Bachelor Happy Hour - Getting Down to Business with Jeremy Simon | Golden Hour

Episode Date: December 23, 2024

Today on “Golden Hour,” Kathy and Susan are sitting down with Jeremy from Jenn’s season of “The Bachelorette”! Jeremy is here to dish all the latest on his dating life and give Bachelor Nation advice. We kick off the episode getting into his plans for the holidays, dating updates, and our question of the day: How do you make room for change in a relationship? Then, Susan and Kathy get to know the former “Bachelorette” star a little better. From his Airbnb to his POV on “Paradise,” we cover it all! And, of course, we enlist his help to tackle some of your questions about insecurity in relationships and more. Tune in now, and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Thanks again for joining us. Kathy, isn't it awesome that we're sitting here in? We are here in L.A. I'm telling you. In the studio. I love this. Looking at each other's into our eyes. Right.

And I love the roses behind us in the Bachelor Nation backdrop. Susan, that's the only roses you and I are ever getting. It's been, it's so fun to be out here. And we are, have a great guest today. We do.

We really do. It is Jeremy, Simon, from Jen's season. Welcome, Jeremy. Hey, Jeremy. We're so glad you're here with us. How are you doing today? Lovely to meet you guys. I'm not a person, but I can still see your eyes.

I like your hat that says for others. There's something about that I should know. It's my buddy's brand, and he donates a lot of the profits back to the community. Oh, that's awesome. That's awesome. So talk to us. How are you? I'm good, you know.

Life's been pretty normal. Been back in society for about six months at this point. Yeah, yeah. Are you dating yet? Are you any of them? Oh, that's the first question, right? No, no, no. Wait, Jim, six months, Jeremy.

You're hot. No, no, no. Wait, we're going to ease into this. So we're right on top of holidays. here. I suspect do you celebrate Hanukkah? I do celebrate Hanukkah. Okay. Maybe not every single

eight nights, but I do. So that was, so I am of a I am of a mixed marriage. My dad was Jewish and my mother was the religion of the day, depending on who she was married to. So we always celebrated both religions and

both holidays. And this year Hanukkah, if I am correct, begins on Christmas Day. Christmas Day. Really? All of us were celebrating. Which means, Jeremy, when you send me that fabulous paperclip necklace, you can send this to me for Christmas or Hanukkah, first day Hanukkah, that's when you get the big

gifts, right? Is that the big one? I thought it was the last day. It's eight day. No. So you get seven little gifts and one big one. Well, everyone does it differently. Yeah.

I'll send it to you. I'll take a rose. Did you raise your kids like mixed? So my husband was not. not Jewish. And as you well know, I grew up in a completely Jewish neighborhood, but I was a Shiksa because my mother was not Jewish. All my boyfriends, every one of them, was Jewish until I got married. So, yeah. But I, my dad, I'm sorry? I've never dated a Jew. Is it important to marry? It's, it depends if you ask me or my family. Your mother. Your mother would say different.

I don't, I personally don't care what religion I'm married, but I do want my kids to be brought up with a sense of their Judaism. Yeah. So, so my kids, you know, I have a menorah that was my dad's and we lit the menorah, but because my husband was not Jewish, my kids had a tree. They went to, they went to church. They went to a Methodist church, which is the country club of the Christian faith. anything goes but um enough about that we do a topic of the day first susan go for it yes we do we start off this episode with question of the day and we want to know your thoughts on this one what do you think is the best way to handle change in a relationship we're always growing learning and changing

so how do you make room for that in a long-term partnership see jeremy we're going easy on you to begin with. We're talking in general. Then we're going to get down to specifically your dating. So go ahead and answer that question. I don't know if that's easy, but I mean, you just sort of alluded to it that everyone's changing. Like, we're not going to be the same people we are in 10 years. Right. We won't be the people we are in, you know, 10 months. I think the most important thing is acceptance. You know, when you choose someone, you just need to, you're choosing them for them as a person and you need to accept that they will change. And it's more about.

out the effort you put into change and grow with them. And communication is obviously important. Always, yes, yes. You got, how old are you, Jeremy? I'm 30. Wise man. You're so, I'm telling you, everyone that we interview that's been in Bachelor, or come off one of the shows, is, I don't know, is it the show that doesn't do it?

