Aspire with Emma Grede - Bobbi Brown on Selling Your Name, Getting Fired, and Starting Over
Episode Date: April 9, 2026What does it mean to build something so successful that it outgrows you, and then start again from nothing with your name legally off the table? Bobbi Brown built one of the most iconic beauty compani...es in the world. She was 37 when she sold it, stayed for 22 years, then eventually pushed out of the business that carried her name. She waited out a 25-year non-compete, and on the day the clock ran out, she launched Jones Road—at 63, with six products, no outside investors, and a completely different playbook. Bobbi shares: What it really costs to sell your name (and whether she’d do it again) Why getting fired from the brand she built was the best thing that ever happened to her The difference between building something massive and building something that’s yours The social media strategy behind Jones Road and why it works The leadership lesson she’s still learning at 68 and what confidence means after decades of trying to be someone she’s not Have you ever built something—a business, a career, an identity—and had to walk away from it? What did starting over teach you? Tell us in the comments. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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I am so happy to have you. I feel like this has just been a really long time coming.
Yes, we've been courting a long time.
Actually, you walked out of an elevator at some Forbes or Fortune thing where we both got awards,
and I was trying so hard to get your attention.
You were just so busy.
I was just like, let's go.
Let's get in and get out.
Well, honestly, I'm so excited to speak to you because when I think about the arc of a career,
someone who has been successful, like you are just, I mean, first of all, you're the pinnacle.
And I really want to make sure that we can have a brilliant and,
honest conversation today because I really feel like you have lived it in so many ways.
And what's so extraordinary about you is obviously you built Bobby Brown into a billion dollar
brand. Not by myself, but yes. Not by yourself. I love that you say that. But you did. I mean,
it's your namesake brand. Right. It was a billion dollar brand. You sold it to Estee Lauder.
25 years in a non-compete. And on the day that your non-compete expires, you launch Jones Road.
Yes. Congratulations, by the way. I think that you were 60. I think that you were 60.
when you launched Jones Road?
62, 63, which is the age that most people are thinking about retiring,
but you've called it a new beginning.
And so I wanted to start there because I wonder so much,
and it's something I think about all the time,
like where my ambition starts and where it ends.
Have you always been ambitious?
I don't know if I've always been ambitious.
I mean, I was the kid that had the lemonade stand.
I sold jewelry in my basement when I was a kid.
So I've always been like that.
And I come from a family of entrepreneurs,
or is my Papa Sam, who came from another country and then built up a car dealership,
I saw the way he worked.
And, you know, I wasn't great in school, so I wasn't interested in normal things,
like being an accountant or, you know, money manager.
And I just found what my passion was, and I followed it.
I mean, I'm going to label you ambitious because I feel like it's something that,
specifically for women, there can often be negative connotations.
And I wonder if being called and labeled ambitious at the age of,
of 68, which you are now, is the same way and does it show up the same way from 28 to when
you're 68? Well, the truth of the matter is, I don't see age. I really don't see age. There's
some very young people that are super smart and accomplished, and there's some older people that are
not. So I don't see age. I don't think of myself of a woman of a certain age. I don't think of
myself as a female founder. I'm a founder, and I am a woman, and I have figured things out. I'm
also a wife, a mother and a grandmother. And it's like how I'm figuring out how to do it all at the same
time, still figuring it out. I feel like so many people look at your journey now, the fact that you
have had this second coming and they really think of it as so inspiring. I know I certainly do.
But is there something that is almost condescending in that given that you're having all of this
success. You've clearly engineered it that way. Is it the same as a young founder being called
like smart and inspiring, or are you just doing what you're doing?
You know, I just do what I do and I don't think about it a lot.
You know, and I don't even read the articles that are written about me or my journey.
None of them?
Some of them I do, and they're really, really good because, you know, it's been how many years?
There's so many of them.
So when someone says, well, that was good, you should listen to it.
And then I do.
But, you know, I'm always on to the next thing.
I just have so many things I'm interested in.
I'm incredibly curious.
and I'm not afraid.
So I guess, you know, you put the two things together.
Well, that's the big one.
I mean, curiosity and a lack of fear, that will really get you somewhere.
So what was it all about launching Jones Road?
Because at the end of the day, you don't need the money,
and you certainly don't need the accolades.
You're not proving yourself.
So tell me, like, why would you go again at, you know, in your early 60s?
Well, when I left Bobby Brown Cosmetics, I was 59 years old.
My kids were out of the house.
And, you know, I either quit or got fired. It's all in the memoir. I got fired, which is a good thing. And I did know what I was going to do. It was the first time in so many years when we sold Bobby Brown Cosmetics to Estee Lauder, my husband and I were 35 years old, had two kids. Now we have three. We didn't know anything. And when they asked us to sign a 25-year non-compete, I was like, I'm not going to want to work in my 60s. I mean, come on. Well, guess what? I didn't know what I was going to do.
thought, I'm done. I'm done with makeup. I'm done with beauty. I did that. And I started doing a lot
of different things. We built a hotel together, my husband and I, a wellness brand, a line of glasses.
I just kept doing things. And then I just didn't feel done. I just didn't feel done. And more important,
I had an idea. I had an idea. I mean, I had an opportunity to go in and fix a very large brand,
which was Avon. And luckily it didn't work out, because I would have been miserable.
right? I cannot, I cannot work in corporate anymore. No, and I also don't see you as, like,
because you so go against the grain in everything that you're doing, that feels really
different from who you are. Except what excited me is to go in and shake it all up.
Like, I love the stories of the women because everyone has stories. I loved reading your story
where you came from. You just kind of put the pieces together. And the Avon ladies have a lot of
stories. And I thought that would have been. Well, the Avalon ladies, they were the original.
They were. Probably the first entrepreneurs, legally working entrepreneurs.
that I knew.
Yeah.
You know, because everyone had an Avon lady in their street.
But you didn't choose to do that.
You chose to start again and go on your own.
So just to contextualize this for people, in 1995, you sold Bobby Brown to Estate
order.
Yes.
You were 37.
You sign a 25-year non-compete at that time because you're like, I definitely don't
want to work in my 60s.
What would you tell yourself now if you could go back about what you were actually signing
away?
I would do things exactly the same way. I really, I don't have any regrets. And by the way, I stayed with Estee Lauder 22 years. How many people sell a business and stay? I mean, not for 22 years.
