Bachelor Happy Hour - Charity & Dotun: Their Wedding, Miami Swim Week, and Travel — Part 2 | Happy Hour

Episode Date: June 12, 2026

Today on “Happy Hour,” we’re back for part two with Charity and Dotun! We jump right in, kicking things off with all things travel. Who’s type A in the relationship? Then, we g...et into Miami Swim Week and Charity breaks down her experience and her feelings on Miami. We also dive into all things wedding as Dotun discusses his role in the planning process and they both reveal the toughest parts of this journey. Plus, we play a game to test how well these lovebirds know each other. Tune in now and be sure to subscribe! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:01:07 on-air chats. Open your free IHeart radio app. Search Joy 101 and listen now. Joy 101 with Hoda Kotfi is presented by CVS. Dotten and I are back for Part 2 of Bachelor. Happy hour this week. All right time to shut. We don't know. We did just come off a vacation. I don't know. People probably just actually don't even keep up. It's totally fine. I don't know. We did get a Cabo like two, three weeks ago, three weeks ago? Yep. Trip of our life, loved it.
Starting point is 00:01:44 Oh, great. I mean, ate great food. Stayed at the most insane, beautiful resort. Just like a good time for us. Because I feel like we have just been traveling so much. And like, even more so me than Dodd, like, he's with me most of the time, but even, like, separately, like, he's going somewhere. I'm doing something. And I just have not had time to just, like, sit still and be like, I don't want to do anything.
Starting point is 00:02:07 Like, don't, like, you know, respectfully, don't text me. I don't want to answer this. three now. So like we just had like a good vacation where we were just together. Like just breathing and relaxing, eating good and drinking good. So big fan of Cabo actually. Yeah. Yeah. Really big fan. Never been. Yeah. That was it was our first time. Yeah. I've been to every other part in Mexico. Yeah. If you haven't been Cabo, it's like, you wouldn't even notice that you're in a different country in a sense. Yeah, almost.
Starting point is 00:02:43 It's like very lush. Yeah, yeah, exactly. It's very lux. It's like, I've never been to Dubai, but it's like, it's like the North American Dubai, you know? Like honestly. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's great. And so I think this is so funny to talk about because for us, I always ask this when I, like,
Starting point is 00:03:00 talk to other couples or just like trying to understand and learn dynamics. People probably don't realize this, but I did a poll, like, a while back, having people guess, like, who's type of. and who's type B and who's type C. And it's so funny because everyone guessed you as type A and then they guessed me as type B, which is incorrect. I am actually type C and he is type. I say you're like type B recovering into back into an A.
Starting point is 00:03:29 Yeah. Again, it's actually tied with my health, but B, I think because of like, my, unfortunately, like, because my back has changed me and it's turned me into much more of a type B person. Yeah. Like even more than I, yeah. So obviously, like the one of the I always said the big test of life too with couples is like moving in together and traveling. I learned early on. I said, oh, we're going to have to figure this one out really quickly because traveling was such a wake up call for the both of us.
Starting point is 00:03:52 Like traveling together. Like planning, organized. Like it's totally fine getting to the airport like 20 minutes before. Well, not really. But like 30 minutes, 45 minutes before a flight, we don't have to check in a bag. You know, you're just very more like, uh-oh, relax. I come from a military background.
Starting point is 00:04:11 My dad is very like punctual. Like we're not late. We're the family that's just sitting there like wasting time, I would like to say. But I have that ingrained in me. So I'm also an anxious person. So those two.
Starting point is 00:04:27 Would you say that's true? No, he hates this. Is that not true? Like you are very laid back. You're not anxious about traveling. Yeah, I'm not. And I'm saying that part's true. Which part's not true because you're laughing.
Starting point is 00:04:39 I don't know. Tell me more. I think even without me, you're... I am anxious. Yeah. And I am like late now in my life, but I'm saying there's an urge to be like on top of things. So when it comes to, the question is, I think you're more travel planning. I think we're the same.
Starting point is 00:04:57 You just want to be more type A. So I think that's the difference is I accept the type B. Yeah. Whatever. But like, I think you want to be the other type. the difference is I accept, but like, we're sort of the same. Like, I've been peeping. I'm like, there's nothing about you.
