Bachelor Happy Hour - DIYs and I Dos with Abigail & Noah

Episode Date: April 25, 2024

Today on “Bachelor Happy Hour,” Joe and Serena are catching up with beloved Bachelor Nation couple Abigail and Noah! We kick off the episode with Abigail and Noah’s recent ventures into home renovation and how fruitful this path has been for them. Then, with a date officially announced, the two are giving us all the deets on their wedding-to-be. Plus, we get more insight into their lives in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and how they’ve been growing together as a couple.  Tune in now to hear all this and more, and be sure to follow so you never miss an episode!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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And I'm Serena. And we are here with Noah and Abigail from Bachelor in Paradise season. What season were you guys? Seven. Seven? Seven. Okay. And then Noah was Bachelorette season, I don't know.

And Abigail was Bachelor Season 25. Wow. Hi, guys. Welcome, welcome back. Welcome back. Hi, we missed you guys. Thanks for having us on the pot. Of course.

No problem. We missed you. Abigail, how's it going? It's going well. Excited to chit-chat. Your backdrop. No, she's not. There was literally, there was zero enthusiasm in that, by the way.

I think we start over. Yours was a terrible intro, and Abby's is terrible. No, we are not starting over. By the way, your backdrop looks wonderful. I mean, I watch all your guys, Instagram Reels, and you're doing quite the job over there in Tulsa. Thank you, Joseph. I truly had no idea we would be Bob the Builder when we came back,

but we're full embracing it. We love it. I do want to say when you guys said that you were going to Tulsa and Abigail showed me the house and was like, Noah's going to fix it up, I doubted you. A hundred percent Noah. Listen, we respect each other enough that I'll, if you say you doubted me, that's fine. I talk trash and Joe, I'll be open about it, same with you.

I wasn't sure I could pull it off either. No. We got something to run away. I wasn't sure, but I was, I'm actually very impressed. I'm very impressed by both of your skills. You really, you have what it takes to be an HGTV show. Like, truly, you've, you've really flipped this house. Well, it's just weird from being fake busy as an influencer to work.

in 10 hour a day he's manual labor and it actually looking good. So we we love it. We're Abby's really good at it. I'm getting really good at it. And now it's like let's just stick with it. But I'm truly surprised it turned out so well myself. So don't feel bad. Serena. Serena did doubt, doubt you. But the truth is I like Abigail much more than I like Noah. But I did not actually doubt you. I was, when, when Serena said, I was like, no, he, I think he's going to, I think he's going to do this and do it very well. Well, you know, we'd figure it out eventually. I'm just glad that we didn't have too many, too many issues. We don't share the problems that we have, but there are a lot. Well, that's, that's why you guys, that's why you guys are here on Happy Hour.

But yeah, Noah, you guys, you're both doing, uh, looks to be an incredible job. I, I do want asked before you started your own home rental what were like what were the pros and what were the cons you want to start pros and cons yeah yeah the reno okay the pros were it was really fun to be able to do a project like us too from start to finish I feel like it makes us appreciate our home a lot more that we put less fun tears into it the cons is living in a house when you're renovating it's not fun I'd like the record to show that was a choice

I've housed a mile and a half away that was vacant but it was like a bachelor pad it was yeah it would have been any better the pros are we can get an idea and figure out

how we want to do it and then you walk in a month later and it kind of looks like the idea in your head and you know you did the work because I'm not in the hospital so I get bored so this is my like hospital right now is designing stuff building stuff and it's like i have a picture

i'm like can you do this you're like okay i'll work on yeah it feels good because i myself am like i don't know i don't know can i do that then you know put a little bit of research into it start it and then it's been looking kind of like the vision of my head so the pros are it feels good and you save a lot of money the cons are that only happens if you want to do all the work so it's like how much do I want to spend versus how much do I want to save and do this for 10 hours a day. I feel like the hardest thing. I know you guys like started with the kitchen and that was obviously like a huge undertaking. I feel like eating out for every meal for three months would be one of the hardest non-construction side effects.

It was that and then we also started renovating in the middle of summer and we didn't have like running water. And granted we could have bought a water filter and made our lives so much easier. I don't want to talk about it. But we were going to the grocery store every other day and, like, buying, like, the bold things of water. And, yeah, it was just a simple thing. We chose to make life a lot harder than it was. That's what I'm thinking. Most people do.