Right, 22 years. It's a long time. Yep. So it was great until it wasn't. But then when I was finally had a, you know, a clean slate, I had a, you know, piece of paper. I'm like, well, I don't know. So what did you think about the deal when you were signing it? Did you just look at the money and the opportunity and say, this is Estee Lauder and this.
70 odd million dollars here and those two things make sense. What was it? And, you know,
one of the reasons that we wanted to sell the company is, you know, we had two kids. My husband
and I had a, you know, lived in the suburbs. We had this great life. We would go back and forth
to New York events and happy to come home to our home in New Jersey. And we just wanted, like,
to continue having this great life while growing the business. We didn't know how to grow a business
back then. I mean, being at Estee Lauder for 22 years is quite an educational.
I learned so much you can't even imagine.
So you don't have any regrets.
I don't.
I don't have any regrets.
But you were fired and there was a moment where obviously it stopped being fun.
You stopped learning and there must have been something where you were like, I've got to get out of here.
Well, the two years before were pretty miserable.
Up until then, you know, there's, look, nothing's easy.
Business isn't easy.
Relationships aren't easy.
When Leonard Lauder was in charge, I always had him.
I could always just call Leonard and he would say, okay, we'll figure this.
We got it. So he was really my mentor.
And that stopped happening.
And it stopped happening. And, you know, the most important thing to understand, things change.
Even the way things are now are going to be totally different in six or eight months.
You have to be able to kind of go with the flow. And I like change. I think it's exciting.
There's a part in your memoir, which I kind of remember reading. You said that you were
called upstairs and unceremoniously just told you were no longer in charge of the brand that you built.
can you just take me in that room and explain to me like what that felt like?
Sure. So I had just gotten back from the UK celebrating 25 years of Bobby Brown.
Timing.
Right? And came back and I thought I was called to the principal's office to say we found a couple
candidates that's going to help you lead the brand because we didn't have anyone.
And we went to search and I never heard anything.
So you were the like acting CEO?
Well, no, I've never been a CEO in my life.
But no, there was someone that was there who was like in between.
He ran the business.
He ran the business, but he wanted to leave as soon as we found someone.
And I went up there.
I thought they were going to hand me all these beautiful, you know, resumes and basically sit down.
And I said, what's going on here?
And she said, we are canceling your work contract.
And I said, you're firing me.
She said, no, we're not firing you.
we have a new offer for you.
And she handed it to me.
And I said, I'm not opening it.
She goes, you have to.
I said, no, I don't.
You're firing me.
And I walked out.
When I walked into that elevator and pressed the button, it was the 42nd floor.
I've never felt so much relief because all the things I was angsty and worried about because I felt the brand falling apart for different reasons went away.
Until I got to the bottom and I was like, uh-oh, now what?
uh-oh, what just happened.
And my first two thoughts were my driver, Fred's going to be out of a job because I'm too cheap to pay.
And the second thing was, he was part of your package.
Yeah.
And the second thing was, oh, my God, what am I going to give to all the girls for Halloween?
Because I always had thousands of girls come to my house for lip gloss.
So those are my two first worries.
And then I called my husband.
And he came in and he said, I'm so glad I've been waiting a long time to get you back.
I don't know if I want to knock on your door at Halloween,
if I need to go and get your husband out
and have the separate conversation with him,
or I need to understand what was in the envelope.
Did you open the envelope?
My husband opened the envelope,
and the offer was for the same or more money
that I would be on call and I'd be the face of the brand,
but not in the day to day.
A face.
And everybody tried the face,
and everyone tried to talk me into taking this large amount of money,
and I just wouldn't.
I just wouldn't.
Can I ask you a bit about,
the money because of course you got a bunch of money when you first sold the brand, right,
when you were in your 30s. I think it's like 70-ish million. Then I'm assuming you would have
had a contract that kept you in that brand for the next 22 years, right? So you had a percentage buyout.
Yeah. You had a percentage buyout. Yeah. So you sold the majority or you sold everything.
We sold everything. You sold the lot. So your compensation annually was linked to how well the
business was doing. Well, there was a salary and plus. And plus. Okay, so that kept you there for the 22 years.
No, that didn't keep me there for the 22 years. What kept me there was I loved what I did. And it was my brand,
even though it wasn't. Even though it wasn't. And the deal that they offered you on what essentially
became your exit was not something that you wanted to do. That wasn't the company you wanted to be part of.
Not even like a nanosecond. And when they told my husband, we would like buy you.
Bobby to be available, but if the teams call her and ask her what she thinks of a certain launch,
she can't tell them she doesn't like it. So, you know, so it was rough. It was emotionally hard
and I had to work really hard at my self-esteem, you know, because you feel like a failure. I don't
care who you are. You feel like a failure. You're embarrassed. And, you know, I didn't know what I was
going to do. And it wasn't about the money. It was just like, who was I? This was, you know,
this business was older than my oldest son. Wow.
And you were embarrassed.
I was embarrassed, sure.
And I was triggered every time I saw the logo.
I was triggered.
Because this is what people don't really understand.
You know, you owned that company.
That was your logo.
That was your graphic designer friends that made that logo that belonged to you
before you sold the business, the brand and all that is to Esté Lord.
So there is an emotional process.
Did you have to agree?
I did. I did. My friends came over for two, like literally the first two days. We drank a bunch of tequila and I cried and they listened. And then I just started making phone calls and going out and I didn't have a car in my driveway. Like I had to take an Uber. Fred was gone. Fred was gone. And, you know, I think I tried to take the train once and I said, forget that. Like, I really wanted to be normal again. Like, I can't describe it. I wanted to be normal. I felt like I was on a treadmill for 20-something years. I knew exactly what I was.
doing every day for six months, eight months. I knew where I was traveling. I knew the hundreds of
people makeup artists were coming in. I knew all of a sudden I had nothing except my own brain.
Did you feel like you had got what you deserved from that brand? Yes, 100%. 100%.
Well, that's wonderful. I got so much from it. Honestly, my experiences, everyone likes to talk about
the last couple years because they like, you know, there's not really dirt. It's just the truth.
but for most of it, it was magic.
I mean, it was magic.
Leonard Lauder used to invite us to all of his events.
We'd sit at his table and sit with Elizabeth Hurley and Hugh Grant and Helen Gurley Brown.
It was just unbelievable.
It was unbelievable.
It was unbelievable.
It was great.
Yes.
You know, that company.
And I actually love that you say that because I think that sometimes, you know, it's a bit like a relationship.
Like the end goes bad.
And you can think of it like a failure.
But you had all of these like amazing years and arguably built something and did.
something that you needed order for.
