A Lot On Your Plate - Side Dish: Show your boobies some support
Episode Date: October 20, 2023This week on Side Dish we have the amazing Jayne Lasley, founder of Fairlie Curved, join us to discuss why a good bra is KEY to feeling confident. Life is all about supporting them boobies girls. Enjo...y🍉 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Happy Friday party people
Happy Friday
Hope we enjoy Tuesday's episodes
And are ready for another all about booby-wobies
Titty tiddies
Oh yeah, this here is
On today's episode
We have a lovely guest
Her name is Jane Lasley
Fun story actually
I met Jane
She was one of the first people I ever met
in Scotland.
Aw, that's cute.
I'm trapped in memory lane.
Yeah.
Richard used to play for Motherwell
and I came up and he said
we're going to this party.
I was like, oh.
But Jane
used, well, is sorry, married to
Keith Lassey, who was the captain of Motherwell at the time.
Right.
Makes sense.
And every summer they used to
host like a party
because that's what kind of the captain
and his wife does.
And everybody in the team in their team
the girlfriends and the wires would go.
So could you imagine me?
I got up there.
I was like, oh my God, I don't know anyone.
My boyfriend just moved to Scotland,
but she was the most loveliest lady, so welcome in.
And I actually had a really nice time.
And we stayed in touch since.
We love her so much.
And we had a lot in common because I came up to do fashion,
account management, buying, whatever.
And as did Jane.
So Jane is 44.
She is a mother of two, and she lives in Langbank.
Where's that?
Is that how you say it?
reference shire
Renfrewshire
Renfrewshire
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And Jane has worked
as a fashion buy
for over 20 years
and she had the idea
for her business
fairly curved
while studying fashion
at uni
as she could never
get clothes to fit her boobs
she's a big booby girl
and her maiden name
was fairly as well
so she designed a collection
in her final year
for full of bust girls
and called it fairly curved
but she was offered a job
as a buying assistant
the same week
she graduated and took the idea forward
and something that she regretted for 20 years.
Anyway, fast forward to the pandemic.
She was clearing out the garage
and found all of our old uni designs
and she couldn't sleep thinking about all the regret
and after lots of research,
she realised there were very few styling pages
for Fuller Busted Girls.
So the next day, she started fairly curved on Instagram,
giving fuller bust bra recommendations and outfit ideas.
The reaction she got was amazing
and in the same week,
she lost her job during COVID, which is really shite.
And I know that's happened to a lot of people.
It sounds like it was meant to be, though.
Yep.
And girls started asking if she had a shop they could buy the outfits from,
that she was styling.
So with no job, she just took the leap and started the brand with just £500.
And Fairle Card has now been trading for almost three years online
and offers stylish, affordable, ageless, full of bus clothing.
She ships worldwide, with over 10% of the sales being international.
She also won Small Business Startup of the Year last year
and has been listed as one of the top 100 female entrepreneurs
to watch by Telegraph and Nat West.
Wow.
Saas, bot bitch.
And her main focus is making full of busts mid-sized women of all ages
who have felt completely forgotten about on the high street feel amazing.
Tag me next, time June.
Yep.
She's also going to talk us through bra fitting and close to fit your shape
because Jane has just been approved to fit some amazing bras.
Something that me and Zoe are really bad with.
We do everything on our power to make our boobs look smaller
and appear smaller
which can't be good for our backs and our boobs
No it can and honestly
I just chose a size and decided that I was never going to wear any bigger than that
Yep
I know
And I'm absolutely bigger than that
So I definitely need some assistance in that department
And I also want to ask her like she recommends
That's what she's been known for
recommending good places to shop for bras
So I do know she's now fitting a particular brand
But it'd be good to ask her like
Where's good to go for bras?
I know because I just think you hear such a contrast
between like see if you got fitted in
Marks and Spencer say right
in my head that's probably more your actual size
because they're like
for women
Yeah
Whereas like Beau Avenue
Like you're going to make me ten times bigger
Because your brads are like wee cute bras
Yeah
Do you used to have licenza?
Yes
By the whole lace pants started with licenza
Yeah that really is bringing
It's ringing bells
ringing bells.
But she's also wants to talk a little bit about
not giving it upon your dreams
and it took her until her foresees to start her dream job.
