Absolute Motivation - Reclaim Control of Your Life and Get Serious: A Motivational Speech

Episode Date: October 23, 2024

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You don't have to have this victim mentality. You don't have to go around telling everybody your sad story of what happened to you and why you're this way. You can go and rewrite the story. You can grab the pen back from the hands of the abusers, of the bullies, of those that created limiting beliefs, and you can rewrite the story yourself in all the blank pages that exist in your book of life. But that only happens when you start doing the self-work, when you commit to self-mastery. And I'm telling you, it's not just by reading a couple of self-help books. figuring out who you are at your core, at your essence, what makes you tick.

And only then will you be able to set higher standards of expectations for yourself. Only then will you begin to reach the milestone of impact, income, influence, inspiration. God, it's such a fucking cool thing to be able to break through the seals of all your limiting beliefs in life. There's going to be things that go on that are out of your control. The worst thing you can do is let something that's out of your control control you. Get control of yourself, get control of your emotions. Don't get angry, don't get frustrated. Instead, stay calm and figure out how to move forward.

There's a terminology and psychiatry called relational illness. You've heard people say, you make me sick. Some people can make you sick that if you fool around with them long enough will send you to an early grade that will drive your blood pressure up, that will turn your hair gray. Who is it you need to get out of your life? If you need to ask yourself the question, what is this relationship doing to me?

Might be your spouse, might be friends, might be your job, making you sick, stressing you out, and you being a volunteer victim, are you willing to die for? Listen, if there's only one fucking pedestal, you must be on it. The idealized version of you must be on it. Not me, not any other guru or influencer or thought leader.

You get on the pedestal. You become the idealized version. And you become the hero in your life's story. If your life is a movie and the movie ends, do you want your name at the end and the credits to be the hero and the star? Or do you want it to be taxi driver number two? We start to trap ourselves within our own mind. And our mind is this big barrier, this big wall.

And once we get to pain and suffering, that wall gets bigger and bigger and bigger. And the mind says it's time to quit. If we're able to find out different ways to get around that, The first thing you have to do is just to calm your mind down. The very first thing you have to do is don't give yourself a way out. You got to trick yourself also and say, you know what, I might quit. I'm not going to quit right now. If your mind knows I'm not going to quit, I'm not going to quit.

You're not going to quit. Let your mind think it has a little control over you. Then when you're able to calm down, you're able to think. And then realize I caught the cookie jar is you have to have something that fuels you in this time. So once you calm down, what's going to get you out of the chair? You got to remember that I've been in times just as hard as this. So I reflected back on my life. Most of us were raised to become ordinary.

And I'm not putting down ordinary, but ordinary is just not good enough for me. Ordinary is you go through your life and you fill out the forms and you pay your taxes and you do what your parents tell you and you're a common. and you're honest and you're a good citizen, then you die. Extraordinary is something very, very different. This is about recognizing within yourself that there's something very, very extraordinary

that you haven't been trained to believe in to come to a place where you can apply it and put it into your life. You can go way beyond ordinary. You can go way beyond just being average. All of us are extraordinary. We just have to come to believe There's things that you know you're supposed to do as a human being.

Things that you know are going to improve your life. Do those things. There's things that you know are going to make you a worse person and make your life worse. Don't do those things. Don't do the things that are making you weaker. Start doing the things that are going to make you stronger and smarter and faster and healthier and going to make you a better human being. Things that you have in you that you don't even know,

But until you get outside of your comfort zone, you will never discover it. You have something special. You have greatness within you. But in order to manifest your greatness, you've got to put yourself in a perpetual state of discomfort. Yes, you've got to challenge yourself. You've got to raise the bar on yourself. You've got to get busy. You've got to work your plan.

It's time for me to do me to pursue my dream, to work my plan, to implement the things that I want for myself. and for my family and for my kids. And what is your legacy? What do you want to do for yourself? Most people quit and never finish what they started is because they continually stack L's instead of W's. You probably do things to set yourself up to fail in life. You set your alarm clock to wake up at a certain time

and then you hit that snooze button. What did you do? You stack the L. If you think that you're meant for big goals and big dream, change lots of lives and impact and inspire people, Well, you probably need a lot of confidence. If you're always stacking losses, hitting this news button, saying you're going to go work out and you don't, saying you're going to eat clean and you don't, saying you're going to read a few pages out of a book and you don't,

and all those things seem small and trivial until they add up over days, weeks, months, and years, and you have hardened your subconscious into knowing that you are an imposter, that you are not a promise keeper. And therefore, your reputation with yourself erodes. Your reputation with yourself, as it turns out, is your confidence. You will hold sturdy against anything that's thrown at you. Based on that firm inner conviction that you will not falter, you will not flounder, you will not fail.