Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard - Patrick Radden Keefe (investigative journalist)

Episode Date: May 6, 2026

Patrick Radden Keefe (London Falling, Empire of Pain, Say Nothing) is an award-winning investigative journalist, bestselling author, and staff writer for The New Yorker. Patrick joins Armchair Expert to discuss growing up in a deeply intellectual household, developing a childhood obsession with writing for The New Yorker, and navigating a winding academic path through Columbia, Cambridge, and Yale Law. Patrick and Dax talk about the years-long reporting process behind London Falling, how a chance encounter led him to the story of Zac Brettler, and the challenges of investigating a mysterious death tied to hidden identities and extreme wealth in modern London. Patrick explains how proximity to oligarch culture and social media can warp ambition, why digression can be the soul of storytelling, and how to hold empathy for people navigating unknowable circumstances.Sign up now in the app or at grubhub.com/plus/golddays to unlock exclusive Gold Days deals.Check Allstate first for a quote that could save you hundreds: https://www.allstate.com/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome, welcome, welcome to armchair expert. Experts on Expert. I'm Dan Shepard. I'm joined by Lily Padman. Hi. Today we have an award-winning investigative journalist. He writes for The New Yorker on staff. Patrick Radin-Keefe is a writer for the New Yorker.

He's also written a couple of, well, several incredible books. Rogues, Empire of Pain, Say Nothing, The Snakehead. And he has a new book out now that we're talking about, London falling, a mysterious death in a gilded city and a family's search for truth. I fell in love with Patrick. He's fantastic. And he's such a good writer. I loved Empire of Pain. Yeah.

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So good to meet you. Yeah, great to meet you. Patrick. You're okay, good. I was going to say, you're whatever is that? No, I go back. It's funny.

So to this day, if I'm walking down the street and somebody says Pat Keefe, I know it's someone I went to high school with. Okay, sure, sure, sure. You're in Massachusetts. Dorchester? I'm from Dorchester. What's the vibe in Dorchester?

We certainly know what it is in Boston. Dorchester's its own kind of very specific place. It's the biggest neighborhood in the city of Boston. Oh, it's in Boston proper. Okay. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I was a city kid. I grew up a block from the end of the red line, basically.

Dorchester is very ethnically diverse, very socioeconomically diverse. It's just a weird place. It's a weird, wonderful place. I loved growing up there. At times, it has had a kind of a bit of a reputation in Boston. What's the bad rap against? Violent crime. Oh, great.

I love that. Yeah, that kind of thing is I grew up in a great big Victorian house. They could afford that house in Dorchester. Yeah. Do you remember what the price of that house was? It was less than $40,000. Isn't that mind-blowing? Yeah. Our neighbor's just a thousand feet behind us is our first house. And next to us, I can see the tax record, and their house was $48,000. So they're paying tax on a $48,000 house. That's probably worth $4 million. It's so wonderful. Incredible. What did your mom and dad do?

My dad sort of had two careers. He got into urban planning, and so he was in Lowell, Massachusetts, which is where I was born. I know this, and he worked for Dukakis. Yeah, exactly. Okay, okay. And so he was like director of city planning for law, then director of city planning for Boston, then director of state planning for Massachusetts. Then he ended up kind of working for Mike Dukakis.

And then Dukakis lost in 88, and my dad went into the private sector and did real estate stuff. Was he a part of any of the planning of the big dig? He was. He was. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Which was the biggest thing to hit Boston ever, right? The big dig.

Well, it was funny because at the time, so I, in what was probably a nepotistic arrangement, I spent two summers in college. working for the big dig when it was still in process. And everybody hated. It was like the biggest construction project imaginable. And everyone was irate about it. It was a nightmare.

People hated it. There was an elevated highway that ran through the city of Boston and really divided the city in two. It was a eyesore. If you see old movies, you see it. And we used to drive on it when I would go back to Dorchester when I was a kid from the city. They basically took it down and built a tunnel underneath it. And it was massively expensive and all these kind of cost overruns and it took forever.

And everybody was incredibly angry. about it. And the funny thing is, the closer you were to the alignment of it, so I worked in the community relations. Oh, wonderful. Go to the North End and there'd be these irate old Italian grandmas who had an apartment that like abutted this construction site. And we would have to pay for soundproof windows and all that kind of stuff. But the funny thing is, of course, the day they cut the ribbon, they were the ones who benefited the moat. Like suddenly you're looking out on this. It's a green way. Yeah. Yeah, that's hilarious that they were the most opposed. It was really something. Exactly. Maybe it was always planned and charted this way, but from my perspective,

you have a very circuitous route to the New Yorker. You go to Columbia first? Yeah. And you do history. Yeah. Okay. A specific history? Modern European, I ended up writing a lot about World War I and World War II. More World War II is more fun, yeah. Than World War I? Yeah. Nothing's more fun than World War I. Okay. I love that. Come on. Come on. Hot take. A trench war for the same. Yeah. I loved it. I loved it. I love that. it. We missed mom. Mom was a philosophy professor? Yeah, philosophy professor at the University of Massachusetts in Boston, which is actually in Dorchester, the neighborhood I grew up in, but with a kind of focus on, be interesting to you guys, focus on the philosophy of psychiatry. So looking at various psychiatric ailments and the way they map on to philosophical

conceptions of the self. So multiple personality disorder and depression and more recently she's been writing about anorexia. I mean, all kinds of different things. She's still active. So she's retired from teaching, but she still writes and she has these kind of great, because my dad has her, tired too. And my mom will get these visiting gigs where some university in York or in Perth in Australia they went to her barry in Italy where they'll basically say come for six weeks. And my dad goes to a great life. Yeah. Conversation at dinner must be very stimulating. You got a couple of very bright parents. Do you have siblings? I do. I have a little brother who lives in Dorchester and is a farmer. He's an urban farmer. Oh, wow. And in my neighborhood that I grew up in. And my sister lives in Zurich.

and as a writer and an art historian. I just feel like if I could pick something I'd want my mom to be an expert in, it'd be philosophy because it's just kind of an endless maze you can follow. I think so. I mean, everybody read, everybody talked. If we want to see a movie, we would argue about it afterwards. It was that kind of house.

It wasn't a thing where everybody had to do a book report. There wasn't any kind of performative, like, smarty pants stuff. It was more just kind of... Thinkers. No, your parents interested in the world. Totally. The thing that I take from her that is, you know, maybe a quality of a philosophy professor

is that she's just the most skeptical person. Any idea, any argument, she always wants to kind of look at it and turn it around. Contrarying a little bit? Absolutely contrarian. I mean, and to this day, my parents, I won't mention the movies, but it's just hilarious. There will often be some best picture winning movie that my parents will walk out of after 20 minutes

and say, like, this was the most terrible movie, you know, as though everybody felt this way, you know, and in fact... She'll just call bullshit on things. Yeah, completely. Okay, so Columbia History, and then you, you go to Cambridge? Yep. And now it gets confusing for me.

So at Cambridge, you do... International Relations. And then you also go to London School of Economics. And when you study there? This kind of bullshit degree. It was a time when the London School of Economics was doing, from a business perspective, a really smart thing, which is that they realized that there were all these foreigners who would come and pay higher tuition fees for master's degrees than the English students.

And so they would invent these new degrees, not by creating new classes or bringing new professors, but just by taking requirements from other things. kind of putting them together into a bespoke thing that looked like you. Yeah. When I was at Cambridge, I desperately wanted to leave. Cambridge is a very bucolic. It's very pretty. I found it stifling.

I had never lived in a place that small. And I wanted to get into London. I was going into London every weekend, and I just felt like, get me out of here. I want to be in London. So I was on a two-year fellowship. I wasn't paying for it. It was all paid for. So I thought, okay, I'll go to the LSC.

And I was interested in electronic spying by the National Security Agency. This is your NSA book. Yeah, exactly. And this kind of interested started. And so I was looking in the LSC catalog and they had some, again, in retrospect, just ridiculous thing where it was like new media and information and spying and electronic stuff. And I was like, it's me. Really quick, did Michael Lewis go there to the London School? Is that where he was at when he had that fateful?

I don't remember. He might have. No, because he went to Princeton and then he was a banker. He was a young banker in London. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I thought he started as a master's degree there or something that then he could be. Could be. Went with a cousin to a dinner and then.

Oh, no, maybe you're right. Yeah, got. That's right. There was some weird connection. Yeah, London School of Economics. Wow. There you go. Thank God I wasn't going crazy.

I just remember this felt very familiar. Yeah, I should be so lucky. Yeah. Have you hung with him? I have once. He's a charming motherfucker. He's totally great. So it's funny, I had done his podcast, but it was via Zoom and it wasn't a real hang.

And then I was in London. I had to fly to Dublin because I had done this TV series and we were up for the Irish Academy Awards. And so I was flying, it was short flight from London and Dublin. And I ended up seated next to Michael Lewis, whose kid, I think, went to Trinity or something where they were visiting Trinity. We talked the whole way. It was great. Yeah. What a fun surprise. Great seat made. No, it was great. It was great. Okay. So none of this is leading towards law, or was it always leading towards law? No, no. The thing you're missing here is my sort of secret and maybe not so secret desire, really from when I was in high school, but then especially when I was in college, was to write for

the New Yorker. Really? What I wanted to do. Oh, wow. I started reading New York in high school. I knew I wanted to be a writer. I kind of messed around with fiction. I turned out not to be very good at fiction. Who did you love as a writer at that time? It was like the mid-90s, and I was writing short fiction. So I was reading a lot of Raymond Carver, people like that.

I mean, amazingly great. But also at the time, everybody... It was the thing to be doing. Clet. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Maybe a little bit. I don't think so. Not anymore.

The thing is if you wait long enough, it's not cliche anymore. Yeah, I think if you ask 100 people, maybe three people have read Raymond Carver. But I think if you're into literature and you're a guy at that time, Yeah. But he's a master. It's total master. I guess what I mean is for me and for like 1998, Patrick, to say, I love Raymond Carver, would be a certain kind of guy talking about infinite jest today. Yeah, totally.

So I ended up really wanted to write for the New Yorker. I started pitching them in college. My parents have always been fantastically supportive of anything I wanted to do, but there was never any version of this where they were saying, why didn't you move to New York and we'll help pay for an apartment. It was very much, we love that you're doing this, but... You're on your own. Yeah.

If you want to be a writer, it's not a matter of... sitting around in a cafe and saying you're a writer, go out and be a writer. And that took a while. I loved being in school. I found it easy and stimulating and fun and way better than working. And so I just kind of stayed in school. Yeah, law comes. Yeah. I was in college. Went to grad school for two years in England, which was free. So who wouldn't go. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Met the woman who's now my wife there. We started dating. She was going to Yale law. I was sort of like, I've been pitching the New Yorker now for years. They won't take my pitches. I don't have a another plan.

You didn't have an agent, did you? No, not at that point. So you're just like sending them things with the S-A-S-E return? Yes, I mailed a million of those out. It's so nice to talk to a contemporary, yeah. So you did it too. Well, I was trying to get short stories published. So I was like submitting to all these journals that would have never had me.

You know, I was 20. Back in those days. I thought I was Raymond Garford. Yeah, we were probably competing with each other. They might have came across our same short, the same day. Like these guys again. And by the way, rarely did they return them in my experience. But occasionally they would.

You get the little note. You're just looking for any sentence. No. Oh, man. I'm so with you on this. First, it would be the little form thing, which is like, thank you. This does not meet our needs. Yeah.

And then occasionally, what I know now to be some, like, 22-year-old who is a month out of college, would write in tiny letters in the margins, like, please keep pitching or, you know. Something encouraging. Some tiny little thing. That's sweet. That's all you need. That was, like, a huge down payment for me on my future. They make a different.

Yeah, I'm so delighted we both had that stack. My first rejection letter for an article for the New Yorker, not a story, is framed in my home office. It's from 1998. Oh, yeah. Yeah, it's a good reminder. It is. I mean, what my wife says is, you were a junior in college. What the fuck were you think?

Did you think that they would? But you have to think that. What are you going to wait to your 26 to start thinking that? Exactly. Okay, but the law degree perplexes me. Why did we want that? Just to stay in school? Yeah, just to stay in school.

She was already going. She was going. You guys both went. We both went. But there's two things I would tell you, both of which are true, and one of which probably doesn't reflect particularly well on me. That's the one I like them. Okay.

So I'll give you the first one first. Which is that I wasn't totally confident that I was good enough or that I was going to make it or the stars are going to align for me. I wasn't completely confident that there was a life as a writer. And I wanted a backup. I knew I was a relatively smart guy who could kind of grind it out and work. And I was thinking about what would the alternative be if the dream version of your life doesn't happen, which, I mean, the reality is for most people, you don't get that.

