Bachelor Happy Hour - Hearts of Gold with Nancy | Golden Hour

Episode Date: May 1, 2024

Fellow Golden girl Nancy joins Susan and Kathy on “Golden Hour.” Nancy shares how she navigates dating while having a chronic health condition and why Daisy from Joey’s season helped her feel empowered to share her condition. Plus, Susan, Kathy, and Nancy recall some of their favorite memories together. Be sure to follow so you never miss an episode.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Good morning. Good morning and welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour. Thank you so much for joining us again. We're so excited to be back. Right, Kat? We are so excited to be back. And if you haven't done it yet, you are late to the game. So you need to follow our podcast so that you don't miss even one episode, all you have to do is search for Bachelor Happy Hour in the podcast app and then just hit the follow button and you'll know every time a new episode comes out. Yes, it's super important that you follow because you will get notified every time there's a new episode. And while you're there, and this is the important part, everybody, leave a review, ask us questions, tell us what's on your mind because that's what we're here for, to talk about you. And we're so excited today, especially for Kathy and I, because one of our very best friends is here, our special, special. Thank you, Nancy, for joining us today. Hi, Nancy. Hi, good

morning. How are you? Good afternoon. I know. Here it's morning, there, it's afternoon. It's all good. It's middle of the night for me. So good to see you girls. What's happening in your life right now, Nancy? Oh, my gosh. So much, I mean, since the show ended, I have just signed up for a golf, like true golf camp. I'm excited. Wait, you're going to learn to play golf? I'm going to learn how to play golf. My short game is good, which I consider put putt putt.

I need professional help. And so me and a few of my friends are going to go to North Carolina, and it's a week-long. golf instruction, intense golf instruction for boot camp. And I'm so excited. That sounds fabulous. We might have to go with you on that one. You know what? I'm thinking of definitely a threesome. We're going to be playing and traveling the world playing golf now. I like it. I like it a lot. Okay. So, Nancy, speaking of trips,

we took a trip. Oh, yes, we did. To St. Martin. And we did have a great time. But I want to know. We want to know. That's what nation wants to know. Give us one of the best moments, funniest moments from that trip. We could be here for a while because there was a lot of them, I believe. Oh, I can't even. Just what's the first thing that pops in your head when we talk about our trip? Or just one of the fun things that we've done together on our trip? Oh, I loved going to Pinell Island and, you know, picking out our lobster and eating it.

But one of the funniest was when Susan burned the toaster and ruined it, and they had to get it new one. Melted the cord, wait, and I still wanted to use it. Remember? I still needed toast, and it burnt first. But the funny, even funnier is when I went to go tell on myself, and Kathy was videoing. I didn't even know it. And then tell. I was just chronicling it for future generations.

So, Dan, tell us, though, do you? I thought you were going to talk about when we were driving in the dark. Do you remember? No. Well, of course I do. I was sick to death. I was holding on for dear life. I have one.

How about when I went shopping and you two stopped at the jewelry store and then I couldn't find you three hours later, I come back to the store. They've got diamond bracelets, one with my name on it. They called them the friendship bracelets. You remember? We had so much fun. What's our next trip, Nancy? Where are we going next?

I think Europe. I'm thinking there's a lot of guys in Europe. I think we've got to branch out. I think we've got to branch out. What, you want a guy with an accent, Nancy? Absolutely. Love that. Love that.

So how is the love life going? Have we dated yet? No, not really. I think you had won, didn't you? Yeah, I did, but nothing. So far to speak up as far as nothing serious. And I don't know. I'm keeping my options open.

My brother-in-law always said, well, you know what you should do is get a job at a golf course. It sounds like you're on your way with your golf trip coming up. What do you think I'm doing? I know. I think it's brilliant. I'll take your shop and we'll get cute golf outfits. That's what I'm excited about. I love it.