We also, we also, we also do that. Was there ever, so far, has there been any kind of, like, hiccup or rough patch where you've had the call in help? we'll call in it takes a lot for us to get there I'm like can we call for help can we ask for help you're like no I'm like it's only two in the morning what do you mean

we don't need to call them yeah there's been stuff there's I couldn't if I have enough time I can figure out most things but there are stuff where it's like okay this will literally take me all day what am I doing there's professionals like they'll do it's in four hours

and there's a bunch of guys that come in so there is stuff it's what we learned with old houses you think you're going to fix one thing let's make a cute little door with some shelves and whatever add some trim make it look cool then you start actually doing it and you find like 10 other things that need to be fixed yeah oh that's not it out okay we got to fix it so it's like just kind of it's just planning for that stuff to happen and uh you know try not to fight over it what has been what's been like the biggest hiccup in the construction process whether it was like an

or like you riffed down a wall and there was mold or what was the biggest thing that you were like oh my god I can't believe this is happening I have a bad naughty boy habit of working hard building something then the last like 20 minutes just start doing demo on something else and then it's another week you jump so you so you so you before a problem yeah yeah you jump okay I feel like that's a common thing it'll be like on my way to sleep like Abby's already a bed I've one eye open and I throw a hammer like through the wall And then I'm like, I'll just demo this really quick just to get started. And then I'm like, okay, great. That's 10 more projects that I have to do when the one's not done. I know the exact moment where I was like, why are we doing this? The wallpaper. That was a hiccup. I'll take it all back.

The wallpaper was the biggest hiccup. We almost broke up. Why? Why? What happened? That was a moment where I almost had a full-on breakdown. I just think, if I'm going to be honest, I think wallpaper's cool, it's timeless, it's classy. We are going to be hiring someone.

It shouldn't exist. No. That was like, that's when I felt dumb. Like, sure, I built all this cool stuff with the wallpaper kind of just, it did me dirty. So there's little projects like that where you don't expect it. And then you're like, well, this has taken four more days than we thought. Now we have to make other people wait and it kind of cascades. But you're living in the house, you're enjoying it, trying to make the most of it.

And then it's like, once we're done with this house, we're able to work on other houses, which we're doing. which is nice. We're not living in a construction zone still. So you guys, are you two rehabbing other homes together? Yeah, we kind of just decided, like we're practicing on our house.

I've got a couple other houses and I've bought some since I've been here. So we're kind of just keep rolling with it. Got my own cruise. We're Abby's the designer. We're kind of just leaning into it until it doesn't work. I know. I love.

I think that's, I honestly, I think that's genius. And I think, yeah, I think it's so smart. And Abigail, when it comes to design, is this something that you're passionate about? Do you love it? It's a learning curve. I hated it at first because I'm so used to just designing, like, one room, like an apartment or something. And putting all my attention on that.

And then we came to this house with no furniture. I think only our clothes, like nothing. And so just having that much of a blank canvas, it was really overwhelming. I didn't really know what my style was. We started out of the kitchen, and then with a couple of things, I'm like, else shoot. I wish I did this, but we already put so much money into it. We're just going to write it out. But now I would say that we kind of got the bigger projects under the belt.

I actually love it. And it's actually been something I've been super passionate about, like, putting together the mood boards, picking out the furniture. So I want to try to keep doing it. it for as long as we can kind of move away from like the influencing space and more into this would definitely be a fun long-term goal joe she's good she's really good i would always oh avid's getting so good at decorating i said that for the first like six months and now it's like no abby's definitely better at design than me and decorating in the vibes she makes are actually really

cool so it's take your cut a car and i just go shopping no it's actually really cool it's really nice not having to work myself worry about that aspect and for be good at it and enjoy it and then with you know we're we're using social media and stuff after the show being able to share stuff that we actually enjoy and i'm actually doing the work is a lot more fun versus kind of what we were doing the last two years which was also fun it was just a lot more go go go and a lot of the stuff it's hard to really sit down and enjoy whereas this became which yeah and it's not as i i feel like the other stuff is great, but it may not be as fulfilling as doing something that you are passionate about and you could post about it and be like, this is it.

This is what we love, take it or leave it, but I'm going to keep posting about it. I mean, it's funny because everyone thinks, oh, you're an influencer. You're made of millions of dollars. Like, nobody can do what you're doing, like all this stuff. And I think about all the work that we have been doing and the money that we've been saving and I'm like okay I could do this for the next few years just because one I'm saving a lot of money and two I am like I'm loving it's really cool to me right now yeah it's been a weird change but it's been super cool yeah I mean compared to what we were doing in California I think we had

a lot of days where we just had a lot of time and we were kind of trying to find things that we enjoy and then here I feel like we've just been busy nonstop but it's been with good things like I actually look for like waking up and being like here's our to-do list today like let's tried everything done. So I definitely like our pace better, you know, in the things that we're doing. It was just hard for the two years when we weren't in a spot for more than, you know, three to six months. Yeah.

