Bachelor Happy Hour - Female Power | Golden Hour

Episode Date: June 11, 2025

Today on “Golden Hour,” we’re diving into your questions and they’re all about tapping in to your female power! We kick off the episode with our question of the day: What do girls nights look like for you now, and how have they changed over the years? Then, we dive into your questions! Whether you’re a widow looking to get back out there for a no-strings fling or you’re a smitten girlfriend looking to set some tough boundaries against “good problems,” we’re here to help! Plus, we’re ending this episode off with a round of “Would You Rather,” and it’s all about cheating partners, bestie dilemmas, and more. Tune in now and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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or wherever you get your podcast. I'm Dr. Joy Hardin Bradford, host of the Therapy for Black Girls podcast. I know how overwhelming it can feel if flying makes you anxious. In session 418 of the Therapy for Black Girls podcast, Dr. Angela Neal-Barnett and I discuss flight anxiety. What is not a norm is to allow it. to prevent you from doing the things that you want to do, the things that you were meant to do. Listen to Therapy for Black Girls on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour. Thanks for joining us today. We're so excited to be back. Susan, how are you doing?

I am so excited. Everything's starting the blue. my grass is growing. It looks so fresh outside. And welcome back, everybody, and thank you for tuning in today. And we will be answering more of your fan questions. So make sure you keep submitting those. We love it. Just go to bachelornation.com slash golden hour and submit away. So we want to hear everything from you, your questions, your updates, your comments, all that. It's really easy. You just have to DM us on Instagram at Bachelor. hour please do it you got it okay you ready it's time to get into the episode we ready kathy always ready with the question of the day today's question of the day what does an ideal

girls night out look like for you now versus when you were younger okay susan i'm feeling silly today what's changed gath really what's really girls night out i can i can tell you what's changed When I go out with the girls now, instead of looking sexy at the bar and, you know, waiting for those guys to approach me, I'm pointing going, what do you think of him? What do you think of him? Which one? Who's going to go get him? I mean, seriously, girls not out for me now is just getting together with friends, going to a bar, a restaurant, to somebody's home, listening to music, having wine, chit-chatting, talking about clothes, you know, vacations. The difference for me is now I do a fine restaurant Before it was just go right to the bar Let's go get drinks, you know what I mean? Now it's about good dining and... Okay, you know where I'm going with this, Susan,

because I've gone out to dinner with you many times. When you go out with a bunch of girls and you go to a fine restaurant or you go to Mickey D's, how do you split the bill? So usually we just spend. split it evenly. There are times, and there are certain people that I go out with that I know better, and I'll either get the check at the end before she starts with the espresso martinis.

Some people drink more than others. And like when I go out with you, you don't eat as much as we eat. You drink instead of eat. That's why we get along. You order the food and I order But it's true. I mean, I find that women are more problematic with that. Yes, a lot of times. Well, I know people that will refrain won't want to come because they can't afford it or you guys eat like crazy and you drink so much, some people, the bar bill. Or, I mean, I've been known to say keep your tab yourself. If you feel like you can't chip in, they're ordering light. They're only having one cocktail. I don't have a problem. I don't either. I'll tell you, I've gone out with some of my friends. They're few and far between who don't drink.

But when I go out for drinks, if I'm going to have a couple of, you know, whatever, vodka, sodas, whatever I'm going to drink. You're the tequila, rainwater, dirt water or something. Ranch water. It's a Texas drink. It's tequila, soda, and lime. Dirt water, really super. I know, that looks dirty. It's clear.

I tasted it, people. Can I tell you? Ooh. There's nothing good about it. Well, what, that's because you, what is that horrible stuff, Amaretto? What is it you drink? Graemeanier. Oh, Graemeanier.

Oh, please. That's torture. Yeah, it's torture. Anyway, I'm just saying women are different from men, but girls turnouts, I love it. But the other difference is for me, some of my friends are married or have serious boyfriends or a living together, whatever, and I'm single. So, you know, it feels a little different, right, when you're out with them. I'm trying to make guys at the handsome guy down at the bar and,

You know, they're talking about their kids. I never try. You know, I'm like oblivious to who's there. But you know what else is different, Kathy? When we plan a girl's night out, it's usually a trip. It's like a week night out. It's a week night out, right. When you're over 60, it's like not one night.

