Andy Frasco's World Saving Podcast - EP 77.5: A Quarantini EP w/ Jeremy Salken (Big Gigantic)

Episode Date: March 19, 2020

On a special end of the week update, Frasco hosts good buddy and fellow-quarantiner, Jeremy Salkin from Big Gigantic. They keep their distance physically, but grow closer emotionally. Dolav finds new outlets for his competitive side. Expect an extra episode every week from the WSP team as we get through this pandemic together, separately.  Follow us on Instagram @worldsavingpodcast For more information on Andy Frasco, tour dates, the band and the blog, go to: AndyFrasco.com Check out Big Gigantic at http://freeyourmind.biggigantic.net/  The views discussed on this podcast do not necessarily reflect those of the guests. Stay informed and wash those hands

All right, all right, all right. Here we are again. You get two episodes a week now until this shit blows off. Blows off. Blows over. Blows over. Until Corona stops sucking everyone's dicks for a second. No. What's up, everyone? Andy Frasco's World Saving Podcast. I'm Andy. I'm your quarantine leader, hopefully, you know, for the time being. You know, we're going to give you a full episode and we're going to give you a half episode at the end of the week. Just me and whoever wants to talk to me in Colorado before they lock us down. So we're going to do this one. It's very special, very intimate. But I got my homie, my boy, Jeremy Jew Unit,

Sulkin from Big Gigantic with me for a little, we had a quarantine dinner and we said, let's put on the fucking, let's put on the fucking let's put on the mics the quarantine mics and uh let's see what we could talk about to get everyone um you know what we're doing in preparation of a lockdown because you know fuck it we might get locked down i don't know some cities already locked down some cities might not get locked down but people are gonna get uh there's gonna be some people are just gonna be be sitting in their house for a while. So I decided, you know, fuck it. I'm going to give you guys, we're going to do a full on world saving podcast style episode on Tuesdays.

And then at the end of the week, just another one with whoever wants to talk in the town. I'm going to get some managers. 11-11, maybe my manager will come. He's a hypochondriac. He's not leaving his fucking house. But I'll get some people in Denver to talk about just special quarantine stuff. Try to lighten the mood a little bit. Get some dick jokes.

Maybe Chris, we could do little voicemails or do some halftime with our boys just to voicemails or a little fucking do some half time with our boys just to lighten the mood a little bit. So at least we could give you two podcasts a week until at least for the next three weeks, a month.

So we could just keep things entertained. I know we're fucking bored. Damn. I was so bored I was watching Love is Blind. And it was fucking awesome how trashy that show is. Oh my god. If you don't... It's like...

I grew up with sisters, so watching these cliche fucking hopeless romantic things are entertaining to me. Because normally when I was a kid, just watching my sisters cry, I'm like, oh my God, they're so sensitive.

I'm like, yo, what the fuck is wrong with this dude? But it's real juicy. It's real entertaining if you want to watch that. I'm watching McMillions too. McDonald's, the thing about Monopoly scam on HBO, fucking fire so far. I started one episode. I'm like, damn, this is tight

as fuck. So I've been watching that. And then video games. So if anyone is on Nintendo Switch or PlayStation 4, I'm out taking whooping ass on NBA 2K. I'm not doing too good on Mario Kart, but I'm competitive

and I'll fucking scream out the microphone. So if you want to go against your boy Frasco, Nintendo Switch, my profile name is Fro Frasco. PlayStation 4 is Frasco Fiasco or Fiasco Frasco. One of those, but you'll find it.

Here's a question in commentary with my boy Jeremy. We got takeout for the last time before they shut down the fucking, uh, Denver, uh, restaurant scene. But before we go support those local businesses, you know, you could go to McDonald's, but you could also pay five bucks more and support your local restaurant, uh, before they have to shut down for a couple of weeks. Hopefully they don't. Hopefully we could just do takeouts, but just in case shit gets crazy next week, support your

local people. Also support the bands. A lot of live streams going on. I know it's like, fuck, dude. You're like, I just watched 10 concerts tonight. I don't have any money to spend anymore. It's okay. Pick your battles. Everyone's going to be doing live streams at least twice, three times a week. We're just trying to entertain y'all.

