Absolute Motivation - DON'T COMPLAIN JUST ENJOY YOUR PAIN - Powerful Motivational Speech Video

Episode Date: June 7, 2026

DON'T COMPLAIN, JUST ENJOY YOUR PAIN – Powerful Motivational Speech Video is a savage and unfiltered motivational video created and edited by Absolute Motivation. This brutal motivational speeches compilation flips the script—pain isn’t your enemy, it’s your edge. Complaining gets you nowhere. Embracing the struggle sharpens you. If you’re serious about becoming unstoppable, this video is your reminder to suffer with purpose and keep moving forward. 🐅 Never complain. It's pain is part of it. ♠️ https://motivateme.gg/ ♠️ Our channel members: / @absolutemotivation ✏️ Featuring some of the most motivational speakers in the world. 🤝Special thanks to all our partners, not just in this video but all our videos. We love you. 📱Maintain your motivation. 💡 Our official website: https://absolutemotivation.net 👕 Our official merch: https://absolutemotivationshop.com/ 👉🏻 Thought-provoking editing tapestries: @AbsoluteMotivation 📸 Instagram: @absolutemotivationofficial Our speeches are created by, remixed or licensed to Absolute Motivation. For licensing information, message [e-mail] 🔊The music in this video: The music is licensed via the fantastic teams at: Musicbed Artlist Really Slow Motion Audiomachine 🎥 The video footage In this video: All video footage used is licensed through either CC-BY, from various stock footage websites, or filmed by us. All Creative Commons footage is listed at the video's end and licensed under CC-BY 3.0. Film and TV shows used in the video are interwoven with the video's narrative, related to the video's topic, and corresponding to FAIR USE. #absolutemotivation #motivation #hopecore Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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And then... It stopped. Sometimes the moments that never happen matter most. Volvo's automatic emergency braking helps ensure a safe ending for everyone. Learn more at VolvoCars.A. slash safety. Some people can see farther than others. So therefore, when people judge what I'm doing with their logic, it can be done.

Their reasoning say a king should be done. Their knowledge of history says it can be done. You only got one life, guys. Again, if you work it right, you only need one. If you get it all you have, you're going to get mass potential back. And then who knows what can come. That's the beautiful thing. If you don't show up, guys, you know.

You know the outcome. You'll never get the job, never get the part. If you don't show up. If you show up, you put yourself in a situation to create these opportunities. You can build something very big in about five to seven years. And the problem is most people spend that same five to seven years reliving the same 30 days over and over again. You have to stay in that painful place.

Staying in the pain is what gives you the catalyst to learn how to get out of pain. Am I fearless? No. Do I fear a lot of things? No. I do think there's only one thing that ultimately makes you break free from fear, which is to find a way and wake up from that dream. You don't take things too seriously in this lifetime.

Change a perspective. Rationalize things. It's similar, like fear and worry. At least when I look at my worries I had in the last month, for sure 80% 90% of all the worries just didn't happen. 10% might somehow came true, but then again I asked myself, good. So the 10% that came true, even so I had the worries, what could I do about it? Coming to the conclusion?

Nothing. The reason why most people don't reach their full potential is because of the things that they believe they need. And everything they need is inside of everything you need is inside of that thing that keeps you up at night because you haven't made it there yet. That's the thing you gotta go after. All dreams are attainable, but it takes pain. You're gonna have to lay down a bleed a while to really get up and see how great you really are. There's something here that everybody has

that's holding them back. That's holding them back from that one more step. Holding them back from that greatness. Holding them back through that millions. Holding them back from being that manager leader. And until you go there, until you work with that, until you stay there, you're never, ever going to get to that next time.

You got to keep working. Your time's going to come. Trust me. You got to work. Your time is going to happen. You're here for a reason. But you got to be ready because if you're not, it's on you. As soon as you choose you, everything else will choose you too.

Let the sand in the glass represent your light. Let the sand in the bottom. bottom of the glass represent the past, ascend in the top of the glass, or represent the future. The nobler the aim, the better your life. If you don't have a noble aim, then you have nothing but shallow, trivial pleasures,

and they don't sustain you. And that's not good because life is so difficult, so much, it's so much suffering, it's so complex, it ends, and everyone dies, and it's painful. It's like without a noble aim, how can you withstand any of that? You can't. You become desperate. And once you become desperate, things go from bad to worse very rapidly. All of us have within us this amazing capacity to manifest and attract anything that we want into our life. So how we call it, what words that we use, we have to be able to say,

you get what you want, you know, and what is missing, is that you say, I will attract into my life what I am, not what I want, and I am capable of attracting all things that the source is capable of attracting. The sand in the bottom of glass represents the past. Everything that has happened right up to this moment in your life has been absolutely essential to make you the person you are to prepare you to do whatever it is you're going to do.