Whatever they're doing is probably not the thing that when they were 17, 18, 19 years old, and they closed their eyes that they dreamed that they were going to do. And so it wasn't that I had a shortage of self-confidence, I was a confident guy, but I also knew that just statistically... Yeah, you were a realistic. I should think about having a backup plan. The other thing that's kind of more interesting and reflects, but maybe poorly on me, is that I did really well in college.

I didn't get into college when I applied the first time. I didn't get into Columbia, which is where I really wanted to go, and I took a year off, and I worked. and when I got to Columbia, I had gotten some of my sort of teenage, now I'm not in high school anymore, energy out, and I also had a big chip on my shoulder

because I knew that they had turned me down the first time. So I got to college, and I worked really hard, and I did really well. And there's a thing that happens to that kind of kid, which is that you start getting sort of channeled into certain activities where you're always chasing the next brass ring just because it's in front of you. And worse than that, you know, there's this idea, Irvin Gauphin had triangulated desire, which is there's nothing

about that candle that's particularly appealing to me, but I feel really competitive with you and you want that candle. And now that candle is looking great to me. In fact, I need that candle. There's a lot of that kind of thing. And so I worked really hard in college and did really well and got a fellowship to go to kind of prestigious, competitive fellowship to go to the UK and did that. And then there were a whole bunch of people where it's like, well, what's the next smaller hoop that you have to jump through? And everybody's applying a law school. And what's the best of the law schools than hardest to get into. It's Yale law school. And so I just kind of did that in a robotic way. And then I showed up in law school and thought, what have I done? You know,

why am I here? I would argue you're regulating your self-esteem with some accomplishment in place of not getting the thing you want to be doing. You're just kind of booing yourself on this other thing. Yeah. One of the things that I think is actually great about doing the work that I do, not just writing, but actually reporting, because that's most of my job, is that I think if you're good at it, gives you a kind of daily dose of humility because no matter how successful you've been or how old you are, how long you've been doing it, most of your job is getting rejected. So most of the day, I'm calling people who don't call me back or hang up on me or don't want to talk. It was good for me to learn really early on that in some ways, if you want to succeed in this line of work, you need to

learn how to metabolize rejection. You need to learn how to kind of just take it in and keep moving. My wife's a big tennis player, and she talks about the idea of the best players. They lose a point. they immediately just erase from their memory at that point that they lost and they're kind of always pressing into the future. So I had all of that, but even so, you're absolutely right. At a certain point, you're like, I've been pitching the New Yorker for six years.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, you passed the bar in 05, right? It did. But you do, you finally get published in the New Yorker in 06? Yeah. It's more dramatic than that. Oh, great.

So, in fact, I passed the bar and I had an offer from a law firm to go and work at this law firm on Wall Street. It gets worse. I was out of money, and they would give incoming associates no interest loans. And so I borrowed $10,000 from them. And meanwhile, I'm pitching, the New Yorker, I'm pitching and pitching.

I was supposed to go and work at the law firm, and I kept pushing back the start date. And then in October 2005, they accepted my first pitch. It took me a while to pay back the $10,000, but I did pay it back. To jump ahead in the story, you know, I ended up getting that assignment at the New Yorker, but they didn't put me on staff. And so between 2010 and 2011, I went to the Pentagon. It's about a year at the Office of the Secretary of Defense on a kind of a fellowship thing.

and there I was pure anthropologist. Yeah. I bet. I knew this is not my career. It's not what I want to do. I was just looking around. Yeah. And what was the vibe?

It's funny because I'm trying to remember if VEP had come out yet at that point. It may not have. I don't think so. Maybe not. That's 16 years ago. So no. Yeah, but it was soon after. After that.

2012. Okay, so it was right after. Yeah. I got to the Pentagon, expecting it to look roughly like seven days in May. and I got in there, and it was the office. I was so shocked by the level of pettiness. I don't even mean it in a demeaning way,

but it's people with jobs, and they're trying to make their mortgage work out, and they're thinking about their kids. Because the Pentagon is so sort of overstuffed with people, and there's all this money sloshing around, but then you have all these people who are basically doing redundant stuff. Everybody's kind of got their little rice bowl,

and they're protecting it. I sort of thought that the whole thing would be this big august. Yeah, impressive. Yeah. And in fact, it was just more middle managers than you've ever seen in your life. Do you know Mike Judges, Beavis and Butthead, office space, all of it? Yeah. He was a physicist before he was a cartoonist.

Oh, I didn't know that. Yes. And his take on everything, which is what office space came out of is he's like, it doesn't really matter what echelon you enter. In that workplace, someone's birthday was forgotten. And that's all that's going on. It doesn't really matter if you're working. It's so true.

Yeah. It's like that humanity just seeps into anything, which is kind of. kind of awesome, too. I mean, it is. And it's funny because I made a lot of friends during that year. But as a citizen, it was not the most encouraging thing. Yeah, sure, sure, sure. Yes, that's a little terrifying.

Okay, so 2012, you become full-time at the New Yorker. I guess my question before we get to say anything is, so often we have these fantasies and these dreams, I had one. Even when we were talking to Mike, sure, he got into that secret society at Harvard, the lampoons. You know, it's very hard for these things to live up. to what our expectations are. And what was the experience, like getting the dream you had since 16 years old?

I mean, it's funny. It was sort of the opposite of the Pentagon. It turned out to be so much better than I had even a mat. Oh, wonderful. Those six years when I was freelancing were hard because I felt like I was doing really good work. I feel like I'm a pretty decent judge of my own work. I look back at my first book, Chatter, and I think that is not a very good book. You know, there's an opportunity to reissue it and do translation rights and all that stuff.

And I haven't just because it's fine. It's an artifact. a part of my life, but it's not something that feels of a piece with what I've done since. So I feel as I can tell in retrospect when the work is good or the work is not good. The New Yorker at the time, I thought it was good. In retrospect, I think it is good. Yeah. I think you can stand those pieces up during those years against any of the pieces they published. But for one reason or another, they felt like I was not seasoned enough.

By the time they put me on stuff, I had two kids. I was a grown-up. Yeah. Was your wife? She's a smarty pants. Was she having a career? She was doing all kinds of different things. We moved to D.C.

The reason I did that Pentagon thing was we had moved to D.C. in 2009 because she went and got a job of the Treasury Department. She's like a proper lawyer. Yeah, yeah. She does financial crime. Yeah. I mean, she doesn't do the financial crime. Right. She doesn't commit financial crime.

She should think about it. She probably knows. Exactly. I mean, honestly. She would have the expertise for sure if any international criminal organizations are hiring. Not to bore you, but we did interview this guy or this incredible book and it was an expose on Fort Bragg. Oh, yeah. Oh, great.

So the Delta Force running drugs. Well, one of the most prolific and successful was, was the guy in South Carolina who had been the state trooper who had busted the most amount of people on 95. And then he rode a drunk driving ticket to a guy and he got fired over it. And then he became this fucking super successful drug smuggler. You got to know the rules to know how to break them. So tasty. Yeah.

She always had gainful employ. I wanted a full-time job. And for me, it's the best job in the world. Some of the people that are my colleagues and my friends now are people who years before I knew them, I would read their articles and take them apart. way you would try and figure out a magic trick and to get to know those people. And now my new book when it was in drafting, there's five or six of my colleagues. I sent it to. And they're the best. And they're incredible. And they read it and give you feedback. Not everybody has the same

fixations I do. But for somebody like me, this is just all I could ever ask. Okay. So in 18, you write say nothing, which is about a group of young folks joining the IRA. During the Troubles, I didn't even know this term the Troubles until I'm interviewing Amanda P. recently. She said, yes, we lived in England during the troubles. I listened to that interview. Okay, so it won the National Book Critic Circle Award.

It was made into an FX show. The thing I'm most jealous of, it won a Peabody. We want one bad. I want the Peabody so bad. You know, I'm in the Peabody fold now, so I'll speak to someone. That's the way it works. Just like, one of the mixers just going like,

you know what? I'm shot. Guys, your tickers off here. What's going on? I mean, well, I just sent you something. Did you get it on Instagram? I don't know if they just got announced or something or maybe it was misinformation,

but it was like the new Peabody people and like him all. Is it part of it? Is nominated, I guess. Is it nominated or is won? I don't know. I don't know what just happened. Something happened.

The nominations definitely come before you win. Okay, so I think that am heated rivalry. Yeah, I'm not even sure how one wins one. I think that's why I want one so bad. I don't really understand what the criteria is. I don't either, honestly. We had a great night. Is it a nice statement?

Yeah, you get this little kind of bronze-looking guy. Is it directly under the rejection article? They can see each other. Okay, now this is where I become aware of you. In 2020, I presume during COVID, you do Winds of Change. It was an eight-part podcast. Did you know about it? Yeah, really good.

Yeah, and it starts exploring this rumor that the CIA had actually written the song, The Winds of Chains by the Scorpions. How on earth do you get on to that as a story to tell? I have this friend Michael who ended up being kind of my opposite number in the podcast. He's unlike anyone I've ever known. He's one of my closest friends. He just seems to sort of spin a little bit faster than everyone else. He's got a million ideas.

He knows everyone. He's had a whole bunch of different careers. He would tell you, and he's not completely wrong, that a bunch of my best ideas are ideas that he's given it. He started a kind of a private intelligence company and then sold that. And he worked for Madeline Albright for many years. and he knows a lot of spooky people and he had this kind of weird thing where he became sort of a totally informal thing

where you would have these spies who had had cover identities and fake jobs. It's a real dilemma. Like if you work at an oil company for years, but in fact you work for the CIA with the understanding of the CEO of the oil company that you have this kind of cover job. And then you need to leave the CIA

and you want to get another job, but you're not able to tell people you can't put on your resume. Oh, actually, I didn't work in an oil company. I mean, I sort of. Sort of it did, but secretly I was running for the CIA. Somebody like Michael who can kind of see both sides becomes helpful in helping you find a situation after the fact. To suit your skills.

Yes. Okay, right. And so he basically called me years and years ago and said, you know that song, Wind of Change. For those who don't know, it's a power ballad by the West German hair metal band, the Scorpions, came out just after the Berlin Wall fell and became kind of the soundtrack to the collapse of the Soviet Union. You think you don't know it, but you would recognize it as... Everyone knows it. Michael called me and he said, I just talked to this guy

from the agency who said that that song wasn't written by the Scorpions, this slightly ridiculous German metal band. It was secretly written by the CIA. So crazy. Yeah. And I spent years and years and years trying to get to the bottom of it with Michael.

Really quick. On prima facie, did you think that was possible at all? Well, when he first told me, I said, no, this is completely bananas. I don't doubt that the CIA would want to do that, But what I doubt is that anyone there could write a huge hit song. That seems impossible.

Well, yes. When you sort of squint your eyes and you think about like the Hollywood version, the fantasy version, you want there to be some frustrated musician who, you know, actually always wanted to be in a metal band. But like me, they were worried about being the rent. Yeah, exactly. And so they end up going and working at the agency. I don't think it was that.

I mean, often what happens is it's a little like the Argo situation where what they do is they find people who are outside who really do have skills and then they enlist them. I will say when he first. told me, I said, no way, that's crazy. And then I started looking into it. And when you look at the history of the CIA, they were doing all kinds of stuff in culture. The really crazy thing is that actually because the CIA in the 50, 60s 70s was all these guys who went to Yale and were named Prescott, what they were doing was promoting abstract expressionism and jazz. I mean, it was sort of pretty high-minded stuff. Some of them had done acid, certainly. There you go. I also would imagine,

too, it's an incredible hub for you to tell all kinds of crazy other CIA stories. This is very often the case for me. I'm always thinking about sort of digression and I think indulgent digression is bad, but I love to come right up to the line. Where you start going, what's this book about? And then you're back. Yeah. And I will say there's always some people who feel like my stuff is too digressive. They're like, oh, could I just get the executive summary here? All the stuff that you're kind of hanging on the line. That's the fun of it. Okay, so that's great. And people should listen to that. Winds of Change. It's wonderful. And then, of course, Empire of Pain, 21. And that brings us to London falling, which I love. Again, I love the digression. For me, the story of

Zach is great and it's intriguing and I must get the answers. But when I'm learning about London, when I'm learning about the Thames, what I'm learning about the influx of all, the money that's happened, this is the meat for me. So I know it starts as a New Yorker article. And how does it come across your desk? Why do you get interested in it? It's one of these funny things where when I go looking for ideas, I almost never find them. But I do try to be out in the world and talk to people and stay curious. I have a pretty firm conviction more so now than ever that you're not going to find the good stories on the internet. So in this case, I was living in London. After Say Nothing came out, we turned it into this limited series. And I was a producer on the series. I was very involved.