So it's like a double-edged sword.
And I get that the end was unceremoniously and badly handled.
But it's like you did have this incredible thing.
And you built this amazing brand.
And I was so lucky that I got to see Leonard before he passed away.
Oh, I'm happy about that.
So we had a three-hour lunch and, you know, it was the most incredible conversation.
And I'm just really, really lucky that I got to do that.
I mean, it's interesting how you speak about that time because I certainly know,
a lot of people that have sold their companies
and could never get on the side of the decision that they made.
There was a piece of them that they never really sold it, right?
Like they never sold it in their heart.
They took the money, but they believed that the brand was still there.
Oh, I thought it was still mine.
You did?
Sure.
And were you in a position?
Like, were you calling the shots for the majority of that 22 years?
Talk to me about what that relationship really looked like.
For the majority of the time I was in charge, you know, until it became definitely
more corporate and there was a new leader and things just were not about supporting individual
brands and founders. And, you know, that's what they wanted and that's fine. First of all,
if I didn't get fired, I'd still be there miserable. So it's really good that it happened. And,
you know, it wasn't easy. I didn't just walk out and say, oh, I'm going to start another brand. You know,
I had a literally emotionally detach. Detach. It was hard. It was really hard. So,
What does it feel like now when you see your name on those products like everywhere?
I don't have an affinity at all. It's not the brand it was. It's not what I would have wanted to make it into.
When I was leaving, before I left, I wanted to turn it into something, which kind of is Jones Road.
I kind of wanted to just turn it clean and be a little cooler and, you know, less makeup and, you know, didn't happen.
They went in different directions. And that's, and honestly, it's fine.
I don't spend a lot of time talking about the brand.
You know, I don't wish any ill on them.
It is what it is.
And I'm, you know, mostly so so elated and excited that I have Jones Road, which is my passion project.
But you don't regret having sold your name.
I don't.
I don't.
Wherever I go in the world, you walk into the best places, right?
The best beauty halls, the best apartment stores.
You will see a Bobby Brown.
there must be something that that trick, I mean, it's your name.
I kind of go the other way. I don't like to deal with it. You know, I mean, it's, it's, it was a time and it was an
amazing time. My memories and my posse and the people I met, you know, we still talk to each other.
Like, do you remember, you know, it's not the same. You know, people send me things like, you know,
like, have you seen this? But, but honestly, I just, I don't need to say something not nice about anyone.
Fair. I mean, because you've well and truly moved on. I did. I really did. Congratulations for that,
because I think it is such a difficult thing to do. Success, baby. When you have success, it's easy to
move on. It's like, that's the thing. Success will figure out all your problems, right? If you had a little
fledgling brand that none of us cared about, that might be a little bit different, but you don't.
You have Jones Road. And that's what I want to talk to you about. So you had this charm necklace
that was engraved with the date of your, that your non-compete expired. It's right. It's a lot.
It's an ampersand, which means and, and I put the day the non-compete was up, because four and a half years to someone that has no patience and gets bored really easily.
I get bored constantly, which makes no sense because I'm so busy.
But I waited four and a half years, and I did a whole bunch of projects in between, and then just started questioning what the clean makeup market was.
So tell me when did the thinking start in terms of because you're doing all of these other projects.
that are outside the beauty space.
When did you make that decision?
I'm going back into beauty.
I realized I missed it.
Like one day I put together a portfolio.
This is what a, you know, a nerd I am.
I put a portfolio together and called agents in New York.
And no one, and I went in and I walked into these offices
with these 24-year-old kids and they looked at me like, you know,
I'm like, okay, I'm not going to go back to be a makeup artist at 60.
It's not going to happen.
You really did that?
100%.
Shut up.
You did.
I did with my jeans and my sneakers.
No, why?
Why wouldn't you just call all your famous mates and be like, I want to start doing your makeup?
I just, I wanted to, I just kind of wanted.
She's humble.
I am, I'm humble and I'm not.
So I did it and, you know, nothing, it was, it was not a, didn't feel right.
So then I came home and started thinking and I'm like, I really miss makeup.
I miss beauty.
I have a photo and a TV studio in my town that my husband built.
And so I just started doing shoots.
And then I met someone who I thought.
we could like make a couple products together.
And I just wanted to see what was possible.
And we played around in the lab.
And we came up with this crazy little balm, which is called miracle bomb.
And it is a miracle.
I'm telling you that I am addicted to that stuff.
Like you just gave me a lovely bag and I went through it all,
even though I own like maybe 20 of those around the place.
I was like, is there a miracle balm in there?
I want to understand a bit more about your mindset as you were in this non-compete.
because I think you said you were frustrated during the non-compete,
but frustration and readiness are two totally different things.
And I wonder, like, if the weight actually made you better
or better prepared for the moment that you found yourself in
when you launched Jones Road.
I'm someone, if someone says it can't be done, I say, yeah, right.
And I figure it out.
So I knew I couldn't launch anything.
So I'm like, all right, I'm just going to make a really good brown,
I shadow or pencil and I'm going to sell it on Etsy.
And no one's going to know.
Okay, that didn't happen.
And then I got the name, nameless.
He said, why don't I launch a brand and let no one know what's behind it?
I got the name, but my husband is like, that's ridiculous.
He stopped me.
And then, you know, he said, just wait.
Just wait.
He's an attorney also, a real estate developer.
Literally, just wait.
And he don't have a choice.
And he's a developer.
So, you know, he likes doing new things, but he's very,
sensible. And so I said, okay, I'm going to wait. And then I had this idea and did the math,
figured out, you know, what I would need to get it done. And we launched with a few products.
I mean, this is what I love about you, because you started Bobby Brown in the good old days with a
lipstick, Bergdorf Goodman, makeup counters. And then you started Jones Road with a website and a TikTok account.
And it's just like the two things are just so far away from each other.
What does each approach really tell you or teach you about where the customer is at?
And what have you learned about the customer that you couldn't have understood, like,
almost the first time around?
Well, it's amazing because I used to sit in meetings and my, you know,
marketing people would come to me with consumer insight.
Right.
And I was like, as they do.
Right.
And who are these people sitting in a room getting paid $10, you know,
to tell you what they like or don't like?
But with the internet, you could just write on ask and you know everything.
When we launched Miraclebaum, people were saying, oh, there's not a lot of color payoff.
And I realized, you have to break the seal.
So we did a whole campaign, hashtag break the seal.
You push your finger through and people were putting their palms through.
And we had to say, no, no, no, just your fingers.
