3 Takeaways - Always Be Learning: The Top 10 Takeaways of 2021 From Our Guests (#74)

Episode Date: January 4, 2022

This week we are highlighting the Top 10 Takeaways of 2021 with guests ranging from CEOs and founders to best-selling authors and even the Director of the U.S. Secret Service. These individuals left us feeling motivated and inspired!This podcast is available on all major podcast streaming platforms. Did you enjoy this episode? Consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts. Receive updates on upcoming guests and more in our weekly e-mail newsletter. Subscribe today at www.3takeaways.com. The Top 10 Takeaways of 2021 include:Sherry Turkle episode #39  The Empathy Diaries and How Tech Changes Us and Our Relationships: MIT’s Sherry TurklePat Brown #55 Solving the World's Biggest Problem and Creating the Impossible Burger with Impossible Foods Founder Patrick BrownWilliam Green #40 How the World’s Greatest Investors Win in Markets and Life: William GreenEllen Marie Bennett #43 Hard Won Wisdom From An Entrepreneur: Ellen Marie BennettSandra Sucher #46 What Leaders and Corporate Boards Can Learn From Boeing’s Mistakes: Harvard Business School’s Sandra SucherKen Chenault #51 General Catalyst Chairman and Former American Express Chairman & CEO Ken Chenault: Leadership, Race & Creating Diverse WorkforcesAngela Duckworth #52 The Secret to Outstanding Achievement with Character Lab Founder and CEO Angela DuckworthElizabeth Nyamayaro #47 None Of Us Are Too Small To Make A Difference: Humanitarian & Author Of I Am A Girl From Africa Elizabeth NyamayaroBill Bratton #58 Community, Race and the Arc of Policing in America: Former NYC and LA Police Commissioner Bill BrattonJames Murray #45 Secret Service Director James Murray: The New Cyber Physical Nexus & How To Protect Ourselves From Cyber Risk

Welcome to the Three Takeaways podcast, which features short, memorable conversations with the world's best thinkers, business leaders, writers, politicians, scientists, and other newsmakers. Each episode ends with the three key takeaways that person has learned over their lives and their careers. And now your host and board member of schools at Harvard, Princeton, and Columbia, Lynn Thoman. Hi, everyone. It's Lynn Thoman. Welcome to our Top 10 Takeaways of 2021. After each takeaway, I'll tell you who the Three Takeaways guest is, and if you're interested, you can find links to each episode in the Top 10 Takeaways of 2021 description. I bet you can't guess who the guest is before I tell you. Here we go. Teach yourself and your children a capacity for solitude.

Think about if you don't teach your children to be alone, they'll only know how to be lonely. Create sacred spaces in your home where there are no devices, where you can just practice the quiet of solitude. That's MIT's Sherry Turkle on the Empathy Diaries and How Tech Changes Us and Our Relationships, episode number 39. A system that is overwhelmingly responsible for getting us in this state is the use of animals as a food technology. And if we can replace that technology, we can literally effectively turn back the clock on climate change. We can turn back the clock on all the historical damage that this industry has done. And I'm not qualified to be doing this, or let me put it this way, I am qualified, but I'm not qualified in any usual sense. I'm not by nature a business guy. I've literally never even balanced my checkbook. I have no interest in that kind of stuff. And I'm not interested in food, actually. I'm perfectly happy to eat delicious food, but I spend no time thinking about it. I've never taken a food company? The most important thing, which is that I realized that this problem needed to be solved. No one was solving, and I stepped up.

And I think the take-home message there for people is, if there's a big problem that you care about, don't assume that someone else is solving it, because they probably aren't if you don't see it. The fact is, the thing that makes it your job is when you decide it's important enough for you to try to do something about it, because the biggest thing that stands in the way of these things getting done is just the initiative. That's founder of the Impossible Burger and Impossible Foods, Pat Brown,

on solving the world's biggest problem and creating the Impossible burger, episode 55. There's a beautiful piece of advice from Munger that's very simple again, and yet also quite profound, where he says, if you want a good partner, be a good partner. And he says, likewise, if you want a good spouse, be a good spouse.

