And That's Why We Drink - E428 A Smuggled Cream Soda and a Vibin' Lady in White

Episode Date: April 20, 2025

It’s Episode 428 and we’re off to a better start than usual! This week Em tells us all about one of the last standing landmarks of the Old West, the haunted Hotel Metlen in Montana. Then Christine covers the extremely sad and shocking case of Andrew Bagby, one of the earliest true crime cases she learned about. And remember if it’s technically possible you were possessed, then clearly you were… and that’s why we drink! For a list of resources or ways to help those affected by the fires in Los Angeles visit: http://bit.ly/atwwdfirehelp ! Only a few cities remaining for our Pour Decisions Tour! Get your tickets today at http://andthatswhywedrink.com/live ! _______________ Make progress towards a better financial future with Chime. Open your account in 2 minutes at chime.com/DRINK. No matter how you say it, don’t overpay for it. Shop data plans at MINTMOBILE.com/atwwd. Stop putting off those doctor appointments and go to Zocdoc.com/DRINK to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Go to http://helixsleep.com/drink for 20% Off Sitewide PrettyLitter helps keep your house smelling fresh and clean. Save 20% on your first order and get a free cat toy with code ATWWD at https://PrettyLitter.com/atwwd. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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The Ford It's a Big Deal event! Visit your Toronto area Ford store for dot-ca today Welcome to and that's why we drink we have it's episode four to eight and Christine Immediately wanted to dive right in and has something to say. Well, to be fair, usually we don't even give that much information up top.

In fact, we never say the name of the podcast. Rarely do I say the number correctly. So honestly, we're off to a better start than usual. But I will say, I'm very excited. I just got an email saying that I was picked in the Banana Ball lottery for the Savannah Banana game in Cincinnati. So jealous. I'm so excited.

I've applied for years and I've never actually gotten it. So I'm sorry. I have other plans now. I know you just got the dog to settle, but I have to go and buy basketball tickets. Bye. I mean, baseball tickets. Just say, hey, I was like, they're're gonna revoke my ticket access in like five seconds. For saying that, no, but yeah, I'm just excited. I just thought I would share my good news with everyone. Nice. Yeah, as I received it.

Who are you gonna go with? Who am I gonna go with? You're gonna be a date night with Blaze? I mean, it's gotta be him, right? It's gotta be him. And I am pretty sure also it's gotta be Leona because that just feels like, as a parent, I'm supposed to do that.

I don't know. I don't know. As a non-parent, you don't have to do that. Do you wanna come? I mean, sure. You don't sound like it, so okay. I mean, I've been in the Banana Ball lottery for also many years and I have never gotten in.

Oh really? Okay, so this is, because for me, I was like, it's been a few years, but maybe I just missed the emails. So, yeah, it's probably I probably just haven't gotten. That's awesome. When is it? I have no idea. It won't let me open the page. Awkward. Awkward.

Spam. Watch me just have like, no, no, no. Given all my information away. No, that sounds that sounds very fun. I do think you should. If you're going to take anyone, I think we will have a good time. I think loveona will have a good time. I think so. I would love to go.

Maybe I won't go and I'll just let Blaze and Leona go. That's actually my ideal. I did think you were going to say maybe you don't go and then I just go. That's how you do it also. Okay, or you can go. But take someone who wants to go so I feel like I've done something right for my family. I think we'd full circle and I would just take you. So I think it would.

Okay, well then, honestly, great. Sounds like a plan. Sorry, Blaze. Yeah, sorry. I got it, you didn't. Watch, he gets it too. And then they have other tickets. That'd be hysterical.

So awkward. Oh, here we go. Great news. It says you crushed it. They're so nice to me. I hope you get to win the lottery someday. Me too. Although I will say this is just for the, let's see, watch it be on a day we're touring. Whoops.

I'll find out. Well, if you do get to go, let me know how it is. I mean, I've, Allison one time got me tickets to like one of their normal games, but, and then for some reason we couldn't do it all of a sudden. I think we were touring. Oh, but yeah. And then for some reason, we couldn't do it all of a sudden. I think I think we were touring. Oh, no. Yeah, that might happen. But I've never gone to do their like, I don't know. I'm very curious to see how it goes,

because all I've ever seen are like Instagram videos. Yeah, yeah, I'm excited. And every year, Blaze's whole family puts their emails in. And so I feel like I'm finally like, nice child for once. You know, well, then that's, see that's your answer there of like who else you should bring, you make them fight to the death. Oh, easy.

That was not hard. And then I go on tour so I don't have to deal with any of the fallout. See now, you know what I'm talking about. I mean you could also if you, I know you obviously wanna go, but if you really wanted to like, surprise someone with like a really good Christmas gift,

you just be like, ooh, I didn't tell anybody, but there's two tickets. There's one ticket, there's a ticket for me and another one for whoever gets me the best present tonight. Yeah, there's a ticket for Em, and whoever Em allows to come with them. Well, congratulations, that's very exciting.

And the good news is also that I decided to look in my fridge to see if I had any sparkling water, and instead I found this twisted tea from those days when we were frantically editing and I was just like Scratching my skin off and like, you know had hives all the time and was just constantly drinking Caffeinated alcohol drinks like it was such a bad time and it was only a few months ago But oh it was longer than that right Or was it a few months ago? I don't remember anymore. It seems like a dream.

No, it was, we started in September or August, right? Okay, so it was a while ago now. But I thought, you know what, why not? You know, I was going to say it's Friday, but I just looked at it's Monday. So it's Monday. Sure. It probably feels like Friday because we're about to go back out on the road, right? That's right. We're going to New Orleans tomorrow and yesterday I went to the Wild Kratts live show That's why I actually drink is I went to see the Krat brothers live with my child. That's great How was it? How was it?

Fine, it was fun. I'm glad you were honest. For the kids and It was a great show. They put on a great show. I just had to order a wine and he said, single or double and I was like, come on. If you have to ask, you know the answer, baby. And my mom said, oh, you're drinking. And I said, yeah, well, I'm going to New Orleans in two days so I've got to prepare. And the guy goes, yeah, it's like a base. And I said, yeah, well, I'm going to New Orleans in two days, so I've got to prepare.

Got to warm up. And the guy goes, yeah, it's like a base. And I said, yeah, like my base tan. I'm getting my base tan before spring break. That's exactly right. I'm getting my base tolerance going. I've been cutting back a little bit on drinking now that I've discovered edibles,

but today is a twisted tea kind of day, folks. Savannah bananas, things are looking up. It's literally the colors of the Savannah bananas. I see, it's like I knew So that's why I drink and the crap brothers mostly the boomer food was not there. I was disappointed However, they are doing their thing He's definitely dead, I mean there was no puppet the boomer food either Okay, to clarify there was no real dead Zaboofoo or nor was there the animal.

There was a live monkey at like the library or wherever you were. It's a lemur. Let's get into that another time. Anyway, M, hi, why do you drink today? I drink because I have yet to get my lottery, my golden ticket from the Savannah Bananas. I mean, check, they just emailed me like five seconds ago. I, let me check my phone. I've gotten no update. So, but I got me a feeling that I didn't make the cut. That's okay. I'll try again next year.

You have to come to Cincinnati though. Cause I think I just went in for just Cincinnati tickets. Oh yeah. I went in for Rancho Cucamonga. I just need to use, oh, which are the quakes? Listen, I'm learning for you only. They are the only source I have, but it clicks. Actually, I don't even know if I went into the lottery this year.

I think it was last year. I don't fucking know anymore. By the way, if you hear a sound, my foster dog has discovered bones for the very first time and he's crunching through it at an enormous rate. It sounds like he's eating crocs. I didn't want to tell him because I was like, I saved this for the special day. And I was like, great.

I haven't seen the bone. So it's like a dinosaur bone. It's like a giant one. Yeah. Yeah. He'll eat the whole thing. Yeah. I as long as it gets me through my story, then that's all I care about.

Yeah, that he can mute yourself. I, as long as it gets me through my story, then that's all I care about. Let's do it. Yeah, that he can mute yourself. The reason I drink one is because this dog has yet to be adopted. And also I'm learning the horrible. I really thought we had it nailed. Like I thought we had it. Not a single person, no. Maybe it's meant to be.

Okay. Maybe it's cause you complain about him so much. Maybe. I, she's just, I just, he's, it's mainly that like, I know we're gonna be traveling so much this year, like it's gonna suck. You know what's probably gonna happen? You're probably gonna like train him through puppyhood

until he's perfectly calm and ready to be taken in by by a family. Exactly. Well, cause like also he's too big to like necessarily travel with. And so like, it's, yeah. If he were smaller, it wouldn't be a problem, but I'm aware of the like, oh, when I go home for Christmas Christmas I go home for like a month you know so it's like I'm already thinking about that stuff and yeah that was the thing with my daughter with Gio that I could not

that was always the stress like traveling who's gonna watch him yeah will he have enough walks what time I mean well will he like mentally like panic that I'm not there? Yeah. Oh god, it's like yes so that's that's my lesson du jour is like having to having to navigate that and like Especially like the rescue not helping like I'm asking like strangers at the dog park if they'll watch him like cuz I don't fucking have anybody You will watch them. Well, I will send you my did you know? I'll send it to you right now cuz this is my favorite, I still miss this place. This is where I used to board Gio. It's the only place he would ever board,

because he would be too freaked out otherwise. It's in Burbank. And if you tell them Gio, he was one of their first clients ever, and a success story, according to them, because he was so scared of other dogs as a puppy. And then he went and over time he like would, this is the only five star review I've ever written on Yelp

because he would go in and just like run in. And that's big of B. Shusandi to say. I know, I know because my brother found the review one time and read it, it was humiliating. That's how I know that was my only Yelp review. But yeah, they're just awesome. So, and they do boarding. And actually that's where my brother-in-law, Jesse,

boards his dog Tegan, who's like wild. Like I don't, you met Tegan, right? Like she's like crazy. Yeah, I think a long time ago, yeah. She's like a big pit bull. And so they take like all breeds, you know, they're not, they don't like, so it's an awesome place. So I would look into them and they do online booking and everything and it's really easy.

So it's called, by the way, if anyone wants to know, it's called Petrushin and I just, I've loved them for many years and I still get their emails because I'm like, oh, hi guys. Okay. Well, great. I, yeah, I can't believe I haven't thought to, well, of course I haven't. You haven't had a dog. I'm like, why have I never recommended this place?

Oh, right. Well, anyway, I, I, the reason I drink in a good way is maybe because I will find a last minute place for him as of today. I'm literally leaving like tomorrow. So or yeah, tomorrow. So it's been the thing with a dog that's different, I think, is that with a child, it's like, oh, everyone's like, oh, I like, we'll figure it out. We'll figure it out.

There's things built in with a dog. It's kind of like, you's like, oh, we'll figure it out, we'll all figure it out. There's things built in. With a dog, it's kind of like, you just have to look around and go, I have to wing it by myself. I'm also terrified of if I take him somewhere, I don't want him to think he's been re-abandoned. And so luckily, one of our friends, Kai, has offered to stay in the house with him for a couple days, but that's only a couple days

of a week that I'm gonna be gone. So. Yeah, can you, Rover does in-house boarding where you can have someone stay at your house too. Okay, thank you. I've done that before, yeah. Okay. Or just stop-ins.

Yeah, the stop-ins is what I knew of, but okay. Yeah, they have a set up where you can just pay somebody to stay at your place. Oh, all right. Well, thanks Christine. Anyway, that's why I drank because it's- You're so welcome. I mean, finally, if you have kids in 10 years, I hope some of my fucking, I won't even remember anymore.

