An Army of Normal Folks - On Being A Junkman
Episode Date: May 9, 2025For Shop Talk, Army member Charlotte Dance shares a beautiful tribute to her late dad that's titled, "On Being A Junkman". And how it relates to the Army. Support the show: https://www.normalfolk...s.us/premiumSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Hey everybody, Bill Courtney.
Welcome to the shop.
Welcome in Alex, how you doing?
That was so weak.
That was like my little kids doing it the other day.
That was George.
Except you're a grown up.
George, I don't have a grown up.
Here.
There, welcome in.
How do you like it?
Is that better?
Do you think I should bleep that swear word we just said?
I want George back.
Okay.
He's, George is awesome.
All right.
Shop Talk number 51 on becoming a junk man.
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Hey everybody, welcome back to Shop Talk. Charlotte Dance is a lister and I will read this to you
and the topic is on being a junk man.
From Charlotte Dance, I listened to the podcast
about the Whistler today.
I loved it.
Chris Olman.
Chris Olman, the Whistler.
The Goat Whistler as Chris Vernon called him.man the whistle the goat whistler is Chris Vernon called them
I listen the podcast about the Whistler Day. I loved it made me miss my dad
Although he didn't really sing he loved to whistle and I always wanted to whistle like he did ten years ago
I wrote this essay about my dad being a junk man. I think you could do a shop talk on being a junk man.
So here we go. My dad is a junk man. This is not an occupation that is a life goal for many people.
He chose to be a junk man in every area of his life. I'm sure that growing up on a farm during
the Great Depression played a big part in directing his life.
True junk men have to find great value in junk or they can't survive in the business.
My dad has excelled in finding value in junk.
Where everyone else saw junk, Dad saw physics lab equipment. He used old bicycle tires to make gyroscopes, an axle helped students to learn the pulls
of centrifugal force and even an old vacuum cleaner to make an air table to teach frictionless
motion.
Where everyone else saw junk, Dad saw an addition to our house so our family of six didn't have to live in a two-bedroom house.
Windows, doors, and lumber were all salvaged from houses being torn down.
Where everyone else saw junk, Dad saw a solar greenhouse.
He researched it and then made it for $200 plus lots of reclaimed parts.
It's been working consistently for 30 years now.
Where everyone else saw junk meat, Dad saw venison that could be made into sausage and
jerky and feed many people. It all started when our pastor gave us an antelope meat for our dog
because they couldn't even eat it in chili. He gave them back sausage he made from it, they couldn't believe it was same meat.
Junk meat.
Where everyone would say that things in his past were junk,
dad used them to make a difference for his family.
His father was extremely harsh
and always used dad's name and anger.
Granddad wouldn't have anything to do with him and didn't come to his wedding. Dad decided that if he didn't forgive his father, he
would never be able to have a good relationship with his children. He forgave them and worked
on making peace between them. Not only does he have a good relationship with his biological
children, he has had others adopt him as their father. Where everyone would say that a young
boy could be annoying and was a slow learner, dad saw someone who was interested in everything
he did. This boy followed him as he worked on rentals, butchered, set up science labs,
and worked on object lessons. His family split up and moved away, but he remembered those
afternoons with my dad. He became a butcher,
bought a rental and put himself through an engineering school. He even went to law school.
He came back to visit saying, I still use your abject lessons. Where everyone saw a man with
wasted life in prison, dad saw an opportunity to serve. He visited a man in prison for six years
and saw him grow into a man of God. After his sentence was over, Dad was the best man in his
wedding. Now this man is fixing junk in the lives of juvenile offenders and helping them change their
future. Where everyone else would see junk in their own lives, he saw an opportunity to serve
Where everyone else would see junk in their own lives, he saw an opportunity to serve or to listen.
With the insurance payment for roof damage didn't cover the cost of shingles for an
elderly woman's roof, he not only did the roofing, but paid for the rest of the shingles.
One man went through many rough times and dad listened to him through all of it.
He said he has to talk through everything before he knows exactly what to do.
Never once did he complain about the time or effort it took.
Where everyone would say,
it is a hopeless case of junk,
Dad didn't give up.
He prayed for his sister for 28 years.
His brother-in-law told him to never talk about God again.
He didn't talk, but he prayed and he lived it. His nephews and nieces came to Christ, then his sister
and finally his brother-in-law. Recently he counted 40 people on his side of the
family that were believers.
He was the first. Where everyone would see junk
that all we go through, Dad saw an opportunity to prepare.
Several years ago he felt strongly impressed that he should prepare to die.
He was in good health, but he wanted to have things ready.
