ACFM - #ACFM Microdose: Mica Nava on Feminist Consciousness Raising
Episode Date: September 17, 2019ACFM’s Jeremy Gilbert interviews Professor Mica Nava on her experience of women’s liberation and consciousness raising in London in the 1970s. Mica is the author books such as Changing Cultures;... Feminism, Youth and Consumerism and Visceral Cosmopolitanism Here are some texts by some of the people we mention: Sheila Rowbotham Women’s Consciousness, Man’s World Juliet Mitchell […]
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Hi, this is Jeremy Gilbert from ACFM, and this is one of our new series of microdoses,
extra bits to supplement the main episode.
This is the full audio of the interview I did with Mika Nava, long-term feminist activist and noted scholar,
for our episode on Consciousness Racing, and we hope you enjoy it.
Okay, well, I'm Mika Nava, and I joined the women's movement in 1969.
and I was older than quite a lot of the other people
who joined the women's movement
I went to my first meeting when my youngest kid was about three weeks old
and I took him along in a caracot
and I was probably a week
I was probably 30 or very close to 30
so I was a quite there were few women older than me but not many
Most of the people involved in those early days were quite young in their early 20s.
But some of the more influential ones were in their early 30s.
There was really nobody over 35.
And I was very pregnant when I met David Slaney, who was one of the activists at LSE in the 1960s.
And he came to dinner with somebody in the house.
And he started telling me about this new group.
that was starting, was composed of a lot of American women who were involved in VSC or were with
the Vietnam Solidarity Campaign. And where was? This was North London. This was North London in Tuffel
Park actually. And although at the time I was living just off the Finchley Road. And I thought, and he said,
oh, and some of them have kids, they're thinking of different ways of bringing up kids together.
And it sounded really boring because it wasn't anything that I
I wanted to be doing at that stage.
I thought that's the last thing I want to be doing politically.
But I do want to be more engaged politically.
But then I discovered that it was actually much more radical than that.
And so I went along.
And where was it?
Where was the meeting?
The meeting was in Tuffalo Park.
The where in a house?
Oh, in Karen Slaney, well, Dave Slaney and Karen Slaney's flat in Dartmouth Park Hill.
It was a really small room.
And there were about 15 people there.
in the room, or maybe fewer, and a good number of them were American.
So one of the most significant women and the most influential was Rochelle Wirtis,
whose article, key article, she was a psychologist and she had a PhD,
and she'd written a critique of John Balby's theories of maternal separation.
And for me, that was absolutely a seminal piece in my commitment to the women's movement,
my consciousness raising and other people have mentioned other key texts or other key events.
But for those of us with young kids, that was it.
Right, because Bulby had really, yeah, this is for the recording.
The Bulby had really was one of the key figures in the post-bought period.
Should I say something about that?
Yeah, you did.
Okay, well, actually, my mother was quite into psychoanalysis and had quite a large collection
of books.
And I remember taking Bolby's book, Child Care and the Growth of Love, to me, with me, to school, to the school I was at when I was about 16.
So I read it then. And it was a critique. Basically, what he exposed and what he talked about was the damage done to children who lost parents during the war and who were brought up in hospitals, often with no personal contact at all.
and so from that he developed this notion of the trauma done to children who didn't have constant care from their mothers
and he shifted it around but it was popularized by Dr Spock who was a very liberal child care guru in the 1960s
and so it was really kind of taken for granted that if we didn't want to damage our children
we, as mothers, we mothers had to be around most of the time.
And he says at one point, if you go shopping from time to time,
you probably, and you leave your child with a nice carer,
you probably won't be doing any damage.
Something like that.
So it was really quite traumatic and intense.
And so, yes, it had influenced me and it did influence women of my generation,
even though I'd actually have a much more progressive,
and independent existence up to that point.
I mean, I'd lived in Mexico, I'd lived in New York for three years,
and I'd been an artist, and I'd done an awful lot of things
and been involved in revolution, left-bring politics,
but I had two older children, born in 64, 66,
the youngest was born in 69,
and this was like a revelation.
the first women's meetings were a kind of revelation.
Hang on, before we get to that, I want to get into it now,
because people are going to like, there's a whole audience who's going to like listening to the whole
thing online. And I think the thing about Bowie is really interesting,
because I think to clarify the sort of exactly what the sort of ideology of
childcare the doctor's spot promoted was, because it, because to kind of,
to sort of my generation, like I'm in my late 40s and I've got children,
that'll sound kind of weirdly familiar and unfamiliar because we sort of grew up when I first had kids,
I was basically presented by my friend, basically by my friends who are 10 years older than me.
There were two alternative theories of parenting.
And one was this one based on sort of anthropology of indigenous people, which was attachment parenting,
which is, again, you're never supposed to lead the child alone,
but it's in a very different social context, in a very different ideal social context.
It's not in the ideal context of the nuclear family, and it's just the mum looking after it,
So it's mum and dad basically both sleep with the baby all the time.
We carry them everywhere.
And ideally you're supposed to have a tribe of friends who also look after it.
So you're basically trying to live in like some sort of indigenous communities,
even some sort of paleitic community.
So it's either that or it was this, you know, enforced separation, controlled crying, you know.
Funnily, both of the people who lectured me with advice about that,
identified as anarchists, I remember.