But all the things she learned in the jobs
that she hated when she was younger
have helped her make her dream come true
and her company a success.
And she also wants to talk a little bit
about how it is running a business as a mum of two
and how she's built a business
that only has female employees so far.
Her head office has flexible working hours as well
which is centred around the school hours.
so all the girls in our office can do school drop-offs
and they can have a really nice work-life balance
with their families which I think is really important
I feel like she's kind of stated the difference
between starting a business young
and starting a business when you are a bit older
because she's like seen the struggles of like having kids
whilst working for others
and she's made sure that she gives her staff the opposite of that
and that's probably why it's good starting it at a later age
because you've got all this life experience
absolutely well I feel inspired
I can't meet her, Jane.
She's honestly incredible.
Love her so much.
She's a great, great person.
Do you know what else I love about her as well?
She is such,
like, she's obviously watching my journey living here
when, from knowing no one to obviously having just just food or whatever.
Not everyone that walks of streets of Glasgow.
And she's so like, what's the word?
Just.
Like supportive, like bigs me up, yeah.
She always wants to help wherever she can.
It loves to see people do good.
Yeah.
She is a real girl's girl.
And a great mum as well, actually.
I'm pretty certain her daughter is obsessed with Richard.
Aren't we all?
Aren't we all?
Okay, so when she comes, we'll intro Jane to the pot.
So we have the lovely Jane here with us.
Hello, Jane. How are you?
I'm good. Thank you, girls. How are you?
We're fabulous.
We are fabulous.
So, are you a pod listener?
I am. I listen to you, well. I'm so no more orders in the office. Love it.
Oh, my God.
Although my mum comes in and packs the orders with me.
me on a Monday
and a Friday and I can't listen with my mum
oh no no no what are you listening to
oh no all that's swearing
oh we did say that I need to get a swear jar
and it's just less of the sex toy chat
you know and Jane did actually call me
she said that was funny
she says that you are a fellow Virgo
Richard G rolled his eyes to
and she says you just have a lot in common eh
well I just think that's great compliment
so how have you been
tell us how's life
Life is great. Life's very good. Uh-huh, very good. It's been a bit of a rollercoast
at the last couple of years but it's good, really good at the moment.
Because I was saying actually I met you when we moved up here obviously because of Keith and
Richard but also when you worked at, what was it, Premier Homes as an account manager,
a fashion buyer?
Account, national sales account.
Yeah.
And then.
I know I loved meeting you when you came to that barbecue because I remember you said to me,
yeah, I'm just up visiting. I mean, I'm not moving up here. I'm not going to move up just because
he's working here and I was like oh my god that was me
because obviously when Keith was
playing when he was a lot younger he moved down
to Plymouth Argyle and I refused to go
we had we own house we live together
and I refused to go with them
until I had a job and my mum who's the most
independent women I know
said to me I can't believe you're doing this I can't believe
you're not going to your own house together and you're
not going to move with him and I'm not going until I've got a job
and I was on a three month notice period
I used to buy for International and I
worked my notice and then I got a job buying for
a new look and I moved down and on the map it
looked really close together, Plymouth and Weymouth is miles away, like two and a half hours
away. And we were, I thought, I'll move down, we'll live in the middle and we'll both
commute. And then when we get down, I did so much Far East travel. Their closest away game was
like two and a half hours a week. So they travelled every Friday and it just didn't work out.
So I ended up moving down. I lived in Weymouth and he lived in Plymouth. And all wags were down there
were like, why would you move from Scotland and still live two and a half hours away?
And I'm like, why would I move down and just follow him?
So who said that in my barbecue, I was like, oh my God, I love you.
I love you.
And then give it every six moments and I didn't move up.
But I didn't move up until I got a job.
You did.
Yeah, but it was the best decision of your whole entire life.
Oh, no, absolutely was.
Loved it.
But out of all of the couples, I hope nobody minds me saying this, actually.
No, you say whatever you want, it's a safe space here.
Out of all of the couples that we met and we made some brilliant friends when we lived down south,
we're the only couple that's still together.
Really?
That's wild.
isn't it?
All divorced.
So I think there's a lot to be said about being independent
and having your own thing.
Own life.
Oh, without a doubt.
I do think the distance at the beginning of our relationship
helped made us stronger, definitely.
