Alignment With Jenn - (#10) How to know it will work out when there’s no evidence

Episode Date: May 14, 2025

In this soul-stirring episode, Jenn Ditzhazy reveals the real secret behind manifestation: trusting before there's proof. If you've ever felt like you're doing all the things but nothing’s clicking yet — this episode will crack open a new timeline for you. Jenn dives deep into why surrender is the ultimate power move, how to stop gripping so tightly to control, and how your energy sets the tone for every result you call in. She unpacks the art of partnering with the Universe — not forcing, not begging — but aligning with your Highest Self through grounded faith and energetic mastery. Whether you're manifesting love, success, or your next big leap, this conversation is your reminder that things always work out when you stop micromanaging and start trusting the divine orchestration of it all. 🔑 Takeaways: ✨ Everything is working out — even when it looks like it’s not ✨ You don’t need to know how — you just need to believe ✨ Control is fear wearing a mask ✨ You attract based on your dominant energy ✨ The Universe responds to your trust ✨ Every small leap of faith strengthens your receiving channel ✨ Your mindset creates your frequency, which creates your results ✨ Fear and doubt distort your signal — clear them out ✨ Daily devotion to plugging in reprograms your reality 🎙️ Sound Bites: 💬 "Control is rooted in fear." 💬 "You have to show trust first." 💬 "Clear out old fears and doubts." 💬 "Plug into the Universe every morning before the world touches you." 💬 "Manifestation begins the moment you stop needing evidence." ⏱️ Chapters: 00:00 Manifesting Without Evidence 07:12 Letting Go of Control 13:48 Building Real Trust with the Universe

Hello, welcome to this episode of Receive. I am so excited to talk to you about this topic. We are going to be chatting today about how to know that everything will work out for you even when there is no evidence. This totally delusional idea that is really essential for manifesting the things that you want in your life. It is a powerful principle that guides your energy. And I'm going to help you connect to that. And really, what I'm also going to talk about is how to let go of knowing exactly how it's going to happen. Because that is a trap that gets us stuck and stuck and stuck. So I am your host, Jen D'Sazy. I am a premier transformation coach and I have helped many, many, many women manifest incredible things into their life. And I'm so excited to share this knowledge that I have been learning since I was a wee little last with you today. So this question for the topic today came up a lot in the past couple of weeks with my clients. And it comes up all the time. And really what it is is I want something, whether it's a relationship, a business, a job, a new house, whatever it might be. I want something. I have a desire for something. And I have been trying and trying and trying to

make this thing happen and I'm seeing no evidence. How do I believe that this thing will work out for me, that life will work out for me when it feels like nothing is working? We've all been here and it's hard. It is not an easy thing. And is your mindset, your consciousness that you carry through this period, this valley before you reach your new destination, that is going to determine how quickly and how easily you reach that destination. This question, what's really at the core of this question, is control, is I want things to work out in a certain way. And so how do I make sure that that happens? Because if I don't, something bad will happen. That's really what this question is, if you kind of break it down to its nuts and bolts. Because when we get very serious,

stuck on a specific outcome, whether it be a specific job, a specific revenue in our business, a specific and them wanting to date us and love us back, a specific house or a specific car, or anything that is very specific in our lives, it's actually our relationship with control that we need to look at and we need to reevaluate. Because yes, you can manifest the most incredible life imaginable. You can have everything you could possibly want. but it will not look exactly how you want it to look. And that's a good thing. Because as I've given this metaphor before, you are the person in traffic. You're sitting in your car on the 405 freeway in L.A. And it's a mess, a hot mess. All you can see around you is the rearview lights, whatever you call them, the backup lights on the car in front of you,

the lights in your rear view mirror, the car's to your side, the guy on your right's picking his nose, right? That's all you can see. And your GPS is like, continue on. this freeway for 75 miles to get to your destination. And you're going to get to your destination 30 minutes late. Okay, that's all you can see. The universe, the creator, is in a traffic helicopter hovering above traffic. And the creator can see that, oh, you know what? If you exit on that next exit, you're actually going to circumvent all this traffic and you're going to get to your destination 10 minutes early. So just exit and then take that side road. No big deal. No big deal. But you are sitting there and you're like, I don't want to take that side road. Like, I never take that side road.