No, no, no. That's like just a dinner. Can I just say, though, you bring up another issue. You know, we are trying to plan another little get together with some of the women on the Golden Bachelor. And can I just tell you? It's a nightmare. It's a nightmare. It would be easier to find the proverbial needle in the haystack. In fact, I kind of want to just go to like a farm, stick a needle in a haystack and say, hey, hey, ladies, this is what it's like.

I have an idea. Okay, tell me. I mean, this year, we got shot in the foot. We just have to deal with all the chaos. But for the future, as a matter of fact, I believe we tried this. And ladies and gentlemen out there, if you're listening, tell me how you work this. So you go on a girl's trip. I think one person finds the place, this is it.

Would you like to join us? This is the amount. These are the dates. When too many people are involved, this one don't want this, this one don't want that, there's not enough bathrooms, there's not enough. Well, let's try this. Now they're talking a whole New Island. So you know what I'm, can I just say?

I am so on your page season, I am going to send out an email, hey, this is where we're going and you want to come. This is what it's going to cost. You don't want to come. I think we should have did that, yes. We should have done that. We should have. I mean, you and I booked the place and then they had a difference, so we had to cancel it, and we lost the place, although they are finding some decent places. Well, let me just say on girls week out, the last thing I'm going to do, if none of this fail, if all of this fails, I'm going to book a one bedroom, and I'm going by myself and you're going to entertain me i hear that i'll be there you know that all right so now that we've we've we've got girls nights girls weeks girls month do you not want to hear from people out

there i'm sure there are stories i mean has it ruined any relationships of girlfriends yeah trying to plan a trip i'm sure there's going to be a ton of stories on this one yeah let us know again just go to bachelornation dot com slash golden hour send us your comments Send us how you do that. We would love to know. Maybe we could learn something here, Susan, how to plan the best girls' trip. I'm telling you. All right.

We're going to get into our fan questions, and I'm going to get started with the first one. We love our fan questions. The first one's from Kimmy. She writes, Hi, Kathy and Susan. I love you too, and my own mom and I are estranged. So I'm coming to my podcast moms for some advice. Okay, that's sad. We're here for you.

We're here, sweetie. We're here for you, Kimmy. Okay. Hope that's okay. is. I've been with my boyfriend for five years now, and we recently moved in together. I'm about to sound so brady and ungrateful, so please forgive me. But he keeps buying me really expensive designer gifts that I don't like or want and didn't ask for. Susan, could we get Kimi to send her stuff to us? Can I just interrupt there? Can we get her to send it to us? Okay. Again, I know that

sounds brady, says Kimmy, but now that we are splitting bills and living together, his spending on that kind of stuff impacts both of us. And I really don't need these gifts. So far, I haven't worn any of them or use any of them because they're not really my style. And he's been so sweet and I've told him I don't need these kind of gifts, but he keeps getting them for me. Whenever I open them, he asks if I love it and I never know what to say. I've tried communicating to him that I so appreciate the gesture, but I just prefer spending time with him and would rather spend our money on experiences. It doesn't seem like the messages are getting across and I don't know what to do or how to act when he gets me more fancy items. Please help. I know this is a, quote, good problem to have.

It certainly is. But if we're going to get married like we talk about, I don't want to create bad spending habits now. Thank you and I love you both. Oh boy. So first, and foremost, you've got to be honest. If you open and say, oh, my God, you are so sweet. I love you for thinking of me. However, I don't care for it. And I know you're spending a lot of money. I don't want you to waste money. It's communication, one of our cardinal rules. Yeah. You got to be honest. Yes, you do, my friend. Here's what I would say. I agree with most of what you're saying, which is scary. What don't you agree with?

I don't think she should say she doesn't like them. If it were me, I would have the trajectory of the conversation move towards, hey, we're talking about getting married, let's set a budget and, you know, for gifts for each other, let's set this amount. So you're not saying I don't like it. You're saying we need a budget and doesn't like them. I understand, but that's neither here, no. There. At this point, if he is spending, I'm making the number up, Kimmy, if he's spending $2,000 a month on gifts for you and buys you a gorgeous handbag that you're not using, okay, that's one thing. But if you're talking about getting married, say, hey, boyfriend, let's sit and talk about our budget. And I would like to make a budget for groceries, for food, for entertainment, for gift giving. And then set it for a reasonable.

amount. So you know what, if he buys you something for $200 and your budget's $400, you know what, put it in the closet and re-gift it later. Don't offend him. But Kathy, what if he has plenty of money and money is not an issue? He just enjoys gifting her. Susan, there is always more month than money. Therefore, you always have to have a budget. It may look more generous to some people than others but you know and if you've got that much money you should be saving and investing so that's what i would say can me have susan's right have the honest talk with him but i wouldn't say i don't like the gifts i would because you're not going to use it you're not going to wear it and he's going to wonder why baby it's just not my style but you know what i would buy me something every

once in a while take me with you let me pick it out and i will love it again i think the the I think that's hurting his feelings. If he buys you an ugly blouse, my husband used to buy me things that I didn't like. You know, I'd wear it one time. It would go to the back of the closet eventually I would get rid of it. But what, it's his money to waste until you get married. And that's why I said have the conversation about a budget. Kim me, let us know.