And it was a nine-month shoot. And for much of that, I was kind of flying back and forth between New York where I live and primarily the UK where we were shooting. But during the summer, when my kids got out of school, my wife and I just moved to London, the production goes to an apartment. And so we were living in London that summer. And I was on set one day, and I met a guy. It was a fascinating conversation. This guy, Andrew, who's visiting the set for the day, who's a guest of the director. I could have just played Wordle on my phone, but I do have this tendency to want to see what's going on with this guy. Yeah. My poor children, anytime we get in the back of an Uber, I have to know the whole life story of the Uber driver. Our children would have a lot to bond over. Their shared humiliation. So I

We started chatting with this guy. He's Jewish. He started talking about how the Jewish community in London is different from the Jewish community in New York. This was kind of a funny moment because I'm not Jewish, but I grew up in Boston. I went to prep school in Massachusetts. I went to Columbia. I've lived in New York on and off since the 90s. There was just a part of me that was sort of like, my dude, I've been to more bar mitzvism than you have. You know, they patronize me. And so I sort of name dropped and I said, oh, well, you know, there's this woman in London who's a rabbi who's an old friend of my family. Her name is Julianneuerger. And that was the moment that the whole conversation took a different direction because he knows Julianneutberger.

And Julianneuerberger was the rabbi to Zach Brettler, this kid. He suddenly made this connection and he said, I think I might have a story for you. Oh, he was that up front. Absolutely. He knew at that point that I wrote for The New Yorker and he said, I might have a story for you. And I should say, like most of the time when people say to me, I might have a story for you. Yikes. It's like someone saying they got a movie idea.

And it's hard because it's just like you have a story. It's just not for me. You have to kind of listen to them and hear them out. His whole pitch was he said, there's a family here in London, I'm very close with them. They had a terrible tragedy in 2019. This is 2023 when we're having this conversation.

They had a 19-year-old son, Zach. He died in mysterious circumstances. He went off the balcony of this luxury building overlooking the Thames River. And after he died, his parents were trying to figure out what had happened and they made this discovery, which is that unbeknownst to them,

he had been leading a secret life. and as a teenager he'd been moving around London pretending that he was the billionaire son of a Russian oligarch. And he basically had said that much and I knew I'm in. Yeah, I need to know a lot more. It's probably the next thought. Whoa. Stay tuned for more armchair expert, if you dare. We are supported by Allstate.

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And her father was a rabbi, right? Yeah, her father, Hugo Graham. And they have two boys. They have Joe and Zach. They're a couple years apart. Exactly. And initially, it's pretty honky-dory till 13, right? They're mildly competitive.

I think one of the pivotal things just is that at first, of course, the older brother is much better at tennis, but Zach really focuses on tennis and he ultimately beats his brother and then his brother just stops playing tennis. So they had a little bit of competitiveness naturally. And then Joe starts attending. What's the name of the school? University of College School, UCS. And Matthew's also in finance. So they're doing well.

They're upper middle class. And he gets into the school. And then when it comes time for Zach to apply for the school, he does not get in. And then he tries again to get in and does not get in. And to me, this is where, who knows where this life story is without this moment. The guerrillas, we just had a guerrilla expert on. It's so priming. It's like the exact same story.

I brought this up. How so? There's a group in Rwanda and there's a male that's about to make a run at the silverback, the alpha. And in doing so, he's exerting his strength. So he starts bullying this younger one. Pretty bad, opens up his head. You know, it's gruesome. And then he does overthrow the dominant male.

He becomes that. And then the bullied one kind of gets excommunicated. And he just kind of wanders the periphery for a while. And then a new female comes and he sees that she's been accepted. And he's got no place. And then he murders the baby. And then we learn from her senses doc. This one has killed now for infants.

He got deranged from the rejection and the emasculation in a sense. Humans are so similar in so many ways. How it can warp you. I think that's right. I mean, it's interesting, this is a whole other tangent. It's an interesting thing that I've noticed where there are people who I was just listening to some conversation about this on a podcast. But there are certain people over the last 10 or 15 years whose politics have changed really radically. And you can often trace the change back to some kind of in-group, out-group rejection where they get canceled or they get marginalized in some way or the group that they thought they were a part of kind of cast them out and that it completely reorients them. You know, the sovereign citizens. They've killed police officers. They won't carry a government ID. They sue municipalities.

They're a pretty big group of people. And what they discovered was that without exception, all of the members at some point had really stable trades jobs or manufacturing jobs. And those went away in their town. So, yeah, they've been rejected by a system. So the system must be broken or flawed if it would reject me. And that makes sense. I'm empathetic to it.

I think that's right. I mean, I think with Zach, there was something slightly different going on. It would be familiar to anyone with... Do you have siblings? Yes, older brother. Do you? Little brother, yeah. Okay. So I think there's this thing, and the tennis story kind of speaks to it. I had this with my siblings. I see it with my own kids, where there's a kind of sense that in a sort of almost unspoken way, often siblings will kind of pick a lane.

If one of them occupies the lane and there's a thing that they're better at or they're going to excel at, it's sort of natural at a certain point for the other one to feel like, okay, well, your lane claim to that. I'm going to have to find another way. There's going to be another version of life for me. Yeah, I don't think that's the pivotal thing. I just think it's a moment of embarrassment for Zach in failure. Yeah. And he is a bright kid, but maybe not academically.

He ends up going to, is it the mill? Mill Hill. Explain Mill Hill as a school. So Mill Hill, in some respect, it looks like university college school in the sense that it's a fancy private school. It's expensive. It's a beautiful campus. It's on the outskirts of London. But it's not as hard to get into.

And, you know, the way it was explained to me is in the environment that Zach Bratler grew up in, which is a kind of highly educated bourgeois, fairly sort of elite London milieu. If you say I go to Mill Hill or if you say my kid goes to Mill Hill, everybody knows without anybody having to say anything. Oh, so he clearly got rejected from this school and this school and the school and that's how you end up at Mill Hill. But you also still have money, so he's at Mill Hill. Absolutely. And I think part of what's so intriguing about this story is that Zach, this kid who ends up pretending that he's the son of a Russian oligarch

and basically entering into the underworld in London probably could have done anything. Like he had parents who loved him. He did have a competitive relationship with his brother, but ultimately, like Joe was a good big brother who also loved him. They stayed close. He was part of a kind of larger family network and friends and all the rest of it.

And he had, I think, an incredible series of natural gifts that maybe didn't express themselves in being able to get into a certain school at age 13, but he could have gone a long way with them. He ends up at Mill Hill, and he's surrounded by these children of oligarchs. And so Mill Hill, like a lot of schools in London, I should say, realized at a certain point that there was a kind of a demographic, which was the offspring of super wealthy foreigners who had kind of made a second home in London.

And so Zach, at 13, finds himself surrounded by these kids. He's pretty impressed. And this is a great moment for the history of London post-Margaret Thatcher. deregulating the banks. So talk about the waves in London, because this is kind of now a part of what London is. I mean, it's funny because I tried in the book, because of that thing we're talking about with digression,

all this stuff is in the book, but I should say for people who haven't read it, it's done with a pretty light touch. There's no point in the book where I give you 30 pages of history. No, there's three pages. Yeah, exactly. However, the way I thought of it

is almost in a movie, the way you occasionally will get the kind of sped up, seeing the Brooklyn Bridge get built. The montage. So there's this, to me, really fascinating thing, which is that if you were to go to London in 1950, say, It looks basically like it did a century before. It's a big industrial city.

There's factories lining the Thames, kind of smoke and coal and laborers working, making things. It's a manufacturing town. It's also a huge port city because the Thames was one of the most important ports in the world. And the first thing that really changes, interestingly, it happens in North Carolina. There's a trucking executive in North Carolina

who in the mid-1950s invents the modern, stockable shipping container, of a sort that we've all seen. Some people might be in a home made of shipping containers. Right now. Is that one? There you go. Yeah.

So he invents these, and it completely revolutionizes global trade because previously a city like London would have had these huge warehouses for the storage of goods that are going on to ships and coming off of ships. And if you go to London today, those beautiful buildings are still there, these big old warehouses. But with the new system, essentially, you can have a container on top of a train that arrives at the port, and it goes fluidly round to the ship, and the ship goes to another port, and it comes off, and it goes right under the back of a truck, and off it goes. You don't need those warehouses anymore.

Everything's standardized, and it means you can make bigger ships, which can hold more containers, and those ships are too big to navigate the Thames. So in the space of 20 years, this whole industry, basically everywhere kind of east of Tower Bridge, if you know, London, had been a shipping town, and suddenly it's not in 20 years. Every single dock closes. So it has 30-plus years of kind of stagnation. Yes. I'm talking about the movie, The Long Good Friday.

Incredible crime thriller with Bob Hoskins from 1980. Highly encouraged people to watch it. But that's filmed right at the point where the changes are starting to happen. So basically that's at the maximum blight point. They make this Bob Hoskins, a crime movie with a young Pierce Brosnan, I think in his first role as an assassin. And the other thing that happens is all the factories close. And so London has to kind of reinvent itself in the 80s,

and it decides we're going to be a money town. Yeah, it's hard to pinpoint what the catalyst to Zach's kind of crazy story is. But the thing that to me feels most relevant is, I don't want to call it income inequality simply because his family was of means. In the book, The Broken Ladder talks about like these fights that happen between first class and coach. And what's funny is it's not a story of the haves and the have-nots because the people in coach. The have and the have-moors. So this is like a very extreme case of this.

So he's entering with a little bit of shame of having not got into that. And now he's seen absolutely fabulous wealth. Yeah. Kids with private planes and cars and all the stuff. And then simultaneously he's starting to consume media. Yeah, I think some people will read this book and they'll want to point a finger at War Dogs and the Wolf of Wall Street, probably because of my industry. I'm not as inclined to go down on that road. I think all adolescents find these movies.

But at any rate, I think that's really a profound experience to feel dead broke among all these people. Totally. And actually not that unique. This book started as an article in The New Yorker and after it came out. I heard from all these people, but also Zach's parents heard from all these people who were parents who said, obviously, our kids' situation is different. but I am experiencing this with my own children in New York or L.A. or Miami or Dublin or, you know, wherever it is that they live, where there's not just a kind of concentration of extreme wealth, but also, I think particularly by English standards. Like when Matthew and Michelle were growing up, there was a sense that there was nothing more unclassy than being super blinged out and showing your wealth.

Yeah, it was a new money thing. It was a bad look. Completely. Now it's all new money. And there's no shame about it. and, in fact, kind of pride in it. And I hear you on the movies that Zach watched. Interestingly, for me, there's a version of the story we say, oh, look, you kind of blame the Hollywood movies because Zach was obsessed with Wolf of Wall Street and Wardogs watched them again and again and didn't watch them as like cautionary tales. He really thought, this is what I want to be.

In particular, he wanted to be Jonah Hill, who was like the groatious of the pair. And he had a kind of a sense of you do anything that you can to just get yours. I understand Zach's state of mind, which is like, this. This is bullshit. They have it, and I don't, why wouldn't I have it? Like, he's looking at people who aren't more deserving of it. And he's going, well, fuck, if I'm not going to get given it, I'm going to take it. Kiz is an extreme case, but I think that is just in the water now.

I think that is a part of our culture. I mean, it's interesting because we're roughly the same age. I was having a conversation with a guy I went to high school the other day, and we're talking about how in the 90s, there was a notion that you didn't want to sell out. The punk rock. Ethan Hawk and Reality Bites. And occasionally people like that could be obnoxious, but there was a sense of like if it's corporate, it's bad.

You want to preserve your integrity, even if it means living in poverty, like at least I've got my pride. And that is totally alien to young people today. There is no concept of that. They have no romantic notion of that. At all. No. No, it's the opposite.

It's like, who can I... Get on the private jet? Sell myself too. Yeah. In fairness to people, I have teenage kids. I think it's hard for them to imagine what the future is going to look like 10 years from now or five years from now. Economically, in terms of higher education, what does that look like?

In terms of employment, AI, climate change, I mean, you name it. There's any number of ways in which it's kind of anybody's guess what your life is going to look like. This is I got a very house of cards feel right now. It does. But I think that as a consequence, it means that some people have this sort of slightly all or nothing at the house. There is no long term, so let's go short term.

Totally. And I think Zach had that. He's also a teenage boy. And he doesn't have a girlfriend. That's the conspicuous thing about this book is like, what's going on with him, Is it like kind of Manosphere style? A little bit. I mean, I think some of it with Zach was that he was a really extraordinary kid from a very early age.

He was almost like a stand-up comic. He had a kind of zingy way of talking. He was extremely uninhibited and comfortable talking with adults, comfortable talking with anybody. He would sort of make jokes. He would tell stories. But from a really early age, he was also embroidering the truth. I think of it again as like a stand-up where you have your lived experience, but then you're always re-scrambling it and telling the story and trying to figure out the math of it. And you're trying to figure out on people and seeing what.

what works. And in incredible information retention. Unbelievable memory, which his dad has as well. Very helpful for me in working on the book. That his dad has this incredible memory. Zach had that too. He's charming. Very charming. But I think to the point about girlfriends, he had this thing, which is that he could make friends really quickly because he was entertaining and he could sort of find points of commonality with people. But then he lied. And there's a sort of weird thing in this story, which is that all the young people I talked to could see through him. The adults completely bought what he was selling, including gangsters and various people who should have known better. But young people would have a thing where he would get to know them and they'd be charmed

and they'd be like, God, get a load of this guy. He's got so many great stories and what have you. And then they'd start to get a little uneasy. They'd feel like, I don't completely buy it all. Well, at one point, a friend of his called him out said, you're a pathological liar. And he said, I am. I had this brain trauma. Oh, my God. Another lie. Oh, my God. You're doing it again. Literally a joke. Like that's a movie. Yeah. Oh, my God.

