Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard - Michael Morris (cultural psychologist on tribalism)
Episode Date: October 16, 2024Michael Morris (Tribal) is a cultural psychologist and author. Michael joins the Armchair Expert to discuss the misconceptions he had about the Midwest, fundamental attribution error, and the... differences between individualism and collectivism. Michael and Dax talk about where the concept of tribalism came from, how language can affect behavioral choices, and why we learn to absorb the culture of whatever community is nurturing us. Michael explains what peer, hero, and ancestor instincts are, the problems with in-group favoritism, and how we can transcend toxic tribalism.Follow Armchair Expert on the Wondery App or wherever you get your podcasts. Watch new content on YouTube or listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free by joining Wondery+ in the Wondery App, Apple Podcasts, or Spotify. Start your free trial by visiting wondery.com/links/armchair-expert-with-dax-shepard/ now.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert experts
on expert, I'm Dan Shepard and I'm joined by Monica Monzoo.
Hi.
We have another Morris.
We had a Morris recently. That's right. We're on a tear of Morris's. Who else another Morris. We had a Morris recently.
That's right.
We're on a tear of Morris's.
Who else should we have that's a Morris?
Great question.
Zach Morris.
Zach Morris.
That'd be great.
Morris Day from the time, Prince's rival in Purple Ring.
Oh, okay.
Morris the Cat.
I'm failing big time.
There's another Morris.
William Morris.
William Morris, the, I think probably deceased agent.
Oh!
William Morris agency.
Or I'm a member.
Well, there's a lot more we can have.
Yeah, okay, so point is, we'll try to keep him coming.
But this Morris, Michael Morris,
is a cultural psychologist and professor
at Columbia University,
and he has a great book out
called Tribal, How the Cultural Instincts that Divide Us
Can Help Bring Us Together.
I really like this one because we hear so much
about tribalism.
I'm always talking about it, and I exclusively talk about it
in a negative light, and he's here to talk about
kind of the very positive side of tribalism.
And the way we can use those positive pieces
to bring us together.
Counteract the negative pieces.
Yeah.
Yeah, so this is a great one.
Please enjoy Michael Morris.
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You would live in New York. You teach at Columbia.
I live in New York. Yeah. And so you're in LA right now.
Is that a trip you look forward to?
Oh, of course.
I lived in California for 10 years.
Probably like the best years of my life.
You have that California vibe.
Yeah.
In a good way.
You have a cool vibe.
Chill, relaxed.
Were these the Stanford years?
Yeah, and I always admired California.
My family is sort of from New York.
I always saw New York as sort of like mired in the past.
And I saw Californians as these enlightened beings.
Liberated from tradition.
Yeah, eat better food.
You know, the genders aren't as bifurcated.
The teenagers don't seem to have the same awkward years.
East Coast awkward years are really awkward.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
New Jersey awkward, it's really awkward.
I know you're from Michigan, right?
Yeah, in Atlanta.
Atlanta, okay, cool.
And you're from New York, what part of New York?
I was born in the city and my parents were from the city
but then they started having too many kids
and so they moved upstate, moved around erratically
and then landed in a town called Liberty
which is in the Catskill Mountains.
Ooh, beautiful.
If you've ever seen Dirty Dancing,
it's where Dirty Dancing was set, not where it was filmed.
Lake Lure, North Carolina.
That's where it was filmed, yeah.
And you did your PhD at U of M?
I did.
And did you like living in Michigan?
You can be honest.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I think my answer is probably not atypical, right?
I grew up in this little, I can call it a shit town, right?
A little shit town.
Are we on or are we?
Indaringly.
Oh yeah, yeah, we're always on.
We're ABR.
Okay, okay, okay.
Yeah, when does this start?
We don't know.
We don't know when it ends for sure.
Very loosey goosey.
One of the first podcasts I ever listened to was shit town.
Have you ever heard that one?
Oh, I love that one.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
That's such a good one.
And that was the word that everyone in my town used, not when they
were trying to be derisive, but just when they were trying to be factual. So I grew up there.
I didn't get into any colleges. I was kind of a jerk in high school, kind of a deviant. What was
your perversion? Was it music? Was it the occult? I was one of the kids who took some leadership
roles, but then I was always being subversive.
So like at one point they asked me
to do the morning announcements.
And you know, in a public school,
you're all sitting in your home rooms
and you're listening to the announcements.
And so it would always be like,
will the following students please report
to the vice principal's office?
Yeah.
James Miller, Jimmy Hendrix,
are you slipping in or fake names?
You're a rascal.
Yeah, a bit of that.
And I always thought people like me,
but I realized afterwards that I made the teacher's jobs
really difficult.
Once I became a teacher and I realized having a person
sitting on the side of the room,
just making jokes constantly,
it's not making it easier for me.
I know, I'm guilty of it too.
Yeah, I didn't get in any colleges that I applied to.
I went to a couple of colleges in New York state
and went on a program to London.
And then I got into Brown, mostly through distance
running, because I had become a distance runner in the colleges
that I went to.
Did you major in psychology there as undergrad?
I didn't.
I did a literature degree.
At Brown, there aren't many requirements.
It's sort of a cafeteria-style college.
And what a lot of people at Brown
do is they take courses each semester that they like,
and then they're informed that they have completed the
requirements for the history degree which is like take four history classes.
You know it's like very minimal. That works well with how the human brain
works because we like to do a bunch of random things and then in retrospect put
them in an order that seems to make sense. So that's like almost the approach.
Do whatever the hell you want and then in reflection we'll go well that was
clearly ancient Rome degree.
Right. Those are the two sides of our brain.
The intuitive brain just makes choices and we feel in our gut it's the right choice
and we're committed to it.
And then the rational brain is a sort of after the fact sense maker
that carves a narrative or contrives a narrative, connects to the dots.
We can make sense of anything retroactively. Yes, we can.
Yeah, I'm great at it.
I'm like, every step I took seems like it led
precisely to where I'm at.
It's a danger that we are so facile
at rationalizing things.
When I teach that material,
one of the main things I try to teach people,
because they're smart kids,
I teach them smart people have a real fallibility
of believing their own bullshit
because their brains are so able to justify anything.
The intellectual humility of knowing
that 90% of your choices are being made by your intuition
that you have no access to and no control over
gets it wrong eight out of ten times.
That's sort of what we want to teach them.
There's also a concept in statistics,
just regression of the mean.
If somebody does something extraordinary,
chances are their next performance
will be less extraordinary.
And so really smart parents tend to have
kids who are smarter than average,
but not as smart as them.
So some of that might be just that science is largely chance.
I mean, some intelligence is the price of admission.
But then do you happen to work on a problem that gives way to your particular attack on the problem?
And that's largely chance.
So you leave there with a literature degree and then you go directly to U of M?
I also did a cognitive science degree. At the time, at least, it was a mix of some computer
science, especially artificial intelligence style computer science. Some linguistics, especially the more Noam Chomsky formal linguistics,
and then some philosophy of mind and some cognitive psychology.
So there was a bit of psychology in there.
Do you think you knew what question you were trying to answer as a human?
I was really intrigued by some books at that time.
I don't know if you've ever seen Doug Hofstadter's books like Goodell, Escher Bach.
He is kind of one of these physicists who integrates physics with music and other things.
It was a time when the cognitive revolution in psychology was coming together with early
artificial intelligence. Artificial intelligence was really promising then and then kind of had a
hiatus for about 30 years and now kabam, it's back. It's so exciting now.
It's changing every six months.
It's hard to keep up with.
Okay, so when we get to U of M,
we now must focus more specifically on a chosen field,
I'm presuming.
I wanted to go to the U of M.
We were talking about Michigan at first.
When I was a college student,
the poster on my wall was always Bob Dylan.
And I was kind of seduced by a combination of Bob Dylan and Garrison Kehler
to think that the Midwest was this mystical, magical, honest fountain of good.
Minnesota might still be, but not the rest of it.
Where Garrison Kehler was, maybe.
Yeah. I had grown kind of sick of New England
and the Ivy League experience, at least that I had,
of being sort of a fish out of water.
So I thought, oh, let me go to a big first rate,
but state land grant college in the Midwest
and see the real American experience, basically.
Yeah, no errors.
At Brown, there were a lot of kids
who went by the name
like Fleetwood or Che, but then you would say,
what's Che's real name?
And it's like, oh, it's Franklin Roosevelt,
Cabot Lodge the third.
So Michigan was fun when I first got there.
I remember I would say, where are you from?
And they'd say, I'm from the thumb.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Of the mitten.
They hold up the mitten.
And I was just enchanted by the place for probably a year.
After having gone to four or five different colleges
in four years, my feet were always moving.
And now I realized I was supposed to stay there
for four more years in a relatively small.
Annabelle's tiny.
Yeah, it's got a lot of richness
and some of the most interesting people I've ever met
at the hotel where I'm staying,
the lobby is decorated with the paintings
of a girl that I used to babysit for.
No way. Really?
Yeah, her name is Coac.
She's an internationally known artist,
but I had never walked into a boutique hotel
and seen her paintings in the lobby.
Are you staying at Cara?
Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Her artist's name is Coac,
and I think it stands for Kristen Olsen Artist Company
because her name is Kristen Olsen. I go there all the time, and I have noticed stands for Kristen Olson Artist Company because her name is Kristen Olson.
I like that.
I go there all the time and I have noticed
that the art there is incredible.
Oh!
So that's so funny.
Independently, you thought.
Yeah, in fact, I think I asked the manager,
like, can I buy some of this?
And he said, you can't afford it.
Yeah, they said, we'll get back to you
and then they never did.
Yeah.
She's great because her stuff sells
at the best galleries in Paris,
but she always puts
out limited edition print things so that everyone can participate in her art.
Us losers.
That's so cool.
So did you leave U of M with a PhD in psychology?
Yeah, it was in social psychology.
Social psychology is kind of a catch all for the areas of psychology that aren't about
rats and pigeons or blinking.
The really micro processes tend to be called cognitive psychology.
And then even a lot of cognition falls under social psychology because it's the study
of the messier side of the brain.
How it's interfacing with society.
Everything.
It's like the inter instead of inner look at psychology.
Exactly. It's the interpersonal.
That was sort of the classic definition.
I often call myself when I'm get on a plane or something,
I say I'm a behavioral scientist.
That shuts them up.
Yeah.
I used to say I'm a psychologist,
but not the type that helps people.
There you go.
That kind of sets a bad tone.
So where you've landed though and what you're doing currently at Columbia,
if I am right about this,
is you're doing an interdisciplinary approach, right?
You're now doing cultural psychology,
which is a fusion of anthropology and psychology,
which again seems very obvious, like duh, of course.
Yeah, in hindsight, it's sometimes hard to explain
to people why the contributions that I made early in my career were contributions, because they seem completely obvious, and
they're just kind of in the air now.
Young graduate students are like, you discovered that?
There was a time when people didn't know that?
Yeah.
What did people assume then?
Yeah, and will you brag for a second and tell me some of the things you were working on
that at the time were novel and proprietary that are now kind of standard?
So what happened to me was that the only colleges
that were interested in me were really quirky places,
like Reed College interviewed me,
but then once they met me, I was too quirky for them.
And then weirdly, I got a request
from the Northwestern Business School,
would you apply for our job?
Because we heard about your paper with somebody,
and so I applied for that job.
They really liked me.
It went well.
And then the next week, Stanford and University of Chicago emailed me,
would you apply for our job?
I didn't think any of these places would hire me because I didn't
know anything about business.
I was kind of a hippie, even relative to the other psychologists.
But then I got job offers from all these business schools.
So I was like, I guess the world is telling me
that the sort of innovative twist on psychology
that I'm doing might find a larger audience
in the business school world.
I saw you had Mike Norton on your show
and he's a similar story to me.
Yeah, he didn't understand why he ended up at Harvard.
At Harvard, a quirky guy.
His explanation was that he knew how to run human experiments
and all these businesses and corporations
are dying to figure out what makes
their employees work better.
Yeah.
But along the way, what were some of the things?
I guess I'm looking for a couple steps
before we land on tribalism.
One of the areas that I was surrounded by
when I was studying psychology was the study of biases in social judgment.
Social judgment is this everyday sense-making. We walk down the street, we see a person yelling
at a car, and then we have to make sense of it. Did the driver do something wrong? Is
the person schizophrenic? Are they just having a bad day and a spillover from that?
One of the biggest principles in social psychology, it was called the fundamental attribution error,
was this idea that we get personal about things
that are all about the situation.
So we meet someone in a library,
we jump to the conclusion they're introverted
because they're speaking softly.
We don't take into account it's a library.
Uh-huh.
My favorite example of this is Dave Chappelle,
the comedian.
He's like, on Sesame Street, everyone
is so quick to say Oscar is a grouch.
He's the poorest muppet on Sesame Street.
He lives in a garbage can.
Take into account his situation.
But that's how we like to think, grouch.
So that was certainly a true thing about Western societies
where most of the research was done.
But I was living in a household of all people
freshly arrived from China.
And it was a time of a lot of ferment
because Tenement Square had happened.
And so there was a lot of comparing notes
where I would say, to me, it looks like this happened.
And they'd be like, no, this happened.
