Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard - Armchair Anonymous: Summer Camp
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Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Anonymous.
I'm Dach Shepern and I'm joined by Lily Padman.
And today is summer camp stories.
We have a summer theme going.
It's so fun.
I love summer.
We got Fourth of July theme.
We got summer themes.
Sleepwalking.
Very summer.
Very summery thing to do.
You're too hot.
Your body tells you to get up and explore and get into business.
Oh, camp.
Just the vibes and the lice and, oh, wow.
I'm really grateful I got to go to my one little eighth grade camp.
I think it was probably four days.
Maybe it was three days.
But I do wish I had gone to like a two-week summer camp, learned archery or something.
The bunks.
Yeah.
Getting in trouble.
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All times come and go.
Good times.
Take them slow.
Hi, I had a moat, remember one thing, you got to know, I'm going to keep on shining.
Hi.
What name do we want to go with?
We're going to go with Erica.
Is it a nod to a friend?
It's actually my middle name, so it still feels like me, but it's not.
Really smart move.
Erica, where are you?
I'm in British Columbia, Canada right now.
About to embark on the most beautiful three months, I am.
imagine up there? Absolutely. I'm not from here, so the mountains are still very exciting. Oh, that's fun. Where are you
from? I'm from Ontario. Would I presume correctly that this story about a summer camp happens in
Ontario? It sure does. Okay, let us have it. I was about nine or ten years old during this story,
and I was very lucky to have a stay-at-home mom. So summer camp wasn't necessary because she was home to do so many
wonderful things with us. But she made me and my brother do two camps every year so we could be
social and normal like every other child. They were usually like a church camp or a school camp,
just something local in the community to get us out of the house. And for like a week or two?
Yeah, just like a Monday to Friday type of thing. So she decides that one of my family friends is doing
a sports camp. So it would be great for me to do the sports camp with her at a local school.
I do not want to go. The thought of being in a school during summertime, no air conditioning
running around is like, oh, no, thank you. Would sports can't be your first pick? No, I was the type of
kid that would stay up too late reading and my mom would have to come turn off the lights and say,
go to sleep. Oh, what a bad bad. Yeah, you're a naughty person, Erica. It was like pulling teeth the
first day dropping me off to get me to go, but I have a friend here. My mom is like, okay,
go have fun it's going to be good i walk in day one i instantly see a boy where i'm like okay yep
i have a crush on you this week is going to go great oh wonderful so i go home and i say to my parents
i love camp can i go back next week please sign me up because 10 days of getting this guy to love
me is much more doable wow so already at 10 so i have a daughter that that would happen to and then
i have another that that wouldn't happen to this was the start of my boy crazy oh okay great
And was everyone doing it? It's kind of one of those things. It's like, everyone has a crush. So, like,
you got to have a crush. Totally. Especially because it was probably 70, 30 boys to girls at this camp.
So it was like, okay, there's a good pick of men here. We love that. The odds were in your favor. Yeah.
Yes. So I beg my parents, please sign me up for week two. They're like, this is really odd. You did not want to go. But sure, why not? We'll take another week off of not having.
you here. So they signed me up. I'm super excited. The rest of the week, it's basically like
we're learning different sports. So this is perfect when you have a crush. I have an opportunity
to be picked on your team. I have an opportunity to ask questions, to show off, to like be the
MVP and get you to love me back. So at the end of the week to reward us for being in the heat
all week, our counselors let us have a water fight. Sexy. Classic water fight, water balloons,
water guns, the hose with the sprayer on the end, like it's full on.
So as a nine-year-old girl, I'm thinking the best way to show my crush that I like him
is to absolutely demolish him.
Oh, sure.
These are the dumb conclusions we make in our youth.
He'll like me more if I humiliate him.
Exactly.
So I'm like, this is perfect.
Can I ask Erica, how was the crush going up until this point?
Was he responsive?
Was there a connection?
Yeah, like he picked me on his teeth.
team a few times. He passed the ball to me a few times. I was feeling like I had good odds here. I'm
thinking the water balloons are not enough to make my mark. I don't really have good aim. The water
gun, not going to get him wet enough. Everybody's fighting for the hose. So I'm not feeling like that's
my best option. So I'm looking around and I'm thinking maybe the bucket that's filled with water
where all the water balloons are in would be a great idea. Like he just won the NCAA title or something
that's gatorating over the head.
Boys seem to love that.
Yeah.
So it's not like a little gardening bucket.
It's like one of those massive buckets that you have at school
where the gym teacher puts all the balls in
and pulls it out for recess type of thing.
Not super athletic, not super strong.
So not really sure why I thought this was going to work out super well for me.
I take out all the water balloons.
I, like, struggle to pick it up.
