Andy Frasco's World Saving Podcast - EP 298: Nick & Andy
Episode Date: December 3, 2024Andy unpacks his trip to Italy and alleviates worries about a potential move back to his hometown of Los Angeles. Andy may soon help Nick see the magic in the chaotic mess of L.A., but Nick still has ...something to show Andy about the quiet elegance of a green room couch. (Denver is FULL UP on green room couches fyi) Listen closely as Nick’s meticulousness and Andy’s free spirit blossoms into a deep, loving friendship, full of late-night texts and shared passions. In the end, this pod has become more than just banter about drugs, sports, and jam band stars— no. It is now the story of two souls who found love and laughter in each other, both on and off the mic. This is, La Dolce Mic. Coming soon to a theatre near you... We're psyched to partner up with our buddies at Volume.com! Check out their roster of upcoming live events and on-demand shows to enrich that sweet life of yours. Call, leave a message, and tell us if you think one can get addicted to mushrooms: (720) 996-2403 Check out our new album!, L'Optimist on all platforms Follow us on Instagram @worldsavingpodcast For more information on Andy Frasco, the band and/or the blog, go to: AndyFrasco.com Produced by Andy Frasco, Joe Angelhow, & Chris Lorentz Audio mix by Chris Lorentz Featuring: Mara Davis Dolav Cohen Chad Coccuza
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whirlwind vacation
wow, now we're back. Barely.
In the 303, barely.
Hot off the airplane straight to.
Trivia.
Nick's fucking blackout trivia, dude.
Into a New Orleans pop up with a full brass band.
Monday nights in Denver.
What the fuck?
That was sick.
Nothing like a full brass band in a 40 square foot brick room.
They were fucking good though, to be fair.
They were fucking... Anna's the shit, dude.
Anna can play her ass off. What are they called?
Gufa or G-U-F-A?
Gufta.
Gufta?
They're a good brass band.
Yeah. Andy Frasco's World Save Podcast.
I'm Andy Frasco.
How's your heads? How's your minds?
How's your hearts?
Are you feeling better?
How's your hearts?
I feel like I have two hearts after this fucking...
What? Italy trip. I'm back, baby. I feel like I have two hearts after this fucking Italy trip.
I'm back, baby. I feel good.
I'm refreshed.
I have my cohost, Nick, big dick girl lock here.
Large.
Huge.
You can see my pulse in the vein through my jeans.
It just pulses.
That's with jeans on.
How you doing, Nick?
I'm doing pretty good. Feeling good? Got a good week lined up. Got a show Friday with jeans on. How you doing, Nick? I'm doing pretty good. Feeling good?
Got a good week lined up, got a show Friday with my band.
Yeah, Dragon Deer, guys.
Open them for Dragon Deer.
He's playing on Friday, Sean's band.
And my band.
And your band.
Most importantly.
Coltet.
Coltet, baby.
I've been calling the cutlet.
Sean, there he is.
My roommate.
How you doing, brother?
Looking good.
Hey, bud, looking good.
Wet hair, baby.
Wet hair. Wet hair don't wet hair wet hair don't care
Yep wet hair clean underwear. I will be making an appearance. Oh, yeah do Friday everybody come hang out come early
So you watch Nick's band what time you on seven? I?
Think we're playing at noon. No, I think I think eight or nine
Dragon deer Coltette
They haven't advanced me a tongue hammer at Cervantes. Go come out.
And then Sunday.
I got a great band.
Yeah.
Tommy, if you like talk, Isaac Teal is my drummer.
Oh shit.
And the world-class hip hop producer, Drew Burch will be on guitar.
Damn, you're opening with that lineup.
Dragon Deer should open.
Have fun Dragon Deer.
Someone has to have a black eye.
And then Sunday also Denver activities.
Oh yeah.
My buddy Nate Williams.
He's going away.
He's leaving town.
Nate, the chiropractor.
Oh yeah.
He's moving to Wisconsin.
We're throwing a show for him at Cervantes.
You are?
Yes.
We have, well there's like 20 musicians.
I couldn't announce it, but I could announce it now.
I'm sitting in Sunday.
It's like a private party or like a
Throwing a little little party going away part. I think it's free for Nate for Nate
So Sunday fun day in Denver for net for net for Nate for Nate
Going to be a step. Yeah. He was he always you know, he always takes care of all the musicians for free chiropractor
He's just a really good guy and And we want to set him off.
He's getting, he's going to get married in Wisconsin.
App, he's going from Denver to Appleton.
He's going full step dad.
He's going full step dad.
He's literally just changing his life.
I love that guy.
He's got a story for everything that comes up.
Everything that comes up, he's got a full story.
My dad and my dad and my dad's friend sat me down and said.
So you got to preface this.
He went to LA for Thanksgiving
I went after Italy. Yeah, I went straight. I haven't been here for like a month. Yeah, November 9th. I think you left damn
Yeah, it's December what third so you're getting worried about me. I was getting texts from you. I was here. Just like hey, how you doing?
I was just bored. I didn't no one talks to me here. I will you texted me after like five days like how's it going over there?
Remember that like Thursday like Thursday 3 a.m. Yeah after all the guy no one's funny here. What's Andy up to?
He's probably still up eight hours ahead. I'm up
But yeah, I went to we'll talk about the Italy trip too, but they sat me down
They they brought two bottles of whiskey. Okay. It was like, you know, like I was partying every other day in
Where you going? Yeah, you know, like I was partying every other day and where you going?
Yeah. You remember curfews at 10.
Sean Eccles everyone. Sean Eccles is here. Tong hair. How you doing Sean?
You're great man.
Never been better.
Don't forget Cervantes this Friday, Dragon Deer, Tong Hair, Mighty Band and Nix Man.
Please somebody validate me
Resave the new single try not to die coming up in January. I love it New Year's Eve st. Louis the pageant have fun out there
Do you have band practice?
All right, I have a little New Year's Eve gig that what do you got if you guys are in Denver or a boulder?
I'm playing with umphries at the Boulder Theatre. I want to go. Oh, yeah, go see a lot of Denver dates. Also st. Louis. We're playing the pageant. Ooh
We're halfway sold. That's not that bad. That's a big-ass fucking it's 2000 cap. I thought was bigger than that
It's 2000. I played it back. We're at a thousand tickets sold pretty fun. Good. They're still a month
That's strong and we got but st. Louis, don't embarrass me.
I didn't even know there was a thousand people.
We pushed hard to get New Year's Eve in St. Louis.
I didn't know there was a thousand people
to go to concerts in St. Louis.
So that's pretty good.
Right.
I actually love St. Louis.
I'm just kidding.
St. Louis is cool.
Some legends are from there.
Also, I believe our show at Janice Live
is almost sold out with Little Stranger.
Where's that? St. Petersburg or?
St. Petersburg. Oh, Boca Raton just sold out. Little Stranger. Where's that? St. Petersburg or? St. Petersburg.
Oh, Boca Raton just sold out.
Where do you play there?
Crazy Uncle Mike's.
What does Boca Raton mean?
Mouth rat?
It means Jewish in Florida.
No, it means mouth rat, doesn't it?
Oh God. Boca means mouth, right?
Really? Oh yeah.
In Spanish, and I think Raton, I think.
Why don't they mean mouth rat?
