Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard - Armchair Anonymous: Cruise Ship

Episode Date: May 30, 2025

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Wondry Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad free right now. Join Wondry Plus in the Wondry app or on Apple podcasts, or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous. I'm Dak Shepard and this is Monica Padman. Hi. Hello, today is cruise ships.

Oof, didn't make me wanna go on a cruise, I'll tell you that. I know, we should have almost called Laura LeBeau as an antidote, because she just went on a Viking cruise. And she loved it. At the time of her life. Oh good, my parents have gone on a couple

and they love it. She said she's not gonna do any other cruise line though after this experience. She said the food was absolutely outrageously good. Yeah, this one, this one you can listen to, I think. You can listen to this one. Oh no, the chemical cauterization. Oh!

Yeah. Oh yeah. But no, well, whatever. There's fluids. I don't know. There's fluids. Yeah. All right, please enjoy Crew Ship Stories.

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Hello Hal. Hello, it's nice to meet you. Is that your lover's blouse behind you or yours? Is it birds or flowers on the sleeves? It is my wife's. We are in my daughter's closet. You guys did the impossible. You got my daughter to clean up her closet.

Oh wow. Just so I can talk to you guys. Well you're welcome, I guess, because that's an impossible task. It is an impossible task, as you probably know that. Yes, how old is your daughter? I have two, just like you. I've got a ninth grader and a seventh grader,

so I'm a couple of years ahead of you. Oh, yeah, things are getting real busy. They are. Where are you at, Hal? I am in Lloyd Harbor, New York. It's on Long Island. Oh, how far from the city? About 40 miles or so.

If you want to go to like Montauk, how long of a trip is that for you? I'm on the North shore of Long Island. Nantauk is on the South and all the way out East. So it's a good hour and a half, two hours from here. That's not bad though. Your two hours from paradise. Exactly. Although I'd say where we are is pretty Edenic as well.

Edenic? I like that. Wow. That's a takeoff on Eden? Yeah. Did you know it, Monica? I don't think I've heard it. Edenic.

That's a good vocab word. That's going in my arsenal. Okay. So you have a crazy cruise ship story. I do. Can I set the stage a little bit first? Oh, you can set the fuck out of the stage Hal. All right. This is about 2002.

I'm a couple of years younger than you, Dax, but basically the same age. I was in law school. It's our second year. And if you know anything about how law school works, after your first year, which is super intense, you try and get an internship in the fall of that year for the following summer. And so my friends and I, we all got our internships. So this was spring break of our second year of law school. And we're feeling pretty good.

We're less stressed. We want to blow it out. So we book a cruise and it's for spring break. So it's on a party cruise line. For me, this is a big deal. I didn't get to go on many vacations growing up. I was on loans. And really quick, if you're on a budget cruise is nice.

Could you get the drink pass at that point? There was no drink pass. That hurt a lot. I didn't realize that was gonna be a thing until the end of the cruise when you get that bill. I get really sick the week before. It's a couple days before we're supposed to leave and I don't think I can go.

I've got fever, I can't swallow, I've got congestion. I'm just horrible. My buddy describes that he came over to drop off a sandwich for me so I could eat. And he said he opened the door and it smelled and felt like death. So it was basically that kind of situation. He immediately drops the sandwich and basically runs out. He goes and calls my other friend. And you know when you have that friend who's kind of like the party guy, the motivator, the guy who's going to get you to go and do something. He was that guy. And he called me up and just gave me some tough love. He's like, you're going, there's no chance you're not fix

yourself. So I go, I grabbed some antibiotic and it kicks in about a day and a half later. I'm feeling a little bit better. If you take antibiotic, those labels on it tell you no sun, If you take antibiotic, those labels on it tell you no sun, living alcohol. Oh boy. No cruises basically. Cruise maybe not the best choice, right? But I'm good to go, I'm going. We get to the cruise, you get on the first day

and if you've taken a cruise, you're gonna go up to the top and you're gonna watch it disembark. Can I quickly ask where is it taking off from and where will you be going? We're taking off out of Miami and we're going down to the Caribbean. So we're gonna hit like St. Thomas and St. Croix.

Classic cruise. On the Carnival Cruise Line, so the classic cruise line as well. So we're up on the top and we're watching it leave and we've already got our first boat drinks in our hands. But remember, I'm not supposed to be in the sun and I'm not supposed to have alcohol. And first day, I'm out on the deck drinking alcohol and in the sun. I didn't realize this,

but you don't feel the sun on the cruise, right? Because you get all that wind from how fast you're going. So it feels pretty cool even when it's hot. But you see my pigmentation here. I am not somebody who tans easily. I burn almost immediately, which started to happen. But I realized, I said, all right, I better put some sunblock on. And at this point, I'm in that phase where I've had enough drinks where I think I'm pretty good at everything.