Do you feel like it changed you at all or the way you think? Or the way you feel? Not really. No. It is another experience. I think I've just been shaped by, you know, one experiences and two, how I was raised. So, yeah. Where did you grow up, Jeremy?

I grew up in Stanford, Connecticut, so about an hour outside the city. Susan grew up in Philly and I grew up in Boston. We're all east coasters. My best friends live in Boston. My younger sister lives in Philly. Oh, really? We're at. Oh, God.

Do you know? That's okay. That's all right. We don't want to give her address. I was just going to ask you where your friends lived in Boston. Coolidge Corner. Oh, that's a great place. So, you know, when they say, how do you make room for that, a change? Like, what kind of a question is that?

Well, I think, I think Jeremy answered it. It's you growing together, communicating, so to make sure you're both in sync and step as you change and develop, because we all do. I feel like you guys would have the answer to that better than me. the longest relationship I've been in this a few years, but probably longer for you guys. We have some long ones. Yeah, like my marriage was almost 46 years.

So, yeah, that's been a while. And some changes are not as easy to handle. All right. Well, all right. Now we're getting down to it. You've warmed up. What have you been up to since Jen's season? You're dating.

Come on. Are you keeping in touch with the guys? Are you dating? Give it all to us. We want the scoop. Yeah, that's a lot of questions in one. Okay. We'd heard rumors.

I'm just telling you we've heard rumors. No, it's been six months, like almost to the day. Life's been pretty normal. I went back to work, you know, a week after I got back. And the show didn't start airing until two months after. It wrapped up a few months ago. Life's been normal. Obviously, I'm more friends now within my cast and people that I met through Bachelor Nation.

Do you keep in touch with the guys? Oh, yeah. I mean, you guys went through the experience. Yeah, it's great. I'm on such a deep level. I talk to this on every single day. Yeah. I've gotten to me some other great Bachelor Nation people,

and you just have like this, you've all been through a similar thing, so it's a very easy ground to work off of. No, but that's been the same. Besides for, like, you know, getting recognized on the streets. Yeah, yeah. That's cold out, you know.

Jeremy, he's dodging. What? Have you dating? Are you dating? Are you dating? I'm from Boston. We hit the direct questions here. But I'm direct too. I've not been dating. No. Me either, hon. Well, and guess what? I'm going right in. I'm going to be the third one there. Yeah. We're all three in a bucket here. Why are you not dating, may I ask? Because you're a handsome guy. I appreciate that. Thank you. It's just been, life's been busy between, you know, work and I have more opportunities to go out to cool stuff and going out and seeing friends. And you're happy.

Yeah, I'm happy. So I obviously do want to meet someone. It just hasn't been, it's not that it hasn't been a priority. It's that I know that if I do start dating, I want to make them a priority. And like now life's getting more normal and I'll have more time. So I will start dating again. So have you dated anybody from Bachelor? No.

Really? yeah interesting what did I hear about an Airbnb yeah what's your Airbnb we want to rent it okay you guys can get a free stay well wait where is it for free because I want to know where it is up in the cat skills oh no wait I'm serious about that I have never been to the cat skills and my daughter just went rented an Airbnb probably yours I oh no we I will touch base of you. I do. I've actually never been there until I bought the house, which is a bit of a risk, but it's in a great area. Hudson's beautiful, great restaurant. It's in Hudson? It's 15 minutes away from Hudson. Wow. A lot of snow up there? I actually haven't been up there since before I filmed,

but I don't think we're saying. You never go? Well, I do, but I rent it out, so it gets booked up, but um okay what's the best time to go there asking for a friend i think i think september's beautiful it does get a little chillier up there but it has a nice you think like when the leaves change like october is gorgeous i think september's beautiful but november's not bad either so you guys can go up there good hiking yeah i mean everything's so spread out so you'll need to drive no matter what but there are some good huts for sure nice oh i'm definitely gonna look you have to send us some pictures of this place. Do you manage it yourself? You manage it myself.