Well, all the Jews have moved out there.
Yeah, it's true. They love the rats, I guess. I don't they mouth rat? Well, all the Jews moved out there. Yes, true. They love the rats.
I guess I get all my horror videos are getting like millions and millions
of streams right now. Oh yeah.
Or like it's like Pal free Palestine.
You fucking Jew rats are like really going after the rapid port bump,
the rapid port bump.
Shout out to my crap.
Um, so sit.
So they sit me down.
I can't live with, I love my mom, I love my dad,
but I can't live there.
Listen, living within 45 minutes of your parents
sounds like a fucking nightmare to me.
I gotta be honest.
I like my parents, they're chill.
I like my parents too.
But I don't know.
I don't know, it was weird.
My sister was being fucking weird.
Was it the weirds?
I don't know.
My sister was getting jealous because my parents was at the weirds? I don't know. My sister was getting jealous
because my parents gave me a little money for my house.
Didn't they pay for her entire college and a wedding?
Yes!
Thank you.
I didn't ask for fucking shit.
They gave me a little money to help me pay for a down payment.
Here's how I look at it.
For my house.
And she all fucking bitching and shit.
I'm like, shut the fuck up.
Well, here's the thing.
This is the thing.
It's like she got a wedding, right?
Which is probably expensive. Yeah. She's a girl. Right. And then. It's like she got a wedding, right, which is probably expensive.
Yeah, she's a girl.
Right.
And then she got her whole college paid for probably.
Right.
Um, and half it.
Okay.
That's still fucking more than you got for your house.
She went to Indiana too.
It's not a go out of state.
It's like 35,000 a year back then in 2006.
What's up, Sean?
He's going just moving through.
Hang it out. He's looking fresh. Yeah, so I feel like you probably still got less money than her in
the long run.
I did. I didn't get shit, dude.
Plus you're a business owner. I don't know. I know how much they gave you.
Sell, sell, sell.
Here's the thing. I know what they gave you. It wasn't that. It wasn't crazy.
No. And it was part of my inheritance.
Okay. Then what? I don't know. Jealousy between siblings part of my inheritance. Okay, then what?
I don't know, jealousy between siblings is weird.
But she makes millions of dollars.
Really?
Yeah, she started a company.
Is this the doctor one?
No, the other one.
The one that I'm normally cool with.
I'm starting to get pissed off at her.
What does she do?
She found, I mean, she's brilliant.
Her and her husband are brilliant.
I didn't know, I don't know much about this one.
They saw that there is
Not that big of a market of Epson salt on Amazon. Oh my god in Epson
So they're like those genius people that can notice holes in the market exactly and they made God I want to be like that
So bad, I'm just has a house of corn. I mean she'd ball. Why can't I ever think all I can think of a stupid-ass
masturbation joke
All I could talk all I can think of a stupid ass masturbation joke. All I can think about is nitrous and crowd surfing.
They're out there fucking talking about Epsom salt and shit.
They have kids?
Yeah, two.
Both your sisters have kids?
That's the thing too.
Like they don't...
She's cool.
Like Kiki does not talk to me.
My niece won't talk to me, won't look at me.
Her kid?
Her kid. She has a boy and a girl? Boy and a girl. me, won't look at me. Her kid? Her kid.
She has a boy and a girl?
Boy and a girl.
And Cooper's kind of spoiled too.
Cooper's a cool name.
He's cool.
Yeah.
Cooper Clegg.
That's a sick ass name, dude.
It's a baseball player.
Or a quarterback.
I'm trying to get my, I'm trying to like be an uncle more
and try to be more in their life.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
You're a cool uncle to have.
I think so.
You know?
At least like Bailey's kids likes me. My uncle did HVAC. Yeah. My uncle's cool though. Yeah, you're cool uncle to have I think so, you know, yeah at least like my kids likes me. My uncle did HVAC. Yeah
My uncle's cool. Yeah. Yeah, so I was like fuck dude
So she won't even talk like the dot the she's my sister. Yes, Steph
You know like you have to talk to your uncle like at least like say some shit like that
Like you're gonna hang out with your uncle. Yeah, don't like you're gonna watch him die someday
He doesn't have any kids you You're going to have to.
So one of you you're going to have to pull shit out of me.
One of you is going to have to stay in there with this guy when he dies in 15.
Yeah, I'm not. I'm going to be alone.
Fifteen.
So it's a no from me.
Who said that?
Greg. We said edge of the week.
Oh, yeah.
Funny.
But yeah, so that was pissing me off. So I'd go, I'd go hang out in the valley,
then I'd go to Westlake.
I like, then my dad sat me down.
And he's like, I think my dad thinks I'm gay.
I could see that.
He was saying something like,
yo, whatever you want,
even if you wanna fuck dudes or whatever.
I was like, what?
My dad's a little homophobic. Yeah.
Well, he's a boomer.
Yeah.
Why are boomers so homophobic?
This is how they were raised.
It was this different time.
They're Trumpers and homophobic.
It's weird he's not religious.
What?
He's not like religious.
No.
Just a thing, I guess.
It's a boomer thing.
So they were just sitting you down trying to get you to-
But like, it was a great hang, but he was getting wasted.
We were all drinking. They put two bottles of basil Hayden on the table and said, sit down.
I'm like, fuck, here we go.
Because I decided, I don't, you know, I'm getting at that point where I don't want to
go out on Saturday nights anymore.
I'd rather go out on Mondays, Tuesdays.
Those are more fun to me.
I agree.
The pain in the ass Saturday night.
Everyone, it's like everyone makes such a big deal over a fucking Saturday night.
I'd rather go out on a Tuesday
than have Saturday and go chill out.
But I think that's also, we're getting older.
So they sat me down and said, Andy, it's time.
I know you voted for Kamala,
but it's time to tell your fans to meet in the middle.
And you need to be Republican
because you're going to get your tax money.
He has a point on that, but I don't know.
I don't know if it's that big of a difference.
I don't actually know.
So I didn't, instead of, I normally fight it.
I'm like, all right, pitch me.
And then they're talking, they've done all the Republican stuff.
And I was like, why?
Because I'm trying to figure out we all have to come together eventually.
We're talking about echo chambers.
Yes, kind of that. Yeah.
It's like how everyone just hears their side of the story.
They don't hear both sides to have like, you know, try to figure out a way to be in the
middle.
Everyone just hears their side and says that other sides fucking wrong.
Well, the problem with that is people can't even decide what the middle is.
And like, there is like, what's the middle?
Everybody thinks they're in the middle.
You know what I'm saying?
Right.
People who are obsessed with Fox News thinks they're rational people in the middle. You know what I'm saying? People who are obsessed with Fox News
thinks they're rational people in the middle
and sort of the MSNBC obsessed people.
You know what I mean?
Everyone thinks they're the middle.
It's stupid.
We need to pick where the middle is,
announce it on Fox, say this is the middle,
we're gonna meet here.
But then he was saying, then he's like,
you know, you're getting 36, you never brought a girl over here. But then then he was saying, then he's like, you know, you're getting 36.
You never brought a girl over here.
So here's the she's like, you have two options.
I was like, God, it sounds more than two options,
but yeah, yeah.
He's like, then he started telling me,
he started telling me either got to marry someone
with a kid and be a stepdad and eventually have another kid
because they'll have their own thing going on. Yeah.