This is also outdated for me, because I'm like, I didn't live near Burbank since I lived in Glendale. You know, it's just so weird. And I'm like, well, if you ever have a kid, I better remember something useful to tell you. Please remind me of the daycare in LA when you're done. Jesus, yeah, right. I know, I don't know.

And I drink my favorite drink, which is hard to find. They only sell it, I think, in like New York or in neighboring states is Stewart's Cream Soda specifically. They sell- I do love a cream soda, a Stewart's Cream Soda. Stewart's is my- Didn't we stop there one time on a drive with them? I made us because we were in an area where they sold the cream soda, yeah.

You made us, but we all got giant ice cream sundaes, so I don't think there was much like, you know, persuasion involved. Thank you. Yeah. Well, it's my number one favorite. It's a childhood favorite and I never get to have it, but we were just traveling somewhere and they had, I found them at a store randomly and

I was like, oh shit. And I literally smuggled like two cases of them back in my suitcase. So like I say, smuggled them, even though it's like perfectly legal to take cream soda with you. Hmm. I can't hear you. Anyway, fair enough. So anyway that's what I drink, that's why I drink. Uh and anything else, any good things Christine

going on besides banana ball? Yeah and twisted tea. I'm getting all jazzed over here. I'm also excited because we're going, I'm leaving early. I'm going to New Orleans tomorrow with my brother. He's going to join us. It's going to be fun. I'm going to show him sesame, the possum store because he's never been and they're vegan and all that good stuff. So, yeah, I'm excited. It's going to be a fun week. But I know that with that, there is a lot of logistical stuff like with the dog and whatever you got a whole baby. So I know. with that there is a lot of logistical stuff like with the dog and Whatever you got a whole baby. So I know well, yeah, but fortunately Blaze is not missing in action. He's he's here today. You know what else not the nerve to say Let's complain about her since she's not here She said I did I did just like give you a perfect alu for this. So go ahead

She's been she's been gone since basically she got this dog, and then she said she would have had adopted by the time I got back from tour, okay? Well then, and then she was like, oh, well my sister had a baby, I have to go, I said I'd always go take care of her and the baby, so I'd be gone, what seems indefinitely, and also the dog didn't get adopted, whoopsies, so now it's just me and this damn dog.

She just called me yesterday and went, hmm. So apparently my sister and her husband, that there's like some kerfuffle with like the daycare they were gonna use. So I volunteered to watch the baby when she goes back to work. So I think I'm gonna stay here until August. You know what?

August. August! Okay. Wait, so she's gonna be their nanny. Wait, hold on. Yes, she's gonna be their nanny. This is incredible. So hold on. Okay, I love this. This is like, she found the only possible,

more important thing to be doing. I know. Taking care of a child than taking care of a dog. It's like, Alison, you left me here with this dog. Yeah, but over here, there's a baby. And it's like, well, shit, how do you argue with that? And also I can't go like She even said oh if you want you could come like visit and like meet the baby And I was like how there's a fucking dog here that you love driving now

And you gotta buy a lot of accessories for the car because that dog is not gonna sit still So anyway, she's watching a baby. That's not hers. I'm watching a dog. That's not mine and also I'll see her maybe in the file I'm watching no one and I'm fucking living my life. It's wonderful. You know I'm watching a dog that's not mine and also I'll see her maybe in the fall. I'm watching no one and I'm fucking living my life. It's wonderful. You know, I'm very jealous. I'm going to New Orleans to get drunk. Have fun. So I'm really excited. You know what they don't teach you in school is how to do anything with your money that's

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Here is a spooky story for you this week. This is the Hotel Metlin. I don't know it, I just love hotels. And last week you did a schoolhouse and I'm like, oh my God, I love all these. Like, you know how I love an old building. Well, wait for this sentence and then tell me how you feel.

It's a historic hotel and one of the last standing landmarks of the old West. I mean, like that makes me wanna just cry. There you go, it's great. What's it called, the hotel what? Hotel Metlin. Metlin, okay. It's in Dillon, Montana. Oh, I was like, it's not familiar to me.

Fun fact, before the town was called Dillon, it was called Terminus. Oh, what do they think of? Why did they change it? What were they thinking? Well, four months after they named it Terminus, they went, we need to change it. So they changed it to Dillon. It was ahead of its time, is what you're saying. It you know it is very Terminator yeah it is it feels very futuristic yeah it was so the town was renamed after Sydney Dylan who coordinated bringing a railroad into town and as you know in

the 1800s that was the biggest thing you could do for a city that's where it was at so that's why it's named Dylan because he was like, we should bring a railroad in here. I'll do all the nitty gritty and it'll show up. And that's his name. That's his name. Gotcha. So before Hotel Metlin, there was the Corinne Hotel. And I haven't heard of one of these,

but I'm sure it was like a common thing. The Corinne Hotel was a traveling hotel. Huh? Apparently it's- That feels like it defeats the, that feels like a joke, like an April Fool's joke. It's like, just bring a tent then, you know? It's like, that's the hotel, right?

You're the hotel, so I don't, I'm traveling. You know what I mean? The Corinne Hotel was, I guess, like a pop-up, I think it was literally called a tent hotel. It was made, like the walls were just like canvas and cloth that they had just hung up. Oh. As like, to make walls. Like makeshift kind of?

Yeah, which like doesn't feel very secure. Someone could just walk right into your canvas square, you know? But so yeah, it was called the Corinne and it moved alongside the construction of the railroad workers. So as they would- Oh, that's really smart. Okay, okay. So as they would build a chunk of it, the Corinne hotel it moved alongside the construction of the railroad workers. So as they would- Oh, that's really smart. Okay, okay.

So as they would build a chunk of it, the Corinne Hotel would be there, then they would move to the next bus. So that way I guess they always- So whereas nowadays maybe people have like a tour bus or like a truck with a sleeping loft. It's like, oh, we had something that- We had one guy with a backpack full of canvas

and he would just follow us and draw out the same rooms. And we all have a lot of trust in one another, because we had to, that nobody would be poking around at each other's canvas. But also, like, why would you call it the Hotel Corrine? It sounds like it should be called, like, the Traveling Circus, or like, the tent next door. Barnum and Bailey's, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Junior.

I don't, yeah, I don't know why at all, but it sounds really makeshift and, like, kind of slapped together so the hotel the the current hotel its final spot was In Dylan, Montana, okay. Yeah. Yeah. And so the hotel Yeah, the final spot for the Corrine Hotel was where the was where Dylan was created in that spot on the railroad. But at some point while Hotel Corinne, or Corinne Hotel was up, it caught on fire, which it was made of fucking cloth.

So. Yeah, that was bound to happen eventually. And that was in the early 1890s that it burned down. I feel like burned down is like such a dramatic way of saying like, our shirts caught on fire. But. Yeah, yeah, the tent caught a flame. Yeah, so a few years later, a new hotel was built, I think because the railroad was finally like finished.

And so it's like, oh, well now the people are gonna be coming in here, you know, this tale as old as time. Now it's, we need the big train stop. So we should have a hotel right next to the train stop. Canvas squares, what are we gonna do? Well, enter Joe Metlin, and he was a local businessman, as they all are.

They all are. And as they all are, he wanted to build the main hotel of the city, so of course he put it closest to the train stop, and like all the others, he wanted to draw in people and he wanted it to be the most luxurious hotel with all the modern day fixings. Oh, you don't say.

I do, again, for the modern day fixings. Oh, you don't say. I do again for the 428th time. Okay, clarified, asked and answered. So it was originally called the Mettlen Hotel and Saloon, and it was built in 1898. And it is actually on the same spot that the Corinne Hotel used to be. Oh, so It was three stories. Some sources said it was up to 60 rooms. Some people said it was like up to like 40 or 50

They spent up to Again some sources between a 1 million and 3 million dollars today is what they spent on this hotel So say around 2 million. Yeah, we can average. Sure. It was over 30,000 square feet and it had a little tower on top, which is fun. Oh, I love a tower. As for the modern day fixings,

it also had plumbing, electric lighting, both hot and cold water. Oh my. Heated rooms because they had a radiator system. I like how you say hot and cold, even though it's cold and hot I say, hot and cold, even so. Don't fucking, sorry, cold and hot. There we go.

It's Montana. I feel like they probably had cold water right outside. Anyway, it's called the stream bitch. Yeah. And they also had, I guess, like weirdly thick walls. So it was better for insulation. Oh, okay. I was like, So that hot water was going nowhere.

Ah ha, I see. So anyway, a lot of hot and cold things are happening in this hotel. I love this. So exciting. The hotel also had an intercom call system, so each room had its own call button, and the original equipment is still installed into the wall. So I don't think it works anymore,

but if you go in, you can see it. Oh, you know, I love like an old little button that used to do something or a bell. You know what fucking gets me going is when we go to one of those hotels that has the old mail system where you can see the drop down on the wall. Oh, it's so cool. It gets me going.

It's so cool. I just love, I just want to live. I just want to be an old house. I always forget that like maybe it's actually still in use. And then I watch people put things in there and I'm like You just lost your letter. Oh, I what are you doing? No, I just mailed a postcard in there and it arrived at my home for Leona so I can confirm Not all of them, I guess but I asked the front deskers But yeah, that's really nice of you to have done that you could have just brought it home and then like shoved it in

Your own mailbox. Well, I did think of that but I This is gonna sound strange, but it was less likely that I would have remembered it to take it out of my backpack than it was to just... Mail it through an old system? But take the stamp from the front desk guy who was four feet away. He took it out of a drawer, handed it to me,

and I just put it in there. I said, hi, Leona. And I was like, that was easy. If mailing things was that easy, stamps.com. Just kidding. That's not as weird as you think it sounds. I also would have done that exact same thing. Okay, I was like,

cause usually I just ended up with all the postcards at home and I never mail them, but like it just felt special that Leona would get mail while I was gone. And so I tried, I tried for once, you know. That's precious. Thank you. Where were we?

Oh, this place is just full of electricity, great. By the way, fun fact, even the White House got electricity only six years before this hotel. Oh my God, this is giving such like, why does the schoolhouse get plumbing and I don't vibes. The way that that's been brought up in so many episodes recently, like everyone's got a toilet

except for like the average American. Yeah. And the president. And the president. On top of this building being a hotel and a saloon, there was also a shop in there. There was a small gambling hall. There was a restaurant and there were bars.

So I think it was like the classic 1800s hotel next to a train depot, where it's like this is a one stop shop for the entire town. And it was essentially trying to be like a public square. I know what you're getting. Yeah. So in the 1980s, really time traveling almost 100 years later, this place is officially on the National Register of Historic Places. But as the railroad system became more obsolete

and there were other ways to travel, less people would check into the hotel, less people were coming through. So the hotel, as a hotel closed in 2008, but the bars and the accoutrements stayed open. You just couldn't sleep there anymore. So the bars are still open and they have like a dance floor. The website like really boasts that they have like

karaoke Thursdays and pool and foosball. Love a foosball. Love a foosball. The hotel rooms for a moment transitioned into apartments but I don't think that's the case anymore. I think now they're just empty but they maybe like rent them out to like staff of the bars. Ooh yeah, I'd be curious to see what's in some of the ones

that haven't been touched in a long time, you know? Like some that have just been kind of left. Oh yeah, I'd be curious to see what's in some of the ones that haven't been touched in a long time, you know? Like some that have just been kind of left. Oh. I will say some of them have been renovated and one of them was renovated to look exactly like the original hotel rooms in the 1890s. Ah! I knew you would have that response.