And so I start putting my sunblock on. I think I've got good coverage, but the next day I wake up and clearly I had just smeared sunblock kinda down the center of my chest. And now I've got the worst sunburn I've ever had. And I think Wobby Wob has a picture. Let's take a gander at this sunburn.

To say you're a lobster is just as spot on as it gets. And it's a really flattering picture too. It's everything you want. We'll get to where that picture takes place. Cause that's two or three days later. Oh, okay. I've got a beer in hand again. And at this point, you know that first of all, my friends are

giving me so much shit. I'm also the guy on the cruise who has this ridiculous sunburn. And so everybody's starting to know me as that guy with the sunburn. It also hurts, right? So I have to kind of shield myself from sun wherever I can. I'm in the shade, but two days later I'm okay. I'm going out. It hadn't blistered yet. It hadn't started peeling yet because that happened later, but we get to the beach on, I think it was St. Croix at this point and we're feeling good. We're on the beach drinking

a beer. You know, we start chatting up this group of women. We go into the water. This is all going super well. I'm feeling good. I'm in the water. I'm out of the sun, right? It's not hurting anymore. My antibiotic has taken care of everything it needs to take care of. And I'm talking to this pretty woman.

This was long before my wife. And I stubbed my toe. In the water? In the water. Oh. Well, a shell. Maybe it's a shell. Maybe it's a piece of coral, something,. I stubbed my toe and it hurts,

but I try not to think anything of it. And I just keep chatting up this woman and starts to hurt some more. What is this? This really hurts. Now I'm like kind of walking away from her and my buddy's chatting her up and I take my foot up out of the water, kind of trying to see if there's anything there holding my toe. And my friend looks at and he says, what's all that black stuff

on the bottom of your foot? And I say, I don't know. And then at that point pain sets in, like I've never felt before. I am writhing around. I'm screaming. Now I'm also scared because I have no idea what this is. So I started trying to get out of the water. Is it a burning pain or like an impact?

It says stinging searing pain. Okay. So I go hopping out of the water and if you've ever tried to get out of the ocean on one foot it's actually really hard. So now I'm like army crawling up the beach. My buddy tells me later that one of the girls I was talking to says, oh does your friend always cry this much? Oh, wow. Yeah, yeah. I get up onto the beach, I'm holding my foot, I'm still kind of screaming about it. And a guy walks by and he looks down at my face and,

oh yeah, you stepped on a sea urchin. So I had kicked a sea urchin and it was extremely painful. I don't know if you've ever done that or have heard of anybody. Did you just do it? Funny enough, I just in Hawaii got five quills in my heel. They're still there, just this morning. I'm like, when are these coming out?

Yeah, so you found out that you kind of just let them dissolve. Well, my daughters thought you're gonna get poisoned and die. And I'm like, no, there's no way they're letting us snorkel in front of the hotel not saying they're poisonous. They ran it to the scuba guy and then he came and gave me vinegar and said, soak your foot in vinegar, that'll help it dissolve. I did that, they didn't dissolve.

Anyway, sorry. No, no, so I'm with my buddy, he's that overachiever, he's a doctor and a lawyer, and he's ER trained. So he says, I'll go back with you to the cruise ship and see what they'll do for it. Cause the guy that walked by said, I have to get him taken out, which as you know, is incorrect.

Yeah, yeah. So I'm waiting in the taxi. He's also the person who's gonna give you the most shit about anything and loves to tell stories. So he's telling everybody on the beach what happened to me. And then we go to the cruise. They told me I don't take any of them out. So then I just limped around for the next few hours. So that's sort of the end of sea urchin part. Oh, God. Now there's a third part to this.

So I think I'm in the clear. I'm starting to feel good later I think I'm in the clear. I'm starting to feel good later on. And I'm like, all right, no more mistakes. Nothing's gonna happen anymore. I'm sitting at a table in a bar. Another one of my friends comes over with a couple of girls and they sit down and we're just chit chatting away.

And I lean over to say something to her and I put my hand behind her chair. And now I feel something in my hand. What? And so I pulled my hand out her chair, and now I feel something in my hand. What? And so I pull my hand out, and it's covered in splinters, and it's bleeding. It's everywhere.

