Bachelor Happy Hour - Dirty Martinis & French Kissing with Wells Adams! | Golden Hour

Episode Date: December 4, 2024

Today on “Golden Hour, “Bachelor in Paradise” icon Wells Adams is here! Everyone’s favorite bartender is serving up some great advice, hot takes, and so much more. We kick off today’s episode by catching up with Wells. Then, we get into some of your write-ins! Wells is dishing out all the advice on keeping the spark alive in a relationship, how to deal with long distance, and more. Tune in now to check it out, and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is an I-Heart podcast. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, luckily, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend's been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone.

Hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That seems inappropriate. Maybe find out how it ends by listening to the OK Storytime Podcasts and the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts, Politics. On this week's episode, I'm joined by all-time great Hooper and basketball analyst Candace Parker, who gives insight into her candid new book, including why she waited two years into marriage to come out. I never envisioned being with a woman. I'll just be honest.

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You know, lock him up. Listen to No Such Thing on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. No such thing. Welcome back. We're back. Happy Bachelor. Happy Hour's Golden Hour. Thanks you guys for tuning back in. We're so excited to be back. We are so excited. Here's my question. If they are tuning in, if people are listening to this podcast, surely they know where to find us. So when I tell people how to find us, I feel like, well, they already did. But those of you who may not be...

I'm going to give them stick them notes. Really, a stick-um. Here's where we are. We are under Bachelor Happy Hour in the podcast app. And then just search for our show, Golden Hour. Hit the follow button and you won't miss one of these gems that Susan and I come with with. Exactly. If you get lost, you're going to miss it.

I mean, seriously, you'll get notified every time once you. you hit that follow button. But enough of that. Let's get into today. Can we please welcome Wells Adams. We're so happy to have you here, Wells. Oh, ladies, how are we? Aside from the...

We're healing. The facelifts and the boob lifts and the butt lifts and the Brazilian butt. I mean, Susan's boobs are back where they're supposed to be. My skin has come back to the normal size. Our ears are still hurting a little bit, but it's a good day in New York. Wells, we've posted every day of our healing. the girls didn't get that recognition. I don't want to flash the world.

Well, yeah, you put that on only fans. Come on, Susan. Be smart about this. At least monetize this somehow. Absolutely. Susan, listen to me. No. Okay.

It's so good to see you. We want to get started here. We want to talk about a lot of things. But the first thing I want to ask, because it's all about me today, I want to know if there's a golden bachelor in paradise, what do you think about hiring you? me as your assistant barkeep, bartender, bar back, girl with a frilly apron. Talk to us, Wells. Talk to us. Everyone in Bachelor Nation is trying to steal my job. It's a tale as old as time.

I get it. You know what? Listen, first of all, we got to figure out a way to have a Golden Bachelor in Paradise because- I can tell you how to figure it out. Air conditioning, no bugs. that's a good start and then bring and then I think here's my suggestion and really we've all talked about it ratings we need to bring you need to bring

some of the Golden Bachelor guys their brothers their friends like you need to bring some new faces in there we need some fresh just some surprise people some randoms yeah but that's hard the audience doesn't know those people so it takes a long time for them to that's a lot of character

development so I don't No, my dream, I want us to do paradise with both the young dumb idiots and the old dumb idiots. What? I'm not hooking up with a 30-year-old or a 29-year-old. Why not? You just got all this work done, Susan. You look like a dewy 28-year-old. You can definitely hook up with a young, dumb personal trainer named Brad on the beach. No, right?

Hold on. This is why I want to be at the bartending. Kathy, you won't have a chance to date then. Yes, I will. Of course I will. Where do you meet guys in a bar? Wait, well, do you date when you're doing the bartending? He's married.

He's married. Yeah, no, I've never come. They wanted me to leave the bar for a lady, but it never happened. Yeah, listen, Kathy, you're welcome to be the bartender. I just don't think you understand. No one understands what the job is. Because they think it's TV and like there's some dumb asshole in the back, like actually making the drinks and serving everybody.