Ah! Give me also the intercom, please. I would love if they had like, even just like a reenactor, like press the call button. I was gonna say, like, I don't even want to talk to anyone. Like, don't let anyone answer it. Remember that time at that hotel in Toronto? I just wanna watch.

You remember the hotel in, it was Toronto or Vancouver? I think it was Vancouver, I forget. But we were at the hotel and you, we took a photo and you were wearing your like, insane, it was Vancouver, I forget, but we were at the hotel and you, we took a photo and you were wearing your like insane, it was Vancouver, you were wearing your insane like Canada superhero outfit. And we were sitting in those chairs and like, I think you picked up the phone and it was like front desk

or one of us did. And we like immediately hung up and then they called the number back and we all stared at the phone like, we didn't think it would work. Like we were like such Gen Z nonsense. Like for old millennials, we were kind of like staring at the phone like,

I can't believe someone answered that. To be fair, you have to often press the front desk button. We didn't press a button. We just picked it up and they were like, hello front desk, what can we do for you? And we were like, Jesus Christ. Like as if, you know, I don't know. I don't know what we thought was gonna happen,

but it was very unsettling. Well, this place has an 1890s room, and I do wish that they would hire just one person. It's like a one-man show of a living history museum, and I wish they just made him just live in that room all day and I could just watch him. Oh, just to watch it, yeah. That would be so cool.

Well, the building had a lot of renovations done in 2011. That's the last time it did. And it reopened at that moment as the Hotel Metlin. But here's the thing, still didn't reopen as a hotel. It just got renovations done, I think, so like structurally, it could remain as a bar and remain as like a dance floor. So it's still a defunct abandoned hotel. It just has other buildings attached to it or other businesses attached to it.

But that's kind of it for the history. So as for the ghosts, they say that there's a spirit of a man upstairs who has told off investigators he doesn't like. They've gotten EVPs of like, fuck you, get out the classics. The usuals. The usual. Speaking of usuals, who could I possibly mention as a ghost? Here's a lady in white. Hey!

She is seen at the bar. She's seen floating on the dance floor. She's really vibin'. Love that. Apparently she's very peaceful and vibey and smiles and is kind. You never know. Wait, was she a woman in red or white?

I forget. White. Oh, okay. I was gonna say with a woman in red, you never know what you're gonna get. I know. A woman in white is usually pretty chill, I feel. I feel like she doesn't even know that she's a trope at this point.

Right. She's just living her life. She's living it. Lady in red? Lady in red wants the attention, for sure. She knows what she's doing, yeah. She's sultry. Yeah, oh, big time.

She's the salsa dancer on the emojis. Now you understand what I'm saying. I fully do. People have seen her also in bathroom mirrors. Yikes. And she's also been seen directly above the bar, which happens to be room 19. So I think they think room 19 is haunted.

When it seems like- I saw you went like above the bar, like she stands on the bar and I was like, I had her pegged all wrong. She's actually Spider-Man. She just crawls around. The Lady in Red's going to be dance on the bar, but here comes Lady in White just climbing on up,

proving me completely wrong. You know, I don't understand what it is that she like teleports only like vertically. Yeah. But apparently people see her in room 19. And I wonder if the room above room 19 also has activity Could be interesting. Yeah, maybe that's just her little plot of land. She just likes the up and down of it all I get it In the back bar

There's a second woman and she has a black bonnet on and people think that she might be the previous owner's wife still supervising the building Um, and then there's also an apparition favorite, of a man in a cowboy hat. Oh, you know, I love it. I mean, I was hoping with Montana. I would hope that he's the one that people would see in that reenactment we've discovered that we created. Yeah, yes, that we invented in our heads. It does not exist.

Yeah, absolutely. I hope he just takes his hat off and hangs it on the hook and he just sits there and does a deep breath. He just goes, after all this travels. Imagine the boots, one at a time. Oh, the boots. Really nice, really nice stuff. The boots. Really soothing and smoothing.

For some reason it is, though. People also smell cigar smoke in the bar area, but also it's a bar area, so maybe it's like present day smoke. Yeah, it could just be like when you sit on the cushion and it like poofs. Yeah. Out of air. Like on a school bus and like all the old residual dust.

Ew. Ew. Yeah. Gross. Well, people have also had items go missing. They've had items moving on their own. People have literally seen items levitating a couple of times. People have heard voices stomping,ating a couple times. People have heard voices stomping, knocking, spurs scraping the floor, furniture dragging, and then the doors not only opening and closing but locking and unlocking themselves first. I don't love that. I hate that. Yeah. My favorite. One employee found a bunch of stakes that he just put in the freezer,

placed themselves down the hallway. Wait, on the floor? Like he just put in the freezer, placed themselves down the hallway. Wait, on the floor? Like he put them in the freezer and a couple minutes later he was walking down the hall and all the steaks were on the hallway floor by themselves. What? The fuck? Disgusting. Also like now nobody can eat any of that steak.

Now it's like, what the fuck? Now what do I do? That's a lot of expensive food. And it was elk steak. You know that was expensive. That shit is definitely very expensive, even in Montana. One group decided to use a Ouija board here, of course. And the first thing they got on the Ouija board

was, I don't want you here. OK. OK. Very direct. Noted, yep. This one is my favorite. This is super creepy. A group was in that little tower I mentioned.

They were in the tower room. And when they went in, all the windows were closed. By the time they left, they noticed that all the windows had quietly opened themselves and no one had noticed. I just got chills. Isn't that disgusting? Horrible. And the fact that like nobody heard it, it it's probably not a big tower, right? Like, you know? No, it's not.

It's like a room. But also, how weird is that? The, like, it just got chills. I know me too. Why? I don't know. That's just creepy. But you know that whoever did that, did that thing where, like, it put blinders on them

so they wouldn't even notice. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Didn't want them to know. Kind of. Or it just, like, happened without movement. It just, like, they just, like, shifted, you know, in time and space. Gross. Although eerie, as many of these activities are, according to interviews with the press,

people who work here have said that the ghosts are mostly kind. Mostly? Well, that's a concerning word. However, the third floor is said to have darker energy. In fact, the third floor has been closed off and locked up padlocked for decades. Allegedly, because it's so haunted that it wasn't safe for people to go into. It's like they I guess had access they could go in if they needed to to like change smoke detectors or whatever, but they just padlock it for like all kinds of purposes.

Hey, it's super not safe and bad in here. Oh, but you are an electrician or you need to change the light bulb. You're an admin. You need a ladder to stand on? Okay. Yeah, okay, bye. We're going to close the door behind you.

Imagine being the electrician and you watch them un-padlock the room first. And then they go, okay, go in. And then they're like, okay, go, and then they run away. Yeah, I feel like that's not good, nothing good. So anyway, they say, oh no, all the ghosts are fine. We don't have any like terribly scary experiences. However, the third floor allegedly is terrifying.

As long as it's like contained to a space that I can actively avoid, that's excellent. You know, like that's fine, that's fine. Well, guess who hears about this locked up third floor and has to check it out. Well, I wonder, who could it be? Hmm, well, let's just put it this way. You will be getting answers, answers, answers.

Ah! Finally. So, there's, so basically he, of course, is ZB, he shows up and he talks to the bar owner Who is still having to like hang out in this building all the time named Philly love that name. Oh, that's a cute name I think it's like probably for Phyllis or something, but Philly is cool So Philly is freaked out about the third floor and it's like I'm not going up there Of course that does not stop Zach from trying heavily. He's on one in this episode. Something's, his energy is crazy.

He's really pushy in a lot of ways. Oh no, he's already that at a base level. You know when he like mansplains, like there'll be a whole bit where the whole thing is him just mansplaining something to you. Like a dream is when the, do you think? But you know, he's explaining things that aren't necessary. And then at the end you're like nodding along like,

duh, and then two seconds later you're like, wait, I don't even think that's right. Like it's like, wait a minute, what are you even saying? There was a lot of that in here. Like he did a whole bit on like explaining how museums are like, I think he said museums are like a ghost hunter's dream because that's where you can access all the history

of any item. There's old artifacts inside it. Thanks. And then he talked about how ever, oh, he is some fishing analogy about how you can fish for attached. I anyway, he was in a different headspace this time around. Clearly. Um, so he's like, Philly, you have to go up to the third floor with me. And she's like, I'm literally not going.

And he was like, but you should, you have to. And she's like, I'm not going. They get to the second floor and Philly's like, yeah, well I was up here. I was cutting carpet in the hallway one time and then I saw this massive shadow behind me and I got so scared. I accidentally knicked myself with a knife. And then of course this is what he says after that. This is a quote. What we want to know is, is this something, oh sorry,

hang on. I have to get in my own head he doesn't speak total english so i have to like figure it out we haven't given you like the trailer you usually need your private trailer to like get in character i'm sorry okay so thank you imagine philly is just scared just like nictrity i mean it looked it sounded like it was a bad cut but still like those rug cutters like suck like they're like those exacta knife. Yeah, so you cut yourself out, okay. And you're also scared, yeah. What we want to know is, if this something influenced her to do so,

does it feed off pain and blood from the living? Whoa! Wait. Yeah. She didn't say I sliced my own knee open. She said she got scared, right? She made it sound, he makes it sound like she was possessed and like stabbed herself

with a box cutter. Like he's really, I mean, like it's one thing. Like we talk in hyperbole, we're Geminis, but like, man, sometimes he takes the truth and goes in a direction that I go. Does it feed off the blood and the pain of the living? Does it, Zach? What the fuck? You tell me. Go back to talking about museums for a second. I'm over this. And also stop asking hypothetical questions just because there's no real answer.

You're scaring everybody. So then the bar manager, not the owner, but the GM who just runs it, his name is Bailey. He said, this is actually very creepy. He said one time he was working the bar. It was a completely full night. It was popping. And then all of a sudden he sees this dark cloud come over him and then all of a sudden nobody's in the bar anymore.

What? And like as if time shifted and it only lasted for a couple of minutes. It sounds like he like blinked and all of a sudden everybody was back. But in a moment he was like in a liminal space of the bar being totally empty. And then they came back? Yeah. I thought it was like maybe he had had a fugue state or something and was dissociated for a few hours

and then it was just closing time. It might have been that. It wasn't clearly explained, but it's one of those two things, either of them I hate. It's not good. He then also said this, I'm sure, just like got Zach going all the way through, but Bailey said like, it's possible I was possessed.

You know Zach. You know why he said that? Cause Zach said like, it's possible I was possessed. You know Zach. You know why he said that? Cause Zach said, but is it possible though? But is it technically possible? Is it technically possible? And he said, I guess it's technically possible. And they said, nailed it. That's exactly what happened.

Oh, I didn't even think they would have shown that part. Okay. Sometimes they don't show it. Yeah, you would think they would cut all that out just so Bailey could say I was possessed. Exactly. But no, Zach literally said, do you think it's possible that that was a possession? And then Bailey said, I think it's possible.

He's a total nutter. He asks that every time, and then people are like, I don't think so. And he's like, but is it literally technically possible? And it's like, okay, are you a seventh grader? Zach also said, could this be, could the blood and the pain, could it be feeding off that? I bet he asked Philly, and Philly's like, okay, are you a seventh grader? Like, come on. Zach also said, could this be, could the blood and the pain, could it be feeding off that?

