Alignment With Jenn - (#18) Feminine Manifestation Codes for More Pleasure, Wealth & Love

Episode Date: September 10, 2025

In this intoxicating episode of RECEIVE, Jenn unveils the feminine manifestation codes that make wealth, love, and joy flow to you effortlessly. We’ve been raised in a masculine-oriented world that glorifies hustle, logic, and pushing harder — but for feminine beings, this often leads to burnout, anxiety, and the aching feeling of never enough. The truth? Your feminine energy is your greatest manifestation power. When you learn to unlock it, you become radiant, magnetic, and irresistible to the desires you crave. 💋 What you’ll hear inside this episode: The Feminine Manifestation Codes that open you to more ease, joy, and abundance. Why overvaluing masculine traits keeps women stuck in stress, scarcity, and proving mode. The secret difference between desire and need—and why owning your desires is the ultimate superpower. How to embody your divine feminine energy so opportunities, wealth, and love flow toward you naturally. The Kabbalistic concept of Light & Vessel and how it reveals the feminine’s true role in creation. ✨ This episode is an activation: once you feel the power of your feminine essence, you’ll never again believe you have to hustle, prove, or chase to manifest what you want. 🔮 If you’re ready to step fully into your feminine magnetism and create success through pleasure, devotion, and radiance, DM Jenn on Instagram with the word PODCAST to learn about her coaching programs.

Hello, hello. Welcome to this episode of Receive. I am your host, Jen D'Sazy, and today we are going to be talking all about the feminine manifestation codes. So this is something that over the last few years, I've really been diving deeper into the understanding of feminine energy and the understanding of how it operates in our lives. And really, how as feminine energy beings, we manifest, meaning we create within our lives differently than masculine energy beings. And the truth is that the longer that I've learned about this stuff, the more I realize how deeply these differences actually run in such an exciting and life-giving way. And so today I really want to talk about some of the key concepts that will help you understand how you can use this innate feminine energy that you already have, that you already

possessed to call in more love, more wealth, more pleasure, more joy, more fulfillment into your life and really use these in order to help you more easily and joyfully reach that next level within your life, wherever that might be. So over the past few years, I think the first time I really started learning about the difference between masculine and feminine energy was when I went to Tony Robbins' date with destiny. And he talks about it. And it honestly, learning that he has one day that's all dedicated to relationship, it really blew my mind.

And it was something that I had never really explored before. And then as I started learning about it, I started diving deeper and deeper into it and seeing how it really interplays with what we want to call into our lives and how when we actually start to learn to connect in and use our feminine energy, it is wildly powerful. I've heard different spiritual teachers say that they believe that the feminine actually holds more power than the masculine, which is pretty incredible. And I personally, I agree. You can decide if you agree or not. But what really is kind of inspiring this shift, and this is really going to be a shift in the way that I'm actually sharing information and coaching with my clients as well. And I've already been moving toward this over the last, I would say, nine months or so since the beginning of this year is at the end of last year, my business sort of hit this place where it was like kind of stagnant, meaning it was like a couple of months in a row. It was the same.

And before that, it had been really steadily, nicely growing. And I started sort of reflecting like what is what's going on here. And I did a lot of subconscious rewiring work around this and that really helped. But I noticed that I'd kind of go through this cycle of being really motivated and excited about my business and then kind of getting burned out. Let me know if you've ever had that experience before. And what I realized is that the burnout would come when I was in very masculine energy. When I was like, yes, I'm going to accomplish this.

I'm going to do it. I can handle this. Like, I'm going to wake up early. I'm going to crush it. You know what I mean? I was got into that very hustle, goal-oriented, pushing energy. and it didn't feel good for me. I have a lot of feminine energy and I also am a projector. And if you know anything about human design, all of my centers on the lower half of my body are all

completely open, meaning that I'm not producing much energy on my own. I'm getting it from the environment and things like that. So I don't have consistent waves of energy or elevated energy like a generator, a manifesting generator might have or even a projector if they have some energy centers that are producing energy for them. So as a result, I am very, very tuned into what is happening with my energy because I want to make sure that I'm using it very, very judiciously and wisely. And what I noticed is the more that I got into this masculine, goal-oriented, reason, logic, hustle, push, make things happen energy that I had learned a lot from from being very active in the Tony Robbins community, the more burned out that I started to feel and the more that my

business actually contracted and it didn't do as well. So in February of this year, I did this experiment where I was like, okay, I'm just going to like only do what feels really, really good and feels really pleasurable and fun for me to do within my life and my business. So I cut significantly down on all of the work that I was doing. I started making way less content. I started doing basically what I needed to do to get out of this burnout, but also only doing the things that brought me really a lot of joy. And what I noticed is that my business did significantly better. I showed up differently for my clients. I felt more at peace. It was like people were just magnetized to me. I had so many people on my inbox being like, hey, I saw this reel from like a year ago and I want to work with you.