We've always had a lot of distance, Keith and I.
I wonder if that's why we're still like each other.
Because we first started going out with each other
before I went to uni.
I was like, I'm going to uni in three months.
This is never going to be serious.
And then moved away down to the borders,
lived down there for four years.
Did you?
Yeah.
What's Keith do now?
He is the chief operating officer of St. Mirren.
He's in a suit. He's in a suit now.
So he's done a master's in sporting directorship.
And yeah, so he's the other side of football now loves it.
So tell us briefly, I know we've just spoke about this just before you came onto the podcast,
but the transition of working for 20 years as a fashion buyer and then going into your own business,
something that you wanted to do for so long.
It was a uni project.
Really interested to know how that happened.
Yes, I've always struggled to get clothes.
to fit. I'm a 30 double H
Brass eyes. Double H? Yeah.
ABC, D, F, G, H.
Whoa. You wouldn't know
would you look at me that I'm a good double H?
You've always got a good pretty broad. You're a tiny little
thing. You are?
Big, huge boobs.
I'm an mainstream. I always really struggle to get clothes to fit.
Always love fashion. Always love clothes.
When I was younger and I was going out
all the time, I really struggled to get good outfits
for nights out because I used always have to be a big ugly braz.
And back then the bras are not like
they are now. All was really
struggled and then
decided I wanted to study fashion
at uni and during my final
year you could either do a dissertation or you could do a
collection. My maiden name was fairly
so I decided that I was going to do
a collection for fuller bus girls that would actually
fit me and I call Keith claims that this is his idea
I don't actually think it was but we claimed the
I named the collection fairly curved
and got a brilliant
reaction. I was always quite at fashion
uni
there's lots of really extra people
yeah there is yeah and I was quite commercial and quite quiet I worked I used to come home
every weekend I worked on Ted Baker in the Saturdays in Glasgow so I used to come home every
weekend and kept myself to myself and during that exhibition when we did the final collection
I got a brilliant reaction to it but I also got offered a job as a fashion buyer the same week
that I graduated and I never took it forward and I regretted it for 20 years I always thought
what if and I looked at bravisimo was then really becoming bigger and bigger and bigger with the bras and
then they added clothing and I thought right that's it I've missed a chance it's never going to happen now
and then during the pandemic when we were all in lockdown we're clearing out the garage and I found
a box with all my old university designs I was like why did I not do anything with that so by then I was
40 had two kids and I just thought I couldn't sleep that night for thinking about it just the regret
of not doing anything with it sat up all night did loads of research decided I was too old
too busy didn't have the money to start a brand but I thought maybe I could do something else
So did loads of research,
realised there was no styling pages for Fuller Bus Girls.
You can get petite, you can get plus size, you can get tall, mid-sized,
but there isn't really anything for like small-band, big cup size,
which is really difficult to get clothes to fit you.
So next day I just set up at Fairly Curved.
So it's fairly with an I.E., which is my maiden name.
And within like a week, I had a thousand followers,
and it just grew and grew and grew.
And then I lost my job during the pandemic.
Yeah, I remember that.
And the same week that that happened,
some of my followers started to message me and say
have you got a shop can be by your clothes
and I was like do what I'm going to do this
I'm going to do it so just put a poll out and said
what are the major problem items
that you can't get for a full or bust
expecting people to say like dressies or tops
or shirts anything that was buttoned
and loads of people just said I just want a perfect fitting t-shirt
just want a t-shirt that fits my chest and fits my waist
so I got the old sewing machines out from the loft
Did you?
I used my skills because I'd worked as a buyer
so I'd loads of good contacts in the industry
sourced a really good organic cotton stretch t-shirt
which was generous across the chest but quite boxy in the shape
and just worked for nights upon nights upon nights
Keith used to bring me up a glass of rosy wine
every way to help us stay
working on a pattern to try and get the perfect t-shirt
and that was how it started.
Oh my God!
Do you know what I'm so impressed by
that what you did at uni
was a good enough idea to then start
I'll want to do it 20 years later.
Yeah.
But you know what's the way?
I would never have done it well.
I wouldn't have done it well.
Yeah.
And I would have, I didn't.
So working as a buyer for 20 years,
I had the experience of your profitability and your margins.
Yeah.
It would never have been profitable.
And this, my business has been profitable since day one.