I bet he asked Philly and Philly was like, no, and then he just used it as a phrase later. But could it technically? No. Yeah, he was like, we'll just say it in a voiceover later when you're not in the room, so I can say that sentence. Somebody air just to write that down because it's really good, yeah. So Bailey's also been hearing growling in his room

because of course he lives here. And not only that, he's the only person renting a room right now in the whole building. God help me. So he sees himself as like the caretaker. Yeah. I think in one interview he did, he even said, like in The Shining. And I'm like, okay, come on. Yeah. So he lives there by himself and he started hearing growling in his room at night. So of course they have to investigate that as well. So back to Philly who owns the entire building I think right now. She says that the previous owner was her friend Dorothy. Dorothy also lived on the property at the time and died here in her room that she lived

in and she would also experience things. So even Dorothy knew this place was haunted. So Philly says one time before Dorothy died, I guess she had like a terminal illness. And Dorothy said, when I go, what's something that you want of mine to have? Like, what should I put aside for you? And Philly said, oh, Dorothy, when you go, I don't need anything.

I just want you to give me a sign that you're still with us. And Dorothy said, okay, I'll break a glass for you. And then a couple of days later, after Dorothy died in the room where Dorothy died of this building, um, Philly here is a glass slide itself all the way across the bar and then shatter. During this interview, the team even got an EVP that is like weirdly clear. And Philly was like, that's Dorothy's voice. Oh my God.

It's always so interesting to see people who knew the spirit. You know what I mean? Like who had actual lifetime experience. She did seem really actually freaked out. Yeah. Wow. That's crazy. Bailey, then the one who's living there right now,

he says that a night Dorothy actually comes to his dreams. Oh, good. She's busy. And Bailey says, Bailey says, like, I think she's saying thank you for taking care of the place now that I'm not here. Of course, Zach has to interject. He goes, well, you know, she's coming into your room and I know you shower up there. And who else? Oh, my. Who else knows what who knows what else you're doing up there and he's cut and she's coming into your room

What do you mean like the things any person does in there would stop being weird? So Poor Bailey was like I think she's just grateful. But yeah, like I'm trying to respect her memory. Don't make it weird so the next day they are back in the building and they're shown all these items that construction workers found inside the walls and during it's like coins in a cup and spurs which is interesting. But while they're looking at this stuff they actually heard a sound come from the area where these items were found. Zach makes a big, big deal about it and it's not that insane, but it's fun to watch.

You would have gotten a kick out of watching him like way over react. Oh, I would and I will later today. So don't worry. Well, by the way, if anyone wants to know, it was on Discovery Plus specifically it's season 16 episode seven, everywhere else it's a completely different number.

Okay. It always happens like that. I don't know why. Well, so while setting up for the night, Billy hears someone whisper in his ear his name, but he hears his name. Everyone hears a loud bang and then a scream, which is actually really creepy because they're all in the same room watching.

The scream is wild, yeah. They are all in nerve center together and watch it from a camera in the same room watching. The scream is wild, yeah. They are all in nerve center together and watch it from a camera in a different room. And you can hear like bang and then a scream. It's very creepy. Especially with like a bang or something, it's like you can always sort of write that off as like a car backfiring or like something falling,

but a scream is like obviously a distinctive human sound like that, unless it's something like a mountain lion, but it seems like probably not inside the hotel. I don't know, it's Montana. Maybe they have something. I mean, you know what? Good point. So Zach then feels something grab his arm and then they hear running above them.

And at the same time, the ovula says, ran, looked and found, as if they heard running, they looked, and then like, oh, you found me. Then the obvious says great Nana, which they think is a relative of Dorothy's and then they and then they get something moving on the thermal imager, which they think might be great Nana. I don't know. They make a big deal out of it. I don't really understand. Then this is a creepier part for me.

The ovula says malevolent and then it says the word closet and They make a big deal out of it. I don't really understand. Then this is a creepier part for me. The ovulus says malevolent and then it says the word closet. And Zach goes, if you're malevolent, then you know things about us. Like, can you tell us how old we are? And the ovulus immediately says 40. Immediately.

And Zach's like, I'm actually 39. Have you seen this fucking episode, Christine? Wait, no. Literally, okay. He literally, okay. I did the math. He literally even says this fucking episode, Christine? Literally, okay. He literally okay. I did the math He he literally even says in the episode he was born in 77 and this episode came out in 2016. He was 39 and and

He points at Aaron and like yells at him. It's like it's talking about you. You're the only one here. That's 40 You're the only one You're gonna be 40 like tomorrow, babe. It's fine. In like a day. But relax. God, what is his star sign again? Annoying.

That's what it is. Sagittarius. Is that right? I don't remember. It just feels like it is. No, not a Gemini. Thank God. I don't know.

Are you sure? I don't know anymore. I don't I don't think he's a Gemini. I think we would know. I think people would remember given a shit for that. Oh, of course. Scorpio. His birthday's April 5th.

He's a fucking Aries, of course. And we're recording this on his birthday weekend. Happy birthday. Happy 45th birthday. Happy 50th birthday, Zach. Happy birthday. So anyway, he hears 40. He assumes it's obviously not about him, even though he is like,

this ghost is rounding up to everybody's age. Like, fuck you. Yeah, it's like it's a machine. It has to just shut up. Yeah. So then they find a set of stairs up to a single room and Aaron is like, something feels really fucking bad here. And as they're all watching Aaron go up the stairs, because of course he's the one going up there, they hear a very loud crash nearby, and they realize something moved in the closet. The other word that the thing said. It was great Nana.

It was 40 coming up really quick. Oh, no! Grim Reaper's here. So, of course, Zach says, I mean, this is like, I really almost thought about making you watch the clip because- I mean, I feel like I already have sort of in my own subconscious mind somewhere. It's on another level, like versus what he usually is.

Like he was like, he clearly just did some pushups or something and the testosterone was really gone. Because he says after like, I mean, it was a loud fucking crash, by the way, like when I heard it, I jumped. It was a loud fucking crash that happened in the closet right as Aaron's going up the stairs. Zach goes, this is a quote, Let's all leave except Aaron. Honestly, it really feels like M on any ghost hunt we do.

It feels like you know, but full offense. Well, then Aaron says, I literally says, I don't want to. And Zach says, and I quote, face it, you want to, just try it. And then, and then has a voiceover. I feel we should also seal him in by padlocking the door so that his natural fear will attract the spirits even further.

Is that insane? Hey, bud, I hope you're really having further. Is that insane? Is he? Hey, bud, I hope you're really having some fucking introspective thoughts now that Aaron's been almost murdered by his own wife. Like, maybe take a minute and back the fuck off for a second, I don't know. Literally the next clip is Zack actually padlocking him in and Aaron didn't know

what was gonna happen. Like that's unhinged. Well, it's fully hinged, but you know what I mean. I totally know. And you can see Aaron like try to open the door and it's locked and he's freaking out. You can see him actually, like I've never heard him that scared. It's his natural fear.

It's his natural fear. And it serves as a beacon to demonic entities. You can hear him actually going, no, no, no, no, no. I don't wanna do this. And what's so wrong with that? And then Zach goes, what you're doing right now is gonna like bring the spirits out. He's fucking insane.

That's like not a good friend. No, it's not a good friend at all. No, it's not a good friend. Like he's clearly scared. Like it's not a bit. It's one thing to convince a friend, like go in there, I dare you. It's another thing to be like,

oh, you said you don't want to and you're upset and afraid. Why don't I lock the door? I mean, he's like, he's, it's not a bit anymore. Like, Aaron's fucking scared. Yeah, that's not funny, no. And then Aaron is like up there by himself doing a spirit box session.

He's like, I'm scared to have my back against any of the open rooms. Should I be scared? Spirit box immediately says yes. No. Aaron starts smelling sulfur. He starts seeing things. Like he thought that like they came back

and he was like, oh, you guys came back, and there was nobody there. He starts hearing a rumbling sound. I've never seen him so scared in any episode. He was actually like, I want out of here so bad. On his way out, they realize that there's a random bowl sitting in the middle of the floor, like a cereal bowl or something.

What? And they never put it there, and they're realizing the rumbling sound Aaron heard might've been it rolling towards him. Oh! Ew, I know exactly that sound. Yeah. Ugh, what the fuck? They then decide to go to Bailey's room,

because remember he was like, I hear growling. So they use your favorite, the paranormal puck. Ah ha, badass. Which lets you, I'm not kidding, text ghosts. Yeah, yeah, it's my favorite thing and it really works. Well, so they text, what, or do you like that Bailey lives here? And then they got a text back saying necessary.

Oh, interesting. So they've kind of come to that agreement at least, okay. They say, what is your name? They get the response, help. And then they say, how can we help? And then it said phone. And then they hear footsteps in the room, which seems to distract a lot of people.

Yeah, they're like, oh, the ghost is like, damn it. They ask what their name is and Puck says Karen. Then they get the words tub and crossover. So they think that someone named Karen died in the tub. OK, sure. I could say that Mad Libs. Yeah, it has no context to the rest of the story. And they made a big deal out of it. Then Zach apparently has woe is me, no energy and needs Aaron to lift him up

so they can go outside because he's like that kid at the sleepover that was sometimes me, where it's like, you're clearly just mad that no one's paying attention, or you feel left out, so you're going to act out. I feel like he does that so often. And I recognize it because it's something that I used to do, and I don't respect about myself. And I see it, and I'm like, that's, I know what you're doing. You just want more attention on you. It's just, wow.

I feel like there was one friend in my friend group that did that quite often growing up. And I remember thinking, you okay? What's going on there? Yeah, no. I mean, as someone who did it maybe once or twice and then was like, okay, this is actually not the way to be. Like, no, it's not. Yeah, it's definitely there's something something going on there. Well, Zach does and he's like, I can't get up, Aaron, help me. And then like he needs Aaron to lift him. First of all, Aaron's been through a lot. Let's put that way. Why do you need help getting up all of a sudden? Like after first of all, if my fucking friend padlocked me in the floor that I

was terrified of and he's like, help me up, I'd kick you again while you're down. I'd be like, yeah, I'll help you right back into the padlock you asshole yeah like get your fucking self up like talk about who whose energy should have been sucked out of their soul tonight me I was upstairs not you sitting here texting a ghost you're texting a ghost relax so then literally all of them I've never seen this happen but they were all too scared to go in the basement they were all too scared neither so they all know no I've never seen that either. Besides, no, no, I've never seen that. They literally, they're even laughing about it. They're like, I'm too fucking scared. So they decide that they're going to pull straws and

someone has to go down there by themselves. And guess what? Aaron is still part of this pool. Like, shouldn't he be exempt? Oh, he, no, he should get exempt. Yeah, he should be exempt for sure. Well, so Jay has to go down. Okay, I was going to say if Aaron pulls it, it's bullshit. I don't believe this for a fucking second. Okay, at the very least. On the way into. Okay, I was going to say if Aaron pulls it, it's bullshit. I don't believe this for a fucking second. Okay, at the very least. On the way into the basement, I don't know what Jay's deal was. He was acting like something was up,

but I also feel like maybe he was trying to dramaticize it so he didn't have to go in the basement. I mean, he's not usually on camera solo either, so I wonder if he's like, okay, here's me going solo. Yeah. He's not usually the only character on screen. Well, so Jay has to go, and on the way into the basement,

two different times in the dark, he like falls because it's so dark, he doesn't know where he's going. Because it's so haunted. Well, he's acting like he fell and like broke his shoulder or something, cause he falls and he goes like, and I'm like, what's your deal? Like you could get up. Are you, are you on your deathbed?

