Bachelor Happy Hour - Get Out There Girls! | Golden Hour

Episode Date: May 31, 2024

Today on Golden Hour, we have another round of Friday Fan Questions! We kick off today's episode reminiscing on Kathy and Susan's favorite moments from Wednesday's episode with the iconic Sandra! Then, we into some fan questions, diving into the lulls of dating; sometimes you just gotta put yourself out there! We're talking soulmates, empty-nesting, and so much more! Tune in now to hear all this and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is an I-Heart podcast. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, luckily, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend's been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone.

Hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That seems inappropriate. Maybe find out how it ends by listening to the OK Storytime podcast and the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics and on the latest episode of Spolitics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't say publicly? Many of them are in fear of their political lives. We continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your constituents. and there's life after Congress. Make sure to listen to this episode of Politics

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This is our favorite time of the week. Thank you all for joining us. Everybody, welcome back. And if you haven't listened to our episode from Wednesday yet, check it out. We had our friend Sandra on the Golden Bachelor on the podcast. And Kat, do you remember what some of the things that she was saying? Susan, I don't know. Let's just talk about the date with the bad breath.

I felt so bad because she was saying he was the perfect guy in every way until she smelled his breath. Let me just say Listen Saying that he is the perfect guy Except for his breath It's saying I got great mail delivery today Except a letter from the IRS

That is a That is not only a red flag That is a deal breaker But it's a shame because I think it's a condition It wasn't garlic or something He ate, she said And there are people But I think there's remedies for that

Like go to the doctor So that's what I wanted to say to Sandra. So what do you do, Sandra? Say to the guy, you know what? You're perfect. You've got a great figure, physique. You know, you're smart. You're good looking.

But your breath could knock an elephant over? Like, what do you do? She didn't say it. She didn't. She just cut it as short as she could. I felt so bad. Oh. I mean, just imagine the right look, the right everything.

And then what? Well, you know, there's got to be something, I guess. But she is an amazing woman. She is going to be 76. in July. And does it look it at all? Or act it. No, I know. She's awesome. She's an awesome lady. She exemplifies what you and I talk about all the time, living your best life, age is a number, get out and do stuff. Sandra exemplifies it to me. When we saw her, we got to see her when we did Celebrity Family Feud, which everybody out there will be coming out this summer,

and we will definitely give you a heads up as to when it will air. I think she was, she didn't seem as thrilled. You and I seem to have a great time. We have a great time no matter where we are, Kathy. Come on. You and I are fun time kids. I think she just, I think it was just harder. Maybe, I don't know, but she didn't seem to have as much fun.

But you know what? There's always the next time. It's all good. I hope she gets another date and the guy smells better. Sorry. We love you, Sandra. We love you. Thank you for coming on our podcast.

All right. Today, Susan, we have some great fan questions. You know, you and I love getting into these questions. Absolutely. If you have a question for Susan and me, please send them in. Go to bachelornation.com slash golden hour. You can write a question or you can leave an audio question for us and we love answering them. Yeah, please do it because we just love this and you might be even aired on our show and we can talk about it together.

as you ask us. But let's get started with today's question of the day. Okay, give it to me. Okay, the topic for discussion today is soulmates. I truly believe. Anyhow, do you believe in them? Does everyone only have one? How do you know if you found yours?

Well, let's go, Kathy. First of all, do you believe in a soulmate? Are you ready for my answer? Get it out. Come on. I believe in soulmates. I think you and I are soulmates. I think there's different kinds of soulmates. I agree.

I mean, my husband was my soulmate, but I fully believe I could find another one. And I feel like you and I as friends are soulmates. There's different kinds of soulmates, right? Which answers part two. Does everyone only have one? Not necessarily. What do you think? No.

No. I don't think you only get one. Okay. Have you had a soulmate? I have. And a lot of those are friendships. Susan, you're looking at one. I know, right? But how do you know if you've found one? How do you know when it's your soulmate?

