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The 7 Biggest Health Mistakes People Over 40 Keep Making: And what to do instead

September 7, 20260 comments♥ 0
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01:56number one sports book for live betting based on available live market data something happenedafter I turned 40 I didn't recover as quickly I started noticing some of my joints hurt sometimesthings were just different.Let me ask you,did you experience that yourself?And I started realizing after 40,for myself included in this,most people don't fail their health.
02:18They aim at the wrong targets.I felt like I should still be hitting the same numbersthat I was when I was 25 years old,when the reality is my biology has changed.And what I see in most patients I work with over 40 isthey eat less and lose muscle.They do more cardio and get weaker.They chase a number on the,
02:36scale while the number that actually predicts their future goes completely ignored. Or sometimesthey see people that are fitness fanatics and they're trying to deadlift and squat 500 poundswhile destroying their joints. They're actually aging themselves more quickly. And so here's what Idiscovered for myself, who's 45, and even thinking about my dad, who's 75, the playbook for yourhealth that worked at 25 quietly stops working. And maybe nobody sent you the memo. So I'm here to give youthat memo today. In a study of nearly 140,000 people across 17 countries, one simple measurementpredicted death better than blood pressure. And it wasn't cholesterol, and it wasn't weight.It's something you can test at home this week for free, and most doctors never check it.
03:25So today I'm going to walk you through five things. What actually changes in your body at 40?the seven mistakes almost everyone is making, how to find out where you stand, how to truly know ifyou're healthy or not and moving towards longevity. Number four, the fixes that matter most.What are those things you can do? The supplements you can take, the foods, the activitiesthat will make you younger and actually help you hit your targets. And finally, what I'm personallydoing and what I recommend others who are 40 years or older, what they should start doing,to have the right game plan for making the second half, the strongest half of your life.And I want to encourage you to stay the end because the biggest mistake on the list isn't about food or exercise at all.
04:08Welcome to the Dr. Act Show.All right.So typically for most people, somewhere in your 30s, your body quietly rewrote all the rules, right?It stopped building mussels easily.It takes way longer to recover.And anything you do wrong, you feel it the next day, it's less forgiving.The late nights, the skipped workouts, the dry.through weeks, same effort, different results. That's not weakness, and it's not your imagination,
04:47it's biology. And here's the part almost nobody says. Every one of those changes responds to training,food, and sleep. The rules changed. The game is still winnable. You know, when I was 41, I was diagnosedwith this spinal infection that got into my bone and abscessed by my spinal cord, and I nearly died.And after laying in bed for an entire year and starting to walk again, you don't want tothings that entered my mind was, how am I ever going to recover from this? Am I going to beable to go and throw my two-year-old daughter in the air in the pool again? Am I going to be ableto do triathlons like I used to? Am I going to better lift weights? I'm going to even playtennis or pickleball or water ski or snow ski. All of those things entered my mind. Because I love
05:28doing those things. And I wanted to be doing those things when I was not only in my 40s, but 50s,60s, 70s, 80s, and beyond. I want to say now I'm recovered. And in many ways, I'm stronger than I wasfour, I'm playing pickleball and tennis. I'm snow skiing. I'm water skiing. I'm not only throwingmy two-year-old daughter in the air in the pool, I'm throwing my six-year-old daughter in the air in thepool as well. And I'm more confident now than ever. I will be in my 70s and 80s having incrediblehealth. I can tell you, I have a dad right now that's 76 years old who was water skiing. I was,I was with him a few weeks ago. He was doing something called trick skiing on one foot, his foot inthe other rope, doing 360s while water skiing. And my mom at 74-year-old.