And so I have instant feedback.
Like, I love data, but I also have this creative brain that I like putting the two things together.
Like, I know what women want.
was there any trepidation about you going on social in that way?
Like, I have still not found my feet in TikTok and I'm 43.
You were doing this at 63.
So, like, what was in you that just was like,
I'm going to go on and sit there and start?
Because you went against the grain.
You actually didn't join in with what was happening in the beauty and the makeup space.
You were like, I'm going to be Bobby.
You, like, did the same thing that you did back in the 80s
because everyone was doing full face.
like big Mac crazy like, you know, fully glammed, fully contoured faces.
And you were like, I'm going to do an actual nude lip.
I'm going to work with the face that's there.
What you don't know about me is when I sit in a room and all these brilliant people tell
me what they think, I just get so bored, my eyes glass over.
But then I think about, oh, we should just do this.
Like that's how I operate.
So even, you know, yes, oh my God, how are we going to do a TikTok?
We have to get, you know, an agency of this.
I'm like, no.
my son took a phone. He said, here, mom, go. I said, hi, it's Bobby. I'm new here. What do you want? I, you know, I'm not the TikTok person who's watching and what do you want to know for me. And people went bananas. Oh, my God, I feel, you know, so tired. How do I not look tired? They just went crazy asking me questions. Like, I like, I like, I like, I like, I'm like, I just lean in. And when I get bored, I stopped doing it.
And was there any fear at all? Because when you've come from the safety of this kind of like giant company, right, Estee Lorde, you've got all the kind of protection, the good, the bad, the ugly, but you have this sort of moat and this competitive moat. Was there anything that for you, you felt, I'm really vulnerable? I'm like me, I'm out of my own. I'm in this big new world of like social media. Was there no fear that crept into you?
Well, right before we press the button and launch Jones Road, I had this weird feeling.
I'm like, uh-oh, what if I'm a one hit wonder?
Uh-oh, but it was too late.
I was about to press the button for it to go live.
So I get really excited.
I get over-excited on things where I'm like, oh, my God, this would be so great.
Why don't I do this?
And I do a lot of it.
And so I never think about, uh-oh, what if it doesn't work?
I don't think about it.
No, I didn't think about it.
And, you know, what if people think, you know, I'm a one-hit wonder?
What if there's no payoff?
And you know what?
I liked it.
I liked the logo.
I thought it was cool.
I liked all these things.
So you were really betting on yourself?
My gut, myself.
No, myself, by the way, means my team.
So I've written 10 books.
I don't know how to type.
All right?
So I have figured out how to get things done.
I am now all into Claude.
And I'm like trying to figure out how to get photos.
So I just call my assistant and say, here there's 12 photos.
can you please put them and make this deck so I could explain to the marketing team what I really
want to do here. And you kept the brand really simple, right? Because you launched with such a
limited number of skews. You didn't launch with investors. You didn't go out and raise capital.
You didn't hire like, you know, big fancy, schmancy CEO. You didn't go for a flashy announcement.
Why did you start small? Because it just makes sense and it's easier. It's digestible.
I think a lot of people want to start when they don't know what they're doing and they just, they don't, they
just, they mess up so much. They invest too much money. They raise too much money. They don't know
what they're doing. And they don't even know what the most important thing is. You know what the
most important thing in a makeup company? It's so simple. Did the makeup? The product. Yes, but people
forget about the product. It's not the packaging. It's not the market. It's the product.
If people like the stuff, it doesn't matter if it's in a Ziploc bag or a fancy jar.
I think that what's happened and largely owing to social media,
is that people think the marketing is the thing.
They think the social, they think the influence strategy,
the launch event is the thing.
And I'm like, guys, that's not the thing.
Like figure out, like make a product that people absolutely love.
That solves your problems.
Exactly.
I mean, you know, our foundation that we launched,
which I never could have launched this foundation at a big company,
it's called WTF.
What the foundation?
Because when I was putting it on my face, I'm like,
oh my God, I look like I'm not wearing anything.
So WTF. I mean, that makes total sense. No, you could never have launched. Certainly not a order.
Never. Never. And all, you know, people said, okay. And that was how we, that's how we decided.
There were no teams, you know. So, so tell me, what are the biggest lessons? Like, when you look at
what you had done, what you built over there with your team and what you've got now, what,
like, as you kind of take a seat back, like, what do you say to yourself? Because I think that
what my audience has, right, is they've got dreams and hopes and ambitions and they want to do
their own version of what it is that you do. And so I'd love to know having the benefit of hindsight
because nobody's built two billion dollar brands like this. What would you say to them that the
big lessons are? Breathe, go slow, be thoughtful and surround yourself with the right people,
which is the hardest thing, for example. You know, for example. So, you know, I made sure that I,
I always had my partner next to me, which is my husband.
You know, not an involved person.
He's the chairman of the board, but he's always been there next to me.
And he's the one that says, so that's part of my posse.
And then I always need someone to help fix my, you know, digitals and my, you know, my, all the things that we're working on.
The things you don't know.
The things I don't know, you know.
And then you need people around you that believe in you and that aren't afraid to tell you what they think.
Like, I don't want people just say, oh, yes, Bobby.
No, I want people to say, I don't know, are you sure people really need one more?
Because I have so many ideas for products.
But I need someone to say, okay, we can't have five different things that does the same thing on your face.
And who do you count on for that?
Like, what does it look like?
It's your husband.
What type of people have you surrounded yourself with?
Right now, it's a lot of it is our son, who's a CEO, his wife, who's that had a brand.
Oh, wow, this is a family business.
It didn't set out to be.
It's just the way it is.
I mean, I have people around me, my makeup artists and all the Jones Road stores.
I mean, they're number one.
I go right to them and say, what do you think?
And I have women of different ages, different skin colors.
So I know, like, we have a new concealer that's coming out next year.
It's not even named.
It is like night and day, how not to look tired.
But I, you know, there's 30 colors.
They've got to be the right colors.
So I'm using all the different people in my, you know, in my network.
By the way, when I started the first line,
you know who my people were, nannies.
I would go to the park with my kids,
and the nannies would be from all over the world.
So I'd say, can you try this lipstick?
Oh, you know, your skin's dark, but your lips are pink.
Well, you have dark lips.
And I would, like, figure out how things looked on different people.
That's why one lipstick never looks the same on any two people.
It's so true.
So when you were at Lauder, of course, when you're going through a product cycle,
you've got layers of people, you have consultants,
and you've got months of planning.
and obviously at Jones Road, I'm assuming it's very, very different.