Identified as anarchists.
One of them, they've used to.
But so that's very different.
Whereas the, as I understand it, I mean, you correct me if I'm wrong.
The Dr. Spock theme was sort of, it wasn't exactly either of those things.
It was, it was that you, indeed, you can't ever leave the baby alone,
but it's absolutely assumed that the person who will never leave the baby alone
will be mum, and it'll be mum, mostly on her own,
and she'll be in the house, and she won't go to work, and she won't really,
and there's no emphasis, there isn't this emphasis on the importance
of a kind of network of peers and children and other people.
Is that all correct?
Yeah, more or less.
But one of the important things is to see, and is it recording still,
I mean, do you want me to go? Oh, okay, one of the important things about Dr. Spock was that he was a very progressive kind of advisor in the period after Truby King. And so particularly, he said, look, babies will learn to eat when they want to. You give them a bit of food. They won't eat too much. They'll eat what they feel like. And it's likewise with breastfeeding. You breastfeed when the baby wants something. And you don't have to wait rigidly for four hours before you, whereas some of the previous advisors were very, very, very.
very strict about timing. Well, the Truby King thing, that's, you know, she's the antecedent of what
in the, of the sort of, I can't remember, I think it was a he. Probably. Okay. I can't remember the,
I can't remember the person now who, who was a say, who promoted it just sort of 10, 15 years ago.
But it was this returned to, you know, rigid, rigid feeding times. Exactly.
Bottle feeding from day one. You know, control crying. Yeah. You never go to them.
Yeah, they'll get it. So these things sort of recur. But so, yeah, so that's important. So the doctor's
thing, it was, you know, it was reacting against that.
And I, my doctor, my copy of Dr. Spock fell apart after a few years because I relied on it
heavily. And definitely the way I brought up my kids in the 60s was according to Dr.
Spock, except that he, he was not very progressive when it came to fathers. And he did
shift. And actually, I was on a television program with him and some other people. I think
I might have a video of it somewhere. And that was in about 1970.
something. And he was really a kind of enlightened, interesting guy. And there were some other people
on it about how you should bring up babies in what was natural and what wasn't and so on.
Okay. So you went from that. So you went from having been, you know, very much immersed in that.
I remember this is, because my mum was in an NCT, who was in us from Dr. Charles. Yes. Me too.
Exactly. You know, teacher and such, the 70s. And I still remember when my sister was, I remember I knew
who Dr. Spock was because I didn't read, I wasn't enough to read the books, but I knew,
I knew that was the person who told you how to look after babies. Yeah. And I couldn't tell the
difference from Mr. Spock on the, on Star Trek. Oh yes, of course. I thought he was Mr. Spock.
Yes. I thought he was Dr. Spock. Okay, but anyway, so you come from that and having been a mother
who's been really, you know, sort of interpolated by that ideology and you, and you go into
And also the National Childbirth Trust, which very much promoted sort of relatively natural childbirth.
I had my three babies at home, and I was into breastfeeding and so on.
And that actually became an issue in the context of the meetings.
And I was talking to Sue O'Sullivan, who was in my group at the time.
She was one of the Americans in that American group, which had sprung up independently of some of the other.
groups in London, but then kind of connected to them. And Sue and I were laughing about the way that
she always accused me of glorifying motherhood. And I used to say, yes, I felt terrible about
glorifying motherhood, but I did. And it was great for me. And she said, oh, well, it was really
always a bit of a problem for her. And she felt bad because it seemed to be okay for me.
And so, you know, there was, those anxieties were expressed in that early meeting. In those early meetings,
in Tufnell Park. And that was, and between 69, the autumn of 69, September 69, when I went to that
first meeting. And sort of March 1970, I was in that Tufno Park group. And after March, after the
conference at Oxford, we expanded exponentially. That's the Women's Liberation Conference at
Rusking. Yes. And there were lots of people who wanted to join groups, so we had to split. So that
quite a wrench because we left behind some people that we got very close to but we had to and we did
along geographical lines and i then joined the belsize lane group which was much nearer my house
and what was materially going on in the group i think that's something people are really interested
in these days and have a really vague idea about like you would turn up and well there were a number
of things that we wanted to do i mean first of all people felt that they had to meet as women only
and that was a very radical thing, radical demand of radical structural difference from all the other political meetings around at the time.
So, and that it had to be a relatively small group, you couldn't have these massive meetings, that everybody should be involved, everybody should be given a chance, that people shouldn't monopolise meetings.
There was no chair, there were no rules.
That's why I still can't quite get all the rules in the Labour Party.
and some people I know who've had these long histories on the left
are much better at them but so we it was sort of we agreed things we would discuss
we somehow or other would have if there was anything to agree we would try and do it by
consensus rather than any other way and so some of the people in the group were
rather sophisticated and so but we did talk about women's issues rather than the
the wider issues but some of them were there in London
because of their, they had to flee from the states.
They were either, you know, avoiding the draft
or they were really being persecuted
and had lots of left-wing connections,
often through their husbands or partners.