Starting point is 00:05:13 It's not like, oh, if I wasn't here, like, you'd be there two hours before. Well, I haven't. But I have a bit of time for my flights and I've been at the airport. But yes, we just had to figure it out early on. He hates this, but it's the truth. Yeah, because I just like to be honest, like true, raw honesty is what I'm saying. It is. I see.
Starting point is 00:05:29 Don't try to create no image. Except, except the fact that I might want to be a type A person, but I'm struggling. I'm very much type C. So that's A and B combined. Yeah. So that's totally a fan. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:05:44 Okay. I just got back from Miami Swim Week. Miami Swim Week was very interesting. I had a great time. S.I. Swim, oh my God, I can't speak. S.I. Swim Show. I did not walk this year. This was my very first, like, swim week.
Starting point is 00:05:59 You know, I'm open to walking, hopefully next year. But, like, I think you definitely need time to prepare. Like, obviously, these girls have been. been training for this. It's just everyone looked phenomenal. It was insane. But I will say, I'll be the first. I did a TikTok on this.
Starting point is 00:06:13 Like, Miami has weird energy. Oh, yeah, obviously. And I'm like, I don't know, but I've been to Miami before. I don't know if it was just, like, heightened with swim week. But there was some strange things happening, and I didn't like it. Yeah. I didn't like it one bit. So I was like, yeah, I got to go.
Starting point is 00:06:27 I could have stayed longer. I actually opted to fly home Sunday instead of Monday because I was like, I'm just very much, like, over it. You know, I came from my purpose. did what I need to do. Enjoyed myself, saw people, met people. But it was enough, you know. I appreciate Miami because they don't pretend to be something they're not.
Starting point is 00:06:47 Yeah. Very clear. Here's what we do here. We're flashy. We have no depth. And we're just here for a good time. And so if you want to go there for two or three days, I think it's fine. Like, you know, but yeah, you can finally live in there.
Starting point is 00:07:01 Yeah. It's not, I don't think it's a great place for the soul. Yeah. I know. I agree. But I do appreciate that you know what you're getting out there. But yeah, that's not a place you can stay too long. No, no, no.
Starting point is 00:07:11 But I did run into a few people from Batch Nation, Jojo. Her and Jordan was there, got to see them. And then Jen walked in Kalani Kinney's Swim Week show. So that was amazing. I did not see her, but, oh, I saw her at SI, but I did not get to see her walk. But we caught up after. And, yeah, I saw her at the SI Swim show.
Starting point is 00:07:33 And then Jess Edwards was there. I feel like I'm missing. I saw Kelly. Kelly was there as well. I'm sure there's like so many other people, but it's just, I mean, there's things happening everywhere, but it was good. There was a good mix of Bachelor Nation people there, but it's definitely different than what I feel like other Bachelor Nation, like, saturated events are. This one's kind of like, for the girls, I would say. Yeah. I tried to get you to come, but there was like no point. He was like, I have not interested in coming. Like, you know, if I was to walk, you'd be there. Like, there's like, there's like, there's like, there's like, there's like, there's like, there's like, there's like, Like, yeah, yeah, yeah. But other than that, there's really not any purpose, I would say. But yeah, it's definitely different than, like, something like stagecoach and, like, Coachella, for sure. Like, that it's like a festival. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:08:19 You know. Exactly. Very more fun, I would say. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm like, trying to. Not as pretentious for sure. Yeah. And speaking up, I'm like, you opted out of stagecoach.
Starting point is 00:08:32 Let the people know why. Oh. I'm kidding. I don't know. I mean, we just didn't work. And like, yeah, I don't know. It's just not, he's also not, I mean, you can be honest. You're not a big fan of country music.
Starting point is 00:08:44 Yeah, yeah, yeah, not a giant fan for sure. But, I mean, I still knew that they had, like, other artists there, but I'm not the biggest country music fan. And like I said, I just came back from Coachella and wherever we did it big and had an amazing time. So, yeah, I'll save my energy for something else as all. But I was surprised. I did get a little bit of form on. I didn't realize, I mean, I knew stagecoach was like the Bachelor Festival. But, like, I didn't realize how many people, like, really actually go, people that I know.
