Alignment With Jenn - (#2) Magnetism, Intuition & Receiving: The Feminine Secrets That Change Everything

Starting point is 00:00:00 Hello and good morning, beautiful. I'm so excited to share episode two with you. I have been thinking about it for the last hour or so and kind of planning out what I want to share with you. And what we're going to talk about today is the core gifts of feminine energy because I really believe that feminine energy is undervalued in society. And the more that we value it, the more that we tap into it, the more that we access these gifts that are innate, you naturally possess. these gifts, these superpowers. The more that you connect to them, the more effortlessly and easily you will create the life that you want. It is directly connected with your ability to manifest the things that you want, because as a feminine energy being, the more you are in alignment with your true nature, the more everything lines up, your energy is able to be more directed and more powerfully utilized. So connecting to these gifts is going to amplify every single thing that you want in this life. So let's get into it. So there's 10 gifts I'm going to share with you today. So the first gift of the feminine is receptivity and openness. And the way I think of this is like a woman with

Starting point is 00:01:13 her arms open and her child running into her arms or her lover running into her arms or her best friend. But this openness, this receptivity. And an example of this that always strikes me is say you're out to dinner or you're at a club or something on a Friday night. And you're all glammed up. You're looking super cute. And you go into the bathroom and there's another girl in there and she's fixing her makeup and something. And she, nine times out of ten, she'll turn to you and she'll be like, oh my gosh, girl, you look beautiful. Or I love your dress or I love your necklace or you might do that to her, right? There's such an openness and such a receptivity among women. And that openness, that receptivity flows and it creates connection. And women are natural connectors. And a lot of

Starting point is 00:01:55 part of that is because of this gift of openness and receptivity. We are receptive to what is going on around us. We are receptive to connection and to being in flow with other people. And what can happen, though, is when we have been hurt, when we've experienced trauma, when we fear or we have self-doubt, or we lack confidence in our connection to our wholeness, we can close, right? And literally that closing, that closing of your energy, that lack of receptivity, that lack of openness is instantly felt by everyone around you, by your partner. You know when you close and you're like, well, he hasn't asked me why I'm mad or whatever. He feels it. I guarantee he feels it even on an unconscious level. Right. We all feel it when, or your best friend, you're at lunch with your best friend and

Starting point is 00:02:42 she suddenly closes. You know, you're like, oh, what's going through her head? You feel it immediately. Because we are naturally open and receptive. And it is our job to work through our own stuff, to do the work. so that way we can really remain open and receptive to life. Because the ability to be receptive to receive, love, support, opportunities, and abundance effortlessly is because of this openness. And true feminine power comes from magnetism, from being receptive and receiving versus through force. Force is a more masculine energy.

Starting point is 00:03:19 The feminine, think of a feminine queen on her throne. and she's sitting there. She looks magnificent. And she's not forcing anything. She's receiving, right? People are bringing jewels and food to her feet. She's just receiving, right? So receptivity, the ability to be receptive and open. And the more that you are receptive and open, the more that you create that energy in your environment and in the people around you. You say hello to the cashier, you compliment the waitress, right? All of these little ways that we effortlessly, as women, and create connection are our ability to be receptive and open. And the more that you cultivate this, the more that you will attract in the things that you want, right? A lot of times we struggle in

Starting point is 00:04:04 dating or we struggle in creating friendships because we close, because we're not receptive and open to other people. So the more that we can remain in this state, and it's not easy, right? I'm not saying it's this super easy thing to do. But the more that we can remain in that state, the more that we will receive. Receptivity and openness is a pathway and a portal to receiving, receiving the things that you want. So our next gift is emotional intelligence and depth. So feminine energy is naturally deep. It is naturally emotionally aware and sensitive to others and to the self as well. We're very in touch typically, unless you know we've had issues, right? Trauma, challenges, things like that that have caused us to kind of close off from our emotions.