I don't really get any structure, find anything you want to do outside of that. You, when I saw you in Chicago, like after we left, I was like, I feel like Noah, like, looks different. I thought it was your hair, but I actually think you look like the manual labor is like slim-fitted you up. I didn't know manual labor I haven't had that many compliments at high school prom when I got a haircut

guys slim fit who needs the gym when you're building a home you know I think it's really cool and good for you guys and now I'm sure you're going to be busy planning a wedding have you started that process yet

we have we finally started about a month ago we were like we got a date yeah that's pretty much our only we got a date we have a date and a venue you have a location okay location planner so abby and i like i said you're not planning on not fighting over things that we can avoid so a wedding planner to help her me doing the house stuff we have a date we have a place and And we'll see if you guys are invited. You guys are invited, no question. Well, Noah, I mean, here, so Noah, when we were all in Chicago for Kenny and Mari's wedding, Noah said to me, he's like, well, he's like, do you, do you think you're even going to come? I said, come to what?

To our wedding. I said, well, I don't know. Are we invited? He said, well, I don't, I mean, I'm not going to invite you if you're not going to come. Well, I don't know what to tell you. I don't even know what to date. I don't know what it is. We're doing such a small wedding that I'm like in a weird position where I'm having to call my friends that I've known for a long time, but we haven't had the time to hang out with.

I'm having to call them and be like, hey, you're not invited to the wedding. Oh. I'm having to like call people and say, hey, it's been a while. I love you. You're not invited to the wedding unless you can make it. Okay. Noah, like I just need to have like a chat one-on-one. I know. I can't help myself.

No, but do you know how this works? Like, you send out an invite and then they RSVP yes or no. You don't say if you're not coming, I'm not going to send you an invite. You don't like redo your RSVP. I don't want to send out an invite if it's an inconvenience and you're not going to come. He doesn't want any notes. But that's the whole point of an invite is to find out if they're coming or not. If I send an invite to you and Joe, and Joe goes, well, I don't know what we're doing.

this what's in Oklahoma anyways like and I'm like okay Joe doesn't want to be here that's fine you know but no I would I even how would where would I wouldn't write that on the yes or no for the RSVP like where are maybe gonna we're gonna have that conversation for not attending when nothing to do in Oklahoma what if I get of the do okay so uh Oklahoma is can we share that is going to be yeah it's in Oklahoma and it's going to be this year This year in Oklahoma, that's pretty much all the details we have at this point, but oh, and small wedding.

So we're trying to navigate those conversations and I feel like it's only gonna get worse once the invites go out. Because my family is about 30. Yeah, for immediate. That's not bad. That's decent size, but. Mm-hmm.

We're trying to keep it around 75 would be like ideal. We want classy dinner party. Yes. Okay, I love that. And we loved your guys' wedding. Your guys' wedding was great. Oh, thank you. Okay.

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Hi, my name is Enya Umanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh, my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble.

Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. My name is Ed. Everyone say hello, Ed. Hello, Ed. I'm from a very rural background myself.

My dad is a farmer. And my mom is a cousin. So, like, it's not like... What do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? I know it sounds like the start of a bad joke, but that really was my... reality nine years ago. I just normally do straight stand-up, but this is a bit different.

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Well, ours was about 1.30. So, yeah, that's like, like almost. Yeah. It's almost doubles what you guys are thinking. Yeah. And then Mari and Kenny's party. was like 250 people that was big that was a lot that was a lot of people yeah we went to our wedding last weekend it was almost 300 people and it's still super fun but I think just it's very over-simulating

and I just want to be able to like talk to everyone at the wedding have conversations so that was kind of we knew right away we wanted a smaller wedding is there did was there are there any takeaways from serena in my wedding or kettie amari's wedding or kettie amari's wedding where you're like, you know, that's just not for us. Like something that they did where you're like, okay, seeing this. You want to go first? You go first. One thing that we are for sure doing that you guys did,

we're just going to tweak it a little, espresso bar. Espresso martini bar? Brilliant. Where you guys. That was a Serena idea. That was a serena. At the end of the night is where you guys goofed.