I waddle on over to him to try and catch him by surprise.
And as I go to turn it and dump it on his,
his head, drop it. It comes falling down on his face. Oh, oh. The rim of the bucket hits him
right in the mouth. Instant two front teeth knocked out. Oh, no, you took out his front teeth. Yes. And
we're nine. These are adult teeth. These are not baby teeth. Irreplaceable. Oh, yeah.
Dentures. Oh, no. In fourth grade. Yeah. My first thought is like, well, there goes my husband.
I'm not coming back for week two. There's blood everywhere.
His teeth are missing.
The camp counselors are running over trying to, like, put pressure on his face.
Was he like, why did you do that?
Yeah, he was so mad.
You're so stupid, like, yelling.
I'm feeling, like, so embarrassed.
Let me crawl up and run away.
His parents come to pick him up.
And obviously, he's not coming back for week two of camp because he's going to have to go get new teeth.
He's in surgery.
Oh, fuck.
Oh, my God.
So I have to go to week two because my parents are like,
you made this decision. We paid. You're going to have to go. I go back on week two. The camp
counselors say this week at the end of the week, I'm sorry. There's going to be no water fight
due to an incident that happened last week. Everybody's looking at me like, gee, thanks a lot.
You ruined this camp for us. One of our campers got carried away. Instead, we're going to be
having a puzzle party. Like what a comparison. This is disgusting. Opposite of sexy. This is
grandparenty. So I'm responsible for the puzzle party. The week goes by. It's whatever. The summer goes on. I've
probably found like a new love of my life at my next camp, probably church camp or something like that and
forgotten about it. I get to the end of the summer and the same friend that came to the camp with me is having
an end of summer barbecue. She went to a different school than me, lived in a different neighborhood,
so I didn't really know any other families that were going to be invited. So me and my parents and my
brother go and all the kids are kind of talking about summer. You know, what was the most exciting
thing you did? They're all kind of comparing. Like, I went on this really cool trip. I saw this
cool animal at the zoo. Really cool stuff. One little girl was so excited. She thought she had
topped everybody. She felt her story was the best. So everybody's like huddled around to listen.
And she is super excited to share that she got to see the inside of an ambulance, the inside of a
hospital stitches and fake teeth because her cousin had to get oral surgery from getting his two
front teeth knocked out.
Oh, wow.
And you were just sitting there anonymously listening as if you knew nothing about it.
And everybody's like, oh my gosh, that's so crazy.
And I'm sitting there like just white in the face.
You're kind of like when an arsonist sticks around to watch the building burn with the
crowd.
Yeah, it's twisted.
And did we ever find out anything as he?
He got older, did he weather this storm and prevail?
To be honest, I wanted nothing to do with it because I think I would never forgive myself
if I found out that he did not recover.
Oh, he recovered.
He has two beautiful veneers.
He's fine.
I really hope so.
Well, Erica, thank you for that.
That's a real shameful event.
I can only imagine dealing with that.
I hope it's a cautionary tale.
It's like we can't let these crushes run away with us.
Crushes make people do crazy stuff for bad decisions.
Yes.
And the funny part is,
It's a tradition in firefighting.
When you finish out your recruit class, you get dumped with water.
And later in life, I ended up dating a firefighter.
And he was finishing up his time at the fire hall.
And I got invited to come dump water on him to finish off his recruit class.
And I politely said, I will film somebody else, please do the dump.
You'll never trust yourself again.
You could even imagine Erica standing like with a very solvable fire.
and unwilling to wield a bucket of water against it.
That's right.
She has to overcome her deepest scar to save the small town.
We're always so grateful to have our neighbors to the north as armcherrys.
We love it.
Well, it's lovely meeting you.
Yes.
Yeah, lovely meeting you guys, too.
Thank you so much.
Have a glorious summer up there.
Thank you.
Bye.
All right, bye.
Ariel.
Nailed it on the first try, which is uncommon.
Well, we happen to have an Ariel in our life, who's a good friend.
friend of ours. And so I'm practiced. It's the only way that people can get it because I will straight
up answer the phone. Hi, this is Ariel. Oh, hey Ariel. I'm like, guys. What? Yeah. People don't like
change. I'll be like Sebastian kind of says it that way and the Little Mermaid. I try and give all the
help of it. Well, it is a tricky one when you're looking at it phonetically. In my mind as a dyslexic,
what I have to say to myself, before I say Ariel's name out loud, I have to literally, I have to literally
think R. Forget that it even has an A. This name starts with an R. R.E.L. You have so many tricks
and tips. I have to. I did have the nickname Rels growing up because I would have to say it's REL. And so
that became REL. Oh, that's so cute. See, I stumbled upon a good technique. Okay, so Ariel, where are you that
you have a big walking closet in a basement with a training facility? So I'm actually in Oak Park, Michigan.