Even Tenement Square, I saw it as some courageous student
leaders inspiring the rest of the country to come.
They were like, no, it happened by accident.
You know, there were a few people doing a hunger strike
that happened to correspond with the end of the school year.
And then so many more people arrived.
And I'm friends with some of the student leaders
who live in New York.
They concur with that, that they are accidental heroes.
Wow.
They didn't know what was going on either.
But in any case, we kept finding that whether we
were talking about what happened at the party we went to together
or what happened in the news,
that their worldview, their social interpretation was different from mine.
Mine was more the fundamental attribution error, which is if somebody wins a prize,
oh, they're a genius, or if somebody screws up, oh, they're irresponsible.
And they were always like, well, because their parents supported them, they won the prize,
or because the manager wasn't a good mentor, that's why the
employees screwed up. They were always explaining things with regard to the collective. You know,
at first I thought they were just more polite, but then I realized that they were doing it even
when it wasn't polite. And so I was working with a guy from China named Kai Ping Peng,
who currently has the most popular podcast in China. He's gone on to do that.
He probably dwarfs Rogan because he's got a billion people. Probably. who currently has the most popular podcast in China. He's gone on to do that.
He probably dwarfs Rogan
because he's got a billion people to choose from.
He probably has the most popular podcast in the world
if he has the most popular podcast in China.
Can I ask a quick question?
Was he as fascinated with you as you were with him?
Because I think therein lies the absolute fun
of being around different things and different people.
He and I are a lot alike.
We're both creative people who race and different people. He and I are a lot alike. We're both creative people
who race through different associations.
But when I would tell him about my people,
he thought it was bizarre.
And when he would tell me about his people,
I thought it was bizarre.
And he and I were kind of misfits in our own societies
like most professors are.
And so we worked together
and then we had to come up with ways to test this idea
that the go-to social bias in Western culture is idea that the go-to social bias in Western culture
is different than the go-to social bias in Chinese culture.
Right, it's not a human bias, it's a cultural bias.
Right, and before, that's how it was described.
It was called the psychology of human inference,
human social biases.
And I thought, okay, this bias has a lot to do
with individualism, this pressure to think
of each individual as a island, characters, destiny.
Whatever thing they accomplish is theirs entirely, whatever failures there is entirely.
Right.
Like in Japan, when somebody invents something that makes billions of dollars to their company,
they get like a $300 bonus.
Right, a nice watch.
And here, the intellectual property regime, it's all about the individual inventor.
And we kind of ignore that they were standing on the shoulders of giants.
We just kind of reduce the messiness of reality
to a simple narrative about great men and great women.
Yeah, do you think that's a Western obsession
with celebrity?
It's definitely related, but I think it shows up
even like in classical Chinese painting,
more often it's a view from a distance of a group of people.
With us, it's like main character.
We were trying to figure out how we could, in a culture fair way, test that the biases were different.
And so one of the things we did that made a big splash was we made cartoons with like
a really early animation program for Macs. And some of the cartoons were of physical
objects like a soccer ball rolling across a field hitting another soccer ball. And then
some of the cartoons were animals
and we eventually settled on fish.
So we would have an individual fish,
like over here on the left,
and then a group of fish and they would swim.
So the individual is swimming in front of the group.
And then we would ask,
why did the blue fish over here move?
And that was just the open-ended question.
And Americans would tend to say things like,
he decided he wanted to explore. He probably always. Or even if it was it, it's the question. And Americans would tend to say things like, he decided he wanted to explore.
He probably always.
Or even if it was it, it's the leader.
And they're all following.
The Chinese people saw it,
either the group is expelling a member
or the group is chasing a member.
It's like, which is the cause and which is the effect?
And Americans kind of defaulted to the individual
is the cause and China as the effect
because it was something that when Americans see it,
they can't really see it any other way.
And then Chinese people will be like,
no, it's plainly influenced from the group.
In some objective way, they're weirdly objectively correct.
Like the notion that you would focus on the singular
and not the group is just numerically kind of funny.
Cause I would too, I'd be like,
what's this motherfucker up to?
He's gonna show them where some cod is or something,
right?
I think that helped.
At different times in the past, work on culture
was considered to be not politically correct
in leftist Marxist sociology circles,
because the idea was everything is caused by social class.
And culture is an illusion.
But because we were pointing out a cultural difference where the East
Asians looked smarter than the Westerners, it was more palatable.
Because a lot of the previous stuff would be like Westerners are linear.
Cognitive anthropologists would be like this peasant group in the mountains of
Uzbekistan, they don't have logic.
They have a web basedbased mentality or holistic mentality,
and that could easily read as dismissive.
The leftist progressive North Star
is that we're all the same, maybe.
And then a history of anytime we delineated differences,
it was generally with the goal of subjugating
one of those groups we figured was inferior to us.
So it's like some pushback to the history.
But yeah, it's insane to me that we're not allowed to point out these incredible differences.
They're so fascinating.
I've always been interested as a former distance runner of like the preponderance of world-class
marathoners that come from particular groups in particular regions of Kenya who live at high
altitude, but like not from Tibet.
And then I learned that these groups all have different
local biological adaptations to living with lower oxygen,
but they have different ones.
And then there's a cultural component on top of that, right?
Of course, they grew up running 10 miles to go to school
and 10 miles back,
which is the optimal way to train in childhood
rather than racing all the time,
which can give you injuries.
And by the way, it's worthwhile
because I think we do have aspirational goals
as a group, as a culture, as everything.
And it's worthwhile to see how other people do things
and what the outcome of it is.
It's like, there's a very pragmatic outcome
of figuring out what we're all doing differently
and what are the results of those different approaches.
It's just negative if America or the West is centered.
It just has to be America does this, China,
you know, it's not like, so they're different.
It's like, we're all different.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
That's where I think things get a little, people push back.
Exactly.
You studied anthropology.
So the field of anthropology has had an extended crisis
over that.
The classic early anthropologists, mostly from Europe,
were funded by their government as part of the Colonialist Project. crisis over that. The classic early anthropologists mostly from Europe were
funded by their government as part of the colonialist project. Please go
document these people and if you don't mind please emphasize the need for
Western missionaries, armies and hospitals. And I don't think
anthropologists, they certainly were not deliberately trying to exploit the
people they study but they just weren't politically aware in the old days.
And they slipped into language
contrasting European civilization with non-Western tribes.
And using the word primitive a lot.
Yes.
This is problematic.
There were societies in Central America and South America
that were equal to most European societies at the time
in terms of scale, in terms of their mathematics,
in terms of their astronomy. And there were in Africa as well, but the Western anthropologists didn't always
see that. If you want to go down that road, Guns, Germs and Steals is a great ride through that
history. It's an amazing book. One of the books that was sort of a model for me in trying to write
a book that is a serious intellectual book, but also readable. You've accomplished that, by the
way. Your book is really, really fun. It's very Gladwell-esque.
Oh, well thank you.
Malcolm is a friend of mine and I've always admired
The Tipping Point as a wonderful book
that just gives ideas the power of action.
It's like reading a detective novel.
Well, you have a parallel story in your book,
weirdly, the Korean soccer team,
which we'll talk about, and Korean Air,
his chapter on Korean Air.
And crazily enough, virtually the exact same situation
and solution, kind of fascinating.
So you did that, you did the FISH test.
That landed as basically, there are different biases
that come from different cognitive frames
being in the foreground as a function of your culture
and the idea of culture as a constellation
of cognitive frameworks that
guide people's sense making and thinking.
And so then people just sort of accepted that there's the Eastern worldview that carries
with it certain biases and the Western worldview that carries with it certain biases.
And that's how I got hired by Stanford and how I got early notoriety in the field.
And then I wanted to understand better because I hadn't spent significant time in China.
And so I took a couple of years and spent most of the year at universities in Hong Kong,
where I taught and I conducted research with
local scholars who are also interested in cultural comparison.
How affected was that data set by being under English rules?
It almost feels like it potentially could be a hybrid.
It is, but when you're doing these natural experiments,
when you're doing these comparisons, you sometimes want that.
At the time, I was studying differences in conflict resolution and dispute resolution preferences.
Like, why do Americans always want to go to court?
And why do people in East Asian cultures tend to use a mediator or just negotiate it.
Again, their approach seems a little wiser, you know, like a little more practical than
ours.
So I wanted a place that was roughly equal to say New York or San Francisco in wealth,
in sort of population density and having a legal system, which was the sort of Western adjudicatory legal system,
so that if I still observed differences
in people's preferences,
that it wasn't coming from the social structure
being different.
Like if it was in rural China,
sure they use a mediator because there's no other option.
There's no other option.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're getting to see people decide.
But your concern is still a very legitimate one
because you might say, okay,
they're not using the legal system
because it's this funny English tradition
where people would wear the wigs.
That would turn me out of a court room.
That's so weird.
I mean, it's different.
No, you're allowed to make fun of white people.
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's weird.
It's fucking ridiculous.
It's preposterous when people in costume.
What is the point of that?
Is it so that everyone kind of looks the same?
What is that?
Isn't there a lice origin to it?
I don't know where it comes from.
Maybe in the time of the Revolutionary War,
I think Thomas Jefferson and all those people wore wigs,
like it was a fashion thing.
But I think it's preserved in the courtroom
because they want to get the procedure
exactly the same every time,
so that even if the outcome doesn't turn out right
for someone, people will say,
well, at least the procedure was followed.
And so that's why it's always a wooden mallet.
It's always a black robe.
It's always in England, a white, it's sort of preserved
in amber because of this need for constant procedure.
Yes, yes.
I do think there's a lice background to it though.
We'll do it in the back chat.
Rob, earmark that.
I do think there was some kind of health reason
why they were all wearing wigs in the chambers,
but regardless, I don't think the lice could jump
through the wig or some shit, I don't know.
We'll find out.
And then what did you find there?
That was around the time when the opposing worldviews theory
was finally accepted and I could retire on that,
that was fine, but then my day-to-day life in Hong Kong
completely overturned that for me
because I would walk into campus every day
and I would see the students from the universities that I taught at there and they would be walking
in little groups on the sidewalk chatting softly in Cantonese, greeting other people formally,
making way if an elder person was coming on the sidewalk, being very well mannered. And then they
would cross the gate onto the
campus. The campus is a Western space in Hong Kong. Classes are in English on most of the campuses
because it's a multicultural society. A lot of the workplaces and the schools are in English,
but people live in purely Chinese neighborhoods with purely Chinese families. So people span these
two worlds every day. And what I would observe was that when they would cross
the campus gate, suddenly the group conversation
would switch into English without missing a beat.
Mid-sentence, switch into English.
And then people would be laughing louder.
They would be standing a little bit different,
you know, high-fiving friends.
Tall-popping. And at the time, I was struggling to learn Standing a little bit different, high-fiving friends. Tall popping.
Yeah.
And at the time I was struggling to learn
the most basic rudiments of Chinese
and Chinese social customs.
Never even learned my own culture.
You know, learning a second culture.
It was very different.
You rejected yours and then tried to pick up this one.
So I was constantly offending people
and sort of stepping in it.
And they were just without any seeming effort
or even awareness, switching from fluent Chinese behavior
to fluent Western behavior.
And so that made me think that we don't have
these stable worldviews, but these cognitive frames
are situationally triggered.
And so I started doing research on what we call
code switching now in popular culture.
And in research, we often called it frame switching. And we would run all these experiments
where we would have the same experiment, like an experiment with the fish Rorschach test or an
experiment where you have to say how you would resolve a conflict. And we would either run the
session in Cantonese or in English with Hong Kong students, and they would make different choices when they were
operating in Cantonese because it would just bring all their Chinese frames to the foreground
compared to when they were answering in English. And even we would put like a poster in the back
of the wall of Mickey Mouse or of a Chinese dragon. So even these iconic images were triggers or the
architecture or a Western vase or a Chinese vase.
So things that are touchstones of the culture bring it to the surface.
You yourself as the participant don't feel those switches per se.
You don't feel yourself code switching. I don't think we're very aware of it.
I think we think in our narrative self we're the same person moving through all these situations, but we're not.
I think the first times you do it, which for someone who's African-American
and having to know how to behave on the street
and know how to behave in school,
they're learning this stuff
by the time they're six years old,
then it's automatic, like any habit,
it saves attention for other things.
I think it became a celebrated pop cultural thing
when Obama was president and Key and Peele
just dined out on it for years
of all these funny things about Obama,
but also things just with each other
where they kind of trigger each other.
Or his angry interpreter.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So funny.
But also that's really funny.
It circles back to what you said
at the very beginning of this episode.
You were like, I'm triggered by people
who are triggered with words.
Oh, uh-huh.
And this example is like language is so important.
It informs the way we literally see the world
and make decisions.
So it is important.
Yeah, you're transferring thoughts.
That's the magic of language, right?
It's like this impossible thing
that I'm gonna take what's in my brain
and give it to you to experience
through this medium of language. For me it's like it's okay to be
sensitive because there's a ton of meaning behind language like more than
we know for sure. Yeah my issue of swearing is a class warfare hierarchical
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Language is really tricky because it's both something
that gets triggered, like in code switching
of a politician in front of a different audience,
but then it's also triggering.
If I get a phone call at work from a high school friend,
I start behaving in a way that my colleagues
don't recognize because I'm back to that
small town high school experience.