We're a community. You guys need music and we need our fans right now. Alright, ladies and gentlemen. I'd like to welcome Jeremy to the show. I probably won't catch you on the tail end. We'll probably just make these short episodes for the end of the week. I love you

and I'll see you on Tuesday. We got a big interview. I won't tell you. We'll just keep you surprised. So you can look forward to Tuesdays and Fridays or Thursdays, whenever this one comes out. All right. Love you guys. Bye.

And we're here. Quarantine episode, another one. I'm with Jeremy Sulkin from Big Gigantic. How you doing, buddy? Hey there, guy. Let's see how precautionary we are right now. Jeremy is holding the microphone via napkin just in case Frasco's got the corona. What's going on?

Thanks for proof. Are you nervous about this shit or what? I'm freaking out a little bit. I'm trying to keep my paranoia. We're Jews. We're Jews. I was going to say Jewish paranoia, but I don't want to assume that.

Stereotype it. Stereotype it too hard, but there's some DNA related to the paranoia in general. What are we scared of? I don't know. It's kind of crazy. I don't think I'm scared of getting sick or getting the flu because that's happened before, like months ago. You know, like as early as, you know, as soon as months ago, I had whatever kind of cold or flu that I had.

But yeah, I think it's the fear that's built up socially and online and in the media. Yeah. It's like induced a panic and everyone's freaking out. And there's no silver lining because everyone's panicked. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't know if it's like, oh, we're going to get out of this soon. It's not like, okay, a hurricane's coming

and eventually the hurricane's going to pass and then we're going to out of this soon it's not like okay a hurricane's coming and eventually the hurricane's gonna pass and then we're gonna go back to normal we don't know what the end of the hurricane looks like yeah especially with our careers like is it gonna fuck up yes like is it gonna fuck up social gatherings altogether it for a little bit yeah we're gonna we'll be okay yeah music has been around since the beginning of time and we'll we're gonna get through this and people will gather again at some point it might not be for i mean it's hopefully it's only a few months like tops yeah but it's definitely messing up our industry in a big way, but also every industry. Nothing is kind of exempt from this. That's why we're kind of all in this together.

We're all in this together and we love to take a bath. You want to take a bath tonight? No, that's a fish lyric. Oh, is it? Yeah. Bathtub gin. Oh, I see. I'm not heady enough for that.

You're not heady. No. During my quarantine, I'm going to start listening to fish digging in some fish so what's the weirdest thing you bought on amazon then so far for this quarantine um i bought a toto bidet uh the other day why which well i was going to get it eventually i moved into a new place and I literally had them put an electrical outlet in the bathroom specifically so I could get this bidet because you have to plug it in.

Really? And I've been in my house for like three months, haven't gotten the bidet, you know, been doing other stuff. And this just kind of inspired me because everyone's buying toilet paper. It's not as much toilet paper. And I was just like, now's the time.

And I have plenty of toilet paper. I'm going to be fine. So you don't need toilet paper if you have a bidet? I would assume a lot less. So you just have to wash it, water that shit. You're spraying it down. And it's got a dryer. It's got a blow dryer on it.

Shut the fuck up. Dude, so you're full. It's a car wash for your ass or other parts, you know? So you got a bidet during the quarantine. What else did you get? That's one of the weirder things

that I've gotten. I bought a dumbbell and what do you call that? Rope? That you jump rope. Rope. Nice, man. Yeah, workout equipment

I feel like is huge. I almost, I was at Costco today. I told is huge I almost I was at Costco today I told you this earlier at Costco saw this weight like dumbbell set you know it had two fives two tens it was like 150 I should have bought that

which seemed it seemed like a lot I mean I guess maybe it's not but I went to go pick up the box but the box weighs like 200 pounds because it's literally like 230 pound weighs 225 pound weighs 250 you know all the way down and a rack and it said like team lift on the box and i didn't have the team there i would have been your teammate dog you should have hit me up we should have gone together man let's go tomorrow all right let's get a weight kit okay let's get a weight kit. Okay, let's get a weight kit.

