Alignment With Jenn - (#21) Stop Making This #1 Manifestation Mistake

Episode Date: October 15, 2025

In this potent episode of Receive, Jenn Ditzhazy strips back the glossy misconceptions around manifestation and dives deep into the soul of what it truly takes to receive what you desire. She’s not here to rehash The Secret. She’s here to tell you the truth: Manifestation isn’t just about wanting—it’s about becoming. Jenn unpacks the real energetic blueprint behind manifestation—why your desires already exist, and what it actually takes to hold them. From the role of vibrational frequency to the sacred concept of the “vessel,” she guides you through the inner evolution that must happen before the external results show up. This episode is for the visionary woman who knows she’s here to do big things—and is ready to become the version of herself who can hold it all. And if that’s you? Keep listening, because Jenn’s 22-Day Challenge might just be your next quantum leap. 🎯 Key Takeaways: Manifestation has moved from fringe to mainstream—but most still don’t understand it. The law of attraction is only one piece of the puzzle. You manifest who you are, not what you want. Frequency leads, reality follows. The vessel must expand before the vision arrives. Resistance is a sign you're on the edge of receiving. There’s no timeline—just alignment. Your highest desires are already in the quantum field waiting. The Visionary Challenge is designed to help you become the woman who can hold it all. 🔥 Sound Bites: "Challenges are miracles in disguise." "You don’t attract what you want. You attract who you are." "Your job is not to force the timeline. Your job is to keep showing up." "It’s not about getting. It’s about becoming." "Everything you want already exists. Can you hold it?" 🧭 Chapter Breakdown: 00:00 – Busting the biggest myths around manifestation 02:41 – Why the Law of Attraction is incomplete 05:47 – The vessel & the light: The spiritual physics of receiving 08:26 – Growth, resistance, and why the journey matters 11:04 – Time is not your job—alignment is 14:07 – Introducing: The Visionary Challenge

Hello, hello, welcome to this episode of Receive. I am your host, Jen Ditsasey, and I am a premier transformation coach for women. And I help women use the universal laws, manifestation, quantum physics, personal development principles to create the lives that they desire and to get out of their own ways. And today, what I want to talk about is some misperceptions around manifestation that I have heard over and over and over again, through the many women that I have coached, through talk to people about manifestation. And the reason I wanted to bring this up is because I was at a Tony Robin's event this past week. I was at UPW in Anaheim. And there was a speaker on stage. His name was Trent Shelton. And he said, do you guys believe in manifestation? And like the whole crowd was like,

yes, they went wild. Right. And there was 10,000, maybe 11,000 people in the audience who went wild for this idea around manifestation. And I loved that because it was not so long ago that manifestation was really kind of this niche thing. It was kind of weird, right? It was like, that's weird. That's woo-woo, yada, yada. And now what's really cool is it's really stepped into the mainstream. It is something that's talked about a lot, right? You can go into different stores and you see manifestation merchandise, things like that. It's a really big deal now. And that is largely because of the book, The Secret or the movie, whichever one you saw. But we've all heard of it, right? And when it came out, it created this massive ripple effect where people started to see things differently.

It really elevated the consciousness, I believe, of the general society where they started to open up their mind and see, you know what, things can be a little bit different than I've been perceiving them as, right? It opened this door so a little stream of light could start to come in and people could start to see things differently. And that is remarkable and amazing and so necessary. The flip side of that is that a lot of people think that the law of attraction, which is primarily what the secret focuses on, is it, right? They think that's how manifestation works, is if I focus on what I want and I keep reiterating what I want, I will get it. And unfortunately, that's only part of the equation. There are dozens of universal laws,

just like the law of attraction, that influence and guide how we live our reality. And so it's really, really beneficial and helpful for us to understand how we might be perceiving manifestation incorrectly so that way we can start to utilize it correctly in our lives. So one, I want to start off with a couple of different pieces. So the first one is the law of attraction basically states that like attracts like. And this is true in certain ways. But just like any other laws, right, if you think about math, right, there's laws and there's rules to math. And there's a hierarchy of those laws and rules. Right. And so when you're doing a math equation, you're going to start with a certain part of the equation in order to solve it.

And you'll follow those rules in a hierarchical order. That's the same with the universal laws is they're not all going to influence reality in the same way and in a A equals B kind of way. They're more nuanced than that. And so that's been one of the biggest issues that I've seen is that people think like all manifestation is like, I just focus on what I want and then I get it. Right. And that leaves out a massive part of the equation. And that is so detrimental for many people because it leads to frustration, right? It leads to feeling like I don't deserve it. It leads to feeling like, man, I must not be good enough or I can't do this. When in reality, every single person is always manifesting something, whether or not they realize it. Because all manifestation is is your vibrational frequency

influences and informs reality around you. And it is going to unfold and a specific way based on your vibrational frequency. And we can even ground that down a little bit more into practicality of your thoughts, your feelings, your emotions are going to influence the reality that you experience. Right. And the simplest example of this is if I'm in a super good mood and I go to the gym and I'm saying hi-to-everyone and, you know, I'm high-fiving people. I'm smiling at people, right? I'm just, I'm in my vibe. It's going to be a completely different experience. I'm probably going to attract different people, different opportunities to myself. Then if I go to the gym and I'm on my phone, I'm looking down, I've got this kind of scowl on my face, right? That's the simplest way.