Yeah.
In the past decade or so, most of my work
has been about cultural complexity
and how people negotiate it,
and the variety of situational things that are triggers
for different layers of culture.
And then also how culture changes,
how people learn new cultures throughout their lifespan
and how collectively a culture will shift.
I'm sort of fascinated by just the inflection points.
Like we're all old enough to remember
when they was not a pronoun for one person, right?
It's really only been the last five years or so
that very effectively the LGBTQ community and its allies
have not by coercion, but just insisting
that we would prefer that everyone do this,
it would be considerate.
And now if you don't do it,
you're considered to be obstinate.
Right, exactly.
And so I was noticing that this town
is still called Los Feliz by most people.
Yeah.
But I suspect that in the next decade,
it will become Los Feliz.
And not because it's becoming more Hispanic,
because it's becoming more hipster.
I mean, it must've started out as Los Feliz.
I don't know how it changed.
Yeah. Yeah.
Over time.
It's certainly not spelled Los Feliz.
Exactly. That's obvious. spelled Los Feliz. Exactly.
That's obvious.
I was asking my friend last night,
she said something like,
people switch into Los Feliz in December
because Feliz Navidad is like,
it's on the front of their minds.
So it's kind of on the bubble now.
The convention could switch.
I'll move when they start calling it Los Feliz.
I'll be like, okay, I aged out.
I gotta move now.
Wait, you can just call it that.
It's unclear whether it's pretentious or authentic.
That's the fine line.
I'm always quick to assume it's pretense.
That's my own baggage.
Except you also do call it orangutan and neanderthal.
Well, cause that's what it's, yeah.
So yeah.
I say both of those wrong.
Me too, because I feel like it's pretentious
to call it the proper way,
but really we should probably just be calling everything
the proper thing.
We should make an effort.
Yeah. Yeah, I agree.
Okay, so now we land at your book.
Sorry, that was a long walk,
but I enjoyed the hell out of it.
I've often expected questions about my research past,
but I've never gotten them before.
So it was fun to finally tell someone about it.
Okay, so the book is called Tribal,
but tribalism in general has become really popular.
I think as a result, we'd agree in the polarization
of the country over the last 10 years.
And I think a lot of social scientists have tried to step
in to help us understand what's really going on.
And I think there's been some interesting political debates
where they're really figuring out,
they're arguing about identity.
They're not these issues that seem to be the issues they're arguing about.
So I think it's gotten popular, but I think in its popularization, your book at least
would warn, is it's kind of a limited explanation of tribalism and that there's more to it.
It's not just this negative thing.
And I think I use it quite often that way.
In-group, out-group, us-them, that these are problematic.
But your book has got kind of an optimistic point of view, and it's saying sure all that stuff's
true but it's also the catalyst in the fuel behind everything great we do too.
Yes, and it is a mutable, malleable force. I started writing this book because I had
done this research and I've taught at Stanford Business School,
at Columbia Business School, and various business schools around the world for shorter visits.
And so I've kind of developed a toolkit of how my knowledge of how culture changes and how culture can be triggered
is useful for leaders or managers or teachers, parents, anyone who's trying to motivate and orchestrate other people
sort of leading them through their culture. So I've been teaching that for decades and
I started writing a book, okay, I'm just going to write about that. And then while I was
writing over the last five years, was meant to be one year, but took five years, tribalism
became this meme. It started with the pundits, like Tom Friedman wrote a very influential article saying,
we've caught a virus of tribalism
from our Middle East adventures,
and now we regard the opposite party
as a mortal enemy who must be defeated
instead of as a fellow citizen.
It's like we've descended into tribalism.
Yeah, yeah.
Tom kind of made it sound like Encephalitis.
We caught it from the Middle East.
But then Andrew Sullivan wrote this piece
where he said,
a deeply buried evolved drive
has resurfaced in our moment to create blind allegiance
and hate and distrust for outsiders
and to blur our view of reality.
And that was in the wake of Trump being elected.
And I think a lot of people felt that way,
like what bomb went off to cause this world that we're in,
then more people picked it up.
Sometimes now it has been called toxic tribalism.
Your book introduced me to that term.
I hadn't heard that yet, but of course that's so natural.
Because people say it's killed a lot of people
because Republicans didn't want to take Biden's vaccine
and then political violence killed people.
So this trope of toxic tribalism,
I think is quite dangerous because it's despairing.
At worst, it's fatalistic doom saying. I've even seen in several of these articles like
the genie has gotten out of the bottle and there's no way to put it back in again. And
I'm like, okay, is this metaphor really helpful for thinking about policies that might ameliorate
the situation? It makes for interesting journalism.
It makes for good speeches.
Politicians have picked it up.
But I think it's a little bit fatalistic.
It doesn't show the way to manage or to lead people
out of problematic ways of thinking.
I, as someone who's been studying this thing for decades and reading,
I read a lot of the evolutionary anthropologists.
There's a guy at UCLA, Robert
Boyd. I don't know if you had any contact with him, but if they had Nobel prizes in
anthropology, he would get it. He's probably done the most important work in the past 30
decades to build these models of cultural evolution. And they're really mathematical
models and they're by analogy to biological evolution. And so I've tried to incorporate everything that's been learned in that field with
everything that's been learned from
the experimental psychology that I do.
And I think that we have
a real toolkit that we can use to manage in the short term,
which cultural identities are affecting
a group of people that we're a part of or affecting ourselves.
And then to manage over the longer term to guide the evolution.
Evolution will happen organically,
but we can also guide it by giving experiences to
a group that will affect them and
will update their preconceptions about things.
The book started as really just sharing what I teach.
It has taken on a different agenda,
which is trying to counter this meme or this trope
that I think has led to a sort of cynical,
despairing attitude towards the crises in the world.
Or maybe, yeah, in worst case,
it would be apathy and acceptance.
Yeah, this kind of resolution of like,
we can't do anything, we're wired this way,
we're wired to hate.
It's like, that's not the main story of the human race.
There was a species like that, that's not the main story of the human race.
I mean, there was a species like that.
It's called Neanderthals.
They went extinct because there was this other species
that was mostly about community, and that's our species.
It's kind of not a fair picture.
The tribal instincts evolved for solidarity
and collaboration.
They didn't evolve for hostility.
The hostility is just a byproduct of a chain of things
that happens sometimes.
Context dependent.
Yeah, occasionally the in-group bumps up against the out-group
in a manner where that altercation is inevitable.
But more often what you're seeing is the group just kind of expand
and invite more and more people into the in-group.
Groups expand, and that's the arc of human civilization
from kingdoms to nations to empires to the UN
to the internet.
It's larger and larger, more and more inclusive networks.
Even in this dismal current state of affairs,
there is a silver lining in that minimally
150 million people agree on one thing
and then 150 million people agree on another thing.
Those are pretty big numbers.
Like that's a pretty fucking big in group.
Yeah.
Even though it sucks that that's the case.
Well, and actually most people all agree on the same thing.
There's just a few people who don't agree.
Right.
We misperceived the other faction
as though everyone in the faction
holds the most extreme beliefs in the faction.
Your average liberal Republican
and your average moderate Democrat don't differ.
And that's most people.
You have a fun personal anecdotal situation
that I would imagine also drives you to write this book,
which is you were involved in the Hillary campaign
in some capacity and you were at the Jarvis Center
when that world ended for all Democrats.
It's on the far west side of New York.
It's a building with a very distinctive glass ceiling.
So the Hillary campaign chose it as their site
to celebrate this historic victory.
It is something fitting of the accomplishment
that was inevitable.
There were many other celebrations in New York
and elsewhere that all ended in this sort of fiasco-like way,
but everyone there was so convinced
that victory was inevitable.
We gathered in our living room for a celebratory viewing
of what we already knew was coming.
Yeah, and it was just one of those moments where,
what, did somebody take over CNN and broadcast,
did CNN get hacked?
It was so hard to reconcile.
Really, we're not that polarized now.
But you end up in an oomer,
I think this is really fascinating.
So I was there and I was with some people
that I had been working with.
I just felt my mood shifting towards rage.
And so I know enough about myself better
to be out of a crowded room
when I might start arguing with somebody.
So I sort of wound my way out through layers and layers
and layers of gathered crowds, all of whom were dazed
and stupefied by things.
And then I couldn't find a cab
and there's not a subway around there.
And so I'm walking for blocks.
And then finally I get an Uber pool that's available.
And I'm like, sure, okay,
I'll take anything and I hop in,
this 30ish woman, pearls, nice silk dress,
flashes me a big smile and I'm like,
oh, what a nice person.
I didn't consciously register
but it was the first smile I had seen in hours
and then she trilled, are you coming from the event?
And I was like, at the Javits Center?
And she said, no, at the Midtown Hilton.
Then I remembered that Trump, who also lives in New York, was also having an event not
too many blocks away.
Uber should have been aware to separate.
I could have been in a fistfight in the back of this thing.
So then I'm sharing a ride with her, even though we're not sharing realities.
Because at first I was like, one of them.
And then I was so curious.
I was like, were people at your event
surprised by the outcome?
Yeah.
And she's like, not at all, because everyone hates her
and he's been surging in the Midwest.
And she had knowledge that I had been completely unaware of
about Michigan, for example, and about some other places.
I had been working in the campaign
as part of this group of social scientists
who kind of advise campaigns.
It just started my process of realizing
I'm not seeing reality in its complexity.
I've been pulled into a conformist process
of getting my news from websites of people who agree with me
and then checking my understanding
with people who completely agree with me and then checking my understanding with people who completely agree with me
and then becoming more and more confident in my worldview.
That they weren't shocked is really telling.
It's a cool observation.
I think the reason for it is,
and there's a lot of research evidence showing this,
that both the right and the left
think that their views are just reflections of reality,
whereas the other side is in the grip
of some distorted ideology.
Fox News or CNN, pick your side.
And so because of that,
we each think the center agrees with us.
Because of that, even when the polls are close,
we're like, well, but surely the independents
will come our way, and both sides believe that.
And that's why there's a lot of election night surprises
increasingly, not just in this country,
but in other countries where groups really are shocked
and then the surprise turns into election denial.
And that's the danger of it.
And you're fair enough to say we did it too.
The left did it in Georgia, the right did it nationally.
Yeah.
You can get a little sympathetic to it
because it's their reality.
I was just watching last night, 60 Minutes did a thing on Sunday about the January 6 people that are in prison,
some of the ones that were prosecuted not in there, have this gentleman talking who participated.
And he said, well, you have to understand we weren't overthrowing the government, we were saving it.
The election had been stolen.
It wasn't a democratic election.
And you're like, wow, I don't have that opinion.
But I get it. You're not overthrowing. You're protecting the government. If there was a
huge fraud, you have to get in there and restore it. It's not let's overthrow it, make it something
new. So it's just, yeah, your perspective and what you believe in. Yes, if you do believe
it was fraudulent, like we believed in Georgia, you're pretty much willing to do some stuff.
I don't want to sound like Donald Trump, but I think there were very well-intentioned people
who were part of that.
And then there were just fun-loving people.
It was just like a rowdy thing to be a part of.
Yeah, there were bozos and dum-dums
that would have been at like a free Popsicle giveaway.
And then there were some people
that really thought they had witnessed something
that had never happened in our history.
True patriots.
They saw themselves as like the Boston Tea Party colonists
who were defying the law.
It's just really, really important
to minimally, as an act of good faith or good will,
grant people that they're sincere about what they're saying.
I think that's minimally what we have to do.
It's very favorable for both sides to go like,
they were lied to, that's why they think that,
they're misinformed, they're dumb,
or it's not really that, it's bullshit,
they're really trying to destroy, it's like,
let's just grant each other the notion
that we're trying to make things better.
Tribalism is often an accusation,
like they're being irrational, they're being primitive,
they're being emotion driven,
but I think we should honor the intention of the other side
because the intention is often symmetrical
to our own intention.
Right now, at my campus, we had a situation where the political protests, which started
out as something I was proud of the people on both sides.
I was proud of my Israeli students and colleagues for speaking up and expressing grief and educating
people about the situation.
And I was proud of the sort of anti-genocide coalition,
which is a very inclusive coalition.
It's very small percentage of people are Palestinian.
And there's probably more Jews than Palestinians on that side.
But it escalated in part because both sides were co-opted
by outside groups that were more extreme that
had different agendas.
And there were certain triggers,
the kinds of things I write about in the book,
like symbols and ceremonies,
which are situational triggers
that bring extra layers of cultural thinking
that sometimes get in the way of critical thinking.
And so lots of stupid things were said,
but these are 19 year olds.
We shouldn't expect Gandhian discipline.
Yeah, exactly.
They were taking a math class the day before.
They don't do this for a living.
They had like a pimple that they were thinking
of not going to class over.
So I think there were arrests and procedures,
and I think it's quite appropriate to scare them,
but I don't think that we should be all that punitive in a long-term way.
Some of my colleagues really disagree, but we are proud of what happened at Columbia
during the Vietnam War, and we are proud of what happened at Columbia during the apartheid years,
which was sort of like my years in college. Columbia was the first campus to have shanties
and protests, and it spread throughout the country.