If you want a good friend, be a good friend. If you want a good friend, be a good friend. And so he talks, when I asked him about what made for a happy life, he immediately started talking about relationships. And he said, I've been a good partner to Warren. Warren has been a marvelous partner to me. And I think that sense of compounding goodwill by treating the people around you kindly, by treating strangers kindly, you kindly, by treating strangers kindly. You know, we're all deeply flawed and we mess up, especially when we're stressed and under

pressure. But I think that to me is a fascinating model and a very provocative and hopeful model. And I see it as part of a more enlightened form of capitalism where as Munger would say he doesn't see anything as a zero-sum game for him he wants everyone to win and so he says I'm not looking to squeeze suppliers for example I don't I don't want to brutalize suppliers and he's not looking to take advantage of his shareholders he's looking to add value to them and to be honest with them. And so this to me is both a simple idea and a deeply profound and heartening idea of taking this more benevolent and hopeful and positive approach to building relationships by treating everyone in your ecosystem more kindly and more decently. William Green on how the world's greatest investors win in markets and life, number 40. I would say use humble enthusiasm with everything you do

and always treat people like people, not like transactions. And remember that they're not bumps in the road, they are the road. And that for every success you see out there, there's 20 failures behind it. And it is part of the journey. So don't ever take it personally, but simply learn from it. They're like steps on a staircase versus rocks on your shoulders.

Don't take it like a rock. Take it like a staircase. That was a mistake. That's going to get you to another place and you just learn something. So good job for surviving. Entrepreneur Ellen Murray Bennett on hard won wisdom from an entrepreneur. Number 43. Lost trust can be regained. Most of us assume that trust is this fragile thing. And once it's done, game over, can't do anything about it.

But because it's built by actions, it can be recovered by actions. And so it really requires a certain way of understanding what you're doing, but it definitely can be recovered. And so I want to leave people with a sense of kind of optimism about this and that this is an area to kind of get to know inside your organization, really understand how you can benefit yourselves and others by working on it. Harvard Business School's Sandra Sucher, What Leaders and Corporate Boards Can Learn from Boeing's Mistakes, number 46. Strive to capture the hearts and minds of your people. And to do that means, clearly, you've got to come up with strategies that they can believe in and tactics. But if you don't have the hearts and minds, you're not going to be an enduring leader. And that's what you need to be focused on. General Catalyst Chairman and former American Express CEO Ken Chenault on leadership, race and creating diverse workforces, number 51. Talent and effort are not at all the same thing.

And if we understand that, then maybe we can give effort its due and not get distracted just by thinking about talent as the be-all and end-all of what factors into achievement of any goal. Character Lab founder and CEO and author of Grit, Angela Duckworth, on the secret to outstanding achievement number 52. It takes each of us to create change, right? We can't wait for someone else to do it for us. And there's even one of my favorite African proverb that I'm going to leave you with, which is, if you think you're too small to make a difference, try spending a night in a room with a mosquito. So you realize that, you know, none of us are too small to make a difference. And it's going to take literally each of us contributing in our own small ways to create a world that works for all of us. Humanitarian and author of I Am a Girl from Africa, Elizabeth Nyamairo,

on None of Us Are Too Small to Make a Difference. Everybody should always be learning. Remember the Glenn Gary, Glenn Ross play about the salesman, and they will always be selling ABS? Well, the American public, I would hope they would always be learning. And in this time of stress between police and the public, always be trying to learn more about the police. And so we can all see each other better than we have done in the past. Former New York City and Los Angeles Police

Commissioner Bill Bratton on community, race and the arc of policing in America, number 58. An observation I've made over the past quarter decade working here, and candidly, I'm embarrassed to say I wish I realized it a lot earlier. And it's quite simply that attitude is everything. It's not only the story of each of us, but it is one that we write ourselves. And it is the key ingredient when it comes to building one's own character that other folks are most attuned to. And it's the one they're evaluating when they decide whether or not they want to invest in us or if they're really going to buy what we're selling. Secret Service Director Jim

Murray on the new cyber physical nexus and how to protect ourselves from cyber risk number 45. Thanks for listening. If you enjoyed today's episode and would like to receive the show notes or get new fresh weekly episodes, be sure to sign up for our newsletter at 3takeaways.com or follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook. Note that 3takeaways.com is with the number three.

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