Yep. And then I want to get some... You need to get some cleaning supplies, dude. Really? I'm kind of checking out your cabinets a little bit. We need to get you more prepared for the apocalypse. Okay. Not too prepared, but just prepared enough.

Like what kind of cleaning supplies you think I need? Today, for example, I got the... There's like a Meyers. It's like three different flavors of disinfectant spray. And they had it at Costco. And I just, I figured that it's, I'm going to use it eventually, whether I use it when I'm cleaning stuff during this

or in the next five years, it'll get used. So that's kind of the justification for it. I'm going to get it. Buying stupid stuff. What, in the next five years? You bought that much? No, I just, it's three of them. So buying stupid stuff. I'm going to get it. What, in the next five years? You bought that much? No, it's three of them. So over the next few, I mean, yeah, over the next year,

you'll probably go through it maybe. I don't know. That's how much you clean. I did buy a lot of booze. You bought any booze? You did. You stocked up. Well, yes, I bought a case of wine from my homies at Proper Pour, which is a great

like natural wine shop. So I got a case of natural vino, which would be great. Hopefully not give me headaches or, you know, whatever make you feel weird. Any weirder than you like want to feel. I know because anything will trigger you to think you got the Rona. Well, that's the problem is after i got it and was like you know drinking some i was like wait a minute this always fucks my immune system up so maybe i shouldn't be doing this right now i need to my immune system needs to be like

top notch yeah until i get it if i get it then fuck it you know you get it and hopefully you get through it and then we can start drinking start laughing about laughing about it um but yeah i didn't uh i did get some tequila that was shipped to me by some homies that have a tequila company who were sending me tequila for tour because we were about to go on tour so they were like sending me like okay here here's a case. And now I just have a case of tequila at the crib ready to go that I could drink it during this time off or I could try to save some of it for when we go on tour. Do you think we're overstressing because we're single and we just have these houses and we're here by ourselves?

If we had one other person to help us with this thing, do you think we'd be less stressed out? Do you think a little bit oh or just be less stressed probably it'd be yeah because we're thinking we're just in our heads so much now because we have nothing else to bounce yeah these fucking weird ass thoughts stupid ideas yeah should i buy a bidet or not yeah but like seriously like maybe this is the time we need quarantine girlfriends quarantine girlfriends oh i like that the problem is if they're not living with you and they go somewhere else even even go back to their house and their roommates or to their house if they live with their parents i don't know whatever if they go to another situation and then come back they could have picked up the

rona there and brought it back and all of a sudden you're hanging out and doing whatever you're doing and being intimate and then next thing you know you got the road you start sneezing this is how erotic we are scratchy throat yeah and then you got the the corones man and what are you worried about your parents i am i am actually i am too yeah i'm i'm super worried about my parents and uh um my stepbrother uh herbie shout out to her is he has muscular dystrophy and his immune system can get compromised like really easily and that that he doesn't recover you know as well from colds and things like that, that he doesn't recover, you know, as well from colds and things like that. So that's like really serious.

And, but they were out, they were, I talked to him yesterday and they were out at like a Vietnamese place. And I was like, mom, what are you guys doing eating out at just a restaurant? Why are you eating out at a restaurant?

She's like, we're fine, honey. We have hand sanitizer and we're washing our hands a lot and i was like mom yeah it could be on a fork it could be on like literally anything and not that it's the restaurant is dirty or whatever but you could touch the doorknob that has it the handle going in and so i kind of like was like you guys probably shouldn't you know do that because if someone gets sick like one of them it just yeah that it definitely worries me yeah it works fuck yeah my dad's overweight my mom has uh you know diabetes like a damn early kind but yeah or like

not a really crazy kind but like and they live in la where there's fucking 20 million people there you know it's like it's a lot of people like what are your parents live in richmond they're in virginia yeah so it's a little less people yeah but like it only takes one my friend you don't need a lot or a little i mean like this shit's coming from out of the country so it's like you know a lot of people travel here travel i already have dude you look at aspen and vale vale had like one of the biggest outbreak um like numbers or whatever at this time in aspen there were like 20 cases up there at one point and and those are teeny towns you know but you have people were traveling people traveling bringing people traveling, bringing their own eye in. I mean, people in Denver, people travel to Denver,

but they're not traveling from Europe. They're going to New York. Yeah. They're going to San Francisco. They are, but you're not in this like, you don't have somebody from Europe going to a ski resort, staying at this hotel. There's only so many restaurants that are in those small towns.