And it was like this effortless receiving was happening. And I was like, that's really interesting. And then of course, as life would happen, I kind of went back into the hustle. And then I kept, but I kept coming back to this. And what I realized is that the more that I am in this feminine, the more that I am in this receiving energy, the more insanely magnetic I become. And as a result, I started diving even deeper into all of the knowledge and wisdom around this. And I've already read so many books. I've taken courses on feminine energy. I know Alison Armstrong talks a lot about this. Mama Gina talks a lot about this. I'm actually rereading one of her books right now. And really, the truth is that as a feminine energy being in society, we have been raised to believe that

success comes from really following the masculine qualities, right? Being goal oriented, being focused, having a lot of reason, having a lot of consistency, being very logical. And those are all great qualities, and we want those qualities. But not at the detriment of our own innate, unique feminine energy gifts. Because the truth is that both masculine and feminine energy include incredibly valuable gifts, and we want them both. But what is happening in our society is that the masculine gifts are being overvalued, and it's causing us to lose sight of these feminine gifts and lose sight of the fact that there's so much power in the feminine. And it's creating this imbalance in society, right? It's creating a loss of polarity in relationships, meaning a lot of people are friends with their

partners, but they don't want to like have really delicious sex with their partners. There are a lot of people who are women who are feeling very burned out, feeling very much like they are not in alignment with their true purpose, because they're living by this societal model. And what I want to offer you today. You can take it or leave it, but I really encourage you to experiment with it is this feminine way of being. Because as feminine beings in a masculine dominated society, what happens is when we operate primarily from masculine energy. I'm not saying you never want to use these masculine qualities. You do and they're important. But it's when that becomes your primary operating mode that you become burned out. You can become anxious, stressed, feeling like you're never enough,

because you're operating in a program that is not designed for how your unique and special energy works. So as a woman who is connected to her divine feminine energy, what will happen for you is that you will become radiant. You will become effortlessly magnetic. People will be drawn to you in relationship, in dating, in career, in business. People are drawn to it because right now what's happening is like our society is starved for feminine energy. It really is starved for it because we've been taught that those qualities, the flowiness, the emotionality, the intuitiveness are not as valuable as the logic, the reason, the goal-orientedness, all of those sorts of things. And so you become effortlessly magnetic, a woman who's truly

connected to her divine feminine energy. And I'm not talking like immature feminine that is reactive and overly emotional and unkind. I'm talking a woman who allows herself to be with her emotions and connect with her emotions and doesn't fear them to connect to her intuition to be part of that, she draws things to her. The visual I always get is like a queen who's sitting on her throne and there's a line of suitors who are all coming and delivering gifts and sustenance and resources to her because they want to be around this energy. So the goal of this episode really is to help you see and connect to those gifts that you already possess to create more ease, joy, pleasure, harmony, love, abundance, and happiness within your life by living more in alignment with your true

essence. Because your true essence is wildly magnetic and it's wildly powerful. So as we dive in, I just want to be very clear about the differences of what masculine energy is and what feminine energy is. And truthfully, this definition for me has evolved over time as I've gone through my own journey and as I've experienced different things within my life. And so, So I think of the masculine as its logic, its drive, it's this giving energy, right? The masculine is the protector, is the provider, and is also seeking this deep sense of purpose, this deep sense of stillness, this deep sense of releasing and being free. Freedom is hugely important for the masculine energy.

And really, the masculine is in this pursuit of freedom and this pursuit of emptying, of releasing, right? You think of like an ejaculation. That's a releasing. And the masculine is also this penetrative directive force. It's laser focused, right? One of, I met this woman in a cafe yesterday and she was like, we were chatting for a little bit. She's like, yeah, she's like, I leave the house. That way my husband can just focus on his work. She's like, because I'll be distracting to him. And I was like, oh, really? She's like, yeah. She's like, what he can do is just sit down for 12 hours and just focus and work on his computer. And I'm like, holy cow, I could never do that in my entire life. And I honestly don't ever want to. But that's like such masculine energy, right? That's so focused. The masculine is the pursuer.