Wow. There is something obviously quite corrosive about the extreme wealth. Yeah. That's why people hate billionaire. I mean, there's a country. There's another thing too. This book is not an op-ed. It's not an argument.

No, it's a story about people. And so there will be different interpretations of it. But you're going to, as a reader, why could this happen to this kid? You're going to feel that, obviously. It's so many things, and it's 4% this. That's exactly the point that I'm making is he was on Instagram from an early age. This is a kid who was born in 2000. Social media absolutely played a role.

I don't want this book to sort of be part of the moral panic about social media. Like I am morally panicked about social media, but I don't want this book to function in that way. Yeah, yeah. It's what you're talking about where it's billionaires, the kind of reverence for it. I think about my own younger son, who's now 13, when he was about six, he came home one day and he started talking about Elon Musk. And I was just like, how the fuck do you even know who that is? Exactly. And what universe should a six-year-old know the name?

Something is wrong with our society. If he's part of your kind of Marvel universe of people. I didn't learn Warren Buffett's name until I was like 25. Exactly, exactly. But I think that the thing about Instagram or social media in general, Zach wasn't delusional, but I do think that if you grow up on these apps and you're an adolescent, your ability to draw like a really fine dividing line between real life and fantasy life, it's a little blurry.

You also have tools now to help with a persona as all kids, and especially him with a fresh start at this hill school. It's an opportunity. It's a reset. Yeah. Okay, so when does he start the child of a... an oligarch persona. It happens gradually.

I mean, I interviewed a bunch of people he went to high school with. And I should say, his parents were aware that he lied an embroidered, but they had no idea that he had kind of gone full bore and invented this persona.

He would tell kids he went to high school with that his dad was an arms dealer. He told some of them that his mother was dead. That's a common theme for him. Yeah, the arms dealer thing. Well, and the mother being dead. Or the mother hating him

and being in Dubai. But then he also tells the story but his father being dead. Part of it was Zach. What his parents told me is that from an early age, he was the kid who would claim a migraine. He was always faking injuries

of one sort or another. I think when he wanted pity... He's kind of munch house and see a little bit. A little bit, but I think most people are compassionate or most people are good. And I think that there is a sort of sense in which if you're him, you realize if I'm the new kid at school

and I don't know a soul and I don't have money. Then I don't have money. And I meet a girl and I tell her, oh, my mother recently died. That is a shortcut to a kind of intimacy that might take me for a... otherwise. And he's sort of intuit that. So he starts telling these lies. My dad

drives two rangerovers, little things. He would lie about where he lived. He would say, oh, my family, about a mansion. I just got to say, he told his buddy that his dad had two rangersovers, and then they had to go to tennis practice together and Matthew, his dad was going to drive in a Mazda. So he's like, listen, both rangeovers are in the shop. Don't bring up the Mazda to my dad.

He's not happy about it. Oh, my God. The gymnastics. But I guess you probably get addicted to that, I'm sure, also. The, like, high of figuring out. This is where the memory comes in though, that he had an amazing memory and an amazing ability to kind of keep it all straight. Yeah, he defied Lincoln's statement, no man's memory is so good that he can afford to be a liar.

In this case, he was. But I think I found Haitian zero. I think I found the first guy that he told the son of an oligarch story too. And the irony is that it's the last person you would want to try it on because it's a guy who actually worked for Chelsea Football Club, which at the time was owned by Roman Abramovich, a real Russian oligarch, kind of the biggest of them all. What's that guy's name, Mark or Colin? Mark Foley. How did he meet Mark Foley?

So randomly, there was an art exhibit at the Chelsea Arts Club. It was an invitation-only thing. To this day, I don't know how Zach got in. But he got in there. And we've all been in this situation, but he's there on his own. And there's this guy, Mark Foley, who's also there on his own. He's been invited. And so you can imagine, everybody's kind of milling around.

There's a bar, and you're sort of sitting there thinking, you know, am I just going to bail? And you're looking at the art. Yeah. And two of these guys are there on their own, and they fall into conversation. he realizes who Foley is and the funny thing is in a way that Foley couldn't have appreciated when Zach says oh what do you do and Foley says I work for Chelsea Football Club

for Zach Roman Abramovich is his god so he meets this guy who works for his idol he kind of idolizes Putin at this time too he's like super into Putin he does he's into Putin there are family photos from this time where he's kind of doing this thing where he thrust his chest out and he sticks his shoulders back and he kind of glowers into the camera and this very kind of Putin-esque way Yeah.

As if on horseback shirtless. Yeah, exactly, exactly. And Zach, I think, just kind of takes a flyer and says, I'm actually the son of an oligarch myself. I've come from a very wealthy Russian family here. Big swing. You're talking to a guy who works for an oligarch. And he himself?

Is Fully Russian? He's not. He's English. But Folli is exposed to the real thing. And Zach tries it out. And to this day, I think there might have been a universe in which none of this would have happened if Foley didn't buy what Zach was.

selling in that conversation. But Foley, I interviewed him subsequent and then he said, he seemed pretty convincing. He was sort of talking to talk. He was dressed in a very laid-back way, but he said that's exactly the way the kind of offspring of an oligarch. You know, he's like a track suit, whatever. Yeah. And so Foley suggests that they get coffee and that they chat. And then they do. And then Foley says, oh, you know, there are these guys I know who are looking for investors in this real estate project. Maybe I can introduce you to them. Because he's also said, I'm in charge of managing my father's money for investing purposes. I still think that if Foley had just sort of been like, this kid is clearly full of shit and walked away.

I could see Zach retiring the story and feeling like, okay, well, this one doesn't work. Yeah, there's so many Monday quarterbacking you can do, it's like if he had a girlfriend, in my opinion, if he had a real girlfriend, if he didn't go to that school, right, if he doesn't meet fully. But here's the thing, Doc, the parents, Matthew and Rochelle, who I got to know so well working on this book, I spent hundreds of hours talking to these people. The awful thing for them is, especially Rochelle, has spent every day since 2019, thinking about what are the off ramps that we missed? Did we drive past the exit? Where could we have gotten

off along the way? And it's a kind of torture to think that way. And I got to say, as they're described in the book, I don't know that I've ever related more to parents. I feel like every choice they made was one I would make. I'm so glad you said that. Oh, 100%. So he's becoming obsessed with money and he's telling them, you guys need to buy a fancier car. Mom, you should buy these fancy dresses. You know, it's a little bit repugnant. And they know better than to shut him down entirely, They want to keep him connected in a way that it can still be a voice of reason. I'm like, yeah, that's exactly what I would do. If you shame him out of this scenario, now he's excluded from you, it's just going to get worse,

trying to just walk that line of there might be a better path for you and also, hey, I love you and if this is what you want to do. It's so hard. And one of my worries with the book was that there's a certain kind of cynical read, self-flattering, self-comfiting read that a person might do where they look at this story and they think, oh, well, this is just a story about bad parents who were checked out and didn't see what was going on. And I think it's self-comfiting because it's like that would never happen to me. Whereas my whole experience of dealing with this family has been, what would I do? I think I would be facing exactly the same dilemma. I'll be honest.

The one judgmental thing I had is I think this whole private school thing's a fucking joke. And I think the fact that he had to go to someone that was still prestigious even though it was for dropouts. That to me is the one thing that I personally am like, what the fuck are we doing? But that's just very you. I know. I got a whole war with all these. LA private skills. I mean, yeah, depending on where you live here. Here it is a huge part of education. Yeah, and I'm just like, hold on timeout. It's a racket. Everyone I'm working with who's successful,

they went to shitty fucking schools and then you're exposing them, this crazy competition with a bunch of rich kids. So that is my failing. I try not to be judgmental. That is one thing I'm a little bit. But I think anybody we can see that those environments are. It's funny because my kids go to public. I went to a fancy private school of this sort. And your parents weren't loaded. No. Well, I'll put it to you this way. They were comfortable enough to send three kids to that private school, but not comfortable enough that all these years later, the nature of my parents' retirement is not what it would be had they not. On some level, they were still paying for it. You didn't come back from spring break with a tan from Skeen and Aspen, and some of your classmates did. Absolutely. But I also lived in Dorchester. I mean, the thing for me was that I lived 10 minutes away

from Milton Academy, the fancy private school I went. They were very, very different worlds. And so, you know, I may be attuned to these things. I send my kids to public school. You also had a healthy mechanism of tall poppy in Boston that would have probably prevented the kids that were super rich from... Oh, that's interesting. Like, there's also a cultural force there that probably helped dampen. The really rich kids that I went to high school with, it was flannels and jeans and listening to Nirvana.

I mean, it was the 90s again, so it was the last thing that they would do. They would get their ass kick if they posted a picture of themselves on a private plane. They would get the shit kicked out of it. No, absolutely. And it would have just seemed kind of gauche. I remember, I'm thinking, I don't want to be outing anybody here. I briefly dated a girl. who was from New York

when I was a senior maybe in high school, possibly junior. Over the winter break, I went and visited her and her family on the Upper East Side. And this was a neighborhood where a lot of kids who I went to high school with

and it was actually a moment where you kind of rack focus and I realized like, holy fuck, these people are all incredibly rich. But I hadn't actually caught on to that in Massachusetts and boarding school. Everybody sort of seemed roughly the same level. And then you go and you actually see

the apartments where these people live in the lives they live. My favorite story of that kind is I'm talking to some kids of a friend of mine and it's two girls, their sisters. I love them. One of them's dating a new guy. She's a man at school. She was visiting the family in New York. I'm like, what do they do?

She's kind of pussyfooting around it. And then the younger sister goes, they have this screen painting in their apartment. And I was like, okay. It tells me everything I need to know. Say no more. But if you value education and you come from people who do, I totally understand why you would send your kids if you had the opportunity. if you have the opportunity to give them the best education, in quotes, whatever that means. But again, Mill Hill wasn't that.

I think that the idea was also that he could go to Mill Hill for a period of time. And if you excel there, then maybe you transfer someplace else. The other thing is, to your point, this is a family where both Matthew and Rochelle, their mothers were English, but their fathers were immigrants, refugees, Holocaust survivors, guys who had actually very different histories in terms of their kind of educational backgrounds. But there was a sense in both families that educated. really mattered. Yeah. I'm not judgmental of the parents. It's the environment.

You can see how toxic it is. I don't like the institutions. They know they're living on the oligarch. And they know these kids aren't good students. When I tried to interview Zach's teachers, people who knew him well, including people who had written nice notes to the Brattler's after his death, nobody would talk to me

to a point where it felt to me like a decision had been made. Institutionally. From above. Which is pretty gross. You know, you have a student and he dies. And the thing for me is, I'm not digging for dirt. I just want to talk to a teachers who knew him. I want to kind of try and bring him back to life a little bit and sort of see who he was. When you say, no, thanks, we have nothing to say.

It's a little gross to me. Yeah. Okay, so he's going down this path. He's getting more obsessed with it. And it's important to say that. Rochelle and Matthew, although they are seeing this turn into him, they have no clue that he has this persona. No.

But some weird things are now happening. He seems to have money. He tells them, I'm moving into a riverwalk, which is this insanely expensive high high rise on the Thames. They're wondering, is he dealing drugs? He has a weird phone. He shows his father this HSBC bank account, and the interface is the same as his father's. And he says he is 850,000 pounds.

Yeah. So it's getting really quite confusing for them. And they're getting more scared. And again, they want to keep connected to him. And they're like, okay, this kid's not going to go to school. He's going to try to be an entrepreneur. Maybe it'll work for him. Yeah, people do.

Yeah, I can imagine being the situation, being like, if you want to prove to me, that you're going to be a billionaire, go with God. I just want to talk to you. Totally. And also you're 18. It seems that you have money. You could just leave if you wanted to. I don't want you to completely take off.

Obviously, the bank statement with £850,000 is probably the most extreme example of what kind of parental intervention would you have. But I have to say, in fairness, to Matthew, I think part of him wanted to believe he talked to Zach, what are the different business deals you're doing? How is this? Are you paying taxes? You know, kind of walked him through this whole thing. And Zach told these somewhat credible.

But then there was also a part of him that thought, maybe he's lying, but if he's lying, the reason he's lying to me is that he wants to impress me and he wants me to feel like he's okay. I was thinking of this dance. What would I tell my child? Like, you want to hear I'm proud of you. I'm proud of you because you are you. But they need you to be proud of them for this thing they've convinced themselves. It's such a possible situation. What they don't want is for you to confront them and say bullshit.