I think since the show, honestly, and the reason, one reason I told you all that is because I am more open and more excited and, you know, certainly refreshed from the experience to go and do and try new things and travel, et cetera. And the one thing, you know, I've been a widow. I am a widow, but my husband passed away now 13. years ago. And, you know, as you know, and you've heard from other people, and Kathy, you know firsthand as well, that once you go through, well, there's a, there's a poet Naomi Shibab who wrote about sorrow. And she says in her poem, like, the only thing you can do when you've

gone through um losing a spouse is that you've gone through the deep sorrow and now you do know kindness you do you are kinder i think i'm a more compassionate person than i used to be that's hard to believe nancy you are pretty dot it's hard to believe you're one of the most compassionate people i know thank you no and i'm saying i think that happens for a lot of people um that they've just gone through it and now they're like okay like now we all have it in perspective of what's important and what's not. And so I'm looking forward to, you know, going on this journey and hopefully meeting someone.

And if not, the true blessing from the whole experience of Golden Bachelor was meeting you. So that is, that brings up a question for me, Nancy. You know, you were married a long time. We both have three children. What kind of guy are you looking for now? how is the relationship you're looking for now going to look different from your marriage? Well, I think it's different to start with because when you meet someone new at our age,

you know, you don't have little children. You're not navigating schools and preschools and college and all of those things. So I think I'd like someone who has a sense of adventure, someone who bottom line, makes me laugh. I'm all in. Yeah, and it's trustworthy and a gentleman. I'd really, I'd love a true gentleman. I agree.

Yeah. Yeah, that's well said. So, Nancy, can I ask you, what has your favorite age of your life been so far? When did you feel most confident and most like yourself? I think, well, it goes back in my, probably in my 40s. when, you know, my kids were growing up and everything was good. That's when I felt the best. But now I think I've gained a lot of confidence.

I assume you guys have two from doing the show, being exposed to different things and, you know, trying new things. And I think now I'm as confident as I've ever been. Okay, so I want to bring up something here. Susan and I were talking about, you know, how people can be cruel on the internet. I have been told or accused many times on the internet and Instagram of having had a facelift and cheek implants in the last six months. That is not the case. You, Nancy, decided to go rogue and put your face with your tooth missing on Instagram.

So, wait, wait, so props to you on that, because that speaks to confidence. I'll never forget the night in the mansion when we didn't expect it. She popped up. I was like, oh, my God. I remember that moment because I had the same moment. I know. But, Nancy, those kinds of things, like, what are the things in your life? I know you've had some health challenges.

What other things, you know, when you're young and in love and the young bachelor and bachelets. They're just gorgeous thin. They seemingly have the perfect life. But as we get older, we have issues. And, you know, if you're comfortable talking about any of that, I would love to hear your thoughts. No, I am. Thank you. A little known fact is that I have diabetes. I have type one diabetes. I take insulin. And I mean, the producers and people on the show knew it, but I didn't really put it out there on the show. And I have to say that Daisy from the Joey season, she came out, you know, with her cochlear implant. And it certainly gave me the impetus to be more open about diabetes. I unfortunately had someone who I dated very, I mean, three days, no big deal. But he said,

I'm not interested in dating anyone who has chronic health issues. Wow. We don't even count that. Well, that's true. But my point to that is I think as we all get older, I'm 61, and as we continue to get older, more things will happen. More people have, I have diabetes, nothing I can do about it, but I manage it. I can live a great life.

I can ski. I do Pilates. I manage my diabetes. And Daisy from Joey's show, she manages her, you know, having a cochlear implant and the things that go along with that. And I think it's important,

just like I did with my missing tooth, that I'm soon going to get my new one, if things happen, that's a life. You can't do anything about it. All you can do is manage what you have, but it doesn't mean that you have to hide or stop and I was always afraid right I've been afraid to put it out there and it was truly Daisy who got me you know kind of gave me the confidence to you know move forward and be open

about having diabetes and I'm also because of her getting a small pump that I'll wear on my arm or or somewhere on my leg which is no big deal and it makes management And managing diabetes even easier. Much easier, yes. Because how many people in this world have it? It's a very common. Yeah. Yeah.

And the thing that I love, Nancy, is, you know, we talk a lot about being our age and being adventurous and getting up off the soap and living our best life. But you are absolutely proof positive that you can be confident. It doesn't stop you, Nancy. you live your life and as people get older I think sometimes we look for excuses to not do things and you are looking for excuses to do things you are not making excuses you are doing living your life to the fullest and I love that thank you for sharing that because everybody that is listening that have that same diabetes or any other thing just goes to show you look at nancy as beautiful as she could be, and she's living life and loving life.