Go lions. Go lions. And this is a
makeshift closet. I had the clothing racks and I encased myself in. Oh, yes. Smart. And I put a
blanket over top. It is really working. The amount of time these poor arm cherries put into constructing
their studio, it's really sweet. It's really sweet. It's appreciated. And you have to. And you do
got to do it. Or your story just might not be able to be aired. Thankfully, I already had it because
they don't have closets in old houses. And I have too many clothes.
to possibly go in one little tiny closet.
So I already had the setup.
We just condensed it.
Nice.
Sure.
Okay, now tell me about summer camp because we didn't really do it where I grew up in Michigan,
other than the junior high trip.
The summer camp that I went to, and there are a couple different ones in Michigan.
The one I went to is northern Michigan.
I won't say exactly where, just to keep it.
Okay.
Legal.
We'll talk about it later than story.
I wouldn't give it like a one-to-one wet-hud American summer,
comparison but like dial down the horniness and irresponsibility five notches or so you get kind
of an idea you know there was the lake there was water skiing canoeing we had arts and crafts there
was dance and drama hookups oh yeah yeah yeah in the woods I hooked up on my trip to camp
in eighth grade just so you didn't have camp I said other than the school camp oh this is a school
camp so I went to the school camp yeah and I had a nice hook up in the woods so fun that plays into the
story for sure. I went to this camp from the time I was like eight years old. You're a camper until
you're like 15. And so I was a little late bloomer in the romance department. So I didn't have any
fun hookup stories from when I was a camper. This story takes place in 2010. So I was actually a
nanny at the camp. So I was a camper there. And then instead of being a counselor, I was a nanny for the
director's kids because they were too young to be in camp. So it was pretty cushy job because
You get all the fun of camp without any of the rules that the counselors have to abide by.
Yeah.
Yeah.
What age were you nannying there?
2010, I was like 19 years old.
So a lot of the staff is returning campers, but we also have international staff.
We got Aussies.
We got Kiwis.
We got Brits.
Nothing is hotter, right, than some guys with accents.
So it's pretty exciting at the start of camp.
Some people have been there for pre-camp and there's already been hookups and things that have been established.
Camp's like a dating show.
It's like one of these Love Islands.
And you also think everyone's hotter than they are in real life because we call it camp goggles because it's your only options.
We adjust quickly as humans.
It's kind of shocking.
Oh, yeah.
But no camp goggles were needed for me this summer because this guy, we're going to call him Liam.
I mean, he was just exactly what you would want for a summer fling.
He's tall, handsome, ripped, plays guitar.
Oh.
And British.
Okay.
Like a British can.
Truly, you know, as you were saying, hookups in the woods, you don't really want that because there's mosquitoes.
But we got to get creative when we're trying to figure out where we're going to be hooking up.
So people have their cars.
You could be upper parking lot in the car, but it's a little cramped in there, but you can make it work.
You have days off, so that's always nice.
You can go stay in a hotel in the local city.
We had some in a canoe in the arts and crafts room.
Yes, romantic. That's almost like the T-Rex mouth, similar size.
Obviously, no banging in the bunks. That's where you're going to get busted, right?
Correct, because there's campers in there, and that would be wildly inappropriate.
Yes.
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When I look back on this, I'm 19. I'm horny.
It is what it is.
After the campers go to sleep, there's counselors that have to be on night watch,
but then everyone else can go off.
There's a local bar that you can go up to,
but you have to be back in time for the curfew,
which was like midnight.
Everyone has to be in their cabins.
So we figured this might be a safe option.
Everyone's already in their cabins.
it's like 1 a.m.
We decide to meet in the boys Bay Sock, which I'm sure you're not familiar with this term.
I'm not sure if it was our camp thing or all the camps have it, but it's basically a large building that half of it is toilets and the other half is stalls of showers that's located in back boys.
So that's where all the older boy cabins.
They didn't have toilets and stuff in their cabins.
They had the Bay Sox that they all had to go to.
So it's 1 a.m. I mean, everyone should be sleeping. Why not take a shower together? So romantic.
Sounds so fun. We're in the shower. We're trying to manage the intricacies of shower sex.
There's a couple of things we all think are going to be great and they're terrible.
Fucking in a shower is terrible. Fucking in a hot tub is terrible. And fucking on an airplane is terrible.
Did you wear flip flops?
So I would love to tell you yes. I'm glad you're being honest.
We were just really excited.
The mildewy disgusting floor, we're not worried about it at this time.
What we should have been worried about is what happened next because we're showering and we hear the door
open.
We freeze.
It's fine.
They're just going to go to the bathroom and then we're going to be quiet and then they'll leave and
then we can resume.