And we talked about issues that, you know,
things like childbirth, things like equal opportunities,
but abortion, I mean, all of those initial issues,
but we deliberately,
focused away from the kind of most important issues that we thought had been addressed by
the suffragettes, that is to say the vote. So we were not, we wanted it. I mean, we were
into the personal as political and that meant that we had to talk about ourselves. I mean,
there are a lot of fantasies about what went on in those groups and I think a lot of groups were
very different. But both the first group and my second group had quite a lot of, you know,
a few people with, quite a few women with young children. So we were not typical of some of the
groups with really young women. And so that was so Sullivan, Shelley, and then when we, and Karen
and Angela Malamid, who lived around, still lives around the corner in Tuffield Park. And at that time,
I lived in near Belsais Park. And then in that group, which sort of formed over the course of the
70s and I was in for 10 years, just about all of us had young children. The people who didn't
drifted away because a lot of it was about the difficulties of the sexual division of
labour and how, and monogamy, marriage, and importantly, and this is really one of the most
important things about what those groups did. They talked about political ideas, but
but they were all, they were polemical, but they were also about changing the way we lived.
Right.
So they were prescriptive in a way.
And that was sometimes very stressful.
And I remember thinking, God, I can't go on any longer, because I'm going to have to change everything.
And it's just too much.
I can't change everything.
So it was special.
You mean changing household arrangements?
Household arrangements.
Working up.
I mean, some of the demands are in the book here, and actually in this initial article.
And I did do say there, well, these were our demands, but whether or not we'll be able to achieve them is something else.
So even in 1971, I was quite cynical about the possibilities of change.
So tell us some of the demand.
Well, they were about living together, giving up all money and possessions.
I mean, there were a few brave households that did that.
Others were living together and sharing, or at least sharing a little bit more equally,
childcare and child responsibility.
I mean, even just helping
was a kind of improvement
and we went down that avenue
a bit and certainly
and
were there intellectual reference points
in the discussion
in the discussions? Yeah, we did read things
we definitely read things, we read quite a lot of leaflets
from America, everything was sort of
what's the word for
psychos, mymograph?
Mimeograph, yeah, I mean
I think
recycled
yeah, you know those things
things that, those machines that put things out in large numbers.
Oh, yeah, I know that you mean. Yeah, I don't know.
Yeah, I forgot the name. And, um, but there were all these pamphlets came from America.
So yeah, I mean, for example, Anna Koot and B. Campbell said that the most important seminal
kind of influence for them was the myth of the vaginal orgasm. That was one leaflet by
Anna Kurt. Other people said it was the Ford Women's Strike. And for me, it was Shelley's,
critique of Balby.
So yeah, and we did read stuff
and we, and the Oxford Conference
was a film about it and I re-saw it the other day
because there was a little cluster of events,
two days, consecutive days,
organised by unfinished histories
where the film was screened on Monday
and then there was a whole lot of feminist theatre
from the 70s that was reproduced
and spoken about.
Do you want to just say for a moment, actually,
what was her critique of Bulby?
Her critique of Bolby was that there could be multiple carers.
Okay.
Really, basically.
I think what's interesting is anthropology became important for the early feminists
because it was how people lived around the world
and we shouldn't assume that there was only one way.
And history, because things haven't always been the same.
So, because everything was so profoundly naturalized in those early days
that we didn't think that things could be different.
And then the other thing was, Sheila's got a lovely quote that I took and have used from Sheila Robottom,
where she talks about how we couldn't even imagine how to get up and change the world.
I mean, it's not that and it's something else, but it's along those lines.
And so it was a matter of kind of opening our minds, and of course we read Juliet, Mitchell,
Sheila Robottom and Juliet Mitchell were the giants of those early days in Bryn.
Shulamith Firestone was so extreme and out on her limb.
I mean, I make fun of her in another piece I wrote
because she said, well, 10 people should get together
and take care of everybody's children.
Well, I mean, it was so unlikely when it's hard for two people
to make contracts, you know, and to stay together.
I mean, what are you going to do?
And are you going to leave babies with somebody else?
Just the 10 years are up and so on and so on.
I mean, they were fantasies, really.
but some very radical stuff
was coming from America
and it seems like
so this is a kind of hobby horse of mine
but I think it is really coming out
in the remarks you're making
that there's a certain
there's a rejection of kind of liberal individualists
sort of solutions to these problems
to be a really important theme
and I think one of the things
that we were very critical of now
the National Association or National Organization
of Women in America because it was reformists
I remember once making a suggestion in the Tuffalo Park meeting
and that was really kind of early on.
And this woman, Ellen, who was one of the American lot,
said, that is so reformist.
And I hardly knew really what reformist meant.
I mean, it was like a very concrete strategy that we could,
I can't remember what it was about,
except if I do remember her response.
Maybe it was around more childcare
because public childcare, state childcare,
was minimal at that time.
And so some of the childcare that was developed was developed actually by groups of people independently of the state.
We didn't make those reformist demands of the state.
And I think probably would have been a lot better off if we had, actually, with hindsight.
And we were very purist.
We didn't want to particularly tell our story to the press in our way.
We ignored the press because it was the bourgeois press.