But now I am at a point in this cruise where I can't show any pain. I can't do anything that's going to bring any more attraction, so I kind of just hide it away. But it wasn't fast enough, because my friend saw it, and he then goes jumps up and goes and grabs all my other friends to come and look at me. You've done this time.

So that they can then have another laugh at my expense for the rest of the time. Wow. This was a deck chair that just was scraggly on the back? Yeah, it was just beat up on the back and I didn't know it and just bad luck. I hate to be disparaging about carnival, but let's get those deck chairs oiled and sanded.

Yikes. They probably have over the last 25 years. Yeah, this is like, you don't really like my Ziggy reference cause you didn't grow up reading Ziggy. I don't know Ziggy. But do you remember Ziggy Hale? Of course. He was the cutest cartoon in everything

that could go wrong that Ziggy did. Oh. It's really like Ziggy went on a cruise in a lot of ways. It was tough. Thankfully nothing else really happened on the rest of the cruise that was bad, but it was enough that I took shit for the rest of the time. We repeated the cruise the next year.

Thankfully nothing happened. Well, I'm impressed you win again. Yeah, back on that horse. I would be like, fuck that, let's just go to one of these islands that we wanna be at and just be there. Were there any gals on the boat that really took pity on you? Nurses would have been a great meat cube. No, I'm not that slick

Maybe I could have played it better and played it up a little bit, but I didn't play the pity card very well Well, that's a real shit cruise and you didn't make out with anyone Okay, okay, great, okay. Okay, you still came out on top. Okay, it was still a fun cruise and it was still a spring break, you know, things happen. Great, great, great, great. So, net win, maybe. Net win and I'm talking to you guys.

That's a definite positive. And actually, Dax, I thought we weren't gonna hear from you guys on this story and then I heard from Emma, I was in White Lake, Michigan. No! It's the first time I've been to Michigan in maybe 16 years or so. What on earth were you doing in White Lake?

So I grew up in Highland right next door, bordering White Lake. I didn't know that, but one of my good friends from growing up lives there. We see each other fairly often, but I had not visited him there. Emma reached out when I was actually visiting him for the first time in 16 years.

Sam! Does he live on the lake? He does not. His in-laws do them. Okay. Well, hell, delightful meeting you. God, did you give your buddies a gift? Truly, there's no better gift than like when one of your buddies can take the beating on everyone else's behalf. Totally.

I think if it happened now, I would kind of take it like you do, Dax, and say, oh, this is going to be a story one day. At 24 years old, I wasn't taking it that way. I took it pretty hard during the trip. So if you don't mind, my family's waiting right out there. My older daughter was the one who encouraged me to submit for the prom, so they'd love to get on and meet you guys.

Absolutely, bring them in. Hi. Hi. Are you the owner of this closet? Yeah, and the computer, it's on, I'm Layla. Hi, Layla. We heard you cleaned just for us. Yeah, that is not something that happens often.

Well, it looks great. I mean, it's ready for a photo shoot. Thanks. I just want to say I'm so excited to meet you guys. When I saw this prompt, I was actually outside and I was re-listening to the beach stories where the guy stepped on the sea urchin. And I was thinking, oh, dad's story would be great

to go on Armchair Anonymous. And then I looked right then and there was a cruise ship story and so I ran inside. Sim, sim, sim. Very simmy. Really quick, my aunt asked me to give a shout out. So she's my mom's twin. Oh, how fun.

Identical or fraternal? Identical. So love you and Tracy. Do you feel like you have two moms? It's weird because I have three cousins from my mom's twin. We look pretty similar and we always joke that we're half siblings. Yeah.

Yes, yes, yes. Double first cousins, half siblings. Whoa. I wish your mom had married an identical twin. Then your cousins would really be your siblings. Yeah, that would be a very interesting experiment. Well, it's very nice meeting you. Really good luck with ninth grade.

Tell your seventh grade sister, good luck with seventh grade. Good luck with seventh grade. My favorite year of my life, and say hi to mom. Hi, mom. Well, nice meeting you guys. Take care, bye. Oh my God, a whole family. That was cute.

We love identical twins. Because they're so rare, they're limited edition. I guess everyone loves identical twins probably. Well. We're probably not unique in that, right? Okay, comment if you don't like identical twins. Okay, yeah. I can see people being scared by them.

Especially if you don't really believe in science and God makes babies kind of a situation. They think they're demons. Yeah, maybe like, how do you explain that? Well, science. If you don't believe in that. That is indeed the explanation. In the absence of that explanation,

what would you possibly guess? Demon. Demon. Or this one was so good that God had to make two. Really good spin. Mm-hmm. ["The New World"] If it's a flat or a squeal, a wobble or peel,

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Hi. Hi, Luke. Hi, that's right. Can you guys hear me? Oh, wonderful. It's like you're about to land an airplane. That's what I'm going for. Yes, it's working.