It is.
I read that you're launching 14 products this year.
We made a mistake.
We really made a mistake.
I feel so sorry for my team.
I feel sorry for my team just getting all the things.
It's not, it's easy for me.
So what did the old corporate processes perhaps teach you and what were they just in the way of?
Right.
Well, that's a really good question because I learned so much being there.
But the most important thing I learned is what is not important to do.
Like we launched Jones Road.
We didn't have a big party.
We didn't have little bags with, you know, ribbons on them.
We didn't have a fabulous dinner where people walked in and twirled.
We didn't do that.
We just got the product to all the editors, to my F-O-Bs, my friends of Bobby.
And we just started the process of people, oh, my God, I love this.
Can I have more for my sister?
Can I have another one?
And then we knew we had something.
And, you know, we weren't in a rush.
Like we didn't have anyone breathing on our necks to say,
We need these numbers.
But guess what?
Everything blew up.
I mean, our first year, I was hoping to do a million dollars.
We did 18 our first year.
Wow.
We doubled that the next year and the next year and the next year.
So.
Crazy.
And right now, things are not doubling.
And it's okay.
Right.
I know enough that with five years, now I've got to look at everything.
We are all looking at everything.
Okay, what's working, what's not working.
It's fun.
It's like kind of rebuilding, you know,
while you're building. I'm not afraid of it. You're not afraid of it. No. You know what I am afraid of?
Tell me. Not having something fun to do. That's the only thing, you know, the only thing that I ever
think about. Like, what would I do if I didn't do this? I don't know. I'd have to think of something else.
I mean, I'm pretty sure you're right. You would think of something else. Yeah, but I happen to love what I'm doing now.
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So tell me, when you think about this brand, what did you want? Like, what was,
What was in your mind that you were like, okay, what itch did you have left to scratch in the beauty world?
I wanted to teach women that you could wake up, you know, after yoga and put on your hair and a ponytail,
put a really nice sweater on, whether it's the row or whether it's, you know, Uniclo, doesn't matter.
And you could put your makeup on so you just look pulled together and feel good so you can go on with your day.
Like, that's how I live my life. I want things simple. I don't like complicated.
And what about your business aspiration?
You must have had something in your mind that you thought, I still have it in me and I believe
that I can create better products.
I really just, I mean, honestly, forget everything I am.
I am someone, I'm a makeup artist and I understand how makeup should and could look on the
skin.
Like that's to me is the ultimate of who I am.
All these other, you know, creative things that are involved in business things.
I'm involved in both and I'm good at both, but I'm really good at formula.
And you didn't think I am Bobby Brown who does billion-dollar brands and I'm going to do another one.
No, that's not who I am.
Really?
I don't think that way.
And as a matter of fact, I said, I think, to Financial Times that, no, I do not want to build another billion-dollar brand.
Well, what are you going to do?
You're going to have to close it because you're on your way.
And a few of my finance friends said, don't ever say that again.
And yes, we are on our way.
I mean, you really are.
There is no arguing that.
No, we are.
The math is what it is.
Right.
You're going to build your second billion dollar beauty brands.
Possibly.
And by the way, along the way, everyone in their uncle is launching brands.
And I'm like, that's okay.
It doesn't make me, it doesn't like scare me.
And yes, there's room for everyone.
Mm-hmm.
You know, Jones Road is my aesthetic.
It's the way I think people look good, but other people have different aesthetics.
Well, I love that you talk about aesthetic because I think,
for me, you know, before it was ever cool, before anyone was talking about embracing your skin
and clean beauty and skin first, like that was always your aesthetic. That was your vibe.
That's how you did makeup. You owned that. So where did that belief come from? Where did that
intuition come from? It didn't come from anything inside. I just thought people looked better.
Right? I just thought people looked better. I remember, you know, we were shooting a big campaign
for the old brand and this girl had all this makeup on and we were shooting it. You know,
you had to do it for the lighting and to sell all the products.
And then after the shoot, she washed her face, put her hair in a ponytail,
came back and said, goodbye, thank you.
And I said, oh, my God, sit down.
And we shot her after she washed her face.
That she could be in a Jones Road ad today.
She looks so much better.
You're like anti- makeup or worse.
Kind of.
Kind of.
I mean, I buy all this makeup on Instagram that looks so interesting.
I get it.
I'm like, it doesn't feel good.
It looks terrible on my skin.
So, you know, but again, that's just my.
my aesthetic in my opinion.
I drink my own Kool-Aid, what can I say?
I think what's really interesting is that you've clearly had a point of view your whole career
and that doesn't seem to have veered off.
And while you and your style and your aesthetic really hasn't changed,
but all the business mechanics and the way you bring it to customers
and the way you've packaged it and the way you deliver it from a marketing point of view,
all of that has shifted.
But the core of what you do.
The core is the same.
I am the same person I was.
Your principles are the same.
My principles are the same. I'm the same person I was in middle school that I am today.
You know, I'm more confident. Do you know why? Because I figured out what confidence is.
What is it? It just means you're comfortable in your skin with who you are.
Because then, you know, you could walk in a room and be yourself. It's just, it's the only thing that works.
I tried to be other people and it did not work. So why do you think so many of us struggle with confidence?
You know, you've been surrounded by women. You are, women are your customers.
What have you seen and why do you think that's such a huge struggle still now?
Well, I think we're all human.
And, you know, I don't, I've never seen an little teeny finger full of you not being completely
confident and comfortable in your skin.
And I'm sure you are because you are human.
I am.
Right?
No.
But I mean, you know, I've worked with some of the most successful women and, you know,
politicians and movie stars and everyone has that.
And, you know, what you bring, what you bring to a role.
room when you walk in, you don't just get there, right? We have to wake up in the morning and who knows
if we slept or didn't sleep our kids, a fight with our husband, you know, we're going through
something, we're menopause, like there's, we just had a baby, divorce. We're human. So it's like,
what do you do with that? I understand that. And makeup is a way to kind of put it all together.
So you do feel your best self and you can walk in the room and be your best. Could you have done
Jones Road and have the success that you're having with it now had you not had the Lord
I learned so much. I really, I learned. So I had a CFO who's still one of my dearest friends who
would come into my office and I'd say, that was a good launch. We sold all this. And he'd say,
well, actually, we did. But look at what happened to our regular business. It went down. And now
we have three or four million dollars we have to make up. And I'm like, what does that mean?
And David would say, you know, one of your bronzers at the time sold for a million dollars.