It'll not be a problem.
If you're in there by yourself taking a shower, you're not thinking, well, they're going to come
into my shower.
Never.
What we didn't factor in was that one of the other counselors knew.
what we were doing and he may have played a role in what happened next so we hear footsteps the
toilets are in a different area there should be nobody coming over here and they're getting closer
and closer and the curtain whips open I scream I jump behind Liam like I can't even give you
enough details of what happened at this time because it was a 12 year old camper I knew
this camper was he is the biggest shit-talking little camper the last person not that i would have
wanted any of the male campers to see what was happening in the shower but leum like shoves him out of the
shower i couldn't tell you how i got back to my cabin that night it was a blur but all i knew was
this isn't going to be the end of it the humiliation will not be stopping at getting caught having
sex in the shower by this 12 year old i was not proven wrong because that morning you go to
mess hall, which is where you have meals and everything. And it's very common for different
cabins to do little cheers. There's ones that all the camp knows about or you can do more
specific ones. And of course, without fail, breakfast, we didn't even make it to lunch. I hear
quiet, please, from this cabin, where there's a clock, you'll find an hour. Hey, Ariel, meet you in
the shower. Oh, my. They already crafted a rhyme. Wow. And it's, oh,
only okay.
Our shower, that's pretty good.
Everyone is in here.
The directors, the camp owners, who I've known since I'm eight years old because I've gone
to this camp, they know my parents.
You're also taking care of children.
There's an added, like, I'm not being responsible.
You must be thinking I'm getting fired today.
I was horrified.
And of course, the cheer was about me.
It was not about the mayor.
Of course.
Why would he be involved in there, catch any flack from that?
No, he's a hero.
Of course.
Needless to say, I did not hear the end of it.
I did not get fired because, again, this is tame.
I mean, there was kids who got kicked out for smoking weed.
There was plenty of things happening.
I think if I was a counselor, I may have gotten fired, but since I was the nanny.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Did they talk to you, though?
Like, look, here's the thing.
We love the spirit.
We all know camp's fun.
Yeah, camp is frisky.
You got to stick to the cars in the upper parking lot out in the woods.
with the mosquitoes, do it right.
Yeah, I did not get away without a little bit of a lecture because it was somebody who was
kind of like my camp mom.
Yeah.
You know, one wants to hear that from your mom.
It went on for the rest of the summer, and at the end of the summer, there's like a campfire
where kind of skits are done, and the owners and directors did a skit where they included
a chant about this occasion as well.
Oh, my God.
You were the hit of the camp.
I didn't go back the next summer.
But I did return for one more summer.
And, of course, those campers were 15 years old at that time.
They were the oldest campers in camp.
And day one, cheer right back.
They did not forget.
Oh, you can't live it down.
They're so excited you're back.
I have gone down in Camp Laura as the girl who got caught having sex in the shower.
Nice.
That's pretty cool.
Did you stay in touch with the cute Brit?
Did he move home and then you wrote letters and then it pittled out at some point?
We did stay in touch and it kind of pittled.
and then we would say happy birthday.
And I actually, eight years later, went to London for my first and only solo trip.
And I told them I was coming.
And we were able to use a bed this time.
Oh, wonderful.
I love this.
And was he still hot?
Hot wrote a motorcycle.
He took me to see a play.
What?
Wow.
Wow.
This is the dream.
Yeah.
You're living a good life.
We did it.
We were horrified.
I could not find it funny at the time for the shower.
Are you going up north this summer?
I don't have any plans to you because I'm actually getting married in September.
So all of our money and energy is going into the wedding and the honeymoon.
That makes sense.
Does your betrothed know about Liam?
He is a sweet and a real trooper because I practice telling the story.
That's a good husband.
He's a good boy.
Well, it's lovely to talk to you.
I love our Mishigander cherries.
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And if it's okay, my sister.
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This is Sam.
Hi, Sam.
We have one more, but she's hardworking right now.
Shout out, Ryan.
We love you.
One of you has got to work hard.
Okay, I am a pediatric nurse, okay?
Do you have any stories about up your butt?
So I do not have any foreign object in the rectum.
Good job, Michigan.
I do have stories I could write in about, but the Peds part of it makes it a little dicey of if I should share that on the pod.
so glad I ended up here for this point.
You made the right ethical decision,
but I would want to hear at a dinner party for sure.
Yeah, next time.
Oh, I have one that you would really.
I got a hunch that there's some Lincoln logs in butts.
Oh, let me just say the term diaper snacks.
Oh, oh.
Well, it's great meeting, you, Michiganders.
We love you.
Have a great summer.
Thanks for listening.
Bye.
Bye.
Diaper snacks.
It's yummy.