So we were absolutely rooted in the left-wing politics.
of that moment. And some people have represented feminism in a different context. I mean,
Anthony Barnett, who I was in Germany with recently, we were talking about the origins of, you know,
68 and the origins of the women's movement. He did include it as something significant, but he
had a shot of a woman walking down the middle of a railway carriage with almost no clothes on
and these men sitting in, you know, and it was a sort of business men sitting there, one
and it was like an
it was
appealing to men
to take the train
or something like
and using a woman model
and that was not our background
that was not what we were reacted against
because we were far away from it already
I see we were absolutely rooted
in the left
but it was the sexism of the left
of men
our men the men on the left
who ridiculed women who got up
and said this is a women's issue
who
abused and insulted and laughed at and so on and so on.
I mean, it really was quite shocking
when you read some of the accounts and you see
some of the comments. And even in the film that was made
about the first conference
at Oxford, there's this one shot
taken by a male cameraman and
not edited out by the male director
of this woman and sort of panning
up and down and focusing on the breasts and
so on in a way that really is
so dated.
You know, and so, I mean, it was those things
that we addressed, and we learned from, and we had to challenge.
And I think it's a mistake to think that it was the more, I mean, obviously, if you look at
some of the films of the 60s, you think, my God.
But we were partly in that community, partly in that cultural world, but, you know,
already rather far out of it, because we'd been through 68.
Yeah, I understand. Yeah. So, and so what was the relationship to you make?
Because, I mean, we're interested in the idea of consciousness raising,
and what you're describing is basically consciousness-raising groups
in a way in which women seem to have, you know, sort of raised consciousness.
Is that a phrase that would have been used at the time?
I think we did use consciousness raising, but it does feel a bit dated now.
But we did, but we did raise, we did raise consciousness.
We did transform the way people thought.
And what did that mean?
Well, I mean, it meant talking about the subordination of the oppression
of women and talking and focusing on the liberation of women. Liberation politics was another
route. So it was left politics and liberation politics. There were absolutely the sort of ground
from which we emerged. And it meant this expansion of political horizon. Yeah. Well, it was like
a lot of people have talked about a light switching on a light. It's a revelation, a kind of
extraordinary. I didn't think about it that everything fell into place. So it did feel like
a very dramatic transformation. But from there, what followed was a bit more complicated
sometimes. But people did change the way they lived. Absolutely. And how did men relate to this thing?
Because it's always, I mean, it's always been an issue, hasn't it? You have feminist consciousness
raising groups, women's consciousness, but ultimately this is partly about changing a set of
better. Well, I think some men were sympathetic and tried hard. Some men found it quite exciting
that all the women were getting together and challenging everybody.
And some men found it unacceptable and too difficult.
I mean, in my Belsais Lane group, I think at the beginning,
the sort of core members were all with a man.
One had already separated, but I think the rest of us were all still married
because marriage was really what people did in those days.
And by the end of the decade, none of them were.
So, I mean, it was a kind of huge rupture.
I was the last, actually, to split, I think, out of that small group.
And it was incredibly challenging for everybody.
I mean, that Belsize-lane group was quite unusual.
There were also links not only with the left, but also with, for example, Bhagwan.
So a lot of them went to this guru in India.
to explore, sort of exposing, transforming,
living in different kinds of ways.
So that was very attractive for a lot of people.
And of course, that also broke up a lot of relationships.
People can know about Baguan now because of the Netflix.
Exactly.
Well, the Netflix thing, I mean, there were about five women in that group
who took it very seriously, who went there.
Some stayed there for many years.
And some came back.
Sally Belfridge wrote a very interesting book about it.
But she actually, and it's definitely worth having a look at, but she took it quite seriously.
So for the recording, if you don't know what we're talking about, what's wild, wild country on Netflix?
Yes.
The Google, Oshon, or Bangwan.
That's right.
Oshow.
Yeah, four, and he wasn't called Oshow in those days.
And, but we called about, we talked about orange people.
And I, so they were all, so, I mean, he's a, he's a sort of neo-verdantic, sort of neo-hindis.
sort of teacher, sort of a teacher of yoga, you know, yoga meditation.
Well, and completely sort of unrestrained sexual activity at all times of the day and night
and stuff like that and exposing, self-exposing, exposing your vulnerabilities.
Right, right.
And forcing people to do things that they wouldn't otherwise have done.
So I remember one member of my group had the, was given the kind of, what is it called,
the detail, the, you know what happens in the, when you're in the,
of cleaning all the toilets.
So that was her job
because she looked like somebody
who had not often cleaned toilets.
And so, you know,
it was a funny kind of mixture of
humiliation and self-exposure
and liberation.
Because there's all this stuff going on at that time
in the 70s, isn't there?
I mean, there's things like, you know,
the Black Panthers had what they call
the struggle sessions where, you know,
where you kind of engage in self-criticism
and you kind of accuse each other of things.
And the Maoist, obviously, had this practice of self-criticism and this idea that you really
basically break down every trace of your bourgeois, individualist ego by, you know, having all the
ways in which you're not a perfect revolutionary, kind of exposed and can't be exposed. And I think
actually when we, you know, when we, you know, people sort of connected to ASFM, when we've talked
about constant as raising, that when we've, the pushback we've had is that people think that's
what we mean. People think people are scared because they think, well, actually, that was the kind of
dark side of the left in the 70s.
And it's really interesting.
I mean, in your work terms,
what was it people, what was it that people were looking for
in both the Women's Liberation Group
and then in Baguang in these places?
What was it they were looking for that pushed them in those directions?
Let me come back to that in a minute
because I want to say something about black power,
which I think is very important.
