Absolute Motivation - YOU CAN'T BE LAZY NOW - One Of The Best Motivational Video Speeches Compilation
Episode Date: July 11, 2026"You can’t be lazy now." This one of the best motivational video speeches compilation will push you to take action and stop procrastinating. Through powerful speeches, you’ll learn that now is the... time to stop waiting for the perfect moment and start putting in the work. Watch now and let these speeches motivate you to break free from laziness, stay focused, and give everything you've got to achieve your goals. The time to act is now—don’t waste another moment! You don't have to but if you do we would appreciate it if you join our channel members: / @absolutemotivation If you found this video enjoyable, kindly show your support by giving it a thumbs up, leaving a comment, and subscribing for future content. ✏️ Featuring our excellent speakers that will give you that boost you need to take your life to the next level. This original speech we created will provide you with the fuel you need to push through those hard times. 🔑All speakers, footage and music are also listed at the end of the video. 🤝Special thanks to all our partners, not just in this video but all our videos. We love you. 📱Maintain your motivation. 💡 Our official website: https://absolutemotivation.net 👕 Our official merch: https://absolutemotivationshop.com/ 👉🏻 Thought-provoking editing tapestries: @AbsoluteMotivation 📸 Instagram: @absolutemotivationofficial 🎤 Speakers in this video: ILIA TOPURIA SIMON ALEXANDER ORG MEL ROBBINS DAVID GOGGINS MATT GRAHAM STEVEN BARTLETT ANDY FRISELLA ANDREW QI 💽 Track List in this video: THE SECESSION - TAKING FLIGHT THE SECESSION - DISCIPLES OF THE SWORD Our speeches are created by, remixed or licensed to Absolute Motivation. For licensing information, message navidbakhsayesh@gmail.com 🔊The music in this video: The music is licensed via the fantastic teams at: Musicbed Artlist Really Slow Motion Audiomachine 🎥 The video footage In this video: All video footage used is licensed through either CC-BY, from various stock footage websites, or filmed by us. All Creative Commons footage is listed at the video's end and licensed under CC-BY 3.0. Film and TV shows used in the video are interwoven with the video's narrative, related to the video's topic, and corresponding to FAIR USE. #absolutemotivation #hopecore #motivationalspeech #mindset Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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this cars make the man every day i wake up i say to myself you have two options right now
Keep dreaming with your dreams or wake up and make it reality.
And I choose the second option always.
How much longer are you going to avoid what you are capable of doing
in order to continue with what you are comfortable doing?
And I just let that sit.
And let them reflect on that question.
Because it could be the very thing they need to realize it's them stopping them.
You have to accept what has happened.
You need to accept reality.
It's one thing to accept the fact life isn't fair, this is cruel, I don't deserve this.
It's a whole nother ballgame to accept that this is what has happened and it's not changing.
And the longer that you hold on to the wish that this didn't happen, the longer you hold on to this wish, the longer you prolong your own suffering.
I mean, most of human suffering are internal pain, our anguish.
it comes from the desire to have things be different than how they are.
You know, there's one quote I love from the poet Rumi.
Try not to resist the changes that come your way.
Instead, let life live through you.
In this suffering, there has to be some kind of growth.
With every obstacle, I look at it as friction now.
Without friction, there is no growth.
You have to have friction in your life to grow.
So I start looking at all these different things versus the world was
me mentality like oh my god look at my life my life so f*** up I start looking at it
as a as a perfect trial ground try to flip it upside down it's okay I'm suffering
tremendously mentally use this to your advantage versus your disadvantage so that's
what I did versus looking at it as like oh my God what was me I'm never going to get out of here
I looked at it okay hang on a second hang on a second if I can overcome this if I can find some power
in this some way to get it
through this, that right there will be the fuel for the rest of my life.
Why aren't you getting better every day?
There is no good reason to voluntarily go to bed a worse version of yourself than you were
when you woke up.
You know who does that?
You know who chooses to move the needle backwards every single day?
People you don't want to be.
All the people that are living the life that you're not interested in with their job that
they hate, with their income that they hate, with their relationships that they hate, with their
body that they hate, by voluntarily not getting better, you are doing the same thing that they're doing.
They might be further along in the process than you are, but you're still doing the same thing.
You are going down the same path that they are choosing to go down.
And before you go to bed tonight, I just want you to think about which path you went down today.
I actually think the greatest consequence in life is not keeping commitments to yourself.
So, isn't it really lovely to know that maybe the way to turn that into a positive upward reinforcing spiral
is just keep that tiny commitment you made yourself today.
When you said you were going to get in bed at 10 p.m., you do that.
And you stack that.
Like, yesterday's out of play.
But the next thing you do in the next hour, can you keep that commitment to yourself?
We've all heard it.
It's always darkest before the dawn.
You have to push through the hard to get to the place you're trying to get to.
Tell me one good thing in your life that came without stress and anxiety.
It does not exist.
And when you feel the highest pressure, the highest stress,
And the highest anxiety, when you're in the pursuit of something greater, it's a good indication
that you're actually on the right path.
It's a position that you want to actually be in because once you push through this time
of extreme stress, pressure, and anxiety, on the other side is the promise land that you've
been looking for.
So my advice would be lean into this, give it another six months.
And what will happen is you're going to look back and be like, man, I can't believe I
thought it was that hard.
You can convince yourself your entire life that you're weak and incapable.
But maybe you've just never put yourself in a trying situation that required more of you.