Starting point is 00:09:13 So I was actually surprised. And I know, like, Alex and Andrew were trying to get me to come. Yeah, they're always, like, was, like, trying to get me to come. Yeah. So, maybe next year. Maybe next year. Yeah, yeah, maybe next year. We'll be busy moving into our home.
Starting point is 00:09:28 We'll have time for stagecoach, I few. Yeah. It was a little of a busy. It was. It was a lot. But Stairs coach is fun. That's the thing. It's like I can appreciate that because I'm like,
Starting point is 00:09:38 I grew up in the South. I do like country music, but I'm not like the number one fan of it. But it's just like, I think more of the ambiance of like the people, you know, like being just having fun and being in a well-known group of people
Starting point is 00:09:54 that you can like just, you know, kick it with. And, you know, it's also less pressure, I feel like than Coachella. Coachella feels like the Met Gallo for like TV personalities
Starting point is 00:10:03 and employees. influencers, but stagecoach is just very like more chill, which that part, you definitely can sense the vibe difference. Yeah, I don't know if people know this. I've actually seen some comments on a couple of like festival posts that I've made and they're like, oh, wow, like, does Dotton like go to festivals? Like, oh, I didn't know. Like, is this a one-off thing?
Starting point is 00:10:24 When? People have no idea. I've, like, comments in the past. People have no idea. I've been going to festivals for like a decade. I actually really liked them. And so I actually brought this one along in that journey. too. I didn't think she would like it, you know.
Starting point is 00:10:35 Please. I was like, I don't know. She doesn't like it. But yeah, so now, now with any opportunity to like have a fun festival a couple days, like, we're absolutely there. It's just so free. And the reason why I like festivals, okay, I think like this is a fun conversation. So obviously I'm 6, 7, 6, 8. Oh. I'm very tall throughout my whole life, get a lot of attention.
Starting point is 00:10:56 I'm not someone who particularly wants the attention all the time. Sometimes it's fun. Don't get me wrong. If I don't want it all the time, always eyes on me. And so there's something about festivals. Why are you laughing? I don't know. I'm just on edge.
Starting point is 00:11:06 I'm like, where you're like. I know. You're always like your energy is. No, just go. Keep going. Okay. And so there's something really beautiful about, uh, at festivals, everyone just minds their business.
Starting point is 00:11:15 And like that, I appreciate that. It's like the one place where like I don't feel like eyes are constantly all over me. So like there's something really beautiful and sweet. Everybody's so nice, you know. Yeah. Like you go to like, like, um. A regular concert. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:11:29 Yeah. Like, you know, even like, you know, even like, you know, even like a and like hip hop is like my number one genre but like you know you're trying to get up to the front people are going to me mug you and like we're like get their ego but like that doesn't happen in festivals everybody is chill everybody's so loving and kind and was like yeah come on like you want to come hang out and so um that's really special it's really rare to get that in the world yeah yeah well i've been a little festy dude for a little bit in california you know yeah he's like it's really because i'm like yeah it's like it's like it's like it's like it's
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Starting point is 00:17:04 Okay. What's that? What did that be? What did that be? What do we have coming up? Oh, my gosh. I have no idea. Like, what is it?
Starting point is 00:17:14 Maybe dinner tonight. Yeah. What are you? for dinner. That's got to be it, right? No, the one and the only wedding planning. Let's, honestly, let's put dot on the spot for a little bit because I feel like I'm always the one that's answering these questions. And I want to hear, like, from a male's perspective, how do you feel like your role is in wedding planning?
Starting point is 00:17:35 My role in wedding planning. Just like your take, like, because I feel like it's, you know, very common for guys to be, like, laid back and they don't, I don't want to say they don't care, but it's. It's like they kind of just leave everything up to the... Right. Yeah. I don't know. Yeah, I think, yeah, definitely there's like a, you know, not to generalize, but I just feel like men... Let me not see a man.