Because at the end of the night, I had like eight, I had like eight espresso martini. And I'm like, dude, I shouldn't have started drinking me. Yeah, we did not go up until like 4. Yeah, everyone went out really late. Everyone said they were out really late, and I honestly think it was because people were chugging the espresso martini's at, yeah, like 9 p.m.

We were drinking them for getting an espresso. All I heard was martini. But I forgot the espresso part. But we wanted that because, yeah, I feel like at a lot of weddings you sit, and we wanted dinner to be quick. Like, we're like an hour and a half max, like try to get through it. So because I feel like the longer, if I'm sitting and drinking, I'm getting tired.

So I'm like, I want to, like, do it to, like, kick everyone's energy up so that the dance floor is popping. And it worked because your guys' dance floor was great. We weren't forced to dance for an hour and a half, like, most weddings. You know what I mean? Where it's like we have to do the duck dance five times. You guys got to dance. Joe, wish I wouldn't have seen you dance, but you looked like you had fun and you joined

you. So we're going to take a few pieces from your guys. I don't know about the nose. I think the only thing that we're just doing a little bit different than you guys, I think is size really is the biggest thing. We're just doing it a little bit smaller. But everything else, like, I love the black tie element. I love, honestly, just the energy, like the little things that you guys did for the energy,

you could just tell everyone wanted to be there and love celebrating me. See, that's why it's important to call before it seems to the moment. I do appreciate how I asked you a question about the next. negatives from our wedding and you turned it and you said all the positive oh okay let's well we almost made it Joe I thought I did something there but this wasn't I think it was Carlson traffic because Charleston traffic was so bad so a couple people showed up late to the ceremony and so they couldn't come in so because of that I was like maybe we should do like a pre-ceremony cocktail okay yeah I would recommend this actually because

we put, I think, 5 p.m. as the start time on our invitations. And we actually started like at 5 p.m., which I didn't actually expect. But we had, I wasn't like looking at the clock at all that day. It was kind of just like when people told me to be places I would. But I should have said like say 5 p.m. start at 5.15. Yeah. Just or say like arrive. Like if you put like arrive at 4.45, ceremony begins at 5 p.m. sharp yeah I would recommend that it was also just the chocolate because I know I was like I want to be there at least 15 minutes early like I don't want to risk it we left early and I think we made it with like five minutes to spare like chocolate we were just so bad we weren't one of the ones sneaking in when the ceremony started no we that was one thing I was specific about lovely but well you showed up on time part of the wedding thing for us is nobody knows what even is in Oklahoma um right show you guys a good time and we're wanting it to be yeah like a weekend fun there is a state

in oklahoma called oklahoma that's a lot of it's not just tps and horse drawn carriages you know and it's a lot of fun so part of it's going to be like the weekend some of our closest friends that we got over the last two years to spend time with and obviously try to let palsa shine a little no i'm i'm excited i mean besides the half-ass invitation we're going to get you on We're going to get you on a horse. Oh, my God. I can't picture Joe on a horse. I've been on a horse.

Yeah, I know. I just, I can't picture it. I've never seen you on. The ones that you put quarters in don't count. I've actually been on one of those, too. What do you say at Serino? What were you saying? Oh, I was going to say, like, Joe and I would probably never go to Tulsa unless we were, like, yeah, visiting you guys or visiting friends.

So, like, it is fun to get to go somewhere. We've never been. And we would probably never go otherwise for like a weekend of celebration. I would say never. But maybe we will come back. Maybe we'll fall in love with Tulsa. I know you guys are trying to get everyone you know to move there. So maybe we'll become best friends with Noah's 700 siblings.

And then we'll all hang out in Tulsa together. Doesn't Sylvester Stallone have a TV show that's based in Tulsa? Tulsa King. Okay. Stop it. What? Yeah. Is it good?

I never watch it. Is it good? I watched it. A lot of our friends was extra. Yeah, he inhaled the helium balloon and fell over. That was like his one scene. Oh, really? That's fun.

I thought it was good. I thought it could have been better. I heard a lot of hype like, oh, talk to show about Tulsa. I was like, oh, heck, yeah, it's going to be good. So that's just alone. I was like, okay, a little cheesy, but it was good. Is it true to Tulsa? It is pretty true to Tulsa.

