't mind cursing. We don't do it in here. I don't do it in real life, but I don't mind it. I curse. I do. I have no problem cursing, but it's where you're cursing. And I went to a sports bar. I brought my wife and my 17 year old and lunchbox met us out there. And I was like, it's totally cool. But my 17 year old, I don't curse around my kids. I just don't. And has he heard bad words before? Yes. Does he probably use them? Maybe he does with his friends.Not in front of me.Lunchbox shows up.F this.What is wrong with that?
20:26F and team.Where else did he do this recently?Oh, in the car with your other younger kid.On the way to the CMS.Oh, yeah.Same deal.What makes him think he can just show up to our tablewhere my kid is sitting
20:38and just start cursing all the time?He's 17 years old.I mean, he's not a child.But he's an adult.That argument I would hold a little more.That argument I would hold a little more to it if you didn't do that around as 11-year-old, the same exact thing.That was more Ray the last time.Both of you.
20:58Away to the CMA.So, I mean, let's be real.So try to point me in that figure.But okay, go ahead.But yeah, I'm like a 17-year-old, I mean, my dad cussed around me when I was 17.But you're not the dad of his kid.Well, but he didn't say anything.Why didn't he say something then?
21:13Why didn't say, hey, man, my kid's here.Because he wants a bit on the ear.I don't know, dude.Yeah.He didn't say anything.So I thought.You do curse anything.It's weird.
21:21Especially when you're sitting there watching sports.I have no problem.Curse words flow out of you.By the way, I have no problem with cursing.All good.I don't even care.Words are just sounds and you can go six hours, one direction,in an airplane.
21:34That sound does not mean the same thing.So you know my whole, a sound is just a sound.It's the intent behind it.I will not walk you there because it's a stupid place to go.That being said.Especially at a sports bar?That being said.As soon as you walk out of the.
21:49door, all you hear out of lunchbox his mouth is F, F, F, F, F, F, F, F. Now, I commend him for holding it in herebecause he has to. It must be hard. Yeah. Then I got to get it out. It's probably like flexing a musclethe whole time. You can't just hold it, but he's probably like flexing muscle the whole time he's notcursing. But you curse a lot. I mean, more than anybody I think I've ever met. Oh, thank you.Not good or bad. Yeah. I'm glad I'm number one. I used to like, I used to like to curse.It's fun. Sometimes there's no.better way to explain what you're saying withoutexactly. Or an emotion. That too.
22:24Or a release.Excuse me? Oh, like the F wordis real nice sometimes. Oh, likea good like release. Likeugh. Yeah. Because I used to neverI didn't cuss and not becauseI was against it. It justI didn't cuss at home.
22:39My parents cussedmy siblings that dobut like high school college just wasn't my thing.So even as a young adult wasn't my thing.It wasn't until a few years ago that I startedtesting and I was like, what if I'm missing out.Right, it's good.But I don't do that.
22:54I respectfully, like, I take in my surroundings and if Eddie's kids are there, I'm notgoing to like, I'm just surprised at every, how much he curses is in the hallway.Like, it's like, and I know tomorrow will be Tuesday, Reviews Day and we'll talk aboutseverance, but there's, for the two episodes of severance, there's like one place thatyou walk through and you change into the severed part of you.It's like, as soon as he walks through that doorway, his eyes go, blah, blah, and all of asudden he's the other version of himself.Yeah, yeah, no, I love cursing.
23:21I haven't in probably five years now, but I'd only do it for no moral reason, becauseI don't think there's anything morally wrong with it.I think it's, again, I think it's a sound, and if you're going to walk there, we can,I won't.But I think that I just did it because I didn't want to rely on it when I was eitherwriting jokes or writing books or I feel like it's a crutch that people can use when theyhave nothing else to say to add or be funny.I didn't want to do that.
23:47Some people use it wonderfully funny.I didn't have the ability to do that, so I didn't.But he did show up and he cursed too uncomfortably.Yeah, just a lot and loud too where the whole bar can hear it.You know, it's just, and I wouldn't have really thought anything because, yeah, I did take my son there and it's a sports bar and it's okay.Like, people do curse.But the fact that lunchbox would even talk to him and be like, can you believe this?And my son afterwards like, okay, you got a minute, that's kind of funny.
24:14That's kind of funny.If he's right at the kid going, can you eff him believe this?And my son's like,lunchbox occurs a lot.I didn't realize that.Did you see the basketball coachthat pulled the girl's ponytail?No.
24:24That wasn't good.No.Oh my God.He was her coach?Yeah,she grabs her from.And again,I think there is,
24:33I'll play some audio of this,but I think there is a,a blurred boundary on coachingand leadership and not everythingthat happens in the business worldand the coaching worldshould go hand in it.It's a,
24:47not the same, right? I don't think it's the same. I think there's some elements of it that arethis was over the line. A Hall of Fame girls basketball coach in upstate New Yorkapologized Sunday after being fired over the weekend for violently yanking the ponytail of a starplayer and appearing to berate her following an emotional loss. Audio me.Northville Girls Basketball head coach Jim Zulow, a New York State Basketball Hall of Famer,was fired late last night following a postgame incident with one of his own players.After Northville's loss in the Class D championship game,Zulu was seen on the NFHS network broadcast,
25:22pulling the hair of senior Haley Monroeas the team waited for the medal presentation.Monroe directed an expletive toward himafter he instructed her to shake hands with the opposing team,which is what he says led to the incident.So it sounds like he's upset at her for being a bad sport,if I'm hearing this right.and I can understand being upset at a player,
25:48especially after a loss, tensions are high.You can't do what he did.If I were to just, Amy, here's the head.This is our head right here.He walks up and goes and just jerks it back like that.Like trying to get her attention.Right.And maybe too, because he's a man and she's a woman,
26:06it feels different.Because if my coach would have grabbed me by the back of my,I don't think.No.Okay, I probably deserved it.And she said a bad word or something?I think that lunchbox, you may know this better.Tell me if I misinterpreted the story.
