Absolute Motivation - I WILL NOT BE A LOSER ANYMORE - Motivational Speech

Episode Date: June 19, 2025

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Everybody wants to win, but in order to know how to win, you got to know how to lose, because you're going to lose more than you're going to win. But every time you lose, what are you gained from? The number one thing that's going to change your life, the only thing that will change your life, change your business, change your money, change your relationship, is you must raise your standard.

I know that sounds boring, stupid, basic, but it's the truth. It means that all of us in life have things we want. We don't get what we want. We get what we have to have. People aren't waiting to be cut. Some people are moving on their own because they feel within themselves,

I've got what it takes to make it. Afraid about tomorrow. Because of how they see themselves. Somebody's throwing a rock at you with the intention of hurting you. You can put your defenses up, you will deflect that rock, never to be seen again, or you can lower your defenses, let it hit you in the face, knowing that it will hurt, but also knowing now at your feet is not a rock, it's a lump of gold. Because they've given you an insight into where you are weak.

Now, once you know where you are weak, you can begin to build yourself. And that is my thesis on life. You get to build yourself in any direction you want, in any way to become anything you want. There will be an extraordinary price to pay. But you can go in any direction. Identify your gift and get busy with it. God gave all of you a gift. Identify your gift.

It is the thing that you do the absolute best with the least amount of effort. with the least amount of effort. That's your guilt. Get busy at that. Remember I said earlier? We all get what we tolerate in ourselves and other people. But when you're no longer willing to tolerate something, that's when your life changes.

The difference in people is their standards. The difference in people is their standards. Period. We are living in such an amazing time right now. I mean, if you are not being challenged, in some way in your life, you're not alive. And all of this is an initiation. If you see your life as the school, as the initiation,

then you can no longer be a victim to your life. You're going to have to meet the challenges in your life from a greater level of mind, greater than the mind that created. It's like we're built for struggle, us human beings. You're not after. We're built to contend with the world. We're built to contend with reality. You want a challenge and the best way that you can take on a challenge

because a challenge fortifies you. So you don't want to be secure. You want to be strong. And you get strong by taking on optimal challenges. And so you lay out your destiny in the world and you take the slings and arrows of fate. And you make yourself stronger while you're doing so. And you might fail and fortune might do you in.

But it's your best bet. after the first time that you opt to brave the wilderness you pull away from what a group of people thinks maybe it's your creative community it's your critics the first time you pull away and find power in standing on your own I think your heart is marked by the wild I think you belong in and to the wilderness in a different way because every time after that when you choose fitting in over belonging to yourself When there is adversity and when there are challenges in our life, the question of course becomes, how do we become supernatural? And that means we're going to have to do what feels unnatural at first. What would your life be like as you look toward the future if you decided I'm not going to allow my fears to stop me?

What would your life be like? What would your future be like if you decided to to do? You want that which you desire so strongly that it prepares you pass your fears. Everyone in the world has a list of things they think they should do. I should lose weight. I should work out. I should spend more time with my kids. I should work harder.

I should make more calls. I should. I should. And then you know what? People don't do their shoulds. And they get mad at themselves. What changes people is when you should becomes a must. You get all these things that come to that seem to be simply true.

I believed that the human mind couldn't change. I believed that it was fixed. I believed that my talent and intelligence were just what they were. It all seemed true. It wasn't like I knew it to be a lie. It wasn't even like I knew that I had a choice to think of it a different way. And one of my favorite quotes of all time is from Albert Einstein. And he said the most important decision any human being has to make

is whether they live in a friendly or a hostile universe. And suddenly the thing you said should happen has to happen. That's when human beings change. And the question is, if you die today, what dreams? What ideas? What talents? What books, what music, what leadership, what voice will die with you? So you better love what you do on a day-to-day basis.

The only moment that's real is right now. Now follows you.