Really? Yeah. Not as much work as you think. I have like good people in place to help me with it, like cleaners and stuff. But I've always thought about doing this, but it just seemed like a nightmare that somebody would, you know, break all the dishes and the housekeeper wouldn't show up and they'd get there and they'd be rats, you know, little mice had made a nest in a bed, you know, just stuff that happens. You just got to be on top of things But it hasn't been

Obviously you have guests here and there That could be a little of a pain But it hasn't been too bad That's awesome We're gonna have to check it out Okay I want the family and friends discount You could add it Yeah

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We're so blessed to have all experienced that. But what I want to know is, do you feel like something inside you has changed the way you think or approach, even dating, even though you're not dating right now? But it did for me. How about you? What did you get out of it for yourself? I think that as older, you know, as I've aged, I've realized how important communication is. And this was just like that, that, you know, you only. have a limited amount of time. And I wasn't out there like trauma dumping or anything,

but you still need to communicate. And that's something that you didn't really dwell on prior to going? Yeah, not necessarily. I think, I think if you ever get into a relationship where the other person is not a good communicator, you realize, you realize it. You notice it. Really quick. Yes. Did you, wait, did you go, were you on dating apps? Are you on dating apps? I know you're not right now, obviously, but were you? Because the reason I'm asking, it's, again, multi-prong question. Susan and I were on dating apps before we went on the show, and we're not now. It's just been not very successful at all. And I'm curious what you think about the dating culture in general, but specifically dating apps. Yeah, I did have dating apps. I didn't have success on it.

I don't like dating apps. Besides the fact that I do like to meet people, in person because you sort of know you can know if you're going to buy an energy yeah you don't want to waste time but also I feel like with apps you it's a picture people are trying to like fit you into this like circle into this idea of what they want for someone it's just like this forced thing and I think I sort of view life like you should live life you need to be be able to be happy alone and independent and someone walks into your life that makes it better than you could How do you feel about much older women, Jeremy, who would be willing to convert? I'm out of both.

What would your first date with this older woman look like? And will you pay the bill? Maybe we'll bring some bridge at the country club. Do you play bridge? I'm going to go play golf. Do you play golf? Do you golf? I'm not a big golfer.

I'm more of a tennis guy. Okay. all right no pickleball pickleball yeah did you see me play pickleball on TV I hit the lady the fan in the chest with the ball can I just

so I I don't have you watched our show but I won the pickleball contest with one of the other women and Gary had called me the other day from our show and he said you know I want to play pickleball with you so he thought you know he's a pretty good pickleball player but I think he thinks he's going to give me lessons

no thank you very much I know how to play the game Thank you so much. No, I love pickleball. I haven't played. I've only played it in full of times with so much fun, especially from like being able to play tennis. And it's a little different, but it's a lot of fun.

It's shorter. Like you don't have to run as far. So I want to know, you said you live in New York in Brooklyn. What do you do there? You know, I eat, I sleep. Smart ass. He's a smart ass. Okay.

And those of these that are listening, he is available, but you've got to put up with that now. Yeah, I do have a normal job. I work in real estate property management. I run sales for a property management company. Oh, wait a minute. That's why you have no problem with the Airbnb. I had the Airbnb before I did this job. Oh, okay.

Wait a minute. If Susan and I want a little Pieter in Manhattan, can you make that happen to? I personally cannot make that happen, but I can put you in touch with people who can. You know people. It's always good. It's good to know people. It's very good.

So, Jeremy, we play this little game. Oh, no, wait. We have one more question. Oh, we do. Go ahead. Oh, I'll let Susan do the honors here because she's been asking everybody. I can't believe you forgot it. So would you, if you're asked, go on Paradise.

And keep in mind there may be Golden's on Paradise. Hmm. Interesting. Not, wait, wait a minute. Not to date us. Like if we came, like maybe we'd give some advice on like Jeremy, take off the necklace and give it to me. I told you that two months ago. That kind of advice.

Would you go on Paradise? Would I go on Paradise? Yeah. As far as I know, it's still a long time away. So I don't, if I'm single, I'm open to it. I think it'll be, I mean, it'll be a great experience. from people who I know who've been on it. And, you know, I love meeting people from Bachelor Nation.