Well, for me, like with you and me and our friendship, you and I answer each other's questions. You know what I'm thinking. We can disagree and still love each other. I mean, I guess my question is, how do you define a soulmate? How do I define a soulmate? Somebody, when it comes to a man, like in a love relationship, my soulmate would be somebody that I would die for. I would do anything for, like your children, you know, but in a different way.

Like your soulmate is somebody that you feel like you were born to be with this person. what do you think yeah i kind of agree with that i think a soulmate is is someone you can't imagine your life without yes um but i do think there's different levels of soulmates i i think the one criteria he cannot have or she cannot have bad breath i don't know it's it's actually quite an interesting question because let's google soulmate yeah really i i mean you know your divorce and I'm a widow and I think your husband was your soulmate for a time. Was he? Yes. I mean. Definition. In current usage, soulmate usually refers to romantic or platonic partner with the implication of an exclusive lifelong bond. There you go. Lifelong. Okay, so there we are. It's the strongest

bond with another person that one can achieve. It's a real friendship. Somebody, yeah. We were right. Bingo. Do we get a prize for that? You know, we get to write the newest edition of Webster's Dictionary. Oh, gosh.

Oh, goodness. So should we go on to some of our great questions? Oh, gosh. Okay, sure. Let's do question number one. Okay. Okay. Oh, hi, Cal.

Hi, Susan. My name's Taylor. I live in Mississippi currently, and I'm a huge fan of the both of y'all's. I think you both are so iconic and just exactly the type of person I want to be when I get older, fun and exuberant and just all of the things. So my question is this. I am 24, and I have not even been asked out on a date in six years since I graduated from high school. My high school sweetheart took me out after my graduation, and that was the last time I've been on a date. It is 2024. It has been like six years, and the drought is getting a little long. What's your advice on long periods like this, where I just don't have any prospects?

I'm just here, and boys don't talk to me. Do you have any advice on that? I have a ton. Go. Tell me. Whoa, that's a lot. Six years? Like, first of all, do you get out of the house? I mean, do you work? Or maybe it's time to switch teams? I don't know. Like, yeah, if you don't have friends that introduce you or you're not doing social things to meet people, maybe she is doing that and just not getting asked out. I would suggest maybe trying a dating site or a meetup group or something to that. what do you think i think those are all great ideas i think that uh to your point if you have friends and you're young like that you go to bars you know you you can go kayaking on the lake you can do

pickleball games or all kinds of meetup kinds of things but somebody that ask you at those you nobody's but that's what i'm saying as susan how many times have we talked about the fact that nobody is going to come and knock on your door well that's true but they're not going to come knock on our door or her door. I think that Taylor, you need to get out and do more things. And I know it's hard to put yourself out there. Even at 24, it's hard to put yourself out there. What about her asking someone else out?

I mean, it's 2024, like you just said. If there's somebody that you kind of have a crush on or you are interested in getting to know better, ask them out. Yeah. Are you all right with that? I'm great with it, but I think sometimes at 24, they might feel a little intimidated. I mean, but I will say at her best, her best shot is getting out there. And I think you're on to something.

She's maybe not getting out there enough or putting it out there like, hey, you know, Susan, if you, you know, I saw that guy in the office the other day, you know, tell somebody. You know, you're interested. Exactly. Or wear a sign. I'm available. I'm available. Or wear a sign. I do not have bad breath.

That's going to be my theme today. No, I think you're right. But I think six years without a date, maybe she's putting the vibe out that she doesn't want a date. That's what I mean. Open yourself up a little bit and show somebody you're interested. But we don't know if she's doing social things. She didn't share that.

So if you're not. That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying. All right, Taylor, get online. So, Taylor, we wish you luck and put yourself out there a little bit. And if there's somebody you're interested in, go for it. The worst he could do is say now, and you'll live through that. That's right.

