All About Change - Breaking Down Barriers for Disabled Actors
Episode Date: January 18, 2022RJ Mitte shot to fame at the age of 13 when he landed the role of Bryan Cranston’s son, Walt Jr., on the hit show Breaking Bad. Like his character, RJ also has cerebral palsy, which he... was diagnosed with at the age of 3. Since Breaking Bad ended in 2013, RJ has carved out a unique path for himself in Hollywood. He’s modeled for the Gap, presented at the 2016 Rio Paralympics, and most recently starred in the feature film Triumph, about a disabled high school senior who strives to be a wrestler. Listen as RJ openly discusses his own experiences as an actor with cerebral palsy, the impact Walt Jr. had on society, and fighting for more disability inclusion in Hollywood.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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R.J. Mitty skyrocketed to fame at the age of 13 when he landed the role of Bryan Cranston's son,
Walter White Jr., or Flynn, on the hit show Breaking Bad.
Like his character, R.J. also has cerebral palsy,
which he was diagnosed with at the age of three.
However, that has never deterred his drive to carve out his own unique path in Hollywood.
Since Breaking Bad ended in 2013,
RJ has starred in over 20 films and TV shows,
modeled for The Gap,
and was a presenter for the 2016 Rio Paralympic Games.
In his most recent film, Triumph,
RJ plays real-life inspiration Mike Coffey,
a determined high school senior who strives to be a wrestler
despite having cerebral palsy.
Throughout his career, RJ has used his platform
to help remove the stigma associated with disabilities
and advocate for more inclusion in Hollywood.
RJ, it's a pleasure to welcome you to All Inclusive.
It's a pleasure to be here. Thank you all so much for making time for me and I'm very excited to be a part of this.
So RJ, you were in one of the most celebrated shows on television, Breaking Bad, and you played Bryan Cranston's son who has cerebral palsy.
Yes.
How did you end up landing the role of Walt Jr.?
Like any audition or role, I went in. I went in for it. At the time, I was living in Los Angeles.
I was working as an extra on shows like Hannah Montana and Everybody Hates Chris and Weeds and
7th Heaven as an extra. And if you move to
Los Angeles and you, you don't join a gang, you don't act and you don't go to school. Uh, you
don't really have any business there. So I was acting to kind of meet kids my own age and make
some money. And my agent and my manager called me and they're like, Hey, they're looking for someone.
We really think it fits you. And the breakdown said dark hair, big eyebrows, and mild cerebral palsy.
And I'm like, that's me.
And went in.
Apparently, they love me.
So they hired me.
And I auditioned four times in Los Angeles.
And then one day, they said, all right, well, we're going to fly you to New Mexico because
we're already there.
They already started filming the show, the pilot episode.
I was 13 turning 14.
This was like 2005.
Went down there and it came down to me and one other individual.
Went in, read for Vince and read for everyone.
Then came back 30 minutes later and did a screen test with Brian and Anna for a
scene. And about another hour later, I got the call from Vince and said, hey, RJ, you got the
role. Congratulations. We're very excited for you to be a part of it. And pretty much was like,
hey, so you need to head back to LA and come back because we're already filming. So it was really quick from being chosen for the role to jumping into the pilot. That was,
that happened really, really fast. So the show was awesome. And your character, I mean,
you were great in it. You said you were 13 years old. Yeah. You moved to LA. Did you want to be an
actor? I think I read that your sister was also
interested in acting. Yeah. So the way that I kind of got brought into the industry was my sister at
the time who was one and an agent saw her at a water park and this agent was like, oh, I cast
this and I do this. But initially my role now is casting director and I'm in the middle of a project and
I'm looking at a bunch of redhead babies at the time and doing it for a Lucille Ball campaign at
Universal and again we're at a water park in Texas and uh she's like here's my information
we they exchanged she's like I really would like to audition her and see her in la and
a few weeks later we got a call saying that they wanted to use her for the campaign and
please come to los angeles and we'll put up your room and board and we all went as a family me my
mom my uh my sister and went out there for that but that's kind of again why i started acting
because i didn't really know
anyone I didn't really have a job or or have friends and and that was kind of the way that I
I got my friends and work and and things is is just start acting and it just turned into a career
for me so I understand that Vince Gilligan who was the creator of Breaking Bad, was looking to cast an actor with
disabilities. Correct. But maybe you could talk about before you got Breaking Bad, what was your
experience walking into auditions as someone with cerebral palsy? And what were the reactions you
were getting in the industry? I was very lucky that I got a lot of my occupational therapy,
my physical therapy, and all the other
therapies along the way at a very early age. And so I really didn't have too many that I saw
physical limitations. But I didn't really, in the beginning stages, didn't tell people I had
cerebral palsy. And now the society is a little bit different. But I'd go in and they would kind
of look at me a little funny
and I would eventually though at the end of my audition be like oh by the way I have cerebral
palsy I never used my or had my disability to me being negative um it only for me added to my
characters and amplified what I was doing and I never really thought about it at the time.