The masculine is designed to lead and is designed to really go get the goal, go get the thing that he wants. Now, this is a spectrum, right? There's going to be people who fall on every aspect of this spectrum from very masculine to very feminine. And we all have different proportions of these energies. And that's beautiful, right? But it's to understand these different elements of it. When we over-prioritize, if we are a feminine energy being and we over-prioritize the qualities of the masculine, right, which can happen a lot to women in business. It can happen to a lot to women who are focused on a goal. Or when women get into lack. That's what I often see is that when women get into lack, they really get into this very masculine energy because they want to go get, they want to go chase, right? It's when you text a guy 70 million times. That's chasing energy. That's masculine energy. No wonder. that he's not like, he's like, oh, God, no, no, thank you. Because that's not, it's not what a masculine being is seeking in relationship. He wants to be the pursuer. And what happens is a loss of polarity. So polarity is basically like the difference between two energetic charges. And that would be the

feminine and the masculine. And when they're very, very extreme, that polarity, like a very feminine woman and a very masculine man, it's going to be hot. It's going to be very, very polarizing or polarized. And they're going to have a very radiant love life. They're going to feel very connected. But what happens over time, especially having kids, having life responsibilities, is both parties will kind of take on more of the roles of the other party and their neutrality will be created and they'll kind of meet in the middle. And that creates dysfunction in the relationship. This also happens and is happening kind of at large in our society because of the masculine overprioritization of us all being taught that like that's the way to do it. Right. Even our school system is set up very, very masculine, where you sit in chairs, you listen to a teacher hour after hour after

hour after hour, right? That's very masculine oriented. So what is the feminine? So delicious and lovable. So the feminine is more feelings based, right? The feminine is tuning in and feeling your energy, right? That's why you can walk into a bathroom and you can see a woman that you've never met looking in the mirror and you can be like, oh, girl, are you okay? Even if she's not crying, because we tune in, right? We innately do that. I have a niece and a nephew and they're twins and they're both three years old. And it's so incredible to me because they already show these different energies. She is so tuned in to everything that is happening around her.

She's tuned into like the social dynamics. She's tuned into everything. And he's not. He's focused on his play and his goals and just a very, very different operating system. And it's the cutest thing I've ever seen, honestly. It's so cute. So the feminine is also receptive. And I'll talk a little bit more about this later, but the feminine is the receiver, right? She's the one on the throne receiving the gifts. And she, the more open she is, the more gifts she's going to receive. And the issue is that when we get into our masculine, we get less open. We get less receptive. And so we receive less and things feel harder. They feel more like a struggle. They feel more like we have to push to get what we want. The feminine is more attuned to the quantum, to things that. that we cannot see. Kabbalah talks about how the feminine is actually spiritually more advanced than the

masculine. Now that's not true for every single person ever, right, who's ever existed, but that's the generality. She's more intuned into the magic, the limitlessness, right, the fluid sense of being. She doesn't need as much rigidity or structure. She's able to flow. She's able to be in the moment and allow life to flow through her versus having to control and make life happen in a story. certain way. And that goes back to having a deep sense of trust and wholeness, which I'll talk about in a moment. The feminine is the creative force, right? Not just baby making, but ideas, inspiration, right? She's the muse. The feminine is more formless, right? An analogy that Mama Gina gives in her book is that the feminine or the masculine is a rock and the feminine is the waves crashing against the rock.

And she is here to be. She is here to feel. She is here to connect. It is not the energy of doing. It is the energy around the doing. It is the energetic component of life, right? She is the life giver. She is the creator. And not only through birth, but also by infusing her radiance into every single moment, into everything that she does.

Right? It's like the man may buy the house, but the woman turns it into a home by having delicious meals, by having friends over, by making it beautiful. right? We have this innate desire to beautify. That's the entire makeup industry. That's the clothing industry. We want to beautify things. We want to make them more than they are, right? The feminine is very process oriented. So she is focused on the actual journey, the process, loving what is as it is in the void between receiving of creations versus the masculine is more focused on that orient, that goal, right? The end result, the directed. The feminine is like, let's enjoy this. Let's enjoy this beautiful car ride and watch the ocean and the sunset. Versus the masculine's like, okay, I'm on the road. I got to exit on this. La la la la la. Right. She shows up for what she loves because she's in love with loving it.