06:10old was up slalom sking. So the reality is this, for you listening, no matter how bad your health is,how broken you are, here's the reality. Your body can heal. And you can also be in your 70s and 80sand experience phenomenal health. But in order to do that, you have to have a strategy.Here's the reality. The average person loses three to eight percent of their muscle every decadeafter 30. That three to eight percent, that's the average rate of muscle loss for adults.who don't fight it and don't have a strategy.And it can accelerate even more after 60.Researchers call this sarcopenia,
06:47and I call it the drift.It's silent, it's slow.And by the time most people notice it,they've been typically drifting for 20 years.Again, this happens all the time.I can tell you.You have kids, you get busy with work,and then all of a sudden, 10 years is passed by,
07:01and you've lost 10% of your muscle mass,and you don't even recognize yourself.And here's the reality for most of you,is if you have a strategy,you can completely reverse that.You can put on muscle.you can look younger, you can feel incredible.Now, I want to share with you this study that came out, and you maybe have seen this,
07:16but this is a number that predicts your future.And this is a study done on nearly 140,000 adults across 17 countries.They found for every about 10 to 11 pounds, you drop in grip strength.You have a 16% higher risk of death.Now, here's the good news.The more that you're doing things to where it's naturally going to increase your grip strength,like weight training and resistance training, eating more protein, just be more physically active,it can reverse mortality and help you live longer.
07:48So I want to say this, it's not about you going and just getting one of those grippers.I remember my dad used to have one of these and I loved it as a kid.He had one because my dad was big into strength training and would use this thing to increasehis grip strength regularly.Now you can get one of those and that's good for you or you can hang on a bar and that's good foryou as well.Overall, it's more about how physically fit you are, I believe, than anything.else. Now, I want to share with you the seven biggest mistakes I see people making over 40 years old
08:14when it comes to their health. Here's mistake number one. All cardio, no strength training.Listen, walking is wonderful and you should keep doing it. But after 40, cardio alone cannot stopthis drift. Only progressive resistance training does that. Muscle responds to one signal.Load it and then load it a little bit more. This is the highest leverage 90 minutes.of your entire week.And it's the one that most people over 40 years old skip entirely.Here's the fix.Two to three strength sessions a week.
08:50Compounding movements, heavier over time, your grip fixes itself as a side effect.Your grip strength is going to get stronger.If you take two days a week for 45 minutes, we take about 90 minutes, at least two days a week, 45 minutes.You can do a push day and a pull day.You could do a lower body day and an upper body day.but do at least two strength sessions a weekis absolutely one of the top things you could doto improve your longevity.
09:16And listen, I don't think it matters that muchwhether you're using machines or bands or free weights.Overall, just get stronger.And then the second mistakehas to do with the most important thingyou want to pair with strength training.And that is eat more protein.Mistake number two is this.
09:35You're still eating a breakfast like you werewhen you were 20 years old, right? Begling cream cheese and coffee, special case cereal will skimmilk. After 40, it's kind of like your muscles, I can tell you, your muscles become hard of hearing.It feels like it's so much harder to put on muscle. And that's why you need to eat even more protein.The same protein makes a weaker building signal because your body has less anabolic hormonesworking for it. So the breakfast that worked back then, I mean, I felt like when I was,when I was in my 20s, I could eat almost anything and put on muscle and see results and recover.But now I need to be more conscious with my diet than I ever have in my life if I want to see
10:18results.So here's the easy fix.Raise the volume.Get real protein every meal starting with breakfast.Again, I think the ideal is one, okay?One gram of protein per pound of body weight.So for myself, around 170, what I try and do, or at least close to that, I try and get 40 gramsa protein four times a day. And if you can combine that with resistance training, it is one of the
10:43greatest things you could ever do for your longevity. The number three big mistakes I see anyone over 40making is treating bad sleep as a fact of aging. Somewhere along the way, sleeping badly becamesomething people over 40 joke about instead of fix. Okay. And here's how I typically have experienced it.And by the way, I've experienced some of this in my own life. And that is, I used to sleep like a rock.I would go to bed and I would not wake up at all.I would literally, you know, when I tried to go to bed, I would go to, I would fall asleep and then I would wake up the next morning when my alarm went off or the sun woke me up.And then we had kids.And then all of a sudden it was like, okay, 3 a.m. sometimes I would wake up or 5 a.m. and not be able to fall back asleep.
11:23And what I found from working with thousands and thousands of people with hormonal issues is that typically that's cortisol.Cortisol gets too high.You don't have enough downtime.And think about it.You had your schedule before.And before you only had to manage yourself.you had a lot of downtime likely before you had kids.Even when you're married, you both had a lot of downtime.