Yeah. Moreover, I don't even like this. It's not something actually I would be. How do you tell a kid that I wouldn't be proud? Well, that's the thing. And I think in Zach's case, and again, I don't think that this is actually all that unusual. There's a sense that he's got these false gods. And I think Matthew and Rochelle are pretty sophisticated people.

And the thought occurred to them maybe the reason that he loves Vladimir Putin or Rowan Abramovich is that it's the opposite of who we are. This is what adolescence is he's trying to kind of break away from us. So what are you doing? Is it really going to be that fruitful in that situation to say, we hate those people, be more like us. Right. Okay, so through Mark Foley, though, he meets these two characters. They're really important characters. Tell us about Akbar Akbar Shamji.

I'll tell you about him as he at first appears to Zach and to Zach's parents eventually. He's in his 40s. He's very well off. He's a very good-looking guy. He's charismatic. He's got great kind of manners. He's got a cut-glass accent. He went to Cambridge University.

He comes from an extremely wealthy family. They're South Asian. I mean, they're ethnically Indian, but from you, So you have this community that came over to build a railroad, basically, in East Africa. Like 40,000 of them. Yeah, but long time ago. And then they stay. And what happens is that the Ugandan economy ends up dominated by essentially the ancestors of these people who come over to build a railroad.

To the tune of like 90% of the total economy. They control by this tiny minority. And then Idi Amin comes in. And in 1972 says, we're going to expel all the Asians from Uganda. So this family, the Shamjee's, gets expelled. Akbar's father, Abdul Shamji, was one of the richest men in Uganda and arrives in London and has to kind of rebuild. Akbar grows up basically in great comfort, goes to Cambridge University and sort of goes from business to business to business. There's a whole episode actually in L.A., finally enough.

And when he meets Zach, he's this kind of middle-aged guy. He lives in Mayfair, which is one of the fanciest neighborhoods in London. But he actually lives on Mount Street, which if you know Mayfair is like the fanciest street in Mayfair. Mayfair. I told a friend of mine at one point that one of the guys I was writing about lived on Mount Street. He sort of said, nobody lives on Mount Street. You know, it's not a thing. His wife is a designer who makes these kind of elegant gowns, and she's dressed with Gwyneth Paltrow and Michelle Obama and the royal family. This is what Zach wants his mother to buy. Yeah, he's showing her the dresses. Zach meets him, and Akbar is the guy who's got the real estate development in Lisbon

that he's looking for investment in. Now, it will later emerge, that Zach wasn't the only one pretending that he was something he wasn't. That actually with Akbar, he's not the guy that he's pretending to be. And in fact, just before he met Zach, he had declared bankruptcy and he was getting chased by creditors. But he's still driving up bands. And he's a member of all these private clubs in London. There's a whole kind of world around Mayfair, which is private clubs, private casinos, supercars. Everyone's talented Mr. Ripley.

Yeah, literally. Everyone. And the night that Zach dies, he's in that apartment. And there's two guys with him, Akbar, one of them. And we'll talk about the other. But it is this interesting thing where it turns out that all three, of them are pretending to be something that they're not. It's like the Spider-Man meme.

Yeah, yeah. So the other guy is Indian Dave. Yep. Was his last name, Sharma? Yeah. Well, that's his kind of... Berenda Sharma. Yeah.

What does he think Dave is? What happens is that when Zach meets Akbar, he tells Akbar that he is the son of a Russian oligarch, that he has hundreds of millions of dollars to invest. And he's going to invest in Akbar's project. They become fast friends. I think Akbar gives him a kind of access. What Zach needed was to get past the velvet rope, and they're going to fancy clubs and hanging out and spending a lot of time together. The catch is that Zach's never coming up with the money.

He never actually wants to sort of sign a term sheet. Just at the point where Akbar might have been wondering, you know, is this kid for real, Zach says, I've got terrible news. My father has died. And my mother, who lives in Dubai, has kind of disowned me, and I'm in a fight over my inheritance. I don't have access to the money. And he had claimed to live in the most expensive real estate development in London. This place, One Hyde Park. and actually when Akbar would meet with him

Zach would always be waiting out in front of the building Like he never saw him come out They'd be like oh come meet me in my place And he'd be standing outside And so Zach claims essentially to be temporarily homeless So he's this billionaire kid Who's fighting with his mom And his dad is dad and he has no place to live

And Akbar says I have this friend who has this luxury apartment His name is Wurinder Sharma And he's this kind of retired guy Who lives in this big apartment overlooking the Thames So he introduces him to Varendor I don't know to this day how and when Zach learns the real identity of Varenda.

The kind of face that Varenda put on for the world is he's this sort of retired businessman in his 50s just kind of hanging out. He works out a lot. He boxes. He lives in this nice apartment. Drug user. Doing a ton of drugs. Unmarried, I assume. Unmarried.

There was two children. And the truth is Verinder was a gangster, better known as Indian Dave, who had been around for a long time. He was an extortionist. He was like a legbreaker. He was a debt collector. Heroin importer. He was involved in a pretty significant murder, implicated in other murders.

He was the guy who famously would dangle you off of a building if you weren't paying money. Indian people are so... I mean, this guy, Indian Dave is really quite a character. I think he's got a cool. He gave it kind of an edge. No. Stay tuned for more armchair expert, if you dare. He and Zach become roommates, essentially.

living in the same apartment in another room in that building overlooking the Thames. The three of these guys developed this kind of intense friendship. And they're looking to do deals. Everyone's trying to get rich. And I'm sure even Indian Day doesn't have nearly the money. It's funny because I saw this when I was writing about the IRA as well. And I've written other stories about criminals. You know, the thing about that line of work is there's no pension.

It seems like the party's going to last forever when you're in your 20s and 30s. But when you're in your 50s and your daughters just had a child, you're a little old. to be a legbreaker? Right. Yeah, and you're not profiting from accounts over years you've put it. There's no residual income. It's like you're either committing

the crimes or you're not. Yeah, exactly. And they all blow the money. And they blow the money like crazy. It was even more so with Indian Dave in the sense that he sort of made a point of not owning property in his name anyway because that would expose.

There were hardly any traces of him on the internet. Like one of the big questions in the story is and I asked when these guys met Zach because Akbar, he wouldn't meet with me or talk with me, but I email with him a lot. I said, so you meet Zach. He says, my name is Zach. in the center of a Russian oligar.

Did you Google him? Yeah, exactly. How did you not do any due diligence? And Akbar's response was, oh, you have to understand, like, the really powerful plugged-in people, they're not on the internet. And I'm sure you will have encountered this, but there's a certain kind of celebrity who has an AOL email account, you know, we're like a hot male. Yeah.

So they're all now together. Now I think the night of his death is relevant. And I think we should go to, so that MI6 is directly across the rest. river from this Riverwalk apartment complex that is Indian Dave's where he's staying. And they have an outward facing camera. And you can see on the balcony of this fifth floor apartment, a man runs and jumps on his own accord into the Thames. Yeah, he's not pushed. When this happens, it's coinciding with Rochelle and Matthew have kind of lost contact with them.

There's an email late at night. Like, where are you? At 2 a.m., he says, we're all good. Everything's fine. And now they're left to try to figure out like what happened in that apartment. The initial story that Indian Dave tells in response is he was at my apartment. He had just admitted to us that he was a heroin addict. I went to bed at 1230.

I woke up at 8 a.m. and he was gone. My assumption is he went out to get drugs. And he told this to me and my daughter Dominique, who's Indian Dave's daughter and Akbar, that is their story. how do we start unfolding? Yeah, the first thing I should say, so I write nonfiction, everything has to be true. They're not novels.

You can go to the end of my books. Nobody ever does, but there are these end notes. You can sort of check the work. But I am trying to make them read the way a novel would. I want it to be a story with characters and scenes. I want you to feel as though you can see things in your mind's eye. And so you're always trying to kind of reconstruct scenes. And that's hard because a lot of the time you're relying on people's memories and so forth.

For you to just figure out what pieces you're going to realize at what times has got to be the most complicated math of the book. Completely. I was thinking of this. I have the whole deck of cards, and I'm not just going to kind of throw them at you, and I'm not going to give them to you in order. I want to sort of hand them out to you in a way that both you'll be able to kind of digest it

in a fluid way you won't feel overwhelmed, but also that it'll be pleasurable. And it's funny, I sometimes get these questions about, you know, people don't read the way they used to. And I think certainly the stuff that I do in a long New York article or a book, the pleasure of it is actually that it takes longer. I can kind of take you down the path away, before I get to the switchback.

You sort of have to have a bigger canvas to do that kind of thing. So what I was going to say is, a lot of time I'm relying on people's memories. In this case, Rochelle and Matthew, before they even know that Zach is dead, they start having these conversations of people. I didn't even know this at the very beginning,

but I subsequently learned. They record all the conversations on their iPhone. At a certain point, Rochelle said, you know, we have the recordings. Do you want them? And if you're a journalist, it's just, you know, I can't know that better. excited you were in that moment.

Ah, and so after Zach has gone missing, she connects with Akbar, who she'd never met before. She knew that they were friends, but they never met. And he says, I want to meet you guys at this hotel on Piccadilly. They meet there. And Akbar then calls Indian Dave on his phone and puts it on speaker. And I have the audio of this whole long conversation that they have. Right, because if they were to just tell you what was said, what you need to hear is like,

what was their tone? How confident were they? It's more than that. Because this is what's so fascinating. You know now, certainly in recent decades, it used to be the case, here's the lawyer in me coming out, this is like the one good news for law school. If you're on a jury and it's a murder trial or it's a, I don't know what, an assault or something, and there's an eyewitness.

There was a sense that nothing is better than eyewitness testimony. You get an eyewitness, they go on the stand and they say, I saw it, and here's what it was. We now know that actually, eyewitness testimony is unbelievably unreliable. Yeah, it's almost useless. To some degree, the more dramatic the thing that has been witnessed, the less reliable you are. And even in the moment, you know, like five minutes later, you're already kind of rewriting your memories. This fascinating thing happened with Rochelle and Matthew where, remember, they don't know much about their son's friends. Zach was very secret about this.

They knew this guy, Virinda Sharma. They thought he was like a rubber tycoon. They thought he worked for Pirelli Rubber and he had a lot of money and he let Zach stay his place. Akbar seemed like this nice guy who had a whole bunch of different business interests and was kind of mentoring Zach. And then they go and they meet with Akbar and they talk with Vrinder on the phone. And what they told me when I asked them about that conversation was I said, what did you think? and they said, oh, we thought they were really shifty, and they seemed unreliable,

and we thought that they were lying to us. But I subsequently realized that was because their memory of it was colored by what they had subsequently learned. Then I got the recording, and it's the most heartbreaking thing, because what Rochelle and Matthew, who are desperate, they don't know their son is dead. And Akbar lies to them and says,

Zach just must have gone off to score drugs. We all have to find him. We're going to get him and bring them back safely to you. I now know, and if you read the book, you'll see why. Akbar knew in that moment. that Zach was dead. And Indian Dave gets on.

They don't know his name is Indian Dave. They think he's this rubber tycoon. And what they keep saying is we're so grateful to you guys. Thank you. Like, you've been such incredible mentors to our son and you're going to help us find him. And it's so poignant to listen to it because when you know the whole thing,

you know that these guys are lying. But it's a crazy scenario. Well, you're so desperate. And anyone that presents themselves as an ally that would help you find your child, you're going to be so grateful for. Yes. Of course.

But there's another thing, too. You get this wild thing where Rochelle and Matthew have no idea about Zach having pretended that he was the son of a Russian oligarch until they meet these guys who say, oh, we didn't know that his name was Zach Brettler at all. We thought his mom lived in Dubai and his dad was dead. I know. So they are learning a lot about all at once. I mean, you've got the panic of where is he and you have the panic of who is he. There's so much happening. Oh, wow. This is unimaginable. It's funny. I think a lot of people in America still think of Scotland Yard is this great police. They watch police procedures on Brit Box or something. And it's about how Scotland Yard. really royally fucks up the case, and then the bretlers essentially have to become detectives themselves and kind of do the investigation. Yeah, suffice to say you got to read the book,

but Indian Dave was not asleep at 1230. No. There's more to the story. Akbar did not leave for the night. There's a lot. This is a show. You're going to make a show? It's already been out from May 24. Yeah. It's riveting. It's so sad. It's real. I wish it could be just fiction, you know?

Yeah, I mean, I will say, part of the reason when I finished the article that I did a book is that I was delving into their lives and I realized that there were these backstories, Akbar's family, Indian Dave's kind of criminal history, but then also Zach's family. And when I first learned about these two grandfathers who had survived the Holocaust, with my writer brain, what I'm thinking is my whole story is about reinvention. Zach is this kid who reinvents himself and he's doing it in London, this city that has reinvented itself. And then you go back and he has these two grandfathers who virtually their whole families are killed in the Holocaust. They arrive, both of them, solo, as middle teens in London, in the 40s, and they have to decide, who am I going to be? It's tabularaza.