So like everybody's kind of hitting the same thing i mean i you know i don't know how this shit spreads like is it from sitting next to somebody on an airplane and they sneeze and somehow the germs magically latch onto you in russia dude is it is it yeah is it fucking putin is it it's probably putin putin and trump probably figured you know they're onto something but you don't know did you get it from a doorknob? Did you get it from shaking someone's hand? High five, looking at somebody weird. But what can we do to like kind of get rid of anxiety with this thing?

Because that's what's going to get us sick too. Just breathe. You got to breathe. Yeah. Because like people have panic attacks and like that lowers your immune system just as much. It does. Yeah.

So what can we do? Like, can we build a schedule for ourselves while we're quarantined? All right, from nine to 10, I'm going to go work out. I'm going to go work out, work out my house. Then I'm going to read a book. Then I'm going to go take a nap.

I think having some sort of schedule, then I'm going to take a nap. So you're going to wake up, read a book, work out, take a nap. I mean, there's nothing to do with the house, right? No, I think that's one of the things workout take a nap i mean you're there's nothing to do with the house right is it no i think that's one of the things i'm trying to get get going is like to get a good schedule happening because it's hard i feel like it's really hard for uh musicians and or just just people that

don't have like a nine to five it's all it's always been a challenge for me to like get on a good schedule once once i have shit that I have to do, I crush it out. I'm great at it, but it's that in between where it's just hard for me to really establish a schedule. So that's something I want to get up at the same time. So what would be your ideal schedule during the Rona?

Definitely waking up at a decent time, eight o'clock, let's say for now you know if you're by yourself you're going to bed at 10 right probably midnight man i'm kind of a night owl dude i end up just like i'm my brain is like cranking at night for whatever reason but yeah as long as i get seven or eight hours of sleep, wake up, ideally work out, like wake up, kind of stretch and work out. Don't even eat any food. Just work out right away. And then do like, you know, eat some food, do a little protein shake or something to get all the good nutrients in after you work out, take a shower. And then it'd be great to practice at that point. It would be nice. Yeah. Like practice the drums.

But that probably won't happen, unfortunately. Why not? I'm just terrible at it. Me too, bro. I'm just a bad practicer. I'm a bad practicer too. I got to force myself to write. Yeah.

Like I'm going to write right now. Yeah. Do you think it's because we do it so much that when we're home, we feel like that's the last thing we want to do is our work? It's weird. It's not like it's something that I do better in a group scenario than I do by myself. So if I'm, you know, I didn't go to school.

I'm self-taught. So I feel like going to school, you really get that rigidity of like, all right, you need to go home and shed for fucking four eight hours whatever you need to get all this stuff it builds that discipline in not going to school for music i you know never had that and it's been hard to like push it and um that's one of the things that is the biggest challenge by far is for me, like practicing, getting in a good routine of it. I'm always putting it off or just, there's a million other things to do in the day and it like gets sidetracked. But if I have some homies that are around and they're like, yo, let's play, let's work on this idea. Let's work on this tune. Let's

put, do this, whatever, blah, blah, blah. i'm way better at like yes so i do better in teams i'm like a team player yeah me too in that way what about um yeah it's crazy like what does your manager say about this like what about the business side like are your managers scared about the music stuff um yeah i think i think everybody all man management right now is freaking out or trying to figure out another way to get some income coming in. But yeah, I mean, if we don't have gigs, then they don't get a percentage of those gigs. You know what I mean? If streaming goes up, if people are streaming shit like crazy,

then that could generate more income for revenue for management. Agents definitely are not getting it. Booking agents, forget about it. Which, it sucks, man. Hopefully, I really feel for kind of everybody. You canceled your whole fucking tour, didn't you? Yeah, we postponed it. Postponed it.