26:26I read it twice.I think she's the star player of one of them.She was not happy that they lost.She didn't want to shake hands or had a problem with that.I don't know if it was because of what happened during the game.If she was just mad, the coach was like, hey, we need to go shake hands.She's then kind of walking.He grabs a ponytail.
26:45and say, hey, you come back here.But she said something to them.That's what the reporter was.Yes, but you can't really tell what it is because she's looking the other direction.Audio did not come through on the video.Got it.But then another player has to step in between them.You can't.
26:58You can't do that.If that would have been a dude, you'd go, hmm, probably can't do that.But you're not going to probably.My coach used to grabs by the face mask and throw it's like.Different though.Football is different.And now helmet is different.Helmand is way different.
27:12And not part of your body.Right.I hurt my neck there.And he is 81.So old school.I mean, that's pretty impressive.He's 81 and still coaching high school basketball.And fiery.
27:22He got fired.He looks just angry.And I, you know what?They just lost.No, no, no.I don't think he's even angry at the loss.I think he's angry at their attitude after losing.I'm not making an excuse for him.
27:37You can't do this time.Oh, yeah, no.I just think he has a, he just, I'm looking at old pictures of him from, he's like very angry looking.Well, basketball coaches have to yell a lot at refs.Yeah.I don't know enough about him.I just saw the video and thought, this is what I would compare it to.That sucks.
27:54It doesn't matter the situation.You can't do that.Just like you're a superintendent, you can't get a lap dance from a kid.It doesn't matter the situation.Yeah, even if it's a pepper alley.It doesn't matter.Right.It doesn't matter.
28:06It just doesn't.Anything that's surrounding it doesn't.And that sucks.So.I mean,that,I can bring that up,that thing at the
28:19Pepp rally,those things are so stupid.The more I think about it,it's crazy.They would even thinkthat would be acceptable.It's just crazy.It's crazy.
28:30If he would have grabbed her by the back of her jersey and pulled her,he wouldn't have been fired.Sure.And they'd have been like,whoa,no need,but still,there's a difference.
28:39You just can't do it.Which one's worse?The hair pull or the lab dance.Let me think about it.Let me think about this before just putting something out there.Let me think about this here.I'm probably going to go hair pull because it's physical and there's anger involved.The lap dance is just lack of judgment.
28:57And yeah, this is like a judgment with anger from the, oh my God, they're both terrible.I don't even want to, I don't even want to rank them.Oh, it's a good game.That's a hard game.What would you say?I say lap dance because it's sexual.Well, first of all, they take their clothes off.I know.
29:13But who was dancing?He was in a chair?Yes.In the pep rally.And the cheerleader.Wasn't it a cheer?Wasn't a dude?Or maybe it was a dude on the girl?
29:26So it's the student lap dancing to the teacher or the principal?Yeah, but they were in like a costume too, right?Right.Like a bee?See, it would be worse if the principal was the one lap dancing to the student.Of course it would.So I'm going to go with the hair pool if you're making me choose.Me too.
29:42I believe they were in like a hat.It's a mascot and the mascot was dancing on the school administrator.Oh, and the school administrator looks like he doesn't even want it.He's like, get away from me, get away from me.Oh, yeah, that's what you always look like on a slap dance, dude.Like, I don't want that.You mean in general?Yeah.
29:59But it was a big B.He maybe didn't want that.Yeah, he wanted the costume off or what?You know what?If you don't want that, you can get out.If you really don't want it, you can be like, hey, stop.Oh, wait, no.Then the administrator pretends to.
30:12do it on the B.Thank you.It elevates.It continues.Poor judgment.I'm still picking the pony tail.Yes.Yes.
30:21Okay.I have a lot of notes that I don't know what I wrote.Okay.Okay.Oh, got it.This one says car almost hit person.Okay.So remember the story.
30:41My car was parked at the Ryman.We were playing the mill.million dollar show, Eddie and I's charity show, and a tank, an air tank full of propane,flew off of a truck because it was so windy and nailed my car.There was a person that was standing right beside, and she wrote me a message and said,and I had it not yet, my car would hit her.My car's a hero.Your car's a hero.
31:05And your car may not want to be called a hero, but your car's a hero.I asked it.You want to be a hero?I'm not hero.No, your car.You're a hero.Boom.Do you want to hear the
31:14I thought I was being scam thing?Yeah.I am.It's bizarre.I am in Vienna, Austria,which is a weird thing to say.What time was it?In Vienna.
31:29Do you remember?Like, what time of day?Late at night.Okay.Because I get an email that is,I just want to pull it up.It was for sure a scam.It's one of those where you get where it's like,
31:41someone, I got one from coinbase? Because they just have a coin base, the app where you could just like buy crypto or stocks.And I got off that one. A long time ago, took all the money out of it, put it all in Robin Hood.I don't use Coinbase anymore. But didn't they, if what happens is when a lot of those emails go up in the dark web, they can use them an email.They have those email accounts. So send mass emails out. They go, someone's got into your account, even though they haven't.But since I know you have a Coinbase account, you'll click it and then they have your stuff, right? That's kind of how that works.So I got a Coinbase one and I was like, okay.Turns out, I realized, don't use Coinbase account.