I'm of the opinion that we never really know what we're preparing ourselves for. But if we're using the right ideas, we can be absolutely certain. It's something great. We're not taught to love ourselves. We're not taught to look out for ourselves. We're not taught to take care of ourselves.

To become sensitive to our wants, to our needs, our desires. So make a conscious effort, make you number one priority. Your peace of mind. Your health is more important than your family and any and everybody. Because if you don't have peace of mind, if you don't have your help, you can't serve anybody. Don't neglect yourself. Your life, guys, is not about making money. It's not about having the titles.

Your life is about a moment to come. It's inevitable. We cannot stop it from coming. Right now, we have the most. valuable acid on earth on our side time but it's running out and right now you guys are sitting there and to make that first step towards greatness is the hardest step but there is one thing harder than that my friends it's later in life as you look back on your life the windows of opportunity has closed your ability is no

longer present and you think back that he could have been great the knowledge that you have emerged wiser and stronger from setbacks means that you are ever after secure in your ability to survive. You will never truly know yourself or the strength of your relationships until both have been tested by adversity. Such knowledge is a true gift for all that it is painfully won and it has been worth more than any qualification I ever earned. But personal happiness lies in knowing that life is not a checklist of acquisition or achievement. Your qualifications, your CV, are not your life. Life is difficult and complicated and beyond anyone's total control. And the humility to know that will enable you to survive its vicissitudes. And we can thrive

under the difficult conditions that make up our lives, and we can resist the malevolence that entices us. That's within our power, and we don't know the limits to that. And we also know that it's better to... We all know this. It is better to live courageously than cowardly. I know that it's better to live truthfully than in deceit. And you can tell that too because that's also what you tell people that you love.

And we know that you should pick up your damn responsibility and move forward. The top of the glass represents the future. There's absolutely no way that any of us can tell how much sand there is in the top of our glass. And to spend your time focusing on the past is to spend the only thing that you've got, and that's what's right here right now because the sand never stopped running. As Nassim Teleb says, things that are robust, that are strong, that are tough, that can take just a lot of abuse before they break, they are still ultimately defined by their breaking point. Something that is anti-fragile, on the other hand, is something that the more you attack it,

the more it is pounded on, the stronger it gets. Now imagine being able to build a... belief system, the thing that you build yourself esteem around, if all of that were tied to something that is truly anti-fragile, that the more somebody comes after it, the more robust it becomes. Being a learner is that answer. I believe that if we are honest with ourselves, that the most fascinating problem in the world is who am I? You don't know how the universe shines the stars, constellates the constellation, and galactifies the galaxies. You don't know. But that doesn't mean to say that you aren't doing it in just the same way as you're breathing without knowing how you breathe. At this now moment in which I'm talking, that you're listening is eternal.

That although we have somehow conned ourselves into the notion that this moment is rather ordinary and that we may not feel very well and that we're sort of vaguely frustrated and worried and so on. And that it ought to be changed. This is it. So you don't need to do anything at all. What do you mean? What do you feel when you say the word I? I myself.

I don't think there can be any more fascinating preoccupation than that. And so, therefore, it's so important to consider this question, what do I desire? Because the moment you have a situation where you are really in control of things, that is to say in which the future is almost completely predictable. A completely predictable future is already the past. You've had it. That's not what you want. You want a surprise. You don't know what that's going to be, because obviously it wouldn't be a surprise if you did.

I, a stranger and afraid in a world I never made. And so, therefore, we speak of confronting reality, facing the facts. we speak of coming into this world and this whole sensation that we are brought up to have of being an island of consciousness locked up in a bag of skin facing outside us a world that is profoundly alien to us

in the sense that what is outside me is not me this sets up a fundamental sensation of hostility and estrangement. Existence refiles. Always as it's third, you can get the rocks knocking, the sun and the moisture, the tree crashing to the ground,

the sun pouring out electrical energy. But none of these things constitute existence until related with the neurological complex. Then you have to look backwards and say at the same time, time the neurological complex belongs to the same world as the sun it's a physical pattern physical behavior physical energy but it takes this complexity to evoke the world if you investigate yourself what do you mean

by you how do you know you exist in terms of what what do you discover if you push down why you discover everything else that you thought what is you? You only know you exist because you reflect the external world. So investigate you and you get the external world. Music differs from say travel. When you travel, you are trying to get somewhere. And of course, we, because being a very compulsive and purposive culture

are busy getting everywhere faster and faster and faster, shall we eliminate the distance between the places. We thought of life by analogy with a journey, with a pilgrimage which had a serious purpose at the end and the thing was to get to that end, success or whatever it is, or maybe heaven after you're dead. But we must to point the whole way along. It was a musical thing and you were supposed to sing or to down while the music was being played. That existence is musical in nature.

