Bachelor Happy Hour - Girl Talk with Gerry’s Daughters Jenny & Angie! | Golden Hour

Episode Date: October 16, 2024

Today on “Golden Hour,” Kathy and Susan are joined by guests Jenny Young and Angie Warner, Golden Bachelor Gerry Turner’s daughters! The ladies are sitting down today to give Bachelor Nation some advice. We kick off with our question of the day: Should you ever talk about past relationships with your current partner? Then, we answer some of your questions. We get into drama-filled sisters-in-law, vasectomies, and trying to move on from an emotional affair. Tune in now to hear all this and more, and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is an I-Heart podcast. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, luckily, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend's been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone.

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as Gary Turner's daughters. Welcome, welcome. Hey, girl. Thanks for having us. We are so excited to have you, girls. But we did get to know them during our show. Remember, Kathy, when we met them? Oh, yes.

We have all remained very close friends. As a matter of fact, they are here at my house, along with Kathy. And Kathy and Nancy and Christina, and they just arrived. So we're going to have a ball. Girls weekend. What better than to do a podcast with these fabulous people and hear all their family secrets. What do you say? Sure.

Yeah. I'll never tell. Gary's going to be on the phone in about a minute. Susan? Susan. He'll call you. You know what? I have Gary on speed dial.

He can call me anytime you want. all right so we have a topic of the day girl so do you talk about past relationships with your current partner or is that off limits if you talk do if you do talk about it are there any topics that are off limits who wants to go first i say nothing off limits i feel like you should be able to talk about it you learn from each other that way i would rather hear something crazy is happening in the last relationship or whatever. So I say talk about it. No limits.

Okay. And I think this is interesting too because, I mean, I've been married for 24 years. So it would have been. So then she doesn't count. So if she had past relationships, she doesn't remember them. I don't remember them. No, I mean, I think when we, early on when we first started dating, I might have, like, I would bring something up and I'm with Angie.

Like, nothing is off limits. I had a horrible boyfriend before my husband. And Susan and Kathy. Yes. So I do know that topics came up, but it wasn't like, oh, you know, I want to talk to you about this because this is what happened in my past relationship. It would have just been, you know, off the cuff if something came up like, this is what happened. Now for you, if it came up now, that would be weird. 24 years later. Let me tell you about my ex-boyfriend from 30 years ago.

Right. So wait, that brings something up. Because when you do first meet somebody, like you're going on the first date, if they start talking about their ex, that's a red flag for me. I agree. I think in that first, when you're getting to know somebody, it's like, are you over that person or not? Because clearly not. Okay, but I'm going to talk about the elephant in the room. Susan, we are not married like these two beautiful women are.

I know we were. But now that we're in the dating world with no dates, by the way, is there anything that's off limits for you? Or do you want to hear? Is there anything you don't want to hear about or talk about? No, I'm an open book, and I hope the person that I'm with is just, is open. I don't want to be surprised later on down the road. But I wouldn't tell me like a ghost

story or something that like... I just don't want to... When I date someone, I do not want to hear all their... I hate it. My ex. You did this. That is taboo. Right? Yeah. I'm with you on that. I think it's more like you know, my ex used to do A, B, and C

and maybe it bothered them. Maybe it's something. And then you can look at yourself and be like, ooh, I'm that A. B and seat person, I'm probably going to piss you off. Well, it says here, if you do talk about it, are there any topics that are off limits? I can name one. My sex life. Wait a minute. We agreed again. Ladies and gentlemen, this

is the day. We have spent way too much time together, Susan. We're agreed. What's that damn game I hate? Moral quandary. And if you listened earlier this week, I got a hundred. No, she didn't. She had a B plus. She got a B plus.

So you got a 905. All right. I No, I was just saying if you're going to be talking with your new person about sex and you wanted to talk about your ex relationship, do you say, oh, this is what he did that I really liked? Well, that's something that could be shared. There you go. I'm sorry. That sucked. Yeah.