Starting point is 00:04:51 our natural essence is this depth of emotion. And that's beautiful because we feel experiences, right? Brayne Brown talks about how you can't feel joy and the positive emotions if you're not willing to feel vulnerability and the more uncomfortable emotions. So the feminine is typically comfortable with her emotions. She's comfortable connecting to them because she views them as guidance. They give her information about how she's feeling about her environment, about what is beneficial to her, right? I know that emotions can sometimes be shamed, right? Oh, hide your emotions. Don't show weakness. Don't be so emotional, right? But women are too emotional to lead or whatever it might be. But emotions are beautiful. And without emotions, our world would be so boring and so flat. So connecting

Starting point is 00:05:38 and allowing yourself to feel your emotions is power. It truly is power. It's fuel. Our emotions are fuel for the things that we want. If I'm not feeling inspired and passionate, I'm probably not going to go after the things that I want. You want to connect to your emotions. You want to allow the negative emotions to flow through you, right? We are waves in the ocean. So the third gift is intuition and inner knowing. Oh my gosh, I will do a full episode on this because the heightened ability to trust your inner voice, to trust synchronicities that you see, to trust the unseen forces and the unseen energies is your intuition rather than leaning into logic, right? leaning into a pro and con list, leaning into, well, you know, the data shows this, right? The data can show a lot and

Starting point is 00:06:26 still be wrong and your intuition can be right. And intuition is really, it grows the more that you trust it. The more that you lean into it, if you feel like you don't have good intuition, it's because you just don't trust it. Your intuition is always on. It is always speaking to you, but it is your ability to listen to it, is your ability to say, you know what, I don't know why, but I want to go on this trip to Tulum. I don't know why. There's not a logical reason. I actually have a lot going on at home, but I know I need to be there. Right. I know I need to be there. So you book the trip and then you end up meeting the love of your life, right? That is intuition. Intuition is allowing yourself to trust, allowing yourself to be guided by a force greater than yourself that you don't logically understand.

Starting point is 00:07:10 Because logic is a very small part of our brain actually. You are intuition and our subconscious processing is actually able to process significantly more information, vastly more information than our conscious mind, our more logical mind. So in the book Deep Work, the author talks about how it's actually better to make more complex decisions based off of your subconscious processing, which is where our intuition comes from, then on more logic and reason, because your logical mind, your conscious mind, is not able to process vast amounts of information like that. Not to mention, And your intuition is connected to your creator. It's connected to your source energy. So the more that you connect to that intuition, the more that you are going to be able to collapse time. Quantum leaps do not

Starting point is 00:08:00 come from logic. They come from intuition. They come from that deep trust of yourself. And that really is why people struggle with intuition is because they struggle trusting themselves. So feminine wisdom can often bypass the mind and connect directly to higher intelligence. So you might meet someone and be like, you know what, I don't know why, but that person doesn't make, I feel uncomfortable, right? Or have an intuition. We hear this all the time of moms being like, I don't know why, but I need to go pick up my child from school. Or I don't know why, but I know something is wrong. Right. We just because we can't see it, we are connected to this infinite field and we can receive insights and downloads from that. And your ability to trust your intuition is directly related to your ability to

Starting point is 00:08:41 manifest things into your life quickly. So yeah, if you're struggling to trust your intuition, need to get inside of my group program, the manifestation accelerator, because literally the whole program is designed to help you connect and trust your intuition, because that's how you illogically quantum leap. That's how you collapse time and you compress decades into days. So magnetism and attraction, that is number four. Instead of chasing, the feminine is drawing in what she desires through being in alignment with her energy, through her presence, through her embodiment. And this hustle culture has moved us so far away from our magnetism and our attraction because it's put us in this energy of do, do, do, right, create to ignore your self-care,

Starting point is 00:09:28 burn yourself out, right? Do all these things. When in order to be your most magnetic, to be your most attractive, you actually have to be taking care of yourself. You actually have to be connecting to your own inner energy, your own inner presence and embodying that. So it requires rest. It requires not overdoing it, not stuffing your calendar until it pops, right? It requires you to allow yourself to trust. Trust is a big theme in feminine energy, especially in society today, because we're not taught. We're not taught these things. We're not brought up most people. Some people, very lucky people are, but most people are not brought up to trust their intuition, to trust their ability to attract things to them. Think about it. Oftentimes, people that are attracted to you, whether it's men or

Starting point is 00:10:15 women that you're interested in, usually they're kind of just attracted to you, right? Usually it just kind of happens. It's not typically something that we want to be chasing down. We want to attract it in. So magnetism and attraction is a feminine gift. And you think of like the magazine ads where the woman's kind of just like leaning back, right? Then there is flow and surrender. So you notice all of these feminine gifts. They all require trust. They all require you to get out of your logical mind to get out of your head and into your body and into your heart. Flow and trust. So the feminine is naturally in tune with cycles, right? We literally have a monthly cycle. If you look at a graphic of the female hormonal cycle, it's like mountains and valleys. And you look at the male hormonal cycle and it's like these tiny, tiny little

Starting point is 00:11:05 holes and it's symmetrical the whole way across. It's literally their hormonal cycles the same all month long. Ours is like, and I want to do a whole episode on that because there's gifts in every aspect of our cycle. We are literally magical magician miracle beings. And when we align with our cycle, we amplify our magical magicianness. Right. So staying in tune with cycles, with flow, with seasons with rhythm, trusting, you know what? I feel like I need to rest because what that means is you're creating. I want you to start associating rest with actually creation with I'm receiving an idea. I'm receiving an insight. I'm receiving how to get from A to B way faster.