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your time. So your goal in life is to realize that that is your treasure. So let's say you're working at that job and you have that horrible pause and you're miserable. You can turn that around and make those eight hours a live time. You tell yourself, maybe I could see that there are things that I can learn even from the worst possible job. So that's how you create a live time by saying it's my. I'm going to create something worthwhile out of it. I'm not going to give it away to others. This is my time. I'm going to own it. saying is don't settle don't live lives of complacency because there is so much out there for us we all have the right to live incredibly fulfilled incredibly passionate incredibly joyful lives where you are

psyched it's Monday morning where you are psyched that you're in quarantine with your family where you are sight that you get to do what you do every single day and if something doesn't line up that way don't put it off. This is your life. No one is going to come and change it for you. Why couldn't we just be happy being who and what we are? Why is it that we're punished if we don't strive? Couldn't we just be rewarded for who we are? I can understand that, but I don't think that it works. I don't think things function like that. And I don't think probably in the final analysis we really want them to. I don't know if anyone enjoys undeserved reward. It feels creepy. Doesn't it to be rewarded for something you didn't do?

When else the positive emotion that we find sustaining is experienced in relationship to an unachieved goal? Oh, if you want to begin to grow, you've got to put something out here that you can't reach easily. That has got to make you stretch, got to make you jump for it, got to make you get back a little dig and dig in, so that you can take a leak for it, and maybe you jump up there and you're missing, and you're extend your knees, and you come back again, and you bust your lip next time. But you keep on and through that, process you learn how to leap higher you start challenging yourself to dig deeper and then you discover some things about you that you don't know like now some

talents that you have in you that you didn't know that you can do right most cats are somebody that worked hard if the situation of the circumstances what they wanted to be they're gonna come out and they go act accordingly and they gonna give you everything they got but a hard worker regardless of situation regardless of circumstance regardless of what happened I'm a show I'm hoping I'm going to give everything I got to it because I'm looking for something that's totally different. Like the question becomes this. Can you be committed to the process of what you're doing without being emotionally attached to the results of what you do?

Nothing's ever going to be given to you. Everything's going to be earned. If you don't go out there and put it in the work, you don't go out and put in the effort, one, you're not going to get the results. But two, and more importantly, you don't deserve it. You need earn it. Do you remember who you were before the world told you who you should be? Right? Do you remember who you were before the world told you who you should be? And so anytime you've got to be courageous,

let's look at it from the standpoint of dreams, goals, or aspirations. You got your dream, your goal, and your aspiration, and then you got reality. And oftentimes reality doesn't reflect the goal, the dream, and the aspiration. And so when you think courage, like being courageous and following your heart, because it somehow knows what you want to do anyway, Like it's almost like instinct, right?

It's almost like when you feel something that you should do, and for some strange reason, like your mind or your spirit tell you, nah, I don't want to do it because it takes you outside of your comfort zone and it puts you in a space in place that may be unknown or puts you in a space in place of uncharted territory, but you know you should do it, you could feel it, right? And then you go against it. And all it does is make the route a lot longer.

That's all it does. Making promises to yourself that you don't keep. It's saying, I'm going to do this and not doing it. Because then what happens after that is the self-taught. Self-taught that you create by not upholding the obligations that you make to yourself is ultimately the most destructive thing that you could ever do to yourself. I'm going to start on Monday. I'm going to start on Monday.

I'm going to start on Monday. I'm going to start on Monday. I'm going to start after the wedding. I'm going to start after this trip. After summer, after this next holiday. After the holidays, I'm gonna start. Sound familiar? Yeah.

That's why you feel like it. Because you know that you didn't do none of that, Chip, you told yourself you should have done. Those are coming back even harder. After I failed, success in the straight line. It's a maze. And when you think you figure that maze out, you hit a wall,

and you got to fuck around and start again. Stay hard. Take ownership for your life. Nobody can. live your dream for you but you nobody's going to take care of your business like you stop coming up with excuses don't give yourself permission to continue to live a small life you can't fit a big dream into a small life give yourself permission to go for it to test yourself to challenge yourself to live full everybody talking about how great they want to be

until adversity in opposition is you judge a true character and caliber of a person by what standard times of challenge in opposition. Things that are robust, that are strong, that are tough, that can take just a lot of abuse before they break. They are still ultimately defined by their breaking point. Something that is anti-fragile, on the other hand, is something that the more you attack it, the more it is pounded on, the stronger it gets, will tie to something that is truly anti-fragile, that the more somebody comes after it, the more robust it becomes.

Being a learner is that answer. Because when it got hard or when it rained or when you got hungry, whatever your boys wanted to go off the club or whatever fucking was, you did it and you didn't stick through. And that's it. Our life success comes down to little bitty, tiny decisions

that we made consistently over and over and over in me. And if you're making consistent decisions to break your momentum over and over and over again, you're not fucking having it. That's the thing about being an individual. As an individual, you have a light that you have to bring into the world. and that if you don't bring it into the world,

the world is a dimmer place. And that's a bad thing, because when the world is a dim place, it can get very, very, very dark. And so it's necessary, not just so that you feel better. You need to take care of yourself because you're in the best position to do that.