32:13don't click it. Got a top golf one.Now, who doesn't love top golf?Exactly. Everybody loves top golf in some form.It's fun. Eddie's birthday was last week.21st, I believe, and I don't know much about days.It was on a Friday. Is that 21st?Yeah.Here's 18th? Yeah.
32:31Awesome.So, right now in Vienna, it's like 6 p.m. I'll close 6 p.m.So it was late.Okay.And it's like, hey, top golf, it's just, and your name has just been activated.And I'm like, I'm not falling for this.What the crap?And then it says, your name's on your.
32:49Yeah, yeah.It says Eddie Garcia.And I'm like, oh, they must know I've spent something on Eddie before.And it says $300 is taken out of your account from Eddie Garcia.And I took, Caitlin, I'm being, I got to get on LifeLock because I'm.Or Eddie's stealing from me.I don't know what's going on.And she's like, what?
33:05So I send a text to my assistant and I say, because it was Eddie's birthday.Let me find it.I say, with a picture of the email, I say, did this happen to be you that sent this?If so, thank you for sending this gift to Eddie.Awesome.She writes, typically I would.But no, I did not do this.And I'm like, oh my God.
33:32The confusion around this is amazing.And this is the thing I got from Topgoth.Hello, Bobby.It's officially a gift.Eddie Garcia has viewed the $300 USD.top golf e gift card and here's your order number and then it says from bobby if you have anyquestions click here and i'm like there's no way they just and and they use eddie and then i read on and it saysyou sent this e gift card does it have a year yes march 21st 22 yeah what happened is i sent eddie a
34:08three hundred dollar gift card on his birthday three years ago he never opened it was reminded he evenhad it, opens it, and goes to TopGolf.It's pretty amazing because I got an email from TopGolf on my birthday that said,Happy Birthday, you know you still have a gift card from three years ago that you have not used.I spent $300 three years ago.He never used it.That's amazing that they sent you a reminder.Usually a company doesn't want you to spend it, right?
34:34Agreed.I thought that was so cool.They would want you to never use that money so they just made $300 profit.Or they want you to get there to spend more.money because you will one use the card to eat food.Oh.It's already been spent.Didn't think about that.
34:46If every bay is not full, it was regardless.So I woke up and I was like, honey, we're going to Top Golf.I guess I had this gift card from three years ago.I guess I had this gift card.Yeah.I spent $300 three years ago.He never even opened it.But that must have been around COVID time.
35:02Probably like a lot of craziness.Or you probably thought it was spam.Five years ago.Maybe.COVID's five years ago.Yeah, COVID's five years out.Yeah, but 2022.We were still dealing with some of that.
35:10Who knows, man.Aftermatch. Don't hit me with who knows, man.I don't think 2020 was any aftermath.I think we were full-blown back in it.So, forever, I'm like, I'm being hacked.Then it's like, I bought him a gift for $300 three years ago.He never even opened it.What would your emotions have been?
35:28Well, do you want me to talk about my gift to you that you have a guy?And after you do that, Amy, I'll talk about my gift that I got more.But you said we talk about it later, so I'm not going to bring it up.We can bring it up.But at least he opened your gift.I thought I was getting hacked.Oh, yeah.And I can tell you the difference in mine and yours.
35:42There's a big one.I feel really guilty about you spending thousands of dollars.But you don't have to. I know, but I do.That's what I said.There's guilt associated with that.Oh.So there's no guilt.He just forgot.
35:51No,it was a pleasant surprise.I can believe I had a gift card for $300.I don't think it matters when you spend the gift card.He forgot about it.He didn't even open it back in the day.How does that make you feel, Bobby?You had to activate it.
36:05How does that make you feel?You know, not worthy.He's just, he's just feeding the flame.No, no.Bobby said how would you make that feel?First I was happy I wasn't hacked, if I'm being honest,because I thought for sure I was hacked and somebody was...There were several emotions.
36:16Yeah, I was really...So it started with happiness.It was a stew of emotions.But what gift card tells the giver?Like, oh, they finally used it two, three years later.Right, that's a little rude too.Top of golf, a little rude.Like, shut up, Tom Gawoff.
36:27Yeah, why are you doing that?I sold you a...Yeah, that part is weird.I'm happy...You used it?Oh, it was awesome, dude.All $300 of it.I'm happy to...
36:38Used all 300?Oh, yeah.He goes for three hours.I got four beers.Yep, and I have kids.Oh, I forgot about that.I got nachos.Taking four kids, a wife, yourself to do anything these days.
36:49You know how much lunch was?Why do you always ask for free stuff?You know how much lunch was at a drive-thru for my whole family?It's gone up.It was $70, man.Like at a specific one, not talking about it.No, no, no, it was like a chick-fil-A.Got it.
37:00$70?For six people?But think about, yeah, yeah, I hear you.But think about six people, 12 bucks, 11 bucks a per se.No, I get it. I know how it adds up, but that always gives me an opportunity to be like,can I get a thank you from anyone in the car, please? I hear you. I just want our listeners to know.Yeah, I love it. That you're not going through with just you and your wife and one kid.I know. Like, it's full Swiss family Robinson, bro.