And let me see the gifts, just in case I like that. Yeah, DM the Susan and me, we'll fight over him. You know, you want to get rid of them? We know just where they should go. I'm telling you. I want to know. Does he, hey, Kimmy, where's his father and does he give good gifts? Thank you so much for sharing that with us.

And that's a tough problem to have, really. I mean, yes, you sound bratty. No, jeez. I mean, it is what it is. Thank goodness you found a man that wants to spoil you. You have to look at that side of it as well. That's what I'm saying. It's so many good things there.

Yes, yes. You know, where the buzz. But I get her point. you know I get our point you want to save and get the best house you want and but I bet that Susan how much you want to bet they have not had a conversation yet that's what I'm saying about no no no not about her likes and dislikes about budgeting how much are we going to save how much are we going to invest communicating right but that doesn't necessarily include I hate that damn blouse you bought me

no that's not how you approach it either you know but yes I get it I get it we wish you a ton of luck. Let us know, Kim. And by the way, let us know when you get married. I happen to know a very good wedding officiant. Her name is Susan. I'm sure she would love to come and do your wedding as long as you invite me as well. She's my plus one. That's right. All right, West West, Prop here from Hood Politics with Prop Podcast. You already know our get-down. If you grew up in our urban areas of comfort of struggle, you understand politics much more than you giving credit for. taking over American cities, government hop-out boys, hopping out the van, snatching up your

Theo and them, two wars that was supposed to be solved in 24 hours. Jerry just out here mandering all over the place. The turfs. And of course, the Epstein of it all. Well, this week, we decided to shoot our shot, and boy, did we pull up from the logo, to see if we could get somebody to come tap in with us. And the one and only Jamil Hill pulled up from the Spolitics podcast to keep it a whole century. The American public is used to being entertained.

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I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts, Politics. On this week's episode, I'm joined by basketball legend, Candice Parker, who stops by to discuss her candid new book, the can-do mindset, in which she shares why she waited two years into marriage to come out. Like when I close my eyes at night, every night, I was like, I need to find my prince charming. Like, it was never a princess. Like, that never entered into my mind. But, you know, as I learned, sometimes life gives you things wrapped in a package that you didn't expect it.

And that was just, you know, and honestly, it took me a long time to be okay with my. Make sure to listen to this week's episode of Spolitics on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Your entire identity has been fabricated. Your beloved brother goes missing without a trace. You discover the depths of your mother's illness, the way it has echoed and reverberated throughout your life, impacting your very legacy. Hi, I'm Danny Shapiro. And these are just a few of the profound and powerful stories I'll be mining on our 12th season of Family Secrets. With over 37 million downloads,

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Hello, Golden Beauties. Ooh, that sounds nice. I am 60, almost 61, and I'm a widow of almost five years, still single. I've not dated anyone in 23 years, and let's just say there's been no intimacy in five years. I felt invisible and undesirable for a long time now, even though I feel beautiful and I know I am young at heart and have a lot of living to do. Well, I'm glad you said that, Marie. Recently, while on vacation, I met someone who lives in another country. Quite far from me, no, you don't say.

There was an immediate and quite intense attraction that was felt by both of us. I've not felt that in a long time, all caps. He is 19 years my junior. There was no chance to talk, really, since I was leaving the very next day. We are Facebook friends and chat the odd time. He is also in a band. They are touring this summer and will be in a band. my city and I plan to see them. He knows I'll be there. So lovelies, here's my question.

Would it be bad if I just laid it all out and let him know I'm interested in a little fun if you catch my drift? No ties, no great love affair, just sex. Women are always looking, women are always looked at as cougars, but men do it all the time and people don't blink an eye. yet. Even writing this and asking the question is making me feel like there is something wrong with me, even though I know there isn't. I would so much appreciate your wisdom. Thank you so much for your time. Oh my goodness. That is a no-brainer girlfriend. You do. You do you. I actually think she's a smart woman. Yes, she is. Well, I was a little taken when they you immediately have this attraction and their Facebook friends and they're chatting,

why not make it a long-distance relationship? You just want to do one bang and go when he comes into town? I don't get it. You could go bang any time, any month you pick. I mean, I think there's so much more to unpack here than just having sex, as there usually is in anything. I think, you know, sometimes you meet someone. and something comes of it when you meet them long distance.