He bought cemetery plots and a gravestone.
However, his most important thing was to find people to pray for his grandchildren.
Shortly after this, I was mourning the loss of my friends in a canoe accident,
and I need something constructive to do.
When I talked to Dad, he suggested that I find people to pray for their grandchildren.
It has been an honor and privilege to do that. I may not want my yard filled with
reclaimed lumber and other various treasures but I think I want to be a
junk man just like dad. Looking past the junk and scars and people's lives
and seeing the treasure
that they truly are. Seems like a awful lot of Army members are junk men. Thanks
for having a great show Charlotte Dance. Charlotte, if my children speak about me
one day with 25% of the reverence you speak about your father I will rest a
a very proud man that is a phenomenal tribute to your dad and I can certainly
see why you wrote it there's a lesson there too
lesson there too. The junk, the homeless, the foster children who were aged out of foster care at 19 or 20 and are living destructive lives. The kid who has never read a lullaby or saying a lullaby or read a bedtime
story who can't read on grade level now in seventh grade who we know because
he's not reading on grade level by third grade is more likely to be in prison
than is to have a job one day the junk that your dad saw opportunity in is exactly what the call to an army of normal
folks is, is to see the junk and use it.
See the junk and fix it.
You're right, a lot of the members of the army of normal folks that we highlight are
junk people but the call and inspiration is is that
you listeners out there see the value in the junk the power of an army of normal
folks is that is that we see areas in need and fill it which is effectively as
Charlotte points out being a junk man.
So my question is, and maybe even my challenge is, when's the last time you drove past a
pile of junk and thought, man, somebody ought to clean something up, but kept on going instead
of getting out of your car and clean it up yourself. We are surrounded by junk and the cleanup is
not gonna happen by a city crew coming by in a tax-paid-for truck and throwing
it in the back and dumping in the garbage. It's gonna happen by an army of
normal folks. Of course all of that is metaphorical but I think you get what
I'm saying. Alex, you got any ideas of some junk?
So I forgot to include this in your prep.
She actually wrote it before her dad died.
And then she read it at his funeral.
Wow.
Isn't that cool?
I bet there was a dry eye on the place.
Yeah, a couple of junk thoughts.
One thing Christ says is I didn't come to heal the healthy, right?
I came here to heal the sick.
That's why I was hanging out with tax collectors and prostitutes.
People challenged him on that.
And then an interesting business case for this too, or even just take the army case
first, right?
That's actually where a lot of the fun is.
You're grinding to grow something, right?
From nothing into something significant. That's a where a lot of the fun is. You're grinding to grow something, right? From nothing into something significant.
That's a lot more fun.
I bet Charlotte's dad had a blast making a,
what was it, a solar garden or something
out of a bunch of junk.
I mean, can you imagine the satisfaction he felt
growing stuff for 30 years out of something
people left on the curb?
Yeah.
Well, that metaphorically is the satisfaction
you can feel by seeing junk in your life and fixing it.
And then like a bit, I mean, this isn't so normal,
but I think people can do it in a more normal way.
There's a guy I once interviewed who basically had a bunch
of energy exploration projects.
But there were a bunch of things that ExxonMobil
was trying to get rid of.
Like it wasn't interesting enough for ExxonMobil. And so he collected a bunch of things that ExxonMobil was trying to get rid of. Like it wasn't interesting enough for ExxonMobil.
And so he collected a bunch of these things,
built up the business, and he made $500 million
when he sold it one day.
But it's an interesting case.
There's a lot of things out there
that aren't interesting enough to the big players.
But for you, you can actually build a really interesting
business off it.
Obviously, you don't have to sell for $500 million.
Even if you make $100,000, you make $500,000,
you make a million, whatever.
It's actually a really interesting business thing
to think about, too.
What does everybody else see as junk that actually
could be an opportunity?
Which could be a business.
It could be in society.
It could be wherever.
Charlotte Dance, that is a incredible tribute
to your father.
And it is a beautiful illustration
of exactly what we're talking about and I can't tell you how much we appreciate you
shared it.
If you have any ideas for shop talk, would you please email me?
Bill at normal folks dot us.
I'll always respond and hopefully like Charlotte stuff here we we can comment it because we think others will want to hear the story.
Beautiful pieces of writing like this if anybody else has actually that's a good
idea of letters. You read like World War II letters.
Yeah that's a really good idea.
Civil War letters like the writing back in the day is I mean obviously if you were
something beautiful today send it to us too but especially back in day, all those kind of love letters were so much better than
the way we text each other.
So it's true.
I think it's a lost art.
Send us send us that stuff.
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