Tell me why you have this headset. Are you a gamer? I am a gamer and I am recording this. I'm a gamer. I'm a gamer. I'm a gamer. I'm a gamer. I'm a gamer.

I'm a gamer. I'm a gamer. I'm a land an airplane. That's what I'm going for. Yes, it's working. Tell me why you have this headset. Are you a gamer? I am a gamer and I am recording this from a job site and I just didn't want to rely on my laptop's audio. We appreciate that greatly. You're going by a pseudonym. Are we allowed to know what state you're in?

Yeah, that's totally fine. I'm in Bozeman, Montana. Oh, okay. Wonderful. That's a beautiful place to be. It's gorgeous. We had a blizzard yesterday. The mountains are still full of snow.

A blizzard. Full on blizzard driving home last night. Wow. Do you like that? I don't love the snow, but I don't hate it. When it's unexpected is when it's the worst. Right. Which I imagine yesterday was unexpected.

Absolutely. Do you guys have the same thing we had in Michigan where it's like you have a fake spring and you get excited and then all of a sudden it just fucking turns to winter in May and you're like, fuck this place. That's exactly what yesterday was. Yeah, it was like 75, 80 degrees over the weekend. Oh my God. And then hard snow yesterday, accidents on my drive home.

It was pretty rough. Those climates, they're backstabbers. Yeah, they're tricky. Yeah, they'll fool you. Did you grow up in Montana? I actually grew up in the Seattle area. Oh Okay, so you have a cruise story. That's right. This was for my wife and I's honeymoon and Shortly before the cruise as newlyweds tend to do we fooled around a lot During some of this fooling around I ended up with a little bit of

Shafing on my dick. Just saying. Imagine a red burn on your dick. That's what it was. Don't need to sugar coat it. Yeah, yeah. He was about to say penis, and he's like, no, I'm already talking about chafing. It's dick chafing.

That's the way the story's gonna go. So fast forward, we're like on day two of the cruise. Can I pause you, Luke? I just wanna regale for a second. That brings me back to my youth. Your fecundity rate was so high that you'd actually damage the skin. I mean, that's for the youthful. Absolutely.

Happy that those days are long gone for me, for sure. So we're on the cruise. It's day two. It's a day at sea. So there's really not a lot going on. Where's the cruise going to? Is it a Caribbean cruise? We're going to Alaska.

Oh, okay. I go to take a shower. And if you've ever been on a cruise before, the bathrooms are tiny. I mean, you stand in the middle and you can touch all four walls just reaching out. So as you can imagine, the shower is equally tiny. And in this shower, they give you a wand to get to those hard to reach places. Oh my God. Like you can pull it off the wall. Oh, I see.

Right, a shower wand. Well, I'm going to shower and I'm thinking I wanna get myself as clean as possible. I want this wound to heal up as quickly as it can because I've gotta perform on my honeymoon. Yeah, you gotta get back to it. Back in the saddle. I'm cleaning myself up and I

Have this great idea. I'm gonna clean that area specifically so I pull myself a little tight down there and I spray the wand on it the water pressure from the wand hits right on this rug burn spot and Immediately starts gushing blood. Oh Oh my God. You've opened up the wound. Yeah, I mean, it's right on a vein. I'm not talking a little bit of blood.

I'm talking, imagine you're peeing, but it is solid red. Ew, no. I mean, it is just a pressurized bead of red coming out of my dick. It's like punctured the vein. Punctured. What? Wow.

God, these penises are so fragile. They can take a beating, but you push them too hard, they will give. Wow. They will give, yes. Oh my. And I am a guest, I don't know what to do. Honestly, my first thought, embarrassingly,

is my wife doesn't need to know about this. She already knows I'm wounded down there, so if I can just get the bleeding to stop, she doesn't need to know about this. She already knows I'm wounded down there. So if I can just get the bleeding to stop, she doesn't need to know about this. We'll just move on with life. Okay. This is where we're different.

We were in line so far, but now I would be so excited to call her in like, holy shit, look at this, you know. And it gets there. Okay, okay. So I go grab a massive wad of toilet paper. I mean, I'm talking 30 sheets at least. And I go to stick it under there.

It turns into a mushy mess of nothing in seconds. Oh my God, this is scary. You're losing some considerable blood here. Exactly. And so now I'm panicked. So now it's time to call the wife in and tell her I'm having an emergency. I'm having an emergency.