And I would just go in and do my best and walk out of the room.
And I'd be like, that's what I did.
That's what I could do.
And hopefully they liked it.
And so sometimes it would be viewed as a positive.
And sometimes it would be viewed as a negative.
Again, this is 2004, 2005.
And disability was viewed very differently then. And it this is 2004, 2005, and, you know, disability was viewed very differently then,
and it still is viewed differently in some circles. But for the most part, I only got positivity out of it. Never really had too much of the negative.
So in retrospect, does it seem to you now that Vince Gilligan really,
you know, was sort of ahead of his time in wanting to authentically cast the role?
Yeah.
I mean, I think there's a lot of people,
and I think there still is a lot of people
that want to authentically cast their characters
and bring their characters into a more real setting.
I think there's a lot of still kickback on that.
Still a lot of people that are like,
no, no, no, we want to fit the check boxes we want to
fit what we're what we know works Vince had great insight when it came to disability specifically
cerebral palsy is that he grew up with someone he had a friend in college who had CP and that's
when actually he based my character off of him and he passed away and really wanted to keep his friend alive.
And that's what really, I think, inspired Walt Jr.
Well, it was an amazing role and you were the perfect person for it.
Thank you.
Let's talk a little bit about authenticity in film and TV
and why you've advocated that people with disabilities
should play roles of disabilities and we should
see more authentic representation. My belief on it is that film, television, movies, music,
all this entertainment industry is a tool. And this tool can either be used for positive
reinforcement or negative reinforcement. And when we spend the majority of our lives in front of a
screen, especially now, what we see really impacts how we treat others, how we treat ourselves and
what we do with our lives. And when you have shows that show positive, and not always when I say
positive reinforcement, not always a happy-go-l lucky guy, but just real people with with these types of lives.
It really gives people a new perspective. or afraid to ask questions or want to befriend people that they may view as abnormal or someone
that they've never really encountered when they're like, oh, I've seen it on this, so I know a little
bit. It's like it gives that bridge, right, where everyone can kind of meet in the middle with it
and talk about it and be informed. And there's people that talk today about,
oh, I saw this and I was never the same.
And that is the greatest gift of television and film
is that new way of thinking,
this new version of knowledge
that necessarily you don't have to experience firsthand,
but you get to watch the journey.
You get to learn from that journey
and evolve with those characters as they take these paths.
And not everyone gets to walk those paths.
But if you can see it and learn from it and find your path, eventually you can learn down the walk or learn to walk down it.
That's so powerful.
And I think Michelle Obama once said that we learn about people who are not like us through television.
Do you think that the character of Walt Jr. helped raise awareness to disability?
And what do you think was the impact of the role?
I always like to think it made an impact in the community.
I think, you know, Walt Jr. I feel like was the very first character that was one of those characters that wasn't disabled
he may have had a disability people may view them as disabled but if you look at well junior really
wasn't disabled he didn't really he he faced challenges but he faced them head-on and he was
put in the situations that that he had to overcome not just through his disability, but through his family dynamic.