And it's necessary for you to take care of yourself. Don't be afraid to reinvent yourself and don't be afraid to be different, man. You ain't got to fit in the crowd up. Why are you following everybody when you were clearly meant to lead? It's always better just do your things. And I don't care what situation you've got your life in, you can turn your life around because it ain't never too late.

Easy choices, hard life. Hard choices, easy life. The hard choices, what we most fear doing, asking, saying, these are very often exactly what we most need to do. You know, sometimes you get that feeling in life that things aren't going my way. Listen, things just don't go your way. That's not the way the world works. You got to make them go your way. It's not just going to happen. You've got to make it happen. Situations that happened that was out of their control,

and when you think about when things happen, the first thing we try to do as individuals, how can I control it and how can I manage it? And if I can't control it and manage it, now I'm frustrated and I'm mad about. And the words of an older gentleman, he told me one day, he said, young man, you can't speed up the river and you can't slow it down at a certain point you've got to ask with faith. Key is you can't ever give up. Most people on the planet today are not living in the present, and they're certainly not living in the future.

They are stuck in the resentments, the bitterness, the pain, the frustration, the disappointments of the past. You know where you align with what you want to do in terms of your life and your goals and your dreams. But I say what Dr. Miles Monroe said, live full. Die empty. And so during the adversities of where we are and what we are facing, you want to have some things that you're doing. And that will give you the tools, the mindset, the mental resolve to handle what ever life throws at you. Why less? Because whatever life throws at you, you have in you. Greater as he that's in you than he that's in the world. You have in you to handle it.

Just the difference between winning and losing in life and everything and being a great mother and not, a great father and not, a great leader and not, wealthy and not, a big business and not, making a difference and not, it's so small. It's almost too scary to talk about. In that small thing, all my life, I've been trying to figure what, What's the thing? What's the separator? I know what it is. They do exactly what everybody else does, and one more.

They read one book a month, they read one more. They do 30 minutes on the treadmill, nope, they do 30 plus one more. They do 10 reps on the bench press, no, 10 reps, one more. When you set that standard, your entire life begins to shift and change. About the impossible task, nothing is impossible. The more you believe me, so the more you believe it, one man or one person, you person can do this, another one can. You think things are gonna just go your way?

Well, they're not gonna just go your way. You gotta make them go your way. You think things are gonna just happen for you? Well, they're not just gonna happen for you. You gotta make them happen. Go make things happen. We all have that monster, that monster that lives in our head. And that monster is the thing.

Okay, these are the things that keep us up These are the things that discourage us and cause us anxiety and cause us fear. If you don't slay the monster, the monster will eat you to a lot. You will live a life of anxiety, of fear, of confusion, of frustration. If you don't make a habit of slaying the monster, the longer we allow that monster to live in our brains and our minds, the bigger and stronger it gets. The scarier it gets. You have built in greatness. You have built in power, authority, and dominion to handle whatever life throws at you.

And life is going to be throwing a lot of stuff. Nobody's going to be spared. That's why Victor Franco called it unavoidable suffering. When you can be happy in the midst of hardship, then you see the true potential of the mind. And you can't control what's happening. Control how you respond to it. That's where your power is. Control what you can control.

I can control my attitude. I can control my words. I can control my perspective. I control the lens in which I see it. Because if I can control what I can control in the moment, what's happening externally is not going to affect and impact my true potential and my true advancement as a person. If you let people's perception of you dictate your behavior, you will never grow as person. But if you leave yourself open to experience, despite what else think.

Then you will learn and grow. You don't work through what happened in your past. You are resigned to spend the rest of your future stuck in the past. If you want to play it mastery in your craft, you want to play it mastery in your thinking, you want to play it mastery in your performance, you want to play it mastery in your income. You want to play it mastery in your service to humanity.

You owe it to yourself and the best within you and the talent that resides within you to do the work required to let go off the past. How much long? You're going to wait another further seconds? We're going to wait another hour. You know what? How about I just wait until tomorrow? You're going to wait until tomorrow?

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Bring it with SAP Grow, AI Cloud ERP for any size business. Our actions echo into eternity. Long after we're gone, our lives also have an echo. If you really want to avoid all the criticism, and if you really want to avoid all the critics in your life, then do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing. And you never get their attention. But if you are something and you're doing something,

you become something, guess what? You get their attention. And that kisses them off because they can never be what you are now. So the only they can do it to make them feel good is try to bring you down. I say thank you for that. Thank you for acknowledging the fact that I'm doing something, because I don't know who the f*** you are.