And we're rebooking it and working on trying to get it for August. Isn't that scary, though? Because now you're competing with everyone who's postponing gigs. Everybody's going to be touring in August now, but at the same time, everybody that is touring now or was in March is going to move it to August. So it's kind of the same difference.

I just hope that the fans are still like as hungry for it and have money to buy tickets. Cause if nobody's working anywhere if restaurants are closed if you know offices are closed if everything's shut down then it's not like people are gonna have money magical money to buy these concert tickets with but um this is the real recession for musicians and entertainers oh yeah entertainment but think about like sports there's no sports no sport it is halftime at the endy fresco interviewer hello everybody welcome to dolov sportscast he's talking about game. He's got a weird fucking name.

It's Sports with Don't Love. This week we're going to be talking some quarantining games. That's right. We're all stuck inside. So it's time to play some games. I'm talking marble racing. Let's go. I got the fucking yellow one.

You got the purple one. My marble's going to kick your fucking. I'm talking marble racing, let's go! I got the fucking yellow one. You got the purple one. My marble's gonna kick your fucking marbles out. Lego building. Who can build the best, most perfect fucking Lego construction ever? We got a fucking pyramid. We got a castle. Andy, your Lego building skills ain't shit, bitch! That's right, fuck you.

We got fucking stacking. Cub stacking. Stacking toys. Dildo stacking. Fucking whatever you want. Beer cans. White claw cans. My stack is way higher than your stack will ever be. What else we got? Puzzles. Build your puzzle faster than me. You can't do it. That's right. You cannot. I'll kick your fucking ass. Let's get real with it. I've been working like crazy. And what's this I hear? Fucking vintage pistol. Garrett, fuck you trying to take over my show. Uh-uh. That shit's not acceptable.

Dog, fuck your nuggets. You ain't shit. Fucking band ain't shit. Nah, you guys are all right. But Andy ain't shit. Fuck Denver. Andy, I can't believe you moved over there. You're such a fucking little bitch.

It's sports with Dola. Fucking Play-Doh bitch. Woo-hoo. Do we need to stop being on our phones and stop looking at this shit? I don't know. Yes and no. Because it's freaking us out.

It's good to say, I think, somewhat informed. Because what if you didn't look at your phone at all, right? And you're just living your life and doing the thing. And like, I mean, I guess you still watch TV, but if you're ignoring all kind of media related to it, you might think it's still the end of the world. And people are like going back to normal and you're like not touching anything.

You're not going outside. You're not fucking with anybody. You're not doing anything. So I think it's important balance yeah and and community is really good and important so like staying in touch with your friends um you know facetime people if you can facetime them or talk to them on the phone i think it's important so you don't like isolate yourself too much because then I think you might go a little cray-cray. Yeah, I felt like that. I've been in my house for like three days and I was going crazy, dude.

Yeah, same. I wish I had a roommate. If anybody's looking for a place to live in Denver. Yeah, quarantine girlfriends, holler at us. But you're staying with us. As long as you've been vetted. So yeah, you could have them at the crib for two weeks, quarantined, and then you get to know them,

but no touching or any, no like three feet, one meter distance. Sleep in separate rooms for two weeks. Yeah, two weeks. And then once they're good. Like Brady Bunch. Yeah, some Brady Bunch shit. Quarantine girlfriends.

You're so neurotic. I want a quarantine girlfriend. I really do. That's like a Frank Zappa song, straight up. Dude, that's a fucking 2020 song yeah quarantine girlfriend but i don't know man i think it's you know like how much is this is you know like fear-based media because if it is just a cold like you're seeing people are just getting fucking you know it's like what else is going people get it and then recover from it i think once more people get it and then they recover hopefully we can chill out a little bit to some extent and and protect people that might be

compromised i think it's gonna help when italy starts recovering and europe starts recovering yeah but they're yeah Yeah, Italy's fucked. Fucked right now. Why do you think they're fucked? It just seems like they're fucked. I don't know. Every piece of news coming out of there is like... It's crazy.