Sometimes it's just, oh, my gosh, you're so fun, had a great time. You hug and kiss and it's nothing. And then, you know, you go and see him when he's in town or whatever. Sometimes it's more than that. I think there's nothing wrong in her sense. I personally, Marie, I would not say, you want to have sex? But that's not the kind of person I am. Just let it play out.

Just let it play out. Tell him you want to see him. Would he have time? I would approach it a little more softly. I would say, hey, when you're in town, would you have time to maybe go to dinner with me? When you say, let's have a little. He's in a van on the road. Well, I'm sorry.

If he's a big, what are they going to have sex on the bus before he leaves for the next kid? They're in a hotel room. They don't have time to go to dinner. You know, okay, you're not going to like my answer. My answer would be spend some time going, Maria, going on starting a website, joining some clubs. If you, you know, if you just want to get a hookup, there's lots of websites out there in your hometown where you can do that. Well, she likes this one. Well, she wants to have sex.

If you're okay with getting the hook up, then why couldn't she hook up with the guy that she'd attracted to. She can, but it seems like a lot of work. What works? You don't have to do anything. What her question to us is, should she lay it all out there? Should she explain it? Do not. He's in a band. He gets it. He does this all the time.

Use protection, though, Doc. Please. You and I are very different. Could you imagine? 19 year younger man. Wait a minute. Oh, my God. I love it. Of course you do. Could you imagine me reaching out to any man ever ever insane i want to hook i mean it's just it's foreign to me but did you see in the

beginning it's been five years since she had any sex right she started to feel invisible but she knows she's good she knows she's young at heart she wants to feel alive and she realizes that she can't do this long distance thing so he's coming go for it i say go for it but that go for it's When you see them, less is more. Let it play out. Let it play out. Go to see the band, say, hey, you want to get a drink. I don't know, apparently band members, you know, come into town, play music, have sex and leave, according to you.

So I don't know. Well, that's how they wrong. That's their life. You realize you're throwing all band members. Not all band members. I'm not saying. But this is how she's asking me this question. I don't think you need to write the rule book out and explain it to him.

He's going to think you're crazy. Yeah. And if it were me, Maria, I would spend a little more time trying to develop a life where you are and try to make a relationship, what's why I'm trying to say, a connection. That was a tough word for today. Well, if you're trying to make a connection, that's an connection. I know, but I'm just saying, you know, if you want to find someone to be attracted to and you live in Bayonne, New Jersey, check out Bayonne.

You don't have to go to Sicily. That's all I'm saying. She doesn't want any ties. This guy's going to fall in love with that. Do you think she really? Wait. Men do it all the time. They do. Anybody ever say, except for Kathy, she does say.

She does say. I want a real guy. I don't want a guy who's got a woman in every port. I understand what we're talking about Marie here. Well, I'm not sure. She just wants to feel alive. But do you think that's all she wants? Yeah, because she says it right here.

I'm interested in a little fun. if you catch my drift, no ties, no great love affair, just sex. Then Maria, dial one 800, gets care of you in every way imaginable and makes up for the last five years. There's nothing like an orgasm. Let me know how good he was. Oh, my God, Susan. Kathy, it's life. It is life, but I'm just saying. People do it. I don't judge him. I'm not judging her. I'm I'm trying to be delicate here because I am a lady of culture and good manners. I am trying to say you don't have to go to this much effort to have sex if that's what you're after. What effort is it?

He's coming in to town. There's no effort. Think about it. He's coming in. She knows he knows he knows she's going to be there. Go to the room and do your things. She spent a lot of time on this whole deal. Go, you know.

There are hookup sites. That's what I would recommend. go get a hookup, and get him tested first. Honey, make sure he wears protection and enjoy yourself. Okay, all right. Thank you, Marie. I love this. I love this.

You are alive. You are not invisible. You are not dead yet. Let me tell you, enjoy yourself, but be careful. And I hope, and I hope that she's not disappointed if he just thought he'd never see her again. And it was just like, hey, sweet babes, nice. But that's what she's saying. know. I hope it comes to more in that he really does. Wouldn't that be nice? Wouldn't it be nice?