Don't do that. Don't do that. Right. Wait, I just want to paint a picture here. So, we're all out to dinner with our special someone. It's not together. We're all there. At my table, do you really think that I am going to say,

over a glass of champagne and a fillet mignon so let me tell you what i like in the bedroom are you for real it's not bringing it up like that they're saying if you have that discussion i'm going to repeat if i'm at on a date having what if you're between the sheets that's where you have that conversation there you i like champagne and a nice steak get straight to the sex talk i think that's comes out everybody's different we're moving on here so okay ladies angie and jay and jay we do advice. We answer some fan questions and then we give out some advice. So we're going to be very anxious to hear what y'all think. Y'all, that's a Texas term for everyone here. Even though she's an East Coast girl. I am an East Coast girl, but I live in Texas. All right. So let's go with the first one

from Anonymous, age 44 from Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. She's an Oki. All right. Hi, Golden ladies. I am writing to you in need of some advice. I'm not sure of either of you have experience with this, but maybe you know someone who does. I need some thoughts on staying with someone, making a relation work. Oh, a relationship work after infidelity. My husband and I have been together for 15 years and I recently found out that he'd been having an emotional affair for nearly two years. It ended over three months ago, but the lengths he went to to keep it going and hidden have been hard to move past. I have chosen to forgive him. However, I'm finding that I am thinking about it all the time.

We'll be talking about something we did as a family, and I can't help but think about if he was talking to her then. I'll sometimes just lay awake in the middle of the night, just recounting everything I know. We've been going to therapy, and we both want to heal our relationship for the sake of our son. I'm hesitant to talk to friends or family because I already judge myself every day for choosing him to stay and forgive him and don't want further judgment from them. Let me know if you have any advice for getting past something like this.

I appreciate you both greatly. Who wants to go first? I mean, well, I think the first thing was that I was like, is trying to make the relationship work. I guess you do have to put the effort in to try and do that. But I feel like an emotional relationship is almost worse than just a sexual relationship. Like there's, you're having a lot of conversations, you're having a lot of talks, getting kind of deep and I think that that's just a little bit more than you know kind of having

yes yes exactly um now I'm not in the the position to go oh you should leave this guy or you should stay with him but I mean I mean she's in a hard spot right now she's asking you for your advice so your advice would have a very hard time with it and I yeah I don't know that I could say yes I would leave my husband but that's a bad one I think that's almost like I said it's it's worse than just I think the key to this one and she said it herself was I have chosen to forgive him and move on so people are going to react

to cheating differently. I'm a person if you cheat, you're out. I'm very black and white. If she's choosing to say I'm going to forgive him and I'm going to move on then she needs to take that and she needs to move on. She can't say that she's going to choose

move on and then lay at night thinking about it. So that's what I think, Angie, as well, but there's something here that Anonymous you wrote that so I was married for almost 46 years but I came from parents who were divorced and it was an ugly one and there was infidelity and I'm here to tell you anonymous if you in your words want to heal your relationship for the sake of your son you're barking up the wrong tree if you're not saving the relationship because you love your husband and you want to make it work if you're doing it for your only for your child

give it up now. That's my advice to you. I would re-examine why you want to stay in the relationship. What do you think, Susan? Well, I would like to know what they talk about in therapy. Where is he coming from and what were his reasons? Did he feel like he wasn't close to his wife? And he was reaching out for some emotional support from somebody else. And if so, why so long? And why did you come back to this relationship because you got caught? Or for the sake of the son. or right that's the wrong reason because it doesn't save a family it makes it worse but if you can't get over it and therapy's not helping that tells you everything you need to know and you know what the other thing she said hit you in the ass the other the other thing she said is though um i already

judge myself every day for choosing to stay it sounds to me like she has not chosen and is not happy she's staying under duress so anonymous it's a shame it's a shame it's sad we wish you all the best i hope the therapy helps but reexamine actually why you're staying in the relationship and one more thing put yourself in his shoes and just for a second and act as if you did that so how do you forgive yourself and do you want your relationship to go on right right i mean i don't know what he's saying but put yourself there i was it emotionally attached to somebody else but I think that's what Jenny was saying that you know something I mean I've never had an affair but you know you hear people say it was just sex well that's different yeah this wasn't

well no I think that I think you were agreeing with me like I just I think the just sex and the emotional but I think the emotional is bad um yeah there's a there was a good connection that's the hard part I think at the end of the day she needs to be happy and clearly she's not so that her choice in saying that she could accept it and move on might not be her right choice. And she should re-examine that and then live her life and be happy. Yeah. We wish you all the best. Anonymous, let us know right back in and let's know how it goes. And he's a dumbass.

