Bachelor Happy Hour - Dress for Your Spirit, Not Your Age | Golden Hour

Episode Date: December 6, 2024

Today on “Bachelor Happy Hour: Golden Hour,” Susan and Kathy share their perspective on some hot-button relationship issues, including open marriages, shopping in your Golden years, and why anyone...’s opinion other than your own is not worth your time when it comes to plastic surgery! Plus, in a game of Would You Rather, our two ladies learn a few new things about each other and the way they view the world of dating. Tune in now to hear all this and more, and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This is an I-Heart podcast. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, luckily, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend's been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone.
Starting point is 00:00:25 Hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That seems inappropriate. Maybe find out how it ends by listening to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts, and on the latest episode of Spolitics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't say publicly? Many of them are in fear of their political lives. We continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your constituents. and there's life after Congress. Make sure to listen to this episode of Politics
Starting point is 00:01:02 on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Why are TSA rules so confusing? You got a hood of you. I'll take it off. I'm Manny. I'm Noah. This is Devin. And we're best friends and journalists with a new podcast called No Such Thing,
Starting point is 00:01:19 where we get to the bottom of questions like that. Why are you screaming? I can't expect what to do. Now, if the rule was the same, go off on me. I deserve it. You know, lock him up. Listen to No Such Thing on the I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. No such thing.
Starting point is 00:01:44 Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour. Kathy, here we go again. You're ready to say hi? I'm so ready to get going again on this and answer questions and talk about our lives. It's just fun. It's just fun. Hopefully everybody out there is following us. I mean, if they're not, Susan, if you're listening to this and you haven't followed
Starting point is 00:02:06 us, come on, go to Bachelor Happy Hour in your podcast app and click on the follow button. And you know what it'll do for you? You won't have to go searching for us every week. Right. You'll get notified. You'll get notified. It makes your life easy. You can have an extra five minutes to sleep.
Starting point is 00:02:22 You've got to be sick of us staying the same line every week. But the reason we do is because we still get DM. saying, I can't find you. Yeah. So I can't spell it out any better. Go to Bachelor Nation. I'm sorry, go to Bachelor Happy Hour, wherever you get podcasts, click the follow button, scroll down to shows, and you will see a beautiful picture of Susan and me in black evening gowns.
Starting point is 00:02:49 Kathy looks good. My picture looks frightening, but who cares? And submit the questions. That's the only different. you go to bachelornation.com slash golden hour that's where you'll submit questions and tell us what you want us to know yeah and you know what we love hearing your update so do that as well all right we've got some great questions um that we're going to get into but let's go with our question of the day what's your opinion on open marriage essential optional or
Starting point is 00:03:22 outdated. Is there ever a time or scenario in which it works? Has it ever worked for someone you know? So this is where you'll be surprised, Kathy, as modern as I am. My old school comes. Open marriage? No. No. No. And no. Can I add three notes to that? I actually have met people and know people that have. And a couple of them ended up in divorce. and there's one still together. It's somebody's parents, which I was so shocked. I would believe it would be optional for some people. Essential, definitely not outdated.
Starting point is 00:04:00 No. Never. Here's what I don't get, Susan. And I'm actually interested in your opinion. I'm with you. No, no, no, not happening. But here's my thing. I've known a few people who have had not well,
Starting point is 00:04:14 but someone will say, you know, we're in an open marriage. But to me, open marriage. really is multiple sex partners it's not raising the kids together that would be a cult right right so when you have an open marriage why don't you just say i have multiple sex partners because everyone i know and i'm allowed to f around i can fuck anybody i want right but that's that if that's not marriage that's sex right so for me it could never work i would be jealous you know no it couldn't work for me either but do you understand what i'm saying a marriage is so much more than sex yes so when people say I'm in an open marriage.
Starting point is 00:04:48 They should be this word relationship. I just want to, I don't care what they use. I want, what I want to hear, what I would, what I think it is, is, hey, I'm not monogamous. Marriage doesn't come into it. It's, it's, it's, I'm just having sex with a lot of people, you know, then I go home and raise the kids with my wife. I mean, it's, there are married couples that that's their lifestyle and they do enjoy it. They enjoy the sex.