And I really believe that having a character of Walt Jr. really helped the community over the
years when there really wasn't content like it. Breaking Bad wasn't based on disability,
wasn't based on Walt Jr.'s. It was just a kid in a family trying to get by, trying to live a life.
in a family trying to get by, trying to live a life.
You can only hope that your work has positive reinforcement in communities,
and I believe it did.
And I started while a junior in Breaking Bad to give me the opportunity to work with groups like you and many others and raise awareness
and talk about experiences and share things that
people don't always get to hear.
And for me, that's a great opportunity, a great honor to be able to take my stories
in my life and use it as an example for others to grow and grow past me.
RJ, you're a great advocate and you've had such a big difference in the industry and getting people to think differently.
But you know that we're still living in a time when you see many actors playing disability.
And in fact, half of the actors who've won the Best Actor Award at the Academy Awards in the past 30 years are able-bodied actors who've won it for playing a disability.
And one thing that really hits home is in 2017, there was a movie called The Upside,
and Bryan Cranston played a character in a wheelchair. And he was asked about it by the
disability community about an able-bodied person playing a disabled role, and he called it
a business decision. Did you ever talk to him about
that and maybe give him your perspective on that? When all that kind of blew up, I kind of was like,
I'm just going to let this settle down. And the thing is, I think it's so important that
individuals get the opportunity to audition, that accurate representation is key.
The one thing that I do and have noticed over the 15, almost 20 years of working in the
industry is that it's all a business decision and sacrifices that I've had to make to actually
keep a job and jobs where I was like, I'm not going to do that. And then say,
well, we don't really want you if you're not going to do that. It has always been the business
decisions you have to make and it's not always up to you. And I think when you have someone like
a Bryan Cranston or Jamie Foxx or a Forrest Gump type character and all these other entities,
Jamie Foxx or a Forrest Gump type character and all these other entities. I think there's a fine line of what is appropriate and what is not appropriate. But for me, I think the upside is
that it does get to the masses. Is there a better way of doing it? Yes. But if we can get more
individuals to think like that and to be like, well, I don't really want to see able-bodied actors playing disabled roles and allows voices to come together in the mainstream platform to
say hey no we want this to stop I think is a great opportunity to get those
voices out there to get those voices heard to me though anyone can be
disabled I mean I'm already technically disabled but I could walk out of this room trip and break my neck
falling down and I'll spend the rest of my life in a chair or something and anyone can join this
club at any part of their life and I think we need to have that realization that this is more
of a human connection than most things that we deal with on a daily basis. And what we do,
both either positive or negative, allows us to look at that and look at it objectively
after the fact and go, okay, we know this is what we don't want. We know this is what we do want.
So now how can we take this information into other projects, taking mainstream media and having them look back and reflect and go, okay, we got backlash.
We got negativity on this.
All right.
How do we narrow that down?
How do we do this?
And again, keep in mind, this is all about money.
This really has nothing to do with the community.
This has nothing to do with inspiring people. This has nothing to do with inspiring people.
This has to do with net asset.
And so how do we, getting them to think, how do we keep the net asset but inspire people
and bring honesty and truth and these individuals that need the job, deserve the job, and should
have the job to these
forefronts.
We have to have that, that we don't like this to know what we want to evolve it from.
Right.
I think there's so many different aspects of what you've just said.
I mean, you know, the advocacy plays a role.
Yes.
So that when people, when activists come out and say, hey, this isn't right, I think the
industry does listen to that.
But then there's also the discussions within the industry. And our foundation has had success
in working with four major studios to get them to commit to auditioning actors with disabilities.
I know that my friend Danny Woodburn, who's also an actor with a disability,
I know that my friend Danny Woodburn, who's also an actor with a disability, did have a dinner with Brian Cranston after this and had a discussion with him and explained to him why it's concerning.
But I know we're not at the point now where we're going to have every role of disability played by an actor with a disability. But I do think, as you've pointed out in the past, it's an issue of
representation and it's an issue of people seeing themselves on film. I'm wondering,
what was your relationship like with Brian Cranston, Aaron Paul? Do you still keep in
touch with members of the cast of Breaking Bad? Yeah, I do. I ironically keep in contact more with the bad guys. But when I was on the show, we have a very open door friendship and anything and everything that we could ever need, they could call me and I could call them.