I think the kind of politics that we were all used to
before feminism, for those of us on the left,
were, and it was predominantly students, middle-class women
who were involved in this movement in the early days,
although there were some working-class groups
like the strikers at Fords and the night workers and so on,
and there were black women,
but I think one of the biggest influences on us was black power
because it wasn't, it was on behalf,
the new movement was going to be on behalf of ourselves.
It wasn't going to be like the Vietnam Solidarity Campaign,
on behalf of others in a remote part of the world,
a kind of anti-imperialist or pro-civil rights or something like that.
We had our civil rights in the formal kind of way,
but what we were doing was acting on behalf of ourselves,
like black power people were.
And so that was quite important.
That was really a revelation.
And sometimes it felt a bit uncomfortable
because a lot of us felt a bit guilty about being privileged already.
Right, right, right.
So we had to sort of recognize,
and denaturalise our oppression.
Right, right, right.
And so that was one thing.
And then what was the question?
Oh, the 70, well, it wasn't all dark.
I mean, there was.
No, I'm into it.
Okay.
But there was also a lot of solidarity.
And it's a question of what people are looking for.
Yes.
You've sort of answer, but it's in really nice terms.
To say it a bit and more, what are people looking for that in a constant fundraising group
in Tasop Park and in Baguang,
Oh, well, in Bugwan, I was not really...
Well, what's the continuity?
Well, I think there was about new beginnings in a way, about stripping back.
And it was all linked to a funny kind of psychoanalysis.
I mean, several of the people in all of these groups then later became psychotherapists
or were already very involved.
And, you know, sometimes we rejected Freud, but we all read it.
Juliet Mitchell started that.
I mean, there was a lot of work, a lot of engagement.
about, it was about discovering and uncovering and exploring
what had been kind of hidden and not exposed.
In terms of view of the social construction of the self.
Yes, the social construction of the self, definitely.
And so, I mean, we did have joint movements.
We did do things, but it was mainly about,
and some of us ended up mainly writing.
I mean, I was in the women's theatre group
for three years in the middle 70s,
and we went around doing plays for school girls in sort of theatre and education
about contraception and, you know, getting kids to be aware.
So it was sort of more like sexual as pleasure,
but make sure you don't have babies kind of message to 15-year-olds,
which is a bit dated in today's terms,
because it wasn't about sex as danger at all at that point.
And so that was another thing that happened.
And then, I mean, just in personal terms and in terms of what
a group provided. In 1977, I went to the Institute of Education to do a PhD, and we formed a
group then of women PhD students and researchers, and that's still going. And we meet all the
time. I mean, we meet every month or so, six weeks. It's shrunk over the years. Some people
have returned to Chile, returned to Greece, gone to Canada. But there's still a core of about
six of us. So is that, are you all the same age? Or has it renewed itself? No, no, no, no. Definitely.
All the same people. We've met together for 45 years. And has that been helpful? Incredibly.
So we ended up being three psychotherapists and three professors. Well, one is both. And that's
Leslie, you know. And so we are, and we've definitely supported each other. It's not been a very
fraught group, unlike the Bell-Sys Lane one, which was all much more difficult. And, and we're, and
And it's been incredibly, we've been incredibly supportive to each other, and now we're reaching kind of old age, and we're kind of negotiating decline.
And, you know, some people are declining more than others, and it's been, and it's quite difficult.
And so, yeah, and so I think these, and that had its roots in a kind of consciousness-raising group that started in order to sort of explore the,
issues in academia in the mid-70s.
So, yeah.
So, and I interrupted you, I think you've gone there anyway a bit,
but I interrupted you when you started,
we said there was solidarity, that that was one of our favorite words.
Yeah, well, that is.
You were talking about the fact that the, you know,
the experience of the left in the 70s wasn't just one of the sort of dance,
which, I mean, it's very important for us.
It's very important for our whole project, actually, that we think,
and it's something people have been talking about, I think, for several years now,
that this popular image
was constructed for a long time
of the 70s
and it was all very dark
compared to the shiny
loveliness of the late 60s
and it was punk
is this kind of
but punk comes out
of this dystopian moment
and you're saying
actually you said there was a lot
of solidarity
oh yeah there was a tremendous amount of solidarity
but I think if you really
heavily identify with something
like a women's group
when things are so tense
and so explosive and so difficult
and like the women's theatre group
and like
feminist view
actually
very often
there are splits
because people
so identify
with these things
so there are problems
and it was such a passionate
engagement
very intense
but it was incredibly
I mean solid
we also
we did things together
we produced plays
we went
we went to Wales
we did LSD together
we went to
yeah
That's what we like to hear on the UCFN.
So, you know, we did a lot of different things.
And we did, and we certainly had, you know, our kids got to know each other.
And we went on holidays together sometimes.
And some people fought closer relationships outside the group.
And some people were kind of close to people as, you know, in the group as a whole.
And some people just fell away.
But there was a solid core.
I mean, there are some people in the Belsize Lane group that still.
meet a tiny number. I don't know very much about it. And, um, but, uh, yeah, so I became more
of an academic. And so the second group from the Institute of Education was kind of more
appropriate. And it wasn't as, it was like a calm second of marriage. So what, so, I mean,
How did the sort of practice and constitution of these small groups?