Sorry. He shouldn't have done that. But he's okay, moving right along. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly and now I'm seriously suspicious. Well, wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her.

Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor, and they're the same age. And it's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him?

Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet. So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I'm Jamil Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcast Politics. And on the latest episode of Politics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't? say publicly. Many of them are in fear of their political lives, and that's been part of the challenge, but we continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your constituents, to stand up for your

constituents, and there's life after Congress. And you should be willing to actually want to be able to look back on your time in the House of Representatives, knowing that you can keep your head held high because you did the right thing. Donald Trump is gone in three and a half years, but their legacy or their failure to stand up to the extremism and the unprecedented assault on America, as we know it, will be with them forever. Make sure to listen to Spolitics on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Umanzor.

And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh, my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you.

Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. Okay, this one's from Carrie, age 60, from Norfolk, Virginia. She says, hi, girls. Your podcast makes me smile every week. Something that doesn't make me smile every week is my sister-in-law. She has been constantly staring up family drama for years. It's not even necessarily with me.

She just is always at the center of some family drama and I have had enough. It has ruined so many family gatherings, special occasions, holidays, etc. she is constantly picking fights or commenting about someone's parenting styles or weight or relationship you name it she's doing it i am always nervous about what she's going to say next she is just one of those people who loves drama and constantly surrounds herself with it i can't control who my brother married but i'm seriously considering not inviting their family to any gatherings anymore. I have talked to my brother about it, but he just says that's how she is.

And it's not that bad. How would you deal with a family member who is constantly causing drama is always stressing me out and makes our family so tense? I love you all and thank you for any advice. Okay, Ants. Yeah.

So I think the first part of this is that she says she has talked to her brother about this and he just says don't worry that's just her I think her first step is to talk to her directly he chose her she didn't and so now it's whenever you're invited you're causing drama for everything that we do have that conversation if it doesn't get resolved and they can't take care of it

are you saying the sister-in-law you're saying Carrie needs to have a conversation directly not go to the brother Carrie has only talked to her brother, and he's, of course, defended his wife, which you would. So Carrie needs to go to the sister-in-law and let her know this is what happens. You've caused this drama. You're doing this. You're ruining our family functions. If that doesn't help, then I think Carrie has all right to not invite this person to her own family gatherings.

I think that's totally up to her. Fair enough. So I would say, you know, just sitting here amongst girls, we all know someone that's like this. I have two sister-in-laws. And what fuels their fire? Attention. People giving them attention, letting them get away with this. So I would say that that's exactly what she wants.

And the more attention you give her that just keeps it going. You kind of ignore it. You let it go. That it might tame it down just a little bit. But my other thought would be quit inviting her to stuff. And when she starts feeling left out, that's when you can go, yeah. You know what? You cause problems all the time.

You're not fun to be around. Yeah, but wait a minute. First of all, I swear this letter is about my sister-in-laws. I had two of them. No, I had two of them. One was the nicest person on the planet. The other one, and they're twins, by the way, the other one could ruin a party in 10 seconds. So I don't know. But here's the thing. As much as you'd like to, can you really not invite your brother and his wife to the family holiday parties? What about? You just say, yeah, I'm not inviting you because of your wife. what about being susan as she says it you get in her face and call her on it what the hell is wrong with you why would you say something about somebody's weight but you don't think that's going to escalate it yeah mate

and you shut it down remind me to come to your christmas party next year with your family see i i i call it like it is and deal with it in the moment i can't let it fester because then i'll probably flatten tires or i don't know hit her over the head or something. I don't know if you ladies know this, but Susan has a cadre of baseball bats that she uses for a multiple situations. We're coming to help you carry. Susan's baseball bats and us.

We're coming out. But she says, I've had enough. Like, she's going to get on somebody about their parenting style. Who to hell died and made you boss? You're not God. How dare you get on somebody's weight?

I mean, come on. Are you going to sit around? I want you seriously think about this. Your three children. And their families are all sitting around your banquet table that seats 20. And you're telling me that your daughter-in-law, one of them acts up. I know you love your daughter-in-laws. But Jess would never do it.