Again, keep in mind, I was 13, right?
Everyone was late 20s, minimum.
And so my relationship really wasn't as strong, I guess,
with everyone else's on the after side of set because I was a minor, I was a child.
And so I think that kind of played into it.
But for the most part, we were very family dynamic, very open.
I mean, again, I could call any of them any time and they would either answer or return my call, which is nice.
And so from the group to acting to the producing side of, to the crew and everyone in between.
It was a very big family dynamic.
Maybe you can talk a little bit about the business of acting.
Because like Breaking Bad, you're together for years and you're doing this show,
but it's a business.
And then it ends and people go on to their careers and they do another show or they do a movie.
What's that like?
Because most people are in a job and they're in a job for years and that's and they do another show or they do a movie. What's that like? Because most people
are in a job and they're in a job for years and that's what they do. But maybe you can talk a
little bit what it's like to be a working actor in the industry. Yeah. You know, it's not easy
to build these lives and relationships. And then it's like, all right, well, I might never see you
again, but we had fun doing it while we lasted, right? I think it's very special to be able to go into these characters and go into these worlds and
create and live inside of this imaginary world. And then it's over. But I love it. That's one of
my favorite things is I like to portray different people and different things and get out there and be different things. It's not an easy business. A lot has changed over the last
10 years through social media and through different new media and all these other
aspects that we face now where you don't really lose your relationship as much as you did in the past,
where people are always on FaceTimes and interviews and podcasts.
When we really didn't have those, then we live in a very different time
from when I started to where we are now.
I'm just very interested to see the evolution of television and film and the impact it will leave behind for future generations.
And that's one of the things is that when you have a show like Breaking Bad or any kind of show that's continued on after the ending of it,
that really still brings everyone together is truly special and truly something that can change people and lives.
And, you know, the business, again, is not easy.
Lots of auditions, you know, a lot of rejection still.
It doesn't change.
You know, people think, oh, once you get the show, it gets easy, right?
No, that's where it actually starts getting harder.
And that's where it starts becoming you're more accountable for what you do and what you say. And you're more accountable for
the roles that you portray. It only evolves, it escalates from there. I think people sometimes
forget that. It's the extraordinary business. I'm going to go work for one month and it's over.
As you grow, you learn who you'll
see again, who you won't see. But building the relationships and having a positive impact with
your peers, having a positive impact with your fans and your community, to me, is one of the
most important things about our job and what we do is building those relationships and realizing you still have to have fun with it. But at the end of the day, it's still a profession.
So RJ, you seem like wise beyond your years and that, you know, you understand your place
in the industry and the impact that you would have on your fans, on the public.
How did you learn that? I mean, did mean did someone you know pull you aside and say
let me teach you how to be successful in this industry you know since you were 13 when you
started on Breaking Bad I mean did someone like Bryan Cranston pull you aside and say hey let me
give you some tips or you know let me help you become a better actor. Yes and no. Many people over the years were big influences in my decisions and where I moved.
And for the most part, though, it was kind of like, yeah, here you go.
And then they dumped you in a pit of wolves.
And either one, you get torn apart or two, you become a wolf.
One, you get torn apart, or two, you become a wolf.
And that's kind of where a lot of my first-hand experience came through was just being put in the meat grinder and came out still whole, apparently.
But I don't think – it's one of those things where people can tell you things.
People can give you advice.
And the advice can be the best advice in the world. But if you don't, if you don't understand it
or you don't live by it, it's really hard for it to work for you. Um, you know, everyone's
different. Everyone's lives are different. You know, I grew up with a lot of responsibility,
um, at a very young age. And so for me, it was really about my biggest
thing was always my priorities and what I wanted to prioritize first, be it my career, my family,
or medical or whatever that may be. It wasn't always looked upon positively when I made some decisions on choosing my work or my family.
And that was kind of always a bummer to me because I'm fairly family oriented.