I've been able to pay myself.
You know, at the start a very small salary.
Lots of people will say businesses take two years before they make any profit.
From the experience I had working as a buyer.
Yeah.
It's been successful from the beginning.
Well, you knew, like, what to do and whatnot.
to do really from us. I know the contacts you've met
along the way. That's key.
So that's what I would see probably has been the two
strengths to the businesses. Because
I started the styling page, I had a community
of engaged
they weren't customers yet, but potential
customers. And because I had never
really planned to ever launch
the brand, I thought it was too old and
you know, didn't have the money to do it. So
they trusted me because
I was never really selling anything. I was just giving
out for ideas. And I never did it on
an affiliated link or
I was just doing honest reviews
and never made any commissions or anything
like that from it so they did trust me
so I had a really strong community
of followers and then I had a
really strong community of suppliers
so we've just launched a curfriendly
gene and I've
done that with a supplier
it's a weird weird story so basically
when I was a buyer I worked for a really
small company just after my maternity leave after
I had my son there were a menswear
shop they asked
me to add on the contact
me and said, I've still on my turn to leave, the contact
he made said, we do two days a week just launching our
women's wear, which I did.
One of their long-term suppliers came in
who was like a menswear supplier
and he kind of pitched this range to me
and it was horrendous and I was like, look, it's not going to work, it's not
my bag, I don't think this is going to happen and he was like
no, no, it will, it will, it's selling for me.
He was a good friend of the owner, so look, I'll
do a small trial and we'll review it
from there. It was a disaster like I thought it would be.
So I phoned him and said, look, this hasn't worked.
I'm going to send you an email explaining why
I think it hasn't worked.
And I basically said, gave him, you know,
this is the price points that are working for us,
this is the stales that are working for us,
this is the shapes, this is the washes, blah, blah, blah,
this is what I think you need to do.
And I never really thought anything of it.
He took it on the chin and he was like,
appreciate your feedback.
And I never saw the guy again until 10 years later
when I was starting fairly curved.
And people had started to say to me,
some of my customers had started to say,
Jane, you're solving the fuller bust clothing issue,
but I've got a curvy bum and hips.
And if I find jeans to fit,
they're too big at the waist.
got a big gap at the back, could you do something for jeans?
And I was in Manchester, totally by chance stumbled upon this denim showroom,
went in, asked the guy, what's the rise measurement on this gene, front and back,
what's this wash, what's that?
And he was like, who are you?
How are you asking all these questions?
How are you asking all these questions?
He said, do I usually just get boutique owners that come in and just buy a pack.
Where have you came from?
I think he thought it was maybe a competitor or something.
And I said, oh, I was a buyer for 20 years.
I've just set up own brand.
I'm looking for a really good, car-friendly gene.
And he was like, what's your name?
And I said, he went, I know you.
And he went away and got his laptop, and he pulled out that email.
So he was the supplier from 10 years ago.
And he was like, I've kept this email.
And I read it every now and again.
He said, you've changed my business.
So he's not a menswear supplier anymore.
He's like a women's wear, denim women's wear supplier.
Wow.
So he was like, I followed all of your advice.
And he's like, I can't believe you've just walked in here.
I cannot.
What is it that you want to do?
and I said, well, I want to do
a car-friendly gene, but I'm such a small startup,
I know I can't go to a factory, there's no way
I'm going to be able to meet the minimums, yeah, just can't
do it, and he's like, I'll do it for you.
Stop! So he's just, it took us
a year to get the fit right, he's just
developed, our car-friendly gene, he holds all
the stock for me, call it off as when I need it.
It's like it was meant to be?
So, but I think it's just how
you treat people.
Yeah.
Throughout, so back to your point, Zoe, about it's amazing
that I had that idea.
Uh-huh.
I would never have been able to execute it the way I have now
I would never have had the support
and a lot of my suppliers are like that
that I've worked with over the years
that have really truly supported me
they give me terms
when really you wouldn't get terms initially
and it's just because of how I've treated people
along my career as a buyer
they really do go above and beyond for me
and it's thanks to them
and my followers, my customers
that I've got the community that I've built
that I'm able to have built it as quickly
as I have. Yeah. And obviously
you're branching out into other things, but
in terms of boobs
what, can you tell us
why it is so important to like wear even clothes
that fit you well in that department or like
bras? Because you can now
you're now qualified to measure, aren't you?