I don't know. And you know what? Let's see. I love it. She was real. She was honest and she was a little embarrassed to ask, but I'm so glad you did. I'm so real. He's 40. I get it. He's 40. You did the math. Hey, listen. Well, he's about to be, he's 40 or 41, 42, actually. If he's 19 years old or he's 42. He should be prime. Oh, Susan. Can I just say. I'm just thinking of how good she's going to feel. Or maybe not. Yeah, I need that too. Okay.

This is an E, what is this? We're not X-rated podcast here. Jesus, Susan. You want to take a break here? There's nothing. X-rated, Miss Fairy Mary over here. Come on. Go do it, Marie. And you don't have to tell anybody.

Nobody else is going to judge you for it. No, absolutely. And you're right, Marie. There's nothing wrong with sleeping with a guy, 19 years younger. I think men are way too focused on always dating the younger women. So good for you. I hope the sex turns into more if you wanted to. Nothing worried.

19 years, so what? I just think sex is good. He could be a dud. Thank you, Marie. I love this question. So, Marie, please reach out to Susan personally and let her know if this guy was a dud. Because she's apparently willing to give him lessons. So, you know, we can make this good for everybody.

Don't go crazy, Kathy. All right, we're moving on. We're going to play, Would You Rather, Susan? Oh, boy. Okay. And Susan, would you rather sleep with a guy 19 years younger or 19 years older? Okay. That was a joke.

I'm going to read the prompts and then we're going to answer not what you think I would do. 19 years older than I am right now, Kathy. I don't think he's going to be good. Moving right along. Oh, Lord. Okay. We're going to say what we'd rather do, what we would rather do, but it's going to be me saying what I would rather do, you saying what you would rather do, not you telling me what I would rather. Got it? You all know. I hate that. Susan Struggle. Susan on the struggle boss with that one. All right. Here we go. The first one is, would you rather date someone who never texts back or someone who never stops texting. Who never stops texting because if he doesn't answer me, my brain's going to work over time.

Can I just, okay. Kathy has, Kathy's going to give a little commentary here. Susan, date someone in particular and she'll call me and say, I haven't heard from him. And I'm like, in how long, 20 minutes. She's freaking out. I'm like, I don't know, maybe he's in the bathroom. She's exaggerating just a titch, an hour. So, you know, for us, yes, I would rather have a guy text. Actually, I'd rather Somebody that answers immediately all the time, and then all of a sudden, they, Kathy, you do it yourself if I don't answer. That's because you're my friend and I worry about you. Good. Trust me, I don't want to date you.

Okay, good. What would you rather? Same? We agree. We agree. Oh, I'm sorry. I would absolutely. I love attention.

I love it when a man texts me or calls me. I got to say, though, just before we move on, texting for me, Like, often I'll say, can I call you if I'm texting with someone? You're a phone call girl. Well, because I struggle with, you know, I think that. There's so much that is, you can't read the emotion on a, on a text. You just can't. But it's so easy to text.

Well, I do voice text or use your fingers. I do voice text and sometimes they'll call me and say, do you know what you said? I go, nah, in proofread. But would you rather text or call with your boyfriend? both I do both yeah I text is easy it gets a little stuff out of the way when you do a phone call it's it's different no but if you're having a conversation yeah about something I know people who just want to text I'm like I can't I like the morning text and the good night text and you have a phone call at some point but yeah I don't mind texting all right moving all right would you rather

catch your partner lying about a small thing every day or one huge lie one time you know this is a tough one for me questions this is tough well it's i'll tell you why it's tough for me i don't like liars there's two things in a relationship that i can't abide i really can't lie one is cheating well actually there's three things that i can't abide the first one is cheating the second one is cheating the third one is lying i just can't so a little lie a big lie i don't my mind would go. If these lying to me on, you know, I mean, if he says like fried eggs and he's lying because he wants scrambled eggs, okay, yeah, it's no big deal.

But what's a small lie? And to me, a small lie sometimes just goes into bigger lies. He's going to tell a little fib, I'm not going to trust you as far as I could pick you up and throw you. And one huge one could be the end. That's what I'm saying. Either way, it's not a good thing. I don't do liars.