Absolutely. And you know what? Thank you for telling us we are our iconic. We do love life. And Taylor, I know you may not feel like it right now, but you have your entire life ahead of you. Take it a step at a time. Get out and join groups. Get out and just do things.

and put yourself out there and you'll be amazed how your life will change. Absolutely. We wish you the best. Thank you for writing in. And let us know if you do get a date, we'd be interested. We would. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly and now I'm seriously suspicious. Oh, wait a minute, Sam.

Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast. So we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor, What? He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor, and they're the same age. And it's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them.

I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet. So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I never envision being with a woman. I'll just be honest. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts, Politics. On this week's episode, I'm joined by basketball legend Candice Parker, who stops by to discuss her candid new book, The Can Do Mindset, in which she shares why she waited two years into marriage to come out.

Like when I close my eyes at night, every night. I was like, I need to find my prince charming. Like, it was never a princess. Like, that never entered into my mind. But, you know, as I learned, sometimes life gives you things wrapped in a package that you didn't expect it. And that was just, you know, and honestly, it took me a long time to be okay with myself. Make sure to listen to this week's episode of Spolitics on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Imagine that you're on an airplane and all of a sudden you hear this.

Attention passengers, the pilot is having an emergency and we need someone, anyone, to land this plane. Think you could do it? It turns out that nearly 50% of men think that they could land the plane with the help of air traffic control. And they're saying like, okay, pull this, until this. Do this, pull that, turn this. It's just, I can do it my eyes close. I'm Manny. I'm Noah.

This is Devon. And on our new show, No Such Thing, we get to the bottom of questions like these. Join us as we talk to the leading expert on overconfidence. Those who lack expertise lack the expertise they need to recognize that they lack expertise. And then, as we try the whole thing out for real. Wait, what? Oh, that's the run right. I'm looking at this thing.

Listen to No Such Thing on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Maddie writes, Hi, Kathy and Susan. Congratulations on your podcast. I'm a huge fan of both of you and love listening. Well, thank you, Maddie. Thank you. I've been with my significant other for 15 years.

We lived apart because we were waiting for our kids to finish graduate school and move out. I have a daughter and he has two sons. I've been living with him for. three years now. We decided to stop waiting for his younger son as we figured he was close to moving out. He is now 32. And still, and still has no plans to move. I feel awkward living with a grown son still in the house. And the father, and here it is. And the father won't tell him anything because he's his son. Did I make a mistake moving in? I think I should have waited, but I'm 61 and he's 63.

Difficult spot to be in. Thank you. Yes, it is difficult. Yeah. You got to put your clothes on all the time. You can't run the refrigerator naked when it's just the two of you. But you know what? There's an adult in the house. But you know what, Susan, as often when we read these questions, you and I've talked about this too, there's usually a line or a few words that say at all, what the real problem is. And here's the line in this. Here's the line in this.

this one, Maddie. You said, uh, I feel awkward living with a grown son still in the house and the father won't tell him anything. That's his little boy. Keep that in mind. But that's the problem. Oh, stop it, Susan. It is. I'm sorry. Kick him to the curve at 32. Really? You're good, that's okay with you. Kathy, listen to this though. She can't be the one because they'll resent her. her. And is it really that difficult? Are you, is it interrupting your relationship with your man? I mean, you still do what you want. It's not like you have to take care of a 32 year old. He does his everything. You can't see me, but my mouth is hanging open. Am I hearing, Susan, that you are advocating to let a 32-year-old son, his son, live in the house and move on merrily

and just make your martini's nude at the refrigerator and don't worry about him? No, no, no. I would raise his rent to what was uncomfortable for him. I bet $20 says he's not paying rent. It would be cheaper to have his own place. No, here's what I, honestly. That's a tough one, Kath. I wouldn't want to be the one. Not for me.

You would tell the man, he goes or I go? Would you go there? I'm not Maddie. But if for me, if it were that uncomfortable, the deal was, if you remember in this note, in this question, they were waiting for the kids to finish graduate school and move out. I can assure you most graduate schools, if you do it in order, 30 is, I'm being generous when I say, you know, it could take till 30.