And I also love the producers, which people forget to. I know. I know. I miss them the most. I really do. We always, that's funny you say that because Susan and I always acknowledge it and talk about the producers. They are great people.

They are. Is there any female that you wish or would hope that would be there? No, I'm open to meeting anybody. Okay. All right. Well, I can tell you, we've interviewed a lot of. of women that were on various seasons and let me just tell you something, you could do a whole lot worse than going to Paradise. I think it would be hand-picked perfection for you.

I just think the experience would be awesome, just like the experience of being on the show. And it wouldn't be, it wouldn't be an interview with me if I didn't ask you, is your father married? He is married, yes. That's a joke. She was teasing. I was teasing. It was just such a humor. Teasing, not teasing.

First off, I need to get asked to be on Paradise, but it would be a decision. Yeah. All right. Yeah. I mean, yeah, if you're not in a relationship, why would you not? Right. Yeah. All right.

We do this thing. We do an advice segment where we answer questions that people write in, and we'd like to ask you to weigh in with us after the questions that you game. You want my advice. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. All right. All right.

The first one is from Anonymous. Hi, Kathy. Don't you love that when they don't even tell your name? You don't know the name. Hi, Kathy and Susan, and now Jeremy. I think my boyfriend's mom really doesn't like me, and I'm freaking out. We're both 23 and have been dating for the past year. I met his parents the other night since they're both in town visiting us.

We went to dinner together, and I just felt like his mom was not vibing with me. There's nothing that I can think of that I said that could have made her upset, just an overall feeling my boyfriend hasn't mentioned anything to me but it's weighing on me should i ask my boyfriend this happened last night so it's still really fresh what do you yeah i think it's still if it just happened it's still fresh i think that you know mothers are protected of their sons you know they take some you know breaking in to do so maybe she should get her flowers the next time she goes to their house bring a little gift kiss a little butt if it continues to happen maybe you need to get the boyfriend involved because obviously there needs to be

good chemistry between the partner and their family or else that's like a rest of people for disaster but i think it's still too early i can't imagine that she didn't get in the car on the way home and say something i would have said something right then and there what's up did you get along with your in-laws i don't know if she would have said anything it's a very sensitive subject i would have said your mom don't like me i feel like what's the matter my mother jeremy my mother my mother mother-in-law did not like me i'm being honest now not i'm not joking because my my husband was her oldest child and her only son and i i took away in her mind i took away her son and she had two daughters uh you so i had two sister-in-laws that were not you know the best my my husband was the one that

kind of took care of his mom so you know it's a real thing it happens i think you touched on an important thing it's like the idea of taking them away you can't make them feel like you're taking their son away i didn't i'm joining the family i didn't i tried everything but it just you know some people just aren't open to it so what do you think i'd like his advice what would you tell her kath i would tell her she needs to talk to her husband about it in a kind and gentle way because like you said jeremy you want to build a strong relationship on the other hand these They're 23-year-olds, so they're pretty young. Maybe the mother thought you're really not going to be the one.

She don't even realize how he feels. We don't know how he feels, you know. But you were right. I think she should have brought flowers the first time. I hope she did. Or a pie or something. If it were just that easy. Yeah.

If my mother-in-law had liked me, if I'd brought a pie, why didn't I think of that? It's not that easy, but who doesn't like being thought of? Yeah, or flowers. Damn, Jeremy. We love flowers. Are you a flower giver? Yeah, I love, I love giving gifts. Oh, wait, what's your language of language?

See, I can't say it. What's your love language? I hate that question. I forget all of them, but when I've been told them, I think all of them. Ah, you're definitely like me. I like them all. I can't. But if you have to pick one, I can't, I can't.

Words of affirmation. Physical touch. Acts of service. Acts of service. I think maybe quality time is one, right? Quality time. Yes, it is. I think quality time would be number one if I had to pick one.

Nice. Nice. Do you like to give gifts or receive gifts? I like to give gifts. Damn, that necklace is coming my way. That's a fourth time you've said it. Yeah. I'm thinking she's on to something here.

I want to make sure you understand. I have a mini one like this. And Kathy goes, why don't you have that necklace on? I have it on today. Oh, she's got it on. The paper clip. Wait, wait a minute. Before we get gone to the next.