Yeah, I am. So I'll tell you
another wags, a funny wag story
if Amanda doesn't mind me telling you this.
Hello Amanda. She'll know
what this is coming because she messages me all the time
saying, Jane, you changed my life that day, you changed my life.
So when Keith first started playing football
I'd never, like you, I never wanted to be a wag
Yeah
And he was an electrician
He was an electrician when we first started
He fancied Keith all through school
He wasn't interested in me
He was interested, he was best mate
And he's football, that was it
He left school, became an electrician
And then we met up just before I went to uni
And then he signed for a mother-o
And I was like, no, no, no, no, this was not the plan
I want the worky boots and the overalls
Yes, I don't want to be in the dark
You want that footballer?
Uh-huh
So one of the first
nights out we went on. I was dreading it. I was like, I don't want to be hanging about
with wags. I just not my, I don't want to do this. Anyway, we went out. I had quite a few drinks and
one of Keith's best friends now, Steve and his wife, Amanda, was out with us. And as I was getting
a little bit more tipsy, more tipsy, more tipsy, I was like, Amanda, you've got the wrong brass
eyes. There you never. You need to fix that. And she was like, what? I says, you're in the wrong
brass eyes. She was like, I'm a 36e, which is the most common answer. Yeah. I used to
always wear a 36e, by the way. So she said, I'm a 366. So she said, I'm a 366. So she said, I'm a 366.
and I was like you're never a year 36 C
so I was like one in the toilet
so I took that time I was like 30 g
so I was like braw whipped off
get that on in the cubicle and she came
out and I'm not joking she looked like she was
two sizes smaller
dress sizes smaller than what she was
because our boobs the 36 is not
supporting anything so our boobs were
lower than what they should have been and as soon
as you put the 30 band on 80%
comes from your band support
so as soon as you had that 30 band on
it just supported the boobs and the
the cup actually fitted her so she wasn't spilling out so that made her boobs look smaller
it honestly changed our complete shape so that's one of the reasons why your bra is so important
to be the correct size because it's supporting you and it's lifting you and it's giving you
a well-fitting bra can make you look smaller 100% and confidence and also it is just about
confidence I mean I feel if I've had a few mess I've launched bras this week and the sales have been
incredible and I've had a few messages from customers saying
will you not do a non-wired bra?
And I get it for comfort
but it's not doing anything for your shape
it's not giving you lift and support
so I'm one of them
I think you're all the same aren't you
like we are a sucker for a non-wired bra
I'm wearing a wide now
and I do feel the most supported in it
to be fair because this was when I had fitted
from Bra Vissima I think
but a non-wired bra
I wear them because I want to feel like
they're smaller
I try and flatten them
but I agree it doesn't do anything for my shape
I would honestly get up every morning and hire someone to wrap me
the way they used to wrap people to wear like corsets
just to flatten up.
Like 50 year ago to flatten my boobs like I would do that.
And do you know what I will say as well Jane like when I was a teenager
my mom used to wear boob tubes all the time and I now don't have perky boobs at all
I never support them as young.
I then developed really bad stretch marks on my boobs as I was a kid like purple
like someone had actually attacked me and I was only really.
like 14 I hit puberty quite severely actually we're very young and I was like whoa where the
fuck are they come from and um no it was they were massive and my mom was like well you don't wear
the right bras but I was constantly embarrassed by these big boobs I've made them smaller but then it was
stretching my skin as they were trying to grow and I mean they're all right now over the years of
making them a little bit better but they're not they're nowhere near I should have looked after them
better as a as a teenager and they probably would be quite decent now so my daughter's in
and she's like, I just want a big bum my mum,
we don't get your boobs, she just wants some big ass.
So she's really small chestied, actually.
She'll hate me saying that, but she's desperate to be a wee handful
and she's not, she's really flat.
And after, I keep saying, just, you know, they're coming, they're coming.
Because all the women in my family are really full or bust.
So the fitting that I had, when I went through the fitting with fantasy
a couple of weeks ago, they were saying that basically if you don't support them,
there's no muscles in your boobs
but the ligaments
or is it the ligaments
would that be right?