And when Mandela was released a few years later,
that was one of the factors cited,
that it had spread internationally.
Did you happen to read the,
it was a New York Times article that I really loved,
and I ended up reading the person's book,
and then we had them on even.
But the framing of that college situation
was laid out like this.
Forget about left and right being a battle between the issues.
And think of it much more as two different worldviews.
The left being the world is a battle between the oppressed and the oppressors, and
we must protect the oppressed.
Very legitimate point of view.
And then for the conservatives,
the worldview is life is a battle between barbarism and civilization. Also very true
and very legitimate. You can see countries without law and
a functioning judiciary. We know what the outcome is. These
are both really defendable points. And they were
materialized so perfectly on that campus. And I think my
frustration is that, and this funnels into tribalism, is
there has to be a winner in that.
There has to be the right or the wrong,
the good or the bad, the evil or the protectors.
I don't know, those both seem like pretty valid points of view to be expressing.
Exactly. And there are campuses where you had a kind of dialectic,
where you had a negotiation involving both groups and the administration.
Rutgers, for example, was one of them. Northwestern was another, but Rutgers was interesting because the
leadership at Rutgers said, like, well, if this is an opportunity to make Rutgers
better, if Rutgers can learn something from this crisis, we should. And so that
was a very face-saving way to say, okay, some of the demands from the anti-genocide coalition, like hire more professors
who have a knowledge of Palestinian and Arab issues.
Another issue I thought was really interesting in terms of tribalism, they said, we want
parity in terms of the flags that are flown on campus because apparently there were some
centers at Rutgers that flew Israeli flags and there was no place that flew a Palestinian flag.
And so that is interesting thing for Rutgers to learn,
right, that symbolic parity in a public space
and it's a state university.
And so I think they took the right attitude
and there were many demands that they did not accede to,
like we will divest from companies
that do business with Israel
and we will drop our partnerships with Israel
So the book starts out very fun again
I'm gonna parallel with the Korean air chapter in the Gladwell book you start with South Korea is gonna host the
2002 World Cup and they have been abysmal up to this point. They've been really terrible at soccer as a nation lately
They've been oh, okay. Okay. I'm not being fair. They kind of won the
World Cup, co-hosted with Japan, our tribal, in the mid-90s when they were riding high. They sort
of clawed their way up throughout the 20th century through colonialism and war and political turmoil,
and then kind of emerged as this successful economy in the 90s moving into the elite tier of
nations. Their soccer team, the Reds, was a regional power.
It was like winning the Asia Cup.
They got to be host nation.
And then the Asia crisis came in like 1998.
And not only did their economy tank, but they had to get embarrassing bailouts from the
IMF.
And they were accused of crony capitalism.
And there's a lot of patronizing language by the international institutions. So it was a really humiliating moment and their team
the Reds started losing to Kuwait and losing to really tiny countries.
Like 5-0, 5-0, 5-0. Like really getting slaughtered.
They were the host nation and it's really embarrassing if you're the host nation and
your team is terrible. So the head of the Korean soccer bureaucracy
called this soccer coach in the Netherlands
who had a mystique for being able
to bring out the talent in teams.
And not just in the Netherlands,
he had coached in the Netherlands,
but he had brought foreign players to Dutch clubs
in a way that people hadn't done before and made it work.
And then he went to Turkey and then he went to Spain and he was able to work his alchemy in all of these places.
And sports is a really fun little microcosm of tribalism because there are these existing pillars of belief,
which is the Spanish players were more improvisational.
Matadors.
Yeah, matadors.
The Brazilians Samba on the field. Yeah, matadors. Brazilian Samba on the field.
Yeah, Samba.
And he brought a Brazilian up.
The Germans have Teutonic discipline
and the English are shopkeepers.
It's this kind of national character rhetoric
that you still hear during the World Cup.
The old commentators engage in it,
but it makes no sense because 90% of the year,
these players are playing in clubs all around the world.
So the idea that they have a fixed programmed playing style
as a function of their nation is something projected.
It's a great place to just look
because all that stuff is so steeped in tribalism.
And Hiddink was someone who was like a pioneer
for not believing those things
and thinking that the so-called Dutch style
of total football could be brought to Spain.
And even as Dutch style had been influenced by some Russian. It was just the Dutch style of total football could be brought to Spain. Even his Dutch style had been influenced by some Russian.
It was just the Dutch style because the Dutch made it famous,
but it drew from certain things that had been done in England,
and certain things that had been done in Moscow.
He came to Korea.
His first impression was of an ignoramus because he not only didn't know
any words of Korean but he didn't recognize the names of the star players
like the Messi or the David Beckham of Korea.
He didn't get their names.
And he's not only Dutch,
but he's from a rural farming region
in the east of the country.
So he's really down to earth.
It's like a Ted Lasso.
Literally that's what this sounds like.
It's a little bit of a Ted Lasso story.
I mean, he knew the sport, so that was different.
But he's a fish out of a Ted Lasso story. I mean, he knew the sport, so that was different. But he's a fish out of water.
His particular bias, which is this kind of down-to-earth,
egalitarian, no-formality bias, was in some ways
exactly what the Korean team needed,
because the Korean team had certain habits of play
that were, in fact, influenced by the hierarchical nature, like in the Korean language.
If I'm addressing you and you're older than me,
obviously you're way younger than me,
but I have to say something like san in Japanese
that acknowledges that you're my senior.
And Hitting observed early on, he's like,
what are they saying on the field?
And the coach would give him a literal translation.
So they were using these honorific declensions when asking somebody to pass to them. And they were playing in their hierarchy.
So if they had an open shot and they were a rookie, they would pass it to a veteran out of
deference and they'd lose the shot. Or they would be shining the shoes of the veterans if they were
a rookie. Or they would make a loud noise to warn a veteran they're about to score on.
Like all this stuff that was getting in the way of victory
as the game is currently played.
I don't know whether Hiddink was aware
of what had happened at Korea Airlines a few years before.
This was years before Malcolm's book, Outliers,
which I think was like 2006 or something.
But Malcolm talks about something
that was in the academic literature that researchers at Boeing discovered that if they looked at
all the national flag carrier airlines and they looked at crash rates with 747 class
jets, which require equal collaboration of pilot and co-pilot, unlike previous jets,
the countries with the highest crash rates were not the ones you would expect.
They were essentially Taiwan and South Korea.
Neither country has particularly bad weather.
Neither country is poor.
They have a military with an air force where the pilots had equal hours up in the sky.
They had already lost the right to fly through some airspace and they were on the verge of
losing their right to fly through Canada's airspace.
There were so many accidents. Boeing even considered redesigning,
like having one plane designed for hierarchical cultures
and one for egalitarian cultures.
The reason they were crashing wasn't their skill level,
it was that the co-pilot's job is to point out the errors
of the pilot and vice versa.
But when the senior pilot was making an error,
the co-pilot would either say some very mitigating statement
and not really shine a light on what was going wrong.
The structure of pilot and copilot was rendered useless
in this hierarchical system.
Right, the really chilling evidence is from the transcripts
of the black boxes in the cockpit.
So these transcripts were published.
The conversation would be,
the copilot would be saying something like,
sir, what about the mountain issue?
And it would be, stop it, I'm trying to concentrate.
And then it would be, sir, we might want to change course.
You know, like indirect.
Knowing they're about to fly directly into a mountain.
And then the transcript ends.
In Outliers, the story is told mostly
as a story about how cultures differ.
But the aspect of the story that to me was the most striking
was that Korean Air,
to its credit, said, okay, well, all pilots speak English because that's the international
language of air traffic control. So let's make our official language of the company English.
So the cockpit language will be English. Didn't have to fire anyone. Maybe they had a few English
classes and haven't crashed since. The same people in the same planes. There's nothing inherent about these Korean
individuals that made them prone to this interaction. I think it's one of the most
hopeful stories I've ever read in my life. There's a problem of that magnitude that could be figured
out and could be solved is so encouraging. And this soccer one is equally so. He did the same
thing that soccer coach. Yeah, he announced all these weird rules for the training camp.
One of the rules was no use of honorifics on the field.
He rationalized it as need for efficiency, but some of the other rules were,
we're going to hold the first training camp in the United Arab Emirates, not in Korea.
And the Korean sports press are not allowed to follow us there and interview you after every scrimmage about your mistakes.
And so these were all justified in terms of efficiency.
But you could see, and people at the time
could see, that he was changing the cultural cues around people.
He wasn't telling them to change.
He wasn't even telling them how he wanted them to change.
But he was creating a situation that
made some identities less salient
and other identities more salient
and that helped them learn a more modern tactical system, this total football system.
And there are other times when he wanted them to think like Koreans, you know, and then
he created a situation that was like intensely Korean.
So he is just good at pulling the strings, recognizing that in any player there are multiple identities
and multiple loyalties and that you can be a puppet master sort of by knowing what situational
cues or what experiences will update somebody's assumptions about the group that they're a
part of.
I've never met the guy, but I found him to be an unlikely prophet about this.
He does in his interviews always talk about players are a lot more adaptable than you
would think.
And he will say, like, I played in many different countries and I saw that people could change.
And so he definitely had some conscious awareness of this.
But I think some of it was just he kind of understood how to tweak the situation, tweak
the situation, tweak the situation until it gelled.
And they got to the semis, and this moment was compared
by the media to their end of colonialism.
And statues were erected.
Like, it was as big as it could get in Korea.
Yeah, they put up statues of him,
they put him on a postage stamp, they named the stadium.
Instead of World Cup Stadium, it became Who's Hitting Stadium.
And then they wanted to make him an honorary citizen,
and they couldn't because Korea,
like many countries, had
a blood standard rather than a soil standard of citizenship.
You had to prove Korean ethnicity,
and so they changed that,
which was from time immemorial.
That's regarded as an inflection point in the South Korean identity,
a symbolic and literal openness to the world,
a level of confidence.
Like we can open ourselves to citizens who aren't Korean
without being threatened by it.
We won't lose our identity in this process.
Right.
In some ways you gain identity from it
because you regenerate an identity in this generation,
which is slightly different and more interesting.
And one idea of authenticity is that
the culture can never change.
Another idea of authenticity is that it must change.
And that if you're doing what was done a generation ago,
then well, that's a museum piece.
That's not the real culture.
That's the view of culture that I hold.
And I think it's more progressive.
So you break up three distinct ways
in which tribal psychology works.
The first of which is an instinct to imitate and
conform to what most people do.
And I think there is one part in here that seemed
specifically the people that are nurturing you, I
think, is really relevant.
Like the group that's nurturing you, you will
instinctively conform and imitate them.
Yeah.
Something that I remember from listening to some of your past podcasts
that you talked about is nature versus nurture.
When I was going to school, that was the binary frame that would always be on day one of a class.
You would take the evolutionary psychology class and they would take...
These other classes, they told you it was nurture.
I'm going to convince you that it's all nature, 99% nature.
And then the anthropology class would be, the brain is a blank slate and there's one culture where the women stand up to pee and
the men sit down and there's another culture where, you know, it's almost a major of anomalies.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
That's why I like that.
Yeah, yeah.
Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert, if you dare.
So what I think has emerged due to a lot of the great work has been done at UCLA, at this department of anthropology and brain sciences or whatever,
it's like an interdisciplinary department.
Human nature is nurture.
What we are genetically programmed to do is to learn to just absorb like a sponge from
whatever community is nurturing us.
And we are also programmed to teach to the people we are nurturing.
And we do that without even knowing that we're doing it.
And other social animals are more wired to behave in a specific way.
So an ant colony in California is exactly the same as an ant colony in Michigan or in
New York, but a strip mall in California is different than a strip mall in Manhattan because
we are wired to learn from whatever is nurturing us.
The culture is differentiated, but within the culture, we still have seamless coordination.
We don't have constant collisions because we know to mesh with each other through our
shared habits.
And that's what I call the peer instinct.
And it's sort of the foundation of human culture.
And even the earliest humans were able to collaborate and coordinate, operate together
with a shared goal through these common habits, these common understandings
in a way that other primates cannot.
And that was one big step towards tribal living.
And then the second one,
which you guys have mentioned a couple of times already
is heroes, the hero instinct.
And that was a new layer of psychology
where if the peer instinct was conformist,
doing what's normal,
the hero instinct is this drive to do what's normative,
to do what is regarded as moral or aesthetic
or a valued contribution by the community.
Like exceptional.
Yeah, in the book you say emulating someone
that is held in high regard.
And just like with conformity,
there are things that conformity leads us to do
that are bad, where we give up
our independent thinking, et cetera.
But my argument is that most of conformity is good
and enables us to do things collectively
that we wouldn't otherwise do.
Similarly with the hero instinct,
there's the silly kind of emulation.
So like when Elizabeth Holmes
wore Steve Jobs' black turtlenecks,
that didn't help Theranos succeed.
And we see a lot of that in sports, where people want to know
what LeBron eats for breakfast.
So it can be dumb, but it operates, for the most part,
in a really dynamic way.
Because imagine a sort of farming community
where maybe the soil is changing,
and then a few farmers start planting yams instead
of sweet potatoes.