I call her in, she walks in, and it looks like a war zone. I mean, there's blood all over the walls. It's everywhere. She handles it well. She goes and she calls the cruise site nurse team. She calls the nurse team down and this little nurse comes in and same thing. She opens the door, she looks at me and she just has this look of horror when she looks into this bathroom she gives me a one inch thick stack of that heavy-duty gauze that's designed to stop bleeding she says put

this on there apply pressure I'll be right back I'm gonna go get a wheelchair some more supplies will wheel you down to the infirmary she's gone maybe just a few minutes by the time she has come back, I have bled through this stack of gauze. There's literally blood dripping out the bottom of this stack of gauze. Luke, at any moment, are you considering a tourniquet? Based off the area of the injury, I am trying to avoid that as much as I can. And so she has me throw that away. She hands me a new stack of gauze, tells me to apply pressure again. I've put a shirt on, I'm on the wheelchair

and they're wheeling me down to the infirmary. Any pants? Surprisingly, basically no pants. No, no, no, no, no pants, pants. Pants, no pants, just a towel covering my leg. Oh, okay, but you are covered at least with a towel. But it is awkward. You're going through the halls of this cruise ship and there's all these people looking at you. At first glance, they really have no idea what's wrong, but I'm sitting there just freaking the hell out. And you have bare legs. There's nothing I would want to see more than that.

A man in his t-shirt and no pants on with a towel over his groin. It's a scene. I wish the story ended there. So she wheels me down to the infirmary. And luckily by this point, I got about three quarters of the way through the second thing of gauze to the infirmary. Luckily, by this point, I've got about three-quarters of the way through the second thing of gauze and the bleeding has stopped. The doctor on site is taking a look at this injury. Of course, it's a girl doctor too.

But I've got no shame. What am I going to do at this point? But she looks at it and she says, we've got to close this. It could reopen at any point, you're going to be right in the same situation. So she says, well, I'd like to just use a stitch, but on this part of your body, it's very prone to expansion and contraction. So we don't want to use a stitch. So what we're going to use is a chemical cauterization. Oh, glue. Not exactly.

Chemical cauterization is they apply two inert chemicals to your body. Chemical A doesn't do anything by itself. Chemical B doesn't do anything by itself. But when they come in contact with each other, it melts your skin back together. Oh, and like cauterizes. It's like a chemical cauterizing. That's what he said. Literally what he said. He said that? Oh. It's the exact phrase he used. Oh my God. I'm sorry. I missed the cauterizing.

No, you're good. She lays me back on the table. It's the exact phrase he used. Oh my God, I'm sorry, I missed the camera. No, you're good. She lays me back on the table. There's no anesthetic. Oh. And she gives me a rubber stick to bite onto. Oh my. And I would be wondering, is this a disposable or have many people bitten down on this rubber stick?

Oh no. I was kind of under the impression that many people have bitten down on this rubber stick before. It was definitely like in the top shelf of the supplies, you know, like, oh, we need this every day. And so she does that, has me grab my wife's hand. And I'm telling you guys, I bet my screams are still reverberating through that cruciate. Oh wow. I can't begin to describe the amount of pain that having your dick skin burned back together

feels like. Oh my god. Oh, I wish this on no one. Oh, I know. And also I want to see video of this entire thing from beginning to cauterization. I wish it existed. Once it's cauterized, does she say to you like, don't use this thing for a while? More or less.

Yeah. She said no sexual activity for a couple of weeks. Obviously it's going to kind of expand on its own every once in a while. There's not a lot you can do about that. Try not to look at any pretty ladies. Yeah. And you're on a cruise. Tell your new wife to keep her clothes on.

Luckily the cruise to Alaska, not a lot of women in bikinis, but still something to concern yourself with. Those bald eagles though, they can get things moving. Oh, they get you excited, don't they? What a sight to see. I thought you were making a euphemism for vagina. Oh, that could also, yeah. I like that euphemism.

It healed well. I had no lingering injuries, little bit of scarring, but you'd have to know what you were looking for. Wow, you reversed the wife who's had a baby. That's what I was thinking when she had to hold his hand. More just like wife has a baby and then there's a window where wife can't have sex. But in this case, they're like married

and then he had an issue and then they're now waiting and they're newlyweds, they're very horny. 100%. Oh, that's great. What a memorable honeymoon. Yeah, and that's what I always tell people. I've told this story to people over the years and you know, if it wasn't exciting,

you wouldn't remember it. Oh, Luke, that's fantastic. What a great story. I'm glad you enjoyed it. I hope it makes it onto the episode. Oh, it will. Don't you worry. You can bet your scarred dick it will.