But they stretch anyway
so if they're not supported
they're losing shape
and they're never going to regain
for the fullness
and fullness
and so I always used
when I was young
I always used a really good
bust cream by Clarence
I don't know if they do it anymore
but I just thought
when I was younger I needed this
and that just help firm the skin
around
yeah so it just
interesting
My biggest regret as a teenager definitely was not wearing supportive bras
because they just grew out of control at such a young age
and then I was just like, get them away.
It's horrible.
I mean 80% of women wear the wrong brass eyes.
So 8 out of 10 women have got the wrong brass eyes
and the average brass size from the last 11 years
who's grown from a 34B to a 36 double D.
I mean that's insane in the last 11 years.
That's not a long period of time.
So boobs are definitely getting bigger.
but if you think of eight out of ten women
or wearing the wrong brass size
most commonly it's a band which is too big
and a cup size which is too small
so they're not supported
so they're not I mean
you get us for shock that I'm a 30 double H
I don't look like a 30 double H because
well there's a few things so from my asylum page
I've got so I wear like a
jumper or a so today I've got like a cable net jumper
it's got a half sip on so that zip is raising the attention
up above my chest that little bit of lace
is raising the attention up above my chest
A cable knit is working like a camouflage.
It's disguising the size of my chest.
But also I've got a really well-fitting brow on,
which is making my boobs look smaller.
We're missing a trick here, Zohry.
So basically that's fairly curved.
So I do outfit of the day, every day on my stories,
and I'll just say, you know, this is what I'm wearing to disguise.
And sometimes, not so much now, but at the start,
I used to get the odd comment,
why do you want to disguise your chest?
Why don't you just love them?
And I do love my boobs.
I haven't changed them now.
I didn't like them when I was younger.
But I do, they make me, me, and I do love them.
And it is difficult being a double H.
Don't get me wrong.
It's very difficult.
But I've managed to live with them
and actually they've helped me grow up my really successful business.
Because we were actually saying this yesterday.
We were talking to a girl that we know
that has had two boob reductions because she had massive boobs.
And we, I said to Zoe like, I think she's got gorgeous boobs.
But she was always hiding them.
I'm a little bit more freeing.
It's definitely come with age.
I don't mind flashing a bit of tit here and there.
But what I will say is,
the clothes that are designed in the stores are designed for women with no boobs
or you shouldn't wear a bra and we love that sort of fashion but we can't wear it
and that's where I think we probably feel a little bit left out sometimes we're going to Zah
I'm like oh that's such a gorgeous top but it's backless we couldn't do it my nipples would literally
tick on my knees like it's just not going to happen do you know what I mean so I just think
but in those cases that's where we just get a bit disheartened don't we I just feel like
I didn't catch that.
Oh, sorry.
Sorry, sorry.
I just feel like because
like I'm supposed
I'm still quite young in a way, right?
But mine are quite like
plump.
That's gorgeous.
And I know that's a good thing
but to me that's then bigger.
So what I would see is,
I mean I'm 44 now
and see if I could go back
to my 20, 30 year old boobs.
Oh my God, they'd be out every day.
Really?
And I hated them then.
but your boobs are never going to be as good today as they are today
because tomorrow they're going to be older and sag here they are so love them
yeah the job is out of me absolutely love them
and the other thing I would say is so interesting about fitting
so this is something that I'll say on my page all the time
and I have got a really a strong mindset on this now so
when I was a buyer every company that we worked for
we would have a fit model that would come in every week
and we would fit all of our samples from the factory on her
She was like a size 10.
12, normally a standard.
One company was a 10, but one was a standard size 12,
whatever the standard size 12 is.
But that company had decided that measuring this woman
and she would work across all departments
that she was our perfect size 12 fit model.
And the samples would come in from the factory.
The QC, the garment technician,
would measure all the garments.
And then before we started the fit session,
she would measure the model.
Get the measuring tape out, measure our chest,
her hips, or waist, the bum.
and she would say things like
now girls we're going to need to be really careful today
because model has put on
a couple of centimetres here or an inch there or this
and she would say well I've got my period or I've just came back from holiday
and I remember saying but our customers will have put on
yeah they'll fluctuate as well yeah so why are we being so strict
with this I don't want to see her name but this poor girl
because she's put on half a centimetre or this is ridiculous
like you know it has to be flexible because our customers are flexible
No, no, no, it needs to be. This is what we're measuring to. This is what we're fitting to.