That sounds horrible.
I'm a little consumed with my scab.
Yeah, I've noticed.
I think I might need to get a bandaid and cover it up.
Is it worse to see a scab or a bandaid?
A bandaid.
It's worse?
Scabs are cool.
Scabs and scars.
Hi.
Hi.
Can you guys hear me okay?
Oh, beautifully.
First, I want to applaud your parents for spelling Sarah, S-A-R-A.
I was born in Japan, and my mom was worried that.
If she put an H on the end of my name, the Japanese would pronounce the H at the end.
Yeah, that makes sense.
So they just simplified it.
Where are you, Sarah?
I actually am in Berlin, Germany.
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You are a traveler.
What's happening in Berlin, Germany?
My husband and I moved here with our kids about two and a half years ago.
We work for a local German church here.
We're originally from Seattle, but we're just on an adventure over here, and it's been
awesome.
I thought Germans were largely atheists.
They are.
So we actually have a lot of interesting conversations, but we've found Germans are really interested
in having very open conversation.
So even if they don't agree or we have different perspectives, it's a really cool place
to just explore worldviews with people.
Yeah, they're interested instead of threatened, right?
Yeah, and they're really comfortable with disagreeing, which we love.
And also one of the reasons I love your podcast is you guys really create space for conversations like that.
Oh, thank you.
Okay, so you're really a world traveler born in Japan now in Berlin.
I wonder where this camp is.
Yeah, where the fuck is this camp?
Moscow?
The camp is outside of Philadelphia in a small town called Schwanksville, Pennsylvania.
That's horny.
Schwanksville?
It sounds a little bit like Schwing or something.
No, your audience.
No, my audience.
I think I do.
I think they know I'm a pervert.
No, your host?
I know who I'm talking to.
Don't care.
I worked at this camp every summer that I was in college.
They do a lot of really incredible programs with different organizations in Philadelphia
serving inner city youth, getting them out of the city for the summer.
It's so much fun.
But this story takes place during a training week.
So we didn't have any campers on the site, which is important because that means that we
didn't have any medical staff.
Oh, okay.
When we were running programs, we always had a fully trained nursing staff, but during training weeks, just the full-time staff was there, which consisted mostly of 18 to 22-year-olds.
This was back in 2012. I was 20 years old. This summer, I was the head lifeguard. So I was helping to train another team of lifeguards during this training week, which also meant that I and one other girl were the only first aid certified people. People are all over the property, training, and different activities. And we're doing a classroom training session for some new lifeguards. And a girl runs into the lodge that we're in.
and says, help, help, he fell from a tree.
Oh, oh, oh, oh.
We'll call him Tony.
She says, Tony fell from the high zipline platform.
Oh.
Oh, my God.
Which is at least 30 feet in the air.
Oh, fuck.
This could be career ending.
My stomach just drops.
Me and the other first aid girl grab our kit and we're running.
We have to get in a golf cart because this platform is on the other side of the property.
and we're asking this messenger questions, you know, is he conscious?
What's going on?
And she's like, I don't know.
And Tony is another counselor?
Yes, he was there also as a volunteer and he was training to run the zip line for campers.
You know, I'm like, is Tony dead?
Yeah.
Is his skull cracked open?
Has he broken his back?
And I've only been a lifeguard for like four weeks at this point.
This is great.
Oh, my God.
And I presume 9-1-1 has been called, but you guys are kind of far away from help.
There was an urgent here down the road, but we're in the middle of the wilderness.
So I honestly actually don't even remember if 911 was called.
I think we were all just kind of panicking.
So we have to kind of walk down into this path to get to where Tony is.
And as we're approaching, I hear laughter.
And I'm like, okay, that's probably a good sign.
and Tony's laying on the ground, but he has his head propped up and he's talking with the people
around him. So right away, I'm like, okay, he's not dead. He's conscious. And clearly he has his wits
about him. And he looks over at us kind of sheepishly. He's like, hey guys. And we're like,
what happened? Miraculously, when Tony fell, he wasn't clipped in properly, which is why he fell
in the first place off of this platform.
But he was agile and athletic enough
that he grabbed onto the tree next to the one that he was in
and essentially slid down it.
Oh.
Oh, I'm worried about his hands.
Like a fireman's pole.
Oh.
My stomach just turned.
I'd rather fall and hit my head open
that drag my hands down a pine tree.
That's not good advice.
From 30 feet.
Whoa.
He has no skin.
He probably has no skin.
You want to talk about splinters?
His fingertips are gone.
And he has the most unique wounds I think I've ever seen on his forearms and his legs.
And he's also pretty sure he's broken his ankle because, again, he landed on his feet, but very hard.
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So we are trying to clean him up as best as we can.
