apricotaudios - [A] Anxiety Comfort // Cuddling & Sleep-Aid
Episode Date: February 5, 2021Rated: [A] all genders; nicknames used: Darling // In the beginning, I ask if you need some comfort/cuddles. Once you’re all snuggled into me, we do some breathing exercises to help you get nice and... relaxed. We acknowledge and validate your feelings together, and I remind you that it’s okay to feel anxious. You’re stronger than you think, and I believe in you. In the end, I suggest we continue cuddling, and I promise that you can stay in my arms for as long as you need to. I tell you that I love you and give you a sweet kiss. There’s some sleep aid (whispering, shushing, breathing) provided because cuddles and a short nap sound like a good idea (and you deserve some rest). // Tags: [Nervousness] [Comfort] [Reassurance] [Cuddles] [Breathing Exercises] [Safe Space] [Sleep Aid] [Gentle] [Shushing] [L-Bombs/ILY] [2 kisses]
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Hey darling, do you need a cuddle or some comfort?
Yeah, that's okay. You can come here into my arms.
Let me just wrap my arms around you and hold you close, okay?
Snuggle up close to me and feel my chest rise and fall.
You can just be here with me.
Okay? I've got you, darling.
It's okay. It's all gonna be alright.
I want you to get a little more relaxed and calm.
So can you take a few deep breaths with me?
Mm-hmm.
We're just gonna breathe in through our nose and then out through our mouth, like this.
In and out.
You don't have to hold it in for as long as I am.
Go at your own pace, okay?
Yeah, let's do another one.
Let's do another one.
In and out.
Okay?
In.
There you go, darling.
He did really well.
Just keep breathing for me like that.
And I'll take care of the rest.
Okay?
I've got you.
You're safe with me.
And I'm not going to let anything happen to you.
I know that a lot of things may be running through your head right now
and you're really worked up or anxious about them.
about them. And I want you to know that your emotions, regardless of whichever ones you may be feeling, are valid.
All of them are valid and you're allowed to feel them. I'm proud of you for handling them so well.
I know that some of them may be really difficult, and we can just acknowledge them, say hi to them,
and then put them aside. We don't really need to worry about them right now. Yeah? Yeah. Yeah.
Hmm
Darling
It's all right to be anxious
It's all right to be worried
It makes you human
Yeah
And you can let it out
You can share your worries with me
If you're feeling comfortable
You don't have to go through
and alone because we're in this together
I've got you
You can hold my hand
Rest your head against my chest
or hug a stuffy if you feel like it.
Whichever one makes you feel more comfortable.
There.
Yeah, like that.
It's just the two of us right now,
and nothing bad is going to happen.
I'm right here,
and right now,
you don't have to worry about any expectations or responsibilities.
Your only job is to breathe.
You've done that your whole life,
and you can do it for me now, okay?
That's it, darling.
In and out.
You're not in danger and you're not in trouble.
Everything is okay and everything will be fine, okay?
I know you'll try your hardest and that's all anyone could ever ask for.
You can always ask for help too.
You can always ask me and there are plenty of people who want to help you.
I believe in you, darling.
You don't have to be afraid of us.
You are a fighter, and I'll be right by your side.
You're stronger than you think, and together we're pretty much invincible.
Yeah, you can get through it together.
It won't last forever, and I promise you that it all gets better.
Yeah, for now, we can just cuddle, and I'll hold you for as long as you need to,
I'm gonna keep you here in my arms, and I'm gonna keep you safe.
Yeah? Does that sound like a good idea?
Cuddles and a short nap? It's all okay.
I'm here.
And now I'll take care of you.
I've got you.
And we can share the load together.
Yeah. You don't have to go through it alone.
I'm really proud of you, darling.
you darling you've been handling everything so well and I know that you'll get through it.
It's not gonna last forever.
Yeah, I believe in you and I love you.
We'll get through it together.
Everything's gonna be okay.
I'm gonna keep you safe and there's nothing for you to worry about.