But so yeah, he was acting like he had the flu and had to go to work or something. But so he falls on the way to the basement, then he gets in the basement, falls again in the basement. And at some point, like they're just like, whatever, this guy's like either faking it or doesn't want to be down there or like can't fucking see. So then the last thing you hear on the episode is a voiceover from Zach going, you can only watch a man fall down so many times before throwing in the towel. He's such a dick. He's such an asshole. Didn't volunteer to like take a spot or anything.

Like what? You are just falling over and making your friends carry you. Like it's not more impressive. He's like, oh, help me get up. That man fell, throw in the towel. Yeah, please. Anyway, that is the Hotel Metlin. That was bananas. I can't believe I don't.

I mean, maybe I mean, probably I did watch that episode at some point during a drunken state with you because it's just or maybe I just know his maybe I'm like an AI bot that was fed like 40 episodes and I can spit out a script you know what I mean? It was weird how accurately you predicted multiple things. I know I like to think it's because I've seen it but it might also just be I just know I know too much. It was odd I feel like next time I should just give you a like a a blank slate and when I say there was an episode what happened and you just tell happened and we can add libs it a little bit and I'll try To fill in the blanks. Yes, please. I

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We used to, and I will say with an old house especially, everything's still kind of like cramped and not, you know, insular. And so when you do have a litter box stink, oh, it makes itself known. It makes its presence known. Everyone knows. Yeah, everyone knows. So we moved the litter box all around the house,

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I know. What happened? I thought you had a limit, Christine. It's my fault. How did you discover this? What happened? So what happened is that I was texting with Searcher about potential ideas and I'd gotten some feedback

on Reddit and stuff just about what people, well, I wasn't getting feedback, but I was just reading what people were interested in and I was like, oh, those are some ideas I hadn't thought of because a lot of people said, oh, the really popular cases that, and I don't pick the popular cases on purpose, I just kind of pick what interests me, but this one I found on a sub-Reddit that was basically what are some cases

that are less well known that you still haunt you? And I will say this one, and so I gave that subreddit, or at least that thread, sorry, to Saoirse and said like, hey, let me know if anything here is of interest. And then they picked this story and I went, well, shit, I should have done a better vetting process. But no, then they like oh I don't have to cover it and I was like no it's fine I do know the story already. There is actually a really good movie about this that I rewatched and it's a classic unfortunately because it's one of the earliest true crime stories I remember learning about, but it's not good.

It's really, I mean, it's really bad. Okay, great. Any, I mean, not that I feel weird saying trigger warning with like every episode is technically a trigger warning. Yeah, I know, and I never know what to do there. This is basically my trigger warning upfront to say it's- Everything? It's not everything, no, but it's just,

it's definitely not everything. It's... It's just sad. Okay, well, I'm glad that... I don't know a better way to say that it's just sad. It's not necessarily very graphic or anything like that. It's just sad. And there's not really...

I mean, they're all... See, this sucks, because, like, of course, they're all see this sucks because like of course they're all sad I don't mean that yeah you don't want to compare stories but this one is more intense than this one maybe it's more upsetting just because it's like it's of a different caliber than maybe what you usually yeah yeah the the jokes have stopped for the episode is what you're saying no something funny happens okay? Something funny happens? Okay, great. Nothing funny happens, but there are definitely some spots where we can take a breather, I promise.

Okay, sure. I'm gonna just jump right into it. This is a story of Andrew Bagby. Okay. David Bagby, we're starting with his dad, David Bagby. He met his wife, Kate, in Long Beach, California in 1967. He was finishing up his naval service and was ready to go to school for engineering. Meanwhile, Kate was only in the US temporarily, or so she thought. She had left her home in England to tour the world as a nurse,

and she was going to end up back in England, that was the plan, as a midwife. But one day, while in Long Beach, California, she and a friend decided to go to Disneyland. They didn't want to pay for the tickets. Who does? So they found two guys, two cute guys who would be willing to pay for their tickets. And so she ended up on a blind date with David. Okay. You know what? That's a great story though. But also ready? Ready? Last part. Oh. They were married five months later. Oh. Isn't that nice?

Although I do like that her version of the story is like, I was using him for money. Oh yeah, but I love that they knew that. They were like, will you guys pay for our tickets? And they're like, sure, if you come along with us. That's awesome. And they're like, it's a deal. Yeah, and so I thought that was very sweet

and they did get married five months later and David did go to school for engineering. They did have some trouble conceiving and they went through a few fertility treatments but they had their son Andrew in September of 1973. He grew up as a pretty boisterous kid. He did get in trouble sometimes in class but as he got older he relaxed a bit and he ended up getting really close with several of his classmates and he discovered an outlet really close with several of his classmates, and he discovered an outlet in acting.

So he had a best friend named Kurt who had a video camera, like the old school. And this is 80s, 90s. So he is acting in his friend Kurt's videos. This is like one of his favorite outlets. And Andrew, at this point, he's a teenager. He's not in any more trouble like he may have been as a young kid.

He loves playing. His favorite role to play in Kurt's films is the villain. And he finds it a good excuse, he said, to curse and smoke. And then he said, in the name of art, you know? You know what? I love that he's just already becoming like a shitty Brooklyn-ite film producer. Yeah, the Brooklyn, I know.

It's just perfect. It's so good. Like a hipster film junkie. Yes, it's like you're going to Emerson soon. No fancy, but I love Emerson. So David and Kate, his parents became sort of like second parents to a lot of his friends. And the parents even ended up acting alongside Andrew

in Kurt's movies sometimes. So like when they needed grownups to play a part in the film, they would have Andrew's parents do it. So it was just kind of cute. They were very, very close. Andrew's house was a social hub. His friends felt forever welcomed there and loved there.

He, his dream in life was to become a doctor. And so when he finished his degree in biological sciences and didn't get into his first choice med schools, he was pretty disappointed. Instead, he kind of took a beat. He focused on his relationship with his fiance, Heather Arnold. He got a job. He worked until it was another year and he could apply to medical school again. And this time, 1996, he accepted an offer at Memorial University of Newfoundland in St. John's, Newfoundland. Wow, cool. Yeah, so this was over 4,000 miles away from his home in California. And he would have to move to an island off Canada's east coast, you know, Newfoundland.

And Andrew was really excited. He was like, you know what, this is a new journey for me. Medical school went well, but once he started, within about a year, he and Heather called off their engagement. It was just too hard to do long distance, especially at 4,000 miles. And, you know, he's in med school. It just fell apart. Yeah, makes sense. Yeah.

Heather actually ended up moving in with Andrew's parents while she decided what to do next, because they were engaged. So she had already planned out that like, they would be living together. Yeah, so she moves into his parents' home and they're all fine. Like everyone gets along.

David actually later wrote that she became like a daughter to them and so you know she lived in the house for a while and Heather decided she wanted to study medicine too and meanwhile Andrew is excelling at med school and although they agreed that they had done the best thing by breaking up, Andrew still kind of struggled socially to adjust. And when she started dating again, she could tell it bothered him. And she was kind of like, he's not totally on stable footing yet.

That's why she was thrilled when she found out that he was seeing a fellow doctor. Her name was Shirley Turner. And Heather was just happy that he had found somebody else, you know, to date because she was seeing new people. Shirley had been born in 1961 and she lived in Kansas until she was seven years old when she moved to Newfoundland with her mother. According to Shirley's friends, she grew up in abject poverty alongside three siblings, but she worked her ass off and earned her way into medical school with a very fierce intelligence and determination. Some people even called her the smartest

person they knew. But being very smart she still struggled with kind of the social aspect, so professional relationships, personal relationships. She was twice divorced, she had three children who all lived with their fathers, and she also had a reputation among her friends for romantic troubles and also butting heads with like platonic friends, so classmates and colleagues. She just was someone who people described as hard to get along with, hard to...

Not for him though. Not for him. One supervising physician, for example, said that Shirley lied often and displayed manipulative behavior. In a statement they said, she could be charming, friendly, and lively, but when caught in an untruth, she would become angry, accusatory, and loud. The next bullet says, Andrew thought she was fun. All right, have fun, Andrew. And like, he's 28, right? So it's like, whatever.

He's in his 20s. By the way, she's 40 at this point, so she's 12 years older. Yeah. So that definitely like changes that dynamic a bit. But he told his parents, don't worry. I know she's been divorced twice, but she's sworn off marriage. We're just having fun. It's just super casual.

And none of Andrew's friends thought badly of Shirley, but they did find her to be a bit much, a bit overwhelming at times. Okay. I'll give you some examples. She once called Andrew's parents home while he was back in California visiting them. And when she found out he wasn't home, she talked at his mother for an hour about her childhood,

her financial struggles, her family relationships, her past divorces. And this is, to Kate, like her son's just like casual girlfriend that is- Yeah, like hookup buddy. A hookup friend, like a casual, casual relationship. So was she under the impression that they were more? And like she was like trying to like get to know

her future mother-in-law or some shit? No, I think she just didn't have any boundaries. I think she just didn't comprehend the idea of like- Couldn't read a room. Couldn't read a room, exactly. So she called the house again later to speak with David and had basically this same hour-long conversation with him. And this is Andrew's father. So like now she's doing this to her husband. It's weird. You know, by the way, that that husband, he was like laughing his butt off

that like the wife got trapped on this phone. And then all of a sudden he got trapped and the wife was like, have fun, I'm out. Yeah, and she's like, oh really? Well, actually he's free for the next hour. Here you go. And so apparently she did the same thing and he had to like make up a lie

about getting off the phone to just hang up. She also stayed twice at Andrew's parents house, but not with Andrew. Like she went traveling with friends. Was she invited or did she just show up? I think she just asked to stay there and they were like, I mean, okay. And so she visited and during those visits, Kate and David noticed that she would experience these like really intense highs and lows that were unpredictable, like really big mood swings. She had a really bad temper. According to David, while they were staying at his house, she once got so angry at her friend at dinner that she stormed off and left the table.

And then Kate later found her sobbing in the bathroom crying to a stranger that she'd never met. Oh, she's got something going on for sure. She just lacks all emotional boundaries. She seems to unload her stress on everyone she comes into contact with. And so, of course, as we can probably predict, as time goes on, Andrew's friends

start getting worried about this, because they're like, why are you with this person? Well, also, because it's like, I never know, and she's just going to show up and ask me for a place to stay or talk my head off. Exactly. It's like, she's not a great person to have around, and she's like, I never know when she's just going to show up and ask me for a place to stay or talk my head off. Exactly. It's like she's not a great person to have around and she's certainly not like a great partner romantically. And also you would you would think like if it were the 40 year old

doing the 28 year old and the 28 year old was having these things, you might be like, oh, you have some growing to do. But like you're a more immature partner in the group. But when the 28 year olds are all getting together, being like this 40 year old has something going on, like that's an extra bad sign. So it's like, shouldn't you? If we know you should know like he's still in med school. She's an established doctor.

You know, it's like she's gone through all the stuff that kind of you do as your as your coming of age and the stress of med school and all that. And yeah, apparently she just was not a fun person to be around. So his friends start getting worried. At first they just found her annoying, but eventually they were like, okay, there's something clearly wrong here.