And the set is so small that that doesn't exist. Like I'm literally making all the drinks. Okay, listen. Hold on. I'm not done. I'm not done, Kathy. I was just going to offer to help. I was just going to offer to help.

I have to wash all the cups. I have to go. I'm the only one who can walk on set and be on camera because I'm known to me. be there. I have to go and walk around and pick up all the cups, then bring them back, and then wash them. I have to get all the champagne flutes ready for the stupid

toast after the rose ceremony. I have to get everyone's drink before the rose ceremony starts. You have no idea. Are you done bitching yet? In the butt, it is. And everyone that comes to paradise, they'll sit down at the bar and they go, oh my

God, you do all this stuff? It really good. And it's like, yeah. It's exhausting. Well, you know what it sounds to me like you're being overworked. Wait, it sounds like Wells is being overworked and you need an assistant. And I'm volunteering for the job. So we did the bar back thing once. We had this girl named Yuki from, she was from Bachelor Japan. And then she also was on winter games.

And she was amazing. But she didn't speak a lick of English. So it was me trying to explain, I need simple syrup and I need, you know, bitters. And she was just like, I have no idea. So she was no help. Okay, tell me what part was amazing then? How was she amazing if she didn't understand you? You'd hold up a rhyme and say, go get more.

Yeah, I mean, I'm thinking this is an executive producer nightmare that, like, they didn't think that went through. Yeah, that wasn't the best. I mean, it was funny. It was funny because it was me having, I was able to explain to her what was happening. because a lot of my role on that show is really narrating right like it's like me trying to explain what's going on to everybody that's why everybody loves you so i had to pivot over to explaining to yuki what was going on who didn't understand english so yes if you want to be my bar back if you want to do the job go do it i don't care it's a bit's a pain in the butt i just figure i'm there i can i got access to all the guys

I think the three of us should run a shell. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Would that not be amazing? But here's a thing. Like, I think that, like, for me, it's easy to be the bartender because no one wants me to find love because I've already found it. I'm married, you know. And we love her. Do you ever bring Sarah with you to Paradise?

Yeah, she was. She came, well, she came the last season we did the show. She was there. But no one wants, no one wants me to leave the bar because they all are happy that I'm in love. But you can't come to the bar, ladies, and be the bartender because they would want you to leave. They would want you to find love. Right. But I'm saying why can't you, is there a broken record here?

Can't you find love at the bar? Yeah, because really well, when I'm saying I'm going to be your assistant, really I'm just going to stand there and look pretty and let you do all the work. Let's be clear. Okay, but let's, okay, let's break this down. So let's say a hot young gentleman named Edgar comes to the bar and he's chatting. If his name is Edgar, it's, you know, okay, go ahead. What name do you like? We like Bradley.

Bradley. Okay, so Bradley Cooper comes to the bar. And I fight Kathy. And I'm stronger. And he's chatting you up, Kathy. And he's like, hey, you know, can I pull you over to a daybed over here? maybe we can have some champagne or something and you are so smitten with bradley cooper and his hair and his eyes and you'd so desperately want to go but i say kathy this is you we have to stock the bar

and you know what i say to you wells i quit that sounds like a personal problem get after it all right this is going to be one hell of a show okay so i can't understand is how you're going to We're at the first day. Young and old in one show. I just, I'll be a counselor the whole time. Yeah, well, you know what? Telling people what they're doing.

Well, this is what will be happening. Susan and I'll be sharing a room and little Chrissy Pooh is going to come in wailing that Edgar left her and was kissing another woman and she was sure they had the best connection. And Susan, I'm going to look at each other and say, sweetie, sit down. Sit down. Let's have a chat. Yeah. That's how it's going to go. Maybe that's what they want.

Maybe. But that's what the show is. Yeah, but I want to find love. We're forgetting I want to find love. Yeah, yeah, yeah. We want Joe's handoff. Because you're married, babe, you're happy. Yeah, you're married.

You have a beautiful wife and you have a great life. I want to ask, though, getting off of the paradise because it is going to happen. And I'm going to be with Bradley on the love seat drinking champagne. I want to leave it right near Bradley. You hear me. Yeah, okay. The show is already running itself. You guys are going to be in a feud together.