Yeah, and yes, I am. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Well, wait a minute, Sam, maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now he's insisting we get to know each other. But I just want her gone.

Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor and they're the same age. And it's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet.

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open your free iHeartRadio app search emergency intercom and listen now you i know you have daughters nancy i'm curious what do you tell them about dating you know give us some good dating advice because you know it's i think people out there want to know i want to know my the the one thing i've always told them and the one thing i try to follow although i haven't always done it as well as I should have, is pay attention to your gut. What's your gut tell you? What's your first gut feeling about this person? Or if there's any red flags that pop up, don't avoid those.

Don't dismiss those. Pay attention to the red flags. Don't make them yellow. Secondly, I think that if you sit and think about how does that person make you feel, feel not how you're going to make that person feel how does that person make you feel when you're with your family with your friends just the two of you how do they make you feel and if they don't make you feel like you know five million bucks or the best thing ever and they don't adore you you'll find somebody down the room and that's what I'm hoping for and as our best friend right

do you have any specific dating advice for us and maybe it's not the same for each of us but what do you what would you tell us we need help nancy let me be more clear i need help no i would no no no we're all in this together right i wouldn't tell you i mean truly i think those are really good the same things i think i would say the same thing and and again i know we've talked about you have to put yourself out there. And even if you go out with somebody on one date or three dates, you know, you never know, right? And I've also heard go out on three. Like just one date, you can't really get a good feeling. But by the third date, you have a good feeling. Like, if this should continue or, you know, and don't waste your time. So you don't believe in love

first sight? I do. That happened actually with my husband. But my late husband, but I'm not sure all the time it does. And so you're saying give it a chance. I struggled with when I was much younger and dating. And it would have to be that head over heels feeling. If not, I wouldn't bother. But there's so many men that I've met over my lifetime that were friends that weren't, I wasn't attracted to, but I love them and their personality.

And they made me feel special. But we weren't in that dating. I wish it wasn't just a physical thing or first attraction. Well, I do think as you get older, you know, Nancy, your kids are grown. You don't have grandchildren yet, but I think. No, I know, not yet. Yeah. Well, I think, but I do think you look, I do.

I look for different things. You were married to your, to Mark for a long time. As you said, you raised kids. And I think it's just a whole different thing at this stage of our lives. And you're really active. So I know you want someone active. Yeah. And I think, you know, there's all different pieces.

You know, then you meet somebody. Do they live in your hometown? Are you going to have to move? You know, there's a lot more, there's a lot of different things at play when we were younger because now, you know, they've got kids, you've got kids. You've got to try to mess it. You've got to try to make it work. And so I think.

But knowing, you know, you know that going in. Yeah, but I do think that's one of the most difficult things. It is. Can I ask a question in both of you? What do you feel about dating a man that's never been married or has any, no children? Don't you think that's a little bit different? What do you think, Hans? Yes, has to be.

I've never dated anyone who was like that and who didn't have children. But for me, it's always been a red flag. Like if I've had friends who've said, oh, he's never been married, doesn't have kids, you're like, hmm, I don't know. I don't know why it's a red flag. That's just my gut feeling. Well, don't you think it's because we as parents, adult children or not, have responsibilities to our families. And when something important comes up, they might not understand. I think it's, as you know, parenting is such a selfless job.

I will say it never ends. It never ends. Correct. But that person who we're talking about who hasn't had a selfless life cannot help but be more self-centered or selfish because they haven't had to be self-lawed. But isn't that ironic? You're absolutely right, Nancy. I think I've dated a few men that have never been married.

And honestly, I won't do that again. Why? Because exactly what Nancy is saying. incredibly selfish not and because that's what their life has been it's always been about them but not having children you know you never know there might be a reason they didn't have children if they were married so that doesn't bother me as much but i i agree with you um i won't do it would you compare it to like an only child you know some people i always know when i'm around somebody that's an only child i would have liked to have been an only child i was one seven

I had to fight for breakfast. Oh, you weren't one of the first. I was the first of five, so. Oh, you're the oldest. Yeah. Yeah, so you know what I mean. I was the baby. You're supposed to be spoiled when you're the baby?

