Bachelor Happy Hour - Let’s Get Real | Golden Hour

Episode Date: May 17, 2024

Today on “Golden Hour,” Kathy and Susan are back with another round of Friday Fan Questions. We kick off the episode discussing the dangers of making important topics like suicide and menopause taboo — it’s time to be real.  Then, we discuss the work behind true love and what it takes to make it work. And, of course, the fan questions! From getting ghosted to skeletons in your partner’s closet, you asked, and Kathy and Susan are giving you all the answers. Listen now to hear all this and more, and be sure to follow so you never miss an episode.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is an I-Heart podcast. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, luckily, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend's been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone.

Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That seems inappropriate. Maybe find out how it ends by listening to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, my name is Enya Umanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you.

But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh, my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. Do we really need another podcast with a condescending finance bro

trying to tell us how to spend our own money? No thank you. Instead, check out Brown Ambition. Each week, I, your host, Mandy Money, gives you real talk, real advice with a heavy dose of I feel uses. Like on Fridays when I take your questions for the BAQA. Whether you're trying to invest for your future, navigate a toxic workplace. I got you. Listen to Brown Ambition on the I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcast,

or wherever you get your podcast. Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour. Thanks for joining us. We're so happy to be here. We're back. Today, we are so lucky we got more fan questions. Oh, there's some really good ones here. And if you really want an answer from us, please, if you have a question for Susan and may send them in, go to bachelornation.com slash golden hour. Please send us in your questions. We always have an opinion and we're always willing to share it. Yes, please do. But first, let's get started with today's question of the day.

Okay, read it out. Go for it. How has your definition of true love changed over? the years? For me, Susan, true love has not changed over the years. The definition of true love is just that. It's loving something completely,

holy, working hard, wanting to spend that time. I think it just looks different how you express the true love. How you express it? How you express true love. What do you mean by that? Well, when we were young and first married, true love might mean letting our husbands sleep in on a Saturday morning and we'd get up with the kids and be quiet or doing the yard work if it was typically that our husband's up, something like that, where now for me, true love with the person I hope to find is going to be, it's always about communication, but it's going to be about, I think.

the way I show true love. That's what I guess I'm saying. The way I show it is different. What about you? Yeah, I took the words right out of my mouth. I used to believe the butterflies and the excitement of he walks through the room and no matter how long you've been together, you would still get excited thinking that was true love. You need your best friend, somebody that you can share everything with. Right. Good or bad. Happy or sad. Right. And I think that that True love, we talked about it, we talked about it with Trista. True love takes a lot of work. Marriage takes a lot of work.

It all does. And so I don't think that, I think we would be lucky at our age to find it. To find it and have the chance to show true love and receive true love. I'm ready. I'm ready to answer some fan questions? Well, I guess so. Would you like me to go first? Do you want to read it?

Knock yourself out. All right. Question number one. is from Leslie from New York, and she says, last month, I had a great first date with a guy that I met on a dating app. We had originally planned to just meet for coffee, but then we ended up talking and hanging out for almost five hours. That's a good date. We both were laughing and saying that this was the best first date either of us have ever had. I like it so far.

when we left, we had already made tentative plans to meet up again the following week. Then, nothing. Oh, he completely ghosted me and never picked up the phone or answered any of my text. He just texted me trying to make plans to see each other again. Should I give this guy another chance after he ghosted me for an entire month? What do you think? Hell no. Really?

A month, Kathy, he's gone, invisible? Oh, hell no. Oh, I can't even believe that, Susan. I really thought you and I were going to be on the same page on this one. I absolutely would meet him. Why? Really? So he can leave you hanging for another month?

No. It's what do we talk about? Always communication. I would sit down. And he'd be shutter down? Leslie, let's call him Joe. Leslie and Joe sit down after not seen a month. if I were Leslie, I'd come dressed for the nines.

Oh, I see your ammo. No, no, no, no. And then I would say to him very calmly, talk to me, tell me why I haven't heard from you for a month. Why did you ghost me? I would wait and see, who knows, maybe there was a death in the family, maybe there was, he got fired from his job, you know, maybe there were circumstances. I would give the guy a chance to explain himself. And if he said, you know, something like, well, you know, I was with Julie and I had to make sure it wasn't going to walk out with her, then he's a cheater and I'm out.