Or someone younger in their 20s.
Oh, he just wants you to have kids now?
They said you can't be, you can't live alone.
Why not?
That's what I said.
I'm like, I'm totally fine living alone.
I know some guys in there.
I know some alone guys that are not lonely.
No, I'm having a great fucking time.
You're surrounded by people all the time.
The only time I feel alone is if I fucking do blow and wake up in the morning.
I don't really know you to ever not have someone around you.
I know.
People glob on you.
But what about like when I'm 70?
I don't know.
I'm not having kids either.
So this kind of applies to me too a little bit.
I just have a girlfriend, but I'm having kids.
But I don't know, who cares?
You can't live, I don't know.
I'm not into this whole perspective people have
where they live their entire life for the finish line.
Like, what are you gonna do when you're 70?
It's like, well, why?
I don't know, it's like, if you're comfortable when you're 70,
but you were bored your entire life,
is that really worth it?
Yeah, I think about that when people wait,
they work their whole life and wait to,
wait to like do all the fun stuff when they're 70.
What if you die?
Yeah, or what if like you fuck up your legs
or you can't jog or go on that trip to Tahiti?
Yeah.
It's like all this stuff like, why can't we live now?
Why we have to, we're waiting to live.
It's not like you're poor either.
You're not going to like die in a ditch somewhere.
Like you're going to become fine. I don't you're poor either. You're not gonna like die in a ditch somewhere. Like you're gonna become fine.
I don't know.
Maybe your dad's just a little more traditional.
They're a little more traditional.
Like the way they were raised, it's like get married,
have a kid.
Well my mom like kind of said under her mouth like.
Under her mouth?
Or under her, what's that?
A breath.
Under her breath.
Like under her mouth.
It sounds like when a German person
doesn't really know the phrase and they say it wrong,
you know, when they're trying to speak English English My mom said under her breath was like well, we don't have any we don't have any
Parents didn't hang out with like they're like the husband's parents or whatever. Oh, why is
What would you I don't understand like cuz I'm I'm single
She doesn't I don't have like she doesn't have any one to hang out
Like if I had a girlfriend they'd hang out, like she doesn't have anyone to hang out.
Like if I had a girlfriend, they'd hang out.
She or if I was married, they could hang out with her.
Oh, I get it, I get it.
Like the in-laws.
In-laws.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
And my Jason's in-laws, my sister's husband.
They're not chill?
I mean, they just don't, they're all independent.
They don't, they want everyone to leave us alone
and Melissa, my other sister, nameship.
She's not really locked into the,
They're kind of guilt tripping me a little bit,
like, well, when are you going to start?
I'm like...
I mean, I can...
This is crazy.
I've never, my parents have never had this conversation with me.
I don't know what's going on.
I've never once, neither my mom has made me one little comment
about me not having kids.
My dad's never mentioned it once.
Well, she would listen to the podcast.
Hi, mom, how you doing? I mean, it's just fine. They are allowed to have this opinion. Yeah. And they're right mentioned it once. Well, she would listen to the podcast. Hi, mom, how you doing?
I mean, it's just fine.
They are allowed to have this opinion.
Yeah.
And they're right a little bit.
Like, they're not like wrong.
They just don't want me to be alone.
That's fair, but also like the traditional thing.
Like, let's.
But I've been alone my whole life.
Let's backpedal a little bit.
Let me rewind.
What I was saying earlier about this thing
about the finish line,
if you are doing that, that's also fine.
And you might be right.
Right. So it's like, it's not that they're wrong. It's just that you have a different opinion on what also fine. And you might be right. Right.
So it's not that they're wrong,
it's just that you have a different opinion
on what you want to do with your own life.
Right.
Yeah.
You know, I'm the type of person who doesn't want to settle.
I don't want to go into a relationship
just because I'm lonely.
Yeah, that's a really bad way.
And then I'm with this fucking girl
who doesn't understand me,
and she's a fucking piece of- Or guy, we don't know.
Or guy, whatever.
I'm not putting dudes out of the table.
I was looking at John Shields, a little stranger. Looking at him? I'm like damn. I could date John. He's hot. John's hot. But I just don't like Dick.
Like Dick weirds me out. Like I would love an asexual relationship. That's called a friendship.
Oh.
Really?
You mean, do you want to have friends?
Wow, Andy doesn't understand that not every relationship,
even ones of guys, has to become physical.
I still think that your whole validation is coming.
I think that's a thing with you a little bit.
You feel validated when someone makes you come.
Sex is like validating for you.
That's why you're addicted to it.
Right, because I'm insecure.
Yeah, and it's just like maybe you're a little bit
of a sex addict or whatever,
but I think that's where you get your,
I think we've talked about this before,
but it's like kind of where you get your validation.
So like even with guys, you're like, I want an asexual relationship with a man.
It's like, yeah, you mean every friendship you have?
That's just called being a homie.
I don't know what you're talking about.
Yeah, you're right.
Yeah.
Well, you know, it's like, I just don't settle.
But also, me not settling it
and finding the perfect person is unrealistic too.
Like sometimes you have to like.
There's no perfect person.
There's no perfect person.
I'm learning that.
That's part of what a good relationship is
is just you gotta accept their faults.
Right.
There's a lot of them.
Yeah, and I've been accepting people's faults more than I,
normally I shoot people away and now I'm digging into people.
With women you mean?
Just friends.
Oh yeah, yeah.
Bandmates.
I think you're harder on women than men though about that.
Yeah.
Like romantically I think you're harder.
But that's fair because it's more of a commitment.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I just see all my friends in shitty relationships
and they don't like each other, you know?
Yeah, it's hard man.
After that second month it just kind of all falls apart.
Once you've had sex with someone like 15 times,
it's like, all right.
What movies do you like?
Human nature.
What is it with human nature is like,
why are we afraid to be ourselves to court someone?
Why can't we just like show our true colors
right off the bat?
We're like, we have to like pretend we're someone else
just to get them interested.
It's basically insurance sales, isn't it?
Like it's just in sales.
You have to show the best version.
It's like being a car salesman or something, you know?
You talk about all the good things about the car
and then you take the test drive.
Maybe the brakes aren't what you thought it was.
And then you get it home
and maybe this wasn't a $40,000 car after all.
You know what I mean?
It's just sales.
That's what it is.
Like dating is pretty much sales.
Right.
I bought a Rolex.
What a funny fucking transition.
No, but sales.
I was like.
You didn't get a Rolex?
I did.
Oh, which one?
Root beer, 1979.
I texted Billy Striggs.
I was going to get, I was like, I was on the fence about it.
Did he text you back?
Yeah.
Nice.
We had a nice conversation.
He seems really nice.
He's a really nice fucking guy.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I watched him on Jimmy Fallon on Thanksgiving.
Really nice fucking guy.
I've been, you know, because he's my only watch guy,
because I'm really obsessed with watches.
I think it's funny that he's into watches. He's obsessed. Because he's just like, you know, he doesn't my only watch guy, because I'm really obsessed with watches. I think it's funny that he's into watches.
He's obsessed.
Because he's just like, you know,
he doesn't present as like a guy
that's into material things.
He's got sick ass watches.
He deserves it.
Yeah.
Also, watches are a good investment.
I guess, yeah.
They hold their value.
Yeah.