Not so much. No, I'm sorry for you. Kathy, you know what I think? I think you didn't get to be spoiled then, but I think you're going to be spoiled in the future with a great thing. Oh, I like it. Oh, Nancy. And can I just say that is just one of a million reasons I love you. Can I say something, Kathy, that brings to mine, that book I'm reading.

I did a wedding the other day, and I've never really cried like a baby at weddings. This was a 25-year Val Renewal, and she now lives in Hawaii, so her and her husband and kids came up, and her grandfather of 88 years old, his lady of 86 years old, had a commitment ceremony, and he shared what it was like meeting her. they're both have deceased partners. Long story short, she wrote this book, Aloha. And as I'm reading this book, it brings all back. You remember the secret.

It's all about the power of positive thinking. And one of the phrases I just read the other day, I shared it with you this morning, whenever in your vocabulary you say the word not or no, just stop right there and go back. Everything has to be in a positive vibe for the universe because they don't, the universe doesn't get English. You know what I'm saying?

He's like, we take it back. But something you just said to Kathy about it is going to come, you have to believe it's going to come. We have to picture it and feel it, right? Can I just say on this? Yeah. I've been picturing Colin Firth for my life, my whole life. After Mark died, I'm like, the only guy who I would talk to is Colin Furth.

I remember that when we were in the mansion. I'm still waiting. He must be up in a tree somewhere in London. I don't know. Wait, is he married? No, he's divorced. Oh, well then, Colin, do you hear us out there? Get on it, Nancy.

Make the first call. Make the first call. I don't know. He's not even on social media. Anyway, I don't know. Nancy, I have a question, though, that what Susan just said, did you ever think a year ago? I mean, we talk about how our lives have changed.

a year ago, that's, how, I mean, you really couldn't be. I'm tearing. Aw. Why am I around? I cried like a baby when it all happened at the wedding. If I could just tell you the story, I don't think we have enough time. But he shared how they met and this glow that went through them and they were holding him.

I was like, bawling. Wait, I just want to say, I'm beginning to think it's me. I'm around Susan, she cries. I'm around Nancy. Now she's crying. I don't know. Can we have a few laughs, please? She's crying because he didn't call her yet.

What is the biggest, Nancy, truly, what is the biggest change in your life in the last year since the Golden Bachelor? I could answer that. All of the friendships, all of the new friendships and lovely and lasting friendships, like with the two of you. That's what I was going to say. And the other golden ladies and the whole experience, everybody, I've, met and I know you feel the same has been lovely. And I mean, I never expected it to be like this and I'm still hoping for more. So everybody needs to keep their options open, right? You're never getting rid of us, baby. And do you know what she said? It's putting the positivity

out there. It's just believing it can happen. Yep. And putting that energy out there. Yeah. I love it. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Oh, wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her.

Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor, and they're the same age. And it's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him?

Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet. So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I never envision being with a woman. I'll just be honest. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcast, Spolitics. On this week's episode, I'm joined by Basketball Legend.

Candice Parker, who stops by to discuss her candid new book, The Can Do Mindset, in which she shares why she waited two years into marriage to come out. Like when I close my eyes at night, every night, I was like, I need to find my prince charming. Like it was never a princess. Like that never entered into my mind. But, you know, as I learned, sometimes life gives you things wrapped in a package that you didn't expect it. And that was just, you know, and honestly, it took me a long time to be okay with myself.

Make sure to listen to this week's episode of Spolitics on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Yumanzoor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast. for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect.

And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. So what do you think? It's game time. We're going to play games, Nancy.

Nancy, you know how we love to play games. I didn't know that. Okay, Nancy. and everybody, we're going to play a little relationship game. It's relationship, would you rather? Are you ready? Ready. All right.

Here we go, Nancy. Here's the first one. Your date buys you a gift or makes you a homemade gift. Which would you rather? That's a tough one. Homemade. If he's a builder and he's going to build me a house, I'd be good with a homemade one. If not, just buy me something.

Come on, people. I want a piece of jewelry, preferably diamonds and solid gold. Let's be honest here. Oh, gosh. All right. Okay, go ahead. Let's try another one.