Our self-confidence, self-esteem isn't based on how we look or even what we think we can be,
but on evidence of what we've already overcome in the past and what we're still giving each and every day.
If you've always avoided challenges, bailed out when the water gets hot, quit after failing just once at anything,
then you will forever see yourself as inadequate and incomplete because it's all you know, it's all you've ever fed yourself.
So convince yourself otherwise and push yourself.
For once in your life, finish that hard run.
Give up going out and study more for one more night than you're used to.
Look at how much your body's changed over just sticking to the plan for just a few months
and tell me these accomplishments aren't the greatest highs you've ever felt in your entire life.
Tell me you still feel underachieving and undeserving of the happiness and personal accomplishments
that have escaped you for so long.
Stick with the hard problems for longer, especially when all that self-doubt and negative
thoughts come out.
They're not signs for you to take your foot off the gas and give up again.
There's signs for you to push forward to somewhere you've never gone before.
Because the growth you're looking for can only be found through the adversity
that you're so afraid of.
You know, man, everything you want
is on the other side
of just a little more pushed
than you're used to.
That's the only currency
you'll ever need
to save your life from yourself.
The root cause of the quitter
isn't that you can't do 100 fucking push-ups.
You can train anybody to do that.
The root cause of the quitter
is when you get in hell,
you can't process it.
It's too much to process.
Because your mind starts going back
to the real reality of like,
I'm not ready, I'm not good enough.
It's not trained.
So I started training this, realizing that the only thing that makes me quit, it's not the muscle fatigue.
It's the mental fatigue that makes me quit everything in life.
So I became a practitioner of the mind.
The mind is a very powerful thing.
It has a tactical advantage over you all the time.
It knows your fears.
Right.
It knows your insecurities.
It knows where you don't want to go.
So it will guide you away from that.
And that's why the mind will always win it to you.
always went until you reprogram it.
It will always win until you
you reprogram it.
Because the mind controls you.
Why is that?
It's your fucking mind.
It's your mind.
Because all those things that happen to you in your life,
all those bad things,
all those things that you blame other people for,
they're now yours to own.
You gotta figure out a way to reprogram your mind
to get outside the box.
There's a moment in life that breaks you.
A moment when everything you thought you had,
everything you built, everything you believed in,
collapses. Maybe it's the loss of someone you loved. Maybe it's a dream
that crumbled, a failure so massive that you don't even recognize yourself anymore.
Maybe it's the weight of years of mistakes, pain, regret, rock bottom,
the place where you feel empty, number lost.
And when you're there, it feels permanent.
It feels like the end.
Like the best parts of life are behind you.
Like you, have nothing left to give.
But listen to me.
Rock bottom is not the end.
It's the foundation.
I know it doesn't feel that way now.
But one day you'll look back and realize that this moment,
this painful, unbearable, earth shatterable.
moment was the beginning of something greater.
The art of rising after hitting rock bottom isn't about going back to who you used to be.
It's about becoming someone new, stronger, wiser, unbreakable.
And it starts right now.
The first step to rebuilding is accepting reality.
Not running from it.
Not pretending it's not happening.
But facing it head on.
This is where you are.
This is your starting point.
This is your starting point.
But this is not who you are.
The mistake people make when they hit rock bottom is that they think they're stuck there forever.
They let their circumstances become their identity.
I failed so I must be a failure.
I lost everything.
So I must be worthless.
I made mistakes.
So I must be broken beyond repair.
None of that is true.
You are not your rock bottom.
You are the person who will rise from it.
Acceptance isn't giving up.
It's simply saying, this is where I am right now,
but it's not where I'm going to stay.
Let's be real.
You're not going to feel motivated right now.
You're not going to wake up tomorrow and suddenly feel like taking on the world.
And if you wait for that moment, you'll stay exactly where you are.
Motivation isn't what gets you out of rock bottom.
Action is, even if you don't feel like it, even if you're exhausted, even if everything inside
you is screaming, what's the point?
You take a step anyway, and then another, and then another.
It doesn't matter how small.
What matters is that you're moving, because movement creates momentum.
And once you have momentum, everything changes.
start where you are with what you have. Don't try to fix everything at once. Focus on the
smallest, most manageable step you can take today. If you're drowning in regret, start by
forgiving yourself just a little. If you feel weak, start by proving to yourself that you're
not. One workout, one challenge, one promise kept. If you feel lost, start by doing one thing that
brings even the smallest sense of direction. Reading, learning, asking for help. You don't need to
rebuild your entire life in one day. You just need to lay one brick, one brick every day, and eventually
you'll look up and realize you've built something unshakable. You have two choices. You can let
rock bottom be the reason you stay down, or you can let it be the reason you rise. The world will
tell you that you're broken, that your mistakes define you, that you'll never recover. But you
don't have to accept that story. You get to write a new one. Adopt the mindset of a warrior. A warrior
doesn't ask, why did this happen to me? A warrior asks, what am I going to do about it? A warrior
doesn't wait for things to get easier. They train in the fire. They use the pain, the anger, the loss,
not as shackles but as fuel.
When you stop seeing yourself as a victim and start seeing yourself as a fighter, the game changes.
Pain can do one of two things.
It can destroy you or it can transform you.
The difference is how you use it.
Use the heartbreak to become stronger.
Use the failure to become wiser.
Use the betrayal to become sharper.
Pain isn't something to numb or run from.
It's raw.
energy. It's fire. And if you channel it, if you harness it, if you use it, it becomes power.