11:41Now you're bringing kids to practice.Maybe you're even taking care of grandkids now.And your schedule is packed full and you are so busy.So cortisol goes up.So now melatonin doesn't rise enough and so you can't sleep as well.Here's the fix.A fixed wake-up time seven days a week.Getting your room dark, getting it cold, no alcohol before bedtime.
12:03And then also two hours before bed,stop watching things, start listening to things, talking to things, you know, reading a book,giving your body time to wind down. Having a wind down routine is critically important.Like, I'll just share it for myself.Let me share with you our wind down routine typically on our family, okay?We try and do an early dinner.Maybe that ends around six.Chelsea and I might watch one show, let's say 45 minutes or an hour from six to seven.
12:27And then at seven o'clock, everybody goes, you know, we get the kids in the bath,take our shower, come out.Let's say that's around 7.20.And then I'll listen to an audio book.The girls will play toys.Chelsea and I might talk.And then at 8 p.m., we get the girls in bed.And then I typically go to bed around 9 p.m.
12:45And that's what works for me.But figure it out for yourself, what is going to help you sleep more deeply and through the night?But a few things that make a big impact are light, right?So getting early sunlight, waking up at the same time in the morning, going to bed at a good hour.Make sure your room is dark and cold.and not having blue light exposure in the evening.The number four mistake I see people making after 40is not being active enough.
13:10So this really is not about weight.It's not about steps.It's about your overall fitness level.And this one, it's not about your weight.We covered weight training already.It's not about just taking steps.Walking is great.It's about your overall fitness level.
13:22Like, could you go out and play pickleball?Could you get up on a water ski?Could you go snow skiing?Now listen, some of those things you might be like,well, I never learned to do those things.So not.But like, what are some of those thingsyou could do when you're,
13:32younger in terms of activities, can you still do those today? Can you golf? Can you play tennis?It's just being active. If you needed to, could you go out there and play tag with your kid orgrandkit? Now, listen, sometimes we have injuries that keep us from doing certain things. But overall,the longer we can stay active in doing the things that we did when we were younger, the better.In a study done on 122,000 adults, the least fit people carried a five-time,greater risk of death than the fittest. This is a bigger gap than smoking. So overall, being fitenough to go out there and be active is crucial to your long-term health. Mistake number five,I see millions of people making that are over 40 years old as this. They're chasing the scale
14:20instead of muscle. If you want to be as healthy as possible, you're not just trying to lose weight.You're trying to build muscle. You're trying to be more physically fit. And if your single best strategyfor changing your body composition is doing an injection of a GLP1, that's not going to get you there.After 40, aggressive dieting or using GLP1s without strength training, sheds muscle along with the fat.And muscle is exactly what you can't afford to lose.Muscle is your metabolic engine.It has a huge impact on your blood sugar and your insulin.If you lose it, over time, you are becoming more and more metabolically weak.
14:59you become more dependent on something like a GLP1, which you'd never want to stay on long term.If you add muscle, you're more metabolically active so your body is burning more fat naturally.And you're healthier because you're overcoming any type of insulin resistance.Here's the fix.Stop focusing on the scale.Ask the mirror.Stop asking the scale.Or listen, if you use a scale, check body fat percentage in total muscle.
15:24That's much more important than overall weight.I mean, I'll say this.You know, and looking at blood markers, if somebody is still looking at and focused on total cholesterol and LDO alone, and they're not looking at new markers like APOB and others, they're living in the past.The same is true.If you're only looking at the scale, you are looking at an outdated marker.You're much better off looking at a mirror.If you want to use a type of scale, look at total muscle or phase angle or body fat percentage.It's a much better predictor of your overall health.
15:53The number six mistake I see people making over 40 is flying blind on.your blood work. Most people over 40 get labs once a year and they hear the word normal and follow itaway. But here's the thing. Normal is not the same as optimal and the standard panels skip some of themost predictive markers. Let me give you an example of this. Fasting insulin rises years before yourblood sugar. That's an incredibly important marker. APOB counts the particles that actually drive plaque.So if you want to truly know if you're at risk of heart disease or stroke or heart attack,O B is a far superior marker to total cholesterol and LDL cholesterol.High sensitivity, C-reactive protein.