37:23Eddie, you should start just looking around. Don't say anything. Just start, act like you're looking for something and be like, look in the console or if you're at home, start looking in the cabinets.And they're like, they're going to be like, what are you looking for? And be like, I don't know if I'm looking for a thank you.anyone's seen any appreciation around herethat's not badthat's what I doyeah yeah yeahand then and thenanytime they see you start to look
37:45like they'll be like ohwe should thank momshe's looking for hersomethingthat's funnyI don't know what that one meansI wrote some stuff downand I don't know what it means
37:55okay a couple of oh Amyyou can go with your thinggo ahead take shotssome shots if you needI don't have shots at allbecause I don't really feellike I understandbut I guess I was curious
38:03about what thoughtsI was supposed to have about thatbecause I meanI don't even remember the year.It was before COVID, I think.I'm sure it was.But do you understand my,my,
38:14what my emotions are attached to it?Yes.So if you don't mind explaining,if you feel comfortable,would you explain what you gifted me years ago?Okay.So I feel like,well, there was like sleep
38:30and there's anxiety,there's different things going on in your brain.And I heard somebody talking aboutthis specifically Amy Grant and what it had done for her brain and the healing. And so I called theclinic and I got you a gift card to there and it's they said you should at least do five sessions or it won'treally. So I was like, well, I don't want to just get him one or two because it's like, oh,here's one or two and then you have to figure out the rest. So I just went ahead and got the fivepack and then you're supposed to go in and get it.
39:07it and I don't know that you ever win in.But they didn't actually have like gift cards.So then I had to print something out for you.So I printed it out and put it like as a gift because they didn't make them.But everything was on file.Like if you were to go there, they would have your info.So can I tell you my thought was, especially initially was, it was very kind to.But kind of weird.
39:31No, I don't care about that.Oh.Yeah, I see the stuff I do when I'm alone.What the?I don't want to see it.It's like a neurofeedback type thing.Which is great because I've had issues that we haven't really talked about on the show.I thought there was potential that you were going to pay for it as I went and I knew what that cost and I did not want you to incur that cost.
39:55So I wasn't for sure if you'd paid for it all ahead of time or if I went every time that I went, it was you having to pay money.And I don't like people to pay for me for stuff because it's this stupid rooted,trauma that is stupid and wham whammy, but that's where that came from. And I'm like, I'm notmaking her pay for this. It's super nice of her to think of that. But there's no chance I'm going andmaking her spend money on this because I know of what she paid for it. That is where that comesfrom. Not because I forgot about it, like stupid talk, go. Oh, yeah. So the question is, have youalready paid for it? Because that would be, that would be, if you have paid for it, then I'm a badperson because you paid for it and I haven't used it. If you haven't paid for it and you're paying as I go,
40:37some of my initial feelings still remain. So where are you? This was so long ago. I don't remember,but yeah, I mean, consider it paid for. I can't not consider it. They took my credit card.But was it for each session, then they charge it? No, I bought the five pack. When you buy a fivepack, you buy the five pack. It wasn't like I was, you know, they were going to charge it everytime you showed up. You get the five pack and then it just, there's five. And when you go,then there's four left. But they charge you every time? No, I bought the five pack. Because I know the total.Can you just figure that out?Can you get some direct?
41:09Let me even see if this place is still open.Oh, man.Oh, my goodness.You waited five years, man.I don't even know.But the difference is, I never forgot about it.I just did not want her to incur a cost.Oh.
41:23Oh, yeah, okay.Or maybe you just don't believe in the whatever she got you.No, no, not that at all.I do because I have other friends that have gone through it.I have a question.Did you ever find the gift card I got you for Uber Eats?No.What was that?
41:37Eddie tells that story.I got him a $100 gift card for Uber Eats because I thought like, what's a gift card that he would really use?He loves Uber Eats.Yeah.So they do.Okay.I didn't lose it.I'm pretty sure somebody stole it.
41:48Oh, in your house.Oh, there's a thief in your house.What I did, so you buy a package, a package.The first five sessions are part of the package, and that's what I paid for.And then should you choose to go back for tune up sessions, that would be on you.But I got the.You already paid for the.the other ones? Well, I'm just looking at how
42:09it comes on the website and I know the totaland that's the total for the five pack.So I know I got the five pack. Can you call and see if they'restill good? If it's still valid, I will goin the next few weeks.Okay. But they're still open. That's good sign.That is good. So it says here.Got economy right now.
42:26Inflation. Yeah, and it's not far.Eggs. Just say stuff. It's in apart of town that you're just doing buzzwords.Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's in a part of town you frequent.Did you say Tesla? Toil the paper.Oh, I think it's a Tesla.Tesla, too.You know what I mean?
42:40If you'll let me know, and it's already paid for, I will go within the month.Wow.Yes, it's going to be paid for.If they don't still have your name on file.If they say it expired, Amy, would you pay for another five-five?I'm going to be like, how would this expire?If nobody used it and you took, because...You tell them.
42:59Well, maybe on there it has a date expiration.They didn't give me a date because I had to print my own gift card.That's true.That's also why I felt it was kind of like her.No, no.It wasn't though.Because they didn't.I don't think that, I don't think they had ever had somebody want to buy this as a Christmas
43:15present for somebody.Most people go there voluntarily.And I was like, hey, you need this.Right.If you will find that out for me, I would graciously use it.Perfect.But not, I will say no more.Thank you.
43:32And the end.Cool.And we have, my wife, give you our president yet?You haven't seen her yet.No, because y'all, we just, no.Okay, I don't know.Okay.Then I will also say no more about that.
43:44Okay.Because yeah, y'all were gone.Thank you for the top golf, though, dude.Hey, hold on a second.Let me call me back in 2020.2020.And let that person know.Ray, voicemail number five, please.