You seem to know who I am. They respond negatively because they never done anything in their life, why they're critical. never play it because they've never done anything all they can do is cast votes and and negative negativity to someone that has done it because they will end up ever do the plus place you finally made it to the big league and now you want to chill now you got the big hat now you can't grind you hear now you here now you finally made it and this is where you break up this is where you start chilling this way you get comfortable it now you in the big leagues now

They're watching you now. This is where you make it permanent. Yeah, I saw it. I saw perfect, perfect. No practice don't make perfect. Practice make permanence. There are winners. There are losers and there are people who have not discovered how to win. One of the things limiting you from your income, your impact, a world-class life. You care too much about what people think about you. Now we're in the modern age. and we are frightened, we are terrified, our amygdala goes crazy, cortisol, the fear hormone, starts to pulse through our system if we leave the crowd. Everyone has an opinion. Why let the opinions of other people deny you from a life that will make history? Listen to me. Your life matters. What you do in your life matters. You were born to do something great with your life. You were put here for a reason, which is to make a difference in the world. which is to change your own family's treat, which is to do something great with your life. I promise you you were putting it for that in little ways and in big ways.

And there will be an echo for your life. The actions of your life will echo into eternity. The question is, will that echo for you be a whisper into eternity or a roar? Every single person who has ever done anything worthwhile or exceptional or difficult or extraordinary, anyone, whether it's great artists or authors or mathematicians or whatever the it is. Everyone encounters difficulties. There is no easy road. It does not exist. It is impossible. Everyone has issues. Stop crying. Stop begging. Put forth the effort. Because one thing I know about life, whatever you sow, you're going to reap. If you put a

million apple seeds in the ground, you're going to get a million apple trees back. I want you to see yourself doing what you want to do, experiencing what you want to experience, having what you want to have, doing what it is that gives your life some meaning of doubt. Operate out of your imagination, not your memory. Because whatever you look at where you want to go, I'm wanting to warn you, you will have some conversation back here after you go through the data that you've experienced in life saying you can't do it. And so what you want to begin to do is ignore that inner conversation. It does not take talent.

You don't have to be talented, right? You don't have to be gifted. You don't have to be the quickest, the strongest. You don't have to be the most intelligent. That's what you got to do. You just got to grind, though. You're grind. You've got to outgrind.

And here's one way you never better yourself. When you come up with excuses for why other people are successful and you're not. The key point are hurt. that also is all the suppressed emotions that we pick up as we go through life the shadow sight all of the suppressed emotions that we do not feel like guilt anger shame disappointment frustration that we pick up as we go through life if those are not dealt with they come back in ugly ways it's not about any of that but what it is about is a lot of us We just give total control to life.

We don't have any control of it. We just give all control to life. I do it every morning to prepare my mind for what life's gonna throw at me. A healthy body gives their healthy mind. That's what it's about. So if you go into battle, you're gonna go into the right mindset. To right gear in combat, you wear body armor.

But what we do wrong is we're gonna strengthen our minds. You gotta strengthen your mind, take control over that. So then when you get out in the real world, they get you up, you got protection. Everybody wanna be a beast. And so there's time to do what beast do. If you shrink, if you play small, if you don't take risks, if you don't take those actions,

if you don't keep improving, you don't keep growing, then your life will just whisper into eternity and you work put here to be a whisper. You were put here to be a roar into eternity. I know that for you. When something happens to them, what they do is they begin to believe that that's the way it is. Listen to me, you better grow up and get to the point as a man that if you ever get beat, you better get beat by somebody that's just purely more talented than you are.

You better not ever get beat by somebody because you beat yourself. Stay focused. Don't listen to nobody because what's destined for you, you're going to get it. Faith is the substance of things hopeful and the evidence of things not seen. Your imagination is the evidence of things not seen. You know why they say it's not seen? Because your imagination, you are the only one who can see it. So you know what that means?

All that stuff you've ever imagined is just been God showing you a preview of overcoming attraction he has for you. The problem with your imagination is, you tell it to the wrong people. The people that are going to change their lives, the people that are going to recover their health, the people that are going to build their lives and start all over again from scratch,

are people who believe it's possible. The people who fail are the people who suffer from possibility blindness. They say, the people that are successful in any area of life, you must be willing to be willing willing to do the things today others won't do in order to have the things tomorrow others won't have i said dominate so if you think you're going to dominate in your industry dominate in this world

and be one of the best of the best at what you do when i say dominate i need you to make some noise because i'm talking about you so everything that you do is habit for it and that includes Hit in the snooze button. That includes sitting on the couch. That includes eating donuts. It's all habit forming. You know what else is habit forming? Discipline.

Set an alarm in getting up. Going and working out. That stuff is all habit forming too. I recommend you form some disciplined habits. So of course you feel lost. Of course you feel confused. Of course you feel frustrating. Because you haven't been developing any of the skills that are necessary for you to live a true life that you're proud of.