I mean, how did it sort of relate to the wider idea of a movement?
Well, we had, yeah, there was the general workshop, and there were publications,
there was the Women's Liberation Workshop, and there were, you know, Shrew was one of the
publications, we wrote stuff for feminists for, spare rib all the time, we, there was a sort of
little sub-writing group in the Belsais Lane group that did fiction together.
There were, and people had engagements outside in the workplace.
I was at LSE and I got very involved in feminist stuff at LSE and in fact I didn't do
terribly well in my exams because I think I turned every single exam question around to
answer it in, you know, with feminist material about absence.
and about, you know, you haven't looked at this
and this is what, et cetera, et cetera,
and they weren't the questions that were being asked.
So, I had to...
And that was all very successful.
I mean, ultimately, you're sort of transforming curriculum.
Yes.
I think that was the most successful thing, actually.
That and popularising feminism through women's magazines and so on.
So that after a while, people did do that.
Some people objected, but that was later in the 70s and 80s.
And certainly the curriculum in universities was completely,
completely transformed by feminism.
And a very large number of us went into academia and did that work.
And so both as, I mean, as students initially and then as lecturers.
And I personally was on the editorial board of feminist review,
but that was a bit later from 1983 to 1993.
And then I, you know, that sort of work takes its toll.
and a lot of time, so, but was incredibly rewarding, incredibly important, and I learned such a lot.
And what do you think happened? I mean, I'm interested in now in the sort of how your experience
or your perceptions relate to certainly this kind of received narrative that I sort of grew up with,
which is that, you know, the Women's Liberation Movement had this, you know, this period of creativity and dynamism
was forward motion and was part of the broad popularisation of sort of feminist ideas
of, you know, with varying degrees of radicalness across the culture and then it sort of
fragments in the 80s under the pressures like a base of certain kinds of identity politics.
But is that accurate, do you think, or is it?
Well, it certainly was no longer a single movement.
I mean, we didn't have conferences.
The big split was between radical feminists and socialist feminists.
Right.
And I mean, I was, I challenged the idea.
of socialist feminism because I didn't think the two things went together in quite the way that
some socially feminist thought they did. So do you want to, can you elaborate that? Okay, well,
first, what did the terms mean radical feminism? Okay, well, radical feminism was really a kind of
separatist feminist feminism and which believed that there was such a thing as a patriarchy
and they were very anti-men and anti-boys. Somebody told me the other day, where was I?
that she went with a baby boy on a demonstration, was told to go away.
And, I mean, it was crude, but it's less crude elements were that, well, they got quite a lot done,
and they had a journal and so on, but I wasn't part of that group.
I was part of the social feminist feminism also included lesbians.
It certainly wasn't about sexual orientation or sexual identity.
but it was
and socialist feminist feminists
on the whole thought
and we were all so embedded
so left wing
that only
getting rid of capitalism
would mean
that the sort of
women's
oppression of women
would only be overthrown
with the overthrow of capitalism
well that seemed to me
unlikely
because all the examples around
showed that women
were still oppressed in the Soviet Union, in, et cetera, et cetera.
And some people put that a little bit more theoretically.
I think it was Mark Cousins, who said capitalism is indifferent to the gender of its labor power.
When did he say, though?
In MF, I think.
But when?
Do you know where?
When?
When?
When.
I'd say about 1980, 70, earlier, a little bit earlier, because I started going to the
seminars in Birmingham in 1977. I don't know if you want all of this kind of rather more
personal. I went, when I started my PhD at the Institute of Education, I went there because
Diana Leonard was one of the very few women who could supervise PhDs in the country. And
that's why she had quite a few feminists, but we were also quite critical of her because she did
position herself on the radical feminist side. And she was very influenced by Christine Delpherson.
who was a French feminist
and they said that basically
the origins of women's oppression
was the control in the domestic sphere by men
and that you could see that
and that persisted in many countries in the world and so on
and I actually took that fairly seriously
and I said that you could have capitalists of oppression
and that kind of domestic
and I forgot the terms because I haven't read the books for so long.
They could coexist.
And that was my argument when I was in Birmingham at the centre.
You mean the centre for contemporary cultural.
The centre for contemporary cultural studies.
Everything was so flexible in those days that even if you were enrolled somewhere else,
you could go to meetings there and they were open.
Nobody checked you at the door.
And I went to the family group that was actually coordinated at the time by Richard John
And so we looked at the relationship with the family, I think it was called Family School,
to capitalism and so on and so on.
And so I put forward, I have something that I wrote then about that sort of theoretical
relationship between patriarchy and capitalism.
And a number of us were very obsessed about that at one stage.
Well, I think people are interested in it again, I think.
Are they?
And I think, I mean, you know, I would say the kind of, yeah,
most of I've seen people my age and younger have mostly been taught
that patriarchy was a sort of old-fashioned concept and it wasn't,
and it was sort of wrong with various reasons.
And I think, but it's never gone away from sort of activist feminism as a reference point.
And I think there's a number of us who would say,
I don't think anyone's really writing about it very specifically,
but partly because people, what definitely people are writing about
published books about it, is the idea of social reproduction
as a key kind of
frame for thinking about these things. And I think
a lot of people do think that patriarchy is kind of
a useful, as long as you don't,
I would say, certainly amongst people
I know, the idea that patriarchy
is not, I don't really know anyone who's working from a kind of
classically Radfem perspective. I know
people who engage in a kind of radical
feminism, a different kind, I'd say,
which is a sort of extreme liberalism, really.