43:58Hey, Bobby, I expect a great show this coming week.Your Razor Vax beat number two.Can't wait to hear you all live again this week.I hope you all had a great vacation.If you look at my Instagram story, or no, no, my Instagram page and my feed,I had to watch games at 2.30 in the morning.Well, that's tough for you.It was terrible because I also wanted to be a good husband and go look at stuff with my wife.
44:26The Arkansas, Kansas game wasn't over until 233 a.m.So it was up watching it on a phone, going through a VPN.And you can't watch YouTube TV or anything over there because it's out of the country.It's nothing.So I had to go and find like a bootleg version of somebody showing it on TikTok.It's terrible.And they like move the camera and I'm only like in half the TV or like move their phone.I don't have it on TV over there?
44:49No.Which is crazy.Almost, dude.Yeah, that's what I thought.Like we watch soccer here from another country.That's a great point.How can they have March Madness?Okay.
45:00I don't know the answer to that.But I do know they have like three English channels.There's like CNN International, which there's none of the opinion shows on that.It's literally just international news.It's not even CNN that we get, but it's in English.There's almost no English television.If you were to log into your, I could get Netflix, but I get Netflix for whatever country I'm in.Oh, their version.
45:21It's 80% of the same, but there's some stuff, though, that's a bit different.Wow.You know what I started last time, Morgan, was Daredevil.Oh.Oh, yeah.So I was a little tired, still a little tired from the trip because the times are all off.I did not realize it was a continuation.Mm-hmm.
45:41From the original series.Not a reboot.Not all new.It is a continuation from the Netflix series a few years later now just on same actors and everything.Yes.And they even have some continuation from other shows that have blended into it.Really?Ben Affleck, he was a dude?
46:00No, that was a movie.It kind of pannedAnd I actually didn't mind the movieBut noI really liked it on NetflixAnd I was born on Disney PlusIt wouldn't be as grittyAnd I fell asleep
46:13Three quarters the way inChicks up so tiredBut I liked itIt's gritty like there's blood and stuffYeah it's grittyIt's darkI'm all caught up on all the newest episodesLike I've been watching it each night
46:23At premieresOh no it's weeklyYeah it's weeklyHow many are out?I think there's three episodes out nowThis week is the fourthworst. I hate it.I'm stuck like that with a white lotus, man.
46:34I'm like week to week.Oh, white lotus.Question about white lotus.Hold it.Say nothing. Say nothing.Say nothing.I haven't seen it.I probably should say nothing.
46:40Say nothing.So I've never seen an episode of White Lotus, right?Yeah.Wait.I know what your question is.No, you don't.Go ahead.Then go for it, big boy.
46:48You want to make a bet that you don't know it?Big boy.Yeah, big boy.Let me let you finish.So I was on the plane and when you fly back, you only get like four episodes of things.They don't show you like whole season.of things. So it's like White Lotus. So you had told me that you can start on any season one,two, or three, and it doesn't matter because they're all different. So all they had was White Lotus
47:09Season 2, the first four episodes. And I watched White Lotus Season 2 episode one. And that wasit's only one I watched. And I think I fell asleep or something. Is that okay?Mike, Mike, have you watched it? Because I feel like. Yes, yes, Amy. So you're saying,I watched White Lotus Season 2, Episode 1. And that's all. Oh, no, you got to go back to it.No, no, no, no.Season one.But everybody kept saying you can watch them all differently.I think you can.
47:33I have to rethink about this because initially I said, no, they're all different.But I think that season two, what I'm sensing, could be connected.So I should go back to season three.I need to go to Amy's Brain Friar.Forget that episode.Go to season one.Go back to season one.I would just start out.
47:52What season are on right now?Three.Will I like White Lotus?Yes.Yes, you would love it.That's fantastic.Because season one.No, no, season two episode one was Jennifer Coolidge and her assistants there.
48:05She's like, stay in the room.And then who's watched White Lotus?Me.Oh, almost everybody.Morgan, not you?I've tried to start it and I haven't been able to get into it.So don't keep on with season two.Just start at season one.
48:18Yeah, just go.Did that spoil anything?Did that first episode spoil anything?No.Okay.No.No, I would say you don't need to, like there is a theory that you don't have to watchthem all.
48:28But there's like an overarching theme now that connects them.So you're not going to be lost watching season two without watching season one,but you get an understanding of like the shows what it's all about.Yeah.You want to know a show that you could do that with and you could jump around,but really you couldn't, but you actually could,was Fargo, the television show.Oh, yeah.
48:48You could watch the seasons out of order because we did because we started like one of the,but I think if you watched an order,you would have enjoyed it 13% more.but still we ended up watching it out of orderbecause someone said,it was awesome.Fargo was awesome.Unbelievably great.
49:08In the movie, we tried to watchand it seemed a bit dated.And it's so different than the TV show.It's not even the same.The Fargo television show,anybody watch that?Yes.No.
49:19All of it?All seasons?Yeah.No, I think I watched.I bounced around.I would start it and if I got interested, I'd do it.So I think I probably watched maybe three seasons, but I don't know which ones.How many seasons are there?
49:32Maybe five.Oh, I've only seen two.If I'm guessing.The John Hamm season is when we jumped in first.It's unbelievable.Yeah.It's that good?Yeah, it's really good.
49:41I hate to say that because nothing can live up to the hype of anyone saying something isunbelievably good.It doesn't matter.It's why I don't like saying things are unbelievably good because I don't people sayingit to me.Then I watch it and I do really like it.And I'm still like, well, it wasn't unbelievably good, but it was good.So I don't like doing that.
49:55I'll just say, I love.it and had really no expectation.And he played such a great bad guy.Yeah.In a lot of movies.I don't know.A lot of shows, I guess.What's the?