He said, we need to make up three or four million dollars. I said, then I'll give you four new colors
of bronzers. We have the packaging, we could turnkey it. And we did it. But that's how I learned
listed because someone, because you had somebody in the business, explaining what was happening.
Because not all launches are created equal and success isn't always success. And if it's
eaten another part of the business. And by the way, I don't feel bad that I don't know things.
I just like to ask questions so I can't understand it. Bobby, say it more about that.
Yeah. It's huge. It's huge. Things that I think plague specifically women that if we
Don't feel like we have all of the answers.
We don't feel like we belong.
So just talk to me about that.
I still don't know what an EBIT is.
I know we have a good one.
I was going to say, you're good, girl.
I know.
And if my son was here, he'd roll his eyes and say,
I've told you, Mom, ten times.
It's the something before.
I don't know.
It means we're doing really well.
And I ask all the time.
So a lot of women are afraid to speak up.
I mean, I have a dear friend who's a CMO of a giant bank,
and she got this job,
and she didn't know anything about money.
in finance. And she had to say, could you explain this to me? And they did. And she says,
I never felt bad not knowing it. I feel better. To me, the truth is everything. So I feel better saying,
you know, tell me, because I don't know this. Explain to me. And learning. And there's no shame in
that. There's a lot of different attributes to leadership and to being able to build something.
But nobody has everything. Like, I am yet to me.
a founder, somebody that started a business, a leader in a business that knows every single
little piece of it. You've got to surround yourself with great people and you've got to know
what you don't know. And you've got to get rid of the people that aren't great because sometimes
you think they're great and it doesn't work out and you try to try to try. And, you know,
someone told me this. If you wake up in the morning, annoyed by someone every single day,
you got to get rid of them. Right? You know, like your problems.
Was that hard for you to learn?
Yes, really hard, especially if I really like someone.
How long would you let them annoy you for?
Well, when you were part of a corporation, you had to write them up 32 times and turn around in that circle and do that and give them feedback.
So that took a long time.
But there were other people to do it?
But were you decisive in making a decision that this is somebody that needs to exit the business?
Or was that hard for you?
In the beginning, it was hard.
And now?
And I blamed myself sometimes.
You know, well, arguably, sometimes we're to play.
Right.
Yeah, right.
I blame myself that I wasn't letting them do their job.
And I realized I didn't like the job what they were doing.
They just weren't right.
What type of leader are you?
You should ask that to my team.
I think I'm a very open leader.
I'm definitely working on my skills, not just telling everyone what I think.
I'm trying to get people to tell me what they think first.
How do you do that?
I've been scolded by my son many times.
because my natural reaction is say,
oh, I can't stand all those things.
Why don't you do that and do this?
But that's not a team.
Creating the conditions for everybody to feed you.
Yeah, right.
But I also love...
But it is your style.
It is my style.
So I'm, you know, I'm never too old to work on my personality.
You're still working on it?
Oh, 100%.
You're still learning to be the type of leader you want to be?
Yes.
And it's hard now because I'm not physically in the office
as much as I used to be.
So Jones wrote, this incredible company that you have now built.
It's privately funded.
It's very clearly profitable.
I'm going to say approaching a billion dollar valuation because I've done the math and I'm like, it definitely is.
If you thought about selling again and if somebody offered you, what would you say?
It depends who it is.
I would like, I mean, look, I want to still do it.
I want to still be there.
I want someone that would see my value.
And then I, you know, then I'd be open to something.
But I haven't met the person or the company yet.
I mean, you can imagine we get a lot of calls.
You know, we're not even in retail yet.
We're in one retail store.
That's why you're getting so many calls.
You've got all the upside.
Right.
No, I mean, seriously, we're opening freestanding stores.
We have 12.
We're opening another 12 to 15.
Our D to C business is still growing.
We're in one retail store Liberty because I have to be in London.
and beautiful store.
Yeah, it is.
Like Tim, I mean, yeah, there's no, first of all,
I love that beauty hall that they created there
because it's just the most unexpected
and it's heaven.
But the building just makes me want to cry.
I know, it's the most beautiful.
I walked in that store and I said to my team,
I said, I want to be number one.
We are.
You're number one in diversity?
Yeah, we're number, well, in beauty, not in the whole store.
Wow.
That's, I mean, that's impressive.
There's some, again, really big brands in that department.
Yeah.
Good for you.
Yeah.
So obviously you're building with no outside investors.
And that gives you an element of freedom, but it also costs you.
And I wonder what it's cost to you.
Well, I always think about it as, first of all minutes, it's on your shoulders, right?
So it's like there's the financial cost.
There's the implications of the pressure from the outside.
You've also got this family dynamic that's in there.
Does that weigh anything on you?
Well, I mean, it's not all upside.
Trust me.
I mean, that's why they call it work, you know, just like raising kids, you know.
trust me, it's not all upside. Kids go through things and, you know, but as far as the business,
you know, having your family involved is amazing. There's a trust there. There's things that you
could say to them and they could say to you that no one else says. It's amazing that you have this
family dynamic. What was that decision like to put your son in as CEO? It wasn't a decision.
That's what's so weird about it. It was he started helping us because he was brilliant at digital
marketing and growth. And then he became the marketing and then he became the CMO. We had other
C-O-O's. We had other people. And one by one, my son knew more simpler how to do things. So he became
the CEO. And, you know, his wife is the head of brand. So that's a little complicated. Two couples
in the company. I mean, listen, I work with my husband. So I understand that dynamic, which is also a
complex one. You obviously have, you know, worked with your husband for a very long time. I mean,
he even negotiated your deal and your non-compete with order back in the day. So why did you want to
get back into business with him and how have you managed to, like, we've even more family members in?
When it comes to Stephen, we just were partners on everything. You know, his buildings, you know,
he's like, what do you think about this tile, you know, for what he's doing? So we're very, we're very,
you know, we're best friends. We're partners on everything.
How long have you been together?
We've been married 38 years.
And, yeah, we got engaged in three months.
So it's been a long time.
And, you know, we're both each other's biggest supporters.
And, you know, he's rightly tough on me.
You know, he is.
I don't know if I'm as tough on him.
If he was sitting here, he might say, yes, I'm equally tough.
Tell me about, like, how is he tough on you?
I always think that my husband's pretty tough on me when he comes to that.
Well, if he ever walks in a room and hears me talking, he'll, you know, he'll, he'll,
make a comment about, why did you say it like that?
So I have to deal with that because we both work at home.