Awesome. While I still got a second, I'm just gonna shout out my good buddy, Casey, who got me into your show and encouraged me to share my story. Oh, Casey, big shout out. Shout out, I'm so glad he did. That's a doozy. That's a good one.

That's a keeper. A few weeks ago, he sent the link. He was like, crew stories, you. Go. Well, thank Casey on our behalf. I most certainly will. All right, take care our behalf. I most certainly will. All right, take care, Luke. Have a great day.

["The Daily Show Theme"] ["The Daily Show Theme"] Are you gonna leave the room to make this call? Our next call is Monica. Yeah, I'm calling in. Oh, Monica's calling. I have a lot of cruise ship stories. I could have submitted many different things.

I've been on so many cruises. I haven't been on a one. You haven't been on a single cruise? I feel like your parents would have loved that. They go now. Well, they do. Hello, Monica. They go now. Well, they do. Hello, Monica. Hi, don't show me much of this car.

I always try to impress Monica. I'm going to go with Chrysler Pacifica. You're wrong. I'm sorry. Fuck. It is a Honda Pilot. Oh, okay. Monnie had a, did you have a pilot?

No, CRV. CRV. So sorry, Monica, that I'm not in like a cushy closet somewhere, I'm actually at my daughter's track meet. Oh, God, I hope she doesn't come up to the blocks while we're talking. If you hear like shots, I'm not in some dangerous neighborhood.

Oh my God. What's her event? Well, she just finished high jump. Oh, I was a high jumper. Is she tall? She is tall for her age. She's only 12. I have a question for you. I was getting a massage recently.

This was weird. In the middle of the massage, the massage therapist said, can I ask you something personal? And this was while she was mid massage. And I said, sure. That's a scary question. I know.

And she said, do you like being called Monica? I was like, yeah. And she was like, cause my name is Monica and I love it. Every Monica I meet is just so great. And I was like, yeah, it's a great name. It really caught me off guard. And would you have liked that? Yeah,. It really caught me off guard. And would you have liked that? Yeah, it would have caught me off guard too.

I've never had like a nickname or nobody's ever shortened it. No one calls you Monnie or Mom? No. Oh wow. We just had this conversation about nicknames, Monica's nicknames. Monica's many nicknames. Uh-huh.

But I would agree. I'm gonna say that Monica's over index in Good Folks. I like all the Monicas I know. Except this one that stops in the middle of a mousetrap. No, I might like her too. Okay, she was nice. Yeah, she has a boundary issue, which I like.

Yeah, you love that. Ha ha ha. Okay, so you have a crazy cruise ship story. I do, so I'll give you just a little bit of background. So I grew up, I was a teen in the mid to late 90s So peak boy band scene and I was a huge fan of the Backstreet Boys Oh me too. That was my boy band of choice. I Had their posters all over my walls. I bought their CDs on the day that they came out

Did you have a favorite Backstreet Boy? I did, Brian Littrell. Yeah, Brian was everyone's favorite. He was the number one. He was my favorite too. Are you gonna see them at the Sphere? You should. Maybe when we get to the end of the story. Uh-oh, okay, okay, all right.

No, I probably won't be seeing them at the Sphere, but it's gonna be an amazing show. Are you going to see them, Monica? I don't think so, I'm kinda scared of scared of them. You sure. So anyways, huge fan fast forward the years 2011 and I'm a newly married woman working young woman when I'm scrolling Facebook and I come across this ad from Ticketmaster that they're doing this sweepstakes giveaway. And it's a trip for two, all expenses paid on a cruise with the Backstreet Boys.

Oh wow. Yeah, it's like a three night, four day cruise to the Bahamas. And you also get to meet the Backstreet Boys. Oh wow. And do you still like them in 2011? Yeah, I mean, I wasn't teenage obsessed. No posters anymore.

The nostalgia, I was like, oh yeah, I would go on a Backstreet Boys cruise. Yeah, great. Yeah, so I put my name in and kind of forgot about it because it had been a while. And I get this email from Ticketmaster and I knew before I even opened the email, I was like, I won that cruise.

I opened the email and yes, I had won and they had like a short turnaround. You had to tell them within 24 hours who was going, the names of the passengers, flight information, all that. Oh, this is exciting. Yeah, that is very exciting. My first thought is like, I don't think my husband is the right person to take on this. I love my husband, but he's not really the boy band type. And this seems like a girl's trip. He agreed.