Date someone with an unfortunate piercing or an unfortunate tattoo. Unfortunate? Like a piercing in a bad place? Is that? Yes. That's, yeah. I would say. piercing because they could always take it out.

That's the logical. I like it. I like it. What about you? I guess I would agree. I mean, I don't think a tattoo's unfortunate. It doesn't, you know. No, and especially if it means something.

So when I say unfortunate, the only first thing comes to mind is, oh, where is it? And we're not going there. Okay. It's too early. All right, Nancy, speaking of relationships. Would you rather date a snorer or someone with bad breath? A snorer. Why?

They'll keep you up all night. That's true. If you're around them a lot and they smell bad, that's the deal breaker. You give them some toothpaste and a bottle of mouthwash. No, sometimes bad breath comes from within. It's like a thing. No, I would definitely agree with you. And at this stage of the game, the house is big enough.

He can have his own room and I could have mine. Oh, now she's changing it. He's a builder. Wait, he's a builder so he can change. That's right. He can build his own wings. Do you enjoy watching TV shows together or perhaps movies together? Movies. I would agree with that.

I like a nice romantic movie. Or a series. You know what? I like to. How many adult people told us that they watched The Bachelor together, the Golden Bachelor, and their husbands were. Bob. That's like new. But wait, Nancy, I want to go back. You said a series. I want to know why a series instead of a TV show. Is that to keep the guy on the couch or what? Come back every night. It's always about that. I'm kidding. All right. What do you think? All right. Here's one more, Nancy. Date someone who has a lot of female friends or no friends at all. A lot of friends. I think that was a lot of friends or a lot of female friends.

Oh, female friends. Sorry. A lot of friends. Yeah, I don't think that would bother me. Wait, I want to get, why not female friends? Do you not trust him, Nancy? No. So if he had a lot of female friends, I would be their friends. I'd get new girlfriends. That would be fine. Okay. That's all I think. Go with it. Nothing. I'd be jealous. I just know me.

I mean, you guys sound so pure and I'm going to, I'm going to, when you date that guy and he's got 15 girlfriends calling him to go out for pizza on Friday. I'm going to see how you feel then. I would not like that. I agree. Oh, just check. This is my favorite one. Get flowers from your partner every week or diamonds once a year. Ooh.

I went a little one. Okay. I'm going to surprise you guys. Really? Are you going with the diamonds, Nancy? Yeah. You too, Susan? No, I like flowers. They make me happy. Okay, so you know what I'm going with the flowers?

Because. Well, no, because this is where I'm sort of a little romantic that way, sentimental. If someone takes enough time to order flowers for me once a week, he knows the flowers I like, he's thinking about me. diamonds you know you call up a jewel and say hey it doesn't take as much thought if you will but i think you know mark and i used to do this thing we would leave each other he started it we would leave each other on a torn out piece of paper a little note not every day maybe once a week ish but i'd find it somewhere in my car in my and he would say he would say i'll miss you or I loved our dinner last night

or just a little thing it meant so much to me it does and I thought kind of like what you were saying about the flower it is it is nice to be thought of and loved and you know even when during all of our busy lives

just to have a little note or some flowers I mean that is nice I know okay I've got I've got a better idea Nancy Nancy yes I agree here's what we do we tell the guy

we love flowers and then oh a couple times of year he winds a diamond bracelet or necklace in the flowers in the flower Kathy I like the way you think I like the way you think Kathy all right so what let me share something that I've done over the years being single right because flowers do make me happy once a week I would go and buy a bunch of flowers and go home and it would take my whole Friday night of arranging them in my vases around the house having fresh flowers. Wait, did I just hear you? You spent your whole Friday night

arranging? Oh, honey, you need to get a life. Yes, I went to produce junction and bought gathers and lots and lots of flowers and I made vakes this and they were beautiful and they make me happy. Okay, all right. So if nobody is buying them for you, we could either, A, buy them for each other.

Would you put a diamond bracelet in mind? I'm not putting the diamonds in there. Maybe cubic zirconia. All right, Nancy, we, We know the world doesn't, but we know that you have a fabulous dog named Max, who is your best bud, and we love Max. Thank you. But now I'm going to put you forward. You're dating someone.