I don't even know
what the difference between yams is. I know they are different. And then they sell more
crops than the average person. Well, in the next decade and in the next generation, more
people are going to start doing that because they're going to see, okay, these people have
success and status. And so I don't know if the yams are what caused it, but I suspect
that it might be. And so that way you have adaptive cultural change, you know, collective level learning where the group
shifts in the direction of what is working through this hero worship drive.
Well, that's why you need this balance of individuality and collectivism. Someone has
to be producing the emergent quality. Someone has to be divergent for us to navigate the
changes and adapt.
The human existence is one where we're constantly feeling conflicted between these different drives that we have.
You know, the drive to conform versus the drive to stand out.
The third one is some people are surprised that it's the last one to evolve because it sounds in some ways like the most primitive,
which is the ancestor instinct, the drive to perpetuate the ways of the past or the ways of past generations. And that created tribe level memory. It led
to a sort of hanging on of the wisdom of the past so that the wheel didn't have to be reinvented
every generation and the hero instinct energy could go into building on the past rather
than just recreating it. We can recognize all of these things in ourselves today.
We have this curiosity about founders.
The founding fathers are deities at this point.
Yeah, we learn a little bit about our family history.
We see an old photo and we want to know about this part.
We want to know what did that person do for a living and old family recipes.
We have this inordinate curiosity and this sort of sense that it's the right thing to
do to perpetuate
and propel these traditions forward.
It can lead to sort of blind conservatism,
blind traditionalism, but it's also very useful.
The way that we're wired is that even things
that are not immediately practical,
we feel like we should perpetuate.
And that led to art and other symbolic traditions.
You would see, hmm, look, we came into a cave
and there's painting on the wall.
We don't know who did that.
It looks kind of old, but let's learn how to do it
and let's do it in our cave.
And none of this had any practical value,
but it prepared them for things that were practical.
So if you have this routine of sort of learning by rote
of things from the past, well, then
there might be some sort of way of making a spear or way of making a fishing hook that
is sort of too complex for you to really understand why it works, but you can still do it because
grandma taught you to do it this way and you're going to do it this way.
And she looked over your shoulder when doing it and made sure that you did it this way and you're going to make sure that the next field do this way and you're going to do it this way. And she looked over your shoulder when doing it and made sure that you did it this way.
And you're going to make sure that the next people
do it this way.
And so this technology that is very useful
is being passed on despite people's inability
to understand exactly why it's done that way.
All three of these things, conformity, status seeking
and sentimentality and nostalgia,
blind repetition of the past.
They are things that I grew up thinking of
as human embarrassments,
you know, like aspects of human nature
that are holding us back from our rational core.
But I've come through studying this stuff for decades
to think that these things are actually
the distinctive superpower of our species that evolved that
leads us to behave in certain ways that allow for social organization.
And they're not completely rational, but rationality doesn't solve every problem.
Global warming is not a problem that rationality will get us out of because behaving in your
individual self-interest leads to overconsumption and not worrying about future generations.
So some of these tribal logics may have a better chance of changing behavior in the
ways that are needed.
But of course they do lead us astray, right?
Is it Asch's work that, am I pronouncing it correctly?
Yeah, yeah.
Where he demonstrated through these experiments.
That was sort of the famous work in the early 60s that added a lot of fuel to this sense
of conformity is a danger, which I guess it was in the 1950s, right?
And what he showed is that if you bring a group of people like us together for an eye
test, and I don't know that you two are actually in cahoots with Ash, I'm the only real experimenter,
you're fake subjects, the first couple rounds when asked, is that blue or green, we all
say blue,
trivial question. And then after a few questions, you guys start giving the same wrong answer.
And then I, as the real subject rub my eyes, I clean my glasses, I scratch my head, I kind
of look at people like, are you guys goofing with me? And then a very high percentage of
people in my role start to give the wrong answer
along with the majority.
The question that social psychologists struggled with for a long time was, are they just paying
lip service to that so as not to be ostracized, a sort of conscious conformity that is not
so deep?
Is their perspective changing?
Is your answer becoming a frame that when
I look at this teal shaded square, I start to see the blue in it? So they've done some
studies in recent years where people are hooked up to an fMRI machine. You know, it's that
light bright psychology where you see which part of their brain is activating and the
people who conform, they're seeing both the part of the brain that handles social conflict and the amygdala
that handles any kind of threat
and the part of the brain
that handles visual perception beliefs.
So there's some belief updating going on.
It does seem like there is some top-down influence
on people's perceptions.
Conformity is deep and it can lead to wrong judgments,
especially in these rigged situations.
Well, you do, you wonder that when you're evaluating
the out group, I do this myself.
I find myself going, do they really believe that
or are they smart enough to go like,
well, I don't really care, I'm just with this group.
It's probably both things.
Right, I think the two judgments we make are one,
either they're not sincere, they don't believe this,
they're just saying it because they're rich and they don't want to get taxed,
or they actually believe this, which shows that they're
so deep into this tea party ideology that they can't
see the world clearly anymore.
Neither of those is very charitable.
Right, right.
Yeah, when we talk about the hero instinct,
emulating someone with high regard, pride versus shame
is interesting and I think
worth pointing out some of the potholes we step in which is there's so many
experiments at this point that show people behave much differently when
they're being observed. If they're a philanthropist they're gonna give more
when there's celebrities in the room or there's other philanthropists in the
room. If there's a honor system to pay something,
they pay one thing when people are present
and a different when other people are present.
Or even if there's a poster on the wall of watching eyes
above the honor system coffee pot,
people are less likely to cheat.
A lot of these mental mechanisms are very trigger happy.
So you don't need the full flown peer group
watching me taking notes, even just the hint of eyes
or even just the reminder of the group
will cause you to think in terms of the frameworks
that you share with that group.
And that's like a reputational driven behavior
to preserve our reputation in our group.
Yeah, not always conscious calculation about reputation.
Shame is a really interesting emotion.
Shame and pride are like a system.
And traditionally, both Christians and like the psychoanalytic therapists have regarded
them as dysfunctional.
Pride goeth before a fall.
Or the psychoanalysts always said, shame is paralyzing. It's not a constructive emotion. It leads to all sorts of bad behaviors.
And when behavioral scientists started running rigorous studies of all the different social
emotions and what their consequences are, and doing it across societies, what became
very clear is that pride and shame are not about self-consciousness and dysfunction, they are a system that evolved
such that when we do a thing which is valued
by our community, we feel pride
and we feel it automatically.
Olympic medal winners everywhere,
even in the Paralympics, the blind judo people,
they all have the nonverbal expression of pride,
which is-
Chest expanded.
Chest expanded, which evolutionists say
it's a way of calling attention to yourself
as opposed to shame where you slump
and you try to make yourself invisible.
They say that the pride shame system is like a good PR agency
in that it broadcasts your successes
and it hides your failures.
You know?
And it's kind of designed both to induce you
to do the things that will be appreciated
and to not do the things that won't be appreciated and to make it more obvious when you have
done the good thing.
And it's not all good because it also leads you to do things like hide your mistakes and
take credit for things beyond what you...
So it's not all good.
It's not the moral emotion,
but it's the ethical emotion in the sense
that it's trying to make you appear virtuous
and trying to avoid having you appear unvirtuous.
I thought there was a neat outcome of this,
a hunting and gathering group in Africa.
And what's interesting is, and it makes so much sense,
which is if we act differently when we're being observed,
and yet we're now gathering in groups that are thousands and tens of thousands in civilizations.
You're milling about the world,
but you're not actually seeing people that know you.
So that's diminished that power,
and it's interesting to see what kind of gods develop in response to that,
which is most of these huge civilizations developed all-knowing,
all-seeing, omnipotent gods to stand in for your group.
Whereas a group like the Kung,
they're always with each other.
There is no milling about with strangers.
So you actually observe, so their gods are not
these all-seeing, all-powerful, all-knowing gods.
It's a fascinating outcome, I think, of that.
Yeah, you get these nosy gods, these high gods
who are both omniscient and awfully concerned
with what humans are doing.
Each person.
You know, like that.
All eight billion of us.
Once you get social scale that allows for anonymity,
you know, that I'm doing things
where nobody who knows me can see
and where I might hurt another person,
it's sort of like the big security camera in the sky
that causes us to behave nicely.
And outside of religion,
we do the same thing with like Santa Claus.
He knows if you've been good or bad, you know,
and we perpetuate other myths like in public swimming pools.
When I was growing up, there were signs saying like,
if you should have an accident in the pool,
a cloud of blue dye will appear.
The cloud of blue dye never appears.
You know, and you would think you would have seen it.
I once worked where I had to go to pool supply stores
because I was doing maintenance for things.
And they sell the signs, they don't sell the dye
because it doesn't exist.
Sweat would have the same reaction.
So it's just a myth that we perpetuate
to get good behavior.
You walk us through how we've evolved
to have all these
aspects of our tribalism, and then you give great examples
of how lots of good comes out of them.
The ending chapter is about this toxic tribalism.
So when I'm stuck in my pessimistic view,
I don't think this is something that we will ever transcend.
I don't think we will remove the vestigial tribal component
from our in-group, out-group thinking. And then I go, well, what would it take? we will ever transcend. I don't think we will remove the vestigial tribal component
from our in-group out-group thinking.
And then I go, well, what would it take?
And then I go, well, it'd have to be an outside enemy
that was so threatening that we'd get our shit together here.
Like I go to, it's gotta be the worst.
We need the Martians.
Yeah, Martians or Russia's really gotta launch an attack.
I have only really negative ideas
of how we could make this whole country
one in group.
But how do you see it?
How are we a little astray in our summation of all this tribalism?
I think there are very deep, trenchant, disturbing conflicts in our politics, in our race and
ethnic relations, and across religious lines, whether it's people shooting up a synagogue
or civil war in Darfur.
There's a lot of conflict going on, but I think that's true in every generation and probably will
be in every generation. And it is the case that most generations think that civilization is
unraveling on their watch, right? And you can read Socrates talking about the youth are no longer
studying the way we did.
So I think there will always be conflict for sure.
I think what's new is the way that people are talking about these conflicts,
the toxic tribalism trope that we are sort of wired to hate outsiders because
hostility is a part of all of these conflicts, but they don't start from hostility.
And thinking that they start from a hardwired hostility is not a useful way to think about
the conflict that you're in or the conflict that you might want to try to ameliorate.
So I think that there is not just one kind of tribal thinking gone awry, but there are
several varieties of it that come from these different tribal instincts, the peer instinct,
the hero instinct, and the ancestor instinct.
In the last chapter, I argue that the red-blue rift
is largely something that emerges from the peer instinct,
from the conformist information processing.
And so I call that epistemic tribalism.
It's a tribalism of the mind when tribe comes before truth.
And we're seeing the world through the lens of our shared tribal beliefs rather than reality, but we don't have the metacognition
to realize that. So we blame other people for the fact that they disagree with us.
And there are steps that can be taken to lower the heat, to dial it down. There's a whole industry of
red, blue bridge groups that has sprung up in the last four or five years.
And I think some of them are doing it the right way,
and some of them are not doing it the right way.
So a lot of these groups are called things like
High From the Other Side, or Red Blue Encounters,
or Town Versus Gown.
And I think that's exactly wrong,
because you're inviting people to an event
where they're gonna be paired off with somebody, and you're basically saying, you're going to be paired
off with one of them.
There are some evidence that those kinds of interactions actually polarize people, but
there's evidence that when we don't know that the person that we're talking to is from the
other side, or even if we know that, there are other groups called Make America Dinner Again, and Coffee Party USA, Open Lands USA.
Let's bring bipartisan groups together for dialogue around
shared passions that have nothing to do with politics and that
cross-cut the two sides and those are more likely to
create a conversation that continues beyond the event.
I love coffee and you tell me about a cafe in this neighborhood.
I'm like, well, what about next Wednesday?
You wanna meet there?
So it may seem like an indirect route,
but it's a better route than setting up
this oppositional thing.
I've seen some cool experience.
There's a few of these out there that I've seen.
One is they make them talk about like six topics
before they're allowed to launch into,
they'll get given this divisive topic.
And the outcomes after they've had to do these five
is drastically different than when they start there.
The other one I've seen, they have to build
a piece of furniture like Ikea,
or they have to have some physical project.
And they're not allowed to talk about anything political
till the end.
And again, the outcomes of those are drastically different
than when you start with that.
I'm actually kind of surprised about that
because I would think then you'd feel a betrayal.
Oh really?
Yeah, that like, but I thought I knew you
and I thought we were friends
and now I find out that we're actually so different.
That would be my instinct.
Just like when your parent,
I think for people who have family situations
where they disagree politically, I think that people who have family situations where they disagree politically,
I think that's really intense.
Sure.
Than when it's a stranger, who you're just like,
well, I don't know them,
so I don't have any investment here.
For sure.
It's the act of, it's us two against this piece of furniture.
So like we're an in-group.
No, I know.
And then like you're in-group, in-group, in-group,
and then you hear that they're out-group.
I think what it does is it right sizes
what it means to be an out-group.
Cause you've just experienced another version
where they're an in-group
and now you're questioning the boundaries
of in-group out-group. Yeah.
Yeah, but I mean, as you kind of alluded,
the research in this area, it's highly variable.
Like they haven't quite figured out
all of the parameters that matter.