Starting point is 00:11:43 So the feminine surrenders to the flow of the cycles and the rhythm and the seasons, right? She recognizes that she's not going to be the same woman every single day of the month. She's not a man. She's not going to be the same woman every season either. And recognizing that and recognizing that there's gifts and there's beauty in that dynamic nature of her flow, of her surrender, of her ability to say, you know what, I am on my period and I don't feel great. So I'm going to allow myself to flow and rest. I'm going to give myself a little extra time. I'm going to, because I know that I'm being provided for it, I know that what I need is going to come through for me. So number six, creativity and expression. The feminine literally gives physical birth.

Starting point is 00:12:27 a vessel for creating. You are a creator. Literally, you're, you create human beings. You have that capacity. And you also are a creator of ideas, of art, of experiences for other people. Have you noticed that when a beautiful magnetic woman walks into a room? Probably you. People notice because she's creating. She's creating in that environment. For visions, for the feminine is a vision caster. She's creative. She cast those visions, she receives those insights, those intuitions from the unseen and brings them into form. It's the energy of inspiration, of storytelling, of innovation. That is the gift that you innately have. You have that gift to really be creative and expressive, right? To be an artist with your life, to craft your life. No matter what you do, you can be an artist accountant.

Starting point is 00:13:17 You can be an artist housekeeper, right? There can be art in every profession. There can be art in every day. You can be an artist at making your coffee in the morning. You can be an artist at how you move in yoga class, right? It's allowing yourself to feel the full expression of your emotions, to connect into your body, right? And we'll get into that one. So number seven, soft power and influence. So I will also do a whole episode on this. The feminine does not lead through force, right? The feminine, that is the masculine. And we can tap into the masculine. Hell, yeah. Yeah, we can tap into the masculine, right? We have that capacity. We're dynamic beings. And the masculine can tap into all of these gifts. There are some very intuitive masculine men, right? Not really as common

Starting point is 00:14:05 as intuitive women, but it's, we all, we all share, right? There's no one has a monopoly on these spiritual energetic gifts. So soft powered influence. So the feminine leads through energetic influence, through presence, through embodiment, rather than force and dominance. Have you noticed, oh gosh, when I was younger, my mom, if she was mad, I could feel it, right? You could feel that change in her energy. You just knew it, right? Because the feminine's energy is incredibly powerful and it influences the space that she's in. So you having that grounded presence creates that ripple effect in your environment. You leading through soft power, right? That ability to influence, through your energy, through, you can say nothing. You can have zero words. You can be completely still,

Starting point is 00:14:55 and you can speak volumes through your energy and your presence. That is, it's soft power. It's velvety power, but it's power. Then nurturing and healing. Women are natural healers. We have this ability to create spaces, to hold spaces, to nourish, to heal, whether that's in relationship, business, or even self-transformation. We have, going back to our intuition, we can tap in and connect and read the room and assess, right? Not only are we connected to our own emotions, but we understand others' emotions. That's a massive gift, a massive gift, right? That emotional depth. All of these play together. They're like a beautiful tapestry of the feminine. So creating that nourishment for others, that nurturing, that healing, that is powerful, powerful, powerful, powerful,

Starting point is 00:15:43 powerful because your ability, you can nurture people, you can nurture your children, you can nurture your partner, and you allow them to expand into their greatest expression. But you can also nurture an idea and help that idea grow into its greatest expression. You can nurture yourself, right? Nurturing is what you do with a beautiful plant that's in the ground. You nurture it to help it grow. And healing is kind of the flip side of that when something bad has happened or some difficulty has happened, right? We heal from that. So the feminine's ability to help others heal is unmatched. And number nine, sensuality and presence. And this really goes into our connection with our body, of trusting our body, not only our

Starting point is 00:16:25 emotions, but feeling the pleasure that it comes from touching our body. If you have not read the book Pussy, the Reclamation, I highly recommend it. Because it goes so in depth into really connecting to your body, learning to love and honor and appreciate your body because a lot of women are disconnected from your body, especially if you've had sexual trauma, right? We learn this unconscious thing can happen where we decide that our body is not safe, right? For me, for many years, I felt my body was not safe. It felt like it was not safe to be sexy. It's something I still am working on to this day. But when you connect into your body and you learn to honor your body, you give yourself self massage, you touch your body, you feel your body, the sensual