So Andrew, meanwhile, has finished school. He's begun training as a surgeon in New York. And he decided during this time that surgery in New York was not he decided during this time that surgery in New York was not for him. It was just way too much. So he ended up moving to the town of Latrobe, Pennsylvania. And he did his residency training there in family medicine.

And this is what his calling was. Like this is, he thought, okay, surgery was not my bag, but family medicine, you know, set hours, seeing the same patients, he just really loved it. So he thrived here. And just like he had in California and in New Finland, he made friends in Latrobe with classmates, with colleagues, and they really, really got along great. Everyone loved him. People gravitated toward Andrew, he was kind, funny, creative, generous. One friend said in an interview, he wasn't a saint, but he was a hell of a guy, which I love.

Okay. You know what, that's exactly the type of people I want to be friends with anyway. Doesn't it feel like, wow, that must be someone fun to invite over for a good-o'-party? It's like, you don't gotta be perfect, but you gotta be fun. Yeah. Gotta be interesting, right? Yeah. So despite all this, Andrew struggled a lot immensely with his self-esteem. His friends told him that Shirley

just didn't seem like a good match. Like they were so gentle and like kind with him and said, you know, we just don't think that she may be right for you. And he said, yeah, I don't know if she is, but I don't think I would find anyone better. And they said, you know, you're young, you have so much, you're a doctor,

like come on, you know, but he just kept saying, I don't know, I don't feel like it's worth breaking up with her. Interesting. Yeah, it's kind of strange. And this whole time, Shirley was living and working in Iowa and they were actually having a long distance relationship. Occasionally they traveled together to events, like if Andrew's friends were getting married, he would invite her as his date. And that was especially important because Andrew tended to be everybody's best man because he was that friend, right? Where it's like, oh, yeah, which I kind of love.

If there were even couples who were not engaged yet, who had asked if he would be their best man when they got married. Yeah, so he was a good guy. He was just a kind of friend that people knew they could rely on and just trust implicitly and have their back. But Shirley, meanwhile, became increasingly at odds with Andrew's friends

and she started to cross some major boundaries. Not that she already hasn't. Right, but like what the hell is a major boundary if all the other ones have been crossed? So she started calling his ex-fiance Heather, remember the one who like lived in the house, and to talk about her sex life with Andrew for like just to call randomly out of the blue

and just go on and on about- What is this fucking person's problem? It's out there, dude. And Andrew started to get uncomfortable, obviously, and said, hey, I'm just gonna pull back a bit. He started distancing himself, and we know what happens. Shirley clung tighter and... Didn't like that. Didn't like it and freaked out.

So if Andrew didn't pick up the phone when Shirley called, for example, she would call him 30-plus times. I mean, it's harassment, you know, she won't leave him alone. She calls him 30 plus times on his cell phone, his landline, she leaves dozens of voicemails. Andrew was like, you know what, this is too far. There's no coming back from this.

So he decided he would need to break things off with Shirley in person, firmly, once and for all. So good guy, he wants to do it in person, face to face. Couldn't be me. Couldn't be me. I did it in a letter. So I was gonna say, I've done it in a letter too. And this was in the age of texting.

So you know what? That says something. So in November, 2001, he made this plan. Shirley was visiting him in La Trobe. And as they, this has happened to me on the receiving end, as they got to the airport and she was about to board her flight, he broke up with her. And yeah, yeah. And she left. She flew home to Iowa and Andrew felt relieved because he was like, okay, I did it. Like I pulled off the bandaid. I feel like she tapped the pilot on the shoulder in the air and went turn this fucking thing on Yeah, yeah. Hey, I've just had an idea. Yeah

so Two days later on November 5th. Andrew was at work and he told his supervisor dr Clark Simpson that surely had shown up at his house that morning at 5 a.m Just shown up in Latrobe at his doorstep from Iowa. So she did take a turn. She literally tapped the pilot and said, turn the fuck around. She said, flip a bitch. Let's go. He said, no, thanks. And then he looked back at her and went, oh, she means business. So they went back. So showed up at.

So hang on. So like his like supervisor's house, basically. No. So he was at work and he told his supervisor. So the reason we know all this is because his supervisor, his name was Dr. Clark Simpson. Dr. Simpson basically relayed the story later to say, oh, he came to work. He said that she showed up at 5 a.m. on his doorstep. And apparently Dr. Clark or Dr. Simpson said,

hey, I don't feel good about this. Don't go home to her. Like this something's off. You broke up with her. She shouldn't be at your house, right? Yeah. And he said, I don't think she's up to any good. And he said, why don't I go with you?

Like, I'll just join you. And he said, either don't go or I'll join you. Go with somebody else or maybe we call the police. But Andrew said, oh my gosh, no, it's no big deal. I'm just gonna meet Shirley at a bar after work and then I'll meet you at your place at Clark's place to the doctor. I'll meet you for a debrief afterward. But of course, Andrew never showed up at Clark's home that evening. He also didn't show up for work the next morning. And that was when Clark knew something had gone terribly wrong. He called Andrew and left a voicemail saying, I'll stop by your house in five minutes and beat the piss out

of the door. Cause he was so freaked out that something happened. Especially after like saying, oh, I'll come with you. And then just letting him go on his own. He must be like kicking himself. Right. Yeah. And not that it's his fault, but it just could have been a little bit. Anyone would feel that. So Andrew was never late. This was so unusual. His colleagues immediately were feeling dread. Then the news is on the TV in the break room and they see that a man was found dead in

a nearby state park. They already feel anxious about this and then they learn new information that the man was found dead in a nearby state park. They already feel anxious about this and then they learn new information that the man was found wearing medical scrubs. And that's when they all kind of assume they know who this is. So they're all gathered in the conference room soon after at the hospital and their supervisor tells them, Andrew is dead. He's been killed. And he is only 28 years old at this point. Right. So Clark immediately knows what happened,

because he's the one who said, hey, don't go home. She seems dangerous, right? Yeah. So he immediately calls the police and tells them that Shirley had something to do with this, or he thinks she does, because she came up to his house after they broke up and out of the blue. And so, of course, police immediately question her.

And pretty immediately, I mean, I don't think that this woman is very discreet. They pretty immediately know something's wrong. Like she's done something. Like they like meet with her and they're like, oh, she's like a little bit out there. She definitely has something to do with it. You just get a vibe when people have like that intensive energy,

especially when it's about someone they murdered. It's like, oh, that especially. Yeah, that especially is like, why are you even here in this town? Like you're not even supposed to be here. You know, this is all red flags. So what they do is they gather evidence to file an arrest warrant. But guess who fled to Canada real quick? It was Shirley. Because even though she was living in Iowa at the time, she was like, I'm no idiot. I know it's coming. Yeah, exactly. So she she fled to Newfoundland where she had grown up. And Kate

and David meanwhile, are absolutely horrified. You know, this is their only child. They've just adored him forever. Not that any parent is any different. Yeah, it's okay. You know, it's just to give you an idea. They're completely shocked. Like this is, I mean, they probably have heard that he broke up with his girlfriend and they're probably just relieved that he dumped her. And now it's like, wait, he's dead two days later. I mean, it's just shocking. So apparently they were so grief-stricken

that they actually both discussed dying by suicide. Once they had- Oh my God. Yeah, they both agreed to join suicide. Yeah. Because they were like, we don't know how to live without our son, you know? Yeah.

So his colleagues in Pennsylvania signed up for shifts to bring, and these are his colleagues in Pennsylvania. They haven't met his parents, you know, back in Long Beach, but they just loved him so much. Yeah. That they signed up for shifts to bring Kate and David Meals.

They had somebody always sitting with them. That's so sad. I mean, like, that's very warm and touching of like the community to be there for them, but that's, I mean, it's still, to even have to go through it. Just feels even just so empty because it's just so dark of a situation.

Just like so incalculable of a loss. And the hospital itself was in mourning. There were actually patients who had started signing up for waitlists to be one of his patients. Like that's how much... Yeah, he was like beloved in every community he was in. And I don't just say like he lit up a room, but he actually did, even though he was still in training, like he wasn't, you know, officially out of medical training yet, but out of residency yet. But he had earned this reputation as somebody very smart, but also very compassionate. And people were so grief-stricken by his death

that they actually had four different memorial services in different parts of the world. There was one in Latrobe, there was one in California, there was one in Newfoundland and one in England. And some of Andrew's ashes were also spread in England where he had spent many summers with his mother Kate's family and some were spread in Missouri where he spent with his dad's family. So he just had a lot of people out there who were devastated by this loss. On December 12th, Shirley was arrested in Newfoundland due to evidence of her involvement in Andrew's death. Shirley initially told US investigators

that she was homesick in Iowa on November 5th and hadn't spoken to Andrew at all that day. But then they looked at her cell phone records and they were like, oh, well, that's weird. It says that you went from Iowa to Chicago on November 4th and you were headed Southeast, so where were you going? And it was very clear she traveled through Indiana, she made more phone calls from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania

on the morning of November 5th, which is only 45 minutes from Latrobe. So like, she said I was home in Iowa, she's 45 minutes away from, she's in Pittsburgh, like she's lying. So Andrew had told his supervisor, Clark, and his friend that she was at his home that morning at 5 a.m.

And police discovered that she had actually logged into her own eBay account from his home computer that day. Oh, well okay, that oughta do it. Yeah, that oughta do it. That night she made a call from Cleveland, Ohio. So she was, that's several hours from Pittsburgh. So she was clearly going back towards her home after presumably doing something horrible to Andrew.

Yeah. On Tuesday, November 6th, which was the day after Andrew was killed, she was back in Iowa. And then she finally called Andrew's phone from Council Bluffs and said, hey, on the voicemail, just let me say hi, haven't heard from you in a few days, love you, bye.

So how much time was that in between? So that call came the day after he was killed. So she drove all the way down. And then they made the phone call as if like nothing ever happened. Killed him, drove up through Cleveland back home And then they made the phone call as if like nothing ever happened killed him drove up Through Cleveland back home and the next day called and have you brought it up yet how he died like what was the way? I am about to let you know yes, so as for evidence

Just after 6 p.m. on the night Andrew was killed, a man walking in Keystone Park saw Andrew's car parked beside a dark SUV that matched Shirley's vehicle's description. Andrew had been murdered with a small 22 caliber gun. He had been shot repeatedly. And guess who owned a 22 caliber gun? Not Shirley. Certainly.

That's what she told everyone. Shirley, say it ain't so, Shirley couldn't be Shirley. It was Shirley. She owned a 22 caliber gun and an unused bullet was found at the scene. Shirley had a shooting instructor who told police that Shirley's gun sometimes malfunctioned and ejected unused bullets.

Okay. Shirley had completed three lessons with this instructor, the final taking place just shortly before Andrew's murder. And when Shirley knew that investigators had caught her in a lie about her whereabouts, she was like, oh, well, you can take my gun. I promise it has nothing to do with it. But then she was like, oh, wait, no, actually, I forgot.

I actually don't have it on me right now because I fled to Canada and I don't know where it is. Okay. Also, ask someone who knew that... So, okay. If she knew she had a malfunctioning gun, you think she would have at least looked around for the bullet to make sure?

For an unused bullet? That's such a good point. And on top of that, so was she getting shooting classes to shoot him? Probably. It sounds like she was literally trying to shoot him, like, like, like preparing for it, because in my mind, it's like, oh, she had it. She just snapped one day and it happened.

But this sounds like it was fully planned. The fact that she drove and the fact that she drove from her home all the way down and drove back the same day, like it just feels like she had a lot of time to think about not bad news. Yeah. And the fact that she brought a gun, took shooting lessons days before the murder, like I mean, it really does track that this was... Yeah.