But I think that the notion
that you have to understand the interaction
between patriarchy and capitalism as war produces,
contemporary gendered experience.
I think people are coming back to that idea, right?
Well, I think it was important, and I think there were links.
I think what happened is that there was a moment
when we kind of exhausted that debate,
and we moved on to sort of post-modernism
and lack of certainty about anything and so on.
So, you know, we kind of shifted with the sort of academic
and intellectual fashions of the moment.
But, yeah, it was important at a certain moment,
and it was much debated in feminist review
and I have one of my first published articles in feminist review
goes through that
because there were a couple or two or three
sociology of education books,
women in education that came out at the same time
and I did a review
and I think that was in the early 80s,
1980, I think.
But I wonder if one of the things is, I mean it always seems to me
with sort of hindsight, that one of that, the reason I was so interested in that quote about
capitalism being indifferent to the gender of the labour that it exploits is that it seems
that's one of the, that was one of the key things that shifts from the early, I mean, there's this
moment in the early 70s, which you're all kind of fascinated by, but one of the things it's always,
and one of the things I've always said to students is that one of the things that's now so
sort of quaint about a lot of the stuff, and it comes out of gay liberation stuff as well,
is this belief that, you know, by, that you can't, that you can't imagine a capitalism that,
normalises and accepts, you know, queen, or all women's liberation.
One of the things that's becoming clear, really, in the 80s,
in the early age, with the implementation of post-Fordism and, you know,
what we now call neoliberalism, though actually you can have.
You can have a capitalism, which is indifferent to those things.
Exactly.
And people don't really get their heads around that for quite a long time, right?
No, I agree.
But I was actually, I did push for it.
And I think that was partly the influence of Diana Leonard and a few people,
and that I had it a little bit more.
I did argue against, for instance, Katha Hall and a few other people on feminist review.
So it was, but Anne Phillips wrote a very nice piece about it that kind of linked the two together
that was worth returning to probably, and I could find somewhere.
And so, yeah, it was a big debate, and I agree.
I mean, I think it was obvious that feminism could accommodate, because we had Thatcher already,
you know, that feminism and capitalism could accommodate successful women and so on and so on.
And that things were shifting like that.
Yeah, absolutely.
So I agree that it was problematic.
And also because we could see that wherever socialism had sort of operated to some extent,
it certainly wasn't particularly progressive in terms of sexual politics.
Right, right.
Although it was at different moments.
Right, right.
But of course, I mean, the other side of this is that people become aware.
I mean, one reason people are interested in all this stuff again now
is that people can see the limits of that.
Exactly.
There's a whole set of demands that have been made in the early 70s.
They still can't be realized.
Well, what's so interesting is that I think all of the Me Too stuff
ignores the domestic sphere,
ignores what goes on at home in terms of childcare,
in terms of, I mean, people are,
there's no doubt about it, that men are more conscious now about,
and, you know, there's a whole article this morning
and this morning's guardian about how Prince William
is going to change nappies and things.
So, you know, this is, it's taken for granted that men should,
but it's also acknowledged that a lot of men don't,
But at least it's part of the contemporary narrative about how you behave as a father and a mother.
But for instance, sharing in a larger group has just disappeared.
The idea of collective sharing, of communes, of alternative ways has disappeared.
And I don't know how people manage, because although there is much better child care on the state,
it's still minimal and it's extraordinarily expensive.
they recruit grandmothers
you know
it's I don't know how they manage
well I think it's been made more difficult as well
I mean part of I mean you know
my argument for a long time
I mean it partly comes from my own experience
is that it's you know
I mean the I mean the commune movement
was viable in the 70s partly
because it was the end of the high moment
of social democracy because housing was much cheaper
absolutely
There was the states of infrastructure and...
We could buy big houses for very little.
And I, you know, and I always tell the story of, look, Joe and I,
we researched, you know, what if you wanted to set up a housing gop in London, like 1999?
And the answer is, well, you don't.
Unless you've got, unless someone's going to, unless you've inherited a million queer,
you're not going to do that.
And, you know, in 1965 or whatever it was, 70, you know,
houses were available at a very low price.
They did go up.
in the following decade and large houses were there and people the other thing is that uh shelly
chely wordis introduced us to the idea of bourgeois solutions she said we have a bourgeois solution
we have an opair well a lot of uh young middle class parents could afford to have opairs because
there were loads of people from abroad who wanted to come and live in london and learn english
and especially with kind of uh you know trendy sort of young family
and in our case we did have a whole lot of people living in the house that we lived in
because there were several flats and it belonged to it was a kind of family house
and it was full of sort of the students and actors and artists and so on
so you got people who were extremely nice who would come and live there and share child care
and for very little money I mean compared with today
so you know there were solutions that were available to people at that
time that are absolutely not available now because of the situation with cost of
housing really well that's so interesting because one of the things we keep
coming back to in these discussions that have come out this kind of about acid
urbanism so project and discussions this is this idea of the right to the city
and I've already sort of suggested that maybe this year the festival in the World
Transform this year that should be our main focus and we should try and we
talked about producing some sort of pamphlets about it because I think as it keeps
coming back and again and again. And I think it's really interesting because I don't think
we've quite thought about that gender dimension of it actually. I mean, I have said in some
sort of meetings and things, well, the right to the city, it means the right to experiment with forms
of household, the right to live how you want to live in the city and not be forced into a particular
way. But of course, that's absolutely crucial to thinking about these issues of social reproduction
and gender. There's a limit that the neoliberalisation of the city actually puts a limit on the
aspirations in terms of how you reorganise social reproducting.