16:36What an amazing predictive marker for inflammation.Looking at how inflamed your cells are.So here's the fix.Get blood work done in markers that matter.You know, right now where I'm sending people for blood work, you can go to cell rx.com.That's C-E-L-L-R-X.com, like your cellular health, cell.C-E-L-L-R-X.com.cell rx.com. And it's a great place where you can get the right lab markers done. And when you get
17:02blood work done there, you actually know if you're in the functional medicine optimal range or thesick range or the normal range. But you actually know for certain. But again, I think so many peoplecould have avoided heart attacks, strokes, other severe diagnoses, or of course reverse themif they had the right markers in front of them that were interpreted properly. Okay, number sevenmistake I see so many people doing over 40 is they're trying to do it alone. This is the one Imentioned at the very opening. This is the mistake that isn't about food or exercise. After 40,friendships thin out of their own. Careers, kids, sometimes moving. And by the way, the data says thatdrift is as dangerous as some of the physical kinds we've talked about. Loneliness, lack of
17:47camaraderie. I can tell you one of the things that fills me up, and I do want to say,I am focused on spending time with God. I'm focused on. I'm focused on.on spending time with my family.But getting together with some of my closest guy friends once a weekor Chelsea and I have a couple other couples that we spend deep and meaningful time with,it is so invigorating and life-giving to me.I'd a period of my time where I moved to Puerto Rico for a time.And I felt the lack of friendships when I moved away from Nashville.
18:13And so I know what that feels like.And I also know what it feels like to have a purpose-driven community.You know, I have a men's group I meet with once a month,but we typically, I meet with at least one of the guys or we all get together,oftentimes, even weekly.and we read a book of the month together, we go out to dinner together, we spur one on together.And these are my best friends.And it's iron sharpens iron and it's so life-giving to me.
18:34But to have those types of relationships, oftentimes you have to go out and make thosehappen.You've got to invite people over and set up those experiences and pursue other people like youwere when you were dating.And another great thing to do together is work out together.Now, so here's the fix.Put people on the calendar like you would a workout or going to work.A weekly table.
18:54A weekly day.dinner or breakfast, a small group, you know, at church, a growth group, a church community,scheduled, not spontaneous.Because here's what I found for myself.I mean, the spontaneous stuff, it happens a lot less than it did a decade ago because Ihave so many other things going on that if it's not scheduled, most of the time it doesn'thappen.And this is so key over 40 because across 148 studies on over 300,000 people, stronger social
19:20relationships meant a 50% higher odds of survival. But the other reality is, you know, when I'mworking out with others, I tend to work out harder. When I have discussions around a book I read,I learn more. Community is key to longevity. And the same goes, by the way, statistically,if you look at the studies around workouts and being more physically fit, if you have a workoutpartner or someone you're meeting up with, even it's just a day a week, you stick with it moreoften, you enjoy it more, and you're healthier because of it.All right, so here are some home tests I want you to try this week when it comes to yourphysical fitness.
19:51Number one, what's your grip strength?Now, you can buy something called a dynameter for under $30, okay?And just see, hey, where's your grip strength at?Number two, see how many chair stand you can do.This is where you sit down on a chair, then stand up.You kind of want to sit back, use your butt and stand up.Do that for 30 seconds and see how you feel.Number three, do a dead hang, right?
20:11Time yourself.How long can you hang from a pull-up bar?Number four, walk one mile.You know, see how long it takes you.See how out of breath you get.And number five, try doing something you did when you were younger.Here's the key.Don't hurt yourself.
20:25How are you still at shooting a basketball?Can you balance on one leg?That's the one I challenge you to do, okay?Balance on one leg.See if you can bounce on each leg for one minute each.See where you're at.All right.And then ask your doctor for these or visit cellaracts or somewhere to get the rights type of blood markers.