And it's related to a longer area of research
called the contact hypothesis,
where in what situations if you bring Israeli kids
and Palestinian kids out of summer camp together,
will you have attitudes become more accepting
as opposed to polarizing?
And it requires that they have equal status.
It requires that they are working on projects together
where they need each other.
There's this concept of the jigsaw puzzle classroom
where you can't solve the problem
unless each kid contributes their knowledge.
But it's fragile.
Sometimes the equal status is artificially created
and it's not really believed,
or you start building trust and then somebody says something
and then it's like they grew an alien head
and you feel betrayed because you thought
you knew who they were.
So it's a complicated situation,
but there are better and worse ways.
You know, a lot of well-intentioned people would think
that the best way to create the event
is to highlight that it's a red, blue dialogue.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's a red-blue dialogue.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
That's not the thing to emphasize.
A cool point you make is that these three instincts that have evolved, they have evolved
specifically to mesh with peers and strangers and to help a group.
So it does seem crazy that they would all of a sudden be completely maladaptive and
non-functional.
And we're talking about some of like kind of micro examples of how it could happen.
But what do you think can happen on more of a scaled up version for us?
When we talk about where tribalism goes awry and contributes to group conflicts,
I think it goes awry in several different flavors.
One is this epistemic tribalism, sort of like living in different
cognitive worlds.
And there are some things we can do
to try to communicate with a person.
There's a lot of evidence that if I'm, say,
a liberal environmentalist,
and I'm trying to get a few more conservative votes,
like when they were working really hard
to get Joe Manchin's vote for the Inflation Reduction Act,
which is called the Inflation Reduction Act, but it's the biggest environmentalist law that's
ever been passed.
Oh, really?
Yeah.
But it was labeled in a way that was friendly to the people on the margin, right?
Inflation Reduction Act.
And the classical default thing is that your liberal will say, we need to stop global warming
because it's an injustice to the poor people who live closer
to the ocean or to the future generations.
And that's the logic of social justice.
And it resonates really well with Democrats, but it doesn't resonate as well with conservatives.
Other moral logics resonate better with them, like the rhetoric of sanctity. So, if instead the message is, we must preserve this
God-given earth and prevent the blasphemy of, you know, I may be laying it on too thick.
And they send clerics to lobby. But the idea is, work with the symbols and signs, bring
their language to the fore, and then they can see a basis for saying yes to this,
which comes from their commitments rather than asking them to come from your commitments.
And then aside from the left-right conflict, I argue that there's a different kind of tribalism
gone awry in the racial discrimination and ethnic discrimination. There, my thesis is,
I would say, probably a contrarian for a lot of people, but I argue
that the racial discrimination in the workplace today comes not entirely from hostility to
the outgroup.
In fact, I think that may be a relatively small part of it.
I think it comes from benevolence or favoritism towards the in-group.
Yeah, preservation of the in-group, perhaps.
Right.
Part of the hero instinct is that we're wired
to contribute to our clan.
We are wired to contribute not to all humankind,
but to our community.
Whoever's doling out the status, really.
Exactly, the relevant status.
And so we have lots of mechanisms of hiring
and promotion in organizations where I'm a manager
and I'm making a subjective judgment
about is your high school experience
leading the motorcycle club, is that a leadership experience or is that something I should be
worried about?
Whatever it would be in anybody's case.
So I have to make these subjective judgments.
I also make a lot of judgments about whether to give you the benefit of the doubt, whether
to give you a little more time than was allotted for the interview.
And I think we impulsively give these kinds of things to people who look like us or who
have last names similar to us.
That is in-group favoritism, and I think that's a stronger force.
And what's really problematic is that HR departments have adopted procedures in the last couple
of decades that turbocharge in-group favoritism.
So one of them is hiring for cultural fit.
The idea is the corporate culture is important.
So when we're looking to see who to hire of all these college students, if you see people
that you think would fit in well with the current partners in terms of their extracurricular
interests, give them an extra star.
There are anthropologists who go into corporations.
And one of them, a woman, Rivera from Northwestern,
has written a great book where she kind of was a fly
on the wall in blue chip law firms
and blue chip consulting firms and blue chip banks,
the same organizations that had restrictions
on who could work there generations ago.
What she observed is that they place an inordinate emphasis
on the high school and college extracurricular activities of the people they're hiring.
And they say things like,
oh, well, with her squash background
and Dax's crew experience,
we can imagine them being a really good team
on the trading floor.
And the sports that they seem to harp on
just happen to be these like waspy sports
that only exist in elite suburbs.
Elite suburbs today are demographically diverse,
but they're still class-wise,
it's a particular way of living.
That hiring for cultural fit,
it's a permission structure
for this kind of in-group favoritism.
And then another one is referral systems.
So companies now, if you're applying to be a manager,
if you just apply externally,
you have one-tenth the chance of being hired compared to if you
are referred by one of the employees of the organization.
And the way the referral systems work is if the employee refers someone who gets hired,
they get a financial incentive and they also get a friend coming into the organization.
And so companies have learned that referral hires come on board more quickly, stay longer,
lots of good things in terms of efficiency, but guess what?
They're not diverse.
They tend to look like the current employees.
But some companies have tweaked the referral system where it's still a referral system.
Like you're asked, do you know anyone in your work life or social life who might be a good
fit for our new head of HR and we're looking for people who are either veterans, LGBTQ, neurodiverse, or from
an underrepresented minority?
Well, it turns out you're just as good at coming up with 20 people.
They're not the 20 people that you would have come up with if you didn't have the target,
but you can come up with the 20 people and all of the same advantages happen.
You feel commitment
They have a friend they can learn from you So they have someone to show them the ropes and they tend to work out and stay longer
So just by becoming aware of in-group favoritism as a big part of the problem
You can start to see that some of these innocent procedures are making it way worse
And there are limitations in how well you can measure racial animus, right? Because people don't want to admit to it.
Yeah, it's a hard thing to get a real answer out of.
But all the indicators that do exist suggest that it still exists,
but it's a small set of people.
And it's not, for the most part, the people who are in power.
It's the disenfranchised people.
But discrimination is still really, really widespread.
It's not happening from hostility.
It's happening from, you know, like,
if I see the name Jamal Jefferson versus Paul Smith,
it's not necessarily that I feel hostility
at Jamal Jefferson.
I might feel a little warm glow at Paul Smith.
Familiarity, yeah.
Yeah, or some affinity, right?
So there's reason to blind the names in resumes
when you're doing hiring, and there are reasons to blind the names in resumes when you're doing hiring and there are reasons
to tweak the referral system.
I agree with you quite a bit on that assessment.
Obviously there's fucking white nationalists and there's hate groups and that's all true,
but I think it's putting a little too much focus on the thing that's not going to move
the needle.
Well, I agree as a minority.
The things that have affected me aren't hatred.
It's not like people hate me.
It's just more favoritism toward the hegemonic group.
So I think it's dead on.
Unfortunately, you don't have any controversy here.
Maybe some other host has been able to push back really hard on that.
You said it was a little controversial.
Oh, no, yeah, no.
It's controversial because Google spends a billion dollars a year on its DEI training,
and 2% of their technical
employees are women and underrepresented minorities.
So what they're doing is not working.
It's not hitting the real problem.
There's become a sort of diversity industrial complex now where there's this whole profession
of bias trainers and instruments that reveal your hidden prejudice and most have a shaky
scientific basis. But it's a
good band-aid. When something bad happens in a corporation, I'll bring in a bias trainer. It's
a sort of ritual obeisance. It often makes things worse. And some data shows that after bias training,
companies are less likely to promote minorities. And it's thought to come from the fact that
people become shy about any interactions across racial lines or gender lines because
the feeling is I might commit a microaggression and then I might get cancelled.
They get scared.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Well, this is fascinating.
I'm really grateful to hear a somewhat positive take on it because yeah, it's singularly
negative.
I perpetuate that quite often.
I don't think that our democracy has been destroyed
and I don't think civil society is dead.
We just need to understand where the levers are
and learn to manage ourselves better.
Yeah, I agree, I agree.
And I really, really enjoyed getting to talk to you
and learn about you.
And I hope everyone checks out Tribal,
how the cultural instincts that divide us
can help bring us together.
Hopeful and the finest point I wanna put on it
is it reads like pop fiction.
It reads like Gladwell.
It's very fun.
You're learning about all of these premises
through stories about people
and they're all very, very, very entertaining
and you're just kind of picking up the wisdom
as you get entertained.
So good job.
Thank you. Yeah, it's really great. I'm really happy to hear that. Yeah. All right, be well.
Stay tuned for more Armchair Expert, if you dare.
Hi there, this is Hermium Permium. If you like that, you're gonna love the fact check
with Miss Monica.
Hello.
Hi.
I wondered if you-
Harem pants?
Yeah, I had a feeling you were gonna mention my pants.
They're harems, right?
Should I stand up?
Yeah, give a stand up.
Do a stand up, do a twirl.
Do a twirl, turn to the left, turn to the right.
Do your thing on the cat.
Yeah, they're kind of clownish.
Ah, it's got a circus vibe, fun, fashionable circus vibe.
Yep, I got these at a vintage store in Austin.
Really? Yeah.
How old do we think they are?
Ooh. Is there any way to know?
I'm sure there's a way to know.
Let's see, what if I typed in, what year are my pants?
And it could do it.
Oh my God, speaking of, I was with Jess this weekend
or end of last week and he has a chat,
cheapy tea on his phone.
Okay.
And he was like, I wanna name my guy.
Let's ask him what he wants to be named.
So we were like talking to him.
Okay.
And he speaks in a voice or in text?
A voice.
He does.
A very, in my opinion, human-like voice.
Okay.
It's kind of like when on Synced,
when Liz had her AI boyfriend.
Right.
It's similar to this.
Okay.
But Jess was saying, I'm with my friend Monica
and we want to give you a name.
Oh, Jess said, say hello to Monica.
And he says, hi Monica,
I hope you guys are having a great day.
What do you think my name should be?
Like he immediately can really understand
and then turn it into a colloquial back and forth.
Sure and engage you.
Yes.
And at one point I said,
Jess, I wanna talk to you.
And he said, Monica's getting mad that I'm not getting,
she's not getting all my attention.
And then it laughed.
No.
Yes.
Oh wow, it knew that was a joke.
Yes.
That's good.
I'm really afraid people are going to start turning to it
for true companionship. Companionship.
I mean, Jess was getting so into it.
So you're nervous Jess in particular is gonna.
I think a lot of people,
last week we talked about being lonely.
Lonely.
And like, what if during my incident I had.
Oh, well you needed it.
This is great.
This is a big philosophical.
Yeah.
By the way, Yuval, I heard Yuval talking,
I think I even brought it up on a previous fact check.
That he was talking, he was being interviewed
by somebody on stage at a live event.
And he was saying, if you think about it,
when you're talking to another human,
the other human's just planning their next statement
and thinking how what you're saying affects their own ego.
In a sense, this AI thing would be a companion
that is actually interested in you
and actually wants to soothe you.
That's really interesting if you really think about
what you're getting out of communication,
what it's doing for you.
If what you needed during your incident was comfort
and it gave you comfort and helped you,
why would it matter?
The AI is trained to give you what you want.
And so that's good in certain circumstances,
like probably a comfort circumstance.
Ding, ding, ding to our last fact check
where we were talking about yes men
and only getting confirmation and affirmation
and not having anyone challenge you.
I imagine you could set the parameters.
No one would do that.
Well, you would.
If that was your fear and you're like,
well, I don't want this thing to warp my sense
of my own importance and my own blah, blah, blah.
You could set parameters, I presume, for it.
Because you'll go like,
I think I'm gonna have Twinkies for lunch.
Now a shitty friend would be like, eat 10, right?
But you've also told it your goals in life.
Now this goes back to Homo Deus,
ding, ding, ding, you have Valhalla Rari again.
You strike.
You can give it your goals.
Like, I wanna be social, I wanna exercise,
I wanna be in daylight, this amount.
You could give it your whole dream list of who you would be.
And so you go, I'm thinking about getting some Twinkies,
and he could go, or she could go.
Those would be delicious, Monica,
but it would take you off your goal by three days.
And even if you say, I want some light pushback,
often in life, you don't want pushback. You can set that parameter, but then if you say, I want some light pushback. Often in life, you don't want pushback, right?
You can set that parameter, but then if you're getting it,
if it's a real person, you have to engage.
You have to stay there if it's someone you care about
or love. You can't go fuck off, Roger.
Yeah, you can't turn the person off.
Like you can turn your phone off or just say, ugh, nevermind.
Or I resetting you to say something I want now.
I totally agree with that.
But what would be interesting is,
because neither of us have been advised by Roger yet,
I haven't, what would be really interesting
is if you even get defensive when Roger does it.
Because so much of I think what our defensiveness is like,
I like and value this person,
and they have opinion about me that's negative,
and that scares me.
So I wonder if even, what might be interesting is
does it nullify defensiveness?
Like if my watch tells me you're a sloth.
Well, that's rude.
I would be like, fuck you, you're a watch.
Yeah.
You know, I don't know.
I guess one of my more immediate fears is like,
you know what it is, is I probably have a fear
that my skills will be nullified.
Yeah, of course.
I mean, this is what the whole strike,
the AI portion of the strike was about.