So I always pick my family over my job.
But I really think it came from just learned experience.
A lot of my stuff is learning on the job type stuff.
Many people, like you mentioned
Danny Woodburn and Alan Rucker and uh many other people like that so when when you take into
consideration my Breaking Bad family they taught me a lot it gave me a lot of tools and information
on on acting and sets and we had a cast and crew of 500 million dollar episode um right like it
cost money these were these were big big money things and it taught me those types of ways to
be a part of a set like that what it's like to have the responsibility of a regular character, a recurring character on a TV show that had
graphic content and content that really wasn't positive content until later after the show was
done. When I first started Breaking Bad, the first two seasons, I wasn't allowed to go to a lot of
kids' parties. I wasn't allowed to do a lot of things because they were like, oh, you're on that show about meth. And it was like, I was like, yeah, but it's so much more than that. And so it was a lot
of for me learning both sides of the coin, the negative coin and the positive coin of what I
want to be, what I'm personally trying to do. And this is the biggest thing for anyone that I recommend acting or not acting,
it's find what you want to truly do. And that doesn't have to be tomorrow. But what it does
is find that moral compass of like, this is where I want to go. And this is my circumstance.
Well, you've had so much experience now. And it sounds like you've really been able to
get your priorities straight.
Sure.
I'm wondering what your take is now on disability representation in the industry.
Is it different than when you started?
And what advice would you give to someone with a disability that wants to get into acting?
And how do they go about it?
Yeah, I mean, it is very different. It's pretty much night and day. I'll tell you right now,
because I remember when YouTube and all the Vines and social medias were coming out and I was,
I actually was told one time that if you start doing that, we will drop you as a client. I remember when it was very negative to put yourself out there and to do what now is the market.
A lot of the things that people have now used to be very frowned upon.
And now it's the only way to get a job.
And building that fan base and having those views and doing all these things.
And I do see a very big positive growth in diversification in media,
opportunities for individuals, and not just for people with disabilities,
but across the board when it comes to accessing the industry.
There's many different ways now versus the two ways that you could do before is drop everything and go to Los Angeles or New York and start, uh, being a starving actor.
Cause that's kind of the, where I started was, it was like, there was really no phones, no media, none of those things that, that someone, if you were in, if you were in Raleigh, North Carolina, I am now, there really wasn't an industry here.
Now there's an industry here.
Now I could go online and apply across the world.
And I recommend for people that want to get into the industry and want to start learning about the industry,
you know, everyone has Facebook, everyone has Twitter, everyone has Instagram, all these forms of media.
And start creating that individual you
want to be. Start creating and showing your life in a way that is going to be sadly appealing to
masses. Not sadly appealing, just sadly that you kind of have to do that now. And so I think that's a great way. I recommend extra work. That was my big backbone was extra work and classes.
I had a talent manager at the time named Madison Witt,
who was kind of my mentor and teacher
and taught me many different forms of acting across the board
and learning that and really was doing that, again,
to only meet kids my own age because I didn't have an avenue.
My first two months in Los Angeles, I got robbed trying to make friends.
And so I always highly recommend extra work, take classes, find your community,
find those people that are going to raise you up versus put you down
and just enjoy it.
You know, again, though, this is a business.
Always remember that this is trillion-dollar industry that doesn't just make money
but alters minds, alters spirits, allows people to see things
and feel things that they couldn't do without it.
And there is a responsibility and an obligation you have to your fans
and to the people that see your works.
And try to remember that when you're out there doing your things.
But at the same time, have fun, enjoy it, and don't be afraid to put yourself out there no matter who you are.
You know, talking about the business of the industry, which it's definitely a business.
business. One of the recent white papers that we put out, we commissioned a survey of the public,
a fairly extensive survey that said that people will pay more to see authentic representation.