Are you each other's critics?
Yes.
I think I'm less critical of him.
But he's also the biggest supporter I have.
I wouldn't have started the brand if it wasn't for him.
He's like, come on, we could do this.
We could do this.
Here's a, you know, he gave me an office.
It was a closet.
It was a closet.
But still, it was a space.
But still, it was a space.
It was a signal that he believed in you.
You could do it again.
And he gave me the first Jones Road store.
He had a building in our town.
He said, I've got a perfect place for Jones Road.
And, you know, it was a little small.
But then he doubled it the next year because it grew so much.
So he could say the right hand was on the wall.
He's practical.
I need someone practical around me because, you know, sometimes I'm not so practical.
Fair.
Given the benefit of hindsight now, your kids are much older and obviously one of them involved
in the business.
What can you tell me about motherhood?
Ready for the X-Hale?
Yeah. And working how you did. Right. You know, it's amazing that I didn't have a playbook
when I had these kids. People were not starting businesses with kids and, you know, I commuted.
I lived in the suburbs and I would come home and I would, you know, put my scrungy on and my clogs
and go to the after school sports. I was at every single thing that mattered to me because,
you know what, I knew my happiness
was not being, you know,
a working woman, but was being
like an involved mom.
I just luckily had
this passion, which was work.
So I've been able to figure out
how to do both. I'm very scrappy.
I'm pretty organized.
And I'm really good at figuring
things out. Like I figured out
I was going to buy birthday presents every single
weekend for these parties and wrapping them.
And finally I said, this is
dumb. And my answer...
buy him. What did you do?
I went to the local bookstore and I bought five, this is back in the day, five and ten
dollar gift certificates, you know, a couple hundred dollars with them, kept him in the drawer,
you know, two Timmy, happy birthday, love Cody.
Damn right.
Right.
Yeah, I have a toy shop in my house.
I have, I'd have Legos.
Yeah.
Because Legos don't, you know, it's like, it doesn't matter if it's for a girl, a boy,
everyone loves a set of Lego.
And then I have some gift vouchers and it's like, depending on the person, but then you've got
to be real close to me to, you know,
I have a nanny, right?
Oh, you do.
100%.
Because who has the time?
I've got four kids.
There's like two birthday parties a week.
I'm like, we don't have the time.
And I never go.
I never go to the birthday parties.
Did you go to the birthday parties?
What a woman you are.
No, because I wanted to see the other moms.
I did?
I did. Well, first of all, what else was I going to do on a Saturday or a Sunday morning?
Really?
Yeah.
You didn't want to work out or paint your nails?
I worked out.
And I'm, you know, I had babysitters.
So tell me what that looks like, because I feel like, and I've read so much
about you, Bobby. You really had it figured out. So what gives? I figured, no, I was figuring it out.
I didn't have it figured out. I was always figuring it out. You know, I used to hire teachers from my
kids' school to be an after-school nanny, you know, so they could play sports. I had a manny for a while.
I had three sons. I hired a manny. So smart. He was so great. And he just, you know, he took the kids.
I think he coached one of their, I think the third one's, you know, baseball team. And he was in school to
be a teacher, so we helped with the homework. I couldn't help my kids with the homework.
So you didn't do that? Like, I want to know you didn't do. I did not. I did not do that because I
couldn't. How did you make the decisions of like what you would do and what you would have to
sacrifice? Yes. Well, doctor's appointment, I wanted to go. You know, I wanted to go to all the
school sing-alongs. I was the class mom, at least for one of the kids every single year.
I wanted to go on the field trips. You're making me bad. No, but I, but I, but I, you're
I want to know the trade-offs.
I want to know what...
How could you...
You are Bobby Bloody Brown
with your name everywhere.
Estée Lord,
or surely they were like,
you've got to come to work,
Bobby, like, there's stuff to be done.
You know what?
I figured out certain things.
Like, I figured out I could do my job better
if I work from home
on a Monday or a Friday.
And I just started doing it.
No one stopped me.
And then they would, you know,
then I figured out on Wednesdays
I'd have all the creative people
come out to New Jersey
and, you know, meet with me.
and we got a lot done.
And my Tuesdays and Thursdays were bump, bum, bum, back to back.
You were organized, I yet.
Yeah, yeah.
But never really organized.
I just kind of figured it out, you know.
And I would call from the car and, okay, I didn't have chefs.
I didn't have those kind of, you know, people around me.
I would go to Whole Foods.
I would buy a cooked chicken.
I would shred it as soon as I got home, put it in a glass thing.
I would make pasta.
My Italian friends, like, hate when I say this.
I would make pasta drain it.
put it in a glass container.
I would do one thing of vegetables,
and I would just literally start,
when I come home, I could make dinner in 15 minutes.
Just put it all in a pot, you know,
smear it together, and I fed everyone dinner.
You found your way.
I found my way.
You found your shortcuts.
I always look for shortcuts.
You know, like what makes sense?
I talk about that in my book all the time.
I can't wait for your book.
Making shortcuts and accepting help and accepting the tradeoffs.
And I feel like it's so important.
Because none of us can do everything.
You can't.
And for you, like for you, you had a set of principles.
You had a way that you wanted to raise your kids and be around as a mom.
Arguably, your deal with Lorda allowed you to do that and enabled you.
I should say, it enabled you to do it.
But it's really impressive.
And I let a lot of the working women on my, like, small team come in late because their kids had a doctor's appointment or it was, you know, teachers.
Yeah, before that was acceptable in corporate.
Trust me.
I would have gotten in big trouble.
Would have gotten in big trouble.
What has stayed, you know,
because I, again, just kind of looking at your career
and reading your memoir, it's called StillBobby.
Still Bobby.
Still Bobby.
After the sale, after the non-complete,
after losing your name, after rebuilding.
I wonder what stayed the same about you
that you're the most proud of.
Everything stayed the same about me, who I am as a person.
Like who I care about, you know, I'm from Chicago.
I'm from a very good family.
We're very close.
I still pick up the phone and call my 95-year-old Aunt Dallas, my cousin Barbara.
You know, my friend that went through some back surgery, I made sure on the way over I called her.
Like those things, once I do those real-life things, I made sure I connected with the people,
just so I feel like my feet are on the ground and everything's fine.
That's always been important to me.
You know, it's always, I mean, look, I've been in a motorcade at one of the presidential
elections, two motorcades. I've been in the White House. I've, you know, just like you. I'm with
people. I have dinner at Mick Jagger's house. I do all these cool, amazing things, but I still go home.