That's gross. I don't want to take that. Right. You're getting into your thinking, you know better than the evidence and the guidance that you're receiving. But that guidance is trying to get you to get you to an even better destination, right? Maybe you get there early. Maybe you're going to a hotel and you're going to get an upgrade if you get there early, right, to a better destination. And so when we get so fixated on things working out exactly how we want them to work out, we mess up our energy and we delay our results and we also eliminate our ability to see the potential that's available to us because there are so many magnificent things available to you. You are aware of less than one percent of all the magnificence that is available to you. And so when you get so fixated on

Robert, I don't even know a Robert, I guess I have a cousin Robert, Robert wanting to date you and he doesn't want to date you, but like Greg is going to come in the picture and Greg is like your dream man and he's going to be all about you, but you're so fixated on Robert that Greg can walk by and you don't even see him because we get so fixated that we lose sight and we miss out on opportunities. So your ability to go after what you want full force, to show up fully, to give your all, to do your absolute best, and then put up your hands and say, okay, I've done my best, and I've released the outcome. I let go of it. I allow it to be. I don't need to control this. I'm going to keep showing up, keep doing my part. But if I, I'm also open to this or something better. I'm open to maybe Greg

coming into the picture. If Robert is not really seeming like the right one, then I'm open to more. I don't need it to work out exactly how I want it to work out because I trust. It is the energy of fear that creates the need to control. I'm going to say that again. It is the energy of fear that creates the need to control. So do a little self-evaluation. Look at your life and say, where is it? that I am needing to control. And that's probably the areas where you're most stuck. So your ability to let go of that need to control and still show up, still give your all, still fully participate, and then let go of the outcome and let go of how it works out, knowing that it will be magnificent, knowing that you're not letting go of the joy,

the happiness, the pleasure, the satisfaction, the abundance, the creation that you desire. You're just allowing it to come to you in a way that is of your highest good, of your highest timeline, right? I see this all the time where our paths can take these very circuitous paths, but then they can end up in a magnificent location, a magnificent location that we never could have ever anticipated. Okay. So let's get into more of how we create this shift, because it's easy for me to be like, oh yeah, just let it go, right? Lase-A-fair, and that's easier for some of us than others. But how do you actually create the consciousness to let it go? That's what I want to talk to you about now. So one of the key shifts to make is

recognizing and realizing that everything is happening for you, that the universe is guiding you in every moment and that everything is unfolding for your highest good, even when it doesn't look like it, even when it seems like it's not, when you can recognize that it's all unfolding for your highest good, you recognize that there is good and greatness coming to you. And so you can let go of that outcome of things not quite working out, things not being perfect, the exactly how you want them to be because you know something great is coming your way. So that's part of it. And how we really connect to that truth is by creating a very strong relationship with the

creator, the universe, God, whatever name you like to use, I don't discriminate. And also your higher self. So your higher self is like the most advanced evolved version of your soul. It's your perfected soul. And it's always guiding you in every moment. And when you can create that connection between the universe, your higher self and your current self, you are much more able to trust because it's a relationship. You have to build the trust in that relationship. But what happens is a lot of people say, well, like, you know, I'll trust when I see

evidence. You know, I will show up when I see evidence. I will be a good loving partner when he's a loving partner first or whatever. But you have to go first. You have to show that trust and that faith in the universe for it to show up in your life. This is a spiritual, an ancient spiritual truth that the light, the presence of the creator will show up in your life in direct proportion to your belief, your faith in the creator. So what that means is if you are saying, okay, I just need a really good sign. Just give me a good sign and then I'll do it. Then I'll take the step. Okay, give me another good sign and then I'll take this step. What you're basically saying is, I don't believe. I need you to like make me believe and then I'll show up. That's not how it works. You need to fully show up. You need to fully show up for the things