And so I immediately call one of my childhood best friends, Nicole, and I tell her, and Nicole's always game for a good time. And so she was like, yes, let's do it. She was living out of state at the time. So we meet up in the airport, we fly to Miami. I should say that at this point, I had never been on a cruise before in my life. Nicole had been on a few cruises before. So that was kind of helpful to have her hints and tips.

Part of the trip was hotel was included. So we're there the night before the cruise. And we decide we're going to hit the town and this is in December. So I live in the Midwest. I'm leaving cold winter temperatures heading to Miami. I've got tourists written all over my face. I got my spray tan. I packed my little halter dresses. I'm ready for some warm weather. So we hit some bars and we go to this daiquiri bar where we get served these daiquiris that are huge, like as big as our heads. We're sitting there enjoying ourselves and this man comes up to our table, very sharp dressed man with two shots in each hand.

Oh. Has very strong accent and I kind of make out that he's one of the owners of the establishment. He's checking to see if we're having a good time and wanted to give us these complimentary shots for our daiquiris. And he just dumps them right in. Oh, very scared. He walks away and we're both kind of like, well, that was kind of weird. And so I proceeded to take a couple of drinks at the time.

And I don't know, maybe Miami is still this way. You can take your drinks in and out of bars. Like you could walk out with an open container. So we decide, okay, we're going to take these daiquiris with us and leave. Cause we were weirded out by that guy. So we leave and a little while later, Nicole is like, I don't think we should be drinking these. Good Nicole.

Yeah. So we throw them away, but apparently I must have drank a little more than Nicole had Because it hits me very fast Pretty sure I had been Ruthie. No. Oh my god So the rest of the evening is kind of from Nicole's relaying the message to me But she could tell that I was going downhill very quickly. I was slurring, I was falling all over the place. So she got me into a cab. This is pre-Uber. We were heading back to the hotel and I threw up all over in the back seat of the cab. And so the cab drivers obviously

pissed and wants to kick us out. She doesn't even know where we're at. She pleads with him to keep us in the car and get us to the hotel and agrees to give him a really good tip. So we get back to the hotel and Nicole tells me she basically had to like drag me back to the room. I'm sure the surveillance footage looks like some murder documentary or something. She gets me back to the room. She helps shower me up and shower all the puke out of my hair and gets me cleaned up and in bed. Next morning,

wake up. Feel obviously pretty terrible. And we overslept, nearly missed the ship departure. They're just in time. We get on the ship. We head to our cabin and we're kind of walking down the halls and everybody's got their doors all decorated with Backstreet Boys stuff. And this is kind of lifting my spirits. I'm shaking off that night before, getting in a better mood. And we go to the kickoff party

that's gonna be on the pool deck. I'm starting to feel better. And I'm like, okay, here are the dog. I'm gonna get another drink. Yeah. So I get a drink and we're waiting and the Backstreet Boys come out and make their first big appearance and everybody goes crazy.

We have a good time. Do they perform right away or they're just waving and saying hi? They're just saying hi. Okay. Basically. Then the ship takes off and so things are moving, getting started. And I start to notice that, you know, I can feel the motion. And normally people tell you on cruise ships, oh, you can't even tell you're moving. Well, I could feel the movement. And so I tell Nicole like, Oh, I'm already just

not feeling the best. And she was giving me all these pointers like, let's take some Dramamine, let's step on some ginger ale, let's do this and that. And so I was trying it. And she said, well, whatever you do, just don't go lay down because as soon as you lay down, you're done. You won't get back up. Oh God. And I was like, okay. Nicole's a pro at everything. Yeah. The name of this story should be Nicole was right. Oh no. The next event for the night is the Backstreet Boys are going to be doing this game show thing in one of the theaters. And so we had to go to this theater and we're walking down the hallway and I mean you can just see the hallway moving side to side. This is why I don't want to go on a cruise. People are trying to walk

down this hall and thank God there were these handrails going down the hallway because you had to hold on to these handrails or you would fall over. It was rocking. So, oh my God. It's like Triangle Sadness. Yeah, it really is. For the listener, Monica's getting a little sick right now. Just remembering it. I can totally see.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I can see that you're hanging on by a thread already. It was terrible. And so we go into the theater and I'm seeing a lot of women are just getting up and leaving. And I'm seeing women coming back with all these doggy bag like vomit bags. Oh my god. And people are getting sick in this theater. I can't take it anymore. So I run out of the theater. I run to the bathroom. The bathroom is full of all these women getting sick. I also love this no men on this crew.

It's just all women. It's true. They should have let the women use the men's bathroom for this crew. Yes. But there were like crew members in the hallway handing out these doggy bags. I got sick and I told Nicole, I can't do it.