Would you date someone who doesn't like pets? No. Wait, wait a minute. Wait, the alternative isn't much better, Nancy. Or date someone with 10 pets. Oh. Red flag. I see the red flag.

Red flag, red flag. First thing that comes to mind is hair all over the house. Of course it does. So let me give you ladies the solution. You date a guy with no pets. That's better. And you date a guy with no pets. And then if it turns into something, you get the pet you want and he has to learn to deal.

But it says it doesn't like pets. Sorry. Who asked what he liked? It doesn't matter what he likes. Not when it comes to pets if you want a pet. You're in charge. You're in charge. charge. That's right. You know what? He can do the cooking and the cleaning while we're at it.

Gee, I wonder why I'm not dating. You guys are so funny. No, you will clean the dishes. I'll do the cooking. Nancy will do the cooking, but you have to do the dishes. Nancy's going to be out busy walking Max. I'm going to be and looking for Colin, whoever he is. Oh, God bless. So Nancy, question for you. Yes. I have to be honest, I have not been on a dating site since the Golden Bachelor. Are you on dating sites? I'm not. What about? What about your DMs?

Are they blowing up since the show? Well. Oh, juicy. Come on, dude, spell the two. It is different than I thought it would be. I thought, oh, just, you know, unfortunately, Gary and I, you know, didn't make it, right? Friend zone. We're in the friend zone.

But I was, I thought, you know, my, the expose. would be great and I'm you know I I'm sure people will reach out so I've had people who are much older than me i.e. 80 and I've had most mostly older men and then I had this one guy he sent his picture and he said I would love to be your golden bachelor but I'm not golden. He I was 40. Ooh. So did you, wait a minute, wait a minute. Would you do it?

Would you go out with it? I wouldn't. Why? I would date with someone younger, but not that much younger. No. Do you have a gap? Like, do you have a specific amount of years or just? Because let me just say, to Susan, age doesn't matter.

So Nancy, talk, convince her. I would have to have, I think, I don't know, five years younger, maybe, three years younger. Well, you know what I think the problem is going too young because you can't even relate about life, you know, things that already happened for you, especially when you get into 15-year gap. You know what I mean? The music you listen to is not the same. Everything is different. Nancy? That's what I've heard about the older men, like men who are, you know, 70 or 75 and then want to date a 30-year-old.

well after the honeymoon part of the relationship they don't have anything in common they have an experience the 30 year old hasn't lived any life how can that work I don't you think it's a arm candy like they just want a nice young looking nice hard body woman on their arm you know what go buy him a rubber doll I mean come on my here's my arm candy oh yeah do those Pilates girl I see that girlfriend yeah oh gosh I have to such a good time talking to you guys. I'm missing, guys. I can't wait to see you. Well, we're going to be on that golf trip. Well, that's not until September. We're going to see her before that. Wait, we're letting everyone know now. We are going back to St. Martin, yes? Yes. Only this time we're staying two weeks, right? One week, I don't think was enough. No, because once you get in the groove and we went to different beaches, but we didn't get to all of them, I think, and we were only at the jewelry store one day. The whole day, may I add the whole, I woke in, I was spending a thousand bucks.

Well, Ann, you have to tell everybody that we, you know, of course, we'd befriended the owner who loves all of us and who can make any jewelry you want. And so we'd need to go back and hang out with him. I don't know. Wait, Nancy, that's a great idea. We'll bring the flowers and tell him to put the diamonds in the flowers. And we'll see him once a year. It's perfect. break that down, Kathy, because I may forget.

I want a boyfriend. Just one. I'm not greedy. Just one good one. And then they can go to St. Martin with us and meet our friend at the joy. That's a great idea, Nancy. But since you'll be the one with the boyfriend, could you ask him if he has an older brother for me? Susan can get her own. Oh, thanks. These are my friends. You hear that, everybody?

These are my friends. They'll throw me to the wolves. No, you'll be just fine, Susan. Well, that does it for this episode of Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour. And I can't thank you enough for our beautiful Nancy joining us today. And we'll have you back again, Nancy. I love you, girls. We love you, Nancy.

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