I have to kind of invent myself now. And when I first encountered that, as a writer, what I thought was, this is perfect. It's a kind of literary echo of Zach's experience, and in my book about reinvention, that's the role that these guys will play. And one of my closest friends when I sent him the book as soon as I finished the manuscript, he read it and he said, you know, it's so interesting. The book starts as kind of a thriller and a mystery, but then halfway through, I realized, no, this is actually a book about parenting and it's about grief. I had this amazing dinner with The Brellers, and this kind of clued me into how to end the book.

I'm not giving anything away here, where we were talking at one point, and I just said to them, if I were in your situation, I think I wouldn't have gotten out of bed since 2019. I don't know how I would do it. But you still have a kind of active social and professional. They travel. They go to concerts. They love live live music. They're great parents to Joe, who they're incredibly close with, the surviving son. And they both said, oh, you know, it's because of our fathers. There was a thing that Rochelle's sister, Gabby said to me at one point, she said, when I looked into my father's eyes, I never saw barbed wire. I only saw a loving father. They had these fathers

who'd lost more than we can really conceive of losing, lost everything. And then somehow kind of forged ahead in the future. And you're living with the loss. You're not erasing it. You're not denying it. but that you can live joyously, you can hold both of those things in you. What kind of knocked me out is I'd been thinking of those grandfathers purely in that sense of reinvention. And what I hadn't realized is that the brothers are going to be okay. And part of the reason they're going to be okay actually is that they had that lesson, that example.

I have had more than one Jewish friend tell me this, that when they've been struggling with something, it feels disrespectful to their grandparents who just made it out and got here to give me this life. And I'm now going to waste it. I don't think that's a unique experience for folks that are the progeny of survivors of the Holocaust. So yes, it makes sense to me that they could go. It kind of dishonors them for what they went through to give us this opportunity in this life. And we're going to now quit living because we had our first challenge. That's the thing. I mean, they both said, you know, they're not particularly religious, but they both kind of invoke, you know, the biblical two's life. And I will say they've read the book. It's funny to bring it back to Michael Lewis on that flight.

he said, unprompted by me, he didn't even know that I was thinking about this, but I had this big question, which is when do I show the brothers? The book, because I've never shown a piece of work to the people it's about until it was published. But I felt like I needed to show it to them before it was published, but also I needed to show to them after it was done.

The cement had to be completely dry at that point. And Michael Lewis on the flight said, you know, there've only been two or three times in my career when I've showed a piece of writing that people that was about before it was published, and I've regretted it every time. And I was thinking, oh, God, what am I going to do? So I showed it to them without getting it.

into the whole thing. There are family secrets in the book. There are things that they probably would have, if they had editorial control. Zach choked his mother at one point during all this. I imagine that's a very hard thing to have known because you love your child so much and you might go, yeah, go ahead and tell all that, but you don't need to tell that part. My point is, obviously, I feel enormous compassion for these people and I became very close to them as I was writing, but nevertheless, when I sit down to write the book, I'm not writing it for them. I have to have that stuff in. You know, we launched the book last week in New York and they came to the launch. And Joe came as well. They seem like really incredible people.

They are. I think they are. And then some part of me just is willing to chalk it up to, I don't know that it was any of those external forces. That might have been the path this brain was on. I don't know that blame needs to go to the school or did the parents or that anybody. I think also sometimes this stuff just happens. Somebody asked me the other day, you know, did I get any parenting lessons from this or something? And I pushed back a little and said, if anything, it just teaches me a kind of humility where I think that I,

Obviously, you want to do everything you can to help your child and support your child. But I also think there's this fantasy that we have that your child is a piece of clay that you can just mold. Totally. Couldn't agree more. There is a limit to what you're able to do. And it doesn't mean you shouldn't try. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And I think we're all kind of fumbling our way through as parents trying to figure out this solution. But the idea that, I mean, somebody had sort of said, it was just all a little too pat, right?

It's like, what parenting lessons do you take from this? There's so many factors. Yeah. Telling them this or that, I reject. Well, it can backfire. Yeah. One of my dear friends back home is a few years older than me, and he's got four kids in a wonderful family life. And I think I was expressing some frustration that the didactic lessons that I give to my kids, they just kind of roll their eyes.

It was in a spirit of kind of, I'm thinking, like, how did you pull it off? His kids are older, and it's all worked out, and they have a really close family. We're in a restaurant. And he said, all the lessons you teach your kids aren't going to add up to a hill of beans, but watching the way you deal with a waiter in a restaurant. It's going to be things like those little moments of observation will shape who they are more so than, any words that come out of your mouth in a kind of directed, do this, don't do that. Because if you're saying behave this way and then I'm witnessing you not behave that way, guess what you're also a hypocrite. You've lost all credibility.

You've depreciated everything else that you might say. Yeah, I'm like, okay, great. So what I know is like, don't listen to a thing this guy says, because that's not at all what he's doing. Yeah. But that's such a good example of the restaurant because it's not like what did they accomplish. Those aren't the observations. It's the little ways of being that you just are a sponge to when you're a kid. I just think there's a decency that has gotten lost in recent years. I don't mean to sound like an old fuddy-duddy saying it was better when I was young,

but I think most people would agree. I think COVID was part of this. I think everybody interacting on screens is part of it. But I just feel as though there's a kind of fundamental decency in terms of the way you treat other people that has been devalued to some degree. Yeah, I agree. Yeah, my anecdotal experience with that is we spent the whole summer in Nashville where we built a house and it's a small town.

And I noticed right away, oh, I can't drive like I drive in L.A. because I'm going to see these people at the Tasty Freeze. Yeah. I'm not anonymous. I just started really computing all the different behaviors I have in L.A. that I could not have in this small town. I was seeing the value of that and the danger of anonymity.

So the Internet is that squared. Completely. And then what percentage of my time and my spending in this totally anonymous way where no one's going to look me in the eyes and go, wait, you just said that to another human being? And so, yeah, normally I would be like, yeah, we're just getting old and we're blah, blah, blah, but no, when you're spending a good chunk of your time in a world where you're completely anonymous, I think that's problematic.

Well, here's my question. Here's what I wonder, and you guys can tell me how optimistic I should be. In my moments of optimism, what I tell myself is that we as humans are pretty bad at when a new thing comes along, thinking in a very deliberate way about the role that it should feel in our lives. We tend to allow technological change to just kind of wash over us. We kind of drink it all down without actually asking any sensible questions about it. But that over time, you start to recalibrate and think a little more carefully. My really optimistic case is, you know, whether you date it to the Internet, so sort of late 90s, basically,

where you date it to the advent of smartphones, so sort of 2010s, these new things come along. They completely rewrite really almost every aspect of, of how we deal with each other, but that there may come a kind of reset where people say kind of, all right, well, that was a, you know, I mean, it's a little bit honestly, like there's probably a drugs and alcohol, sobriety kind of thing where it's kind of like, okay, I did that,

and I really went sort of a whole hog there for a while, but on reflection, it fucked up my life, and I had to rewrite my relationship with this stuff. I think a lot of people right now are having that conversation. They're saying the Internet's bad. Like, I mean, just hearing a lot of people, people say that. The internet is scary. It's a scary place. Whether you're changing your actions based on it, I think more people right now are starting to be like, uh-oh. I guess the thing I wonder is

I feel as though everybody's having that conversation, but then not actually changing their behavior. I mean, I'm the most guilty of all, right? But I'm like, God, this is terrible. Where's my phone? But first it comes in understanding. So I think maybe hopefully down the road. The first step. My optimism comes from this pattern that's never broken, which is young people watch old people and do not want to do what they do. Minimally, you've got a whole group of young people that are watching the dumb, embarrassing, older people live on the internet. It'll be not cool in some sense. That's a nature of things. And then to your moral panic thing, because I push back on like Jonathan Haidt and a lot of these people are. These are also anomalies. Zach is an anomaly.

That's not a normal story. It's a spectacular story why it's worthy of a book. And back to the Manosphere doc. It's a terrifying doc. Yeah. That is a tiny percentage. There are not boys walking around calling women bitches and all that. I don't think that's an epidemic or a pandemic. I think this is a small group of people that you could make a doc about. The one thing I would say on that, and I admit I haven't watched the doc, though I did have a whole conversation. I feel like an idiot because I did Louis Theroux's podcast

and talked to him for like two hours about Zach, not having watched his Manosphere dog, which I don't realize I should have done my homework. But what I would say as a father of you teenage boys is that I agree with you. I think that the Manosphere looks maxer in cell, particularly the guys who like have publicists and are in documentaries and so forth. They're way out there. I do think the downstream of that, it changes the culture.

It changes the way that people talk and relate to each other. I think it's changed. So that's my fear, but I'm around Lily's 16-year-old boyfriends. They're lovely boys. When I'm meeting 16-year-old boys, I'm not seeing the dudes in this doc. So I'm just constantly trying to remind myself, like, have I met some dudes recently that we're doing push-ups and talking about bitches, I haven't, and I meet a lot of kids. Yes, I can find enough to make a doc about, but I'm not as panic.

If I started seeing it in real life, but I don't see it in real life, and maybe I'm naive. This goes back to the question I raise is that I have very similar feelings. What it means for me is when I step away from the computer and I step away from my phone and I interact just with regular people, it's like 10 cities, 10 nights. I'm seeing the whole country right now. Yeah. And it is amazing the way you get out there and you talk to people and most people fundamentally, even people who I, in some

cases, have really vehement political disagreements with fundamentally are pretty decent. Yeah, I agree. That's the danger, I think, is that we're letting ourselves believe that the internet world is the real world. And it's actually downgrading our assessment of everyone. And I don't think that's true or fair. I guess here I'll dabble in the moral panic stuff. But these technologies are so addictive.

And I'm speaking purely for myself here. I feel the twitch. And what's so insane, right, is it's like, something could have come in in the last 20 minutes. Nobody has a life less full of emergencies than me. There's actually nothing very significant or dire that I need to be checking my phone every 20 minutes for. So I've got it, but I just hope that we are able to overcome.

I think we're in that phase now where we all know this is bad for us, but it's still really hard to, yeah. It's chemical at this point. So it's going to take some real effort. For me, it is this physiological thing where I feel myself just kind of reaching. I had to get a new screen put on my phone. But also, if you would have asked me prior to drop my phone off how much I'm on my phone or how addicted, I'd be like, you know, I got it, but I think I'm a low grade. And they were changing my screen.

And they were changing my screen. I'm in the store. I'm like, oh, I see something I think my wife would like, I go for it to take a picture to send to her. Even if it's not like me checking things, I was like, holy fuck hon. I probably grabbed for my phone like 20 times. In part because it's now like the Swiss Army knife of life. I use it to pay for things. I use it to take pictures.

I use it to listen to music, et cetera, et cetera. I was a little troubled by how much muscle memory was grabbing for an empty pocket. Well, I love the book, and I know you're a little bit nervous about the digressions, but I don't think you should be. One of my favorite books is The Devil and White City. Like, what a book. I get a fucking serial killer. I get the whole history of the world fairs.

I get the architectural history of Chicago. Let's go. I mean, yeah, what you did with the Purdue family was so great. You get to learn so much. That's making it feel more fiction-wise. Like, you're learning about the characters. I mean, that's my hope. I think done right.

Certainly what I'm trying to do is give you all those little asides in a way where it never feels as though you're kind of stuck in quicksand. It's more that I've just dropped a little something in your pocket. You didn't even notice you've got it. Those are the stories. Those are the books I love to read. I think we're also pretty all interested in London as a place. It's fast. Yeah, it is.

It's a great city. I'm going there in a few weeks. We'll see how it goes. Well, Patrick, London falling, a mysterious death in a gilded city and a family search for truth is terrific. I hope everyone checks it out. It's been a delight to meet you. You're very much in that Louis charming. I know so fun.

He was a model. He modeled. Wow. Yeah, he's got that. Catalog model. Yeah. Catalog. That's great.

But it was a prestigious brand. What was it? Jay Crew. Jay Crew. Ding, ding. You gotta be answering to be fucking with Jay Crew. That's right. It's a delight to meet you and I do hope you'll come back with your other books.

I will. This was so fun. Thanks for having me, guys. Absolutely. Hi, there. This is Hermium Permian. If you like that, you're going to love the fact check. Miss Monica.

We got to discuss something. Yeah. So. We just did an armchair anonymous. We just did an armchair anonymous. And there was a guest. A man. Who was a man.

Yeah. Who popped on and he was so attractive. Yeah. It was shocking. It was shocking. Like Paul Newman level attractive. From the second I saw him, and this plays out in real time, I knew. He was in Georgia.