So I think about that all the time. And when I try things on in shops, particularly Zara,
because I've known to be stuck in a few things in the changing rooms in Zara.
Yes.
I'm like, can't get out. They can't have to phone somebody to cut me out a dress.
I think this has been fitted on somebody that is nowhere near my shape, that is the perfect, whatever they deem the perfect size 10 to have model.
Especially them is Spanish models.
Especially those gorgeous Spanish models.
not being fitted for someone, there's been no fluctuation,
being taken into account in terms of having your period or putting on a bit.
So I've really, and actually the bras,
I've got a really strong mindset with that now where I blame the clothes.
Whenever I try things on and they don't fit me, it's not my body's fault.
Yeah.
I strongly believe that.
It's probably wrong, but I strongly believe, I have convinced myself now that it's not my fault.
Somebody has fitted this incorrectly at the point of fit.
That's what I tell myself.
So even the bras that I've just,
launched. So the bras that we've launched
on the website are the only bras that I
will wear that I feel comfortable
and supportive fin. I will not
put an uncomfortable garment
on the range, especially not a bra.
And if your bra fits
you properly, it shouldn't be uncomfortable.
Yeah. So if it properly fitted,
it should be comfortable to wear.
And when I put this
one on, that I've got on today... And it is fantasy, the brand.
This is a fantasy brand. Yes, this is a fusion bra
I've got on today. And when I first put it on, I was like,
oh they've changed this this is a bit tight it's not that i've put on weight there would never be
that it's the brass ball so i just convinced myself that through the years of working as a buyer
and seeing how garments are fitted knowing that they're only fitted on one person um just gives me
a completely different mindset in terms of how i how i fit and fairly curved so we fit on three people
we fit all our garments on myself who's about a 10 to 12 i would be a 10 if i didn't have my double
late. She's probably about a UK high street size 12. My mum's a 14 to 16. She's a double
G H cup and Linda who works in the office with me does Madman is a size 20, 22, sometimes 24 and I
fit on all three of us so that I make sure that the garments that we add to the range will work
across all size ranges. Amazing. Not just been fitted on a skinny size real beautiful Spanish model.
Yeah. So in terms of buying from you guys and can, is it just online only or is this store?
So it's online, yes.
So it is all online.
10% of our sales are international,
so we send orders all over the world,
which is incredible.
But we have been asked lately
for more and more customers
to come in and try things on,
especially if you're full or bust.
Try clothes on is a trauma.
Yeah.
You know, like you said earlier,
you pick things up and you think,
that's just not going to work for me
because it's backless or whatever.
So I get more and more customers
asking if they can try things on.
So I don't want to work in a shop anymore.
I don't want to work at shop hours
but I have accepted that
people do want to try things like a showroom
or some of them
so we do work
we work kind of school hours in the office
so we do 10 till 3
10 till 4 so we allow people to come in
just by appointment only
we've just changed our stock room into a big show room
where's your showroom? It's in Port Glasgow Inverclyde
oh nice okay
so it's in the industrial state where
Pleatex used to be so Pleatex used to make all of their
Braz in Port Glasgow. You might like that more than me, I'm not sure. Yeah, North Face. It's in the same
industrial estate. They used to have manufacturing there. So it used to be a really
buoyant industrial estate in Port Glasgow. There's not much
there anymore. So it's quite sad that there's very, very little manufacturing
in the UK anymore. So we're there. We'll open one Thursday late night a month and we'll
open one Saturday a month and then if we're in the office Monday to Friday 11 to 3
customers can just drop me an email and come in by appointment. So we can get off all of us
to follow you and book an appointment.
Come on and see you.
And there's lots, I've got lots of girls that aren't full or bust.
Yeah, of course.
I was going to say that.
Yeah, we call them a fairly flat.
And they sometimes just follow for the outfit ideas
because a lot of the things that, like the distraction techniques
and things that I'll give in terms of outfits can work for everyone.
Everyone, yeah.
And they can work for flat-chested girls too.
Because if you want to raise attention away from your chest,
you can use the same.
So, yeah.
That's really interesting.