Starting point is 00:05:13 Yeah, well, that's what it is. That's my point. It has nothing to do with. everything else that goes with marriage. It's only about sex. So some people believe that sex is nothing to do with your relate, like a lot of, I don't want to trash Europeans or anything, but their idea of sex where I'm more intimate,
Starting point is 00:05:34 sex is important to me. It's a love thing. It's some people have sex just for sex. And they don't bring it into a relationship where they're in love. That's just the sex. You know what I mean? Like I have a girlfriend and her husband got rest of soul. He had a lot of sex with people and he said, it doesn't mean I don't love you.
Starting point is 00:05:55 So she started and they lasted like 50 some years. Okay. I'm going to make this really simple, Susan. I'm going to make this really simple. Neither of us are married. But if I get married again, the only open marriage I'm going to indulge in is have two guys, my husband and the other two guys I'm sleeping with. coming over taking the trash out cleaning the house cooking for me and then if they're lucky they'll
Starting point is 00:06:23 get sex because it's absurd it's absurd that that's i'd like to hear some young people's opinion on that you know i wonder i wonder do submit those questions we're old school all right it's advice tithy anonymous from las vegas nevada 78 years old yeah good morning ladies well i'm writing this in the morning. Anyway, I wanted to email in and get some advice from two very fashionable women. I am in my 70s and I have been struggling for years with finding clothes that make me feel confident and beautiful in this chapter of life. I feel like all the clothes that fit my body right look like they are for old ladies and I don't give off old lady energy, L.O.L. But some of the clothes at other stores look like they are for 30-year-olds. Where do you buy your clothes that make you feel
Starting point is 00:07:22 beautiful and still feel age-appropriate? I'm in desperate need of a fashion makeover. Thank you, thank you, thank you for any tips. Call me, babe. I'll take you shopping. I knew that. Just tell them, Cass. You're so funny, Susan. I was going to say, well, this question is really for Susan. But let me just say one thing anonymous that I saw on this. One thing that Susan has taught me fashion is um you think that only 30 year olds can wear it right some things yeah some things you can wear youthful clothing you don't have to wear you know old Susan calls the mama you don't have to wear old looking lady clothes mom mom whatever uh you don't have to wear old looking clothes you can go and shop in stores that cater to young women find it's just picking a fine pieces that that
Starting point is 00:08:16 that make you feel good and that, you know, that look good on you. It's about the fit and the style, and it's also about feeling good. But that doesn't mean that you can't wear clothes that are for younger people. Absolutely. And you get like a staple piece and mix it up with a younger, if you will. But everything today is a crop top. Like, come on, we can't wear those. Right.
Starting point is 00:08:39 But everywhere you go, yeah. So you don't wear a crop top. But you might go and buy a pair of vegan leather jeans. that look hot and then wear a blazer if you've got a tummy or something wear a blazer or a big oversized sweater and a little beauty with it I mean you can look at magazines happy happy to help you just believe me it's going to cost you money just hear me up we'll go shop and I do for Kathy constantly although I've created a monster and Kathy can I just say yeah she was like I can't pick out things I feel like I shouldn't wear that that that so me and Kathy start our journey about a year ago
Starting point is 00:09:14 right what is it like now every time we're in the store is that for me is that for me i know it's true it's very true this one's mine yeah it's very true and and she's got dressed more youthfully and and now i said to be honest though susan you know this i still don't like shopping anonymous it's true i don't if i could get susan to go shopping and and dump the stuff that my house let me try it on i'd be so happy but susan some people love shopping i do i love it oh i love people all y'all i like making people beautiful that was my my whole life i mean being well it was hair not clothing makeup what that goes with then well do you realize when you look at you know when you see um like for spring passion or whatever and you'll see the award ceremonies their hair is what
Starting point is 00:10:04 their fashion dictates like you know how everything's two seasons ahead right now probably on fall you know of next year yeah but and you'll notice that the hair what changes in hair everything is related fashion wise so when fashion came out and there was layers of clothes right remember we would layer all kinds so was hair yeah when the clean sleek lines came out that's so what are we in now blunt cut come well now anything goes it's beechy waves it's it's it's crop tops and Susan by the way it's going to cut my bangs she's got what are you going to give me curtain bangs a little bit of a curtain yeah bang we're gonna so let me just say to you you understand how excited susan gets about this shopping just for
Starting point is 00:10:50 those of you had any doubt kathy would rather go out and walk six miles clean windows just about anything other things or iron her sheets or i do iron my sheets that's why i said that's what tells you not me a new pair of shoes oh my god i bought a pair yesterday hey susan oh they're so cute you bought a new pair of shoes yesterday? Black and white polka dot with a little bow. You bought him yesterday? Yes, I did. Wait a minute. You bought black and white boat shoes last week. Tell everyone listening,
Starting point is 00:11:20 how many pairs of shoes did you get rid of this week? 12. And she bought 12. And I'm bringing them up to the place, the green place up here to give them away. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly and now I'm seriously suspicious. Oh, wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school.