You did. Within four words, you said, are you in Georgia? Well, I said, where are you? Are you in the South? Right. But I knew it was Georgia. Yeah, but you were trying to play it a little safe. Yeah.

I was why I say, go for it, you know? I know, you're right. Because he was wearing a shirt that I feel like all my friends in the South wear. It's very weird. It's interesting how there are regional uniforms. Yes, absolutely. That's why I had to get out of Michigan. I was going to hit a certain age where I was going to have to start wearing

golf shirts. No, you were. And I was like, I got to get out of here. I can't wear golf shirts. That's where you drew the line there. I could see it on the wall. Look, you might have to bring them back now that you're in Nashville. You might re-evaluate this.

No, I think they think it's charming. At least I tell myself that they think it's charming and that I dress like a scumbach. Oh, all right. And then I have tattoos, but I'm friendly. Yeah. I think they find that charm. I'm a heathen. I'm godless, but I'm still friendly and offer my services.

The celebrity helps. It probably doesn't hurt. Okay, back to Will. Yes. So he was very, very, very hot. And he also, what we noticed, and this isn't why I didn't notice this at first, but then he had UGA paraphernalia in the background. And then it was like, oh, my God, he went to Georgia. Dream husband.

God. It then came out that. What years you both graduated? Yes. And there was an 11-year gap. 12, 12-year gap. I graduated in 2009. he graduated in 2021.

12-year gap. Yeah. You were taken aback by that. Really. Rattled. Rattled. Yeah. And a lot happened in my brain.

Did you think he's so young or I'm so old or a combo? Exactly. Okay. So normally when this happens, I think, oh my God, he's so young. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And this time I was like, I'm so embarrassed. Like, I'm so embarrassed by my age. Oh, wow.

I'm so embarrassed that, like, I think he's cute and I'm, like, an old lady. No. And I was like, I'm a cougar. No, there would be something really wrong with you if you didn't find Will attractive. But I had, like, key cues. Yeah, of course you did. And I was like, he was very horny. To be fair, he's married.

And you were being very forward up to that point. You were like, well, it's a shame I didn't meet you before you got married. I think because... You were basically saying I want to fuck. It was the most aggressive I've ever seen you in the caller and I loved it. I felt myself in that whole conversation like being a cougar. Like being like a old lady with a cigarette who's like hitting on young boys. Show me your abs.

Yeah. What kind of abs do you got? I felt like her. Yeah, good. No, I don't want to be her. I know. This is, well, this is what I've been relegated to permanently. If I'm talking to any woman under 40, I'm like, watch your peas and cues.

You're going to seem like a gross old, lecherous man. I know. I'm glad you had that experience. I am not glad. I feel very, I feel weird right now. Like, I feel, I feel old. I feel cougarie, as we said. I mean, he's so hot.

Yeah. And he pooped his pants. Yeah, spoiler, yeah. And that's a hot thing for me to be hearing. And he's talking about my old school and he's got great hair. Oh, yeah. And I was like... You were certain he's tall, too, which is funny.

Yeah, I know he's tall. Yeah, he's seated for the listener. And like, I just feel very conflicted about what happened. Oh, because also my rule generally is that I would never date anyone younger than my brother. My brother's 30. Uh-huh. He's younger than my brother. 27.

Yeah. So I was also like, hmm, like should I change my rule? Absolutely. If a will comes across your radar. One other thing. Okay. Was happening during this. Oh.

He was also triggering some old insecurities. Really? Yes. Because he will from UGA is will from UGA. Like, there are, there were so many wills around when I went to school there. Handsome, southern gentleman. Handsome. White.

White is a. Yeah, he was very white. Uh, white bread. White is the driven snow. Gorgeous hair. He spoke about his mom. His mom's a southern bell. Yeah.

Um, this is the type of person I could never have. Right. You told yourself you could never have. And I was like, I felt a little bit back there. A little insecure. Yeah. I was like, oh my God. I'm so ugly.

Like, in. front of will. Like, I shouldn't. Is it a fun feeling, though? No. It's not like you enjoy the reminiscent feeling of youth. Like, no part of it is like. I'm feeling bad about myself.

No. I know what you're saying, but I think any time I can touch my feelings from 20 years ago, I also appreciate it. Does that make sense? Yeah, but no. No, I like not feeling like that. You don't miss that. confident and feeling like good, good, I'm good around people.

But Will, um, will, um, will, excuse me, Will. Will triggered some old stuff like, oh my gosh, like this is. You never like me. Yeah. So I'm feeling a little insecure about my looks and my body and my age and, um, pretty much the whole package. Yeah. Oh, wow.

Wow, Will. I think if he wasn't married, he would applaud you. I don't think you needed any of those feelings. I don't think so because he is spoiled from UGA. Was I being so embarrassing? No, not at all. You weren't embarrassing at all. I really feel like I was.

I embarrassed myself. Your flirting aggressive self is very appealing. It's why I urge you to use it more. But I think it was too much. It was like Cougar. No, I was very confident. And confidence is attractive. I know, but not for you.

But I wasn't that. You're so unique. No. That's what I'm saying. I'm saying I actually wasn't confident, and so I think I was overcompensating. Well, Brett is confidence. This is why men and egg women is like they can tap into this while they're insecure. They can tap into their.

I wonder if Will we'll hear this. No, he didn't listen to the show. His sister, Claire, my sister-in-law. Your new sister-in-law. Yeah. She'll relay this. She's been down this path for 20, let's say she's two years younger than Will. For 25 years, she's seen Will's.

effect on women, and she understands this entirely. Yeah. I thought it was a joyous experience. It did something. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Thank you, Will. Thanks, Will. I enjoyed it.

We appreciate you. Yeah, you're coming hard at them. Dak, stop saying that. Stop saying that. That is making me feel so weird. It does. Oh, I was so proud of you. Why?

What did I say? I think I blacked out. This is what I'm always begging for. What did I show? Get in the driver's seat. You think someone's hot? Fucking get at them. In the South, they don't like that.

They like demure. No, yeah. No. What did I say that was the most aggressive? Because I think I blacked out. There's just a moment that you were like if you hadn't met your wife. I don't know. The way you rolled it outside, basically.

I think it made it very clear that you would have fought. No, no, you said. I did. Yeah, what you've never said. You're so respectful. And you weren't in that moment. This is what men are like. Yeah.

Welcome to the show. Oh, it feels weird. It's a lot to handle. Yeah. I mean, you shouldn't have compassion for us, but also you should understand. These are, you got to clean his butt cheeks. Okay. That adds a new layer to the cougar element as like your mom.

Yeah, you got more of a mommy fetish. Yeah, that's not. Will. What have you been, you're messy again, Will. What have you been into? I told you, Will. Will. What did you get?

Your pants down, Will. Well, did you make a duty again? Have you done? You are naughty, Will. You know you have to use a toilet, big boy. Ew. Guys, we're talking about a full-grown adult in case you're triggered. This is not a teen.

There's a 27-year-old man in the South. He had his own office decorated with memorabilia. That's right. He has a degree. Yeah. He probably has a child on the way. It's just fun to watch a new paradigm emerge. which is like, yeah, you have a new age class now.

If they do, it looks like Will and he's 27, play ball. It is interesting. Yeah, don't rule anything out. Maybe you change my life. On this topic, a commenter pointed out, and I think it's a brilliant comp. Someone said, Monica trying to convince you to wear loafers, was identical to you trying to convince her to shave her head. So now you know what it feels like

And now you know what it feels like Yeah, yeah And I was like that's a great observation And it's spot on Yeah, because it's like this just not me Not a loafers dude And it's great It's great

I could wear them And maybe even people wouldn't point at me And laugh But it's not for me Exactly Yeah so I thought that was Thank you listener Yeah

Thank you I appreciate that Yeah I thought that was a solid point And I guess I'm sorry For trying to convince you to wear a loafer. I'd almost rather make a different truce, which is like, I still want to keep begging you to shave your sides and you're free to keep begging me to wear loafers. No, because you know what? I, when you said it, I was like, that's true. Yeah. It's not you. I don't want you to be anyone

who's not you. You like, and it's great. It's fine. You do like preppy, like as an aesthetic. Oh, you like a man who's preppy. Oh, a man. Yes. And to me, all of my class warfare baggage, Preppy was the last thing I ever wanted to watch. I think you have good style. Okay. I don't think you have, I wouldn't, I'm not like, I don't look you and think like, God, we got to do something about Dax's style. Make some effort. You are very, you know you.

Uh-huh. You know your style. You have style. Yeah, right or wrong. You have a specific line I'm in. Exactly. I have a perspective about. A point of view.

Yeah. Yeah. That's what style is. Yeah. And so I'm not ever going to try to change that. I'll have you know, though, that I'm regularly going, how consistent is this style? Because even today and yesterday, I ordered some pants because they look comfortable. But I was in, like, drawstring, kind of clam digger-y, East Coast, on a beat. But I decided for whatever reason that those pants are fine if I wear a converse and they're not that thing.

And I recognize how arbitrary it is. Well, whatever you liked them. Yeah. Whatever it is, I like it. And then I just stick with it. But it could vary from jumpsuits to Red Wings' work boots and cuffed Levi's. Yeah, because you've also, at one point you're wearing some Searsucker. And that's very northeast.

I think that's South. That's Southern. The Searsuckers. I think it's also like. Clambakes? No, it's like Ivy League. Oh, okay. I really associated with the South.

It's like Rhode Island, Maine. Probably like Tom Wolf, that writer. Mm-hmm. That's who I want to look like next Easter. I've already proclaimed, yeah. Okay. Full thing. Yeah.

Maybe like a flower in my lapel. Stay tuned for more armchair expert. If you dare. Who do I like that's preppy? JFK Jr. Yeah. Apex Preppy. Hot as fuck.

But he's like the standard of preppiness. That look, JFK Jr. look. You love it. I think it's great. Yeah. It's the look, right? That would be number one. Well, I don't think so. I think, again, it's someone who just clearly has a point of view, knows what they like. And it's thought out, like, you know, Jess used to only wear gym shorts, you know? And that had to change. And guess what? I changed it. Right. Yeah, because he's your boyfriend. He's my husband. And now.

He's addicted? Yeah, now he likes shopping, and now everyone always comments on his outfit. Oh, and he loves it. And he loves it, and I love it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And, like, it feels good, and he feels good. He feels put together. It does something outside in.

Okay, I want to ask a question about style. I had this thought the other day. Okay. Because I know someone who, like, by all accounts, probably has good style. Mm-hmm. They're definitely always on trend. Okay. But I have the thought.

Man or woman? Man. Okay. The style changes so frequently that I actually don't know what his style is. Right. And so I wondered, like, for me, that's an issue. Is that an issue for you? I am not attracted to trends.

Okay. Personally. I like classic style. Timeless. Timeless, classic. JFK. R of K. Nope.

Every now and then, I'll get a piece every now and then that's trendy because it's, like, fun. I mean, you're wearing enormous pants. That's part of the trend. No. You have taken on enormous pants in the last two years. Yeah, I wouldn't say, okay, I don't think that's because it's a trend. I really just like the way that looks. Skinny jeans are kind of making a comeback.

I'm not going there. Okay. I'm not wearing them. You're like me. Also, I'm all, right, I'm much older than you and will. As we've established. And there is a point where you go, I can't play the game. anymore. And so I don't know if you're like me at least. I'm like, no, no, we're sticking

with what our style has been. Yeah, it's more that I'm like, I don't like that. So sure, it might come back as a trend, but I'm going to skip that trend because I don't like it. And plus, oh my God, I'm so old. Oh, yeah. You're in. And then, but there are still, there are classic jeans and classic looks, Levi's, all kinds, that work forever will never go away. So I'll always rely on that. But I'm with you. When someone is just dressing for the trend, I don't really think that's stylish. Well, I just go like, I don't know what they're real stylish.

Yeah. Yeah. They don't have a perspective. Yeah, I don't know what they want to be in most. Like they might look great, but they don't really have a perspective. But also, okay, here's the thing. I prefer that to. No style.

Looking like a slob. Right, right, right. Yeah. Even if they're like, my style is slob. That's not for me. Yeah, that's fair. Like, and some people have made an art form out of it, right? Like, Sandler's in on the joke.

Right? He's like, I dress like a fucking, I wear sweatpants and hockey jerseys, no matter where I'm at. Yeah. He wears basketball shorts. He wears Jess's old. Yeah, yeah. I think a lot of guys, like, thank God Sandler's doing this so I can just wear all this athletic gear all the time.

Yeah. Yeah, that's never been, for whatever reason, never called to me. I know. I'm glad. I'll get a jersey every now and then. Really? I think it looks cool. But I can't.

I've never seen you wear a jersey. Minimal. Like, would you wear this sweater? Yeah, of course. Yeah. Yeah. I have a lot of cardigans. I think this would look nice on you.

Yeah. I'll buy it off you. How much? This is a large women's. Yeah. Based on how much it doesn't be. It is. It is.