But the thing about manifestation is all of those different frequencies compound. Happy Gen versus pissed off gen are going to create very different realities. And that's kind of a very simple way to think about it. And so the moving from thinking that like attracts like to realizing that you don't attract what you want, you attract who it is that you are on many different levels, right? We have an emotional, spiritual, physical, like mental. All of these different levels of who we are are are going to attract things to us. And then if you look at the larger scope, which I'm not going to get into this today, we could honestly have a entire course dedicated to just this topic. But you look at the larger scheme of things of you are a soul that has incarnated on earth to learn certain lessons. And so,

part of those lessons are going to be overcoming certain challenges, overcoming certain parts of yourself in order to manifest the things that you want. Your desires, I think of manifestation is basically like a game of monopoly, where you're moving along that path and there's going to be different obstacles in the way because you need to learn and gain the lessons from those obstacles in order to become the version of yourself that you need to be in order to manifest the thing that you want. And I believe that Kabbalah explains this, the absolute best that I've ever heard it. And so I'm going to share that with you because it's so valuable and it's so beneficial. So the way that Kabbalah explains it is basically this idea of the light and the vessel and that each soul is a vessel.

You can think of a vessel as like a cup. That's kind of how I see it in my own mind. It's a cup that can expand or contract in size based on the consciousness, the evolution of that soul. Right. Higher souls like Gandhi, Mother Teresa, those sorts of elevated beings have a much larger vessel than somebody who is in lack, fear, low consciousness states often. Okay. And so your vessel is basically what allows you to hold the things that you desire and call in the things that you desire. I almost even think of it as like a little vacuum that when I am at the level to receive my next manifest. station, whether that's a new level in business, whether that's a relationship, whether that's a car, a house, I don't know, whatever it is that you want, it'll almost like get pulled into that vessel because you've reached that level of consciousness. It's inevitable that you will receive it when your vessel is able to hold it. But what happens is that there can be a short circuit.

Okay. So you can think of a short circuit as like, if you have a 60 watt light bulb and you put it into a lamp that is designed to pump, pump through 150 watts, that light bulb is going to go and it's going to break, basically, because it's having too much light pumped through that vessel. It's not able to hold it. And that is what happens when people receive too much too quickly, and they're not ready for it. And so that's why you really want to grow and expand your vessel, because it's not just about receiving it, it's about being able to hold it in a healthy, sustainable, long, longitudinal way. And so outside of the vessel is the light. The light is basically the universal intelligence, God, the creator, the universe, whatever you want to call it that resonates with you,

give it that name. The light is essentially everything you could possibly want, right? It's fulfillment, prosperity, wealth, love, all of these things that we desire. in life. All the good juicy bits, right, the gifts. All of those already exist outside of the vessel as light. Okay. And this is the same as they already exist in the quantum field in the way that Dr. Joe or someone else that talks more about the quantum might explain it. They already exist. Right. Because there is no time. There's just this moment now. So everything already exists. And so when you recognize that, you recognize that, oh my gosh, everything that I desire is already available to me. It's literally already here. And eventually, your soul will have every single thing you could want. It's inevitable

that you will receive it all. It might not be in this lifetime, but you will receive it all. And so what happens is as we do our spiritual work, that could be meditation. It could be service. It could be overcoming our triggers and our fears and stop reacting like an asshole to people, right? all of these different things that allow us to grow and expand our vessel, that is going to allow us to call in and hold more light. That's going to allow us to hold more wealth, more fulfillment, more prosperity, more love. Okay. So thinking of manifestation in this way is so much more beneficial and so much easier because A, everything you want is already available to you. B, it's inevitable that you will receive it. It's guaranteed that you will receive it. Check that off. You don't have to worry about,

am I worthy of receiving it? Am I not worthy of receiving it? All it is is that you need to play the video game or the board game in order to receive it. You will receive challenges and opportunities for yourself to grow that vessel to receive it. Okay, you'll receive everything that you could possibly need in order to become that version of you. And as you begin to go along this journey, you will begin to see that challenges and opportunities are actually miracles in disguise. So I'll give you an example of this. This morning, I woke up and I had set my alarm for 5 o'clock and I'm still in bed around 5.30 and I'm feeling super duper tired.