Starting point is 00:18:02 Let me just say me. I don't have a lot of strong opinions. It's not like something I was, you know, I'm not like dreaming on my wedding, like a little kid, like a lot of females do. So like, I don't know. Like the main thing is important is like whatever vision charity you might have. then I want that to be executed. So, like, yes, in that sense, I want you to, like, do whatever. Yeah, because she's asked me some opinions, and it's like, it's like, sure, like,
Starting point is 00:18:26 I can force an opinion here, but, like, I sort of don't really mind, right? Yeah. So, like, as long as just things make sense, like, then it's fine. So, you know, it's like, if you wanted to do, like, I don't know, like, crazy neon colors or something and we have, like, matte dresses, then that would be like, okay, maybe that doesn't make any sense. Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, as long as it makes sense, like, then I'm not tripping.
Starting point is 00:18:50 So, but I'm open to. Yeah. And, like, I feel like the thing about charity is charity is always trying to get my opinion on, on things. She wants me, she's, like, forcing a level of involvement. And there's nothing wrong with that. But here's the thing. She has an opinion, and I don't. So it's like, why can't you just go with the opinion?
Starting point is 00:19:07 But she wants to force me. Let's chime in. And I'm like, you know, the total, like, the opposite is, like, wouldn't it be so much worse if, like, I had all these. really strong opinions that were different from me. Like that would be a night and then. I learned from AD. She was like, yeah,
Starting point is 00:19:22 take it up if your man doesn't have an opinion, he's like, that's a blessing. Which I'm like, that should be a good thing. But I think that comes from a place for me because I'm like, even though contrary to popular belief, people might think,
Starting point is 00:19:33 oh, like the world revolves around me. I'm always the one that gets, I get what I want. I'm very considered of like other people. So like I, even though like, yes, the wedding is about, I honestly don't like that saying the wedding's about the bride.
Starting point is 00:19:46 Like I think it's about. us. Like, I think it's about both of us. And I'm like, that day should accurately reflect that. So it's like me trying to be like compassionate and like bring you in because I'm like, oh, I don't want to be the one that's only like executing all these decisions because like you said, it's like I don't want to like, oh, I wish I said something about that or like, you know, I want you to. So even I swear. I promise you. I feel guilty sometimes. I'm like, I am making all these choices. I'm like, please just say like what color napkin or like do you want to print on the napkin. So like it comes from that place. But I do appreciate like,
Starting point is 00:20:15 I think Dot does reflect like a good balance of like he's very laid back. He's very like chill about things. But like he is a clearly he's opinionated. So it's like he will chime in when it's necessary, I feel like. And he has done that. And then we've obviously had like conversations that's been relevant, relevant to our wedding planning journey. That's like, okay, like he's like, well, if you need help there, like I'm here.
Starting point is 00:20:38 Like don't forget about it. And it's like I appreciate stuff like that because it can kind of just like, you know, you're like so locked in, so tunnel vision. and just like checking things off the list, but like your energy is like really helpful for me. Okay. Like in all of it. Not you not like not you discovering this on this podcast. Let's go.
Starting point is 00:20:57 Like yes. Like your energy is really good and it's really helpful. Yeah. And I'm like, I want to ask like to you, what do you feel like has been the hardest part? Of wedding planning. Yeah. The hardest part. gosh, I would say maybe the hardest part is, that's weird.
Starting point is 00:21:25 Like, honestly, the hardest part is less. It's less about wedding. Yeah, yeah. It's more about, like, the guest. Like, I, the hardest part is like, I don't know, weddings. I know that you do it out of love, but it's like, I don't know, sometimes I feel bad, like, you know, like, having a lot of, yeah, you know, they cost a lot of money. And I'm like, I don't, sometimes I just, I think about the guests.
Starting point is 00:21:47 And I'm like, you know, I think about like my friends and stuff like that. I'm like, I just wish there was like an easier way to. Oh, like for them. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You're giving away too much. Not in a bad way. No, no. Just mean in general?
Starting point is 00:22:00 Yeah, in general. Yeah, yeah. You have to take time off work. Yeah. You got to travel usually. You got to do all these things. And so that's hard to like have to sit. But it's not a big thing.