All right, West West, Prop here from Hood Politics with Prop Podcasts. You already know our get-down. If you grew up in our urban areas of comfort of struggle, you understand politics much more than you giving credit for. Feds taking over American cities, government hop-out boys hopping out the van, snatching up your Theo and them,

two wars that was supposed to be solved in 24 hours. Jerry just out here mandering all over the place. The turfs. And of course, the Epstein of it all. Well, this week we decided to shoot our shot And boy, did we pull up from the logo to see if we could get somebody to come tap in with us. And the one and only Jamil Hill pulled up from this politics podcast to keep it a whole century. It's in America what sells in politics are narratives and storylines.

It's like we treat politics like we treat sports, which is part of the reason why we're in the situation we're in right now. Listen to the hood politics with prop podcasts on the IHard Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Imagine that you're on an airplane and all of a sudden, you're, hear this. Attention passengers. The pilot is having an emergency and we need someone, anyone, to land this plane. Think you could do it? It turns out that nearly 50% of men think that they could land the plane with the help of air traffic control. And they're saying like, okay, pull this, do this, pull that, turn this. It's just, I can do it my eyes close. I'm Manny. I'm Noah. This is Devon. And on our new show, no such thing, we get to the bottom of questions like these.

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Hi, my name is Enya Humanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast. called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD...

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podcast's politics. And on the latest episode of politics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't say publicly? Many of them are in fear of their political lives. And that's been part of the challenge. But we continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your constituents, to stand up for your constituents. And there's life after Congress. And you should be willing to actually want to be able to look back on your time in the House of Representatives knowing that you can keep your head held high because you did the right thing. Donald Trump is gone in three and a half years.

But their legacy or their failure to stand up to the extremism and the unprecedented assault on America as we know it will be with them forever. Make sure to listen to Spolitics on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you You get your podcast. What would you do if one bad decision forced you to choose between a maximum security prison or the most brutal boot camp designed to be hell on earth? Unfortunately for Mark Lombardo, this was the choice he faced. He said, you are a number, a New York state number, and we own you.

Shock incarceration, also known as boot camps, are short-term, highly regimented correctional programs that mimic military basic training. These programs aimed to provide a shock of prison life, emphasizing strict discipline, physical training, hard labor, and rehabilitation programs. Mark had one chance to complete this program and had no idea of the hell awaiting him the next six months. The first night was so overwhelming, and you don't know who's next to you. And we didn't know what to expect in the morning. Nobody tells you anything.

Listen to shock incarceration on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Wait, I'm going to, I'm putting you on the spot here. What are your absolute drop dead? I'm done with you. Lying, cheating, and stealing. Or being ignorant to people, to other people. You mean rude? Disrespectful. Disrespect is just, you know what? Here we go down this route. That's actually a good one, too. You know, if I go out with a guy and he's rude to the serfs white staff that that will not be a second day because that tells me a lot how I need you know yeah yeah I agree all right here's the next one would you rather always be the heartbreaker or always be the heartbroken it's these always it's these superlatives always what about what says so for me I rarely am the one that gets her heartbroken I've always really really am the one that gets her heartbroken I've always really heartbreaker. We've talked about this before. It takes me forever to end the relationship because I always feel bad. Susan, you've improved in recent times. You're getting better about that no dates.

You've gotten better about breaking those hearts on a really quickly. Yeah. I don't know. I don't like my heart being broken and I don't want to break someone else's heart. I just wish I had someone's heart. Well, if you had to make a choice. I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I can't because it's always I don't deal in superlatives. I can't say that. I just can't. And she hasn't been out in the world and had to break hearts because she was married since she was 12. No, I have dated a couple guys and broken their hearts, but I didn't like it.

So then you were the one that stopped it. You didn't have your heart broken. So you don't know what it feels like to have your heart broken. Trust me, when my husband left this world, my heart was broken. Please, that's totally different. Well, I have had my heart broken. And that was the only time. Like a boyfriend didn't break up with you.

In high school I did, but I mean, you know, not, no, not, no, not since then. Would you rather go on a perfect date with someone who ghost you or a terrible date with someone obsessed with you? Oh, no brainer. I'll take the perfect date. Yeah, the asshole going to ghost me. I mean, of course, I know you, Susan, and I know me. If I had this perfect romantic date and I thought, oh my gosh, I've met the guy and I've made the connection with them and we can't wait to see each other again, I'd be so excited.

And then he ghosts me. I would start saying, it's a heartbreak and it would be what did I do, what, you know, what I do wrong. So that would not be funny. What happened? All right. Go ahead. Oh, here's one for you, Susan.