He stays at the Mayo Hotel, which is like an OG. Because Tulsa's got in the 20s was the oil cap. of the world. There's a lot of HACO, a lot of old money. So there is a lot of that still here. That's part of what's cool about it. So there was that aspect. And they're legal marijuana now. So that was also the other part of the show. It's a big step for Oklahoma. I always forget that like that's such a big deal here because it's legal across Canada. That's been legal in Canada, right? Yeah. We didn't have, Oklahoma had three percent beer for until like four or five years ago. Three percent beer? So you could, you couldn't

go over 3%? Yeah, I could go to a liquor store to get beer over 3%. That's crazy. What about at a bar? What about at a bar? Bar is different, but just over, it can't be cold if it's over 3%

and it can't be sold at a liquor store. Now, it can't. Wow, you guys are evolving. Watch out. Watch out, everyone. Tulsa. Tulsa's where it's out. We love it, though.

It's great. It's like a tiny little, I say it's like a homemark movie. Like everything, everybody's just so happy. It's slower-paced living. You guys are living in your own whole-mark movie. What are you guys doing? We're just like slowly trying to convince people.

It is crazy, though, because... I feel like Abigail, your life has evolved maybe more than most people from our season because, like, we came off the show. You were, like, living it up in NYC as a single gal, partying hard. and then you've at Noah you guys were living in L.A. in like your apartment you guys were jumping around playing pickleball

and now you're like waved up married living in a hallmark movie small town being chipping Joanna Gaines you've lived many lives these past two years I mean both of us I thought on Paradise that was one of the things you and I didn't talk about anything important

but one of the things I talked about I thought she was just like a New York party girl. I was like, well, that's fun. That's cool. But, you know, in two years, it's not what I'm going to want because I'm going to want to settle down. So it's funny to see how we both kind of had changed. Oh, Noah, cut the bullshit. This guy, Mr. Innocent over there.

Poor Abby. Abigail, it's just a partier and I just want to settle down. Dude, I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what, Joseph. Wait, no. Are you going to go back to nursing at any point, do you think? Dude, you and everyone asked me that. I didn't quit nursing.

No, I know. I know you're like contract to contact, but like, if you're loving what you're doing now, like, do you think you'll continue to do that more actively? I don't think I will right now. It's taking me like literally a whole year of debating that question with myself because it's something I've always wanted to do and I went to school for and it's my career. But right now with the real estate stuff and kind of where we're at, I'm it's sort of replacing what nursing was for me but I'm keeping all my rent my credentials and

everything for one if we run out of money trying to buy houses I can go back to work it's a nice ballback plan um but once we kind of get settled more here then I I would like to get back to but right now it's kind of like it's not really feasible and I don't take in a back seat um do you guys something like right when we started planning our wedding I instantly started planning the honeymoon do you have have you thought about where you want to go for your honeymoon oh see it's not even an abigail thing no you and i are the same instantly we we we are the guys want to plan the honeymoon well we've traveled together we're joe we are world travelers yeah so of course they say oh this is true this is true we should go pick where we

should thrive and and check life the most I'm like sure I can take that burden I'm experiencing Pick where we should thrive. Oh, anyways, we want to do, we basically said no trips, except for Chicago, where you saw me be a wild animal. Other than that, we haven't really done any trips just because we've been so jam-packed. So our honeymoon, we kind of want to do, like, a big trip as like a reward for the house stuff, honeymoon. And we were planning, she's Scottish, we were planning to go to Scotland and all those. Nordic places until we realize it's winter. So probably Asia.

But I want to try to do a couple of weeks two to four week trip and do it all and get back to work. That's amazing. No, I haven't planned it yet. Okay. I never envisioned being with a woman. I'll just be honest. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts Spolitics. On this week's episode, I'm joined

by basketball legend, Candice Parker, who stops by to discuss her candid new book, The Can Do Mindset, in which she shares why she waited two years into marriage to come out. Like when I close my eyes at night, every night, I was like, I need to find my prince charming. Like, it was never a princess. Like, that never entered into my mind.

But, you know, as I learned, sometimes life gives you things wrapped in a package that you didn't expect it. And that was just, you know, and honestly, it took me a long time to be okay with myself. Make sure to listen to this week's episode of Spolitics on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Umanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom.

If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast. for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free I-HeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. My name is Ed. Everyone say hello, Ed. Hello, Ed.

I'm from a very rural background myself. My dad is a farmer. And my mom is a cousin. So, like, it's not... What do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comment? Club. I know it sounds like the start of a bad joke, but that really was my reality nine years ago. I just normally do straight stand-up, but this is a bit different. On stage stood a comedian with a story that no one expected to hear. The 22nd of July 2015, a 23-year-old man had killed his family. And then he came to my house. So what do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club, a new podcast called Wisecrack, where stand-up comedy and murder

takes center stage. Available now. Listen to Wisecrack on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. We're going to play a game with you guys before we let you go. But seeing this is a Bachelor nation podcast. Is there anything that you want to share, anything that people may not know about you guys that you want to share, if not totally okay? It's a weird question. I wouldn't be able to answer it.