Starting point is 00:17:08 essence of your body. That's powerful. That is an energetic power. Alice in Armstrong, I can't remember what book this was from, but she talked about how a woman can change the entire dynamic of a space by simply walking down. Let's say you're in the airport and you're walking through the airport on a line of men. You start to just pay attention to the feeling of your thighs rubbing together. Like that subtle feeling of just the movement of your skin, right? The fabric of your skin, whatever it might be, just tuning into your body like. that, that's incredibly magnetic. Because the masculine typically is not as connected to the body, is not as connected to emotions. And so it's highly magnetic. It alivens the masculine. It is a

Starting point is 00:17:51 nutrient for the masculine, this connection to the body, this connection to our feminine presence and essence. So the feminine is deeply embodied, meaning she's deeply in her body. She's deeply connected to her body. She deeply trusts the wisdom of her body. She's connected to pleasure, to beauty, to full sensory experiences in the present moment, right? She doesn't shame her body. She doesn't look in the mirror and be like, ugh, I need to lose five pounds. She looks in the body and she's like, that's incredible. I can grow things, human beings out of this body, right? I appreciate and I love this body for all that it is in this moment and all that it's going to be in the next moment. So she feels into her body. She sits in her body rather than in her head. So number two,

Starting point is 00:18:36 10, mysticism and spiritual depth. Ooh, so yummy. The feminine taps into the unseen realms, ancient wisdom, and deep spiritual truths effortlessly. You have this innate gift. And before I go into this further, I want you to also recognize that all of these gifts you're going to have to different depths. And so if you feel like, I don't really connect to that, practice it. Practice cultivating it. Right. Practice connecting to it. And maybe I'll do a whole episode on how to cultivate each of these. God, we have so much to talk about. All right. So the feminine taps into the unseen realms. She is spiritually connected. She understands spiritual truths innately. And Kabbalah talks about how the feminine is actually more spiritually evolved than the masculine. Not always, right?

Starting point is 00:19:25 Not every woman is more evolved than every man. But in general, the feminine essence is more spiritually evolved. That means that we have access to more spiritual wisdom innately. the masculine has to do more to earn it. So that's why you see more women gravitating toward the spiritual space, right? Because to her it innately makes sense. And that is a powerful gift. And all of these gifts are gifts for yourself. They're gifts to help you cultivate your purpose. But they're gifts to give to your children. They're gifts to give to other people, to gifts to give to your partner. They're gifts to to utilize to grow your business, right? Intuition in business is a game changer. Even Steve Jobs said, I don't remember the exact quote. He said that he trusted his intuition more than is logical.

Starting point is 00:20:04 mind. That's how he made more decisions, right? These gifts are not to be undervalued because they are transformative. They will change your life, the more that you lean into them. And so I encourage you this week to just play, play with these gifts, play into them, right? How can you express your flow and your surrender more? How can you surrender more to the present moment? What can you do to trust your intuition a little bit more? What can you do to experience the depths of your emotions? How can you connect to your sensuality. Maybe it's a nice, warm bath with a candle lit, with bubbles. Maybe it's dry brushing. Maybe it's getting a massage and getting out of your head during the massage and away from your to-do list and into the touch on your body. Maybe it's making love to your partner. Connecting to these

Starting point is 00:20:51 gifts will create shifts in your life in ways that you cannot imagine. They are unseen forces that are activated by these gifts. They create a logical success, a logical wealth of illogical results, illogically beautiful relationships. So I hope that you have loved this. I have loved sharing it with you. And stay tuned for my next episode that will be dropping and reach out to me on Instagram at alignment with Jen. I'd love to hear your aha moments from this. I'd love to hear your takeaways. And if you would love to work with me further, I would love to work with you further. I'd love to have you inside my group program, the manifestation accelerator, where we dive deep into manifestation, we do so much powerful healing and rewiring work to connect you to these true gifts. Because

Starting point is 00:21:38 these gifts are innate. These gifts you have naturally, you don't have to do anything to cultivate them. You have to clear out what's in the way. So I adore you and I cannot wait to chat with you in our next episode. Bye for now.

Alignment With Jenn - (#2) Magnetism, Intuition & Receiving: The Feminine Secrets That Change Everything

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