This is amazing. We're going to be very busy. Susan's got to do my hair and makeup. It's just, you know, it's just going to be a thing. But then she's going to do it poorly because she's going to want Bradley. Oh, Bradley loves me. Oh, please. We're nuts.

We're buds. Yeah. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly and now I'm seriously suspicious. Oh, wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra. credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know

each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor and they're the same age. It's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet. So do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the

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big careers. How do you do it? How do you manage it and keep, you know, keep everything copacetic? Yeah, I mean, it is tough. We pick and choose so our schedules somewhat line up. But like, so this past summer, Sarah was doing a run on Broadway. So effectively, she was living in New York. So yeah, like I didn't do a couple gigs because I just went and stayed with her and got to spend time with her. So there is a little bit of like give and take when it comes to stuff like that. We made a rule that we try not to do

more than three weeks apart which is tough. So you just end up spending a lot of money. It is tough, but absence makes the heart grow fonder when you're madly in love. It does. You miss each other to death. You can't wait to see each other. Yeah. Yeah. And then we do a lot of like FaceTiming and stuff

and try to make sure that each other are priorities and each other's lives. Well, I have a question. You, you, it says that you and Sarah met through DMs. Is that true? Mm-hmm. Yeah. So who asked too, like who reached out to who?

Yeah. So, I mean, okay. So what happened was I, I was on like a mentel all and I referenced like, I made a reference to a bunch of different books. Like I'm Harry Potter and like Catcher on. the rye and whatever and she tweeted because she's like a big fan of the show

she tweeted something to the effect of like oh my god Wells has has made a bunch of literary references I didn't think people on The Bachelor could read which I thought was very funny

so I like responded back with like you know some quippy thing I guess and then started from there yeah yeah and then when I became the bartender she tweeted out something like

oh my god making Wells the bartender is the best decision in Bachelor history or something like that and I said it's funny that we were talking about this earlier

I said well I'm actually looking for bar backs but I need some references we'll take some from from you know Ty Borell and Julie Bowen

which is her parents on modern family and then so that's how it started started with just like people tweeting at each other And I was like, oh, I think the hot chick for Modern Family, like, is into it.

So then I DM'd her. And I said something like, I'm coming to, because I think I was coming to L.A. I was like, I'm coming to L.A. for something. Like, can I take you out for tacos and beer or something like that? How long was that, though, from the, from her tweets about Harry Potter to when you actually met? Yeah, it was a while. And it was, it's actually, it's more complex than that. So we started talking.

We started FaceTiming. we so that that was after I became before I became the bartender we were chatting for a long time and and then I remember I told my sister and I was like yeah I've been I've been like FaceTiming with Sarah Highland and she was like dude she's got a boyfriend like he's a well-known actor and I was like oh I completely misread

yeah I misread the signs and that makes more sense that like yes of course she would have like some, you know, like handsome actor boyfriend. So then I stopped, I stopped talking to her. Like, I was like, I don't want to be the guy who's like hitting on someone else's girlfriend. Like, that's not my style. So we just stopped talking. And then like a year went by and then we started talking again.

And she was like, there's hope. There's hope. A year. And she was like, why did you ghost me? Like, who do you think you are? And I was like, I heard, I heard you were in a relationship. relationship with this guy. And she was like, you know, this was like my first

my learning about Hollywood for the first time. She was like, babe, we had been broken up for six months. We were waiting for the right time to release the information to like our PR agencies. I was hitting on you and you ghosted me. And I was like, well, I didn't know that. All right? You know, information that would have been.

Wait, I have, I just want to say, did you know, notice that him being the bartender, Wells, you being the bartender was the catalyst for having this hot, beautiful Sarah Highland. So that's what you're just convincing me even more that I need to get into the bartender routine. Not true. The first time we were talking, I wasn't the bartender. And then when I became the bartender, then she tweeted out again like, oh my God, they've been in the bartender. And then we started talking again. And then we got into a serious relationship. But yes, I wonder if there's any tweets about us, guests, that we're missing. I don't know.