The people who do great things in life, they didn't avoid pain. They turned it into fuel.
Think back to the version of you who hit rock bottom, the one who felt lost, hopeless,
like they had nothing left. Now ask yourself, what did they need? Did they need someone to remind them
they were stronger than they thought.
Did they need proof that this wasn't the end?
Did they need someone to show them that survival wasn't just possible?
It was inevitable.
Be that person.
Not just for yourself, but for others.
The ones who are still lost, still hurting.
This isn't about a one-time comeback.
This isn't about getting back to where you were before.
This is about becoming something
more because life will knock you down again. That's a guarantee. But the difference now,
you know how to rise. And once you know that, once you've done it, once you've felt the power
of standing up after falling, you become unstoppable. You don't rise because it's easy. You don't
rise because you feel like it. You rise because you refuse to stay down. Because this moment,
this pain, this rock bottom, it's not the end of your story.
It's the beginning of your greatest chapter.
So stand up.
Take the first step and rise again and again and again
until you become the person you were always meant to be.
Determines when it's up for you.
When we're saying this cannot be accomplished, this cannot be done,
then we are shortchanging ourselves.
And look, I'll be the first one.
to tell you, there were a lot of days who I did not want to get out of bed.
And I guarantee you, if I asked the question here, if everybody is excited to get out of bed
every single day, if I saw a hand, I'm going to blatantly call you a liar.
But if you have those little small goals, those little small things that get you excited,
when you don't want to, it's going to make it even better and even easier at the end.
It's going to make it so much easier.
And I think if you look at the grates and anything, in any walk of life,
The greats do things when they don't always want to.
And that's the separation.
You don't seem to understand.
Your success is not a matter of chance.
It is not a matter of if you are skilled enough or strong enough or even brave enough.
Let me ask you a question.
Where exactly do you think this vision you have for your future comes from?
And not only that, but the desire to go and pursue this vision.
Do you truly think that something so pure could just stumble its way into existence?
I don't think you do. In fact, I know that you feel otherwise. This relationship that you have with this vision for a better you, a better life that fulfills you, is intimate. That raw feeling, nothing so pure and ever be a total accident.
Every single morning when you wake up, you repeat to yourself, in every day, in every way, I'm getting better and better.
In every day, in every way, I'm getting better and better. You have to consciously reprogram.
your subconscious mind to decode and deconstruct the self-limiting beliefs, the self-doubts,
the ideas and the opinions of other people that have negatively impacted you and have held you down
your whole life.
If not you, then who, bro?
I'll tell you what your problem is, bro.
You don't think highly enough of yourself.
You don't really believe you're capable to do it.
Well, there's a million other motherfuckers that wish they could have your spot.
And yet you're taking yours for granted.
I'll ask you again.
If not you, then who?
Nobody, bro.
Nobody.
Take care.
Every single great thing that's ever been created in the history of the world was created by a human being.
And guess what you are.
You are a human being, just like them.
You have access to more information, to more skill set, to faster learning than anybody who has ever existed before you in the history of Earth.
So what is it about you that makes you incapable compared to everybody else?
And I'm going to give you the answer.
The answer is nothing.
The answer is the belief in your ability to achieve and become things that nobody you have ever seen in your own universe has done.
And that is our limiting belief.
But the only way for you to continue to evolve and really step into everything that is meant for you,
You have to be willing to embrace the discomfort of something that you have to.
You have to be willing to embrace the discomfort of leaving what's known.
But understand that those feelings and those emotions aren't because you can't do it.
It's because you're stepping into something that is not the norm.
And that is going to bring you feelings of discomfort.
That's going to bring you sometimes frustration and a lack of clarity, right?
And sometimes feelings of anxiety and like, I don't know.
Trust it.
All those emotions are just signs that you're stepping out of your comfort zone into something new that isn't known and that is very uncomfortable.
But it's a part of the process. It's a part of shifting into a more aligned authentic version of yourself.
The human brain cannot comprehend the negative. It is incapable.
Can I tell the human brain not to do something, right? And so what happens is we very often reinforce things when we put things in the negative, right?
I can't get apart.
I can't do this.
Versus, I'm gonna keep doing this.
I'm gonna keep doing this.
I'm gonna keep doing this, right?
It's the same thing for you.
If you focus on the obstacles,
all you will see is obstacles.
If you focus on the path through the trees,
all you will see is path through the trees.
It's your choice how you choose to perceive your own career.
It's literally perspective.
If you give your all every day,
your gifts will make room for you.
And it's like having a knowingness that things are going to be fine.
And then there's the next level, which is you start to know who you are,
and you're not trying to prove it to yourself or other people.
It's a difference between what I would call push motivation and pull.
Push is, I'm going to make this happen.
And it takes tremendous willpower.
And I know you have plenty of willpower.
I do as well.
But there's a limit to willpower.
But there's no limit to pull.
Pull is when there's something magnificent that you want to serve,
something that you've got an obsession for.
You don't lose that energy.
You don't lose those components.
and you're able to laugh and enjoy along the way.
The fear is never reaching your potential.
They're always fallen short, always quitting before you're done,
always procrastinating, always not doing the right thing.
And then one day you're an old man, and you look back and go,
God, I could have been great.
I sacrifice everything what I have.
I will sleep, train, eat, repeat, and that's it.
Obsession?
Yeah.
I think it's not about this.
And I think more than blood, I think it's about mental, your brain, how you think about this.