That's really kind of what I think of. It's like I show up for the things in my life that I love because I love the process of actually just loving them. I love the doing. I love the process. And I love this concept. Rather than being disciplined, I honestly, I hate the word discipline, right? It makes me think of Matilda and like that closet with like the nails and they, you know, the movie, you know what I'm talking about. That's what it makes me think of is discipline is there's a punitiveness to it. There's a pain. There's a punishment in the word discipline. That's innate. But the feminine is devoted. She does things from a place of love because she's in love with loving it. The feminine is love. The feminine is that, God, I just want to call. call my best friend because I fucking love her, right? Not because I feel like I should. The more shoulds you have, the less that you will be in your feminine energy. The feminine is about community and collaboration and coming together. I think of like the hunter and the gatherer, right? The hunter is out there. He's not really chit-chatting, right? Because that'll drive off the prey. He's focused on that prey. He's launching his very focused arrow to get that prey to bring it home. It's very goal-oriented. Versus the feminine, they're in community, right? They might be all out there.

gathering berries. And what actually is very interesting is women talk a lot more than men. We say on average significantly more words a day than men. And what's interesting is that when we were hunter and when we were gatherers, we talked in order to keep prey and or to keep ourselves from being prey to ward off the wildlife. So we would talk. So females are much more into that connection and that collaboration. And the feminine, while the masculine was out hunting, they would be in community. They would be in connection, right, taking care of the children altogether. It's very different. We are designed for community. We are designed for connection. Competitiveness is actually a masculine quality. So there's this story that Tony Robbins tells. He used to have the women go on stage and this was like, I haven't ever seen him do this. This is years ago. He would

have women go on stage and basically dance. And he said that there would be some women who would come to the front and they would be like giving it. Like they would be dancing their hearts out like in kind of a look at me sort. of way. And then there'd be women in the back who are just dancing with the other women and they're connecting and they're having a really good time. And the men, they would ask the men, like, who did you find the most alluring? And it would never be the women in the front that were being all competitive and like, look at me, look at me, proving energy. It'd be the women in the back who were connecting and having a good time. Because that's true feminine essence. The competitiveness, the proving, the look at me, like, look at what I've accomplished. That is masculine energy.

and it's not going to be polarizing and attractive for a masculine man. So a lot of successful women, they have challenges meeting men not because of their careers. It's not that men are intimidated by their careers, but it's oftentimes because they're so used to being in this proving competitive, look at me, energy of, look at these are my accomplishments, look what I've done in order to receive love, right? Because that's oftentimes how we're taught to receive love in certain households, that it actually repels that. versus the feminine is receptive. She's open, right? She's connected. She's in her,

she's in the present moment. She's in her emotions. She's intuitive. And so when we disconnect from our feminine energy and try to operate as a masculine being, it actually limits our creative power, our magnetism, and it causes us to not feel good enough, right? It creates actually a lot of shame for women because we overvalue qualities that are not what we are innately good at. The feminine brain has a lot more estrogen. And estrogen is not the same as testosterone, as I'm sure you know. Testosterone is actually a really amazing hormone for focus, right? This is why men can focus for hours and hours and you can say something to them and they truly will not hear you because they have more testosterone. Estrogen is better at like multitasking and flowing and doing different things and creating, right?

And having the pot of water on the stove and having the kids over here playing and typing up. something on her computer, that is diffuse awareness that the feminine is better at. And so when we overvalue these masculine qualities that are not innate to us, it creates this sense of like, dang, why am I not better at that? Why am I not as good at that? And so we try to develop them. But then what happens is we end up harming our relationships. Because so it's almost this lose, lose situation when we lean into that energy. And the more that we lean into that feminine energy, the more that we are actually able to feel really, really good about ourselves and create the kinds of relationships that we want. It's effortlessly magnetic. And so what happens is when we overvalue

these masculine forces, we actually make it harder for ourselves as feminine energy beings to manifest the things that we desire. And as we begin to operate for more of a feminine flow versus a masculine and push, we see that the world begins to open up and we are able to draw things to us much, much, much more easily and much more joyfully. But the truth is that it actually takes a lot of faith in order to be able to create this transition because it goes against everything we've been taught. It goes against everything we've been taught about what success is and how to create success in this modern society. And this, the feminine is actually about creating success, love, relationship, joy, everything that we want in life fulfillment from a place of joy. It's about the