We ended up just putting him in someone's car to take him to the urgent care.
So I guess 911 wasn't called.
I guess not, yeah.
That was a mistake.
Sorry, Monica.
Yeah, I love a 911 call.
I know.
He ended up coming back to the property that night on crutches and bandaged up.
He'd broken his ankle.
But he came back with aftercare.
instructions for these wounds. He needed these wounds, cleaned, disinfected, and re-bandaged
four times a day, which sucks mostly for him, right? He's trying to be a good guy,
serve at this camp. He's on crutches now. Is he hot? We were very, like, platonic, good friends.
This is now Monica's. I was in trouble for being a perv earlier, and now the real perv
his enters the chap.
Well, I don't know.
It's very intimate.
You had to dress his wounds.
Even if there was going to be something romantic, the amount of pus that I had to deal with in these wounds.
I don't know.
We were both shocked the first time I had to clean these.
I don't know if it was just because he had so much stuff from the tree, if his body was just getting
rid of it. Of course, so much foreign material. I just wish she went home and his mom could take care
of him. Why did you have to do it? Yeah, and I was his mom. Mommy Monica. He was so laid back,
but also so apologetic about this. He was like, I should just be doing this myself. I'm so sorry.
And I'm like, you don't have fingertips. Like, you can't. So I just pretended to be a nurse for a week
before we got actual nursing staff
and took care of these
very pus-filled wounds
all over Tony.
Oh, my God, you're a hero.
Made a full recovery.
We both went back to the camp the next summer.
No one fell out of a tree.
The next summer, I did fall in love with a boy
and he's now my husband of 10 years
and a father of our three children.
So it was almost a meet-you.
Yeah, next year.
But yeah, that's the story of me pretending to be a medical professional at a summer camp.
I guess my big question is, why aren't we sending Tony home?
What the fuck is he going to do other than be a drain on everyone?
He has no business at this camp anymore.
He was there for the vibes.
And there are good vibes.
This is a really fun place.
And he is a tough guy.
He was like, no, I can stick it out.
I can be here.
And then he just hobbled around on his crutches.
but he had a great attitude.
Oh, good for Tony.
And good for you.
You have a great attitude as well.
Good for you and Tony.
I also have a little bit of a hero complex.
Dax can relate to that.
So it was fun for me to get to pretend that I knew how to take care of someone.
Yes, and everyone knew there that you were doing the taking care of.
That's lovely.
Right.
And they were like, wow, come on, Sarah.
Yeah, you don't need an H on your name.
They probably said that too.
They were definitely thinking that.
Well, I'm very excited for you that you met that boy and you're married and you have three kids and you're in Berlin, Germany. What an adventure.
Thank you. Yeah, it's been awesome. We love it here.
Oh, well, Sarah, this was a delight.
Thank you guys so much. I'm so grateful. I have to shout out my younger brother. He is the one that turned me on to this podcast in your first year.
And Dax, I'm just always so moved by what an incredible dad you are and how much you delight in your daughters.
I have such a great relationship with my dad, and he's battling stage four cancer right now.
I'm so sorry.
He's the epitome of what a father should be.
When I hear you talk about your girls and that relationship that you have with them,
it's one of my favorite things about this whole thing that you guys do.
Oh, well, thank you.
You guys are awesome.
Give our love to your family.
I will.
Thank you guys so much.
All right.
Take care.
That one got me worse than anything we've heard on here.
No.
I could feel it.
Not worse than last time when we ate at a corpse.
Yeah.
Worse.
Worse than the pus on the leg?
Fuck yeah.
I got a visceral.
We just talked to someone who slid down a very tall tree.
And I could feel all the slivers in my hands as she was describing that.
This was bad, but not as bad as eating skin off a corpse.
I'm going to start right away with, does anyone ever tell you that you look like Jason Lee?
I have not heard that.
A long time ago, I got Luke Wilson.
I can also kind of see that.
That's a wonderful thing to be told.
He's so cute and charming.
Where'd you grow up?
I grew up in middle of Kansas.
We live in Oklahoma now.
Okay, wonderful.
And was camp something everyone did there?
All my friends, we went to the same church camp from the surrounding areas.
And it was just a big one week where you saw everyone did everything.
Did you have like friends there that weren't in your school?
Was it generally also just kids from your school?
There wasn't that many kids from my school.
It was mostly my church.
and surrounding churches.
And how do you think church camps differ from your regular, secular camp?
Our church camp was a time for kids to kind of be wild sometimes.
So I don't think there's much of a difference.
Okay, so hit us with your camp story.
This happens last year at the same church camp that I grew up going to.
I go now as a counselor, my kid goes there.
I'm also the kind of the co-director of this camp.
Oh, amazing.
Okay, position of power.
Yes.