How, how, there is like, you want this or no?
There is not like 50-50.
It's like, okay, I want this and I want other.
You cannot, there is like not between.
You have to be in somewhere.
It's black and white.
Yeah.
I think one of the hardest things to hear after you don't get your way is keep working.
But it's also one of the only solutions to be successful.
You're not going to get your way.
the time in your life just keep working hard work pays off no one tells you when you'll
never know the true feeling of accomplishment if you've never faced the setback you'll never
know the true meaning of confidence if you've never had to bounce back from anything just keep
working and not getting what you want keep working you are getting what you want keep working
more thanks for sure overthinkin's overrated for every time you set your alarm and then sleep in
someone else is obeying it for every time you say you should go to the gym but then don't
Someone else is breathing heavy for every dish that you should wash, but instead let pile up in the sink and become a headache for later.
Someone else isn't compelled by the same laziness. I know this because that someone else is me.
Every decision you make is an opportunity to build respect for yourself.
And every opportunity that you pass up on is just another piece of evidence that you are not the person you say you want to be.
We let our feelings dictate what we do.
And we have to do the opposite if you want to change.
You have to lead with the actions that align with the way you want to feel
after you've done the actions.
You have to take action first, because if you allow your feelings of,
I'm tired, I don't feel like it, it's hopeless, why bother,
that feeling will dictate you doing nothing.
And that's going to keep you on the right side of that.
that page. If you just look at that list that you created of all the things that
you know you should be doing that would just uptick your happiness slightly or
make you slightly healthier, slightly this or slightly that, then act like the
person on the left-hand side of the page. And then every time you take that action,
your feelings will fall in line and you'll start to feel more like that person.
For you to constantly win, win.
when when this voice over here, the real you is saying, get them, go.
You're nobody.
You've always been nobody.
And it's true.
People don't hear that.
That's a true voice.
That's the real reality of David Goggins at 24 years old.
It's not a false reality.
And then you had to create another voice over here that is saying you're better than that other voice.
And you're in the freezing cold water that both voices don't want to be in.
But you win.
It goes from the water to the studying, to the running, to losing weight, to how you eat, to how you function as a man.
Every day of your life, you're winning these battles.
I have a choice.
You can go for it.
Or you can just watch it go by.
But I'll tell you this, it really exists.
in the heart that doesn't try.
Don't be the person that lives
but never feels alive.
Be the person
that knows the sky isn't the limit
because they wasn't afraid to fly.
You might not be in control of how you die,
but I promise you, you're in control of how you live.
There's three decisions you're making every moment
you're alive, you're making it right now.
Everyone's listening is making these three decisions.
You might be making them unconsciously,
so then your life is driven by the environment.
First decision is what are you going to focus on?
Are you going to focus on what you have or what's missing?
And if you're focused on what's missing, that can make you grow.
But if that's what you focus on continuously and you add one more pattern, it'll create frustration,
anger, sadness, or even depression.
And the second pattern is, which one of these do you more?
Do you focus more on what you control or can't control?
If you go in a pattern of focusing what you can't control and what's missing what's
missing, what's missing in what's missing in what's missing in what's missing
is always going to be there.
Because think about it, there's plenty of things that aren't missing and there's
plenty of things you can control.
But when you're focused on what I can't do and what's missing for my life,
there's an emptiness.
Now here's the third one.
You tend to focus more, and we do all three, but more on the past, the present or the future.
If you're focused on what I can control, what I already have that's beautiful in my life,
and what's happening right now that's beautiful or what I'm going to create, you're not going to have that level of stress.
You'll still have problems, but you're not going to have the anger or the sadness or the overwhelm.
It's never too late.
If you're alive, you can get better.
If you're alive right now, you can improve your condition.
You can improve your situation, and it starts with improving.
the way you think. That's the most important thing. The way you think of things, the way you think of
things, the way you address things, you've got to change that. Life has a way of pulling you in every
direction. We're told to fight, to push, to hustle for control over every detail, as if that's the
only way to create the life we want. We cling to plans, to expectations, to the idea that
if we just hold on tight enough, everything will go our way. But here's the truth. Life doesn't
work like that. No matter how much you plan, no matter how hard you fight, there will always be things
you can't control. And the more you resist, the harder life pushes back. What if, instead of fighting
against life, you surrendered to it. Not in defeat, not in apathy, but in trouble. But in
Trust that even when things don't go the way you imagined, they can still go the way they're meant to.
When you stop resisting, when you let go of the illusion of control, you find something unexpected.
You find peace. You find clarity. You find freedom.
The illusion of control. We're taught to believe that control equals safety.
that if we just plan hard enough,
prepare long enough, and hold on tight enough,
we can avoid pain, failure, uncertainty.
But control is a myth.
You can't control how other people act.
You can't control what the world throws at you.
You can't control the unexpected twists and turns
that life will inevitably bring.
What you can control is how you respond.
your mindset, your actions, your ability to adapt.
When you stop trying to control the uncontrollable, you free yourself from the anxiety,
the frustration, the constant battle against reality.
You shift your focus to what really matters, your growth, your resilience, your ability to create meaning no matter the circumstances.
What does surrender really mean?
Surrender doesn't mean giving up.
It doesn't mean you stop trying, stop caring, or stop putting in the effort.
Surrender means releasing your grip on what you can't control.
It means letting go of the need for life to look a certain way, and trusting that even if
it doesn't, you'll still be okay.