And I'm not even up to date on their situation. It just seems like it's getting worse and worse by the second. Well, they just locked it down. So that's what probably is going to happen to us. Yeah, we're... You think we're days away or weeks away from lockdown of today's? I think we're two days away. I mean, you saw that

restaurant. They're like, we're closing for two weeks starting. They're doing takeout tomorrow and then the next day they're closed for two weeks. I thought they were going to lock us down at night. Restaurants? The restaurant we ate at today. Yeah. We didn't eat at the restaurant, but we got takeout. I thought they could do... I think they were going to lock us down tonight. Wait, restaurants? The restaurant we ate at today. Yeah. We didn't eat at the restaurant, but we got takeout. I thought they could do takeout.

I think they're just closed and they can do takeout for the next few weeks. No, they said they're closed after tomorrow. And no takeout? No takeout. That company, True Food. Oh, True Food. Yeah, they're great. Good food.

Damn it, man. Shit is crazy. I think- Let's stock up stock up on food we're gonna be cooking at home what's great is seeing um it sucks getting sucked into uh instagram and stories and all the nonsense but it's fun seeing people like what they're doing at home people are cooking i'm seeing a ton of people posting stuff about cooking cooking talking to their friends talking to their mom you know like out of the silver lining i think of this whole thing we'll leave at this for now is we're gonna have relationships again yeah and not just fake relationships of just liking someone's photo and not talking to them sure yeah, yeah. I think the most important thing that we're going to learn from this is human-to-human relationships again.

I just had a conversation with my best friend for 35 minutes because we have nothing to do. We're stuck in our fucking house. Yeah, you just start talking. Yeah, just talk. I think that's one thing. Talk to your friends. Get to know everyone again because we have the time.

What else are you going to do? Are you going to keep refreshing Facebook and Instagram when you could just call someone and see how they're really feeling you gotta start working more yeah like getting in that creative well that too definitely working on relationships i've talked to so many friends in the last few days that it's great but it's also it's a bummer because you're like let's hang out oh we can't hang out can we hang out? Come over for dinner? Maybe. Is that a good idea?

I don't know. So what can we do? FaceTime each other? Maybe watch a movie together? FaceTiming? If you have the ability to FaceTime. What do you say about working? Yeah, like we need to get our work ethics down.

Instead of refreshing Facebook or looking at Instagram, we need to put the phone down and get creative yeah and just start working on your craft and um i want to learn french yeah yeah dude if you come out if you come out of this shit speaking french i will i will laugh so freaking hard i'll be so proud of you write some songs in french i'm i'm gonna i'm telling you quarantine girlfriend's gonna be a french girl you need I'm going to write some songs in French. I'm telling you, quarantine girlfriend is going to be a French girl. You need to find a French woman who's been quarantined.

Her name is Brigitte. Brigitte Nielsen? Hey, Brigitte. Hello, Brigitte. We FaceTime each other. Hello, my sweet baby. You're so sexy to me. So, just in case we don't get to see each other for a couple weeks.

Damn. Don't say that, man. That's sad. I hope not. But just in case we don't, we got to FaceTime each other. Let's FaceTime. Call your mom a lot. Yep.

What else can we do? We could play virtual board games. I heard they're doing that now. You could play board games. Virtual board games? Yeah. Let's do that. I love that. I just got some board games. Virtual board games? Yeah. Let's do that. I love that.

I just got some board games, but I realized no one's going to be able to come over. So I'm going to be just staring at these fucking board games. Staring at them. Well, that's when you got to do the virtual board games. Call somebody that has Catan, and you can start a Catan game. You just get a few homies involved.

You just have to trust that they're not cheating. Don't fucking cheat some board games. That's why. What else is going on? We got one more thing to talk about. Are you sad?