Like ahead of time. This was not a, because with everything else you've told me so far, I have been prepared for you to say like, oh, he said he wanted to get back with his ex or he tried to break up with her for good, and then she just went, like her eye twitched and it was over. Like a passionate, yeah, no.

It's like she got on the plane and said, all right. And he said, okay, great. We've passed. And that's so scary too. It's like for someone to be like, oh, I'm devastated, but okay, I understand. And then to show up at your doorstep at 5 a.m. two days later and you're like, I'm going to work.

Yeah. And then later that day they fucking kill you. It's just so scary. So she says she doesn't have the gun. In Newfoundland, she's released on bail, which was promised to be paid to the court system by her psychiatrist, but fun fact, not actually paid. So his name is Dr. Doucet, and he comes back here.

So he's a former colleague of hers, and he promises he will pay for her bail. She gets released, and she also had to turn in her passport, right, because she's clearly like a flight risk. So she has to also check in weekly with the Royal Newfoundland Constabulary. Constabulary? Is that the right word? I don't know.

I've never heard that word. Yeah, no. Constabule, constabulary. And promise, it makes you want to add another syllable. It doesn't. Constabulinary, like add in one more syllable. Constabulatory. Yeah, constabulatory.

That feels right. That feels right. Ocon, trar-ic-y. Yeah. Ocon-trer-y. Yeah. So, constabulary, I believe. And promise not to leave the area.

I love that. They're like, you just have to promise you won't leave. You think you promise. It's fine. Just give us your word. We know you're good for it. We trust you. Yeah.

So, she was free pending hearings for her extradition to the US. When at a press conference, please note it was at a press conference on February 7, 2002, she announced to the world that she was four months pregnant with Andrew's child. Oh, for fuck's sake. It just gets worse, okay? Yep. David and Kate are just overjoyed. They have something now to live for. Sure, but also now you have to like, but like the mother of your grandchild's a murderer. Right, but they literally feel like, oh, we don't have to end our own lives.

Like we don't, they felt like there was no way out with suicide. And now they're thinking, you know what? We have a reason to live. Literally, that's that was how they saw it. They said we have to protect this child from his mother. I would have I would have been so I mean, yes, I understand that side of it. But I also would be terrified for myself, because I'd be like, for the next 18 years, I have to like wonder if like if this is going to affect him. She's on like she's on trial for murder. So it's like oh well

Oh, right, presumably like you're right. The grandparents will have some hopefully some sway and So they they jumped on this chance and they thought you know what we we gotta at least fight for this kid, right? It's like you said it's gonna be real bad if we just let this woman raise this long road Yeah, yeah. And so they felt finally they had like a new mission, something to live for. And they left everything behind. They used all of their financial resources to relocate to Canada, to Newfoundland, and fight for custodial rights as grandparents.

Wow. Months passed filled with monotonous court sessions. And then they kept repeatedly delaying Shirley's extradition to the US, you know, it just goes on and on and on. And Zachary ended up being born, little Zachary, on July 18th, 2002. And Kate and David were allowed to see their grandson once a week for one hour under supervision. On September 19th, Shirley's extradition hearing finally began. And on November 14th, she was incarcerated

pending her extradition to the US. So Zachary went to live with his grandparents. And this is where he thrived. Shirley called their home every day to speak to Zachary. And once a week, Kate and David drove Zachary to visit his mother in prison. So they were really trying to play along, you know? Um, Shirley appealed and was actually released

in January 2003. Excellent. Yeah, yeah, it's not cute. And Zachary was returned to her custody. Now, it was declared that the crime of which Shirley was accused was specific, because it was of an ex-boyfriend, not just of the public at large, not of a

child, not of a friend. And so they said even though she's violent, like we don't feel the public is at risk, we don't feel this child is at risk. And because she was obviously presumed innocent until proven guilty, the presiding judge decided that even if she were guilty, she's not a threat to the general public. And so they kind of gave her a little bit of a pass. So essentially, in other words, she was presumed to be a one-time killer. Like you said, they thought of it as a crime of passion. And they said, oh, well, she won't do this again, right? So David and Kate were granted several weekly visits with Zachary, which must be so hard to have him for that time and begin to really raise him and grow to love him

and attach to him, and then, you know, he's suddenly taken back. And so they were allowed several weekly visits and one overnight visit every two weeks. And like, this, I guess, elephant in the room is... they, as a result of this, have to spend a lot of time kind of placating Shirley, the woman they believe murdered their son. So they're here like, you know, they want to keep her happy

so that she doesn't pull custody, but like... I mean, I know this is like kind of a stretch, but my paranoid brain would very quickly also go to like, what's stopping her from also trying to kill us if she's going to jail forever? Like just to make sure that we're not near her kid or whatever or like so we're extensions of Andrew. Especially if you don't if you don't if she like surprises you with her behavior and you can't predict it yeah you have no clue so they did everything they could to try and you know keep the relationship civil, knowing that this woman potentially

probably killed their son. So they went with her to movies, malls, they paid for things, they went to swim lessons, they went to church with her, anything they could to be at Zachary's side, to keep things going smoothly and healthfully for him. And all the while they just had to push down this like sickening feeling that this was a person

who killed their son. Hanging out with the person who killed your kid. That's crazy. No. And like here's where I tell you a little bit more about how he was killed. We know it was with the type of gun that Shirley owned, but he had been shot five times in cold blood. He was shot once in his chest, once in his face, twice in his buttocks, and then once in the back of his head. And then the sixth bullet was the one that had fallen out. And also, like, if it was on his chest and then his butt,

that means at some point he tried to, like, turn around to run. Yeah. Yeah. So he is in cold blood, as in point blank range, you know, no chance of defense. But still, they enmeshed their lives with hers because they wanted to be close to Zachary and try to keep him safe. So David apparently really struggled with this

for obvious reasons. He would constantly remind Shirley that if she wanted to talk about Zachary and his visits, she had to go through lawyers. Like this was too messy of a situation for her to be calling them and trying to like make plans. But she was always kind of complicating and muddying the waters.

At Zachary's first birthday in July of 2003, he kept running to Kate, his grandmother, instead of opening presents with Shirley. And Shirley accused Kate of trying to replace her as his mother. I told you, I told you that at some point you're gonna be on our bad side. You called it. And so tense, as Saoirse put it, is an understatement. Like they are on probably the tensest of terms that in-laws could be. Like, hey, murder and a baby and

jail time, it's all just very, very, very intense. Kate and David, their goal was to get Zachary out of the situation and raise him and keep him safe. So all they could look forward to was that Shirley would be tried in the U.S., found guilty of Andrew's murder. They could get moving and get him back in their house. Sometimes, of course, things felt hopeless. They worried so much about Zachary that they discussed things like kidnapping him.

They were like, we have to come up with a way to save this kid. And they were never gonna do that, but I think it's just one of those things where you get desperate and you're throwing out anything, like, oh, I wish we could just do this. And so they discussed potentially, like, kidnapping him and maybe saving him that way,

but that would mean disappearing and Zachary wouldn't know his family and they didn't want that life for him. On that front, they also, David even considered going after Kate took her sleeping medication to kill Shirley at night. Oh, my gosh. I know.

And he thought that Zachary would be safe, and at least he would go to prison, but Kate would be able to raise Zachary. Like, that's how much they were invested in helping this child. And, of course, he never really legitimately thought to do that. It's just something that crossed his mind, you know?

Yeah. I don't blame him. Yeah, I don't either. I mean, at that that point it's like You're desperate. You're a cornered, you know, and you've already lost the thing you love most. It's just heartbreaking They also considered filing an affidavit claiming that Shirley had threatened them or Zachary But then they were like it's gonna be he said she said we don't have any real evidence to point to So with the encouragement of their lawyer and child protective services, they just tried to be patient, which as you know, is my least favorite thing to do on planet Earth. And their team just kept saying, just wait, we're confident,

the justice system will run its course and Zachary will be remanded back to your custody. So they continue to compromise with Shirley. They did everything they could to keep her content with the arrangement. They feared that any upset would, like, put Zachary in harm's way or take him out of their life. And thankfully, they at least received tremendous support from the community. They had joined this church at St. John's. And meanwhile, you meanwhile, while they have this big community rallying behind them, Shirley is trying her

best to live a normal life. How can you? I know, question mark. She starts dating this guy, but apparently he dumped her after his friends Googled her. Well, that'll do it. And found out that she tried or was accused of being killed, of killing her former boyfriend. And his friend said, hey, red flag. And so he dumped her.

She called him hundreds of times, leaving angry voicemails and claiming that she was pregnant with his child. She was not. While all of this unfolded, Andrew's lifelong filmmaker friend, you remember Kurt? Mm-hmm, who'd I forget? He was working on a project for Zachary, little baby Zachary. Aww, was it a bunch of their old, the old videos that he'd film with his dad? So sort of, he traveled from California to England to Missouri to Pennsylvania and New

Finland and he interviewed everyone who had known his dad, Andrew. That's so cute. I know, and had loved him. And he planned to one day give the film to Zachary so Zachary could feel like he knew his father through the people that loved him. And it's just like the most touching thing ever. Family and friends spoke to Zachary

in the interviews directly, even though he was just a baby. You know, they said, your father was a wonderful man. We can't wait to meet you. You know, you're gonna be just as wonderful as him. One friend who had never met the baby, but who loved Andrew said to Zachary, little baby Zachary, you are loved, I love you, and I care about who you're gonna become.

So it was just a way of making him feel loved, even though his dad was out of the picture and his mom was potentially, you know, going to prison. Zachary would never know his father, of course, but he was born into this like beautiful legacy, this huge tremendous support system in three countries across two continents. And Kurt, it was just so important to Kurt to kind of tell that story. So he finished his journey in New Finland, where he finally got to meet baby Zachary during a visitation with Kate and David.

And he was a first in line of many friends who had heard about Zachary, but he got to meet Zachary finally. Nice. There was another extradition hearing scheduled for September 25th, which incidentally would have been Andrew's 30th birthday. Okay.

And this was the day that Shirley would likely be incarcerated again, pending her ultimate extradition to the US. Happy birthday, Andrew! Are you kidding me? Happy birthday. So Kate and David understandably are counting down the days. They're like, this is when the tides turn again, and we get our little boy back. So Monday, August 18th, it's a little over a month before

the hearing, a constable sat down with Kate and David in their living room and said Shirley and baby Zachary are missing. She kidnapped him. Yeah. Just before midnight on Sunday, the prior night, Shirley left home in her oldest son's car. They had discovered the car in a ditch, but there was no sign of Shirley or Zachary. And of course the media got one to this. Word traveled quickly across the island. People started calling Kate and David, checking in. They're trying to remain hopeful, like, well, she couldn't have left Newfoundland. It's a kind of small area. Hopefully, like, she's on someone's radar.

They'd be recognized boarding a ferry. We'll track them down. There's no way she had the money to hire a private boat, so somebody on a ferry will recognize her. So this is what they're thinking. A few hours later, the constable tells them he has some bad news. No. No, no.

The bodies of a woman and a baby were discovered on a nearby beach. If I can't have him, no one can? Is that how that was? Okay. Kate and David went to identify the baby and when they saw Zachary, dear God, I mean. I can't imagine. The, imagine this happening to anyone.