How about this? How about your work on developing your discipline with you? And so I want whatever dream you have, I want you to expand it. I want you to increase it. And I want to warn you, don't ask yourself how you're going to do it. How is none of your business? Gertl says that which does not kill you will make you stronger. The greatest gift that you can give yourself is to find something that you're naturally adept at

and figure out a way to make a living at it. Because if you do that, every day will be a play day. You're never battling upstream. You love what you do. And if you love what you do, if you love what you do, why do you do you do? Why do you want to stop doing it and then go out and try to find something that you like better? It's all in your mind. Whatever you hold in your mind will tend to occur in your life.

If you continue to believe as you have always believed, you will continue to act as you have always acted. You will continue to get what you have always gotten. If you want different results in your life or your work, all you have to do is change your mind. And in every family, there's a Neo. There's the one that eventually shows up in a family and changes the whole family forever. They rise up and they change it all. If you can believe it, you can achieve it. If you can believe it, you can achieve it.

This is something that you hear alive, and I get it. But guess what? Belief by itself doesn't get you anything. You've got to impose your will. You've got to be disciplined and you've got to make things happen. about failing. You're going to fail. You're going to make some mistakes. You're going to look stupid. Wise call life. Make it okay to fail. See, I found that as the saying goes, most people fail in life not because they aim too high in this. Most people fail in life because they aim too

low and hit. You have to be willing to grid it up. You have to be willing to push through discomfort. Nothing that you're about to try or do or achieve that is worthwhile is going to be comfortable for you during the process of creating. So stop with this f-frikin hope shit. Stop with this. I wish when it comes to your own life and start replacing those terms with I real fucking do no matter what life is a fight for territory and once you start fighting for what you want what you don't want will automatically take over that to outfeed and outwork the competition you can hide you can be and you can do whatever you want to do but you cannot do it if you're not willing to

make the sacrifice and for those of you who are willing to make this sacrifice I'm willing to make the sacrifice. That life is short and every second is precious. So put your freaking head down and keep getting after it. Reason most people fail is because they give up what they want most for what they want now. Because you might ask yourself, like if for 10 years, if you didn't avoid doing what you knew you needed to do, by the depth, by your own definitions, right, within the value structure that you've created to the degree that you've done that, what would you be like?

be like. Hard thing to accept, but in our lives, we are getting out of our life right now exactly what we believe we're worthy of, exactly what we think we deserve. Our life is a direct reflection of our identity, which is the thoughts, concepts, beliefs, values, and worth we hold true to be about ourselves. We're getting out of life right now what we believe we're worth. And we believe we're worth it because of these patterns and our identity and our lack of choosing to have what we want, not just the material thing. not just the body weight, not just the amount of money, not just having a relationship, but choosing the emotion we want.

Well, you know, there are remarkable people who come into the world from time to time, and there are people who do find out over decades-long periods what they could be like if they were who they were, if they said, if they spoke their being forward, and they get stronger and stronger and stronger, and we don't know the limits to that. We do not know the limits to that. And, you know, I find that so many of us think that our dreams are unreachable or unrealistic, and it's just so sad. I mean, people think that their dreams disappear. And if that's what you think, congratulations.

You're officially stuck. And the truth is that our dreams are always there, and they don't ever give up on us. We give up on them. But I learned along the way, everything that's happening to you is God is processing. Every difficult moment you're having, he just process it. That's all he doing. Everything you're going through is preparing you for what you ask God for. And if you need to be tough when you get to where you're going, then he's going to tough in you.

If you got to be more caring along the way, he's going to let you have some trials coming your way that's going to have to produce that in it. And so if your life isn't everything it could be, you could ask yourself, well, What would happen if you just stopped wasting the opportunities that are in front of you? You'd be, who knows how much more efficient? 10 times more efficient, 20 times more efficient. You have no idea how efficient, efficient people get. It's completely, it's off the charts.

See, there's a book being written about your life, isn't there? Someone somewhere has taken inventory of your life. Don't compare your chapter one to someone's chapter 10. you write your own book and at any moment in your life you can decide that you want to make this the new chapter literally in your life

you can turn the page and there's previous chapters are your old book it's like Old Testament New Testament Old story, new story they're connected, they're related but you can flip the page and you can have a whole new story if you decide right now I am literally

turning my breakthrough is I turn the page and in this second, I start to write the best chapters of my life. That's the life to live. That's the life. Like to say, I care about this. It matters. It gives me purpose.

I'm going to fight for this. This is a group of people I want to serve. And I'm going to go all the way out every day. And look, you're not going to hit it every day. There's going to be days where you're off. There's going to be days where you're weak. Weak. But if that day, instead of bull's-shund yourself,

instead of saying I wasn't weak today, what are you talking about? If that day you own it, and you say, yeah, it was weak today, and I'm not going to be weak tomorrow, but I'm not afraid to face that. I'm not afraid to accept that I'm not perfect. I'm not afraid to look in the mirror and say, today was a bad day, that I didn't make myself proud today. They know they should adopt. It isn't merely that your fate depends on whether or not you get your act together, and to what degree you decide that you're going to live out your own genuine being.