How long have you been married, Wells? A little over two years, but I consider it more than that because we were supposed to get married in 2020, but then the pandemic. And then we were supposed to get married in 2021 and then the pandemic. And then we were supposed to get married. So, yeah. So, well, you should have called me. I would have come out. When did you get?

2020. 22. I could have come out during the pandemic and married you. I don't think your season, you guys, I don't think. No, you didn't even know who I was. But also, Susan, you have to know that I am also an ordained minister and I have married people from Bachelor Nation. So what, couldn't you have married? Couldn't you have married yourself?

Is that a thing or not? Yes, it is. I don't know. What fun is that, you know? Yeah, I don't be. Am I like jumping back and forth between positions? It would have been a one-up-a-kind wedding, I can tell you. It's like Kathy going to date and be at the bartender.

She'll be jumping back and forth. Yeah, yeah, yeah. See, it's too much, Kathy. Oh, no. It'll be, Wells. Could you get Bradley and me a glass of champagne, please? I need to stop right now with the Bradley thing. Yeah.

Okay. Edgar. Edgar and I are going hot and heavy on the daybed. This is coming out of your tips, Kathy. I'm doing a lot of work and you're not doing anything. But I'm working. The reason I brought up the DMs because anybody and their mother said, oh, your DMs are going to blow up. You're going to get crickets, as Kathy would say. Yeah, we have not.

Susan's and my DMs. But we talked about this earlier, Susan, so Wells, we got I ask you, I mean, here's, we need some advice from you because Susan and I are bigger than life personalities, but you've also seen we have a different side to us. We have a serious, you know, sweet side to us. It just, we're sort of like Pascal from Jones season. You know, we have that wall up until we let it down. So what's your advice to us? How do we get these guys to realize that we're not, you know, crazy, full of antics all the time? Uh, that's good, it's a good question. I, I suppose, okay, so I think your guys's biggest superpower is your personality, right? Like, your larger than life, uh, persona. And I don't think that, I think that you think that that is a negative, uh, when it comes to men. But I think that that's a positive. And any, uh, any man worth your time will see that like your guys' superpower is your persona.

and that's what you should be looking for as someone who finds that really, really sexy. Like, you know, like weak men are the ones who are attracted to, like, meek women and strong, powerful men are the ones who are attracted to strong, powerful women. And so I think that you need to look for that. But then I also think that I do this too

in my personal life. One of the things that, it's almost like a defense mechanism when I think things are getting too real or too, or too serious, or I get scared. I revert to comedy, which I know you guys do. What are you talking about? I never make any jokes. This is the real thing. And so obviously it's a way to protect your heart because you're like, it never mattered in the first place. I was always making jokes.

But you have to fight that urge, especially when you feel something real. those are my two big pieces of advice for you. You mean when you're up front and personal, in front of the person? Is that what you're? Yeah, I didn't follow the last bit of advice. Yeah, because I think that when things get probably, let's say we're on the beach with Edgar or Bradley or whatever. And, you know, you guys are doing the walka, walka funny stuff and everyone's laughing

and having a good time. And then, you know, let's say Edgar or Bradley's like, but I want to know the real you. I think that's a good time. But you would think that that's a good time to make a joke. And I think that that's the time That you need to lean into like Not being the comedy But being the sincere person

And showing showing all of yourself My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly And now I'm seriously suspicious Oh wait a minute Sam Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit Well Dakota it's back to school week on the okay story time podcast So we'll find out soon This person writes

My boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now hold up, isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor and they're the same age. It's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet. So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the explosive finale,

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Stay away, Kathy. Impressed. I see how close you are to him. Were you? Did you have a handful of Bradley's ass there as well? No, you know what it was funny? I was doing a thing in Vegas with QVC and he was making cheese steaks. So when they broke for lunch, everybody was going out to the truck, the food truck.

And I was standing in line and he saw me. and he's a big bachelor fan. And he's pointing, oh, my God, you're my favorite. That he brings me back and brings me on a greasy truck. He says, I have so many questions. I say, call any time. He's just the door. He was a really nice guy.