Starting point is 00:22:10 Yeah, it's like it's your day. Yeah, that's a you thing. But I'm like it definitely is like your friends and your family. are like everybody in our lives is so excited you know they're so excited so it's like they wouldn't miss it for the world so like that's something like we just have to like remove ourselves from at time and be like no these people want to like yeah some people probably cut their job to come to know exactly exactly yeah let me try to give a real answer though maybe some maybe narrowing down the guest list that's hard yes was very hard thank you for that that's really hard that's really
Starting point is 00:22:43 hard. Yeah. I hate that part. Yeah. It's like, dude, I even want to like, I know this is crazy, but like, there's many people who have supported us and stay, no, I know. I want to invite randoms even. I'm like, dude, this person that comments on everything should get a different thing. I'm like, that it's always a random person. I do. No, no, no. Yeah, not anyone in particular, but I do. I'm like, dude, so many people have supported and you just feel like a, like a POS, you know. It's like a big home, right? Not everybody. Big heart.
Starting point is 00:23:13 Everybody can come. Yeah. Guestless is a big one. Guestless is really hard and challenging. I say the hardest part for me, it has been guestless or was guestless, way down past that now. I think, like, it's honestly,
Starting point is 00:23:30 it doesn't revolve around other people. It's so interesting. Obviously, I think that's a big piece. It's like when you're wedding planning, something that I told myself coming into all this, is like, you have to make choices that's relevant to just you, and your partner. Like, it's, it's so hard, and, like, people don't realize it.
Starting point is 00:23:46 And, like, I feel like, even me and Dotten were doing things, like, in a non-traditional aspects of our wedding is going to be in, like, non-traditional ways, which might be a shock to people, but it's also just, like, who we are. But it is very hard to just consider only yourself. Because at the end of the day, it is, like, it is your celebration, but you're also hosting, throwing this, like, gigantic celebration where you have to think about other people, you know? Like, it would be totally selfish. It's like, oh, I'm only going to have, like, just the, like, drink that I want.
Starting point is 00:24:14 Like, you know, that's insane thing to, like, you know, like, that's the same thing to say. So I think for me, it's, like, learning to be, like, not, I guess, like, I am selfless person, but, like, making choices and, like, sticking to them, like, not bouncing back and forth. Oh, yes, for sure. Not the yes, for sure. I agree. I agree. No.
Starting point is 00:24:37 The yes for sure. That's crazy. No. No, it's just like... Decision fatigue is a real thing. For sure. How many options? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:24:44 It's like, it's endless. Like, where you can even start? That's what's crazy because I'm like, when it comes to decor and stuff, I'm like, that's been locked in for a minute. Like, I'm not switching up. But it's like the other little things that, I guess, like, elevates the guest experience and like also what we need to have happen for us to feel on that day. It's like, it's a lot.
Starting point is 00:25:05 But it honestly has been like, I think one thing I can say, it's like I'm not. I'm not stressed. Like I'm not like in the dumps. Like I hear a lot of like horror stories about just like brides planning. And I feel like that maybe someone let me know. Is it a bad thing? Is it a good thing? I think it's a good thing because I'm like I feel like I'm not losing sight of what I want the day to be about.
Starting point is 00:25:25 And that to me that's like what it's supposed to feel for me and dot. Like it's not about, you know, do I have a million roses like hanging from the sky? Like that I can have one stem and I'm okay. You know? And I think I don't. want that to ever get lost in this process and I definitely don't want it to get lost on the day of. So I will say that that has been something good for me. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:25:50 Yeah. You agree with that one. I do. Yeah. You love when I say that. It's true, you know. No, it is. Yeah. But we're creeping down, you guys.
Starting point is 00:26:01 It's going to be here rather than later. Truly. Which is like crazy. It's very crazy. And it's like thinking about like wedding too. like, first of all I'm in charge of the cake, so we got that in a lot. He, like, has to say that every year. Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:26:14 We'll, everybody would get the full background of the cake. Okay. But, um, yeah, I think, like, even just going overall about wedding and, like, how we're feeling about it. Someone I asked you that, too, but like, yeah. I just, I realized it recently, you know, because it's like, I feel like we skipped a step, which makes it, you know what I'm saying? You know what I tell people on this? Everything is backwards. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:26:35 It just seems so, like, strange, but, like, it is, like, normal. It's almost like this should be our engagement. Yeah. You should be playing our engagement party. Yeah. Yeah. It's like you skip it. So it's like it creates this.