It isn't only your fate. It's the fate of everyone that you're networked with. But that shouldn't diminish who you are. It shouldn't diminish your view of yourself. Why? Because it wouldn't serve you. Because if you beat yourself up today, you make it harder for you to be rad tomorrow. It's a game that has to be seen in total.

It's not a game where you can take a snapshot. And so that's how you're connected. And the things you do, they're like dropping a stone in a pond. The ripples move outward, and they affect things in ways that you can't fully comprehend. And it means that the things that you do and that you don't do are far more important than you think But I mean if you really asked yourself wouldn't you be so sure if you had the choice

I can live with no responsibility whatsoever the price I pay is that nothing matters Or I can reverse it and everything matters But I have to take the responsibility that's associated with that It's not so obvious to me that people would take the meaningful path When you have doubt when your faith becomes weak your real Your reasons will fortify your faith. When you have an inner conversation, say, No, don't do that.

Your reasons will become your rod and your staff to comfort you, to take you through those challenging moments. So write down your reasons. And what you will find, that when you decide to act, when you decide to take life on, and let me warn you, it can be painful,

it will be uncomfortable, and that's where the God, Growth is, when you're uncomfortable, when you're stretching out, when you're taking life by the collar, you're going to get thrown to the ground again and again and again. But when you have determination, and you know that what you're doing is right, that gives you your life, that gives a special meeting and power to you, you will have some power from on a heart. You will discover some things about yourself that will begin to electrify your personality. Like there's no excuse whatsoever for not getting at what it is that you should be doing.

It's the what if I can pull off a miracle. What if I can become someone that no one thinks I can be? So really what it comes down to is what are your skills? Like if you've got skills that can be used to build something beautiful, to do something wonderful to the world, to help people move towards their goals that will excite the masses is because they want that thing that you're going to create, that it's going to improve people's lives.

The only thing that mattered in all of that was you got really good at something. And somewhere along the way, we lost that the punchline is, no matter what you do to the system, you, as an individual, need to get extraordinary. It's very important. As you hold on to that dream, there are moments when you're going to doubt yourself.

Their rough times are going to come, but they have not come to stay. They have come to pass. There is another level. The only reason you keep seeing there isn't is you feel so exhausted about where you are. But life, the universe or God, is just testing you because there is another level. If this is good, start good, poor to good to excellence. There's a level where all your dreams are realized. There's a level that you've always dreamed about.

It is real. It has not gone away. But it takes that extra burst when you think there's nothing left. There's no way you've tried everything 10 million times. It's almost like God is saying, if you keep hitting this wall enough times, I will see that you will not stop, that you are filled with that level of determination of faith and courage, and then the door opens. Important for you to know that. Don't say I'm having a bad day. Say I'm having a character building day.

The one thing I know about emotions is that they change. One hour from right now, you will not feel the same way. And I want to encourage you tonight that you might be in your darkest moment. You might be going through hell in high water. But I want to prophesy over your life. It is always too soon to quit. You have a reason to live. God declares your best days are in front of you.

It's very important for you to believe. that you are the one to make this happen. So focus on that. Go get extraordinary. Go become the best of whatever it is you want to be. But go become the best of it and see how the world opens to you. I love the idea of people taking time out of their lives to prove to themselves that if they're defined by the vision of the future,

then they're not living by the memories of the past. And that's where the unknown exists. So many people, the unknown is a scary place. so they don't see that future because they're used to seeing that future with evidence with their senses and you have to be able to get beyond that and stay in the unknown stay in that discomfort and then in that moment to begin to self-regulate like oh I'm starting to feel little anxiety ooh I'm starting to feel a little frustration that's the defining moment where your body is going back to the past because emotions are a record of the past you catch yourself It's a victory. And if you keep catching yourself, those victories add up. And it's not so much about your wealth or your health or your freedom or your new relationship. It's actually about who you become.

That you don't give up, that you don't take any objection or disappointment or defeats personally, that you keep on, keeping on, that you don't decide that I can't make it because you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel? That you realize that's a part of the program. And here's something you've got to resolve. Say this to yourself every day. See, as long as you're breathing, you've got a shot at your dream. Standing magnificent, unstoppable, extraordinary, not excellent. It's a different level.

And maybe you have failed, but I want to remind you that failure is not final. It's formative. It is not final. It is formative. It is part of the process. It's part of the journey. Your failure matters as much as your self. success. How do you think you're gonna grow if you don't ever fail? Yet some of you have

failed and you have decided well guess what I'm a failure. No failure is an event. It is never a person. Just because you failed doesn't mean that you're a failure. In fact, failure is actually fuel for your future the way that you grow, the way that you advance. You have to fail in order to succeed. Not over till I win. Not over till I get through. Not over till I get over. Not over till I get what I want. Only execution matters. Burn that into your nervous system. Get a tattoo. Do whatever you need to do to remind yourself.