Okay, so you get the guy who likes Philly Cheese Takes. I'm going to find the guy who likes Boston baked beans. We're going to be perfect. There you go. That's actually, that is actually Wells really good advice, actually. I think you need to give up the bartending and become a relationship counselor. Or just add that to your list. speaking of relationships that's kind of what the job is oh it is well what's the most surprising

relationship advice you received received no i would ask that he's given well i want to know if he's received any okay like stay married here's my advice to you wells stay married you have a fabulous wife yeah yeah and she's rich um does you want to share wait sarah do you want to share i can give you my bank routing number i always find the guys that can't afford vacation. I took this one to Spain. I find the guys that want to split. I'm done taking people.

I find the guys that want to split, I swear to God, they want to split an appetizer at happy hour. It's painful. Okay. Yeah, we got to. These are cheap guys. Yeah, we need help. I think dating sites are good.

I think it's a good opportunity to cast a wider net for sure. Yeah, yeah. But we go back going. When you get to our age, though, it's not so fun. Yeah. I mean, it's funny because I never was able to experience dating sites. I was in a relationship and then they became popular. Which is why he likes dating sites.

He's never been on them. Just saying. Yeah, but I know a million stories of people who it's worked for, you know. I've married lots of people that are dating sites. Yeah. I just have a lot. So, yeah, I don't know. I think it's okay.

I think you just got to really get vet these people. you need to have like your grandchildren or your nieces and nephews like do the social media stalking of these people for you to make sure that they're okay well i just call kathy she does background checks she knows there you go i have i have a source wells and my source can look up anybody where they've worked who they are what cars arrest you know the whole nine yards she and she doesn't when susan has a date with somebody she calls me up i put out my you know you gotta know what you're getting into right that's Yeah, that's great. I think it's probably illegal, but also great. Anything exciting right now? Like, what are you doing? Besides paradise. Are you working on anything great?

I filmed. I did traders this past summer, which was very cool and very fun. And kind of a different speed for me because I'm used to kind of, you know, like hosting or doing the bartender thing. And then this was like getting thrown back into a fun game. So you were on, you were a player. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And that comes out sometime early next year. I'm on season four of it. So that was really fun. I got to go to Scotland and film that. I enjoyed that. I lived in Scotland.

Where? I lived in Danune near Glasgow, across the Firth of Clyde. My husband was a naval officer. They had a nuclear submarine base there. Where did they, where did you film? We were up in Inverness. So real northeast, I guess. It was beautiful. It was supposed to be like the kind of rainy season, but we had really good weather the entire time. And the only thing that's weird is you're so far north that it's light a lot, like during the summer. It was like light all day.

It's when we, well, it is usually light during the day. I think you made it with light at night. Well, like all, we didn't get. I know, it's like one in the morning. Like all 24 hours of the day. So, yeah, it didn't get dark until like 1145. and then it got light at like four and we had to shoot a lot of stuff

that was like nighttime stuff and we'd be like, what time is that? Jesus, it's so light. Did you get to do any touring at all? I mean, a little bit, you know, when you go do missions and stuff. Yeah, and you get, it's kind of similar to doing The Bachelor or the Bachelor,

you're kind of stuck in the place and you're waiting for some. Scotland is my favorite place. All right, so listen, we're going to give this question. We're going to, we've got this question and you're going to help weigh in on it. Okay. Okay. All right. So Lily asks, Hi, Kathy and Susan. I could really use your advice right now. I've been with my boyfriend for four years now and we've lived together for three years. I feel like our relationship is in a bit of a rut.

I just feel like we're missing that spark. This year has been really tough for both of us. I've been really going through it in a lot of areas of life and he's had a ton of work stress this year. what do you think we could do to get some excitement back into our relationship i feel like we just do and talk about the same old stuff and things are starting to feel like routines how can we shake it up thank you go to a bar what do you think wells yeah i think this is not a unique issue with people who have been in uh long relationships uh the secret to successful relationships in the long run is to never stop dating. So always, you know, yeah, always, you know, act like you're still courting and dating the person. So, uh, make like little date nights. So like I will, I'm like a great cook and

I like to cook a lot, but that means Sarah doesn't do much. So then I'm usually like, you will come into the kitchen. Let's cook together. Make a date. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So yeah. So yeah. The other thing, the other thing that I was talking about this on my podcast that is very, Very, very important. When you are in a relationship with someone for a very long time, French kissing almost becomes more intimate than sex. You just don't very rarely French kiss. And I have been saying this.