And I was thinking, you know, I could just lay in bed for a while longer, right? My first call is not till 9. Like, I've got time. And then I had this thought of, oh my gosh, you know what? There's something amazing and miraculous that's going to happen for me today because there's this resistance that I feel. Anytime I feel resistance, I know that there's more light that is trying to enter my vessel. I know that there's more goodness, more gifts, more deliciousness that's trying to come to me. And that's why I feel this resistance because the universe, the creator, is trying to make sure,

is she ready to receive this next level? Right. And as I do that, I get to move my little board game piece along the board game and to that next tile to that next tile because I'm showing up as that elevated version of myself. So what did I do? I got up. I moved my little body. I turned on some music and I felt great. Right. I overcame that resistance. And you can kind of think about it as like working out. Right. When you go to work out, there's going to be challenged. There's going to be resistance. But afterward, you're better off for it. Right. Then the next day or the next week, you can lift more weight. You have more capacity. That's what you're doing. is because if you were to receive every single thing that you wanted today, if you're not ready for it,

you're not going to be able to hold it, right? It might be, you could manifest your dream partner, but if you have not healed your fear of rejection, if you have not healed your people pleasing, you could easily mess up that relationship, right? And so we need to elevate ourselves. We need to elevate our consciousness in order to be able to hold these things. So it's not just the manifestation of it, it's the holding of it, because that's what we really want, right? Nobody wants to manifest a ton of wealth and then lose it all. That just wouldn't feel that great, right? It's better to have the vessel for it. So rather than thinking of things as like attracts like or that simplified version of it, you're going through a process to become the most elevated version of yourself,

like a hero's journey in order to create the life that you truly, truly, truly, truly desire. That is far beyond what you could imagine. This is another part to this is that what you are dreaming of right now as your ultimate, ultimate dream life is a tiny, tiny, tiny, tiny fraction of what's actually available to you. There's so much more available to you that you can't see yet because your consciousness is not in that place to be able to perceive it yet. You know, it's kind of like when you're going on a hike and you're hiking and hiking and hiking, you can't see the summit, you can't see the summit, you can't see the summit, right? You have to do that work in order to be able to see that summit. And then the last piece I want to add to this is stop thinking of manifestation in terms of time. So we often, because we live in a reality where time exists,

right, where we perceive time. Let's say it that way. So we oftentimes will attach timelines to things unconsciously. We'll say, okay, you know what? If I start working in my business now, maybe in six months, I can be here. And then in a year, I can be here. And then three years I could be here. When in reality, that's not your job. Your job isn't to figure out the time. Your job is to keep showing up, keep showing up, and you'll be able to collapse time. Because all it is, is it can be a very, very simple shift in consciousness that allows you to receive the things that you want.

It can literally be a simple idea, just an insight that you have that can shift everything for you. So the other misperception I want you to move away from is attaching time to things, right? And it's a duality because we live in a reality where, yes, right, we wake about a certain time. We do things for a certain amount of time. And also recognizing that things can leap and move so much faster than we ever realize. Because all we can see right now is from our current vantage point, our current level of understanding our current level of consciousness.

But I know you've had moments where something happens and you perceive things completely differently. And that is what allows you to shift and change rapidly. is those moments of insight. So recognizing and allowing in those moments of insight anytime. So I hope you have loved this. I hope you have enjoyed it. It has been so fun to get to share this with you. I am going to be launching something very, very exciting next Monday, October 20th. I'm going to be launching a 22-day challenge called The Visionary. I'm going to go much deeper into this concept of how to expand your vessel, how to become that version of you, who receives insights, who receives opportunities easily and effortlessly, right? I have a one-on-one client I'm

working with right now, and we just had our call right before this, and she shared with me like five opportunities that she manifested in the last week. How did she do that? She shifted her consciousness. She became a match for those things. And that is available to all of us. That's available to you right now. And so what I'll be going over in that challenge? This challenge is not for everyone. It's really for the woman who has a vision on her heart to create and gift something into the world. So that could be a business. That could be a book. That could be that next level in your business. That could be a podcast. But somebody who has a calling to do something creative to expand that and build that. And what we're going to do in this challenge is overcome the blocks and the fears and build the

vessel to hold that vision. So that could be overcoming the fear of being seen of posting your authentic truth on social media, of putting your ideas out there, right? Getting out of that preparatory mode and actually getting into the creation and the doing of it, the living of it, right? It could be calling in those opportunities that you need in order to bring your vision to life. So it is going to be phenomenal. I'm going to give you so many methods and frameworks and tools to help you as you bring this vision to life. Over the course of the 22 days, you will completely transform your perception of yourself, your perception of reality. You'll learn so many spiritual truths and nuggets that will allow you to create that vision easily, effortlessly, joyfully. We're going to talk about

expanding your creativity. So you never run out of content ideas. You're never sitting there thinking, what should I write or ideas for your book. We're going to talk about tapping into limitless, creativity and give you tools for how to do that. So it's going to be phenomenal for my women who want to birth an idea into the world. So if that sounds like you, watch my stories. You can send me a message and I'll let you know when it's available. My Instagram is at alignment with Jen. And you're already probably on my email list. If not, you can message me and I'll get you on there because that's where I'm going to be launching it. I'll be launching into my Instagram stories as well. So you don't want to miss out all that. It's only going to be $22. So it's incredibly inexpensive. You are,

going to get thousands and thousands of dollars worth of value from this. So don't miss this opportunity. I don't know if I'll ever even do this again. So get in there, get yourself in there, show up for yourself. And I promise you, you will be lavishly rewarded for your time and your effort. So I adore you. I cannot wait to chat with you and have a fabulous, fabulous evening, afternoon, morning, whatever it is for you.