Absolute Motivation - don’t give up on the person you’re becoming…(this one hits deep)

Episode Date: October 20, 2025

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The universe doesn't look in terms of good and bad, right, wrong, success, failure. It looks in terms of cause and effect. Every cause creates an effect, and every effect has a cause. And if you participate in the cause, you participate in the effect. And I don't say it will participate in it. You participate in it. They happen together. Your experience of the effect may take some time.

It may take a few days. It may take a month. immediately. What is it that you should value? And people say, well, being happy, they don't even mean that, by the way. If you decompose what people mean when they say they want to be happy, what it turns out they actually mean is they don't want to be miserable. They're way more concerned with avoiding suffering than they are with pursuing, you know, enthusiastic, positive emotion. So even the statement, I want to be happy is actually not an accurate reflection of what it is that you want. What happens with human beings is every thought has a frequency. Every thought

produces a chemical. So if you keep obsessing about your lack, your lack of finances, your lack of time, your lack of energy, you're taking thought, it's producing a frequency and that frequency in the form of chemistry is storing that thought emotionally right in your second center. You feel guilty you feel unhappy the moment you feel unhappy then you generate more thoughts equal to that feeling which makes more chemicals and you keep taking energy from the brain and storing it in the body if you react to people in your life and you feel anger frustration whether whatever it is drawing from this field this electromagnetic field you're tapping that resource and you're

making chemistry out of it and the field shrinks so now by doing that and living in survival, the body no longer is a magnet. Every ideal is a judge, and that makes perfect sense, because an ideal is something to which you aspire. And the gap between you and that ideal, if it's your ideal, is felt as judgment. And so that's one of the reasons people are very afraid to have an ideal. That's why I wrote, do not hide things in the fog. It's like, well, you should lay out an ideal, you should pursue an ideal. Why wouldn't you? Well, when you make your ideal explicitly, you're not, you know, It turns into your judge.

Well, then you can listen to that judge and move forward and transform. Discipline with desire is easy. Discipline isn't that hard if you have real desire. I mean, if you want something bad enough, the discipline's not too difficult. I think discipline without desire is very difficult. Do what is meaningful, not what is expedient. Meaning is an instinct. Meaning is the instinct that guides you in life.

you in life across the totality of life, right? What's expedient, that's what you might want to do right now, in an impulsive sense, right, because you're driven forward by, oh, anger or anxiety or frustration or disappointment or despair, some sort of one-eyed motivational monster that's got you in its grip, that really isn't considering everything at once. And the instinct for meaning seems to be a consequence of the integration of all of those underlying motivations and emotions with social being and then the manifestation of something like the proper pathway forward. And so you need that because you need to know how to move forward in life because you need to move forward in life. You need to act in life

Every day I want to train myself to be prepared for a war. Whatever that war is, whether that's externally internal. The discipline of doing something painful every day, I think, is one of the most important disciplines that any human being can have. whatever that pain looks like for you, I believe we must lean in the pain every day. Otherwise, pain is going to lean into us. But if we're leaning into it first, when stuff happens, it's like, yeah, I got this, because I do this every day. I'm not saying we should be in pain 80% of our day, but maybe an hour, 30 minutes. You should do something that makes you want to stop, makes you want to relax.

Because then when stuff really happens, you'll be relaxed. All I can get certain about is putting my next step forward And I think it's kind of like when you're walking You've become so comfortable walking You don't even realize But actually all you're doing is putting your next step right You can't think about what's going to happen

in a hundred steps time Because you haven't walked over the ground there And you don't know how the ground is going to change So for me the mindset is How do I just place this next step? Not perfectly But how do I place this next step? step with my best intention, process and habits possible. And what does that require? That requires me to be

connected internally to my internal guide. And what does that require? It requires me to find that stillness and space so that I can actually listen. As the insistence upon action as of primary import, we're not fundamentally creatures who passively perceive the objective, world. That's not the goal of our perceptual systems. It's not the goal of our memory. The reason that you have memories isn't to remember the past. The reason you have memories is so that if something bad happened to you in the past, you can figure out what it was that was bad, and you can figure out why it happened, and then you cannot do it again in the future, right? It's very practical, and it's the same on the positive end of the spectrum. If good things happen to you in the past,

then conceivably duplicating whatever you did to get those good things to happen, could have them happen again in the future. So it's practical memory, it's oriented towards action and it's oriented towards like the quality of your life. I think the parameter, the principle, the value, the ethic that actually helps us, continue with perseverance and patience is hope. Hope is that one element that can keep us going.

The worst thing to happen in life is to lose hope and be hopeless. So if you're sitting there waiting for our turn to come, hope against hope. One day, I will also have my time and my place. when, how, we do not know because these are factors that are completely beyond our control.