It's about flowing with life instead of fighting against it, about understanding that the
The storm you're in isn't trying to destroy you.
It's trying to shape you.
And when you stop resisting, you give yourself the chance to grow.
Resistance is exhausting.
It's the mental battle we fight every time life doesn't go the way we planned.
It's the frustration, the anger, the endless cycle of, why is this happening to me?
Letting go of resistance doesn't mean you stop caring.
It means you stop wasting energy on things you can't do.
change. It means accepting what is, so you can focus on what you can do next. Ask yourself,
what am I holding onto that's keeping me stuck? What would happen if I let it go? One of the
hardest things to do is to fully accept where you are right now, especially if it's not where you
want to be. But acceptance isn't about settling. It's about recognizing the reality of your
situation, so you can move forward with clarity and purpose. When you accept the present moment,
you stop fighting against reality.
You stop wishing things were different
and start working with what you have.
And in that acceptance,
you find the freedom to take meaningful action.
Surrender isn't about passivity.
It's about focusing your energy where it matters.
You can't control what happens to you,
but you can control how you respond.
You can choose to grow, to adapt,
to create something beautiful out of the chaos.
Instead of wasting energy on what's out of your hands,
ask yourself, what's one thing I can do right now to move forward?
Even the smallest step can create momentum.
Life doesn't always make sense in the moment.
Sometimes it feels unfair.
Sometimes it feels chaotic.
But when you look back, you realize that the things that felt like detours
were actually leading you to where you were meant to be.
Trusting the process doesn't mean you won't face challenges.
It doesn't mean everything will go to.
smoothly. It means believing that no matter what happens, you'll find a way to grow, to learn,
to create meaning from it. It means trusting yourself, your strength, your resilience, your ability to
adapt. When you stop trying to control everything, you find peace. Not because life gets easier,
but because you're no longer wasting energy on battles you can't win. Letting go is freeing.
It allows you to stop carrying the weight of things you were never meant to hold.
It allows you to redirect your energy toward what truly matters, your growth, your purpose, your ability to live fully in the moment.
Here's the paradox.
The moment you let go of control, you gain it.
Not control over life, but control over yourself.
Control over your mindset, your emotions, your ability to move forward no matter what.
Surrender doesn't mean giving up your power.
It means taking it back.
It means choosing to live fully, even in the face of uncertainty.
It means finding freedom, not in controlling life, but in trusting it.
The tighter you hold on, the more life slips through your fingers.
But when you let go, when you stop fighting, stop resisting, stop trying to control the uncontrollable.
You give yourself the chance to truly live.
You find freedom and surrender.
So take a deep breath.
Release the weight you've been carrying.
Trust yourself.
Trust the process.
And watch as the world opens up in ways you never imagined.
Let go and live.
There's a place in your heart where your dreams live and your intuition thrives.
So hold on to your dreams.
tight and realize, I know it sucks, but realize that you might have to move in some silence
for a while.
And that's the most courageous thing that you can do because you're choosing to listen to
that deepest part of you rather than the noise and the doubt, the people that you thought
that you trusted.
Most people don't change.
They live the same six months of their lives a hundred times in a row.
then they die. They go to the same places, they make the same jokes, they tell the same stories,
they work the same job, and then they die. And it's all because they were never willing to be
uncomfortable, because they were never willing to change. And a lot of people get really
uncomfortable when I talk about this, but most people are average. The average person stays stuck
in the same patterns. And so if you want to have a different outcome, you have to walk a different
path. So you have a goal, a vision, and for whatever reason, you can't bring yourself to do the
things that you need to do in order to get there.
And it's not like the things that you need to be doing are difficult in any way or are a mystery,
you know, like everyone knows what to do.
So it's not a matter of how.
It's a matter of will.
Where do you find the will?
Evidently, it's not going to be motivation because motivation doesn't trump laziness.
So what needs to change?
How do we find the will?
Many of us are too focused on everything that's going on out here,
external factors, right?
And when the physical world doesn't reflect what we want in our minds,
it leaves us frustrated and confused and exhausted and discouraged
and a whole bunch of other things that no one wants to feel.
Whereas what needs to happen is we need to embody the person
that we want to become on the inside we need to adopt their mindset we need to adopt their mental
framework um we need to replicate their behaviors and naturally the physical realm will kind of just
reflect that your family and friends may not get it right now and that's all right they're going to ask
questions they're going to make fun of you and that is okay because you're going to make them understand
you're going to make them understand by going out and getting the result you want they're going to
understand real quick when you have the body they want, the bank account they want, the car they want,
the house they want, the family they want, the life they want. It's going to go from why are you
doing that to how did you do that? You can try to convince them all you want. You can talk to them
until you're blue in the face. But the fact is, the only thing that's really going to convince them
that what you're doing is right is when you get the result. Nothing you can say to these people,
no amount of convincing is going to speak louder than you having an undeniable stack of evidence
that shows exactly why you're doing what you're doing.
You forgot who the fuck you are, bro.
You got so caught up in other people's opinions
and the way the world looks at you
that you forgot what got you here in the first place.
Forget everybody else, bro.
Forget the crowd, forget the clubs, forget whatever it is.
You have nobody to prove anything to except yourself.
You don't have as much time as you think, bro.
Before you go, let me show you something.
You see this guy?
Remember what he said.
Nobody is going to hit as hard as life.
It's not about how hard you can hit.
It's about how hard you can get hit.
And keep moving forward.
Keep moving forward, bro.