So the fact that he's 32, he has no intentions of moving out. So, Maddie, like most things in life, you can only control your decision and how you're going to approach a situation. You can't force anyone else. So, Maddie, it comes down to either you can live with him or you say to your guy, I can't do this. We made a deal that when they, you know, da-da-da, when they finished graduate school and he's now finished and it's time for him to move on, darling. And did you not think about this prior to moving in? You've decided, you two decided you're not going to wait until he leaves.

So you moved in. That's on you. No, no, no, no, no. She doesn't say that. She says, we decided to not wait till the youngest son finished. Who is the 32-year-old? No, no, no. We decided to stop waiting for his younger son as we figured he was close to moving out. I'm guessing she figured he was close to moving out. Her partner did not figure he was close. So he is now 32. Goodbye. It's still there. Can I sing my song? So long. Farewell.

I'll be out. Sweetie, I know what you're saying. Either learn to be okay with it or have a three-way discussion. Like how long do you plan on being here? Do you have any plans to move? Are you going to go on your own? And if it's really, really making you uncomfortable, then you have to go get a place of your own, I guess.

well that's and I agree with that and the other thing is she doesn't say she said it's uh the father won't tell him anything Maddie I think you have to have I wouldn't ever talk with the son I'd have to talk with your partner and really tell him how you feel because if if this is you know you're 61 you're still young enough to find somebody else if this doesn't work out um I wouldn't want to live I'm being honest Susan I would not want to live with another man's son I wouldn't either I would neither. But do know that when you bring this up to him, it could be a deal breaker. You've got to be prepared either way. He might say, oh, no, I would never ask my son to leave. So then you have to have the decision and be okay with what you decide afterwards. I absolutely agree with

you. Either she's going to build resentment or they're going to come to a mutually agreeable decision. It's one of the other, right? And so it's not really a difficult spot to be in Maddie. It's a hard spot because you're at a crossroads here. A decision has to be made. I mean, is he a cool kid? Like, Susan, I don't care. I'd be hanging out with him or something. I don't care if he spits nickels. I do not want it. As long as I didn't have to do his laundry, clean up after him. I mean, oh, well. Hey, Susan. Hey, baby, I wish you luck. Maddie, I don't want to be in your shoes. Everyone out there, if you have a 32-year-old who needs a home,

season is offering, that's what I'm hearing. No, you're not. But thank you. Thank you for sharing that with us, Maddie. Absolutely, good luck. But think long and hard before you decide. You've got to be prepared. All righty.

My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Well, wait a minute, Sam, maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy?

That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor, and they're the same age. And it's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet. So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not?

To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I never envision being with a woman. I'll just be honest. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcast, Spolitics. On this week's episode, I'm joined by basketball legend, Candice Parker, who stops by to discuss her candid news. book, The Can Do Mindset, in which she shares why she waited two years into marriage to come

out. Like when I close my eyes at night, every night, I was like, I need to find my prince charming. Like it was never a princess. Like that never entered into my mind. But, you know, as I learned, sometimes life gives you things wrapped in a package that you didn't expect it. And that was just, you know, and honestly, it took me a long time to be okay. with myself. Make sure to listen to this week's episode of Spolitics on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Imagine that you're on an airplane and all of a sudden you hear this. Attention passengers. The pilot is having an emergency and we need someone, anyone to land this plane.

Think you could do it? It turns out that nearly 50% of men think that they could land the plane. with the help of air traffic control. And they're saying like, okay, pull this, until this. Do this, pull that, turn this. It's just, I can do it my eyes close. I'm Mani. I'm Noah. This is Devin.

And on our new show, no such thing, we get to the bottom of questions like these. Join us as we talk to the leading expert on overconfidence. Those who lack expertise lack the expertise they need to recognize that they lack expertise. And then, as we try the whole thing out for real. Wait, what? Oh, that's the run right. I'm looking at this thing. Listen to no such thing on the Iheart radio app,

Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. We have question number four, and our next question is from Tanya, from Kentucky. I love it. They're all over the place, Kathy. I do. I love it. Hi, Susan and Kathy.