Are you lonely? Do you need a girlfriend? We already talked about that. I know, but like really? But like, do I? Do I ask that? I mean,

that'd be- Are you looking for love? Yeah. I've been looking for love for quite a while. What's going on? What happened? What do you mean what happened? Like, why are you looking i'm just a romantic romantic at heart i've all

that's that's been like part of my nature since i was a kid for like adult young adult what just been like a hopeless hopeless romantic yeah out there this is why you're an artist looking for the one i don't know i'm sure there's other people that are like that that aren't artists. Hold on, talk about this. Tell me about it. You've been looking for love your whole life? Haven't we?

I guess a lot of people don't. They don't. I've been looking for love my whole life too. Bro, why haven't we connected? I don't know. But seriously. I mean, yeah, you know, it's hard. And you find it, you you know different people at the time

might be the right person for you and you grow in a certain way and you know or are you lonely whatever probably sometimes i am too yeah not all the time it comes and goes yeah now we got these houses and shit i I know. And now it's like, I have a lot of space. I got a lot of space. It's like, I got a lot of friends having kids too. I'm like,

Oh, I can't even look at that fucking shit, dude. Yeah. Instagram is crazy for me now. It's all, is it? Yeah.

Fucking pregnant. It's hard. You don't like it? I mean, it just like, it freaks me out. Like, am I doing something wrong?

Yeah. Like, am I, is it me? It's rubbing it. Yeah. Doesn't. No Yeah. Does it feel like it's rubbing it? That doesn't agree to this? It's not. That pops up in my head actually quite a bit.

And I'm like, wait, why? Because for a while, out of a lot of my friends, I had my shit together the most. I had the most steady job, kept my house clean, owned a house, all these things. And I was like, okay, in theory, I have these, those are like material kind of things, but I felt like I was pretty solid as a person, you know?

And, but it's like, dude, there's no timeline for that kind of shit. And people get married, people get divorced, people have kids, they get divorced with kids, it's the whole thing. So just because somebody has something now doesn't mean they will in the future. And if your timeline is different,

it doesn't mean it's a bad timeline or that they're in a better spot or whatever. It's just kind of, we're all in different cars going on different paths. And that's okay. You just got to embrace that shit and be happy for people that if they're happy, fucking be happy for them.

And that's my biggest thing. Maybe that's the same thing with this quarantine. Just embrace it. Yeah. For now. You don't have a choice. We have no choice. So why are we stressing about it?

Let's just get through this. Let's fucking have each other's backs. Yep. And eventually, you know, this will pass and we'll find love. You too, buddy. Thanks for being on the show. I love you, man. Any last words? Oh, yeah, elbows. You and you will find love. You too, buddy. Thanks for being on the show. I love you, man. Any last...

Oh, your elbows. You tried to shake my hand. I said, no, sorry, sir. Yeah, I forgot that's the new lingo. Any last remarks for the people that are stuck at home? Man, you know, just do the best you can. Don't put too much pressure on yourself. Don't, you know, if you are there with loved ones

take it easy on each other you're spending a lot of time together so you're bound to get caught up in whatever nonsense try not to argue try to make the best of it try to love each other and wash your hands don't touch your face yeah that's it yeah and uh if you're sick what do you think just yeah if you're sick don't be scared it gets worse and worse don't be scared go see a professional if it's really bad but don't don't freak yourself out because you have you know because panic attacks that shit could happen too you know you want to you know you're going to manifest your worst fears or your your your dreams yeah and and my experience you can do both you can you can it's all in how you look at a situation you know you can't you can't manifest a cold to not happen

or flu or whatever but if you keep a positive mindset and you really are in it for the right reasons, you will come out on top. People around you will come out on top. It all will work in your favor. You just got to stay positive. Stay positive. All right, guys. We'll see you next episode.

I love you. We're going to just keep on. Whoever wants to come to the house, we'll talk about it. And we're just going to keep on doing these podcasts until this podcasts and until this thing gets better love you buddy love you too man so what i'm strung out once again it takes so much to be your friend you wonder why i don't let you in I spend my life letting you down I spend my time holding my ground I'll testify until I'm found

At least I know who I am Here's to letting you down I'm going for another round Here's to letting you down Here's to breaking your heart And keeping you in the dark Here's to letting you down