I know. But you know what I'm saying? Just theoretically. At the table, it would be complete silence when I say, excuse me? What did you just say? Oh, no, darling. That doesn't happen here. Come on.

No, I would. Angie, we're coming here for Christmas, X-Share. I'm coming herely to watch Susan Yeller. That's what I mean. For Christmas. That's what I mean. But we don't have that here, but we don't have that here, but we would. My whole family, we're loud and we're loving.

Nobody insults anybody at my table. And even if I was at your house, I might pause a little bit, but my eyes would make that person feel very uncomfortable. Susan and I both are eyes, like you know, when you. you stand, we just look at our eyes. So, Carrie. Great point because why is it just up to Carrie? Right. Carrie. The rest of the family is seeing this. I ask you this. Are you not comfortable?

You went to your brother and out of respect, I get that. I think that was nice. And he said, that's just who she is. It is what it is. Well, that's unacceptable. Why don't somebody put the woman in her place? And then if that don't work, then you know. All right. Carrie, let us know what happens. We want to know. Forgive me your address. and I'll be over. Inquiring minds want to know,

and Susan has a baseball bat. She hasn't used in the last month. She's ready. Can I just tell you, wait, pause. Will you look at these two eyes? I remember meeting Gary and looking at his eyes going wholly smooth. Gary has gorgeous eyes. Wait, you see your father?

He's right over there. Gary's eyes are, your dad's eyes are beautiful. I actually said that to him when I met him. I said, you have the most beautiful eyes. And he said to me, so to you. And then he didn't marry me. Oh, geez. Well, Gare.

All right. I don't understand it. If you're listening. Well, damn. If you're listening, we do love you. We love you, Gary. All right. The next question I have personal experience with, so can I answer this one first?

Kathy has personal experience with everything we say. You haven't read the question I have. She has a family member that lived there. She has the thing that she, I come from a family of seven. I have half brothers, step sisters. I got it all. Okay, go. I got the mean step mother, the great step.

mother i got it all okay this is from sebastian age 51 from the big apple otherwise known as new york city cathy and susan i watched the golden bachelor with my wife and we've been keeping up with you two ever since well i'm glad you watched it okay i started listening to your podcast and thought i'd write in asking for some advice my wife is 37 and i'm 51 we have three kids and don't want anymore. She has asked me to get a vasectomy and I really don't want to undergo surgery as I am deeply afraid of the pain. I know that sounds silly after she's given birth to three kids, but I've seen horror stories online and I don't react well to anesthesia. We have also talked about other forms of birth control like the pill or an IUD, but those all fall in her and I want to take some ownership

here too. We decided to not have sex until we figured this out to be safe. So I want to make a decision soon. Do you think I suck it up and get the vasectomy? Let me know what you think. Okay, Sebastian. Sebastian, gross. Will you please go get that stuff? Let me wait. If you want to get laid in Sebastian, like, go do it. They're waiting until he makes a decision. Sebastian, it could be a long cold winner. You know what I'm saying? Hey, here's, no, I want to say to you, I do have personal experience. I also have three children, Sebastian. I also asked my husband to have a vasectomy. And he also said, I'm afraid of the pain. And I said, I said exactly what you said about your wife, Sebastian.

I said, are you kidding me? May have been a few expletives in there. I had three children, and you're really given this to me. So he did do it. And let me tell you, he was scared to death, Sebastian. I don't know what you're reading online. Half what you read online isn't true anyway, except our podcast. So, you know, there's that.

But I am telling you, you need to go and have it done. they don't knock you out. It's like a local. You're fine. My husband had it done on a Friday and he went back to work on Monday. And you know what? Your wife is going to say, oh, poor baby, let me bring you soup in bed. Really what she's thinking is grow a pair.

Get up. You'll be fine. Go do it, Sebastian. He did the same thing. It was scared of death. It's like having a little blue balls. You're sore for a couple hours. You put some ice on it.