Only execution matters. Thinking about it, feeling good about it, those are awesome. But if you have a vision of something you're trying to do, become whatever, and you don't execute against it, and I don't need you to want to build a big business. If you tell me you want to be the greatest parent of all time, then I'm going to ask you, what are you doing to execute on that goal? What are you doing? How do you define it?

In a Revelation Day that the joy is not in the success, the joy is in trying. The joy is in the process. That I'm going to keep working, I'm going to keep going at it. See, failure is forming my future. Failure is framing up the story that God's going to tell. Failure is just another peg in the ladder for me to go higher. Failure for me is a research project. I don't want to just know how to make it work.

I want to know why it doesn't work. You've got to die as you are now. You've got to be willing to give up who you are now for what you can become. In order to do something you've never done, you've got to be someone you've never been... If you wake up in the morning, you start having negative thoughts. Man, this ain't my day. I woke up on wrong side of bed. I'm tripping. I just don't feel myself.

In the middle of the day, if you feel yourself doing that, stop. Just stop for a second. and start going over in your mind everything you have to be grateful for. Not everything you want. Everything you already have, because what you have is substantial. You just haven't gone over the list and taken inventory in a long time. But the fact that you can walk, that's a blessing. The fact that you woke up, that's another blessing.

The fact that you can see, think, reason, that's another blessing. I can give you 50 things you ought to be grateful for right now. I don't even know you. Start coating your mind with gratitude. Interchange everything for you. There is no one stepping in, coming down the aisle to play that for you. No one can make the decisions for you as a shot caller, as a leader, but you. You have to be confident.

But you can't be confident if you haven't put in the word. Confidence comes by the fact that you've gone through so many scenarios by yourself so that when it's asked to be done in public, you can be confident. because it's not part of your preparation, you are already to prepare. Razy people do a little work and think they should be winning, but winners work as hard as possible

and still worry if they're being lazy. He who says he can, and he who says he can't, are both usually right. There are some things in life that are out of your control that you can't change, and you're gonna live with you. with. The choice that we have though is either to give up or keep on going. I want to ask you,

what are you going to believe? Are you going to believe in yourself? You're going to believe everybody else's judgment on you? Are you going to believe people when they say that you're a failure but no real likes you? No one really cares about you. Situations that happened that was out of their control and when you think about when things happen, the first thing we try to do as individuals, how can I control it and how can I manage it? And if I can't control it and manage it, now I'm frustrated and I'm mad about. And the words of an older gentleman, he told me one day, he said, young man, you can't speed up the river and you can't slow it down. At a certain point, you've got to have some faith.

You see, all of us want that person at the huddle. Everybody wants that person on their team that believes, that person that says, we're not done, not now. We're not quitting, not now. We're not losing, not now. Why? Because I was born for now. I was bored for this moment, and I was born to be beside you. The only question I have, and the only question you should have, is who is going with me? You hear because you need to hear this here.

Maybe you hear because you need to dust off your dream. Maybe you need to explore your imagination. Maybe you just need to identify your guilt so you can get, so you can quit tripping in your own life, trying to figure out what you can do when God already the planet inside you a long time ago. You will see that in the very act of standing up, in the very act of fighting on, you will become and you will remain. When you come out of the storm, you won't be the same person that walked into it. That's what the storm is all about.

When you can't control what's happening until you control how you respond to it. That's where your power is. So he had this big dream. He had to see he's so clear like it's right in front and you can go out and touch it. But the thing about it is somewhere he can dream big enough. Somewhere down that journey, that dream becomes the nightmare. And what happens to that nightmare,

so they have all these questions like, why am I here? I'm not good enough. Trust me, I know all about the questions. They will plunge your mind. If you do not have the answers for them, you will quit. The answers lie in the repetitions. You must not forget the repetitions you put into trying to dominate the craft that you're in today

Always always always embrace the salt adapt to some But I tell you there are some times in life where you fall down You feel like you don't have the strength to get back up Pretend that everything's okay when it's not and you go home and Lay in your bed when no one's looking at you when you don't have to impress anybody and you're yourself. And fear comes in. Maybe you have doubt in your life.

Maybe you don't know for sure what's going to be happening in the future and it scares you. Maybe you're worried about what people think of you, what people say about you. Just that fear paralyzes you. And I just want to ask you today, do you think you have hope? You have support. What do you want? Let I want to be done. Tell me something.

I don't know. Everybody wants it. But the raw reality of my reality. everybody don't get it and your crazy thing is if you want it you can get it it's not like somebody you stop you on the gun get and told you you you can't get it it's a matter of will it's a matter of hard work it's a matter of sacrifice it's a matter of dedication it's a matter of commitment my number one competition is me it's always you versus you you got to be the one to get up every morning be disciplined put in the consistent daily hard

work you versus you