Starting point is 00:11:40 on the OK Story Time podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate.
Starting point is 00:11:57 Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor and they're the same age. And it's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both the meets. So do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the explosive
Starting point is 00:12:16 finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I never envisioned being with a woman. I'll just be honest. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts Spolitics. On this week's episode, I'm joined by basketball legend
Starting point is 00:12:31 Candice Parker, who stops by to discuss her candid new book, The Can Do Mindset, in which she shares why she waited two years into marriage to come out. Like, when I close my eyes at night, every night, I was like, I need to find my prince charming. Like, it was never a princess. Like, that never entered into my mind.
Starting point is 00:12:52 But, you know, as I learned, sometimes life gives you things wrapped in a package that you didn't expect it. And that was just, you know, and honestly, it took me a long time to be okay with myself. Make sure to listen to this week's episode of Spolitics on the IHeartre Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Humanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you.
Starting point is 00:13:30 But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. So next is Debbie.
Starting point is 00:13:53 All right. We're going with Debbie. I still want to talk about Susan and shopping, but apparently I have to move on here. We can't do a whole episode on that. We really should. Okay. Debbie is 65 from White Plains, New York.
Starting point is 00:14:05 Hi, girls. I'm writing in asking for some advice. I'm getting a bit of plastic, ooh, a bit of plastic surgery makeover coming up that I'm really excited about. I'm getting a minor facelift and my neck done. Sound familiar, Susan? This is something I've wanted for a long time and I'm going to a doctor who keeps his patients looking really natural. My husband has been super supportive. But now that the surgery is next week, he keeps taking photos of me nonstop saying he wants to remember my face.
Starting point is 00:14:37 he's even asked if we can go outside a few times for him to get photos of me in better lighting so he can remember my face as it is i keep saying no because i'm insecure about my face and neck hence why i'm getting them done do you think i should just let him take some photos of me or should i just tell him to trust me that i'll feel and look better after the procedure and then he can take as many photos of me as he wants let me know what you think i think debby the latter debby debby Debbie. Take a billion of them. The morning I left for surgery. I flashed the girls in the mirror and took a picture. But that's you, Susan. Wait, you are missing the point of this question. When he shows you those pictures, how he wants to remember her. He, because you're doing like we did. It's nothing major. You still look like yourself. Right. It's just taken a few years off. It looks a little, you look more resting. It makes us able to lie on the dating sites. about our age. No, but absolutely. Let him take them because you say, See, hon, now look at me. He's going to be very, very happy. See, I think, I don't really agree
Starting point is 00:15:45 with you on this. I think she says he's taken a bunch already. She's uncomfortable. She doesn't want to remember herself. I'm the same way. I don't like to have pictures taken to me when I don't feel good about how I look. So he's already taken a bunch. What do you mean you don't feel good about how you look? She's about to go for plastic surgery. He wants it before and after. That's He's kind of before. Did you not hear what she? He said. He needs more than one.
Starting point is 00:16:11 You need more than one. Don't be uncomfortable, honey. Don't enjoy this journey. And I'm so, so happy for you because you're doing it for you. You are doing a few. And if you are not comfortable taking pictures, tell Debbie, tell your husband, you know what, you've already taken a hundred. We're done here.
Starting point is 00:16:29 You can take a hundred of me with my new face that you're going to love more than this one. And I'd say, honey, you can come outside. I didn't take a hundred more. Where are we going to shop and you're going to buy me something for this? See, Susan gets right. Wait, did you see that? Susan gets right back to shopping, right back to shopping. Okay, we have another anonymous.