It's very important to continue. Wait, excuse me. Excuse me. Who says you don't French kiss? Where do you get this one from? He's watching Joan Seeson. I'm sorry. Well, yeah.

They're just pecking. Except for Chalk. Maybe she doesn't know how to kiss until Chalk came. No, but hear me out. When you're first dating somebody, even if sex isn't even on the table, you will French kiss with people, right?

Like you'll stop in the middle, like wherever you are, you're in a romantic place, you do that. And then when you get married, you're in a long relationship, you get really comfortable with somebody and then it's just like, so good to see you or whatever.

You got to keep on French kissing even when sex is on the table. I'm telling you. I couldn't agree with you more. Hey, Wells, this is great, super great advice. We need somebody to kiss. That's what, you know, what do you want me to do? Suck on a straw?

I mean, where's the guy? Are you making out with tongue or not? I mean, you've got to bring that back, okay? You got to, yeah. And maybe buy some sexy lingerie and run a room once every couple months and surprise him. No, she should surprise him. She could do part of it too. It doesn't always have to be the dude, right?

And like you said, a date. do something a little, you know, fun. Yeah, guys do like to feel wanted and sexy. And I think that's another thing that happens a lot is that women kind of just assume the guy is the one that's like the testosterone is so horny, he's always going to come on to me. But sometimes it's a big turn on for a guy to be. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

I'd be good. I'd be great. See? You guys know all this stuff. I don't need to be here. Okay. Thank you, Lily. Oh, I know.

is I'm going to be French kissing behind the bar. I can hardly wait. Is it true? Yeah, not with me. You know within the first touch of lip, if there's chemistry, if that kiss is going to be good. Like, you just know. A man that can't kiss.

Oh, God. Well, that does it for today's episode of Bachelor, Happy Hour, Golden Hour. You know what? I got to go. Susan, I got to go. I got to go French kiss. I got to go find some of the French kiss. Well, so you've got to come back

Because this is not long enough Okay, we need part two Yeah, anytime you guys need me I'm hanging We love chatting with you Or we'll come to yours We could talk about making out I mean easy

Yeah, yeah, come on Or cooking or you could make us a man You know what? Could we come on your show And you have Manhattan's first Because that's also One of my favorite drinks That's my dad's favorite drinks

So yeah, I make a good Manhattan Is your dad single? No, he's not unfortunately Sorry Well listen I just saw a thing on TV So polish up on the vodka martinis or, you know. Oh, I can do that. I can make a great, are you dirty?

I can make a great martini. I'm a dirty martini girl. I do like a martini, but I'm a gin guy. Oh, no. Did you know, fun fact about martinis, the amount of olives that you have in your dirty martini is the amount of sips you're supposed to take in said martini? What? I know, isn't that crazy?

You want me to down the martini? I was just to say, we're going to gussle a martini and throw. If you've got three olives on it, the drink should be three sips and be over. I would be laying on the bar. I know. Especially if there's stuff, do you only get two? I know. Yeah.

All right. Here's the deal. We are, we got to go. We are going to go make Manhattans. We're going to go down martinis. We're going to go find something to French kiss. You got to listen to Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour on the Iheart radio app or whatever you listen to podcast.

You are going to want to question this episode today. know how to do that. It's called bachelornation.com slash golden hour. Welles, thanks for joining us. We have great. Ladies, good to see you guys. And don't forget everyone out there. You got a kiss with tongue. That's right. Kiss with tongue and drinking a martin. It's a plan. Have a great week, everybody. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly and now I'm seriously suspicious. Wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, Luckily, it's back-to-school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend's been hanging out with his young professor a lot.

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