But I was texting him like, do I, I mean like,
I have the money to do it, and like.
Treat yourself, bro.
Yeah.
And like. Consider it a Christmas bonus. I thought about you, like, that was what I thought. I yourself, bro. Yeah. And like consider it.
I thought about you like that was what I thought.
I did like, you know, about me.
I thought about you like you're like only buy it if you could buy a couple of them.
Yes. You know, in your mental.
And that's a good that's a good like good financial law.
Only buy something you can buy twice.
Yeah. If it's not a necessity.
So like I was always worried about like, should I get a brand new one?
And then I was talking to Billy. I was like, no, get I like,
cause I really like vintage stuff. They're cooler. They're cooler.
They're probably not this like 1979 Rolex. Nothing crazy. Nothing crazy.
Not like nothing. Five figures
over 10. Ooh, shit baller. No, it was like 9,500.
Okay. So under that's not that bad. I mean, that's a cheap Rolex actually
You should cut this out. Why do you think I'm bragging about my money? No, you seem kind of embarrassed about it
I am cuz I don't like I'm so frugal with shit like that's like on the scale of Rolexes though
That's like a Honda Civic like that's not you didn't get like a you know, I mean, I get a tona
I got a GMT man. You got a I mean, that's like whatever, dude, you're allowed to buy yourself shit sometimes.
Don't let people feel you bad.
You make you feel bad.
You work hard.
You got money.
You bought yourself a little treat.
You were fucking poor for 12 years.
Right.
No one like like that's the bullshit.
It's like I missed the fuck out of you.
But like, you know, no one was like giving you shit the other or like no one was
applauding you for being poor for 12 years.
So why should they be mad at you for being not rich, but you know, heaven's a little dough? Because my dad gave me, they're like,
make sure you save your money. I'm like, I saved my money. I saved money. You're good with money.
I'm good with money. Yeah. I saved my money. I save all my money. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And they're
always like, give me a guilt trip, like make sure, you know, rainy day. They just remember when you
were poor probably and like, you know, no, they're just, that's the Jewish mentality.
Yeah, but you're not Jewish.
He is a businessman, though.
Yeah, but my parents would also,
we'd also go to the fancy restaurants
and only order appetizers.
You know, or go to the fancy place and go to happy hour.
Okay, well. They're frugal.
Respect.
I think that's where I learned how to save money.
That's how you retire. Yeah. That's why he's got a couple of porches now. I think that's where I learned how to tell you retire
Yeah, that's why he's got a couple portions now, but now every time I go to a nice restaurant I ordered fucking nice everything I want. Yeah, but that's the advantage of not having kids and a wife
That's a thing too
Like I am saving a lot of money not having a girlfriend and not having do a kid is like having a kid
What do they say? It's like three300,000 over the course of their life.
Yeah, fuck that.
Like 15 grand a year.
Okay, well that's already more than the Rolex, so.
Who was I talking to?
A lot of these like step moms are like in my DMs right now.
What do you mean?
Just like single moms.
Single moms.
Yeah, yeah.
And I kind of like them.
They're cool.
Single moms rule, actually.
Yeah, and they're badasses.
Yeah, yeah.
There's a couple of single moms that are in my deep in my
DMs trying to like court me a little bit. I'm like, and I'm
entertained the idea now. I'm like 36. Like fuck it. Stepdad.
I kind of it's kind of a vibe. Yeah. I mean, yeah. I don't
know. It can be. But then you start raising the kid and you're
like, holy shit. Here's what they said. I would only be a
stepdad if the dab was still in the picture.
I know that sounds really rude, but.
Me too.
I'm not trying to be someone's main idol,
or main, like I shouldn't be your main example.
That's what my,
what a man should be.
That's what my Uncle Rich told me.
He's like, make sure that the dad,
if you're going to date or marry a stepdad, stepmom.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
A single mom. A single mom.
You would be the step.
I'd be the step.
Make sure that the dad's cool, he's not crazy.
He's gonna be a little crazy.
It's important, because he's gonna be
a huge part of your life.
He's gonna be a huge part of life,
and make sure she has something going on,
and she's like working, and has her own thing going on.
That's amazing advice.
And I took that, I was like, you know what?
I was always scared to even be a step dad, but now I'm getting 36, I was like, you know what? I was always scared to like even be a stepdad, but like now I'm getting 36.
What am I going to do?
Like, I don't like young girls.
Steps are a complicated relationship.
I've had two step moms and a stepdad in my life.
Yeah.
And everyone in my age group or in their 30s, they want to like, they don't want to play around.
They want to find their person and have kids.
Yeah. Some people, I mean, most They want to find their person and have kids.
Yeah, some people.
I mean most people want kids.
It's like, yeah, I think it's kind of coming back.
It like went away for a while, but I think the whole.
There's been a cultural shift back towards people wanting
a little bit more of a traditional lifestyle.
I think right.
I've been seeing it online, right?
Or maybe just everybody online is crazy and they're like outwardly.
Vocal about it.
Man, this European trip was the best thing for my psyche. Did it make you more Republican seeing how lazy these Europeans are?
Man, no one does shit in Italy, dude.
Everyone's just fucking chilling, drinking coffee till noon.
They're all hot.
And they're like all skinny, right?
All skinny, all of them.
I was eating my ass off.
We were eating our asses off.
No, all right, chill, chill, chill.
Actually, I shouldn't.
I was eating ass all day.
I was eating my own ass.
We were eating like a shit ton of food
and just the preservatives,
there's no preservatives in their food.
So it's like clean food.
It's like RFK's dream food.
But Florence was amazing.
And then accident Wayne to happen was there.
You know that lawyer I was telling you about last year
who just like courted me?
Kind of, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
I saw her.
How'd that go?
It was weird at first.
She like-
How's her English?
It's really good.
She's Canadian too.
She texted the pod line last year to prove she was,
I still don't think she's real.
Her name's Emily, she's cool.
But she backpedaled too, she fumbled the bag a little bit.
I was like, I could date this girl.
I could date this girl who lives 4,000 miles away.
She's moving back to New York.
Oh, she's from America.
She's from Canada, Toronto.
I thought she was an Italian.
No, but she speaks fluent Italian.
She thought it was Italian,
that's why she wrote that note down.
She thought it was Italian.
Got it.
But at first she's like, we got drunk.
Then she sat me down at 4 a.m.
She didn't, we didn't hook up.
We didn't, she stayed in another house,
another apartment. Brave.
I was like, that's fine, I'm cool with that.
But it's like the third year,
or second year of not hooking up.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
That's totally cool.
But then she said like, I don't need a guy who's just always getting fucked up all the up. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's totally cool. But then she says like,
I don't need a guy who's just always getting fucked up
all the time and blah, blah, blah.
I'm like, okay, cool.
Then I'm not for you.
I'm at this point in my life,
I'm just being completely honest.
I'm not trying to like fake it.
I'm not just, that's not me anymore.
I'm not trying, I'm just like, this is who I am,
take her to leave it, you know,
I'm not gonna be a pop star.
I'm just gonna be Andy fucking Frasco.
I'm Reba McIntire.
I'm Reba McIntire.
And then she felt bad, and then she like,
followed me everywhere for three days.
I'm sorry I didn't mean that,
and like, she like, really likes me.
I'm like, whatever.