What do you want? Like a pregnancy announcement? Like, what are you fishing for right now? No, I don't know. Just like, like, is there anything you want to tell us? Say it right now. Do you know something? I don't know.

Okay. There's no new news. Listen, the only update, I guess, from us is, yeah, we've been kind of removed from the show for a while, but we still love the show. Our new chapter is a lot different than I feel like a lot of people would expect. It's very random, but it's been super fulfilling. We love where it's at, and I'm hoping to keep kind of continuing it. Nice.

Do you know something, Ben? I don't know. That's funny. Oh, for salvaging the needs. That was funny. All right. So we are going to play rapid-fire questions, wedding edition, with Abigail and Noah. Okay, question number one.

Big wedding or intimate ceremony? Intimate. Traditional or non-traditional ceremony? Non-traditional. That's a shock to a lot of Oklahoma people, I feel like. I don't think we're going to do a lot of like the groomsmen and the brides. and the what's it called the garter hunt

the little all that yeah no we didn't we didn't do that DJ or live band live are you literally just trying to get exactly what our wedding's going to be like because I think yeah we're trying to say if we're going to come or not

I mean okay well yeah depends on cost but like I also have time I can learn cello You're going to be in the wedding. Okay. For the music, I guess we are trying to. Abigail's walking down the aisle, Noah's playing the cello at the altar.

I'm already down there. Hurry up. I only know one song. I only know half this song. For the music, a must play song and a song on your do not playlist. Okay. So for our due playlist. Adore you, Miley Cyrus

You love that song A cover version, maybe a violin Jellet. Oh, so classy. It would be a shame to have a live fiddle. It would be a shame. Yeah. A do not play song. I have one.

Go ahead. The Paradise theme song. Like I just want to try and Lou I may have that's like Paradise and like Bachelor references. No, I get that. we did say like we want callbacks to early periods in our relationship like Joe framed like the note I gave him after paradise but like I was like I don't want like red roses or like tropical drinks or the paradise theme song yeah one of the things we're going to try to do is the people that have speeches they write something out before because we're kind of kind of have just like an open time for speeches because it's such a small wedding then we're going to try to let Abby read or be able to read those or put them all in like a picture frame after unless we have no speeches one speech would be an awkward picture frame no one is going up there open bar must have or no go must have okay okay

indoor or outdoor wedding outdoor outdoor if the weather that was the biggest requirement for me it's outdoor Oklahoma weather, when it's bad, it's terrible. Yeah, I saw your sister was over for like a tornado, wasn't she Abigail? She's dramatic. Tornado, earthquake, down poor, yeah, Oklahoma gets everything. Okay, just to just to. And shows up with her passport and her dog, there's a thunderstorm. Okay, just to reiterate for, just to reiterate for all three of you, these are rapid fire questions.

So just I'm going to, I'm going to ask. I'm going to ask, and you guys are just going to say the person here comes to my mind. Okay. Is this conversation, as much as I love it, it's kind of breaking the rules of the game. He wants us to shut up. Abigail, one perfect dress or outfit changes. Alfit changes. Batch party, relaxing trip or Vegas trip.

Relaxing, golf. Was that too long of an answer? You just made it too long. Like, you were there and see, now I'm jumping in. It's it. The games are right. Abigail, you didn't answer that. Oh, for me, relaxing.

I find that, I actually find that hard to believe, considering you were such a party girl before. Yes, but I'm in my girl era now. She's reformed. I like that. Couples cocktail, must have or no go? Must have. Ideal dress code for your guest. you better look slick but not slicker than me

then I don't even know if I should go don't because I'm super slick Hey let me make this easy Joe Don't Wow okay Honestly I love talking to you guys This has been a lot of fun Thank you so much for coming on

I really do hope you guys get like an HD TV show or something Because I do think you're both very talented And I probably wouldn't watch it but if I went to the dentist and it was on, I would. You're the kind of guy that wouldn't let Serena watch it. She'd make you do some of the work we're doing. I know you. No, I would never allow you.

No. I would be more likely to fly you out here, Noah, to do it, than recruit Joe to do handyman work on our home. Love you, Joe. But that's not your strength. We both know it. Well, I'll close this out since Joe can't close it out. Thanks for having us on.

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