Starting point is 00:16:49 This one's 39 from Lakewood, New Jersey, right up the street. Ladies, I'm feeling a little embarrassed, so I'm writing it anonymously. Okay. I am a mom of three and have a big birthday coming up in a few weeks. I'm already getting the big hint that my husband doesn't have anything planned, and my friends are also all so busy with their kids' lives. My siblings and parents also live across the country from us, so they won't be celebrating with us in person.
Starting point is 00:17:21 I'm feeling sad because I kind of just feel like no one wants to celebrate me, and for such a big birthday, I wanted to have either my husband or friends plan something for my special day. I know I could plan something for myself or ask someone to help me plan something, but that doesn't feel the same. There's definitely no surprise party coming or anything like that, and I just don't want to spend the day upset. I'm sorry if I sound like a total breath. I just don't want to be a sad birthday girl. Any advice or what to do about this without being a total bummer. Oh, I know, baby. She's going to tell you to go shopping.
Starting point is 00:18:06 No, no, no, no, no. Wait, I think, wait, before you go there, I think there could be a big birthday surprise coming. Everyone's just too, I'm busy, I can't do it, the husband's not doing anything. There might be a surprise coming for her. I am? Yeah, telling her, might be, you just read he's not got nothing planned or siblings are across the country now. Well, no, but first of all, her husband may be fooling or and he may have something planned. All right. What's your advice? I mean, I would go shopping. I like that. I like how you think. Here's the deal.
Starting point is 00:18:38 Yeah. My husband was never one to throw a party or he just didn't have it in it. My 40th birthday was a black tie event. My caterers, I had cappuccino makers. There was music. It was people that came. I threw it myself. I absolutely did. It was black tie optional. and people leaving that party said, Susan, this was better than any wedding I ever went to. I had a blast. And I wanted it and I did it. So don't feel like you shouldn't throw something for yourself. I think that's sound advice. I also think there's other things you can do.
Starting point is 00:19:21 If you like to hike, go take a hike. If you like to shop, go shop. If you like to swim, go swim. You can do that any day. To her, this is like a milestone. for her she's turning a big one 40 trust me I trade places anytime but well she didn't say 40 it could be 50
Starting point is 00:19:37 she's 39 oh sorry you're right she did she hello okay so yeah it is a big birthday but you know do something for yourself if he if he doesn't do it I'm I'm I have to be honest here two things I never believed in big birthdays to me every year above ground is a great
Starting point is 00:19:57 birthday and I just really didn't care about those quote unquote milestone birthdays so it's tough but i will tell you my husband did plan some surprise parties for me for birthdays and graduation from college susan he couldn't keep the secret he told me about oh that would be me that's why i planned it myself i would blow it he told me everyone that's like really now he told me about my surprise baby shower um oh no everyone my surprise graduation from college party and i had to walk in and try to be surprised it was ridiculous. I have never in my life been surprised. Nobody can do it. Is this a challenge, Susan? We're going to take that one?
Starting point is 00:20:38 I'm just stating a fact. That's all. Stating a fact. Never. You've never been surprised with a party or with anything? Nothing. Okay, Bachelor Nation, I'm going to work on this. I'm going to come up with something and I'm going to win the award for surprising Susan. And you know what else? If you're feeling weird about having your own party, does there some place you'd like to go? Invite us. Book a trip. We'll go with you.
Starting point is 00:21:03 Yeah. Actually, we have some cruise thing coming up for everybody listening. I know it's not set yet, but a neighbor of mine, I did her hair for years and she's converting into, from the corporate world, into being a travel agent. And she said, would you guys be interested in going on a cruise and we could celebrate it with the public and whoever wants to come? If so many people come, we might get, you know, our room for nothing or whatever. I'm like, yeah, I'll go party with people. Let's do it. And you can come to an honest.
Starting point is 00:21:32 If that balls on your 40th, there you go. Yeah, come on a cruise with us. We'll have a blast. All right, we are going to play the game, season, that we've done before. Here we go again, her games, people. Do you notice every week it's going to be in the game? Games are fun. All right, so here we go.
Starting point is 00:21:49 We'll each give our thoughts on what we'd rather do and why. So the first one is, would you rather relive your wedding day or your favorite birthday celebration my favorite birthday celebration i'm guessing it was your 40th uh yeah the one you i would rather relive my wedding day and you know why i got married when i was 20 and i was just you know i i would love to relive it now um what would you do different well first of all i would not have worn the ugly dress that i wore let's start with that that was the style then i know I look back at my prom pictures and go, what was I thinking? Oh, my dress was ugly.