And then the thought of this happening after you've lost your son so young and tragically and then his thought this ray of hope. Yeah. Yeah. And also, like he was supposed not supposed to actually, you know, help you through some ideation stuff. But like it was supposed to be your your hope. It was a turning point for you. Yeah. It was a bright spot. It was like the silver lining. Exactly. And they both just collapsed. And apparently Kate collapsed, then David collapsed

on top of her and they just like couldn't get up. I mean, it's just they were completely defeated. Yeah. Authorities suspected that Shirley first killed Zachary and then died by suicide, but they needed to, of course, complete an investigation to rule out other possibilities. They found that on Sunday night, Shirley called her friend who wasn't home and left a voicemail claiming she and Zachary were staying the night with her boyfriend. This is the ex that she had like harassed and called a hundred times. She actually did drive to that guy's house, and they did have a witness who said she stopped to ask for directions. She drove to the ex's house.

When she got there, she planted pictures of herself and Zachary on the property to like indicate that she'd been there, I guess, or that he had photos of her. So fucking weird, okay. And then, don't speak too soon, she left a used tampon also at the scene. To do what? For what?

To attempt to frame him in her disappearance. By like saying like, oh, I was here? Like, I mean, what a... Okay. I bled in this home? I don't know, it's just weird, it's like... Yeah, couldn't have left like an eyelash, like a piece of hair.

Yeah, no, a used tampon. I mean, I don't know what it's up. A note saying, love you, like something. Yeah, like what it's supposed to prove, I guess. But yeah, used tampon's supposed to prove he was involved, I guess. Shirley fed Zachary some of her lorazepam, which is brand name Ativan, a medication to treat anxiety.

It's just a, it's a benzo. And she had a prescription prescribed to her by a certain Dr. Duquette. You remember him? Oh, sure do. Uh, who had promised and never paid the bail money for her. She took a dose herself and then she walked to a marina in the rain and a night watchman claimed he thought he heard a baby crying near the water, and a night watchman claimed he thought he heard a baby crying near the water around 2 a.m., but he walked everywhere and he couldn't find the

source of it, and then it stopped. Oh my gosh. Shirley wrapped Zachary against her chest with a sweater and walked off of a pier into the dark Atlantic Ocean. Oh my gosh. Hundreds of people attended Zachary's funeral. And when Andrew died, Kate and David didn't accompany his remains to be cremated, which was something

that Kate regretted ever since. So this time, they were able to go with baby Zachary to his cremation. They spread his ashes in England and Missouri alongside his fathers. They found, at this point, their lives were just completely drowned in rage and grief. And the only consolation they had was that the medical examiner had determined Zachary was unconscious when he drowned. So he didn't

suffer. And that was the only silver lining they got out of this. So throughout the entire ordeal of the extradition hearings and custodial applications, Kate and David were never allowed to speak to the press because there was a press ban. So they said, we don't care. And they decided to violate the ban and speak at a press conference following Zachary's death. Good for them. Fuck it. The rules. Why not?

They've been following the rules this whole goddamn time. And what good did it do? And not only that, they've been above and beyond. I mean, they were breaking bread with their son's killer for the sake of their grandson. Yes, literally. So they spoke out in this press conference against members of the Newfoundland justice system

whom they felt were in part responsible for Zachary's murder. So an investigation was started into Zachary's custodial case. It was an official investigation. It was discovered that a man who once rented a room in Shirley's home had actually moved out of the house because he was so, quote, disturbed

by the way Shirley treated her multiple children. So like this has already been flagged before. He reported that she hit them with belts. She sometimes left a young child unattended for entire weekends. The children were interviewed at school by investigators supervised by the principal, and they all confirmed that Shirley did beat them with belts. Shirley's then husband denied the allegations. The investigators wrote in their records that they tried and failed to contact Shirley

and they ultimately just closed the investigation without ever speaking to her. So just moved on. Well, we can't get ahold of her, so I guess she can have the belt back. No sense of urgency going on in Newfoundland. This is me right off. What is happening?

Or anywhere. I'm just so pissed off about everything. The report also found that Shirley had stalked and harassed another boyfriend in Canada for two years until people like this don't change, right? Like, this is a pattern. They do this. Yeah. They escalate.

So they found this other boyfriend in Canada who had moved away, and she had harassed and stalked him. He apparently came back from moving away in 1999 and discovered Shirley at his front door, nearly unconscious, wearing a black dress and holding a bouquet of roses. Like out of something unhinged MySpace era, like say anything love story.

Which is wild because, so he came back and on a random day she was doing that, that implies that every day that he was gone. It does, or it implies that she found out like the day he was coming back, moving back or something. Yeah, it's so bad. Honestly, like that person should be like so shocked that they're alive.

No, I know and I think they are. Like I think the fact that this was never even brought up in any of the hearings or any of the custody stuff is so disturbing. She also had a four page, when this guy showed up and she was at his door, a four page suicide note addressed to him on her person. According to the report, police investigation revealed that Dr. Turner had evidently ingested 32 tablets of Unisom, which is an antihistamine, and 42 tablets of Nozone, which is like a nausea relief pill

in an effort to die by suicide to overdose. Surely she didn't. She survived, obviously, and she continued her harassment campaign against this boyfriend. She would show up at his home, threaten his life, call him over and over. You know, we know the drill.

Each time she arrived, she would contact the police, they'd make a record of it, and escort her off the premises. But apparently when Pennsylvania state troopers informed him that Andrew Bagby was murdered, he was like, hey, she's gonna come for me next. Like you said, he knew she was trouble. And if she had resorted to murder,

he was like, well, with what she's done to me, I'm sure I'm next. Why wouldn't you think anything else? Yeah, and his roommate even slept on the couch with an ax for a month because they were so freaked out that she was gonna come find them. I'm surprised the roommate even stayed. I would've been like, how about we both go

to my mom's house, how about that? Right, yeah, let's both rent a cabin in Pigeon Forge. Yeah. In October 2006, the review into the custody situation concluded that Zachary's death, baby Zachary, In October 2006, the review into the custody situation concluded that Zachary's death, baby Zachary, his death had been preventable and that his welfare had been mismanaged

and neglected when he was alive. All I wanna say is, ugh. Ugh, I know, and it's so hard because, I mean, they made the point, of course, that this inquiry had more time and resources to really find all this information. But also it feels like she was so erratic this whole life.

Like there was never a period of peace or calm. And earlier when they were like, well, she's probably fine because she, maybe it was a crime of passion and she wouldn't hurt the general public. It's like, if you even have to have the conversation, I think she should have had some time behind bars. Hey, maybe not a baby.

Like, if she's killing a grown man, maybe don't give her a little baby. You know, it's just like, that man's baby too. I mean, it's just wild. Like, how could no one read between the lines of what was happening there? I think people can, but it's just like, the structure's not built for the...

It's like... It's the system. The system, you know? Not to be that guy, but like, what do you do? You know, it's like, you have proof, you have anecdotal evidence, but like, I don't know. But so they did determine that this could have been prevented. So that was good at least. And yeah, duh, like you said, Hey, Mr. Dr. Duquette was found to have violated professional and ethical standards for his whole involvement, signing for Shirley's bail, etc. And he was fined and required to undergo psychiatric counseling. International attention turned to Andrew's and Zachary's deaths when Andrew's best friend Kurt released his documentary, Dear Zachary. Aw. Well, that's heartbreaking.

I know. And this is the movie that I was mentioning at the top. It was released on Netflix ages ago. It was one of the first kind of true crime things I remember watching on Netflix back when I lived in Glendale, of all things. And it's a very beautiful tribute, it really is. He had turned the material, once intended, as a private message. He was never going to make this into like a big thing.

It was just meant for Zachary as like a personal time capsule sort of thing. But instead, he had turned the material, once intended, as a private message to Zachary from Family and Friends into a feature film to memorialize both Andrew and Zachary and to seek justice. The Bagbys pushed for legal reform and after this film came out, that helped a bit. In 2010, Zachary's bill was passed. This is an amendment to the Criminal Code of Canada, which allows bail to be denied in the interest of protecting a party under 18 years old, which is just great. I mean, that's what we were saying, like, don't give her a baby, you know? Two scholarships were funded in

Andrews and Zachary's names to support medical students in La Trobe, Pennsylvania, and at Andrews Medical School in Newfoundland. Kate and David ended up moving back to California, Southern California. And in an interview, David said, "'You don't leave it behind. "'You don't get over it. "'You take it with you, but you move on.'" And that is the story of just the worst possible thing,

the story of Andrew Bagby and his parents who've just endured a lot of pain. And you found that on Reddit? So I'd seen the documentary like ages ago. I think it came out in like 2010. I don't know, it was a while ago. And let me see, 2009, 2009. And so I watched it back then.

I remember thinking like, this is bonkers, but we had never, we didn't have a podcast yet. And so then like years later, I just sent Sersha a thread on Reddit and they found this story. And I was like, Oh, yeah, that one. Thanks for covering this one. Yeah, that one's rough. And they said, Oh, we'll do something else. And I said, No, no, no, no, let's cover it. You know, I know the story. I remember the movie. It Yeah, that one's rough. And they said, oh, we'll do something else. And I said, no, no, no, no, let's cover it. You know, I know the story. I remember the movie. It's it's it's a beautiful tribute to them.

And, you know, it's just tragic. It's just super tragic. So that's the story. Wow. Well done. It's now you can watch more of it. If if if that wasn't enough enough there's more to do. Yeah I will say the movie is beautiful when I first watched it I didn't know what it was about um and I was like totally blindsided so hopefully at least you know you go into it with kind of a

like an understanding of the sadness of it um but yeah it's it's a it's a well done well done documentary um and I appreciate you all sticking around for this, especially if you're introducing this to someone new and they're sitting in the car like, what the fuck? Why did you make me listen to that? We're supposed to be going to Gatlinburg for a bachelorette party, not crying in the car. Welcome to your new life.

There was a little moth out who's fighting for his life to break through the glass and get in this house. Oh, to get in or out to get in. I don't know what his deal is. He's like obsessed with anyway. Sorry, not to change the subject. I'm just like, what is so attractive about coming in here? It's just me. I can't imagine. Just me. No, good, good storytelling, but it's definitely sad. So thanks for the warning heads up.

And thank you everyone for tolerating. I don't know if you heard any clacking sounds. Hopefully they all got edited out, but I can't confirm that he ate that entire bone in one sitting. Hey! Now you just need to auto ship them. I'm also, I'm like, I'm not pro bone for the most part,

because I've heard like all the horror stories, like little shards and stuff. But then it like terrifies me as like a new dog parent. But I was like, fuck it, like just to get through this episode, like he gets. It's a it's a nice little surprise. The problematic stuff is the rawhide that often gets lodged in their throats. Yeah. Gotcha. Well, often. I shouldn't say often, but like that has a risk of that. Yeah. Well, this is all that's left.

I don't know. I don't know why he decided to eat the entire thing and then. Holy mother. Little trinkets. Wow. Like this, like I like how at this point he was like, I'm full. And it was right when I stopped talking. Of course. He's like, do you want it's like when Liana says, do you want to bite? Because she pulls something out of her mouth and doesn't like it anymore. And I'm like, hmm, thanks.

Yeah. Yeah. Well, I guess you're going to what do you do? You have anything exciting that you're going to do in New Orleans tomorrow? Any plans? Well, maybe we'll talk about it on the Yappy Hour, because I do have a few things and I have some questions to ask you, because I'm trying to take my brother to some cool things he's never been before. Oh, nice.

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