And I think maybe that's the time that we're moving into, that people want to see reality, even in fiction, they want to see people who really are
like those people. And so, you know, the bottom line of the white paper in the survey was that
people would be willing to spend billions of dollars more to see that. And I think slowly,
the studios are internalizing that message. And that leads me to your latest film, Triumph, which is the story of
Mike Coffey, who was a teenager with cerebral palsy in the 80s and wanted to join the high
school wrestling team. Tell us about the movie. You mentioned Michael Coffey, the writer, creator,
coffee the writer creator character initially and uh he created this story to as a dream of his to be able to portray in the screen and to show kids um that they they can achieve what they want to
achieve this story is about a young man with cerebral palsy who lives in a different time
a time where disability is viewed more as a as a disability as an illness
as something that oh we're we're going to kind of stay away from you know and but really this
is a kid that just needs an opportunity to show what he's capable of to show his life and
a single dad doesn't really have a lot of friends, and it's his last year at school,
and he really wants to do this.
He wrestled when he was younger, and he got injured.
And he didn't get seriously injured, but injured enough where everyone was like,
no, he's disabled.
You can't let him do that anymore.
But it was a dream of his, and he wanted to achieve it.
And so through this journey, he starts trying to
achieve his dream before he feels that he won't be able to get the opportunity again.
And because of that journey, he makes friends. He faces bullies. He handles the challenges that
he's been facing his whole life head on because he's like, this is my dream.
This is my goal. This is what I want to do.
And when you start doing that in real life, all the things that you've been avoiding, all the all the challenges and weights of other people's voices start getting louder because they're like no we've been protecting
you for so long but but really it comes down to this is his dream and his goal and he won't stand
by that anymore and i think it's a very special story created by someone who really had the heart
um to take his life and and make a reality. Make it a film.
And that's one of my favorite things about my industry.
Every movie you see.
Every story you read.
Isn't just an entertainment piece.
It's someone's dream.
It's someone's life.
And what other business allows you to make a dream a reality, to immortalize your life and story?
And really, it's only our industry, the entertainment industry, that does that.
This individual really made a dream come true, and I was very lucky to be able to make it happen and pull it together. We've been working on it for like seven years now.
And I'm so happy it's finally getting out and that people are looking at it and people are interested in it.
I was a little concerned that people were going to be like,
what is this?
But it turned out people actually really like it
and people really found it enjoyable.
It's very interesting that through all the hiccups that
this film has faced over the over the years it's still alive and well you know most films that
have the issues that we faced when it came to defining actors to getting budgets to locations
and everything else we had our battles but the movie is still alive and still growing,
and the Academy has even looked into it to be potentially nominated for one.
And I'm just very honored that this movie is still out there.
This movie is still growing.
And despite other people trying to stop it or to devalue it or to get their cut out of it, it has its own entity.
It has its own life, and it's still growing.
having that disability be considered for an Oscar since the last person with a disability,
a visible disability to win an Oscar was Marlee Matlin.
And that was decades ago.
Let me talk about bullying because it's something you brought up and it's,
it's a big part of the film.
I watched the film.
Did you like it?
I did like it.
I did like it.
I like,
I like all your stuff.
Thank you.
I know you've been bullied in the past, and I know that you've given some advice on how you've dealt with bullies.
Yeah.
So maybe you can just repeat the advice that you give and how you've dealt with that, because I think it's a great approach.
Yeah, 100%. You never not get bullied at some point of your life. Like there's always a bully out there.
It could be either at home, at work, on the street, whatever it may be.
As an adult, we just don't call it bullying.
But it happens.
And I find no matter what you're facing or the challenges you're facing,
find those people that you can confide in.
Find those people that are going to raise you up. And don't be afraid to ask questions and
stand up for what you believe in and who you are as an individual. You know,
bullying is something that really can traumatize someone. How many times have you been like,
I really love this. And then someone say, that's stupid. You should stop.
And then you stop.
And you never do it again.
But it was something that you loved. And who would have known if that could have turned into something great.
If someone is bullying you or if someone is trying to devalue you.
Find that person that you can confide in.