Starting point is 00:26:47 It's sort of like a false gap. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know, it's not real. We've been dating long enough. We've been engaged long enough. It makes sense. We're ready for it. But there is this false gap where you're like, oh, wait.
Starting point is 00:26:57 You know, it's like, you know, walking down steps. Yeah. You miss one like one step. And then you, oh, shoot. Like just throws you off balance. Yeah. That's what sort of I feel like is happening with the emotions. No, 1,000 percent.
Starting point is 00:27:09 It's so funny you said that because I was like, someone was like, do you, like, are you going to have engagement party? I'm like, you guys, we've been engaged for like three years. Like, we needed. Like, everybody knows that we're engaged, you know? Like, and it's just like at that point, I'm like, that just becomes like extra cost. Like we don't, like, I don't. Thank you. Like, we can celebrate tonight at the bar.
Starting point is 00:27:27 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Let's have a time. But we don't need to have a full engagement party. And there's just like different things that I feel like, like I said, well, you guys will get the full scope later. But like, certain aspects that will not be like traditional. that everyone kind of like goes by step by step leading up to their their wedding day. But I almost like that because I was like how we met, not traditional. Our timeline, not traditional.
Starting point is 00:27:49 Yeah, there's part of it that is. But like, yeah, I just, I kind of like the beauty of that. There's discovery in that and there's growth in that. And it's honestly special. Yeah, good reflection. Yeah. Overall. I'm Cynthia Lois.
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Starting point is 00:32:57 Yeah. But we are going to transition to play game where one of us is going to start a sentence and the other has to finish it. Uh-oh. Which I'm like, this is bound to get dicey. That's fine. Okay, I will go first. If I got arrested, it would probably be for. I know what you're going to say
Starting point is 00:33:19 Oh boy I know exactly what you're going to say I know exactly what you're going to say Being naked in public It's crazy you know that Because that is so far out That you know that tells me that you also know it's true No
Starting point is 00:33:37 You're thinking about it and you know it's true Because that should be so far of your mind No The fact that you know that Like that is You know how crazy that is Because like even me saying that is crazy but I'm like, you know.
Starting point is 00:33:49 You're so fixated on it. I'm not. You're fixated on it. Very comfortable in my home and my space and we live. It's not just your home. Okay. We live on the top floor. So like when I'm, you know, just like sometimes I'm sure you guys walk around your home and it's just freedom.
Starting point is 00:34:06 We have a guest thing with us right now. It's his cousin. And I would never. We have a guest thing with us. Last night we were getting ready for dinner. Door wide open. She was changing. But, but naked.
Starting point is 00:34:16 So how do you? Honestly, I honestly think a lot of, I'll explain that has because. How does it make any sense? That has because, that's not a real word. That is because, I think part of it is because of TV. And, like, we have to change quick. We change in front of people. I think there's a level of comfortability that just got, you know.
Starting point is 00:34:36 But whatever, we don't need to give these stuff. I don't know. I think you're a void and you like it. Okay. Your turn. You have to do the choosing of you. That's crazy. You really, you thought that too.
Starting point is 00:34:46 Keep going. Okay, I should go. Mm-hmm. Okay, I'm doing yours. Yeah, no, you do, you read one. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. Let's see.
Starting point is 00:34:54 The thing I'm secretly competitive about is... Um... Hmm. Being like the... I don't know. It doesn't matter. Being like the funniest person in the room. Um...
Starting point is 00:35:09 It's not even competitive, but like... Good. Do you like to... I feel like you like to, like... Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You like to shine. Yeah. Yeah, interesting.