I've got to go back to the room. Oh, I go back to the room and I laid down and I told Nicole I can't do it I gotta go back to the room. So I go back to the room and I laid down and Nicole was right I could not get up. It was like I was just glued to that bed. I was so bummed because that night there was supposed to be like this 80s party and I packed this cute little baby back in bed. So I was stuck in bed and somehow managed to like get some sleep that night. And then the next morning woke up, felt so much better. And I realized it was because we had docked. We were in the Bahamas.

Oh my God. But this was the big day that I got to meet the Backstreet Boys. We went to go watch their sound check for a while because one night they did a concert. On shore or on the boat. They did do an appearance on the beach, but the concert was on the boat. So we went to the beach and we went to the beach and we went to go watch their sound check for a while because one night they did a concert on shore or on the boat. They did do an appearance on the beach, but the concert was on the boat. So we went to the sound check and then got to do the meet and greet, which was really fast.

And I was given strict instructions. Only shake their hands. Do not hug them. Just say hello and take your picture and get off the stage. No kissing. Yeah, and I can just tell when I went up on that stage, the look on Nick Carter's face was just like, he was terrified. He was waiting for me to just like pounce on him. Oh, God.

I felt so bad. This is what these men endure all the time. I got to meet them. That was exciting. And I spent the day on the beach, and then that night we started to head back to Miami, and it was like all over again. No. I just could not wait to get off of this ship, and I'm so glad that the trip was paid for, because if I would have paid for this cruise and I was vomiting the whole time.

And Nicole was fine. Did Nicole have a good time? Great time. She sounds like if anyone on this ship would have hooked up with one of the Backstreet Boys would have been Nicole. She probably could have because she went to the casino one night when I was like throwing up and she was at the roulette table with one of them. Oh, fun. So that's my terrible slash awesome cruise story.

Listen, a the story is fantastic. But you're just so funny. Oh, thank you. Can I do a quick shout out? Yes. Okay. Well, obviously shout out Nicole. Yeah, number one. Yeah. Thank you for being such an amazing friend. and shout out to my husband. Sorry, you weren't able to come along for these shenanigans. You mean you're fucking welcome. Yes.

You dodged this bullet. Yeah. And shout out to my two sisters. One is an arm cherry and one was a huge fan of Parrot Hood. What are their names? Megan and Molly. Megan and Molly. Shout out.

MMMMM. It was really hard for my grandma. Oh, I fuck up my kids' names all the time and they're Megan and Molly. Megan and Molly. Shout out. MMMMM. It was really hard for my grandma. What? She's all straight. Oh, I fuck up my kids' names all the time and they're drastically different. Wow, well I'm sorry that happened, but that was a delight to hear about. Yeah, that was so fun.

Thank you so much, Monica. Thank you, it was so awesome meeting you guys. Take care. Wish your daughter a victory in this high jump contest. Correct. Oh, thank you. All right. Bye. Bye. Bye. I, thank you. All right. Bye.

Bye. Bye. I love her. I love him. She reminds me so much of my cousins, me and Ian Kelly. Yeah, I could see that. Yeah, same kind of storyteller. I wonder nowadays if everyone just goes on cruise ships

with Zo, like is Zofran the same as Dramamine? Could you take both? Yeah, I don't know what the mechanism for either of them is, but Zofran should have an actual cruise line. It really should. Yeah, and they should sail into the choppiest waters. Have you seen any footage of these fucking cruises

down to Antarctica? No. None of those have popped up on your Instagram? The water's fucking crashing over the whole front of the boat. They've got like a glass thing where you can, people are falling down and breaking shit. Yeah, it's nuts.

Yeah, I also, when we went to Napa, the first thing we did was we went to this winery and it was up a very, very curvy road. I Zofraned and thank God, because I still felt awful. You did, even with the frame. Even with it, and if I hadn't had it, it would have been like that cruise. Oh my God, it I still felt awful. You did. Even with it. Even with the frame. And if I hadn't had it,

it would have been like that, Cruz. Oh my God, it was so funny. Everyone's got barf bags with a Backstreet Boys. If you're the Backstreet Boys and you're up there and everyone's just puking. And are they not puking? Right. Oh boy.

All right, love you. Love you. Do you wanna sing a tune or something? You know, a theme song. Oh God. All right, love you. Love you. Do you wanna sing a tune or something? We're gonna do a theme song. Oh, okay great. We don't have a theme song for this new show so here I go, go, go. We're gonna ask some random questions and with the help of our cherries

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