It's in the middle of nowhere, Kansas.
You have to take like a lone dirt road to get to it even.
About 120 campers, 8 to 13-year-olds.
And usually it's a pretty easy week.
This week, we had a lot of things go wrong.
We had a few counselors cancel on us last minute.
We were already short-staffed.
We had one counselor get shot in the face with a firework on the day before.
Okay.
So camp starts on July 5th?
Yeah.
He's covered in second-degree burns all over his face.
Oh, my God.
And just like, so he's not there.
Okay.
Good.
I mean, I have to say.
A little intense for the campers.
Yeah, that's a lot.
We also had to send a couple of counselors home because of code of conduct issues.
Oh.
Drugs or sex?
Suspicion of drugs.
Okay.
Strong smell wafting out of certain areas.
Right.
There are a lot of dazed mornings and nights.
We're already short staffs.
This is towards the end of the week.
And then we find out that a couple of kids have lice.
Oh, God.
I have an outsized fear of lice.
I really find it.
Like my fear of sliding down a tree.
I guess, yeah.
It was pretty bad.
So it's a boy and a girl.
We went to all the neighboring CVS's, Walmart, and we bought all the life shampoo we could find in the area.
Cleaned out the whole central Kansas.
And we washed all the kids' hair.
We sent those kids home because it was too much.
So understaffed, we just did the lice.
And then one of my counselors comes up to me and says,
Hey, I just saw a high-speed chase go down our dirt road with about 20 state troopers following a car.
Oh, my God.
Oh, wow.
And then we get a call basically saying, here's the deal.
A guy in New Mexico aggravated assault, stole a car, armed and dangerous, fled cops in New Mexico.
They've tracked them to your county in Kansas in middle of nowhere.
Oh, my God.
High-speed chase happens.
He turns down our one dirt road.
crashes, gets out of the car, police don't know where he's at.
He's on foot, somewhere in the woods.
He is on foot.
Now it's Friday the 13th.
This is great.
Yes.
We've got a murderer in the way because it gets escalated to a murderer immediately.
We're freaking out.
Luckily, all the kids, it was like dinner time or worship in the evening.
So they were all in one spot.
So we're trying to develop a plan.
We can keep them safe, watch the exits.
We get a call saying, hey, they caught.
him. And so we go back to normal at the fire, sing songs, trying to get to bed. We get another call. Turns out, no, they did not catch him. He is still on the loose. A couple hours later, the sun is going down. Oh, no. It turns out a farmer was calling everyone and being like, they caught him.
Oh, these farmers are reckless. Rural game of telephone. What would you have done? Went out to try to find them. And leave all the kids by themselves.
If I were Brody, I would get them in one spot, minimal exits and entrances,
try to find out what building is the least permeable.
And then I would stand guard.
I am going to make a lot of signs that say we have lice and like put them all over.
And then to deter.
Get a megaphone and just be screaming, we have lice.
So he knows not to come.
We have biological agents.
I wish we thought of that.
The lice angle, that would have been good.
We decide to go on lockdown because we can.
lock all the kids in the cabin so no one can get in but they can get out we post a couple
counselors here and there and we form what i can call you know like a camp militia basically yeah
really quick none of the cops go hey we'll come to you i mean this seems crazy they haven't peeled
off a couple officers to stand guard for a kid's camp one cop did come and i'm thinking to myself
he's going to kind of ease the situation they know where he's at but this cop came in hot
And he was like, I mean, who knows?
You know, who don't really know where he's back?
Oh, geez.
Okay, he was scared, too.
He could be anywhere.
All the dads of this camp form a perimeter around the camp to just, I guess, watch out for this guy.
Sure.
Because no one has any firearms at the camp or anything, or do we?
Well.
Oh, okay, church camp.
Let's go church camp.
Because someone's got one in their pickup truck.
Yeah, I mean, Central Kansas.
I personally don't have a weapon.
But there are a couple of guys that is like, I hoped but didn't want to know.
Because at one end, it's like, oh, I hope you didn't come to church camp with a gun in your car.
Yeah.
But now I'm glad that you did if you did.
Exactly.
Might come in hand.
Yeah, yeah.
I just went around the ATV with a flashlight shining it in bushes.
Kind of thinking he's an animal and, like, noise would scare him away.
Right, right.
But the one guy that probably was armed, he was a veteran, and he was sitting on top of his truck on a lawn chair, looking out over this field, and I don't know what was in his lap.
He's so excited right now.
Yeah, it's his time to shine.
He didn't have a shirt on.
He had a bandana on.
Oh, my.
Okay.
And this is the same guy that got shot in the face with the firework.
No, he's back?
He came to camp just on ibuprofen.
He didn't want to take the heavy stuff.