You're fine. You're fine. We poor children. Excuse me. Excuse me. Also, I mean, let's discuss. he's going through what a couple days of pain and then die forever okay let's give sebastian a couple days you want your 37 year old wife to go on birth control which causes yeah oh he doesn't he wants to take

ownership yeah and you know what if you want to take ownership guess what get busy the big v is coming your way right right go and do it get the v first of all you are blessed buddy you're 51 she's 37. I mean, if that doesn't tell you enough, you need to do this and yesterday. Yeah, I will. Wait, I want y'all, did you hear what? I don't think you all heard what

Mazel tov Sebastian. No, no, no. Did you hear what this beautiful woman said? I'm sitting right next door. Angie? She said if he wants the big V, he better get the other V. That means, right? You get one V. One V for the other.

Vasectomy for the vagina. You got four women here, Sebastian, who love you. We love your wife more. Get it done. Okay, moving right along. Wait, wait, what's his wife's name? He didn't say. Whoever Sebastian's wife is, call us.

I don't know. We'll come and drag him for you. We will bring her baseball back. Throw him in the car. No one will ever date me. They think of a killer. I just call you on things. I don't know why they think that, Susan.

I'll tell them at the dinner table. Let me tell you what you're going to do. I would, Kathy. Nobody disrespects at my table. And you wonder why you can't get a date. I guess. I'm really nice. Are my nice?

You are very nice. You are very nice. Look, you want to date Angie? That's a whole other story. All right. We're moving on. She's married. I do like her husband.

All right. We're moving on to the parenting edition. It's a would you rather. See, you have to answer. would you rather this or would you rather that okay another game i suck at games wait since we all have kids you don't angie but you have dogs and you're an aunt and a whatever uh and some of us have grandkids so i thought it'd be fun to play a round of parenting would you rather so angie you could say whatever the hell you want because nobody can call you a liar all right here we go

would you rather here i love you from your kid for the first time again or something see them smile for the first time again i would say smile what do you think angie i mean i don't have kids but i if i did i would think it would be the i love you've met me right you want the i love you i want both she i just i did it because that's that first smile makes you cry yes can i just say yeah aren't they saying i love you at that point yeah no my the time it's gas we think they're smile look they smile look she smiled that means a gas bubble when my granddaughter smiled for the first time it was at me and my daughter was so angry and it wasn't a gas smile it was like she was like six weeks old and i walked in and she looked at me this bit and kate my daughter looked at me and went i said get ready kately all right go ahead susan get the next one all right how about this one clean up spilled juice on the carpet or

marker drawn on the walls. Oh, I remember that. Your kids drew on the walls? Oh, you don't know. I would have cut their fingers off. I came. Oh, my God. My whole bedroom.

They make washable markers. Wait a minute. My twins got into my vanity. Oh. And they drew on each other, on my comforter, on the walls with eyeliner, lipsticks. This was just so. I could take a shower.

Okay. That was a lot of fun that they had, though. Well, I'm just, you know, I'm... What would you rather? A spill on the carpet or a marker on the wall? I only gave my kids water and apple juice. It doesn't stain. Get the hell off my wall.

You know, I would die if my kids had marked up my wall. I would rather have the wall because I can paint. So I'd rather just paint up the wall. A carpet, you got to bring somebody in. You got shampoo the carpet if it doesn't come out. Sounds like a mess. Do you know how many times kids spill formula juice while they're toddled? until it's always it happens.

So my answer is going to be because all of my friends know how great my husband is with getting stains out of the carpet. So I'm going to go with the stains in the carpet because I know he can get it out. You know what? That's a practical answer. All right. This one is a favorite of mine. Okay.

I can't wait to hear your answers. Watch your kids score the winning point or goal or have them get a perfect report card. I am a very sporty person and so are my kids. I am going to go with the winning goal because it's just, it's fantastic. Our life is baseball, and I'm going for that. I also, because it's exciting, you know, like you see them do it. You don't see them learn and then, like, get the report card. I mean, you don't want a dumb kid.

Definitely score in the wrong. Okay. I can't believe we're all agreeing, but you know why? Oh, my God, you hear that? Ladies and gentlemen, again, we're on the same. Cheers, cheers, cheers, cheers. You know why for me, though, it's not, it's not the excitement of the game. It's, my daughter played soccer.

all the way through school and played college soccer now works for the professional team in Austin, the confidence that it gives a kid to score the winning goal is amazing. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly and now I'm seriously suspicious. Wait a minute, Sam, maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast,

so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate.

Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor, and they're the same age. And it's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet. So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the explosive finale, listen to the O.K. Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app,

Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I'm Jemel Hill, host to the Sports and Politics and Politics. And on the latest episode of Politics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately

that they won't say publicly? Many of them are in fear of their political lives, and that's been part of the challenge. But we continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your constituents, to stand up for your constituents and there's life after Congress and you should be willing to actually want to be able to look back on your time in the House of Representatives knowing that you can

keep your head held high because you did the right thing. Donald Trump is gone in three and a half years but their legacy or their failure to stand up to the extremism and the unprecedented assault on America as we know it will be with them forever. Make sure to listen to Spolitics on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Emanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you.

But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. All right, how about this one?

Get up at 5 a.m. with a. Or stay up until 2 a.m. with a crying baby. Easy. 5 a.m. Oh, no. 5 a.m. I'm going to stay up until 2 a.m. Yeah, and I'm going to do the 5 a.m. thing because your question didn't say it specifically,

but I might have been in bed since 8. get up at five, I'm good. Amen. All right, we got two and two. No, so great. Grandchildren, Susan, you can get up at five. Absolutely. And I'll get up at two. All right, perfect. Or stay up till two. I'll stay up until two.

For the crying baby. I can do that. Your wits end, baby. Let me start fresh. I got more patience. Okay. Handle a tantrum from a three-nager or an actual teenager. A three-year-old, a three-year-old, or a teenager? A tantrum. I mean, I'm going to answer for my sister, which you've been through it.

Definitely, you'd rather have a teenager. A tantrum from a teenager? Yeah. Okay, so I will say, my youngest, so Charlie, she was terrible, absolutely terrible. And you're talking about a temper tantrum as a young child. She was horrible until she, oh my gosh. until she was 10. It was a long road. It was lots of throwing things and this and that and everything. But once she hit 10, she changed, and I've had perfect teenage years with her.

Which one is that? I know them both. Charlie, the youngest. Okay. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, she was kind of a butt hole. You hear that, Charlie. We love you, Charlie. We love you, Charlie. We love to Charlie. But, yeah, so I can't, I would rather take the teenage. at this point because way better than what I had until she was done. Oh, for me, it's so easy. A teenager, because you know what you can say to one? I'll tell you why. Go to a room, I don't want to talk to you.

Come out when you can be civil. You can't do that with a three-year-old. You have to deal with it. I don't want to deal with that. Go to your room. Come out when you can be civil. I pick a three-year-old. Absolutely.

Why are you going to do? Because they're not long. And you don't have to go through the punishment for a week because when you punish your teenager, you're punished as well. not men at the long table you remove them and go give them a bottle

do something they quiet them really you know what that's just me Susan I actually I don't know my children were perfect we never had any tantres and if you believe that not even a little bit

all right all right oh this is buy your kid a car for their 16th birthday or have a kid who refuses to get their license So you're stuck driving them. Oh, that's so easy. Okay, this is way new to me.

I don't know what the deal is with this generation that's getting their driver's license where they don't want to go and get their driver's license. They'd rather have their parents drive them around. I didn't know it was a thing. And no, Charlie, so again, back to Charlie. Boy, Charlie, we do love you. I love her. She was in a boot and on crutches on her 16th birthday.

And I was like, I don't think you can go to the DMV and get a driver's license. And she's like, the hell I'm not. And so she went, she had to do her driving test and everything. The boot was on the left foot. But she didn't add that. I'm just saying, you don't drive with your left foot, mom. No, that's what I'm saying. So she could drive.

But nope, she was out of there. She's like, nope, I'm going to go and do it. I don't understand. I was going to say what state would allow you to take a driving test with your right foot in a boot? Just saying. That's why I said it. I say, yeah, they got to get out there and drive their own car. Okay, wait.

Susan, what about you? I did buy my kids cars when they were 16. So I will be honest, I bought my kids' cars, my husband and I did. Not all of them. They shared one. But if they refuse to get their license, I'm not stuck driving them. Honey, you don't want to get a license and I've offered to buy you a car. I guess you're going to figure out how you're going to get to that baseball practice.

It's true. There's a lot of people, kids out there that are 20-some and didn't get their license yet. It's like amazing. I couldn't wait. All right. How about potty training again or change. changing diapers again. Pick one.