I know what you want now, that's fine. We can just be friends.
So that ended bad.
So I bought a watch.
So I got sad and bought a watch.
We're off to a great start.
But it was so fun. I mean,
I blew some... I didn't,
I spent a little dough out there.
That's a vacation, like why are we,
is that what you're supposed to do?
Yeah, what are you?
I used a lot of miles, so I didn't spend that
as much as the Cacuzzi did.
How much was your flight?
Did you, was it all covered?
Oh, sick.
Miles, I got first class.
That's like two grand.
Yeah, it was only 120,000 miles for the flight.
Oh wait, first class there and back, that's gotta be like. 60 and 60. Four grand or something. Yeah, four or two grand. Yeah, it was only 120,000 miles for the flight. Oh wait, first class there and back,
that's gotta be like 60 and 60.
Four grand or something.
Yeah, four or five grand.
I got that for free.
I got the hotel in Santorini for free 25 miles.
I just been putting everything on my credit card
from the band and I collected like 500,000 miles
and I just hoarded it.
I just paid off every month and just shotgun the payment.
But I got 500,000 miles because of it.
And I just got all this free trip.
So I just spent money on food and yeah, that's it.
Supplies.
No, they gave that for free.
What was Greece?
Greece is the best.
You went to Santorini?
Yeah, it was off season.
What do you do there to lay around?
Just lay, I mean, we got this like villa.
You were watching Netflix.
I was watching, dude, Rexam.
Ryan Reynolds.
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.
And the homie from?
Oh, he's Sonny in Philadelphia.
I love him.
He's actually funnier than Ryan Reynolds.
He's hilarious.
Ryan Reynolds is funny.
Do you know how I watched that show, Always Sunny?
A little bit.
It's arguably like one of the funniest shows I've watched in 20 years.
I know.
I know.
But Ryan, Rob McElh. But Ryan Reynolds is so charming.
God, he's so hot.
He's fucking hot.
Blake Lively, his wife, is a badass.
They love each other.
That's like my dream situation.
A famous hot chick.
Famous hot chick.
A lot of money.
Who's just working, doing her thing.
But I had a blast.
And Cacuzas, I rebonded with the kakuzas, they're cool.
They're coming to Jam Cruise.
They were good?
They were great.
They were good boys?
They were good boys.
They don't party, they're older.
I mean Matt turned 50.
Are they ever not in the same room?
I've never seen one kakuzas with them.
That's one thing I'm envious about.
Stations, bro.
I wish, brother, I wish I had a sibling
that's like that close.
I'm not close with my family. I think that you- We're not close at all. I don't know, man. I don't sibling that's like that close. I'm not close with my family.
We're not close at all.
I don't know man.
I don't know if you want that.
They're connected to the hip and like, it was so funny.
Like if one of them got lost, we gotta get Matt.
I'm like, he's 50 years old.
Or like, Chad's still getting a panini.
I'm like, Chad's 45 years old.
He can find us at the bar or across the street.
I'm not exaggerating or being hyperbolic when I say
I've never seen one of them without the other.
No, me either. Even in the bathroom, me either.
They go take a shit together in public restaurants.
Me and John were bonded.
I mean, I fucking love John.
John Shields is such a great human.
But he left early or something.
He only did a week. Italy.
He only did Italy.
He did eight days.
Rome was the best.
Rome, the Catholic architecture, baby.
I could see myself living in fucking Europe.
I told you, Catholics have the best architecture.
Oh yeah, and the best art.
Yeah, they used to kill it.
Yeah.
Well, they literally killed it.
They killed it.
They killed everybody.
Yeah, they killed it.
Was the Crusade Catholic?
Yes, because there was no other Christian religion then.
They had them in the early 1100s.
So, yes.
I loved going, dude, I went into St. Petersburg,
like the Vatican City and shit.
St. Petersburg, that's in Russia.
I think St. Petersburg is the church.
St. Petersburg Basilica or whatever?
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
It was fucking amazing.
Dude, it's crazy.
It's crazy.
They have so much money, by the way.
So much money.
You know, the Catholic Church is one of the richest
organizations in the world.
The Vatican is his own country.
Even with all the lawsuits they have to pay off
and all the settlements.
And all the little boys they have sex with.
Yeah, all the payoffs and the silencing
and all the shuffling priests around and stuff.
They still have a ton of money.
It's pretty good.
I really do love Italy.
I'd live in Italy. I don I don't know over Netherlands. Yes. Mmm
It's a little more less stiff people are I kind of like the Netherlands. I love it
I've never been to Italy. So Netherlands is great. The weather is shitty. Yeah, it's always from Indiana. I'm used to that
But Italy is the people are nice, but like.
Are they nice?
They are nice.
They're different than the fucking French.
The French are assholes.
I don't fuck with the French, yeah.
Fuck their assholes, man.
So they are cool.
Because they're different than American Italians, obviously.
It's a whole different kind of Italian, huh?
Like Burger King and Applebee's.
Right.
One's trashy and one's delicious.
But what I'm, you know,
I'm not trying to brag about my vacation,
but I'm back here with a different mind state.
I'm going to be more gentle with myself.
Gentle.
Like, you know, I'm not going to beat myself up
over not fitting in places.
I am going to be more, just like, you know, in my head,
I feel like I'm not a jammer, you know?
Like, I heard motherfucker,
I heard some rumors about Homie was talking shit.
One of the boys I thought were our friends in the band.
What? Talking shit about the band. What?
Talking shit about our band.
Oh.
I'm like, you fucking jealous fuck.
There's no way they didn't hear that in the mic,
but that's funny.
Whatever, bleep it or whatever.
I'm like, are you kidding?
I fucking, I don't like when people are fucking nice
to your face and then they fucking talk shit.
That's a pet peeve.
Just talk shit in person.
To be fair, you kind of talks shit about everybody.
It's kind of his thing.
He does?
It doesn't like, I wouldn't take it too seriously.
He's just kind of, he's like me.
He's a British guy.
Kind of a ruffin' a little bit.
I wouldn't like, it's not like a...
He's like, I don't consider that music.
Yeah, but he's like that about almost everything.
Anything after like 1974 or like, you know?
I'll remember that when you're,
when you ask me to open my tour again.
He's sailing.
Anyway, I was just like, you know, I wouldn't, I was just talking about how
he might have been things get me in the near.
Yeah, but I don't think he was like that serious about that.
No, because he, he said a lot of nice things about you to me.
So whatever, who cares?
We'll bleep it out. Because he said a lot of nice things about you and me. Whatever. Who cares?
We'll bleep it out.
Just let everybody talk.
But you know, I'm just trying to be at peace
with where I'm at.
I'm not trying to get angry, not angry.
I'm not trying to be jealous over other people's success.
I'm not trying to be, I never,
I do get jealous.
You know that?
Everyone gets jealous.
It's normal in human beings. I'm just? Everyone gets jealous. Human beings.
I'm just trying to live in peace with myself.
And that's the hardest part is to be in peace with yourself.
You can be in peace with other people, but it's hard to.
It sounds like your parents really got to you.
They did.
Yeah.
They did.
I think it's more about that than the music stuff
actually a little bit.
Yeah, but what do you mean? Just like they want you to change actually a little bit. Yeah. What do you mean?
Just like they want you to change your entire life almost.