Would you rather fall in love on vacation and never see them again or never fall in love but travel with friends forever? never see them again or never fall in love but travel with friends i like traveling with my friends forever if i fell in love on vacation trust and believe me i'd see them again oh can i just say you can put 16 bibles in front of me and i can swear to that one trust and believe susan trust and believe it's happening it's happening it happens regularly with this girl now okay would you rather find out your ex is dating why your nemesis why or your favorite i don't mean we're skipping that one i don't get it a nemesis cathy a nemesis is someone that you really don't like someone that

is against you someone that you know that yes a nemesis is someone you know who would like to bring you down It's not a good person. A nemesis is never a good person. Well, I gathered that, but I didn't know if you were friends. Is that what it meant? But, okay, what would you rather? Find out your ex is dating somebody that you don't care for or your favorite celebrity. I mean, honestly, and I'm being the deadly serious, I don't care who my ex is dating.

He's an ex. Do you care? Would you care? Who cares? Knock yourself out. You know, what I would say? I would like it if he dated. the nemesis because I'd be like, ooh, they deserve each other.

That's right. And I would be like, like, if he broke up with me, I would be like, yeah, he deserves that one. Go ahead, go with her. Yeah, go ahead, knock yourself out. You'll have a blast. Okay. Would you rather be publicly dumped on social media or accidentally announce your breakup while thinking you're DMing a friend?

Go for it, girl. For me, it's easy. I would, I would, I would announce the breakup to a friend. Yeah, I don't, I, I can't, I mean, nobody wants to be dumped. You on social media. That's just, I don't know, but I don't know, but I don't want to be dumped. I don't want to be dumped, period. Let's start there.

But I certainly don't want to be dumped on social media. What about you? Which would you take? Same, same. Okay, all right, go ahead. Would you rather take relationship advice from your drunk, best, friend or your emotionally distant death. Can I answer this?

Sure. I actually believe when people are drunk, I've thought this since I was a kid, they speak the truth. Yes, they do. So if my friend is drunk and tells me something, I'm going to listen to it because it may be right or wrong, but it's what they really think. And anybody that says emotionally distant, Like, forget it.

Yeah, but they're motion to dissing who, they don't have any good advice. They're just words. Okay. Would you rather find the one but have them hate your best friend or never meet the one, or never meet the one, but have perfect friendships forever? No brainer. What? What's your answer?

If I could find the one and they hate my best friend, we'll work around it. It's the one. I agree. It's the one. And you can still have a. relationship with your friend. Yeah. Just because they don't get along, that's fine.

In your case, aren't you lucky you have both? Yes. Okay. Would you rather tell your best friend their partner is cheating or stay quiet and risk the friendship? You're not risking the friendship. If you're risking the friendship by staying quiet, it's not a friendship. What do you say?

It's true. That's a tough one. There's a time and a place and it would depend on the situation. but I would probably have to tell my best friend, but I wouldn't be jumping at the gill when it first happened. Like I would give it some thought and see what she's going through. I'm not, but if I were dating someone, would be, just put it directly to us,

would you call me and tell me? No, I'd have to be in your face. Okay. Okay. Okay, would you tell me? Because I think you would. Yes. And I would tell you.

Yes. I would. That's what friends do. Would you rather date your best friend's sibling or have your best friend date your sibling? I'm going to do a Susan here, both. Yeah, it doesn't matter. To each is a. Okay.

Would you rather find out your bestie doesn't like your partner or your partner doesn't like your bestie? That's the same as the other one. Who cares? I mean, if you had to pick, would you rather find out? that your bestie doesn't like your partner or your partner does. So if what would be better? Think about that one. If you didn't like my boyfriend or if my boyfriend didn't like you,

what's easier to cope with? For me? I would probably say my, I'd rather have my bestie not. like my boyfriend. So you would like me, you would rather have me not like your boyfriend? Than my boyfriend not like you. Really? Yeah, I think. I don't know. Yeah, I don't know. That's a tough one. Listen, as soon as I get a boyfriend, I'm going to ask you that question again. All right. Would you rather be the friend who always gives advice but never follows it? Or the friend who overshares and disappears when things get bad. What?

what do you think yeah well i give a lot of good advice and i don't always follow my own advice amen but i never disappear i'll hang in there i stay true i i love susan susan will give great advice and then she'll call me and she's upset about something i'll say soon i follow my own and i'll say remember that advice you gave like what what do you think in there listen to well we talked about therapy right i went to therapy i'm sure everybody has it one time or another I realized, after about six, eight months, they're not giving me answers. I'm hearing myself talk. I know what's wrong.