50:06Oh, Landman.Is he in Landman?I don't want to watch Landman yet.Ooh, you need to watch that.Yeah, Landman's good.It's good.Pretty good, man.It's really good.
50:16We're just at a time where there's so many things happening.But is Landman just, what does that show you guys all watch?Yellowstone.Is it just the same thing?No.I didn't watch Yellowstone.No.I'm just wondering.
50:27It's nothing like it.Okay.I just looked like it's going to be in the country.I mean, you have some of the same actors because.And maybe the same style, but it's not in the same story.It's like about oil fields and oil.Does you guys watch?Permian Basin, Midland, Odessa.
50:43Is it my, like Amy, going local?Got it.She's like a comedian that says the name of the town to get a bigger reaction.No, how about you guys in Odessa?I love him in Odessa.Hey, my dad lived there for a year.Fermian Bay.Traffic bed in Odessa.
50:56Yeah.I of all of those Taylor Sheridan showsand I haven't seen LandmanI don't think Yellowstone can countbecause I started way a long time agoand I'm biased on Yellowstonebut I think LionessLioness is the best show
51:10So goodIt's there's no cheeseAnd some of those showsThey can get a little cheeseLioness is as I quote a wise manLunchboxF and awesomeReally
51:25F thisI mean, it really is.And season one is good and you're like, and then season two already exists and season two is even better.I don't know if you can watch Landman though now.Like I watched Landman as Lioness was happening.Now that you've seen Lioness, that one just is such a, it sets all Taylor Sheridan stuff on like this really high level.And I don't know that Landman is going to do that for you.I've seen a lot of Taylor Sheridan shows.
51:50I like Taylor Sheridan shows.I haven't watched any of the other Yellowstone.shows. Oh, like, 23, 1883. I was told by a friend that 1923 is really good.Oh, Taylor Sheridan did Sons of Anarchy. Uh-huh. And he did the prison show. Mayor of Kingston.Kingstown. It's his world, man. I mean, sons of anarchy is so good. He's a white Tyler Perry.Yeah. Like, got something and everything and he's killing it. Um, what, read me all of his shows.Yellowstone, Landman, 1883. Special Ops Lioness, 19.23 Tulsa King.
52:27Tulsa King.Tulsa King's got a little bit of thatthat soft cheese, but Tulsa King, I love it.He wrote Sicario.Yeah, the movie.Wow. Tulsa King's awesome.And the cheese you're talking about it.That's like dialogue cheese, right?
52:41Yes.Yeah, like the lines, the one-liners and stuff?Yes, yes.You know, I never been to Tulsa before give me a cheese steak any timethat's not from here.And he wrote something called it.Hell or High Water that got an Academy Award nomination for a best of a good movie.I don't know what that is.
52:54Taylor Sheridan did not create sons of anarchism.but he was an actor in the show.Oh, he was an actor?Yeah.What is hell?I'm in water.Can you give me...Sorry, my bad.
53:03The whole Taylor Sheridan world again, Mike?He's crushing it.He's killing it.I'm telling you, that lioness couldn't rave more about it.Okay.Like Zoe Saladanya.It's so good.Nicole Kidman's in the...
53:19And that's one season?Two.Oh, two.But then they're all out.Yellowstone, 1883.Mayor of Kingston.Hey, Lawman is good.Tulsa King.
53:30I don't know why I stopped watching it for some reason.I think another show came back on.But Lawman Bass Reeves, and it starts with a big battle scene.He's a black sheriff based on True Story back in the 1800.That's a good one.That's a good one.Yeah.Okay.
53:44It's like him and Chonda Rimes are like the two leads of all TV shows that are good.She's the other one that did all like that whole.She kind of took a break, right?I know.She's done making?I don't know.She just started another one.She got Shonda Land.
53:58I would need to know.Because I think of him as like the new Tyler Perry, who's a billionaire.I need to know what Shonda Rhymes does.Maybe I haven't watched enough of her show.There's more of it.Never watch Grey's Anatomy.Private Practice.Never seen it.
54:10Off the map, never heard of it.Scandal.How to get away with murder?That's true.That was good too.For a while.That's ridiculous.They cancel it?
54:19Do they finally not get away with it?Station 19.The catch.She was in charge of Bridgeton.that whole series that happened.Inventing Anna.Yeah, I don't know.Oh, that's Anna Delvey.
54:30Yeah, Anna Delvey.She's got a lot of them.Charged it to my father.Remember Anna?Anna Delvey?She was the fake.She was?She was?
54:38No, no.Yeah, she was.She was?Because she was in jail, right?Yeah, she had an animal.She was the, she acted like she was this heiress in New York.And she got people to give her all this money or she would get things for me.And she was just like, charge it to my father.
54:55I don't know.That's exactly right, but like, there was no charging a turbo.There was no father.Like how?Ray, give me a voicemail too.Good morning studio.I'm giving a shout out to all of us that are fighting cancer.I am on my seventh month of fighting breast cancer, and I have five-four radiation treatments
55:16to go.This has been a really extremely painful journey for me because I'm allergic to all painkillers,and so I can't take any painkillers.So for everybody out there that's fighting cancer, children, teens, adults, got this, we can do this.So I'm sending my love and blessings out to you all.Dang, really sorry to hear that.One, that you're going through this now, but also being allergic to painkillers.I know somebody else who's allergic to painkillers.