Yeah.
They always like poke at me about-
What are you going to do with a kid?
You're gone 200 days a year.
Like, I don't know.
I don't know.
They just say I'm 36.
They want grandkids.
I think it's the self-esteem.
They have grandkids.
I know, but like that's what I'm saying.
How many grandkids do you need?
I mean, once you get past two, it's like-
I don't know.
I think just because I'm being picky and I don't settle,
they just like stereotype, they're like, oh, he's gay.
How old were they when they got married?
20.
20?
They've only got 50 years.
Oh yeah, they're boomers, they get married young.
I guess my mom got married around that age.
Right. I don't know. Is guess my mom got married around that age. Right.
I don't know.
Is it their 50 year anniversary already?
Yeah.
Hmm.
We're all going to Hawaii next year.
Really?
You want to be my date?
You should be my Thanksgiving date next year.
I know, I was talking about that.
Like I'm bringing someone to Thanksgiving.
I don't think your mom likes me very much.
No, she does.
Oh.
She loves you.
She used to not like me.
Yeah, well, it takes a second.
Because you're always anti family. I'm not anti family. I mean, it's like me having a family.
They're like, I don't trust Nick. He always wants to push you away from us.
No, no, no, no, I would never do that. They're cool. No, but it's the same stereotype. They
hear one thing. It's like when I'm like 90% of what I say is a bullshit joke, so it's like...
100%.
It's like...
But like, no, like being the psyche of my mom, it's like also she said, hey, I watched
this movie Rockstar.
You're not doing heroin, are you?
Mark Wahlberg?
Yeah.
No way.
No one does heroin anymore.
Not musicians, really.
But then she'll say something back in the comment like oh hey, I was all this weed
I'm like, I actually don't smoke weed anymore. I haven't seen you really smoking weed like you know anyway my new single try not to die
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I do want to call Cacuzzi's and talk about the trip.
OK, call him. OK.
Are they ready to be called?
No, probably.
Let's see.
I told him I'd call him on the pod.
Hey, hey, Dallas.
They're at the Renaissance Fest.
You know that festival in Dallas on HBO, the crazy one? Chad, you're on the podcast.
Hey, what's going on, bud?
Hey, we're talking about the trip.
It was the best, right?
Oh my God.
Do you know, I was just on the other line with our good buddy, Greg Brown, talking about
our trip, bud.
What was your favorite part of the trip?
Oh man.
You know, just, I was, my favorite part of the trip? Oh man, you know, just, I was,
my favorite part of the trip was just seeing the skies
reflecting off your eyeballs.
We were looking out at the Santorini Valley.
Yeah, yeah.
And just, you know, lippin' a bottle of wine
up the top of the hill, you know, just little,
like when the, when the, when you like,
the sun is shining bright,
and you get that little drip from the lip to the bottle that's about a foot long and it
just pops up and you're like hey go brother why don't you take a sit too
I'm glad we weren't partying as hard in Santorini than when we were in Florence
I feel you on that but that's where the fountain of youth is, you know? You gotta soak them.
I'm with Nick too, say hi, Nick.
Hey, you got any? Hey, what's up, Nick?
How you doing?
You got any questions for Chad?
Not really, actually.
I wasn't there, so I don't really know.
What was better, Italy or Greece?
Man, where were the first french fries cooked, man?
In France? I don't know. What'd he talk fries cooked, man? In France?
I don't know.
What'd he talk?
In Greece.
Oh, I get it.
I get it.
That's pretty good.
Wow.
You're silly.
Well, I just wanted to, I love you, buddy.
We were thinking about you.
I was talking about you, how we bonded pretty hard.
It was cool.
That's awesome.
I love you too, but I can't wait to do it again.
Did you go to the Renaissance Fest?
Yeah, I just got back.
What are you doing there? What do you it again. Did you go to the Renaissance Fest? Yeah, I just got back.
What are you doing there? What do you do there?
Did you like get a sword? Like what did what tell the people what it is?
Well, so what you do is you go if you go to your local Home Depot, right?
You get a bunch of foam boards and you pad yourself up with a bunch of like, you know,
duct tape and stuff. Make yourself look like a kind of like a nurse
night and you just lark with each other and just start beating each other up with like
padded goods.
That's the nerdiest that I've ever heard.
And you know, then there's a bunch of kiddies flying everywhere and you see some pops, see
some balls, really big bonfires, lots of drummers going on, a bunch of young kids.
I mean, nice fricking orgy domes and all kinds of wacky.
What's the Renaissance Renaissance?
Renaissance Fest, are you at 100 percent?
Did you go to the campgrounds at night?
It sounds like burning man.
It's like, you know, you'll go up to all these places that are blocked off
with these tents that you can't see into and you got to check your ID.
Make sure, you know, I felt like this guy sitting there was a huge, he had a fucking hogger dude. And I don't know
what they were doing, but he's sitting in this table. And I mean, there's like people
spectating like, you know, 3040 people come watch this medieval orgasm, please. He's getting
a freaking like, like a like a pipe or like like it's like a little like metal like rod
down the tip of his dick all the way to like I guess I don't know keep it hard or something, but
You never know what you're gonna find in out there, but cool. There's family time as well. Yes. I gotta go
What the fuck damn day so I love So, I love you, buddy.
Tell your brother I love him too.
We were wondering, have you ever not been
with your brother somewhere?
Right now, yeah.
He's at the store right now.
That doesn't count.
Yeah, yeah, we, maybe we, you know,
we'll go on some fucking vacations alone and shit.
I don't believe that.
I don't believe that at all.
I think you're lying.
I think you're lying.
Yeah. Hey, look, you gotta hang out, you know? I don't believe that I don't believe that I think you're lying. I think you're lying. Yeah
That's true, but I love you I'll call you later we'll talk about Jam Cruz
Check who's everybody I
Want to get the real he's at the store. Yeah, I want to get the real dirt. Hold on. I want to call John Shields. Ooh, Johnny boy.
Let's call John and then we'll be over
and then we'll end the Europe talk
and we'll talk about something else.
Okay.
But Europe's cool though.
People like it.
You should come on a vacation.
I always ask you to go on these trips.
I know, but I'm so cheap.
I know, but I'll help pay for it.
I just want you to be there with me.
But then Julie's going to get all jealous
because she doesn't get to go. Ah, she could pay for her own.
She probably would.
That means it'd be a half.
I do want to take you guys on a trip.
Me, you and Julie.
Yeah, that'd be fucking awesome.
She's a great traveler.
Hey, it's John.
I can't get through.
Yeah, John's gone.
He's an I'm too busy having sex.
Call me for the podcast.
But yeah, we loved it.
So everyone, I feel you don't do something extravagant
like go to fucking Europe,
but like find some time for yourself, recharge.
Go to Haiti.
Go to Haiti, yeah.
Go to fucking, go to your park.
Go fucking.
Yeah.
Or get a bottle of wine.
Get a blanket. Yeah. Go to your park and just chill, get a bottle of wine, get a blanket.
Go to your park and just chill out.
You need to recharge.
And I was getting burnt out.
It was a long year.
We did, we kicked ass this year.
It was a bad year.
You did kick ass this year.
Oh yeah, we have the award ceremony coming up.
End of the year.
It's almost there.
I'm almost finished with it.