20:43Number one, APOB.I think this blood marker is incredibly important.If you want to know if you have any risk at all of heart disease,this is the single best marker you could test for, APOB.Number two, fasting insulin.Number three, high sensitivity CRP.Number four, A1C levels.Number five, looking at some nutrients, specifically though, vitamin D, also doing a hormone
21:06panel, those are some of the most important markers and things I would look for.And by the way, there's a great panel there at CellarX,if you want to get any of those done, and you can check that out.in the show notes. Now, I also want to mention I created two guides for you. This is worth over $100,but you can get it for free. If you go to the show notes, it's the top 25 blood markers guide.In addition, I created a longevity guide that walks you through everything from the top foods and supplementsand everything you need to know about how to look younger, feel younger, and actually physically be younger,reverse organ age and cellular age. So again, you can get those for free in the show notes.
21:41All right, so I want to go in a little more detail in these fixes that matter. So we talked about theproblems, the mistakes we're making. I want to dive a little deeper into what exactly you should do,okay? Number one fix we talked about. Lift two to three days a week. The top movements are compoundmovements. That's where you're using a lot of your larger muscle groups. So squats, hip hinges,things where you're pushing like pushups or chest press, poles like rows or pullups,carries, start really light and just work your way up over time. 90 minutes total a week at least.All right. So maybe that's 30 minutes, three days a week or 45 minutes, two days a week.That's the dose that's going to get you the results.
22:20Fix number two, just anchor every meal with protein.You know, some great options for breakfast could be eggs, Greek yogurt,leftover meat from the night before.A clean protein shake from plant protein or grass-fed A2 way.And focus on getting high protein in your meals at least three times a day.Number three, fix your sleep.Remember, same wake-up time.Get some light early in the morning.
22:42have a wind down routine and get better sleep number four increase your physical fitness that cardiovascularhealth now listen a great way if you want to stick to walking then walk hills or do some sort of intervalyou know get some sort of weighted vest where there's a little bit of added weight but do something to where youare getting a little bit out of breath and pushing that and that or one thing i love because you can do thisin community play pickleball or tennis or do some sort of physical activity that's actually fun as a groupAnd number five, put people on your calendar.Just think about it.I want you to take a moment and think about.
23:17Think about what your current community is like and what you want it to be.One of the greatest places to find community is by serving at your local church.That's where I was able to connect with so many people over the years and really build a great community.And then also just pursuing those relationships, inviting them to breakfast, doing couples date nights.Well, it honestly does take a little bit of work.It's absolutely worth it.You know, all of this reminds me of a Bible verse that my mom shared with.with me after she went through cancer. And it's Psalms 9012, and it's one of my favorite Bible verses,
23:48and it's this, God, teach us to number our days that we may gain a heart of wisdom.After my mom was diagnosed with cancer, she actually said that she was grateful for it becauseit literally taught her to number her days. My mom started thinking, my life here on earth istemporary. I experienced that same thing when I was in bed for the year with a spinal infectionis I didn't know what was going to happen. And I wanted to make the most of every opportunity,but here's the reality.If you don't take care of your physical health,you cannot maximize your day.
24:16And we are called to honor God with our body.So if you remember one thing from today, remember this.The second half can be the strong half.But it has to be built on purpose because after 40,nothing stays by accident.Your body will still meet you wherever you start.Our job is stewardship, number your days,and spend them building something that lasts.
24:39And I want to encourage you, if you really want to take action with this, go and download those two guides I created for you, the longevity guide and the blood work guide.Those are free.Again, over $100 worth of content value you get for free there in the show notes.I don't encourage you download it and actually read through and look through it.I think it's going to give you immense value.And then I want to encourage you subscribe.It's the number one thing you can do to support the show and allow me to continue to put out content like this and bring on a lot of amazing guests.You know, I Gary Breka on recently.
25:09I had Michael W. Smith and so many others.So thank you for subscribing and then also do this for me.Think about one person who's over 40 who could really benefit from hearing this and send it their way.Just share it with them.And I want you to know that I am praying for you and your longevity and your health.Thanks so much for tuning in here to The Dr. Act show.I'll see you on the next episode.