55:47Obviously not, they're not going through cancer.But that's a nightmare for them just in normal life.That sucks.I'm really sorry.I appreciate your call, and I think a lot of people will hear that that are also going through the same fight you are,and we'll appreciate you sending that, because we appreciate you sending that, and we're not going through this fight right now.So good luck with your journey.I'm very sorry to hear about the painkiller thing, too.
56:07That's tough.I was crying about ibuprobin 15 minutes ago.I was like, Sprangy my ankle, Abby, can you get me an ibuprofen?You know what?She did, didn't she?She did quickly.And I opened my mouth, like she was going to feed them to me, and she was like, uh-uh.And I respected that about her.
56:24Do you think you want to be fed?No, not at all, but I thought it was funny because she brings in the pack, I do this.And Abby goes, uh-uh.And I was like, Ida, girl, you tell me what's up.We went over that in our therapy thing that Ben and I did with the kids recentlybecause they weren't nurtured being in an orphanage for those early years.They weren't nurtured in a way that, like, you know, our moms maybe did with us.And they were like, I know this is going to make.
56:54they sound weird, but look for ways to, I mean, they're 14 and 17 now, but they're like, look forways to feed them.Okay.Okay.Abby, next time I'm going to need you to do that.I do wonder if you were, you know, because your mom had you, she was so young and, you know,involved another, like maybe sometimes your needs like that weren't met because she.Oh, yeah, for sure.
57:16I'm not added her anymore.I did a whole podcast.Oh, I know.You're not.I'm not saying you're mad at her, but I'm saying.I was, though, for a long time.For relationships and trust and, like, your brain.and knowing like I need something
57:26and this needs can be met like I'm hungryI don't know my needs like mirroring that likewhen babies sometimes like giggle and then the parentslike giggle back yeah likeI know for my son when he was dropped off at the orphanagethey said he barely moved and that means likehe just wasn't paid much attention to sothey'd teach him how to roll over because he just didn't get that
57:44stimulation and so anywayI've been looking for ways to feed my kids and it's kind of funthe airplane one's fun you're done the airplanewell yeah but when they're fourI know, but when they're 14, they're looking at me.They're like, what are you doing?And I'm like, just come on.Or like my daughter needed medicine the other day.
58:00And I tried to like do it and like look her in the eyes as I was doing it.And I'm like, come on, let this work.Build trust.Build trust.It's interesting that you bring that up because I talk about that a lot in therapy,not the airplane or the Amy feeding me.But I don't have needs, quote.That's how I feel.
58:17That's what I say.Right.But that's not really how I feel, even though I think that's how I feel.I don't have needs.And it's a constant, what are your needs and be vulnerable enough to express them?Because I don't know them because I've never had to have them.I just figured it all out myself.There was never a need that I couldn't meet myself.
58:36Never felt like a need.It was just a task.There was a difference to me.And then, so I don't know how to express needs without feeling like a complete wuss,which is also a vulnerability thing.So if anybody wants to airplane me, I'd love it.And now I get mad at Abby for not putting...Next time I get you a spoon.
59:01It's on.Ray, give me a voicemail three.Bobby, my son is 11 years old and wants his first pair of Jordans.He's willing to buy them, but he wants to buy the cheapest ones he can just so he could have them.Should he pay a little bit more for a little better Jordans,or would the cheap ones be just as good?Thank you. Love the show.I just would need more context to this.
59:31He's 11.You're starting to be kind of cool at 11.Or at least there's an attempt to be kind of cool at 11.There's the knowledge of what is kind of cool at 11.But I don't understand the difference between,I didn't know there was like cheap Jordans.Oh, yeah.Cheaper ones.
59:46I mean, I know that there's like rare ones,but if you're a little,11, like, why do you need a...Okay, I give an example here.I do have shoes on the table that we're giving away here.Let me see if I have these.So these here, these are size 11, Jordan 1 retro highs.So this is a re-release that had happened.
01:00:07So they look old, but they're obviously brand new.There's a strap that goes on the front, which didn't,they didn't make these in the later ones because it's so old-school 80s that they didn'tremake this strap.They released these in 2020And if you're going to buy regular Jordan onesYou could probably get some for 110 bucksThese were about $350,400
01:00:27And so if you're a shoe personYou probably noticeThe comp is going to be bagsWith womenYou don't have a nice bag, Amy, to impress guysYou have a nice bagBecause you want to impress womenGuys wear shoes
01:00:46And press is a weird wordBut I have shoes because I love shoes, didn't have shoes, nice shoes as a kid, so I'm obsessed with them now.And my favorite thing is someone's like, dude, nice, those are awesome shoes.I give you an example.We were in another country.I don't know which one.They all blur together.It's Austria.
01:01:05So we're in Austria.And there's a memorial there because Hitler crushed Austria.terribly, terribly.And there's a Jewish memorial there.And in that memorial, underneath the memorial,a lot of, and I don't want to mess up numbers,so I'm just not going to say numbers at all.A lot of Jewish people were killed
01:01:33and placed where this memorial is.Well, they were their first memorial,the second, right?And there was a group of, I would say,40 or 50.Is this it, Mike?I'm not sure, but this is the one that comes up.I think.
01:01:54Is this the one you went to?Yeah, I think so.I may say this.On the show wall of Names Memorial and Vienna Austria commemorates the 64,000 Jewish people from Austriamurdered during the Holocaust, with the memorial consisting of a circle of stone walls thatcarry the names of every Austrian Jew who fell victim.So I'm not Jewish, but I definitely can take...sometime and respect everybody that lost it alive.