Keep moving forward.
Never complain, never explain.
And what it means is
don't complain about life.
Don't explain what you're doing
or why you're doing it. Just do it.
By whining and complaining,
all you're doing is making people think bad things
about you, looking weak.
And when you complain a lot,
you have a mindset
where everything is kind of a potential complaint.
Stop whining and stop explaining
yourself and just do things in the world and let your actions speak for themselves.
I think whenever we're going through a hard time, we just wanted to end, but it's those moments
that allow us to appreciate the good ones.
Do it sad, do it angry, do it heartbroken, do it miserable, do it excited, do it energized,
do it happy, do it tired, do it confident, do it discouraged, do it anyway. However you've got to get it
done, make sure it gets done. That's what separates the winners from the losers. That's what separates
those that get what they want from those that only talk about what they want. So whatever you got to do,
get it done. The only thing standing between you and the life you want is committing to the process
longer than anyone else is willing to. You don't need every answer. You just need the discipline
to face what's in front of you day after day, hour after hour. Will it feel impossible at times?
Absolutely.
But it's in those moments where you rise above your doubts that you begin to create something special.
This isn't about being ready.
It's about being relentless.
You got this.
The universe only gives us what we think we're worthy of receiving.
So then people who show up for themselves every day, they start feeling pretty damn worthy.
They're like, I'm worthy for this.
It's not like an entitlement way.
Like something, they just like, I feel like it's going to happen.
I'm worthy for it.
You're not ready for what you want until you believe you can get it.
All things are possible if you believe.
And you get it when you believe it.
You get it when you believe you have it.
And that's the clues.
Like people still, they sit around going, when's it going to come,
when's are going to come, when's are going to come, when's are going to come,
when's are going to come.
And that's the wrong way.
You have to go, it's here, it's here.
When you really get this, your future for the most part is not consciously created.
It's unconsciously remembered.
because you're actually being informed by something that you're still hurt by.
And as a result of not accepting where you've been, you're going to have a concern for where you're going.
And I will show you how I win.
So for me, that for me, it burns.
And I will not stop until I win.
So I do these things.
I always have this saying, why be normal when you can be the best?
So when I do my things, I don't want to be normal.
For me, normal, it doesn't exist.
I want to make the difference.
And when you make the difference, you're being the best.
So for me, it's a challenge.
So in reality, I'm fighting against myself, not against the other ones,
because I want to be the best version of myself
and take me myself to limits and try myself.
That's the purpose.
And not be compared with other ones, because I don't compare it.
Never give up.
Never, never give up.
And I think that more than anything else from every study I've read that's critical,
If you resolve in advance that once you're set off to achieve your goal, that you will never give up, but you will never quit, that nothing can stop you.
That every single difficulty will just be a spur to drive you on, that you will become an inverse paranoid, and you'll look into every problem, and you look for the good in the problem, you look for the lesson that you can learn, to look for the way you can turn the situation to your advantage.
If you keep on doing that, if you keep optimistic, if you keep this attitude of confident expectation going, it will be success.
Your persistence is your measure of your belief in yourself.
And every time you persist in the face of adversity, your belief in yourself increases until it reaches the point where you become unstoppable on the pathway to your goals.
I'm standing here right now in front of you.
Judge me.
I'm proud of every inch.
I'm proud every second.
Do I have flaws?
Yes.
Do I work on them once they're identified?
Yes.
Am I constantly trying to improve the name state,
the IPO value of my name?
Yes, I am.
The small things mean as much to me as a large thing.
Because those small things add up to be more and more and more.
They create the big thing.
You know, the big thing isn't just one.
It's trained for, it's fought for.
In the training, in the gym.
You know, in those moments of character testing, of morality, integrity, that everyone seems to fail these days, who stands up, picks up the trash and no one's looking?
Who does that?
The same person that's on top of the podium later in life.
They go hand in hand.
It's a heartbeat guys at the end that really wins it.
At the topest level of competition, everyone's got the talent.
Everyone's got the perseverance.
Everyone has it all and everyone wants it.
But somebody wants it more.
Someone's heartbeat is constantly beating for it.
Not just when people are watching, not just in training,
but when they're sleeping, they're dreaming of it, they believe.
It's a constant cycle.
How do you know when you're on the right path?
When the small nuances in life that people don't really value,
they consider a nuisance, you consider them as best,
valuable as a big events when everyone is watching.
Your potential is determined by how much uncertainty you're willing to embrace.
When you're built different than everybody else and you have this desire for more,
this desire for achievement and this desire to win, everybody else looks at you like you're
stuck that, duh.
When people don't understand you anymore, you're in that spot of obsession and drive.
Where people are like, what the fuck is wrong with this guy?
I don't want to talk to you, man, because you're not going to get it.
You will never understand what is wrong with me.
And that's why I'm so glad you don't, because I'm in the right fucking spot.
And they'll tell you that, too.
You know, what's the wrong with you?
Like, why can't you just relax?
Why can't you just do this?
Why can't, because I'm just not built that way, man.
Has the alcohol worked yet, or do you still wake up the next day with the same pain that
needs to be swept under the rug even harder?
Did the drink turn you into that better version of yourself yet?
Or does your personality still require?
that liquid confidence every time just to come alive.
I suppose if drinking is your source of fun,
a good time is defined by escaping yourself,
even if just a little bit.
It doesn't seem that gratifying to me.
You know, if you wanted to feel good without the poison,
you definitely can, and a lot of people do it.