you love in your life and you need to go after the life that you want in full faith that it will work out. So many people go the opposite and that's why they never create the lives that they want. And when you create this relationship of trust by following your intuition, by taking those small steps and then bigger and bigger steps in faith, taking those small leaps of faith and then those big leaps of faith, what happens is you end up developing this relationship. So that way in bigger moments, You know that you have grace. You have that creative force in your life that you can trust. But you also develop that ability to trust yourself. The people who don't trust themselves are the ones who have never really built that muscle to trust themselves. So it's a relationship that you're building

with your higher self that allows you to know that it will all work out for you. Because what you've done is in very small moments, you've taken those leaps of faith. So maybe you have an intuition to go to that cafe on first street. You don't know why, but you go to that cafe because you get this intuitive him. Then you go inside and you meet a guy in there. And he has a business that would partner perfectly with your business. Right. So you're kind of rewarded for following your intuition. And then you follow it in bigger and bigger and bigger ways. That's how you develop that relationship. And that's also how you are able to recognize that you don't need to know the entire how of how something is going to happen. Right. You can allow the how to unfold.

by continuing to take the next right step and the next right step, the next step that feels right to you. And people struggle with this who have not cleared out all of the old gunk in their minds, the old programming, the old subconscious fears, the old doubts, the old limiting beliefs. The people that are still operating on those are, and we all still have them on some level, but some people have way more than others. That is going to clog up this process, all of it and make it more difficult. And so I highly recommend that you create a practice for yourself, a two-part practice. One is on a daily basis, every single morning, plug into the universe, plug into the creator, whether that is through meditation, whether that is going on a

walk and talking to the universe and saying, thank you so much for this, please help me with this, thank you so much for this, whatever it might be. Having that connection is going to allow a massive amount of energy into your life that will guide you and support you. So that's the first thing. The second thing is do work on yourself, on your mind, to clear out those old fears, those old doubts that come up and say, but what if I can't do this? What if I'm not good enough? What if I'm not chosen? Those things that come up are gunk that needs to be cleared out of the mind. And that's what I can help you with. So if you're interested in having support with that, you can always message me and I can share a five minute video on my program to send me the word podcast. But this is really what I want you to recognize is that when you are operating from this place, of it needs to work out a certain way or I hope it works out. You are operating from a low vibrational place. You are not showing up with full certainty, with full joy, that this will work out for you in a magnificent way, whether it's A or B, that comes about. And when you're in this low vibrational energy of, I hope it works out, or I need it to work out like this, or I hope he loves me back,

you're constricted, right? Your energy is constricted. It can't flow. It's low vibrational energy. So you're not only attracting an equivalent energy to that, but also whatever you're creating is not of a high vibrational energy. So if you're creating a business from that energy, it's going to be very different that if you're creating a business from a place of joy and certainty and fun. Okay. So I know I said a lot of things in this episode, a lot of different pieces to this. And so I kind of want to recap for you. So how do I know it will all work out for me even when there's no evidence? First, you've got to recognize the areas of your life where you're trying to control. And why?

What's that fear that's coming up for you around that need for it to work out that certain way? Is it that if he doesn't love you, you don't believe that anyone else will love you? That doesn't feel good to think about. What is the fear that's coming up around that for you? Why do you feel the need to control? Because control is the result of fear. And then you need to transmute that fear. Let it go, neutralize it.

That I can help you with. Send me a message. I'll send you in phone. You need to clear out that fear, though, or it will keep you. showing up for you. Keep showing up, keep showing up. Then you also need to start building that solid relationship with the universe. By listening to those small intuitive nudges, you start to build up your ability so that way in bigger situations, you trust yourself and you trust the universe to guide you. So that way you recognize that you don't have to know all of the steps because likely they're going to change

anyway. And what can happen too is you can literally go full force on the completely wrong steps. But if you are all in, the universe will guide you to the right path. Okay. So those are the big pieces. And then your daily practice of every single morning plugging in. Literally imagine like a plug coming out of your head and you're just like plugging it into the heavens above. So that way every single day, you start your day connected. So you'll receive more intuitions.

You'll receive more guidance. So I hope you have loved this. I have loved being here with you. And I will see you in the next episode. Bye. Bye.