process and the energy around it and infusing that with a powerful, powerful energy. I have so many chills in my body right now. This is a very important point. Versus the masculine is more about the discipline, the force, the consistency, making it happen, right? The pushing energy. Versus the feminine, it's about enjoying the process. And truthfully, these concepts I'm sharing with you, like as I said, we're scratching the surface. This could be a six-month course. And I actually am going to be releasing something fairly soon to go deeper into all of this. So stay tuned for that. And so I think this is going to have to be two parts because I still have so many more notes I want to share with you guys. But I want to give you a little bit more and

then we'll wrap it up in a couple minutes. But the first thing I just want you to recognize is that the feminine is not the chaser. She is the receiver. Okay. This. This is in relationship as well as in manifesting anything that you want in life. When we get too much into that forcing, chasing energy, it doesn't feel good. I know you know that. In your body, it does not feel good. And that's because we are designed to receive. Does that mean that we don't show up and we just sit on our couch all day?

No, it means that we show up in a way that feels really good for us. We find ways to create our life and align our life with what feels really, really, really good. And that means if something isn't working and it doesn't feel good, then you change it. Because the feminine connects to her divinity through her divine, to her divinity. Yeah, through pleasure, through feeling really good in the process. She's not about that forceful pushing. She's about magnetizing and drawing in. And so how does she do that?

It's through her energy. Have you ever seen a woman walk into a room and everyone just can't help but stare at? her. This happens at Tony Robbins events when his wife Sage walks into the room. There could be something really intense going on and she doesn't even say anything and all the attention is drawn to her. Because there's this magnetism that she has effortlessly from being such an embodied feminine human being. And every feminine being possesses this ability. The thing is, it's not about looks. I find it really interesting because there's been this huge push in plastic surgery, right? and fillers and Botox. And like, I do not judge that. I love all of that. Like, yes, give it to me, right?

I love it all. But what I find is that oftentimes women are doing it because they are not feeling good about themselves innately. There's a difference in getting Botox or filler or whatever it might be from a place of loving yourself. And then there's a difference of I don't feel good enough. So I'm going to do this to compensate. And really, it's because we have overprioritized looks and we've underprioritized energetics. And it's actually about the energetics. You can have a ravishingly beautiful woman. And if her energetics are off, she's not going to, she's not going to get it. Right. You could have a very average looking woman. And if her energetics are on point, she's going to draw every single person to her. And I know you've experienced this, right? We've seen really amazing men with less attractive women.

And we're like, what the heck is going on here? Well, it's because that woman freaking mastered the real art of energetics. So the first piece of this is really it's about the energy, the foundational energy of wholeness. So recognizing that a mature feminine energy operates from a place of wholeness and fullness rather than a place of, I don't feel good enough and I need you to fix that. I need you to fix me. She's not trying to get something to feel enough. She recognizes that she is innately whole and worthy on her own. And a big part of this is reconnecting to your feminine energy because when we operate from the masculine, we're never going to feel enough, right? We're going to feel our best when we operate from this place of wholeness, like a little baby. And I'm not going to

dive more into this right now because I have two episodes, episode one and episode two. I talk all about operating from a place of wholeness. Those are two of my favorite episodes I've ever recorded. So after this, go listen to those. Also, leave me some comments. I would love to hear from you. And I would love to hear what your takeaways are. And also what other questions you might have, because I'm going to do more episodes in this vein. Because I think it's honestly so important. And I feel like my brain has been like downloading insane amounts of information about this lately. So, you know, I might leave it there. And what I want to get into next time is I want to talk about feminine power and what that means. I want to talk about the difference between desire and need

and really owning your desires and tuning into your desires. And I want to give you some more of these principles around feminine energy and how to really utilize it within your life and how to cultivate it. So I'm going to give you some very specific tools. So go listen to episodes one and two. Leave me some comments and then come back next week. Wednesday, I will drop another episode on this. I can't believe we already are at 28 minutes. I try to just do 20 minutes, but, you know, we flow in here. So anyway, I adore you. I am so happier here. And I hope you have the most fabulous, amazing, wonderful, delicious day ever. Okay, bye-bye now.