But there's a heavy pressure of normalcy to break through
if you're ever going to find them and do the same.
Whether you like it or not,
From the time you wake up, to the time you go to bed, a lot of us are at war with ourselves.
And within that war, you have several battles.
Those battles are basically choices.
You know I'm not talking about a war that you might find in the Coliseum.
I'm talking about a war that's in your brain.
That war exists because life has so many choices.
Within those choices, you got to make right decisions.
You know what?
When the long goes off in the morning, you don't wake up.
Don't wake up, don't worry about that.
When you're in school, you don't...
That man, it's too hard to step.
So I'll study.
You know what, don't eat healthy, because you don't have to.
So guess what?
When you fail, don't blame your mom, don't blame your dad,
don't blame teachers.
What I'm approaching to the plane is yourself.
Never apologize for being obsessed.
They'll call it too much.
Let them.
Positive obsession isn't a flaw.
It's the edge that separates good from great.
The one that cuts through excuses, distractions, and mediocrity.
The world might call it too much, but they're just uncomfortable with the level of focus that they don't have.
So go ahead.
Obsess over growth.
Obsess over your goal.
obsess over becoming the best version of you.
Nobody else at the moment has the power to change you unless you have that initial spark
and say I must do something. I don't want this anymore.
In order for something new to come, something old must go.
Let go of what you know until now. Empty the game.
Empty the cup and start from the beginning.
You must spill the O.T and pour in new one.
Then things look different.
Just don't quit today.
Tomorrow take care of itself.
Whatever we got to do tomorrow, just don't quit today.
Little step, tiny step.
Tomorrow.
What are we going to do?
Well, I don't know, but I'm not going to do that today.
Just today.
All right?
Just make one good,
good decision today.
When you go to sleep at night, think about your goals for the coming day.
Make a list for each day of all the goals, the little goals you're going to accomplish
that day. Keep a journal and write down your goals on a regular basis.
When you're driving through the day, think about your goals. When you're talking to other people,
think about your goals. You see, you do become what you think about most of the time.
You do achieve what you think about most of the time. So all success,
people think about their goals most of the time.
You will never feel ready to do things that scare you.
You will never feel ready to jump off the cliff.
You will never feel ready to take that leap.
Your brain is designed to protect you and change requires risk.
And so you are protecting yourself by saying maybe tomorrow.
If you want to change your life, you must make a decision to change your life.
It takes power, it takes effort, it takes discipline to break the old you, to break those habits, to break free of the chains that have been holding you back.
That's where it takes the most effort.
And then once you climb up and you start to get altitude, you start to get elevation, gravity becomes weaker.
Your old weaker self doesn't have the same influence that it had.
It's easy to want it. It's easy to think about it. It's easy to dream about it. It's easy to tell people you're going to do it.
What's hard is getting up in the morning and doing it. What's hard is doing it when all your friends are telling you not to do it.
What's hard is having everything in your life tell you that you should pull the plug on what you're doing right now and go get a normal job.
Go be like everyone else. Go be like everyone else. Go live the life that everyone else wants you to live.
But showing up anyway. That's what's hard. But that's what's actually going to get you where you want to go.
Most people never succeed in life because they're waiting for conditions to be perfect.
They're waiting for the sun to shine, the temperature to be right, all the stars to align.
And I'm here to tell you guys that will never happen.
Conditions will never be perfect.
Things will never align.
There will always be a reason for you to put off what should be done right now for a later time.
That is a success and life truth.
A warrior is sent.
A warrior has or feels the obligation.
If something is out of balance out there, I'm going to fix it.
Or you try.
And if you try and you fail, you try harder next time.
But you don't give up.
Starting tomorrow, what are you going to do that will make a change in your life's direction?
Good question.
What are you going to do starting tomorrow that'll make a difference?
Now, see, if you don't do something starting tomorrow that'll make a difference, guess what?
It's going to be the same.
And see, that way you can guess what the next five years are going to be like.
Look at the last five.
Because the next five are going to be like the last five unless you made your key tomorrow, change it all.
Or change a little or change something or don't change.
It's choice time.
You can do whatever you want.
But that hardest part of changing is breaking that gravitational force in the beginning.
The stationary inertia of habit that's been controlling you for 7, 10, 15 years.
Leave your weak old self behind and go get after it.
Everybody has a turnback moment.
You have a moment where you can go forward or you can go forward.
or you can give up.
But the thing you had to keep in mind before you give up
is that if you give up, the guarantee is it will never happen.
That's the guarantee of quitting, that it will never happen
no way under the sun.
The only way the possibility remains that it can happen
is if you never give up no matter what.
My view is like you can't control the outcome all the time.
Sometimes it should go the other people's way.
It shouldn't always go your way.
So you get motivated by the losses.
You stay motivated through the winning.
What you can control is your process.
You can control those intangibles.
You can control the work ethic, the consistent discipline,
your attitude, your culture, how much you care.
All those things are in you. They just need to be drawn out of you.
There are going to be days where you get up and you do
exactly what you're supposed to do and you work as hard as you possibly
can and nothing happens. And on that day, you're going to feel like you're wasting your effort.