I would probably change diapers again because I feel like everybody that I talk to has a really hard time potty training. And this one's a hard one for me to answer because my husband, he's been a stay-at-home dad for 20 years. So he potty trained both of my girls. So for you, it's a no-brainer.

Well, yeah, let's do the potty training. No, you know what she's saying. Oh, no, we'll take the potty training again because my husband will be doing it. My husband will do it. Yep, I'm good. What about you, Susan? Pottie training was a pain in the pot.

Did you not? Wait, my kids, every grocery store, it was like a thing. I got to go potty. Why? No, you don't. Did you not read the book, how to potty train? I'm serious. My kids didn't come with instructions.

No, there was a book. There was a book, how to. That's right. How to potty train your children in a day? And I'm not kidding you. I did it. This is, I'm not joking. Turn off your phone.

which I did believe it or not flood your child with any popsicles, fruit juice, anything they want. But before you do that, you buy something that they really want. It's a Lego, a doll, whatever it is. Sticking it up on the shelf.

So they're watching it. Why can't I have that? Oh, you're going to have it. We're going to potty train. You get the excitement going and then you know what you do? You flood them. Okay, and then the kid gets a prize every time he pees? No, no, no, no. Once they pee, at the end of the day and they're dry and they've kept dry for the day

the next day they get them. Because once they're trained, they're trained. You don't do it in one day. I did all three in mine in one day. She's a miracle. No, it's just the book. She's a miracle. And I'm just, I'm putting myself out there. I charge a lot, but if any of you need help,

potty training, give me a call. She never made out in the back seat of a car and her kids were trained in a bed. It's a book. He never made out in the backseat of a car. Oh, Jesus. Uh-huh. Never have a seat of a car. I have made out in the backseat of a car. I haven't had sex in the back seat of a car.

Well, maybe you need to get it out there. Well, her kids are perfect. And you're looking green with MV. Susan. Oh, no. I've changed a poopie diaper any day. That was a nightmare. Okay, let your kids choose what's for dinner every night or you choose what's for dinner but can only eat their leftovers.

What kind of a question is that? Skip that one. Oh, wait. That's how would I answer that? Moral quandary. I hate that game. How would I answer it? You would choose.

I don't cook. That's right. That kids would starve. I would choose because a lot of things, I'm a foodie. We're going to get along so good. Like, I like to eat. Me too. It's not normally what a little kid wants to eat.

So I'm cool eating their leftovers because they'll picket something and then I get what I actually order. Do you cook? What's your husband? John cooks. So do your kids get to pick? They picked when they were younger. I think the tagline in our houses is this is not a restaurant, but it was a restaurant. Pop-up had one, you know.

You could only drop them off. Yeah, so they picked, so quite a bit. So they got what they wanted. But I think I'm with Angie, like reading the question and seeing what it is, I'm with her. I think we both like to have our food and have what we want. So if we would get to have what we want and we just get to eat their leftovers, I'm not like a escargo some risotto Something like a three-year-old with wine

Is she speaking a foreign language? I have a question for both of them Do you like red meat? Love red meat. Do you like shrimp? Love shrimp. Do you like scallops? Love scallops.

You like wine? I don't think they're leaving. We're here to stay, guys. That's for dinner tonight. Wait a minute. Turns out I now live with soup. Yes. I'm moving in.

I've been very busy being her sous chef. I slice some potatoes. Yes. I salt and pepper. peppered them. Yes, she did. I put oil on. She flipped them.

And I'm exhausted. I'm just saying. Turn the oven on. Oh, I'm not sure they've got to take it. I'm exhausted. Moving right along. All right. Have your kid write you a thoughtful handwritten card or get or make you a thoughtful gift.

I like the card. The cards are cute. You know, the scribbly handwriting and whatnot. They still do when your kids went to school and you had to give them like a dollar or a Christmas time and they buy you the ring or to get the gift. Yes. Shout out again to neither of my nieces, I never got one. Your aunt is waiting.

They ran out of money. Hey, kids, you might want to run away before Auntie Angie gets back. No, I'll give this one a shout out to Charlie because the last year that she did it, both of those girls never once. They ran out of money, so I didn't get my present. The last year that Charlie could do it, I was moving into a new house. Rob and I were renting a house, and she bought me a little rock that said, welcome. And she said, you can put it on your... Oh, that means the worst.