I don't fix it because I don't listen to myself. Or you don't want to fix it. Or that. Yeah. Whatever, you know. All right, we're moving on here. Would you rather lose your best friend over a dating disaster or never be able to date anyone they disapprove of?

Okay, that's brutal. what I don't want to lose my best friend I'm never losing my best friend I'm not I'm not losing you never be able to date anyone well what if they didn't like anybody no they can't control that no that's that's one that we're just you know if you're if if first of all if you and I didn't become

or lost our friendship because of a dating disaster that's ridiculous I'd come and ring your neck yeah exactly that's not happening same thing same thing so never be able to to date anyone they disapprove of. Well, who I date, it doesn't matter what you think. You know what I mean? That's crazy question.

I agree. I think, you know, I think a lot of these questions in my mind, it has to do with respecting your friends or your whoever, your best, your friend, your sister, whoever, their decision, their decisions. It is their life to live. It's their, you can't control, you can only control your own life. Not other people's. Your best friend is your best friend.

A friendship is a big word. Remember that. And it has a lot of meaning. It does. It does. And a lot of feeling. So, yeah. Yeah.

Oh, 80. That was deep. Okay. That was really deep. I don't know. Susan, let me summarize this. Spring in the air. No, let me summarize this whole thing.

There's magic in the air. There is dating in the air. can't date anyone I don't disapprove of. You've got to find me a guy, and apparently you're going to have sex with him. He lives in Israel, and Susan's going to go travel and have sex with a guy. Only if he's in the band. Oh, and if he's in the band. And by the way, he's not having time for dinner.

And by the way, it's going to be on the bus. And the other guys are sitting there for the bus. Never happened. I was never a groupie. Were you? Seriously? Why did I even ask? My husband, my ex-husband was a professional athlete.

And the girls, the groupies, I guess you call them, would line up when we'd go out to the car. And I'd be like, holy shit. It was like you were a rock star. Athletes get tons of these girls. And I'm sure they want to be with them, but they're willing to do the one-night stand thing, too. It's crazy. Don't say all of them. Listen, I may not have been a groupie.

I'm just kind of old-fashioned. Like, I'm just a nice person that, you know, wants. wants the the real relationship. I don't want to chase guys down in bars. I would never. But when it comes to, was it Marie's case? And she's been alone for five years. And she really had a physical attraction to this person.

And he's coming in and leaving. Is this that, wait, Susan, I got to say something. Yes, dear. I didn't want to say it. I have to tell Marie something. I've been sleeping with this guy in the band, following them around from city to city. Mary, don't listen.

And by the way, Marie? It's her other eager, alter ego. Alter ego. I can't even get it out. All right. This is too much fun. And we want to thank all of you listeners today. Whether you're in your search for a boyfriend, a quick jolt of sex, whether you're

let us know what you're thinking. We really enjoy hearing from you. I mean, that's just what it is. So thanks for joining us. And 19 years is nothing. and make sure to keep us posted on whatever your thoughts are and follow us on Bachelor Happy Hour as we have new things coming out every single week.

And I know you don't want to miss them. I mean, after all, look at us. Yeah. We've been asking, asking. We need updates, folks. Marie, we need to know how it was having sex on the bus. Tell me the city I'm coming to the concert. All right.

Well, Marie, and all the rest of you, please submit your questions and comments to us. It's really easy. Just go to bachelornation.com slash golden hour or DM us on Instagram at Bachelor Happy Hour. Absolutely. Never ever feel embarrassed about asking a question. Absolutely. There's no dumb questions, no wrong questions. That's right. Listen to Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour on the iHeart Radio app or wherever you listen to your podcast. Thanks for joining us. Have a great week. All right, West West, Prop here from Hood Politics with Prop Podcasts.

You know I get down. You come from the urban areas. You understand politics more than you giving credit for. Between Jerry out here, Mandarin all over the place, hop-out boys snatching up family members and two wars that was supposed to be done in 24 hours. Not to mention Epstein. We had to reach out to the homie Jamil Hill

because she's going to keep it a century. In America, what sells in politics are narratives and storylines. It's like we treat politics like we treat sports, which is part of the reason why we're in the situation we're in right now listen to the hood politics with prop podcasts on the iHeart radio app apple podcast or wherever you get your podcast hi my name is enya umanzor and i'm drew phillips and we run a podcast called emergency intercom if you're a crime junkie and you love crimes we're not the podcast for you but if you have unmedicated ADHD oh my god perfect and want to hear people with mental illness

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