And I still am exactly who I am. I'm still Bobby. How have you kept grounded?
Because my comfort place is to be there. I'm someone that loves the word comfortable. I love to be
comfortable. And I find that if I'm myself, I'm much more comfortable than if I am trying to
to be someone else. I tried. I did my high heels and my shoulder pads and I'd walk into places and I'd be
like, oh, when do I get these shoes off? You know, this coat is so uncomfortable. Like, I just like
being comfortable and being myself. You're you. I am me. You're literally still, Bobby. I am still. See,
that's why I called it Still Bobby. It's a great name. Yeah. It's a great name. I was looking at the
book's subtitle. It's a masterclass in resilience and reinvention. Two of my favorite words, Bobby.
I wonder which of the two has served you more resilience or reinvention.
You know, I think resilience.
I think resilience is important because it's so easy for you to choose a different path
because something happened to you.
And, you know, it's kind of what you do with that information.
So I think that's, I mean, because I didn't really reinvent myself.
I was kind of the same.
But I'm just, I'm very resilient.
I'm like, all right, that didn't work.
You know, even when I have a fight with someone, you know, you feel bad for a second.
but then I realize, what am I wasting this energy for?
What am I wasting angst and anger on people that don't matter?
Like, there is some good things about getting older, I will tell you that.
And that is one of them.
Yeah.
That was going to be my question because I was going to ask, were you always like that?
I mean, I think I've always been like that, but I've always, you know, been able to run home to my husband or my best girlfriends and say, do you believe, you know?
So, you know, I look, I'm angsty.
I'm not just all smooth like I come across.
I'm angsty and I just have learned what to do with the angst.
So unbelievable.
I mean, I think you're so wonderful.
You really are because it's so seldom that you meet someone
and they're exactly what you thought they were.
Like you are exactly what I thought you were.
Like a really down to earth normal woman.
Like no bullshit.
Maybe that's not good.
I don't know.
I think it is really good.
To me, I think it's really, really good.
Do you ever think about your legacy?
Like, do you think about yourself,
maybe the way other people see you
and like what that projection of you might be,
like, you know, that you're this like beauty, mogul?
Well, I know my legacy because people have told me
and people have asked me forever and ever and ever on it.
And so my legacy is that, you know,
I'm proud of what I think it is, you know,
that I have helped women feel good.
about who they are and in their skin. And men, too. You know, it's not just women. I'm, you know,
I'm surrounded by men in my life. So I know everyone's about the woman, but I'm about the men, too.
So I think my legacy is that I helped people, A, you know, feel good about themselves and realize
that they are capable of anything they want to be capable of. What are you still aspiring to do?
I don't know, and that's what's so exciting. I'm still, I'm still open to things that would make
absolutely no sense. I get calls all the time. What do you think of this? And I'm like,
sounds interesting. Like I answer people that I probably shouldn't, you know, whether it's DMing
or or on LinkedIn. I don't really answer people on LinkedIn, but mostly on DMs. And, you know,
I have quick conversations because you just never know when something is going to, you know,
get my interest. You never know. I mean, I dropped a bomb in bombshell and you when I first met you.
And you might call me back and say, I think it's a really good idea. You never.
know. Are you afraid of anything? The only thing I'm ever afraid of is safety of the people I love,
you know, people's health, like, you know, I know nothing stays the same. You know, my aunt Alice is
95, my dad's 91. You know, you think about those things. And I, you know, I don't think about
getting older until I realize everyone around me is getting older. Like, I guess I am too.
Bobby, are you living the life of your dreams? Oh, no. I am not.
not. I am way above my dreams. I mean, I thought I was going to be a teacher and, you know, be a
suburban mom, which I am both of those things. But I never thought I would be any of the other things.
So it's like kind of cool, kind of crazy. And, you know, my, I know my parents and my husband and my
kids are proud of me and that's what matters. Are you proud of you? I'm really proud of myself,
because I really didn't think I was going to amount to much growing up. So I'm really proud of myself.
And here you are. And here I am. It's just the best.
you're the best. I'm going to take you to some rapid fire
before we finish.
One beauty product
that you take to a desert island.
Is there a mirror?
No. Then it would be
a miracle bomb because you could do five things
with one product.
What if there was a mirror?
Maybe I would need concealer.
I don't know. Fair.
Fair. I still don't know how to use concealers.
You know that. It's the one thing that's like not in my
makeup. Then you probably don't need it.
No. I mean, I've really bad.
dark circles. Like I really do. I have other people that know how to use can see.
What's the best piece of business advice you've ever gotten?
It was from Leonard Lauder. He said never asked for permission, beg for forgiveness.
That's a good one. I mean, Leonard Lord have really had some lines, didn't me?
What a joy to be surrounded by somebody like that. Something you changed your mind about after 60.
Just that I couldn't do something. There's nothing I can't do.
I love your answer.
Except high impact aerobics.
Oh, fuck that.
But I still do it, but I probably shouldn't.
You do do it?
I do it, yeah.
I love that you say aerobics, by the way.
That's just like the best, like, as soon as somebody says that to me, I go like totally
Jane Fonda.
I was in a class in New York City when I first moved there with Madonna.
Shut up.
She was in the back of the class.
I'm like, God, that girl dances amazing.
You're like, oh, it's Madonna.
We didn't know Madonna then.
That's pretty amazing.
And what are your time?
top guilty pleasures.
Caviar, potato chips and French fries and a martini.
I mean, literally, you're my best friend.
What else is there?
Nothing. If I could just sit and ask you 100 more questions with those four things,
I could be here for, done.
That's a good, that was four.
Perfect.
What is a book that changed your life?
Liz Murray wrote a book called Breaking Night,
and it was called From Homelessness to Harvard.
She wrote a book about her life.
Everyone should read it because she'll never complain about anything.
thing. She was drug-addicted parents. She was homeless for years. She had a dollar left. She could either
have a piece of pizza or take a subway. She took a subway for a dollar to a school. Met a teacher,
helped her. She lived on people's couches and ended up going to Harvard. And she's, and now, and she's
my friend. And I know her. Yeah, and I know her. Did you meet a before or after the book?
After the book. Yeah. Yeah. You went after. Yeah. I've been a very, I've been a very bad friend,
though, to her. So if you see this, I really do miss you.
Well, you've got plenty of time, plenty of time for catching up, and you just call it our book, so that's super lovely.
Well, we thank you so much. I loved meeting you. Me too. Same here. Thank you. Thank you.
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