It is oversized. It is oversized. That's a look. Yeah, that's popular look. Mm-hmm. It's a look that I like. Mm-hmm. Although I did want to take it off when I was talking to Will.

Because I wanted him to. See your boobs. Well, be honest. Don't be crass. Be honest. Don't be crass. Why else would you take your sweatshirt off? I just wanted to take it up.

I just wanted to take it up. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. My decolage. What if I wanted to get in short shorts when we had an attractive guest on? I was like, I always thought about getting it down into my trunk. You're married. I'm not.

I get to do whatever I want. That's a big difference. It's a big distinction. I also think I'm male. Yeah, that's also a huge distinction. Here's the thing you're not going to want to hear in is the truth. I think you'll understand part of this. Most women, not all.

Okay. I think most men want to see a pair of boobs. Uh-huh. Not all women want to see a bulge. A bulge. Yeah. I would love to know the percentage. Me too.

Yeah. I agree with you on prima facie. My favorite thing to say you. I do agree with you. But I also, I'm prepared to be shocked by how many women, if in a very safe situation, could view it safely. Right. Without feeling threatened. Yeah.

How many would like to? Yes. I think it's way lower than the men in the boobs, but I think it's higher than we think. I think what's true is that it really depends on the person attached to the bulge. Women might be interested in the bulge. If they like, they got it. already are interested in the guy and like the top. And we could hate a woman and we still want to see her too.

Exactly. You might not care about anything else, but you want to see the boobs. It's just different. Yeah, it's different. Yeah. And that's how we were all built. That's the way it is. Yeah, we're just built this way.

I don't remember. I guess we're going to do some fat unless we have to say about Will or about cougars or actually, I don't know if we're even allowed to say cougars anymore. But I think I can since now I am one. There's a coalition of allies protecting cougars? No, maybe cougars don't like. Maybe older women like myself now don't like to be called that. And now, as I'm saying it, I don't want to be called that.

It has a negative connotation. Well, we're calling men who like younger women perverts. So if you guys got to have to fucking shoulder, whatever the word is, not coyotes. Cougars. Tough, right? That's not even close to as bad. Well, there is, as you said, there's a difference. there is a difference. I can't go attack Will.

Sure, you can't attack Will. But if we're just saying older people liking younger people, and we're calling one class of people perverts, and then the other one's bitching about being called Cougars, I think that's a little unfair. Yeah, but you say all the time, you're always on flip-flopping, like that there's a difference between women and men. And when women do something, it's different than women do this man. And that's the truth. But it doesn't mean that you guys can't shoulder Cougar. It's not even that bad. Perverts like an illegal. Then I'm just going to like die. Like, what's the way? What's the point?

Why don't you own being a cougar? No. Rob, can you look up how old, like, you have to be to be qualified as a cougar? I think 38 to 27. Stop. Oh. Oh, my God. I'm getting so close.

You're good, then. So you don't even pick up this campaign against to end cougars. It's a cute name. No, I don't like it. Because it sounds like, um. Might include women starting at age 35. Okay. And depending on how young probably the will is.

Ten year age gap or more. Okay. Ten? I think 11 really. Cougars are majestic. They're very powerful. They're a beautiful animal. They're the prettiest predator we have in the Americas.

No, tigers. In the Americas. Did you hear me? Oh, my God. We didn't call you a vulture. Like, you've been given a very regal. Don't say you. The class of cougars.

Fuck. This is bad. This is great. My time is like, I'm like, oh, oh, no. This is getting real? Yeah, I feel really. I feel like. Oh, boy.

What you should be feeling is gratitude that you are a cougar of the caliber that could ensnare one of these cubs. Just fine. So you should just be thanking your lucky stars that that's still an option for you. There are some cougars that are hungry and they're starving and they can't get any pups. Okay? No. And you should feel bad for those cougars. You're one of the lucky cougars, okay?

Well, look, again, I'm just a pervert. So on my side of the street, I'm not a pervert. You're married with children. I know, I know, I know. That's not, how did this happen to me? How did you turn 38? Yeah. One day at a time.

This is like an actual disaster. We gotta get you. I think once you start indulging your cougar appetite, you'll blow right through this little awkward phase. They're like, oh, this is perfect. They're so young and dumb, I don't want to date them. All they want to do is come over and show me their buns. No, that's even worse.

I'm mayor. I got my husband I love who dresses nice. Who is he? Where is he? Jess, Jess. Oh. And then you have this stable of young dudes that you don't even. have to fucking worry about talking to on their birthday.

I can't even have sex with them. They're going to break my bones because of bone density perimenopause. Osteoporosis. Yes. Oh, my God. Maybe I'll break his bone. Yeah, I bet you will. Here you go.

There's the cougar. Let her out of the cage. I can't even control her. We got a new, I'm going to announce to the LA Times that although P-22 is gone, we do have a new cougar sighting. Ah, I feel conflicted. I got to take a nap. All right. Let's say, let's do some facts.

All right. Okay. Okay. Okay. One thing. So if you, okay, you're going to be mad at me because you don't like when this happens, but. Oh, worldwide box office versus domestic. Yeah, basically.

There's one teeny, teeny tiny difference between the audio version of this one and the video. Why? Because there's something that worked in the video that doesn't work audio, I think, in my opinion. So I said, hey, I said, hey, I. Emma, will you cut this out of the audio, but I left it in for video. I'm so intrigued. It's nothing. I mean, it's a two-second thing that happens.

I leave in the middle. Okay. And I come back. Okay. Because I had a cough attack. Oh, you sure did, yeah. And. Attack.

Yes. You cough, what, twice outside? Stop. Be honest. How many times do you cough when you go outside? Okay. What happens is like, I feel the tickle and the cough, you know? And I like, like, I do that, you know?

And then it's still there. Like, that did nothing. And I'm trying to drink some water. That's doing nothing. Really quick. Isn't it great? When you're in that state, you're so preoccupied with this disaster. Like, you could, we could have been on fire probably at that moment.

Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah. I don't know what you guys were talking about. Yes, exactly. I was so panicked and, like, trying to do teeny tiny cops, but new. And it was like, you know, it's like building and building and building. You feel like you're going to suffocate if you know. Oh, my God.

And it's, and then I would, then I coughed a couple times. Yeah, a couple. coughs. It was still in there. It's still there. And at some point, I leaned over and I said, I got to get a cough drop. And then I walked over and then I left actually to get my cough out. How many coughs do you think he did once you got outside? Like six or seven? But by then it's like they like you sound like you're going to throw up. Okay. Because it's so intense because you've been holding it in and then it looks gross. I'm like, I'm not just a king of conveyance. I'm also the king of cough. So you know I know about coughing. I know, but this is a different kind of. You cough so much

that like yours is different. You cough so much. You're not stifling them. You just cough. You feel fine coughing. It's part of who you are. And it is what it is, you know. And it's not an identity it's in fact an identity marker for me that I don't cough. Right. Don't fire. Don't cough. Don't pee. Yeah. A lot of don'ts. So I went out there and I was like, you know, and I like had this huge How far did you step away from the... Far. Oh, really? Yeah, I did not want you guys to hear it.

I love the idea of you running up the street and the neighbors looking out and you're just out there. I just like my biggest fear throughout that whole thing was you guys stopping and like, are you okay? Or like, do you want some water? Calling attention to it. Yeah, I was getting... But then also I knew you noticed, but like you then you were trying to not notice it. Oh, my God, it was horrible. So anyway, I left and then I came back.

It's shocking how much I noticed. by the way, considering I'm looking at the guess always. Yeah. But I am catching 100% of what's happening over here. I am catching all the time, everything that's going on. And it's like, like, I know that sometimes,

like, I know some of your tells, I won't say on here, but I'm like, oh, like, okay, so he's annoyed because he just did that. Okay. So there's a lot going on in the head. Anyway, I, in the video, come back in. And then there's a little conversation about, did you go to CVS?

Because you claim you're just getting a cough drop. And I'm like, bitch, I know they're in your bag right there. Yes. And then you're like, why did you leave? And I was like, to cough. And then there was a little conversation about that. That's not in the audio. Real time disaster.

So I just wanted, that's like I left a cough. Oh, great. Okay. That's the one fact. That's one. I've three facts. Oh, okay. It was a fact

It was a cough That is why I left It wasn't for anything else Because I think then you were like Oh you farted I didn't It wasn't one of those You might have done bold

No it wasn't When you're coughing with all your might You're not You're not clenching your spinger Things happen when you cough that hard I understand that I was at high risk Okay but it didn't in this Situation happened

Okay And then it happened you know It happened again When we were at the movie theater the, me you and Rob went to a screening. Rob, did you hear my coughs? I did. See, and I knew you did.

Did you say you did or didn't? I did, and I chuckled a little bit. I knew it was you were getting nervous for me, and then you were getting nervous for me, and I was getting so. I had a view of water. I was excited. Anytime I can help a friend, I like it, so. But it was that same thing, and I just kept throwing mince in my mouth.

I thought that would help. It didn't really help. It takes on a life of its own once you're panicked about it. It does. Yeah, it amplifies all your sensations down there and now you're convinced. I know. Yeah. Okay. Now, the Peabodies.

The awards, okay? Winners were chosen. What, like, since we interviewed him? Well, remember, no, I said, like, something about the Peabodies and I was like, there was nominations or winners. I don't know what's what, but it was winners. It was the winners. And we didn't get one?

No. Still didn't get one. What was it going to take, Peabody? Okay, I'm going to tell you who, well, won, okay, for entertainment. It's adolescence. Great. Worthy of a Peabody. Very.

And or. I love the show. I don't know why it's worthy of a Peabody, but I love the show. Never seen it. Common side effects. That's on Adult Swim. Okay. So I don't know.

So here's what I can no longer tell myself. They are digging deep. I mean, they're taking in all media if they found a winner on Cartoon Network. Adult Swim. Adult Swim. Yeah. Is that on Cartoon Network? I don't know.

I think it is. It might be. Dying for sex. Okay. Liz Meriwether. Yeah. And Michelle Williams. Yeah.

And Michelle Williams. Episode of ours go back in the archives. Forever. That's a Netflix show. Okay. So a lot of people. Heeded rivalry. Sure.

Jimmy Kim alive. Okay. Mussolini son of the century. Okay. So almost everyone in show business got nominated. It sounds like. And the pit. Oh, and Pluribus and the rehearsal.

Holy smoky. I know. Okay. And that's only an entertainment. Well, I guess I'm relieved that there's no podcast. There's documentaries. Oh, you're right. They should make a podcast.

Oh, God, here it is. Fuck. There is a podcast. Yes. Oh, my. Peabodies. Oh, this actually hurts. Oh, boy.

I don't even know if I hear the list. Podcast and radio. Divine Intervention. Great show. Scam Inc. Really good. When we all go to heaven. Love it.

So just three. Yeah. All right, y'all can throw in. You did 15 TV shows. I mean. Okay. I know. Well.

I'm pretty upset. I'm sorry. Now that I've, now that I knew there was a specific section. Yeah. Okay. All right. Next year.

I think sometimes you have to submit for these things, too. Well, we certainly haven't done that. Yeah. So we just didn't even try. Okay. That's a nice way. You're one of those.

You guys are those types. Like, we didn't even try, so we didn't lose. Well, I'm just saying we should do it. Can't lose if you didn't do it next. I can do it next year. You don't miss 100% of the shots that you don't take. Exactly. Oh, was the Long Good Friday Pierce Brosnan's first role?

No. He was in a TV movie called Murphy's Stroke. And then the Long Goodbye is listed as number two. Same year, though. I think he was famously a street performer in Ireland, in Dublin maybe. Okay. Maybe even one of these living in the car stitches. Oh, really?

Yeah, he paid his dues. Oh my God. Also, his wife died. That's really sad. Sorry, it's just in the trivia that I'm looking at. They shouldn't call that trivia. No. What they mostly shouldn't call it is trivial. They didn't. Okay. So don't worry. All right. He's a handsome man. Very handsome. And that's all I have to say. All right, well, I love Patrick. I really had to resist. I have that inclination. I get, you know, one in ten guests where it's like, I get his phone number and hang out with him. and talk about things when I'm in New York. You get people's phone numbers all the time. I know, and I wanted to get his.

And you didn't it? No, maybe because he's a journalist. Oh. I don't know. But I did. I wanted it. Oh, that's interesting. Okay.

That's kind of telling. Like, you do this all the time. You did it earlier with our guests that you danced in front of. Yeah. And maybe you think it's, you're able to do that because they're in entertainment. Right. We're all in entertainment. We also might be at things together.

Right. But you might be at something with Patrick. Yeah. Maybe Patrick would like. to be friends, but I just like, oh, I'm a showbiz guy. He doesn't live here, I guess. So that makes up. No, but I go to where he lives quite often.

So it could be a friendship. All right. Well, I think we could still get his number. Okay. I love you. Love you.