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Okay. All right. This is from Laura. Hey ladies. And you, of course. My first ever relationship. that lasted for three and a half years, ended a few months ago. I was devastated. We broke up because he cheated on me. Ooh. I feel like now I'm finally ready to get back out there. What advice do you have for me?

I only dated one person and we were together for a while. So I feel really out of practice. What are some green or red flags I can look out for? How should I start meeting people? What do you think I should have on my dating profile? I'm looking for anything and everything. Thanks so much. I love you ladies.

That's a lot. Look at Jeremy. Jeremy. We've got to have a whole episode for Laura. Another question mark. Should we break it down? Jeremy's exhausted. Let's break it down.

Let's break it down. Okay, first of all, he's a jerk. He's a cheater. What do you think about that? Once a cheater, always a cheater? What do you think? So she's getting ready to get back. What advice do you have for me out of practice?

Wait, wait, wait. I would say, we asked, wants a cheater? I was a cheater, Jeremy, or not? No. I've never cheated. I've never been cheated on. I want to say it's hard to change people, but at the same time, like, you want to be able to give someone another chance.

Yeah, people do regret things. Yeah. answer. I personally wouldn't want to be with someone if I've known they've cheated. So I might be biting my tongue on that. Yeah. Well, and she says some green or red flags. I can tell you about red flags. Well, what's that green flag? Like, I think this girl sounds to me like she's been burned. And so she's trying to systematically and logically pick a boyfriend, which isn't the way. It's a feeling. It's a feeling. There is no rule. I mean, if you want a green flag, it's a sounds like, you know, look at his checkbook, check his teeth, you know, does he have a lot of

his hygiene, you know, does he respect his mother? Are his clothes neatly folded in the drawer? I mean, these are all super. What? I said, does he make his vet? Oh, very important. So, I don't know. What do you think? How, how should I start meeting people? How should she start meeting people? Well, you got to get out there, right? No, go to a bar, join a running club. A club, we say that all the time. Join a, group of something that you meet new people. Just don't be afraid to talk to someone. I think

everyone wants a connection with someone. Just don't be afraid to talk to someone on the streets. Yeah, I think when you talk about meeting people, it's exactly what you just said. She's got to get out and, you know, if you like to sail, get out and join a sailing club. You want to play tennis, go join us tennis club.

You know, do something where you have like-minded people. But she says here, what do I think, what do we think we should put on her dating profile? looking for anything and everything? You need to slow your role. Don't put like a baby picture on your dating profile. I remember when girls used to do that,

I'm like, you only have so many pictures. And to her a guy, so I know what it looked like in 30 years. Don't take selfies in the men's room. Like so many guys have bathroom selfies. Wait a minute. I was like, what do you think? About what to put on.

All those questions. Like, what could you take? Tell her. Oh, my God. That's a lot. Don't be, don't be, I will say this, don't be looking for anything, right? Just try to live because you can't. And I know people who've like, like girls who have wanted guys who are like, oh, they need to be six, four.

They need to be fit. And then they end up. What's wrong with that, Jeremy? Nothing's wrong with that. But like, you should be looking for something specific. It's more like, one like you will know if you're into them. Yeah. I just think she's, it sounds to me, Lara, like you are so worried that you're going to get cheated on

that you're trying to write out numbers one through 10. And if they meet these criteria, then it'll be a good guy. And I think Jeremy's on to something. You just got to get out and date and meet people and live your life and see who comes into it. And the way to meet. We've all been school to write your list, if you will, what you can accept or what you can't. accept that you need to know about yourself right yeah like that's the red flag green flag thing yeah i think i think the simple answer is what jeremy said get out there just get out there and

yeah and based off of her her million questions maybe think a little less slow down what's a red flag for you um if you're not nice like i don't know if If you're not nice. What's the first thing you notice about a woman when you meet her? What is the very first thing you notice, Jeremy? Eyes. Eye contact. I would say eyes, a smile.

Like, a smile is a most attractive thing for me. Yes. And then. Susan, stop smiling. That's what I do. I agree. And I think I was raised around girls. Like, I noticed nails.