So, yeah, I don't have a month to wait. I'm sorry. I would have, I would probably ask during that text, do you have an explanation as to why? So you want the answer over text? I don't care how I get it, but you better give me some reason to want to come and meet you. If I sit for 30 days, I'm going to be upset for the first week, maybe, 10 days. After 30, your loss. Oh, no, not me.

I want to look the guy in the eye because, you know what? Looking a man in the eyes. Oh, I agree with that part. That's why I'm not texting. But this guy, they only had one meeting and they had a fabulous time. So something happened. Did it? Something happened.

He was either hot in bed with Julie, somebody else, or. Okay, okay. So then go back to why is he just? just sending her a text to meet again. Call me, come over, send flowers, show me something. Well, remember, we're talking about young people here who meet on dating apps. Wait a minute. I was on a dating app.

It doesn't mean they're young. Okay, let's go back. We're not assuming things. Okay. I am saying, I think he could have called. He meant out of her number. We don't know any of that. We don't know what Leslie's thinking or doing.

we only know what this question says. I am telling you short and simply. I would meet up with him, look in the eyes and see what he asked to say, and then I'd make my decision. And I'd also stick him with the bill. So I probably have already done this. And maybe that's why I'm speaking this way, because I will never do it again. It's not worth it.

I've learned my lesson. All right, let's move on. Cecilia from California writes, my husband and I have been together for 10 years, married. for five. Recently, we hosted a party and a bunch of his buddies from college came. Oh, boy. After hours of drinking, we all started swapping stories. I found out that on spring break of his freshman year, my husband and his roommate paid for a prostitute. Oh, they paid for a prostitute and both, quote, partook in the festivities. Though this was years before we had started dating, I am totally grossed out and disturbed by the information.

I get why my husband never told me, but I'm having a hard time getting past this. Do you have any suggestions? And how would you feel? What's happened in the past is in the past. He didn't even know her then. He was a guy. Not that it's okay, but guys do that. No, you should not bring it.

Wait a minute. We're not talking about women here. You just said guys do that. Let's not be sexist. But guys do. I mean, that happens. No. You might be disappointed. pointed or something like ew babe you really did that but he didn't even know her then and it was 10 years ago

yeah and he was a freshman in college come on he wasn't thinking with all the ammo you know what was her name again uh i think was cecilia cecilia let it go let it go pick your problems yeah pick your battles baby battles exactly how would i feel i mean i would feel ooh i would feel ooh in the moment but 10 years ago i don't know if you have kids i don't know if you have a family but you know what i'd be more word, Cecilia, if he'd been with a prostitute since you'd been with him. Well, that's a whole different ball game. I'm just saying, it's over. I think, Cecilia, if you have a good marriage, thank your lucky stars for it. Go give him a kiss. Tell him to buy a bouquet of flowers and move on.

Let it go, babe. Let it go. Don't sweat the small stuff. But thank you for writing in. And if you have anything else to say, we're here to listen. And we hope you're happy. I know. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Well, wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone.

Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor, they're the same age. And it's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet.

So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I'm Jamil Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts, and on the latest episode of Politics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid, conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't say publicly? Many of them are in fear of their political lives, and that's

been part of the challenge. But we continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your constituents, to stand up for your constituents. And there's life after Congress. And you should be willing to actually want to be able to look back on your time in the House of Representatives, knowing that you can keep your head held high because you did the right thing. Donald Trump is gone in three and a half years. But their legacy or their failure to stand up to the extremism and the unprecedented assault on America as we know it will be with them forever. Make sure to listen to Spolitics on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast.

Hi, my name is Enya Yumanzoor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes.

Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. Question number three. Anonymous from Missouri sent this. Kathy and Susan, I could really use some advice. My mother is my best friend. We have always been close, especially in the last few years,

since my dad passed away. We even moved her into a new, larger home so that she could live with us. Aw. Recently, she met a man at church and has gone out on a few dinners. She seems happy and to like him, but I'm having a really hard time with this. I worry sometime he will take advantage of her or hurt her.

She is very naive in many ways. She and my dad married when she was just 18 and she hadn't even pumped her own gas until he passed. I'm trying to support her and let her do what she wants, but I am struggling. I worry someone will take advantage of her or hurt her. Okay, can I take this one? Mm-hmm. Okay. I think, so when my husband passed away,

my daughter really struggled with the idea of me dating. I think that this young lady from Missouri is probably dealing with a little bit of that. It's just hard to see your mom with someone that's not your dad. So I think that's part of what's going on. I think you are so sweet to consider your mom and having her safe. I mean, come on, you bought a house so she could live with you. You are a lovely young lady.