And figure out how you can either one, handle it or remove yourself from the situation. And talk to your friends. Talk to your peers. Talk to the people that you can confide in and figure out how you can either one handle it or remove yourself from the situation and and talk to your friends talk to your peers talk to the people that you
care about even talk to the bully like why are you doing this what's going on with this because
a lot of people that are being bullies are being bullied you don't grow up with hate you don't grow
up being these types of people you You learn it by repressions,
by things that have happened to you. And you're like, this is the only way I can cope with it.
So I find when it comes to a bully, I always was like, what's your problem? Why are you doing this?
Why are you singling me out? And when it got past past that point I would get other people involved like my
friends and even a teacher my parents people that that I believed could help me figure out this
situation and and having those conversations and and exploring those sometimes will will help in a
situation where it's like well I actually don't really hate you I'm facing an issue
with this and I'm I'm reflecting that on you and you would never know that unless you talk to that
person about it and what even one time one of my bullies became one of my best friends and I was
like what's your problem why why do you keep pushing me why Every time I see you, you throw me into a wall.
And he's like, oh, blah, blah, blah.
Gave me some nonsensical answer, right?
And I was like, no, why?
Why is it every time you see me, you do this? It turned out to be something stupid that really had no relevance on him actually hating me.
Other than they just wanted to be a friend they just wanted
the attention and instead of giving negative attention back i gave positive attention back
positive reinforcement back and by by the end of that week we were kind of a friend and he kind of
stood up for me like and and it just turned around in that situation.
And I find not every situation you're going to find yourself in is going to be the same.
Yeah, that's great, RJ.
I mean, it's so wise beyond your years, like I said, to identify why people are bullying.
But that's hard to do, though.
That is not easy.
No, it takes courage.
It takes you to be the better person, you to be the bigger person in that situation when you are being hurt.
People can't always see through the hurt.
You have to sometimes place your feelings in a way where it's like,
all right, I'm going to do this,
but this might end badly for me. Right. But if I don't do this, I'll never know.
You know, I was, I was impressed with Terrence Howard, who's a great actor and plays your coach
in Triumph. What was it like for you working with him?
You know, he only, he only worked for a few days on set. We were able to shoot him out pretty quickly.
Brought a lot to the set.
Was a great character for the role.
That dude had some wild lines, I'll tell you that.
But we had a great time working with him.
And just really helped bring the story together.
That was one of our big issues that we had to come back to.
Seven years ago, we stopped production and came back to
it with with terrence and a group of a new group of people and were able to make it happen and i
think it only amplified the story more that we didn't go with the original cast on that well he
puts a lot of emotion into the film you know know, one of the things about advocacy, which I've been deeply involved in my whole life,
and I know that you've also, it's an important part of your life.
Sometimes advocacy in 2022 can become very strident.
And it can be all about the group that you're part of.
But I happen to think allyship is very important.
And not everyone is like us.
And, you know, we need allies.
I mean, if you look at the great civil rights leader, someone like Martin Luther King, really understood the importance of having allies.
So I just wanted you to talk a little bit about allyship.
And what do you think about it? I mean, we can't do this alone. At the end of the day, I mean, yes, certain paths you do have
to walk alone, but we always had those people there. We always have allies. The biggest thing
that I believe when it comes to disability is that disability doesn't discriminate.
comes to disability is that disability doesn't discriminate. It's the one thing that can unite us as a species, as human beings, is that we all face these types of challenges in our future.
Like, yes, some of us, like me, are born with it and grow up with it, and it's a very normal
thing in my life. Some people, not so much.
But as someone that's grown up with it and born with it, it is my responsibility to help guide people to get that information.
To understand that we all face these challenges and we all have these hurdles.
And it's very easy to be an ally.
It doesn't take a lot of time and energy to make a stand and to be that
person and to do what's right. Anyone that's in this world at the end of the day can be an ally
and should be an ally. But just finding what you believe in, find that key value of what you want
to achieve, where you want to go, and the impact that you want to have. By doing that, you're going to
find you're not alone in your mission. You're not alone to achieve what you're trying to achieve,
because there are many people that want the same thing. And when you start being vocal about it,
you find more people are willing to be more vocal about it. And it can happen in a very small instant whatever it may be look for those impacts
in your daily life find where it's like all right i'm just on the street and i'm just walking down
and and i just happen to see something happen to see a person happen you can be that person that
steps out and makes that impact and by doing that the ripple effect of that is so much greater than
you may even realize by just being that, are you okay? Like seeing someone crying on the street,
seeing someone that's alone, being like, just coming up to someone and be like, hey, are you
okay? Do you need something? Like nine times out of 10, you're going to hear, I'm fine.