And he's like, in this crow's nest.
Second-degree burns watching over this field for us.
Oh, my.
He's the man for the job.
He is scarier to me than the...
Oh, no.
He's the man for the job.
Just all those burns?
That's enough to scare someone away, maybe.
Yeah, he looks like Freddie at that point.
He did get a lot of Freddie comparisons.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Whenever he showed up halfway through the week.
Glad he did.
He's watched now.
We're making noise.
We stay up all night.
No update from the police.
Oh, my God.
So it's the last night at camp.
We did all the lice.
We're up all night.
And, yeah.
The sun comes up and we just pack and go home.
Like, it was nothing.
They didn't catch them until the next day.
They did catch them, though.
Because it doesn't sound like the most competent police department.
I think they've sent you the dumbest one.
They're like, we need the smart people looking for him.
Send Mike over to the camp.
And he riles everyone up.
He doesn't help at all.
They put out a press release saying,
didn't want the public to know where he was at because we didn't want people showing up looking
for him. Right. The Dax Shepherd types. That was maybe smart. They weren't telling us where he
was. So we just assumed he could be anywhere. I think he's still in jail in that local county.
And you're going back this year? Going back this year in a few weeks. There's no way that
lice treatment worked. If you guys had hung out for another few days, I think everyone would have had it,
right? There was another camp afterwards, so hopefully they didn't pass on to those kids.
Yeah, let's fingers crossed. Oh, God. Well, wasn't it.
An eventful, that's not what you're expecting when you sign up for church camp.
It's not.
A manhunt.
Oh, Brodie, a delight to meet you.
I think those people are lucky to have you as a co-director of that place.
I appreciate it.
Thank you guys so much.
Let me tell my story.
Do you mind if my wife says hi?
Yeah, of course.
We'd love to meet her, yeah.
Okay.
Her name is Katie.
Hi, Katie.
Hi, Katie.
I like all your shoes.
You got great shoes.
Thank you.
Monaco, appreciate this.
I do crisis PR for a living.
Oh, wow.
public relations agency.
And so he calls me and he's like, okay, I need you to set your parent
aside, like our son, Park.
Park's fine, but I need you to help me craft and message to these parents.
Like, what do I tell the parent?
Yeah, right.
We've got an active manhunt happening.
Yeah, they're going to see this on Facebook from the Kingman County Sheriff's Office
Facebook page.
Like, we've got to tell these parents something.
So I helped him write a message, send it to the parents.
Well, by the way, there's nothing that could be said where you go, like, don't worry.
there is a manhunt happening.
You cloak it in the lice story.
So it's mainly about lice and then there's just one line about killer on the loose.
Right, like terrible news to share.
There has been a lice outbreak.
We've sent the campers home.
Write about six paragraphs on that.
I hope they get bored at the end.
Don't worry.
We solved it.
We shampooed.
There is a killer on the loose.
Now, when you get home, do another wash of hair.
Yes, go back to it.
Hot water, put it in a plastic bag.
Oh, by the way.
I think our main conundrum was, do we tell them we're on lockdown and don't come?
That's when I put my parent hat back on and I was like, you can't tell me not to come get my kid.
So I said, Brody, assure them their say, tell them all the precautions you're taking.
But also, if they want to come in the middle of the night and get their kid, they have to present an ID.
We will escort the kid out with all their stuff and do a safe handoff.
And they'll never be allowed in camp again, a little light threat.
Yeah, yeah.
All of you just said to know how many kids come back this year.
Soon to find out.
Well, you guys are just a delight.
I agree.
It's so nice to meet both of you.
You too.
Bye-bye.
Oh, cute.
I want to go to camp.
I guess I should have known that camps are largely church camps.
No.
I didn't put that together.
There's so many kinds.
I know a lot of people who went to, like, gymnastics camp.
Like, it's all niche.
I went to shielding camp.
obviously oh and what was that like you just have to cheer the whole time well it was camp but really
it was like training that's my fear so did you do any canoeing or marshmallows we did
marshmallows we weren't allowed to eat them just kidding because we had to stay tiny cheerleading joke
that was a really funny cheerleading joke no boys well we have boys on our squad oh people hooked up
they did yeah people hooked up yep anyone in the showers or probably fun times oh
I want to go to camp.
Well, have a good summer, guys.
Yeah, enjoy your summer.
Pretend you're at camp.
I'm hosting camp this year, is what I'll say.
Are you going to have popsicles at your camp?
Because I like that.
Yeah, whatever you want.
Sky is the limit.
Great.
All right.
Love you.
Love you.
Do you want to sing a tune or something?
We know a theme song.
Oh.
Okay, great.
We don't have a thing song for this new show.
So here I go, go, go.
We're going to ask some.
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