I love the podcast. I have a question about MTV. denesting. I raised my kids to be very independent and career oriented. Yet now that they have moved out and to other cities I'm struggling. I'm not sure what my place is anymore. I have my career and my husband, but this new season is hard. How do I find myself again? I know that may be a stupid question, but it seems hard. You both are doing great things. I love watching you flourish. Thank Thank you. First of all, there is no such thing as a stupid question.

No, there is it. So, Tanya. You know what, thank you, Tanya, for sharing that with you and with us. And I don't think you're alone at all. I think everybody goes through this. How does she find herself again? You know, you're not just a mom. You were a woman first.

Well, she has a career. And then you were, yes, yes. So think about you now. And think about the special times when you get to see your children. But in the meantime, do you? Do you and your husband, your career? I know you miss them probably. But life goes on.

Yeah, I think, I mean, you and I are both empty nesters except for the 52, 32-year-olds who are about to move in with you next week. I think. But, Tanya, seriously, you know, my children, I raised them exactly the same way. to be and they are career driven and and they're independent and so first of all congratulations and be proud of that yeah be proud of that secondly um i'm glad you have a career and a husband because that helps ease the transition but that's really what we're talking about here is the transition from like susan just said uh you know wife mother now i would say to you this is a time to rebuild,

reorganize your life, look at new opportunities with your husband. And that's scary to do at any age. Certainly, you know, as we get older, it's tough to tackle new things. And I think Susan, you and I, we're both trying new things.

But it's scary. But there's got to be a hobby or something you miss doing that. You gave up for your kids, whether it's playing golf or, or pottery. I don't care what it is. Tasting wine. Right. It is. You know, I love Tanya

that you said it's a new season. Yes, it is. I said this quote before, you know, we have many seasons in our life and we need to enjoy and love and flourish in the season we're in. So I think it's on you and your husband, but mostly on you,

to find ways that you're going to flourish. Your kids will always need you. if they have grandkids, they're going to need you. They're still there, yeah. They're still there. But this is a time for you to spread your wings and try new things. And that should make you feel great, Tanya. Not sad.

It should be exhilarating, I think. It's an accomplishment. You did a great job. Now celebrate you. Right. I mean, it's easier said to done. And maybe it's new. Maybe it's the first year or something.

that we get time you know you'll get used to this and you're going to love it eventually can i just say susan can i just tell you one quick little story yeah so you know you know i have three kids when my last child went to college and i thought it was just going to be so great and wonderful i cried the first two days i would the kids bedrooms were upstairs i would go up and walk from each bedroom of my three kids and just cried my husband was like what is wrong with you notice she said the first two days that's right that's my point that's exactly where I was going

I was so sad and I remember going to visit my daughter at college like she'd been there 10 days she was like mom dad get out of here leave I was like what that was the awakening for me that I needed to build a life so Tanya get after it

Susan and I applaud you we're behind you you can do it let us know how your life changes and what new things you find because you don't have to pick up anything anymore or make sure their room is clean you can make that your room i mean i don't know maybe a hobby if you sew it could be a sewing room it could be any room wait did you clean your kid's rooms is it oh it was a nightmare they had to do their chores but it was never good enough for me so when

they go to school i redo it again can i just remind people susan's the one that's sweeping the floor while you're eating out her dining room table god bless me god bless me oh god everybody thank you you so much for joining us today. And if you have a question, you know we want to talk about it. We want to hear it. You may even be featured on the podcast. Just go to bachelornation.com slash golden hour and submit your questions. And Kathy and I will be very ready to read them and talk about them. Okay. That's absolutely right. But Susan, we're not going anywhere yet because you know what I love to do. Play games. Oh, here we go. All right. We're going to play. another round of moral quandary, which you know I love.

Of course, we are. Okay. Come on, you know you like to play. I'm going to read the quandary. Now, this is the part you struggle with. I know. I'm supposed to guess what you do and you're supposed to. And I always tell you what I'm going to do.