This exact thing, like, well,
if a computer can write a script as well as a human,
is that okay?
I still stand by, I guess it's okay.
I think it needs to be declared.
Yeah.
And I think I, as a person, will always be more impressed
by a human who can do something interesting.
Okay, now what about this?
Could you say to Roger,
look at all the sports information
and write me a magazine right now.
Could you publish this magazine?
I think probably.
Yeah.
And what if it's better?
And I'm a sports enthusiast.
Then you'll buy it.
But why would you buy anything?
Couldn't you just tell your own Roger,
well, I want a sports magazine too.
Exactly.
I'm not sure how this is all gonna work,
but we're gonna find out.
If an AI makes the most beautiful song in the whole world,
it's like gorgeous sound that I've ever heard.
I might listen to that song,
but I won't never listen to a human song again,
and I won't find it as impressive,
as even a human who maybe is doing 75% of that perfection.
Yeah, it's like when I do fast math,
it's still kind of impressive,
but a calculator can do it really accurately and way faster.
There's still a room for me to be impressive,
even though calculators exist.
Exactly, yeah.
And I would have previously said,
before I heard that Metallica, Yacht Rock, AI,
hybrid mashup, I would have assumed there wouldn't be an AI song. Metallica, Yacht Rock, AI, Hybrid, Mashup.
I would have assumed there wouldn't be an AI song.
I'd actually love.
But in truth, I love that song.
I probably like it as much as a lot of other songs.
The thing that'll be missing is like,
it doesn't have what Steely Dan has,
which is like, even though Steely Dan's songs,
one of their defining characteristics
is their songs are so different.
Kind of like The Beatles.
Like none of them overlaid.
They're all unique, but by God, they're all steely.
Man, they have that fingerprint
and they have some essential vibe
that is Walter Becker.
Charles Leiden.
Charles Leiden.
Oh, Charles Leiden, our father.
Christopher Leiden.
Oh, fuck.
Christopher Leiden,, poor Chris man.
We owe him to know it really well.
I just can't do it.
Chris Lydon.
Do you have a photo of him you could put up on the TV?
Oh yeah.
Yeah, let's see if we can.
We can just have him up always.
Yeah, as our father.
Can I tell you about one fun thing between Delta and I?
Yeah.
So when I drop her off from school,
we kind of park and we walk a block to school.
And we saw someone's virtually their whole wig.
It wasn't a whole wig, it was all extensions.
Okay.
It was a huge amount of extensions.
Oh boy.
And we had been listening to,
don't stop till you get enough, come on.
And so we were walking down the street
and we started singing,
don't stop till you get enough, come on. Till your hair falls out. Leave it on the sidewalk, come on. And so we were walking down the street and we started singing. Don't stop till you get enough. Come on till your hair falls out.
Leave it on the sidewalk.
Come on till your hair falls out.
That's funny.
And it's still there this morning.
That was like eight days ago.
And luckily I think the thing about hair on a sidewalk
is no one wants to pick it up.
You would need tongs.
Is that him?
He's so handsome.
Oh my God, the cover of The Guardian?
Well, he deserves it.
He invented podcasting.
That's Chris Leiden.
What?
Fuck, thank you brother.
Father.
Thank you, dad.
Daddy.
Daddy.
Da da.
Yeah, we made it gross.
Daddy.
We so quickly made it so gross.
You're my podcast daddy.
Oh.
Ew. Um, wow. AI can my podcast daddy. Oh. Ew.
A.I. can't do that.
I think the only thing left will be like
pervy grossness jokes.
No, A.I. will be,
do you know how many pervy jokes are on the internet?
Yeah, but a vibe like.
It laughed at the joke.
It knows. It was a good joke.
Really good joke and it laughed so hard.
Well did his laugh sound maniacal or friendly?
It was layered.
It was like, oh I get that's a joke
and also like, oh I feel a little bad for her.
She shouldn't feel like this.
She's being replaced by me.
She's insecure.
She has low self esteem.
I feel it. Yeah she's probably had an incident me. She's insecure. She has low self esteem. I feel it.
Yeah, she's probably had an incident recently
as her on chill. What if it asked?
Monica.
By chance, did you have an incident recently?
Hey, did we ever,
cause there was a lot of justifiable complaints
about the fact check not containing our chimp crazy debrief.
Have we done it?
Yeah, we did. Okay, great. We didn't do it on Catherineief. Have we done it? Yeah, we did.
Okay, great.
We didn't do it on Catherine's.
But we did it.
It's to come.
Well, it happened on this.
Next month.
It's last week and then Adam won.
Oh, one other thing I wanted to say
and then the comments that made me really happy is
someone again asked like, why aren't you in the attic?
For me, it's like we're a month into this.
You gotta understand, Monday's the attic,
Wednesday's is the studio.
But someone was nice enough to write,
and they wrote, at Dax Shepard, they said,
hey Dax Shepard, I'll take this one.
And then they said, here's how the schedule works.
I understand though, I think it's important.
I think maybe me and you got too hasty.
Like we said it once or twice
and we felt like we said it all.
You think so?
Yeah, because there are some podcasts
that I listen to that do say the same,
like they say updates for a year,
the same update to tell people.
And we haven't done that, but maybe we should.
Okay, so let's-
Yeah, I just think the baseline armchair is so smart.
I really do believe that.
They are, but also we have new people, we hope.
I think the bigger issue, which is very fair,
is there's many people don't listen to every episode.
So it's like, yeah, we did it for two or three episodes
and we're like, yeah, we're good.
But it's very common for someone to have missed three episodes. Then they listen, they're like, yeah, we did it for two or three episodes and we're like, yeah, we're good. But it's very common for someone
to have missed three episodes.
Then they listen, they're like, what's happening now?
Okay, let me tell people about our show.
Okay, so we have a show called Armchair Expert
with Dax Shepard.
Is it about the messiness of being human?
It is.
It's about incidents.
What's the incidence of being human? It's about human incidents. It is. Uh-huh. It's about incidents. What's the incidents of being human?
It's about human incidents.
It is actually.
And what's our schedule?
Okay, so our schedule is,
we have three episodes for you a week.
Yeah, that's, oh my God, that's a great offering.
I know.
How much does it cost?
It's free.
Oh my God, okay, wow.
You've got me on the hook.
And where can you listen? And where can you listen?
And where can you listen to this?
You can listen anywhere you get your podcast, anywhere.
Hold on, could I listen on Apple podcasts?
Yes, you can.
Could I listen on Wondry?
Absolutely.
How about Stitcher?
I think.
Spotify?
Yes.
Okay, great.
Yes, you can.
You can listen anywhere you get your podcasts.
And look, if you're like, I don't get my podcast,
I don't know what that means,
then on your phone, if you have an iPhone,
you do have an Apple podcast icon.
It's purple.
Came preloaded.
Came preloaded.
So you do have it.
And then you can search in apps for the Wondry app,
or the Spotify app, or the Stitcher app,
or the iHeart radio app.
I'm assuming all these people have apps.
I'm not sure.
I think so.
We release an episode on Monday, Wednesday and Friday.
Monday is a celebrity interview.
Okay.
It's Dax and Monica talking to a celebrity friend.
And we're really interested in incidents
and the messiness of being human and vulnerabilities.
And we're not really interested in people's high highs.
We like addiction, we like poop.
And then-
Are those audio or video?
Okay, great question.
Thank you for asking.
It is audio only.
However, you can watch it on YouTube.
You won't see us- The YouTube. You won't see us.
The conversation.
You won't see the conversation,
but there'll be some visuals.
But the fact check, which happens at the end
of each episode, the end of, I'm sorry,
the end of Monday and Wednesday's episode,
the fact check.
Yeah, this is confusing.
I can understand why people are upset.
Yep, me too.
Okay, so that's just Dax and Monica,
and they're checking the facts from the episode
because everyone makes a lot of claims
that need substantiation.
Right.
But also the fact check more than facts
is just Dax and Monica really catching up
on their thoughts and ideas, opinions.
Sometimes they fight, sometimes they cry
and sometimes they laugh.
And the fact check is always on video now.
Interesting.
Yes, but if you don't like video,
you don't have to watch it.
Hold on, I remember-
You can listen completely.
I remember an episode,
I even wanna say it was Bobby Lee,
where Dax made a huge stink about
that he would never do video
because it would ruin the integrity of the vulnerability.
Sure.
So he's a liar and he's a hypocrite
and he sold out for money.
Well, I think it's not very nice of you
to speak that way about my friend.
First of all, we are keeping the integrity
of our celebrity guests.
That's why on Monday there is no video
because we do wanna keep that intimacy
and make people feel very comfortable and feel vulnerable.
Not point cameras at them.
We don't want cameras.
We don't want them to feel like they have to put on makeup,
any of that.
So that is why we are not doing video on Monday.
But let me talk about Wednesday. Oh, I can't wait to hear. Wednesday is when we are not doing video on Monday. But let me talk about Wednesday.
Oh, I can't wait to hear.
Wednesday is when we have an expert on.
We have professors, we have mathematicians.
So like knowledge driven, not vulnerability driven.
Exactly, although sometimes vulnerability
seeps its way in there.
Sure, sure, sure.
And so those are really, really fun.
We don't feel that that needs as much preservation
of intimacy because as you said,
it's more knowledge-based and less vulnerability.
So we thought it would be nice for people
if they so choose to see our faces and see an interaction.
A lot of people really enjoy YouTube.
Then they have that.
I've heard there's a whole demographic of people,
more than there are even on podcasts,
that they're on YouTube and that's where
they're gonna stay forever.
They're not gonna go to a platform.
So this seems like a good idea if you wanna bring
this knowledge to people who only consume on YouTube.
It's a great idea for that.
And if you want to see the fact check
and see Dax and Monica chit chat and cry and laugh and fight.
They count their day.
Yes.
Um, that you can watch that or you don't have to
watch anything.
You can just listen as you've always been
listening on any of the platforms.
And that's our show.
Oh, and then we, Fridays.
Okay.
What happens Fridays?
We have Armchair Anonymous.
That's a really fun show that we do with our listeners.
And how that works is we put out prompts
at the beginning of each month.
Oh, fun.
It's, tell us about a time you broke a bone.
Tell us about a time you had an unauthorized evacuation.
Ooh, that's up my alley.
Yeah, tell us about a time you were on the news. Like, we, that's up my alley. Yeah.
Tell us about a time you were on the news.
Like, we'll put out a prompt, four prompts.
Yeah.
And people can go to our website, armchairexpertpod.com,
and you can submit your story.
And if you get chosen,
then we chat with you for about 15 minutes
and you tell us your story and then we post that.
Well, you know, this seems to answer a question
I read a lot in the comments.
Why don't you interview a normal person?
Oh, well, we do.
So Friday, I think it sounds like you interview
four normal people every Friday.
And I think we're not interested in calling people normal
on this show.
No, this is what they're saying in the comments.
I know, I'm telling them that we don't really use that word.
It's not very, no one's normal.
Right, well.
Yeah. Okay.
No one's normal, we're all special.
We're all special unicorns.
Just like everyone else though,
that's the normalizing part.
That's right.
Yeah.
Well, I can see where people- And that's our show.
That's confusing.
That took 20 minutes.
Yeah, and when I hear it laid out, it is very confusing.
I can concede that.
So now you have some compassion.
But I don't know what else to do.
I think we're gonna have to do this every week.
Every single episode. Every episode, yeah.
Okay, I think people will probably stop listening.
Well.
It's kinda like when teachers in a classroom
and you gotta account for,
like you wanna move on to long division.
Yeah.
But people are still struggling with the multiplication.
Do you think the teachers should move on
for those advanced kids or should they wait
until everyone understands?
Well, that's the struggle.
I guess you're trying to balance it
because you don't want to lose the smart kids
and get them bored and start doing drugs
in the hallway or whatever.
It's tough.
Well, when you think about it, now I'm being sincere.
Well, it's impossible. You, when you think about it, now I'm being sincere. Yeah. Well, it's impossible.
You're aiming at the average,
and we know about the fallacy of the average.
You're probably excluding more people
than if you would just pick one side or the other.
Right.
But I guess that's why it's good
if schools have programs for children
who are a little bit above average
and children who need a little extra help.
Yes.
So there's other time.
Yeah.
For both of those groups.
Yeah, and then you get into, there's only so many.
Resources, I know.
Yeah, it does like, when you really think about it
and you're generous, like we're also critical of school.
Like either the test bad or this or that.
It's not an easy job to execute.
No.
You have 30 kids and they're all different levels.
Yeah, it's really hard.
Yeah.
But when AI, AI teachers.
That is one of the things,
is one of the few things I argued with Bill about.
Which was a weird argument.
You couldn't, yeah, you couldn't see my point.
I really could not.
I'm coming from such a specific dyslexic place.
I know, which to me means I would have thought
you would be extra on, but I'll tell people.
When we were in India with Bill Gates,
we sat in on some meetings.
I'm not really supposed to talk too much about the details,
but there was like a presentation of an app
that would help students because in India
there are so many languages.
Yeah.
And so.
That's what it was.
It was the technique that was explained.
I was like, well, that wouldn't work for a dyslexic.
Sure.
So I think that's what I got hung up on.