You got some good ones.
Just get some time for yourself.
You gotta do it,
because if you don't,
you're gonna wake up one day,
you're gonna be 80 years old,
you're gonna have bad news.
I wonder where it went.
Wondering why I didn't take that trip.
80 year old if you're lucky.
Mexico.
Mexico City.
That was it, that was a trip.
It was a lot of fun.
Why didn't I go to my friend's wedding in Cabo? Why didn't I go to my friend's wedding in Cabo?
Why didn't I go to my friend's wedding in Cabo?
Oh, that's cool.
Just Greg set me up with a free airport ride.
I love Mark.
When are you going to the airport?
I'm not.
I'm staying. I'm staying. I might go to LA for a little bit. Christmas? Maybe. I might go to the airport? I love Mark. When you go to the airport? I'm not. Oh, just-
I'm staying, I'm staying.
I might go to LA for a little bit.
Christmas?
Maybe.
I might go to Chicago for Christmas.
Christmas Conoco?
I'm kind of changing my plan for Christmas.
I think Christmas in Conoco start on the same day this year.
Yep.
Yep.
What are you doing?
You going to India?
I might go to New Mexico, I think.
My mom lives in New Mexico, so.
Oh, New Mexico?
Maybe I'll go with you there.
She'd probably be fine with it. I'm going to fly this time though. I think instead of drive where Santa Fe Albuquerque
It's just long enough. Yeah, seven hours and it's like it's actually eight hours
Yeah, stop and they have a dog and then like and then you drive back to and it's just like a whole day
Are you ready me for?
Your big show. I'm ready dude. I got some good tunes
Is it selling good? I think so. I haven't had any like no one's freaking out cool
I mean, I'm the opener so it's not like on me. You know what I mean? Right? They added me like a month ago
so it's like it seems like it's doing pretty well a bunch of people told me they bought tickets that are like my
People know my friends Denver. I need you to buy tickets
To our show at the Mission Ballroom. Oh, I need you to buy tickets
to our show at the Mission Ballroom.
Ooh, yeah, February 9th.
It's selling, but I mean, it's a big ass room.
It's 3,700 cap.
What is it, February what?
February 7th.
7th.
Or 9th, February 9th.
It's my birthday weekend.
There you go.
Making an event, come on out, fly out for the weekend.
We'll do, I'll make it an extravaganza.
What's your birthday again? The 11th?
The 11th. Yeah.
37, dude.
Nothing. Nothing.
You were born in 87?
Or 88. 88.
88, yeah.
Good year.
Buy your tickets to our tour.
Also, the Try Not To Die Tour has been announced.
Try not to die.
I couldn't believe it.
We are selling, this is the most pre-sale
we've ever sold in our life.
And it's still like pretty far off.
Four months away.
When's that JJ Gray tour?
January 16th.
Okay.
Yeah, we're gonna start, we're starting moving.
And then you're coming to Jam Cruise.
And yes, we're doing a live.
Maybe the 311 cruise.
We're doing a what?
I think I got you on the 311, oh shit.
I'm on the 311 cruise guys.
Are you allowed to say that?
Yeah, it's fine.
I don't know if you announced it already.
They'll find out.
I mean, is the whole cruise?
No one's gonna rat me out.
The cruise is announced.
My fans are gonna rat me out.
The cruise is announced.
Yes. Okay.
I'm playing the 311 cruise as well.
Come on, Rage At Night.
Oh cool.
Come on, Rage At Night.
That'd be so fun to be in a boat
with a bunch of 311 fans, man.
I'm really looking forward to that. That'll be so fun. No, that'd be so fun to be in a boat with a bunch of 311 fans, man. I'm really looking forward to that. That'll be so fun.
No, that'd be cool.
Jam Cruise.
Jam Cruise 2. Oh, fuck.
Dude, that whole tour is like intense. It starts in Jam Cruise.
I do a month on tour.
And then it ends at 311 Cruise.
Missions before Jam Cruise, right?
Mission.
Yeah.
Or Jam Cruise.
Jam Cruise is like late February or something?
Yeah. That would be nice.
It'll be fun.
Yeah, it'll be different than the Burt Cruise for sure.
Like as far as- And we'll be doing the podcast
on Jam Cruise.
So that's why I'm going.
There's still some tickets left.
So buy your tickets.
Annabelle texted me or messaged me.
I'm so excited you're finally coming on Jam Cruise.
Like, it's not like you asked me before.
She gave you your own room?
I think so.
Let's go, Annabelle. And I was like in my head, I'm like,
like I've turned this down.
And you know, you can ask me anytime.
Or just a large anything.
What do you want to do this week for Denver?
We have a lot of interviews we're going to do.
You got some interviews.
I got to get this band.
I got to rehearse a little.
I got to get them, you know.
I will be sitting in.
You're sitting.
OK, this is instrumental.
You can sub for Tommy
Again D black hole son. Yeah, you know close with it. No my whole I don't like to close with covers
So I'll probably do it second to last. That's cool
I'm doing my whole EP and then a couple originals that I have that are unreleased. And then how long is the set?
I think an hour probably.
Oh, cool.
Should be fun.
Yeah, it's gonna be a great time.
I love my band.
They're all good dudes.
Right.
Yeah.
All right.
So let's not party as much.
I'm not that bad at partying.
So that's thanks.
You're talking more yourself.
Yeah, I didn't do shit over Thanksgiving.
I'm going to the gym more. The game. Yeah.
My favorite got a membership. My favorite Simpsons joke of all time. The game. What
is it? Homer walks up to a gym and it says gym up here and he goes, what's that
game? And then he walks in and goes, oh, a game. He's been calling Jim guy. I've
been calling your Colt tech cutlet. Yeah, that's how everybody does that.
That's just read better.
I don't know what to tell you there.
But yeah, Cervantes, big weekend for Denver.
And then the following week is Casimir Christmas.
A lot of Denver stuff.
I'll be playing that as well.
I'm just doing a couple of tunes.
I'm doing two tunes as well.
It'll be fun.
I can't wait to play in Denver for a little bit. I've missed it. I'm doing two tunes as well. It'll be fun. I can't wait to play in Denver for a little bit.
I do it, I've missed it.
I'm doing a Christmas.
I love going to the Yacht Club and seeing you do your thing.
I'm getting good at it.
Yeah, and it's like we have a family now.
Cook in there.
I'm doing a, speaking of that,
I'm doing a company's like Christmas party.
Really?
What, trivia?
Yeah, they hit me up.
I don't know if I'm like,
You charge a lot?
Water treatment treatment pretty good
Way more than I charge it the bars private party, baby
It's like I'm in the middle of the afternoon on a Sunday. It's gonna be awesome. Yeah, hang it out
Yeah, yeah, it'll be fun. Like, you know, they don't know anything so right
It's like a bunch of scientists. Mm-hmm. It'll be cool. I'll make fun of their company and shit. I love that. It's awesome
Yeah, a lot of stuff going on
What else then we nailed it how How long is this? It's been 50 minutes. Holy shit. We're cooking. Holy fuck
Yeah, we got the award ceremony coming up. We got the words the world-saving world-saving
We got a good drummer coming in for an interview on Thursday Adam Dyche. We're trying to land a certain
Electronic artists from New Zealand might be coming on Opio some bluegrass gentleman, and I think we just confirmed Jacob Noel from sublime
Lot of fun stuff happening people so stay with us
Thanks for and also sorry for this being a day late
We I got in Monday night and I wanted to talk with Nick and we were just having fun.