Starting point is 00:22:32 But you know what? I never, I never, funny story. At my wedding, my mother came up to me and said, are you ever going to, my mother was married like four times. My mother said, are you, are you going to wear that dress again? And I said, no. Wait, did you pick out this dress yourself? I did, but I was very heavy.
Starting point is 00:22:52 At that time, I was, you know, 170. So I've seen some big, beautiful brides. Yeah, well, I wasn't a big and beautiful bride. I was self-conscious and everyone in those days, listen, people have gotten bigger. What did it look like, Kath? I want to see it. Wait, wait, let me just say, people have gotten bigger and taller over the years. When I got married, I was, you know, everyone was 5'3 and 95 pounds.
Starting point is 00:23:14 So it was an ampere waist, long sleeve, and a, and then it just hung, there was no train. I would have a sexy dress now, something just. just really, I don't know, beaded and fashion. I mean, I was young. My dress was like something you'd wear for your first communion. It was awful. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Oh, wait a minute, Sam.
Starting point is 00:23:43 Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. now he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy?
Starting point is 00:24:02 That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor and they're the same age. And it's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him
Starting point is 00:24:15 because he now wants them both to meet. So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I'm Jemel Hill, host to the Sports and Politics Podcasts Politics. And on the latest episode of Politics,
Starting point is 00:24:34 House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't say publicly? Many of them are in fear of their political lives. And that's been part of the challenge. But we continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your constituents, to stand up for your...
Starting point is 00:24:54 constituents and there's life after Congress and you should be willing to actually want to be able to look back on your time in the House of Representatives knowing that you can keep your head held high because you did the right thing. Donald Trump is gone in three and a half years, but their legacy or their failure to stand up to the extremism and the unprecedented assault on America as we know it will be with them forever. Make sure to listen to Spolitics on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Emanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips.
Starting point is 00:25:32 And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psycho babble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercoms the podcast for you. for you open your free iHeart radio app search emergency intercom and listen now
Starting point is 00:25:58 okay the next question i think we we could probably even skip it because i know the answer for both of us would you rather have dinner with your younger self or your older self what would you say my older self really i'd go for either i don't have a preference on that one It's dinner. Would you rather never have to cook again or never have to clean? Okay, Susan, let's, let's play. This game wasn't for me and you because she does not cook. You can't ask her that.
Starting point is 00:26:34 But I love to clean. You do clean, but you got to clean a lady. Well, but I, excuse me, she comes once every two weeks and I clean in between times. And I have two cats and people never know I have cats because I don't have any cat here. I don't like that. And I could not tell. yes all right okay so would you rather have one what now if you had to pick one would you rather never have to cook again or never have to clean again never have to believe it or not never have
Starting point is 00:27:03 to cook again yeah i would say clean yeah all right would you rather have all the wisdom you have now in your 20s or keep learning new things every year from now on oh oh that's easy for me What is it? I'd much of have had that wisdom in my 20s. But would we have paid attention to it? Well, if you have the wisdom, you've got the... That's true. What about you?
Starting point is 00:27:30 I know, I remember my mom's friends giving me a little advice and all, and I would listen, but you have to experience. I know, but if you had the experience and the wisdom in your 20s, think of the better decisions you would make. Yes. But the people in the world would, have that wisdom at that age so you wouldn't fit into anything oh gosh susan you know you're bursting my bubble hair yeah all right we're just we're going to be dumb in our 20s and learning new stuff
Starting point is 00:28:00 from now on would you rather have unlimited energy to stay busy or all the time in the world to relax energy by fault oh i mean if anyone has to ask me that i i love having energy i was sick i was you know this I was very sick. I couldn't get out of bed. And just for one day, I was so sick, stomach thing. And literally, I got up the next day and, you know, did laundry and changed my bed and cleaned the cap. She felt better she had a rest. Yeah, I don't like resting.
Starting point is 00:28:36 All right. Would you rather have, oh, I have her. I don't even have to read this question. Would you rather have a personal stylist or a personal masseuse for the rest of your life? I'm going to do a sous in here, both. I like both too. I think I would rather have the masseuse. I think I'd rather have the masseuse too.