I'm okay.
I'm good.
Leave me alone.
Those people aren't always ready to have that helping hand.
But it's that one out of 10 that you're going to talk to and you're going to change that
person's life.
And you're going to be that ally for them to evolve, to take it to that next level.
And when it comes to something that what we're trying to do, when it comes to diversification in media
and providing opportunities for people
and economic impacts and all these things,
I've been very lucky that I've worked around the world,
working with UNs and Russia and Germany and Costa Rica
and everywhere in between,
making allies that one day we can make this call and it
can be a global front, right? That we can have this global push and be like, yes, this is what
we need. This is what we want. But that takes time. That takes effort. And that takes willingness for
you, the listener, to step out of a realm of comfort and be able to put yourself into a
position that you may not want to be in, but may feel responsible for. And that can change people's
lives. That can impact people in such a way that is unseen and unforetold and that you can't even
realize. Right. That's so wise. You know, I know that within the disability community, you know,
the phrase nothing about us without us is very powerful. But at the same time, you know, all of
us, everyone in the world has a connection personally to someone with a disability.
And as you mentioned previously, you know, this is the one community that most of us, as we age, will probably join at some point.
So it's a powerful community.
I truly believe in allyship.
I don't like turning other people away.
No.
I know you're filming in North Carolina right now.
Are you able to say a little bit about what you're doing?
At the moment, I can't.
I do have a few other projects I'm very happy for.
I'll start filming those in the next couple of months. But really, I think for me, my big thing
has been getting Triumph off the ground and out and doing that. That's been a labor of love for
six years now. Right now, I actually have a pretty big project in Texas that I'm working on
at the moment. Just been working a lot, a lot, a lot of work. RJ, what's your dream role? What's
a role that you would love to play? I don't necessarily have a dream role per se. I was
actually just thinking, talking to someone about this last night and
they're talking about better costs on like you know i wouldn't mind going back to the
the breaking bad days because uh better costs all is on their last season
you might want to go back to do that you know what i miss the most is having a set with a budget
i know that i know that's i know that sounds weird and not everyone's gonna
get it but but you you wouldn't realize how hard it is to make projects on a shoestring budget with
minimal resources so like being able to just focus on the acting side of it and not have to worry
about all right i gotta come up with,000 by next week for this movie,
or we're going to have to halt production. It would be quite nice.
I get it. I get it. It makes perfect sense. RJ, it's been a pleasure to have you as my guest on
All Inclusive. Thank you.
I can't end the interview without asking, I know that your Breaking Bad fans would
really want to know
what did you have for breakfast what did i have for breakfast i had a i had a starburst
it was okay it was it was a pink one it was quite nice i woke up i had it it was great
nutritious they're very nutritious a bottle of water great i'm actually
see one of my big things is i don't
like to do things before noon and it's almost noon now and that's i usually have my breakfast
later in the date and uh and so some bacon and eggs are are on my way but yeah that was my
truthful breakfast a starburst well rj thank you i wish you a lot of success in what you're doing now
with Triumph. And you've been a real groundbreaker in the industry. And I know you'll have a lot more
success. So thank you so much. Wish you a lot of success. Great to see you. Thank you again.
It's really always a pleasure to be able to work with y'all and the Ruderman Foundation.
And, you know, we've been friends over the years.
And it's great to see the impact that y'all have had in the community.
It is something that takes a lot of time, a lot of energy, and a lot of resources to face these types of challenges.
And to give people all that awareness, thank you for the impact that you have in the community.
And again, anytime, I'm always a friend and an ally to y'all.
And anything y'all need, just let me know.
Thanks so much, RJ.
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