My kids, I still have the handwritten things upstairs in the drawer. And I'm a thrower out. No, I get rid of everything. I think he used to want to kill me. That I still have. Mom, I owe you $200. Okay, wait, I have a question. You all know I'm a writer by training.

What do you all think about getting a gift from grandma and grandpa or Auntie Angie or whatever? is a handwritten thank you or a phone call okay or a text message what do you require for a thank you? I don't require anything for a thank you usually. No, no, no, no. If you, I'm saying if you had children Right, like I'm taking about my nieces. Would you require them to write a thank you?

No, no, no, no. Would you? I think a verbal thank you is good. I'm happy that A, they remember to say. You know, like, that's, I think that's important. But, like, B, I think it's just, like, if we're standing there together and they, like, look at me and say, hey, thank you. Not to you, but, like, if I sent them a gift. Oh. Oh, we taught them.

Yeah, you've got to teach them to say. Oh, okay. And that's the case? Then I would say you could pick up the phone and call Kathy. Okay. What about you, Susan? Definitely, I taught my children. You must send the thank you.

All right. Make them send a thank you, Ms. Damn right. Yeah, we all agree. If someone. If someone took the time, if someone took the time to spend money, give them a gift, they're writing a handwritten banking. Wait, I can't wait to hear her face. See her face. Just pay attention, okay? Have to spend your retirement money on your kids' wedding or have them elope and marry someone you never met.

Now, what do you think? Go ahead. Do you not know what my answer is? You're going to spend your retirement money? Damn right. Damn right. somebody we never met. Listen, this true story ensues, that's where I thought you were going with this. My husband died before my last child got married, but we had talked about a budget for my daughter's wedding. And when I tell you, we blew through that budget, like, and I, but I honestly said to myself, what would Daryl have done?

And I could just see him saying to me, are you kidding me? You give her the wedding of her life. And believe me, you win, I tell you. you i mean she had the wedding of her life i may rephrase that question and the question was spend your retirement money or have them elope not with elope with someone you never met i mean i gave brittany a choice you take the money that's what i did you're still going to give you this money buy a house or you know what are you guys what are you going to do with okay so ever since my girls were little um basically the um what i've told them is that i will pay for their college and I will give them $20 for their wedding.

$20? Where are they going to McDonald's? Maybe. Here's my point. You know what? Two happy meals might not have enough. Two happy meals. Hope you enjoy it.

Here's the thing. My whole point has been I will pay for your college, which in my opinion is the best wedding gift that I can give them, they're going to get, she's going to go into a marriage and she's not going to have debt for college unless she chooses to go beyond her for. Okay, wait, I've got a follow-up question. If your daughter gets married before she finishes school, would you... My first one's done. My second one would never do it.

Well, that's not the question. The question is... Hypothetic. Hypothetic, you, Angie. Hypothetically, would you pay for your child's education after they got married? I would finish paying for education, yes, because that's already the promise that I made her, that I would pay for the first four years of college. Even if she gets married, you wouldn't say...

it's your husband's responsibility to pay for your education or your own now. You're married. They're both done. I would finish it. I would, I would, I've already paid for the first one. I think, it's my due diligence to pay for the second one, um, to do it. However, I have said if they want, you know, subway sandwiches and I take a beer, I will pay for that for their wedding. What about you, Susan? I would spend my retirement money. I have twice. She got married twice. I don't know. I feel like my son got married twice. I paid for it. It's expensive. I know. Okay. Wait, minute.

Who's paying for our wedding? Yeah, I'm going to have to say, have them a lobe. If that's what they really want to do. I mean, she'll meet him at some point. They're going to learn a lesson. And I. Because you'll need the money to help pay for the divorce. That's what.

My money's going to come in at some point. I'm going to have to support them. He dumps her. She's going to have to move into my house. And the money that I would have paid for the wedding is paying for everything. So when we come back into a podcast, five, years from now of Angie had a kid. We're going to be given our retirement money to help our kid out.

I was so wrong. I would live with that unless I adopt. You guys, this has been a lot of fun. Thank you. I hope you come back and join us. We love having you too, but unfortunately that does it for this episode of Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour. Jenny and Angie are welcome here anytime.

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