And when Pepe and I split in 78, towards the end of the 70s, you know, we decided that we
would move, we were able to sell that house and we would move to East where houses were
an awful lot cheaper and we got two quite close to each other. He lived in Kentish Town and I lived
here and this house cost 28,000 pounds. Yeah, this mansion in Tasha Park, thanks.
to you. I mean, and I deliberately got a big house so that other people could live in the house
and it wasn't just me and the kids. And so there were other friendly adults who, you know, my kids
were bigger at that time and they could take themselves to school on their own. And, you know,
but there were always somebody to cook a meal every evening somebody cooked a meal. And, you know,
they would be around if somebody would be around in the house if I was out. And that was really,
really important and that we did have a similar arrangement in the other house but not as developed
because my then husband my father of my kids wasn't as keen on it as I was but yeah and they were
quite commonplace and that had to do with the housing market really as much as anything else
now that is really interesting I mean that is really interesting and it sort of relates to stuff
that Keir know we do the podcast with has been writing about as well about ideas of adult but
I mean the other thing this is very much I think this is a
probably something that was sort of laid on, sort of my generations were Generation X,
you know, more than any others, that what the mark of adulthood was leaving the shared house
to go into the private space, which, you know, which is a thing we didn't want to do.
We thought we didn't want to do, Joe and I, and then we found out we had to.
We had to if we didn't want to bring up kids in a situation where a landlord could throw us out.
They felt like it, and that's all the product.
And that's something that's really, it's a really, it's a really, it's been a repeated thing,
so many, so many of these discussions.
I mean, we had one of the
seminars in Hattling, we had Lynn
and Keir talking about this recently, and the idea
that shared housing goes, it should be something
that's possible for people, should be possible
long term, if they want it, it should be something
that's available, and it shouldn't be marked
as infantile. It seems really important.
I don't think it was marked.
We actually, in the Belsight's Lane group,
in the early days, saw there was a row
of houses for sale in the other side
of sort of towards West Hampstead,
Belcise Road, I think it's called,
or one of the, sort of, you know,
west of the Finchley Road.
And we did think about buying them,
but it would have meant giving up a lot
and investing a lot and making a huge commitment
and, well, it didn't happen.
But we did look at it because we thought,
you know, as we wanted to be able to share,
we wrote, there was an article,
and I've got the, the, the, I'll show it to you in a minute,
you know, what, how you, when you,
share a house you don't need 10 washing machines you can make do with one or two and you don't need
10 kitchens and so on and so on so that you could really share things and that was the idea and that was
the ideal but of course it didn't quite happen and I was lucky because I did have something that I'd
inherited but you know some people really gave up ownership and some people hung on to it so you're
never going to get a really equal share house but you do get other friendly adults who are very willing
who at that point were very willing to live in this house.
And I mean, Nick Rose lived here in the early days and other people.
There was a string of sort of interesting intellectuals and filmmakers
and who had a big influence and drama people.
I mean, they were really, my kids certainly remember some of the people
who lived in the house with us with great affection.
I know, yeah, I knew.
Yeah.
So I wanted to ask as well, what, I mean, what, you know,
you know, if somebody was establishing Constance Raising Group today,
like it would, would you think, would it be any different from,
do you think it would, do you think it would or should be any different?
Or do you, you might feel you're the wrong person who are,
because you've been, you've still got yours.
But, you know, what, do you think it would be a useful thing for people to do today?
Yes, I mean, I think what it does is it produces a kind of solidarity
and a kind of enduring friendship.
And it's sort of a bit, I mean, it overlaps with things like group therapy,
of course
and maybe
you know
it can have some of the same crises
as you have to be considerate
and thoughtful and all of those things
but I think those are embedded in the
you know that we
in the current group we have a
even now
even now I mean sometimes we have a general
discussion about politics of the day
but we always give each other
a little bit of space so we go around the room
and we say okay what's been happening with you
because some people tend to talk more than others.
And so we kind of structure in a little space
for everybody to talk about themselves.
And that just has become the habit of our particular group
and maybe one of the reasons why it's endured for nearly 50 years.
And do you think it has to be, I mean,
because one of the things we're interested in
that we don't really know actually whether this is doable or not,
whether it's a format which can only only operate
in the context of women's liberation.
And there has to be just gender segregated.
it's a former or a type of practice.
I think people do reading books, book groups, and I have a feeling that they're similar
up to a point.
You know, it's a sort of sense that something brings you together and something endures,
and it's a shared something that you're committed to that is sort of outside your immediate
work.
I mean, Richard is in a book group, and they read some very interesting stuff, and it's a funny,
eccentric sort of mix of people.
I mean, my women's group, we were all feminist,
but we have different sort of national and class backgrounds.
Right, right.
And that emerges at different points.
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