Ah. Nails. Wow. I don't think I've ever heard a guy say them. No. I can't really see it from here, but, like, I will know if they are done recently. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Let me ask you, as I hold up my nails, is that because it talks about grooming?

Like, I would have thought you would have said I like blondes or I like a taller woman or I like an athletic figure. Like, I honestly, I've never heard a man say nails. Look me in the eye and smile. Yeah, I know. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. I like it.

And I think, like, if you, and this is not, like, shitting on girls who don't get their nails done, but I think it, like, sort of, you know, ties into maybe, like, upkeep and hygiene. That's what, yeah. That they care about how they. So do you want a girl, you know, we're getting your dating profile going here. You just don't know it yet. Do you like, do you like athletic girls or girly girls, blondes, brunettes? Where are you? I really don't have a type.

be, you know, tall shore, blonde burnet, white, black. Do you have outgoing, you like an outgoing personality? I was just talking to my buddy about this. I feel like I tend to like girls who are more outgoing. Now, I can be outgoing, but I'm also like a quiet person. I would say, yeah, I never met you before today. And I would, you strike me as a guy who is sincere, but a little bit on the quieter, introspective side.

Yeah. So I do like a girl who's outgoing because I feel like that. brings it out of me and I like it being brought out of me. I like that. How tall are you, Jeremy? I'm 5.11. I haven't reached that. Maybe I'll grow another inch in the next few years. That's cool enough. You're fine. You're fine. Don't worry about it. You're fine. I never, I always thought I was a good height until the second I walked into the bachelor house and all these. Wait, that is so funny. You said that. I was just doing a podcast the other day and I was the of the women that stay. I was the tallest woman, and I'm like 5, 7 and a half.

I mean, there were all these women that were like 5, 2, and 5 3, a few Susan's like 5, 5, 5.5, Joan is 5.7. She's like half an inch shorter than I. But, I mean, I didn't feel like I was that tall until I went on that show. It's never, I never thought about it. It's never been a problem. Like, my ex-girlfriend is taller than me, so I don't really care about that. Taller than 5-11?

Yeah. Wow. Was she a model? I was just going to say she was a model figure. Not that I know of. Well, wait a minute. I'm sorry, you broached this and we've got all the time in the world here because my hotel room isn't ready yet. So what happened?

Nothing happened. Great girl. Did you date a long time? It was like a year. It was a COVID relationship. So sort of it was time. But you didn't have a problem with her being taller than you. And it was she were healed.

should be even more tall. I mean, even taller yet. That didn't, but some men feel insecure about that. No, no, I found it attractive. Nice. Oh my gosh. You have said two things that I really are liking you. We're like, I'm going to hook you up with some great girls out of Austin, Texas, Southern Bells. I've never been to Austin. You've never been to Austin? Oh, wow. I lived in Texas for nine years, not that. When I went to Austin, wait, it's like you're not in Texas anymore. I forgot to mention Speaking of Austin Because when we were originally

Supposed to record this podcast The night before I'd met Zach Chalcross Who spoke of you guys And sends his regards I love that Katie was at my house We were watching

TV She came over to watch Something with me the other night And I love those two That has been a joy For me to get to know them They're lovely people They've had some fun with them

Katie, but Zach is a great guy. Yeah, he is. And let me tell you something, Katie is the real deal. I mean, he got a gem with her. Well, I hate to do this to us, but we got to wrap it up for this episode. I want to thank you for sharing with us, for giving some advice, for opening up and letting us question you to death. I don't. It was a lot of fun.

I really appreciate it. I really hope if we get to go to Paradise and you get to go to Paradise, that we we get to chat again and we really you are a joy to have i'll be down there bending your ear i'll be the bartender i'm gonna be i'm gonna mix drinks if you guys are in new york we can grab a drink here i would love that okay if you if you liked this interview if you want to hear more if you have questions we'll answer them bachelor nation dot com slash golden hour Follow us on our podcast, hit the follow button. You'll never miss an episode.

It is truly, we are a broken record at this point. But they can catch up on the ones that they've missed, and we've had some really good ones. So don't be shy, hit the button. And if you want to date with Jeremy here, reach out on that. We'll hook you up. We know where he lives now, and we can rent his Airbnb.

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