You're going to feel like you're wasting your time. On that day, you're going to wonder why you're
even doing this. But on that day, you're going to promise yourself that you're going to do it again
tomorrow. And when tomorrow arrives and the same thing happens, you're going to promise yourself
that you're going to do it again the next day. If you keep doing that, one of those days,
something's going to happen. So keep showing up. Keep doing the work and trust that one day it's
going to lead to what you want because if you do the work it will if you will change everything
will change for you if you will get better everything will get better for you if you'll
change your philosophy you'll change your habits if you'll refine your thinking if you'll
change and accept some new disciplines if you'll turn the corner where you've been in the past go for a
new life of the future all kinds of remarkable things will happen for you if you will change
said to myself, if ever I want anything to change, it's up to me.
That's the time where I really got scared.
It suddenly hit me right between the eyes,
and if I wanted my life to be different,
it was up to me to make my life different.
And if I can get only one point across to you in this simple segment,
this little segment is this,
is that the starting point of flying to the stars,
the starting point of taking complete charge of your life,
the starting point of great success and great achievement,
is to accept complete unconditional responsibility.
If it's to be, it's up to me.
If it's to be, it's up to you.
As Henry Ford said, never complain, never explain.
What that means is if you don't like the way things are,
then it's up to you to change them.
And if you're not willing to take steps to change them,
then don't complain about them.
Just simply accept them.
Men who are men and women who are women,
don't complain about the difficulties of life.
They just accept them as the difficulties of life,
and they either do something about them
or they don't say anything.
So if it's to be, it's up to me. It is to be it up to you.
Most people just don't want to be responsible for their existence.
The predominant state of mind is a victim.
I say it with all the compassion in the world,
but people really think that I am at the effect of life.
And for most people, it's really justified.
Like, if you knew my dad, he was an asshole, and you knew my spouse.
And there's just the absence of both accountability, responsibility,
and personal power that for whatever reasons,
I've attracted these circumstances for my own growth and evolution.
I know who you are because you're the same person in adversity in victory and defeat.
You're the same motherfucker.
It doesn't get turned off ever.
Excellence.
I said before guys, it's not an accident in somebody's life.
It's a habitual habit that's trained and perfected and then remastered and remastered every single day.
And everything they do.
You know you're on the right path.
When these small things, the momentum builders, hold value to yourself.
When you stamp your name on something and it means something, come check it out.
I did this.
Not hoping someone doesn't see it.
The fact you know it exists is enough.
Hey man, look, this is what you got to do, bro.
Wake up and grind.
Wake up and grind.
Wake up and grind.
Every day.
That's the method.
I mean, it's not hard.
If you get up every single day and put your mind to something,
how could you really believe that you won't win?
It's not possible.
I mean, 99% of people already don't want to grind,
so you're just starting, you become into 1%.
This junk is really simple, but you're making it hard.
When all you have to do is wake up and grind every day.
That's the memory.
Stop ignoring the voice in your head.
You know the one I'm talking about,
the one that knows you're capable of more,
the one that whispers to you at night that you could have gone harder.
What if I told you that voice is your potential?
Daring you to do more, be more, go bigger, do better, don't ignore your potential.
Feed it.
Because I'll be honest with you, I am sick of people telling me to rest more, take a break, seek ballots,
f-fk off.
If you are blessed with the opportunity to chase your dreams
and whatever weird disposition leads someone to run after them
with unwavering desire than fucking do it,
and apologize to no one.
The number one way to make people mad is to treat yourself like gold.
Keep all your promises.
Skip out on all the popularity contests and selling your soul to be on the same page as everyone.
Leave the beer smoking in meaningless relationships to those that can't see through the BS and they'll be angry at you.
And is it because you're doing something wrong?
No.
I think your only crime is making them witness a life they wish they could have but never will.
people want to blame the mirror for what they see in it.
But in all reality, the mirror provides nothing but the reflection of a harsh truth.
And I tell people, if you have found the right path and you feel frustrated and you feel blocked,
that's a good thing, right?
That little bit of pain, a little bit of frustration, it's often a signal that you're actually on the verge of turning into the right direction.
You know, it's a signal that things aren't quite working out and you're listening to it.
But if you get anxious and you don't listen to the frustration and you can't be creative, you can't go into it.
But you'll learn at a much higher rate and you'll enjoy everything involves a degree of pain, a degree of practice, a degree of drudgery.
There's nothing that's going to come easy in life.
So anything is skill that you're going to learn, it's going to involve that.
And if you're not connected to it in a deep late, you're never going to learn fast enough, you know, and you're just going to burn out too early.
Live in the moment.
Stop trying to be alive and start living.
Death is coming.
When it comes, are you ready for it?
Are you gonna stand up and dance at that fucking celebration?
Or are you gonna be wishing, oh my God,
because that's permanent, man.
You can't change it.
You can't reverse the clock,
trying to make manse and do it right.
You don't have time to say you're sorry and make it right.
Now it's over with.
That day comes.
It's like Sunday.
for a test, that day is going to be tested. It's a huge accountability of today. We come into this world
by ourselves. We leave this world by ourselves. We had the opportunity to engage while here,
but we leave alone. We leave with the memories and the embraces and the love and the experiences
of life. We take that with us. And if we do it right, we leave footprints of legacy and
motivation for others to follow and take the most out of life alive but also living not so fearful for death
that we become a self paralysis in our own state trying to preserve the inevitable it doesn't work
that way guys consistency isn't sexy but the magic just doesn't happen overnight it's in the
small steps you take every day the ones that feel repetitive
unnoticed and even dull.
Don't underestimate what you're doing right now.
It's turning effort into momentum and momentum into results.
So keep going because consistency doesn't just win.
It changes everything.