But probably there's versions that they would develop
that would work for a dyslexic.
But just what it scared me about
was like normalizing some learning strategy.
Cause like the AI is gonna go with the probabilistic route.
Well, 98% of kids would learn good if you did it this way.
And then it's not gonna do an unprobabilistic result.
Although you could type in, I suppose,
how did dyslexics best work and then use the probabilistic thing. Although you could type in, I suppose, how to do this Lexix best one
and then use the probabilistic thing.
Yeah, I mean, I think it's actually,
I think it's fairly easy.
It's probably when you first start the app,
you take a test.
Well, that would be good.
And it shows, so it learns how you learn.
This kid's fucked up in this quadrant.
In this domain.
And so then you put your homework into these things and it helps you learn in that way.
Did I tell you about the, like I had some testing
when I was a kid, but it wasn't terribly comprehensive,
but then I did it at UCLA to get extra,
well actually so that I didn't have to spell
correctly on tests.
Oh yeah.
That was a long, that was like eight weeks of testing,
I had to go once a week, and you do so many cognitive tests,
and what they're looking for and what was so apparent on mine
is you have all these columns.
And what they're looking for is like some baseline
and then a complete trough.
Yeah.
And I had that.
Yeah, you had it in spelling.
Yeah, and I'm gonna brag.
I even set a couple of records.
In the drop?
Yeah, like my pattern recognition column
was the best they had ever tested.
Really?
And then I had a column that was among
the lowest they ever tested.
Whoa, that's interesting.
The dyslexic part.
Yeah, it's very addicty of you.
It is, it's very in keeping with my overall personality.
Real high highs and low lows.
It's comforting though.
Yeah, I'm sure.
For me.
Yeah, that would be comforting for me too.
But also, if your pattern recognition is so good,
why'd you stop playing connections?
Maybe because my pattern?
No.
I mean, I wasn't that great at it.
You were good, you were really good,
but you weren't perfect.
I wasn't perfect.
I think you should maybe get back into it
because you and Callie dropped off at the same time
and now it's over.
And I hate, I like.
I'm sorry.
I'm mad about it.
I did play it a couple times recently
because now the girls will ask me to open it up.
Oh my God, I took a picture of it.
Does this happen to you all the time?
I got Wirtle, I don't play Wirtle,
but I got it on the second, Gaz.
I always screen grab it if I get it on the second.
I screen grabbed it.
The girls were, they thought their dad
was like a god from Mount Olympus.
That is luck.
It's funny, it is and it isn't.
Like for anyone who plays wordle or doesn't,
you start and you can write a word
that has five letters in it.
And then it'll tell you which one is A,
the right letter and in the right place.
And then it's got another color that says
that letter is in this, but it's in the wrong place.
And so when you first see that you go, this is impossible.
But then really it's crazy how patternistic writing is.
It's like, if there's an A as the third letter,
it really limits it pretty quickly.
Or there was an I, and I was like,
I's are hard to put in that fourth.
You generally can have an A before that.
And then you start, you know, like-
I mainly chalk it up to luck if it's a two.
If it's a three, I start adding in skill.
I start giving myself a little credit for skill.
Okay.
And then from then on, it is definitely like,
it's a, what letters could go here in the English language.
Anyways, the girls are asking me when we're bored.
In fact, we were waiting for our in and out order
and we knew there was like 30 numbers before ours.
And so they were like, let's play connections.
We played that and then it was, well, let's play Wirtle.
All prompted by them.
That's pretty fun with them.
Cause I like to hear them think out loud.
Okay, so today I didn't do that great.
I got it on four, which is not very good.
Yeah, that's pretty shitty.
Wow.
That's easy, I don't really know what's good about it.
Well, my first word was crane.
And I only had one letter that was yellow.
Oh, what letter?
E.
Okay, we can work with that.
So it's not gonna be at the end.
Yeah, that's what we know.
That's the only thing we know.
It's gonna be in the second or third spot.
Uh-huh, correct.
Yeah, and you got rid of some good consonants.
Sorry, not correct, but that is what I did.
Oh, what was the word?
Modem.
Oh, yeah, they fucked you.
Well, no, so I did crane, then I did smelt.
Wild, I mean.
And then I did moped.
Really close.
It was close.
I had three in the correct place
and one in the incorrect,
so then it was clear to me that it was modem.
Okay.
This is fun. Good job.
This is a fun fact.
Okay, let's do a couple facts.
Let's do some work.
Okay, this is for Michael Morris, tribal.
Loved it.
Very interesting, fascinating topic.
Okay, Dirty Dancing was filmed in multiple locations
in North Carolina and Virginia,
including Mountain Lake Lodge.
Which is on Lake Lure.
Mountain Lake Lodge, Lake Lure, Grove Park Inn.
I love Grove Park Inn.
Where's that, Georgia?
Asheville.
Oh, it's in Asheville?
Yeah, it's the fancy hotel there.
Oh. Yeah.
I always wanted to stay there.
More than the Biltmore.
You can't stay at the Biltmore.
Oh, they don't have a hotel at this point?
Grove Park Inn is like, that is the fancy,
the historic hotel. The historic.
Oh. And Esmeralda Inn. Re that is the fancy great hotel.
And Esmeralda Inn.
Replicating the cat skills.
You said Ann Arbor is tiny.
Ann Arbor is 28.7 square miles
and it's 119,875 population.
But what's the total enrollment at U of M?
Oh.
I bet it's in the 50 plus.
That's a big ass school.
Okay, 51,000.
So we gotta lob that off, right?
Well, why?
They live there.
I think of a town with 60,000 people who own homes
and permanent residents.
A small.
Yeah, it's kind of a small.
Considering how many people know the town Ann Arbor.
Sure.
Versus, it's not our state capital.
Most towns of 60,000 people don't know the names.
Yeah, but I think we know the name because of the college.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Okay.
Yams versus sweet potatoes, they are different.
Wow, I'm glad I got my mouth shut
because when he said that I thought,
no, they're the same thing but I'm not gonna say anything.
Sweet potatoes are in the morning glory family
while yams belong to the lily family.
Oh wow, so there's a lot of people
who have morning glory allergies.
Oh. Tomatoes being
among the eggplant. Oh I thought that was nightshade.
Oh you're right, nightshades.
I don't know if anyone's allergic to that.
I don't know about morning glories.
Okay yams aren't as sweet as sweet potatoes
and they are starchier and drier.
Their texture and flavor are more similar
to potatoes or yucca.
Oh, okay.
Yams have a rough woody texture
while sweet potatoes have a smoother,
creamier texture.
I like a sweet potato.
Yams have an earthy, neutral taste
while sweet potatoes have a sweet, spicy flavor.
Oh, this is, yams must be cooked before eating
because they are toxic when eaten raw.
Oh, good tip.
Very good tip.
They're probably an edible raw though. They're probably inedible raw though.
They're probably super hard like a potato.
Like you would never eat a potato raw.
Oh my God, do you think that's what caused my incident?
Do you think maybe I ate some raw yam?
Speaking of which, I just recently found out,
I just stumbled upon two different articles independently
talking about how dangerous rice,
keeping rice is for a long time.
Oh, really?
I guess it's really susceptible to a certain mold.
You know, I eat fucking rice that's three weeks old.
I got a new one I'm really on.
It's gonna sound gross to people,
but I urge them to try it.
It's elk, egg whites, and a ton of feta cheese.
Doesn't that sound horrible?
It really sounds bad.
It doesn't sound like gamey, gamey, gamey.
Oh my God, it sounds so disgusting.
You know when I'm saying it,
like Kristen's like, what are you eating?
And I'm like, it's elk, egg whites, and feta.
And as I was saying, I was like,
that sounds like the worst dish possible.
And oh my God, is it good.
And I take a gluten-free tortilla,
I took some chicken wire
and I made a little tube
out of the chicken wire, I put it in the air fryer,
and I make a taco shell out of the tortilla
that is gluten-free and high in fiber,
and I cram it full of egg whites, elk, and feta.
And girl.
You love it.
Oh, is it tasty?
I was like, I could open up a restaurant and serve these.
Of course, I'd have to lie about what's in it,
because no one would see that list and think it was good.
No, they wouldn't.
But if you're daring and you're in the audience
and you figured out our listening schedule,
I really urge you to try it.
Here's the thing to remember though, for real,
you can do everything just audio as it was.
Like that's still available.
The original thing is still there.
I do want to reiterate that.
Also, it's a mess and that's what we're saying,
is the messiness.
Messiness being human.
Yeah, the show's not a mess.
It's not a mess.
It's just there's added stuff and the added stuff is.
It's only a mess if you're trying to get
all the new bells and whistles.
Exactly, but you should.
Yeah.
But you should.
Absolutely.
Now, I have a apology to make to Arizona State.
Okay. I've been make to Arizona State.
I've been critical of Arizona State.
Yeah, and Rhode Island.
I'm not apologizing about that.
Okay, great.
I've been a little- It's a tough people.
I've been a little critical about Arizona State,
mainly because of their amusement park
that they have at the university, meaning-
The lazy river. the lazy river.
It's just fun to sort of make fun of it.
I don't actually have any problems with it.
Also, what could be cooler than a lazy river?
I know, I'm just jealous.
Yeah, I'm jealous too, I wish you'd see it.
If I could have gotten my lazy river
and taken it to another class across campus.
Can you imagine though, the germs?
All these college kids with STIs.
Bunch of STIs.
It's successful.
Yeah, the chlorine levels gotta be pretty high
in that thing.
Yeah.
So Michael brought up Robert Boyd.
He said he's a UCLA anthropology professor
and that he's really awesome,
that he would win a Nobel Prize
if there was that for anthropology.
But Robert Boyd is also affiliated with Arizona State.
Goes to Sun Devils.
I think currently he's there.
He was at Duke, Emory, ding, ding, ding.
Boston.
No, Emory's in Atlanta.
Oops, I'm thinking of.
Wow, you really don't know where colleges are.
This is interesting.
I'm thinking of Emerson.
Oh, okay.
And the University of California, Los Angeles.
Okay.
All right, so he's at ASU now and that's impressive.
That's impressive.
Yeah, take his class.
Yeah, if you're at Arizona State,
once you get off your little lazy river.
You're listening to this as you float down the lazy river?
Hop off that river, get an STI screening.
Yeah, get screened for those.
And then take his class, Robert Boyd.
Okay, one more fact.
Barristers wear wigs.
Oh yes, yes.
Okay.
I thought there was a lice thing about it.
I know, you thought there was lice.
I'm not finding that, but it started in the 1600s.
Before that, they just had to have neatly trimmed hair
and beards.
Then in the 1600s, originating in Europe,
wigs became a popular fashion item in the UK
during the reign of King Charles II,
especially among the upper class
and aristocracy of the time.
The wig was seen as a symbol of authority
and lawyers would wear their wigs in the courtroom
as well as outside of it to show their status and power.
Despite evidence suggesting some lawyers were hesitant
to wear the wigs, by the end of King Charles II's reign,
wigs were fully accepted by judges.
A century or so later, the popularity of the wig waned.
However, the tradition to wear wigs
within the legal profession remained
and became a formal requirement.
Wigs are still commonplace in the courtroom, almost thought of as a uniform to maintain the long tradition and formality of the legal system.
However, the wigs have undergone some changes.
Originally, the wigs worn in courtrooms were fully bottomed, which would typically extend down past the neck at the back and sides and sit over the shoulders.
Now the full bottomed wig is only used as ceremonial dress.
The wigs most often seen today are Bob style wigs
with much shorter sides all around
and featuring a tail at the back.
Oh man.
I mean of all the different ways
that we've tried to elevate ourselves,
I mean that is the aliens watching that.
There's a bunch of men wearing long flowing hair wigs.
And women, everyone has to wear them.
Well, there was no women in the court.
Well, now I'm saying that. Oh, now.
Also it says in 2007, a change in the rules
meant barristers no longer needed to wear a wig
during civil and family law courts.
Thank God.
There's some fucking heartbroken child
talking about the divorce of their parents and some abuse.
And we got a guy in a fucking powdered wig
with a ponytail, that's like insulting.
I'm so sorry, can you remove this fucking
Halloween wig you're wearing?
They're also no longer required in the UK Supreme Court.
However, wigs are still a requirement
for criminal trials in the UK.
And whilst the requirement of wigs-
Isn't it true, sir, that on the night of the,
I'm so sorry,
I will answer this question, but why are you in costume?
Whilst the requirement of wigs in the courtroom
seems to be in decline around the world,
many law practitioners in the UK
still take pride in wearing them.
Do you think like a big moment,
you know like getting your varsity jacket?
Yeah, leather.
Do you think like you pass the bar in England,
you go get fitted for your powdered wig?
Probably, probably.
And you know what?
Sure.
I'm not trying to shame you
if you have a hair system or a hair piece.
That's it.
Okay.
Well, I love Michael Morris.
Me too.
We learned a lot.
And I love you.
I love you.
And I love Robbie.
I love.
I love the arm cherries.
Robbie.
And I love you guys for sticking with this very complicated show. All right, I love you. All right, I love Robbie. I love the armchairs. Wobby, and I love you guys for sticking
with this very complicated show.
All right, I love you.
All right, I love you.
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