Well, you bought some bras here today to the,
fit. We are struggling for a little bit of time here but I'm sure we can maybe fit on
you. No! Well what we could do is talk about the main fit points in terms of how a brass
should fit you. Yeah let's do that. Yeah. And then if you want we can try some bras on and see
if they give you a better fit from the ones that you're ready just now. If you're like, gee,
you'll need to close your eyes. Why? I could fit you too. G, you can get moves. So
number one, your band. So your band should be listened on your
sorry fastened on your loosest hooks.
Yep. You should only be able
to pull it away from your body by an inch
and no more. So if you can pull your band right
away. I've got a good bra on today. I made sure I put
my bra vest-mail on. So yeah, an inch no more.
You should swoop and scoop
when you've got your bra on. What's that mean?
So like get your hand right into your bra.
Do you start looking?
Yeah. Pull all your breast tissue forward and make
and up and make sure it's fully encased in your
cup oh yeah it is yeah good and if you've got a bit of oversfell then you're probably a cup
size too small so your boobs should be fully in your fabric yeah and then you want to
adjust your straps so that they're fitting well along what bra are you wearing today
and we weren't our favourite oh fenty favourite yeah which fenty i know it's really bad i know but
it's really sexy underneath like a nice outfit no why i love it that makes your boobs feel smaller
Because it's a balcony one, isn't it?
It does make the feel...
It's a little lessy, but it's just...
It's a really good for that.
It makes you feel about it.
I actually like this bra.
I'll show you this one.
Yeah, that's a nice bra.
This is a bravoissimo one.
Let me see that.
That's good.
Oh, gee.
It's quite nice.
She's not looking.
Yeah. And then the last thing is your straps.
So make sure that your straps are fitted tight enough on your shoulder
that you can just get two fingers underneath.
So that should be nice.
Not digging in, but just nice and supportive.
Yeah.
But 80% is going to come from that band.
So your band's.
size needs to be good.
I do think when they fit it,
because I had this properly fitted
about maybe nearly a year ago, to be fair,
but from the bras I was wearing before,
I used to always wear strapless ones
from Marks and Spencers,
which M&S is good,
but again, I would wear a 36C,
anything, and on the tightest band
to make them feel flat,
but then in clothes,
you'd see the overspill underneath the t-shirt.
And then I had this one with a strap,
which I hate strap ones,
but it was a bit lacy,
unwired, and smaller around the back,
because you said I'm absolutely not a 36.
I think this might be a 34, I'm not sure.
But it fits me far better underneath things like t-shirts and things.
I feel more supported and better.
But I'm still not happy with my bra collection, no way.
I've brought the comfy bras.
So the smooth and seamless balcony bra,
fantasy, which we now stock is a bra I wear every single day, so comfortable.
And the fusion, it only goes up to G-cup, though,
and the fusion bra is
brilliant for a double H
and then there's another bra
called the Matilda
which is owned by
Alomi which is part of the same brand
and that's for Fuller Bust Fuller Figure
so that starts at a 32 band
and goes right up to a 48, 46%
yeah okay
so yeah it's just about getting a brand
that works for everybody's a different shape as well
but if you're comfortable bra that works for your shape
it will make your outfits look better
and as a rule of thumb
so you're saying you're a 30
you thought you were a 36.
So as a rule of thumb, you would take 20 away from that band size to give you your dress size.
So if you were to walk into me and say, can you fit me for a bra?
I've got no idea what size I'm wearing.
I would say, well, what dress size have you got on?
I'll say, if I said I was a 16, then it would be like 36.
Well, let's start that a 36.
Right.
Oh, well, I'm not a 16.
No, so you're, what are you, a 10?
12.
12.
10 to 12.
So I would say, like, let's try a 32 on you.
Interesting.
That is actually quite.
interest and that answer?
Well, what we could do is, because we have run out of time, we could
fit the bras over there for the story, for our stories on Instagram and we can share the
videos then. Yeah. Yeah. And then, yeah, we can leave this here and end it on a perfect
note. Good. Well, thank you so much for coming on. That was so important. Thank you for having.
We had to talk about boobs soldy. I know. We wish we had longer, but that was amazing. Thank you so
much, Jane. Thank you for having. Thank you. Well, we better go get our babies checked.
Fitted and the rest of it.
You can find it look up from his phone.
Bye, guys. See you later.
Thank you. Bye.