Starting point is 00:28:56 Because I already have the personal style. I already have the personal style. I already have the personal style. That's right. Oh, are you kidding? A good massage makes you feel great. Oh, God, I love it. You know, yesterday I went, and for those of you listening that,
Starting point is 00:29:09 especially the ones that have upcoming surgeries, I learned something new. Kathy and I both did, that there's a lymphotic. massage to help take the water weight or the swelling this thing she barely touches you like taps little tiny you don't even know i snore through the whole thing this is my third one and i slept again it is so relaxing and this morning when i got up unbelievable difference because after surgery you'll swell in the mornings and then again by the end of the day and it's like three to six month. And I've had it, we both had it done when we had our facelifts. And it really does feel like
Starting point is 00:29:49 just, your friend, Lottie said it's like a penny or a nickel just tapping your skin. It's unbelievable how much it takes in swelling. I didn't even know it existed. I didn't either. I guess you wouldn't know until you need it, right? Well, no. Somebody was, that woman that did it said people should do it as a regular course of habit for good health. Well, I asked her yesterday, do most of your clients' clientele have, you know, surgery? And she said 50%. The other 50% have issues in life. Like it's not something that you just go do.
Starting point is 00:30:26 They have a disease or a condition that they have to. Yeah. All right. Here's one of my favorite ones, Susan. Lymphatic massage. We're all going to go get one. Would you rather have a private yacht for a week or a personal jet to fly anywhere for a month.
Starting point is 00:30:44 I guess a jet. I was going to say the jet. But a private yacht sounds nice, but it's well, here's the thing, a personal jet and flying anywhere for a month. When you get there, you've got to pay. Yeah, but you can go anywhere. I know, but you have to pay for it. Anywhere. And it's just yours.
Starting point is 00:31:05 You can take whoever you want on it. Susan, then you got to pay for those people too. I mean, a private, yeah, I probably. I probably, would do the, I would probably do the jet, but I don't know, a yacht sounds, I'm getting into the Susan mode. We won't both. Would you rather find perfect parking anytime you drive or never have to go through airport security again? No-brainer. Which, you're going to laugh at my answer. Airport security. So, even with TSA and I've got clear in TSA, so I fly through the airport. You're going to laugh. My kids, if they were here, I, and my husband, he said,
Starting point is 00:31:42 say it too. I have the most incredible parking karma. I pull in to the busiest parking lot and someone pulls out of the front row and I slide in every time. I'm not joking. That's called lucky. I should take you to the casino. We went, really, we took my daughter, I took my daughter and my son-in-law and my granddaughter. We went to a, a few weeks ago, went to a pumpkin patch. And I saw cars lining up to get in because it was no parking. And I looked to the right and I said, I took a hard right and parked and there was one spot there and my daughter looked at me she goes you really do have parking karma so kathy's going to pick kathy's going to pick perfect parking well i already have perfect parking so i'm i'm going to go i'm going to go through the airport no security
Starting point is 00:32:34 perfect would you rather relive your favorite first date you've had or your most fun night out with friends i love you susan i want the first date again yeah i'm trying to remember what was my favorite first day no i've had a few good first dates okay go ahead kath all right would you rather never experience a bad hair day again or never feel pain in heels you know what i'm going to answer heels no you're going to say hair i'm saying heels you have It's great here. That's why you're going to say it. Would you rather spend a day with your favorite celebrity or reconnect with an old friend? Oh, I want a celebrity day.
Starting point is 00:33:18 Yeah, the hell with the friends. You can see them any time. I love you, Susan, but I'm going for the celebrity. Absolutely. Oh, God, this was so much fun. All right, well, this does it for another episode of Bachelor, Happy Hour's Golden Hour. This is so much fun. We love answering your questions.
Starting point is 00:33:35 We love just get to share some of your day with you. And we love your feedback. I mean, come on. And I think you got it by now. I really am proud of you people. You know how to follow Bachelor Happy Hour as we have new episodes, new shows coming out every single week. And we really want you to see them. We do. Hear them. Listen to them. Be there with us in spirit. And if you want to send questions or comments or give us an update on your life, just send them to bachelornation.com slash golden hour or hit us up on social. at Bachelor Happy Hour. I've had a great time today, Kat. It's always fun. Always fun with you, Susan. Listen to Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour on the IHeart Radio app or wherever you listen to podcast.
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