Okay. So you're going to guess what I'm going to do. And I'm going to guess what you're going to do. All right. Are you ready? Yes, ma'am. All right. You have new next door neighbors who just moved in.

And you learn very quickly that they seem to be exhibitionists. They never closed their blinds, and you have caught them naked in their kitchen several times while drinking your morning coffee. Do you say anything to them? I hope they're good looking. Again, what do you think I would do? Oh, Kathy, you would shut your blinds.

You would go tell them. Sometimes I don't think you know me. What do you think I would do? I'd be standing there sipping away and getting the binoculars now. No, what would you do? You would look. I give up. You just cannot play this game.

I suck at this game. So, let me think I would do, Kat. Well, wait, what do you think I would do? Do you think I would watch or close the blinds? You'd watch. You know what I would do? I'd sit there, watch for a few minutes. I'd get bored because, you know, you've seen one, you've seen them all.

Drink my coffee. And then the next time we were outside, I would say, you know, I've given a watching TV. I just watch you in your kitchen window every morning. That would get the point across. Exactly. I think you would watch and just enjoy your coffee. And you don't think I'd say anything to them?

Oh. I think we're both on the same page there. Yeah. I would definitely say, hey, guys, nice view. But you know what? They're exhibitionists, so they don't care. Oh, so they enjoy doing that. They probably enjoy us being lawyers.

It would depend on my memories. Do I feel like watching today or not? I mean, let, no, wait, it depends. They didn't say, let's see, what they're doing. Now that, naked in their kitchen several times. I mean, if they're up on the kitchen counter going after it, I might have to close the blinds. Or I might say, do you have an older brother?

Oh, God. You are playing a round of golf with your boss. Oh, I've done this. Okay. playing around a golf with your boss and there's money on the line for the winner. He's been cheating all day. The round is over and he tells you that you owe him $100. Do you pay up? You would never. You'd call him a cheater like I would right in the middle every time he does it. No? You would pay him? Well, wait a minute. It depends. This is we don't have. What? He's cheating. Susan. Life sometimes. You have to bite

her tongue sometimes. Here's the thing. How much do I need the job? How good a relationship do I have with him? My boss at work, I'd be saying, boy, that's a long foot you're using for a putter if I had that good relationship. But if it was a senior boss and, you know, it depends at what level. Honestly, I'm being honest with you, it would really depend. And I might say, you're not really taking the $100 from me, are you? I don't know $100. Are you joking? I mean, I would try to make a joke of it. What do you think I would do? I think you would call the guy a cheater, get him over the head with the club, and walk away. Absolutely. I'd lose my job probably. But it's cheating. Wait, Kathy, when I play, especially early on, I don't do this now. Ladies and

gentlemen, if you're listening, please don't judge. But you know when they say that's a gimmee when the ball is like right outside. It's called inside the leather. It's called the gimmie. They told me a gimmie. Well, when I would add my score, the gimmie, I didn't count the extra stroke that it would take to knock it right in. I just was one stroke less whole way right now. So you know what I do?

I have a handicap of 10. And if you believe that, I have a wooden nickel. If you believe that. But I do have a handicap. We're just not going to discuss it. I don't even have a handicap. I don't go that boy. Here's the thing.

about for golf yeah i've played with a lot of men men do gimmies all the time out of bounds pick it up throw it in the fair way and don't count a stroke i mean women i play in a women's group i swear they'll take your first one they're brutal but here's my deal on golf i'm just being honest here's my deal if if if the same golf is a very difficult game right yes if it were that easy the same pros would win week after week after week and they don't so So here's the deal. If somebody wants to pay me, like my boss, give me that $100 back to play golf, then I'm going to count every stroke.

If I'm in a tournament, I count every stroke. But for me, golf is fun. I just want to have a good time. And I don't have to count the gimme. Well, listen, everybody, that does it for this episode. Susan may or may not be back next time because she's going to be cleaning out a couple of her bedrooms from all your 32-year-olds that are rolling in. But we really appreciate you joining us today on Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour.

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