We were just giggling last night.
Yeah, it would have been too rushed
because also trivia got moved on.
And after I travel, I'm kind of like congested and sad.
I hate, hate recording the podcast at night too.
Me too, because you're drained.
You're just drained already.
I like the mornings, I feel good.
It's better as a day late, but better.
We should go to a nice,
I would love to treat you and Julie to a nice dinner.
What, Tamaki Den?
Let's go.
When do you want to do it?
Whenever you want.
All right, let me see what she's got available.
She's busy right now.
She's got a lot going on.
She's working for an opera singer tomorrow.
I got someone flying in town for a couple days.
A female?
A female.
Someone I met before?
Probably online.
She's pretty popular.
What's her name?
I will not say.
Is she in a band?
She's in a band.
Won't she play?
Bass.
From New York.
Oh, cool.
Yeah.
Wait.
That's all we'll say.
Mm, okay. But maybe we'll do a double date.
I'm down. All right.
Cool. I don't think it's who I think it is, actually.
No, it's not her.
It can't be.
She has a boyfriend of like a long time.
So it's not who that's not.
No. Someone else.
Yeah. There's more than one girl base player.
Oh, yeah. It's not Karina.
Yeah. OK. That's what I was thinking about.
I was like, no, she has like a long term.
No, that's my home girl. Yeah.
OK. OK. Yeah. Yeah.
I was like, that'd be. Yeah, we'll take that. We're squashing that right away. That'd be a weird. That's what I was thinking about. I was like, no, she has like a long-term. No, that's my home girl. Yeah, okay. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. I was like, that'd be weird.
Yeah, we'll take that. We're squashing that right away.
That'd be a weird, that'd be a weird, that would never work.
Me and Karina dating.
She's also way younger and just way too wholesome.
I don't think she is.
She's like 26, right? Or something. Are she older than that?
I think she's 28, 29.
Okay. Well, fine. But either way, she's too wholesome for you.
No, no. She's my little sister.
I like her a lot.
Yeah. I love her so much. And yeah, I'm proud of Agie. And yeah, shout out to dogs my she's my little sister. I like her a lot. Yeah, I love her so much and
Yeah, I'm proud of eggie and shout the dogs on the pile and eggie
Two nights in the Capitol Theater. That's no joke. They saw it out. I don't know. I tried to I didn't want to ask
But either way they had a good crowd. Yeah, look packed. That's all that matters. Yeah, I'm gonna text I'll call Ross see what what the detets was. Ross, what were the numbers? Ross, give me the numbers now.
I like to be nosy about my bands.
Eggy and Dogs in a Pile, so the beef is over,
now they're homies, now they're co-billing.
I like it.
I really do love those boys of Eggy,
those guys are really nice.
We all hung out at their show.
Yeah, and ever since then, we've been texting.
Me and Jake are gonna write some songs together.
I wanna write songs with them, I bet I could help them.
Let's do it.
I could write them some nice horn section parts
for their tunes.
Yeah.
I love all the bands are getting bigger
and we're all doing it together.
It's fucking rad.
I hung out with their bass player.
He was cool.
Their bass player, yeah.
All right guys.
Have a great week.
Be safe out there.
Stay blessed.
Stay blessed.
Next week we have Anders Beck,
Anders Beck and Travis Book from Green Sky Bluegrass and
the Infinite String Dusters.
They're promoting, they're doing a sail trip.
I almost got on it.
Oh that!
It's like, what's the poem?
They're doing a, they're taking fans.
It's like a thing every year, right?
Yeah, sailing across the Caribbean.
Yes, this is a thing.
I wanted to go so bad, they're doing a week.
It was like during this Mexico trip
that I got hooked on in Toto Santos.
But can't wait to hear about that.
Oh yeah, what's the Mexico thing you're doing?
I'm going to Toto Santos.
Me and Sean are going.
It's just you and Sean.
Dan, Scott Morrill, and then the Corvallis.
Is it a festival? The Corvallis.
Cordovas.
The Cordovas are backing us up.
It's not a festival?
It's kind of a festival.
But they have a resort.
They bought a resort.
So they're putting all the bands in there.
It's gonna be fun.
We bought a zoo.
We bought a zoo.
I saw Gladiator 2.
Yeah?
It was good.
Denzel!
I didn't like Denzel.
Weird.
He's usually amazing. It felt like I was watching
What's that cop movie equalizer? I love that move those movies though. Yeah, but he was like equalizing. Yeah
Yeah, I heard he's kind of not it's not his best performance. No, did you see wicked yet?
No, I want to I want to go see that today wicked three hours long. Oh my god
Yeah, you need to be on a full night of sleep for that.
I like movies during the day.
I can't do movies at night anymore.
No.
I fall asleep in movie theaters a lot actually.
I love it.
Yes, very weird.
Really?
I've gone by myself to a movie and fall.
The weirdest thing that's ever happened to me
in a movie theater actually was an indie.
I would go in a movie by myself at 2 p.m.
I went and saw Lost in, not Lost in Space,
Land of the Lost, that shitty Will Ferrell movie.
This is, I went at like 2 p.m.
There's probably four people in the theater, right?
Check this out.
I sit down, this lady and her kid comes in
and they sit one seat over from me in an empty theater.
That's psychotic, right?
Yeah.
I don't know, it's just the weirdest thing
that's ever happened.
I don't know. They came and sat right next to me in a fully empty theater. I would be so pissed
I would have I almost said something like what the fuck is wrong with you, dude
Wasn't you both in the middle though? Like in the middle of the bed? It's an empty full theater, dude
They could have been like two rows. I don't know stupid. You ever have like get hand jobs in the theater. I don't
More of a not in public and job guy, I don't know,
not really into
committing sex crimes.
Why not?
Is that public?
Oh, people are in trouble
for that, didn't he?
Yeah, he got caught jerking off
in a porn theater, though.
Yeah, this is the 80s
in the interview.
Then who else?
It was like the guy
who sang Faith, Michael.
No, George, George Michael.
George Michael.
Yeah, he got caught in a bathroom,
doing something weird, yeah.
They're both dead now, so it doesn't matter.
Well, rest in peace.
Your stories will live on forever.
Yes.
That's all anyone remembers about you now,
so have fun being dead.
Have fun, be safe.
We'll be in Denver if you guys wanna go hang out.
I'm home till, fuck, I'm home till like, uh.
Come Friday, we'll hang out.
You can meet me in person and shake my hand.
Yeah, come to Cervantes.
We're gonna have, we'll do.
I have to be nice to you because it's my show.
So I'll have to. Let's go have some beers.
I'll have to talk to you like you're a person and stuff, so.
You'll be backstage.
I know you.
You don't fucking leave the couch.
We don't talk. I love the, I love the post.
We don't even talk, you just go.
I love the post up in the green room, man.
It's such a vibe, right?
Yep.
All right, I love you guys, be safe out there.
Don't take no shit and have peace with yourself.
That's one thing I learned.
Have peace.
You're in this body forever.
Not forever, until you go somewhere else.
So, you might as well be comfortable in it.
Agree.
Bye.
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