01:02:19So my wife are there.Yeah, that's it, Mike.And so my wife are there, and we're looking at it,and there's a group of like, and you're like,how's this is going to be on shoes?But there's a group of like 20, 25 Jewish kids,but they're dressed like what a Hasidic Jew in my mind,like Modis Yahoo would look like.
01:02:36Remember Modis Yahoo, the rapper?The rapper.But they're kids, so they don't have long beards or anything.And we're walking, and my wife and I walk kids.It's another statue.We're looking at.They're walking, and I can hear one of them,talk about North Carolina
01:02:48basketball in Austriaand I'm like, oh, I think maybethere's some American kidsand one of them walks up and goes, hey man,those pink Travis Scots are sick.And I was like, thanks, dude.Did not expect that in Austria.So even in that time,
01:03:04I was like, dang, like, I'm a shoe guy.At theone place I did not expect anybody to notice my shoes,I was still like, oh man, that's all.It made me feel good. Because the shoes,it's why I wear nice shoes. It's why I like shoes.to get that. So that's the difference. If it were a generic Jordan, no one would have said anything.But the Travis Scott's...
01:03:25But if you're 11. But that's what I'm saying. You're starting to be cool enough to understand what's cool and what's not.So if I'm this dad, what size is he? Call this guy back. I need him right now. Get on one tomorrow.Let me talk to him. I would say let the kid do what he wants to do if he has his own money at first.Ray, play that one more time.It's only 20 seconds.And then we'll end with this.Bobby, my son is 11 years old and wants his first pair of Jordans.He's willing to buy them, but he wants to buy the cheapest ones he can just so he could have them.
01:04:02Should he pay a little bit more for a little better Jordans or would the cheap ones be just as good?Thank you.Love the show.He's 11.He's got to start to learn to spend his own money on things like this.So I would let him buy his own.but you could as a dad, if you love shoes and you wanted to have better shoes,I would do this.
01:04:20I would say, okay, you have $10.I know he has more than that.You have $10 for these shoes.You know, do Jordans.Anything you make past the $10, I will match and you can buy you some better ones.If you want to make another $50, I give $50, you have another $100 to get nicer Jordans if you want nice ones.But give them the option, but let him if you're going to let him.That's all.
01:04:38It's good.But I'd like to talk to them, Scoob, if that's cool tomorrow.Yeah, I'll try to find a number for you.Okay.Thanks.No problem.I still have these shoes to give away.It's crazy to me that those white shoes were $1,000.
01:04:51I didn't pay for them.Alexander McQueen's.And they look like brand, brand, brand new.Yeah, those are, those would be television shoes that they're like,here's your budget of $3,800 for your outfit,and anything you don't spend, we're keeping.So it's like, okay, well, let's just go and find the most expensive thing you can find.Say no more.
01:05:11And then I'll just give it away when I'm done with it.but for those you got to you know there's aand where'd you wear those um i wore them a couple timesi think american idol are you saying yeah because they're like they're likecasual expensive the jewels what's the piano player who's gayelton john no no one before himliberace thank you they're a little liberati on the back interestingbut
01:05:35these are alexander be queens that's a very expensive shoe and i'm happy to givethem away to somebody we'll play a game or somethingum butshoes are a whole different world manthat's itI think we're doneI didn't even get to the citythey found underneath the pyramid
01:05:51they found adid you guys see theanybody?YesIt's the if trueLike city functioning nowIt'll be the greatestMost ground breaking
01:06:04historicalsocietaltechnological find in the historyof our universeUnderneath the greatest pyramidThey have found theseI think it'sEight cylindrical with coils around it and functioning where they think it could have been taking power from the earth and producing.
01:06:25Like silo?Yes.Meaning they had power and they had technology that even we didn't have then.You guys weren't on TikTok marks on this for like hours.No, I would have been all about it, though.A8 vertically aligned cylindrical structures arranged in two parallel rows from north to south.It goes down a half a mile underground underneath the pyramid.Vertical shafts, over 2,000 feet, connected to pathways.
01:06:53Could have been a full underground cities.Question.Unbelievable.Could this have been a World War II thing?No.No.This is thousands of years ago.Okay.
01:07:03Because the Germans occupied Egypt.And I don't know.This is underneath the pyramids.Had to be built before the pyramids were built.Okay.and probably when the pyramids are like they're just for dead peopleno probably with some sort of mass energy producer down there that they had figured it's wildit is wild still hasn't been peer reviewed yet and they found it with thermo thermal
01:07:28yeah yeah anyway you guys didn't spend two hours on that like I did last hourno but now that you've said it I'm sure our algorithm is going to pull it up now one other thingI can't I can't bring it up yetWhat?Mike, I shouldn't bring this up yet, right?We take it like this word, and I wouldn't be specific about it,but I should still hold off because of timing.Yeah, I know.
01:07:50Okay.Hold off.What's it to do with?Can't.I was going to do it today, but the timing's too close,that it will tip it off even though it's a secret.Okay, that's it.Thank you all.
01:08:03I promise you, you'll...So tomorrow?No, but I promise you you'll also not thank me when I tell you.Okay.So we won't find out and we also won't thank you.That's correct.Got it.But there will be some closure.
01:08:17So we'll know.Without not knowing.It's about knowing what it really was.Trust me.So we'll never know.No, I think we're going to know.But we won't even know that he's telling us.Then we're not going to thank him or we are?
01:08:28We won't.What is that?We won't thank you?He said we won't thank him.I'm confused.Some gratitude.He's looking for it.Yeah.
01:08:37Appreciation, losers.Thank you, Lexbox.Oh, that's what you were doing?Yeah.Come on.Our little, my mom trick.Yes.All right, we're done.
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