Starting point is 00:35:18 Okay. I like to shine. Not in a bad, no, it's like, not in like a cocky way. It's just like you are, like, I think you have, like, people put that expectation on you. So I think secretly, like, innately, like in you, you like want to live up to that. Oh, that's deep. Uh-oh. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:35:36 That's deep. Yeah? No, it's definitely a possibility. I'm trying to, like, think about it. I'm like, yeah, like, I guess I would say it's maybe less. about being funny specifically but I do want people to know I guess I'm more than maybe what I look like and that's fair so I want to be able to share something yeah yeah that gives like contrast yeah yeah yeah and humor is an easy yeah
Starting point is 00:36:00 that's a fun one so it's a good answer period it's not bad all right all right my turn um the reality show I'd be eliminated from first is oh I mean almost bachelor's but um are you crazy it's about me I would be eliminated. Oh, that's right. That's right. Sorry. My bachelor, I'm the lead.
Starting point is 00:36:24 What are you talking about? My bad. My bad. Again, that you'd be eliminated from... Oh, so easy. Special Forces. Survivor. Amazing Race.
Starting point is 00:36:36 Okay. Pause. Amazing Race I would actually do good at. Please settle down. I would actually like... That's what the show I actually want to do. I would turn it on. Please.
Starting point is 00:36:44 I am competitive. Don't forget that. But like special forces Yeah, no, that one is like preparing for war I don't know if I would I like to think that I would be up for the challenge But no Like they do some insane things
Starting point is 00:37:00 But Hannah Brown won, so hey Oh yeah she did Yeah, that's crazy Yeah I would say also another one is Temptation Island Yeah, I don't play that Like it's so funny to you
Starting point is 00:37:13 But I'm not going to be no temptress And I'm certainly not going to be watch my man get tempted. We're out of here. Thank you for having all. We'd get there as soon as anybody came out, Charity would be at the door. Like, we're going.
Starting point is 00:37:27 I would have. Okay. Same. Okay, your turn. That'd be your hell on earth. Actually, it is happening. All right. Let's see.
Starting point is 00:37:41 Let's see. The first thing I'd buy if I won the lottery is, Oof First thing you'd buy if you won Well I'm considering the things that you don't currently have But I'm like, what's important to you? First thing you'd buy Mm-hmm
Starting point is 00:38:00 First thing I'd buy if I won the lottery Like, like property Yeah, as I say, I don't think too much into it. Yeah, what makes sense. Yeah Some type of property investment. Mm-hmm. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:38:16 Okay, that was an easy one. Yeah. That's a soft one. Yeah, okay. If our relationship had a warning label, it would say... Chaos. Do not enter. Beware of dogs.
Starting point is 00:38:35 Oh, my God. Okay. I'm going to do like one more. Okay. Please, the app you spend the most time on is. It's Instagram. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:38:52 That's fair. Um And your turn Social media Um One more Do a good one Last one
Starting point is 00:38:58 Let's see The thing I can survive Longest without is Oh you're pretty good No phone But like Maybe not Um
Starting point is 00:39:11 The thing you could Survive the longest without Yeah What can I survive Without I'm thinking of things That like We need in this day and age
Starting point is 00:39:23 I would say your phone Like, you're good, but, like, we, I don't know. Okay, I'm gonna do whatever. Try this one. The phrase I say way too often is. Yep. Yes. Oh, boy.
Starting point is 00:39:39 That was for Christian. Shout out Christian. Okay, we're done. That's an inside joke. Very inside. It's so inside. It's actually a thing. I need to make some content around that.
Starting point is 00:39:48 Yeah. I really need to put people on. But we have done enough yapping for today. This was really fun. I need a break next time. I'm just kidding. You sound like you're having the worst time of your life. And I really mean that.
Starting point is 00:40:01 It's just like this is what we do. We do this for a living. Like this is literally our life. But a long yap. I normally don't yap this long with Rachel. Really? Yeah, no, we've talked. Always talking for hours.
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Starting point is 00:40:36 They turned black. It scared the hell out of me. Evil, wake up. I'm the one that saw the murder take place by Crevecette and DePippo. Anthony DePippo showed no signs of remorse, appearing unfazed after being sentenced to the maximum. I said I'm not guilty. I'll take it to the grave. Listen to the devil's quarry in the bones.
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