Absolute Motivation - Stop Complaining and Start Rebuilding - A Motivational Speech

Episode Date: January 6, 2025

Discover how to transform your mindset by letting go of complaints and rebuilding your life. This motivational speech features insights from remarkable speakers that will inspire you to push through tough times and elevate your life to new heights. Gain the motivation you need and embrace a journey of personal growth. #motivation #mindset #personalgrowth #transform #rebuilding #inspiration Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

There's always good reasons for not doing what you should. That's for sure. The reasons pile up day after day to not do what you should, especially because you're aiming at things in the future. You can put them off indefinitely, right? Because of the demands of the day. When you leave somewhere terrible, do not look back. There's no nostalgia. That's the letting the dead parts of yourself go. And then if you're going to follow the good, there's no excuse not to do it.

And it means no excuse whatsoever, under any circumstances. And then it's taken even farther with regards to familiar relationships. It is you can't even let them stand in your way. And I think that's all true. There is no excuse whatsoever for not getting at what it is that you should be doing. What permission do you need? And I'm here to give you that permission. I'm here to tell you to give yourself that permission.

I'm here to tell you to take the pen back and start rewrit that story. So what if you were beaten? So what if you were mentally and emotionally abused? Those are all superpowers now because you are the type of person that went through that and came out the other side of a stronger person. You have more resiliency. You are more resourceful than people that have not gone and suffered through adversity and abuse. That's the reality. We are more resilient. We are more emotionally strong, mentally, tough and we can deal with so much, but we have to first let go of the mental crippling crutch that we carry, which is this victim mindhood.

I'm going to tell you when your life's going to change. When you truly get fed up and you say enough is enough, when you stop going back to the things that broke you, when you stop giving people titles in your life they don't deserve, when you stop chasing after people that don't want it being your life, I'm going to be straight up with you. Stop holding on the things that you need to let go of. I suggest to you that if you are facing a challenge, don't stop. Stay busy.

Work your plan. Continue to do those things that you know that work for you. After you have evaluated yourself in the situation, continue to move. Stay busy, stay busy, stay busy. Expect things to get better for you because they are. See, life is cyclic. You're not, whatever experience you're having right now, it has not come to stay. It has come to pass.

Not to stay, just to pass. It's just going through. The biggest challenge is to know what's happening. This is a part of this thing we call life. This too shall pass. And maintaining perspective, putting it in perspective. Most people are so afraid to fail that they come up with this whole story that it's worse than it is. Of course, when you make it worse than it is, it overwhelms you.

And now you won't begin. I've tried what will people say? I've tried everything. If you tried everything, you'd have what you want. It's about facing your fears. It takes discipline to face your fears so you can conquer them. And that's what discipline is. Discipline means taking the hard road, the uphill road, to do what's right for yourself

and for other people. A victim consciousness is when we allow something in our outer environment to control the way we feel and think. Something in my outer environment, some person or some condition, is controlling the way I think and feel. Now that's not the truth. That's just a response, right?

So anything that controls our thoughts and feelings causes us to be victim to those things. And the stronger the emotion we feel to some circumstance in our life, the more we pay attention to it. And where we place our attention is where we place our energy. So we're giving our life force. We're giving our power away to that circumstance. Responsibility, that's what gives life meaning.

It's like lift a load. Then you can tolerate yourself, right? Because look at, you're useless, easily hurt, easily killed. Why should you have any self-respect? Pick something up and carry it. Make it heavy enough so that you can think, useless as I am, at least I could move that from there to there. The aha moment is the big.

door that opens. But your new life does not begin unless you can step through the door. Most people, when you have an aha moment and the door to your new life opens up. Instead of going, I got this, let's go, and high-fiving yourself to step forward, most of us go, hmm, I don't know if I'm worth that. I don't know if right now is the right time to do this. I don't think I'm good enough. I failed so many times I can't go through that door, that there is somewhere, you

your life that you know what you want. You can feel it pulling you and you are actively arguing against it. You're bringing yourself down. You're beating yourself out. See when you win as hard there's a struggle. See what you become in the process is more important in the dream. That's far more important. The kind of person you become. The character that you build, the courage that you develop, the faith that you're manifesting. Oh, it's something that you get up in a more When you look yourself in the mirror, you're a different kind of person. You walk with a different kind of spirit. People know that you know what life is, that you have embraced life.

You know it was hard, but you did it hard. That those minutes and those hours, they turn into weeks and months and years and holding the line in those critical minutes will put you in an infinitely better place, physically and mentally if you maintain the discipline. So work through the weakness. Fight through the temptation. Hold the line. Maintain the discipline.

It is not easy, but it is worth it. Because, yes, as discipline...