But I do think, again, from my standpoint, being alone and my husband passing away, your mom is probably lonely. Even though she lives with them and loves it, let her go on. Let her, if she met the guy at church and she's been on a few dinners with him. It's okay. It's okay. And by the way, it's okay for you to struggle. It is hard.

It is hard to accept that your mom could move on and bring someone else into her life. But it doesn't mean in any way that she will ever forget your dad. So if that's what's going through your mind, I hope it isn't because nobody will ever replace your dad. And also, I get that you love your mom and you want to protect her. Once again, communication. Tell her you're a little concerned. Mom, just keep your eyes open. But it is okay because look at us, look at our age.

And Kathy's a whatever on divorce. We're gone to go and find and meet people and date and hopefully build a relationship with someone. You don't want her to be alone until she passes, right? Even though her life is fulfilled, living with you and your family, that's a wonderful thing. Well, it's not totally fulfilled. That's the whole thing. But that's it. She liked that someone else.

Yes. So I think let her go a little bit. Okay, but wait, can I ask you one thing? Sure. Have you not pumped your own gas since you were 20-something? She must live in Jersey. I don't know. I don't know.

I want you to let me, well, she lives in Missouri. Yeah, true. I might move to Missouri if I don't have to pump my own gas anymore. I didn't even know that was a lot. thing. Do you know when I was first married, he would wash the car every weekend. I still do it to this day. Every Friday I clean my car. It's like a ritual. But he used to do those things for me. And that was so sweet. Fill up the car. My dad did it for my mother. Really? He'd fill her car up with gas every weekend and wash the car for her. Okay. Well, when we were talking earlier about true love.

Yeah. That's what I mean. The things that they do for you. Yeah, that shows true love. That gets me into, what's your love language? There's so many love languages. Some people like to do things for others. That's their way of showing love. And one of the things that I thought about recently was I know what my love language is, but to be able to see what his love languages is. I just assume affection and touch and I want to feel loved.

But I assumed everybody felt like I did until I read. about the five languages of love and some of them are very similar to the others but some people like gifts some some people like giving gifts you know so there we go he liked to do things for her and she never pump gas i love the gift of something pumping gas for me i just i just decided my new traits for finding a partner pump my gas oh please but i just love receiving all these questions and it gives us something to talk about and think about in our own lives and i hope all of you out there that hear these stories or questions that we're talking about, you can relate to your life in some way. One more question we have. Go ahead, Kathy. Jacqueline says,

Hi, I just turned 31 and for various reasons and just always focusing more on myself. I have never been in a relationship. At this age, it's understandably coming off as a big red flag on dates when I meet someone and I'm wondering what your advice is to start that conversation with someone so that they would give me a chance what do you think susan well it gave me something to think about actually so number one why haven't you been in any relationships is it because you were studying or you're focusing on your career or were you just plumb not interested and what makes you interested that now is my first part of that question. You should focus on yourself

because a better you is a better second half in a relationship, the other half in a relationship, right? Yeah, I agree. I think that there's been a lot of pressure put on younger people today to get in relationships and get married. And, you know, our kids, we've talked about this. Our kids have focused on their lives. My daughter didn't get married until she was 34.

She met her husband when she was... And there's nothing wrong with that. That's my point. So I think it's of concern that she believes that there's something wrong. But how did she write it again? She said that they're questioning it? Well, she's asking that how does she make it come across that she's not, that there isn't some reason that she hasn't been in a relationship.

Because I was focused on my career and I want to be 100%. And I think many people today are meeting, I would, to me, it's a non-issue. You just go into it if you're interested in the guy. I don't feel like it's a problem. Well, she does. Yes, she does. But I would say go into the dinner, the date, whatever, talk about who you are. Talk about your goals in life.

Talk about your job. I wouldn't lead off with, I'm thinking about myself. I've never been in a relationship, but I'm 31. Redfly. Yeah. Don't lead off of that, but I think the red flag is more in your mind than it will be in the man's mind. Yeah, I do too. I do too. Unless you're dating the wrong guy. And there's a lot of those out there. There are a lot of those out there. But I wish you a lot of luck. And you know what? There's nothing wrong with waiting until then. And I'm glad you did you first.

And keep doing you. Absolutely. Keep doing you. It's, you'll find the right guy when it's time. And you don't have to worry about red flags. If it's the right guy, you'll know it. Absolutely. Thanks for writing in. And if you do have a question for us, we want to hear it. Please go to bachelornation.com slash golden hour. You may even be featured on one of our podcasts. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Well, wait a minute, Sam.

Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, My boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up.

Isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor, and they're the same age. And it's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet. So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his boyfriend?

professor or not. To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I'm Jemell Hill, host to the sports and politics podcast Politics. And on the latest episode of politics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't say publicly? Many of them are in fear of their political lives. And that's been part of the challenge. But we continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your constituents to stand up for your constituents and there's life after congress and you should be willing to actually want to be able to look back on your time

in the House of Representatives knowing that you can keep your head held high because you did the right thing Donald Trump is gone in three and a half years but their legacy or their failure to stand up to the extremism and the unprecedented assault on America as we know it will be with them forever. Make sure to listen to Spolitics on the I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Umanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, Psychobabble.

Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. Okay, Susan, we've answered other people's questions. Now it's time for us to play a game. Today's game is called Would You Rather? I'm going to read them.

And then we're both going to pick out which one we'd rather do, okay? All right. Would you rather date a man that is bald or a man with excessive back hair? God, I would have to wax that in a minute. That would be gone. She's a hairdresser. She could do it. And a bald man doesn't bother me as long as she shaved his whole head. You know, I actually am attracted to bald men. I like bold hair. I like no hair. Like, I don't like just the round top and they try to grow it on the side and has a comb over or not. I dated a guy since my husband passed away who, very handsome guy. We'll never date him again, though, because he's the guy that was never married.

But when I first met him, the first few dates, he wore a ball cap all the time, which to me is a no-no. So he didn't know because he's uncomfortable with it probably? Well, no, once we got to know each other, he took it out. So I'm going with the bald guy for sure. Now, would you rather receive flowers or chocolate for Valentine's Day? in in today's world i thought it was both i mean oh here we go listen everybody out there when i ask these questions susan's first answer is both just so you know for me i i actually would rather receive flowers now i'm on my own i buy flowers for myself occasionally although i've had to stop

because my two geriatric cats eat them and then throw up so but no the question was if you had a choice now right i would you rather definitely flowers Okay. Definitely. Okay. What about you? I like it, but I'm not a big chocolate person, so I definitely would be. Can I have your chocolate? Yes.

And then I'll get both. You can. Would you rather have the ability to see 10 minutes into the future or 150 years into the future? I'm going to be really honest with you. You say both. No, I didn't say both. No, on this, I'm going to say 10 minutes. 10 minutes.

Because I don't want to know. I don't, it's the same thing. I don't want to talk to psychics or mediums. I don't want to know. 150 years, we'll know what angel we're going to be down, coming down to protect. Like, that would be kind of cool too. But no, I go 10 minutes. Yeah, definitely 10 minutes.

Okay. Would you rather find, oh, we need to pass this one. Nope, we're doing it. Would you rather find true love today or win the lottery next year? As much as I would love to hit the big. one on the lottery. I would like to be in love. Are you kidding me? No. I don't believe you. Why would I lie? Because Susan? Yeah. Really? Yeah. Really. I'm going to let me. You don't want to be in love? Of course I want to be in love. But if I have enough money, I'll have love. No, stop it. You will not.

Wait. Like I said, both. That's a both again. But can I just paint the picture? Yeah. Look at the billboard up on the highway. So many zeros, you can't count them all. But love is love, a really true love. No, I'll pick love. Okay. Okay. Would you rather have another 10 years with your partner that you don't have right now? Yeah.

I can't even answer that. I know. Or a one-night stand with your celebrity crush. Now, pass. We'll pass on that question. Move on. All right. Would you rather wear the same socks for a month?

I know we're passing this one too. Or the same underwear? I'll go commanding. though, babe. I'm not wearing the same underwear for a week. Why would you even, where'd that come from? I don't know. I didn't make it up. I have known people, though, that are you ready? Take their underwear

and wear it and then turn it inside out. Oh, for goodness sake. Call me, I'll buy you another pair. I mean, is it because you don't have enough? Why would somebody do that? I mean, wear the same socks for a month? I hardly wear socks, so I'll take that one. I just won't wear them. Oh, God. Would you rather have a pause

or a rewind button in your life? For me, that's easy. What is it? You heard Trista, she said everything is broader to where she is today. For a reason, yeah. For a reason. But in my life, I would rewind because I would do some things differently in my marriage.

Okay. What about you? I would pause and give me time to think about things before I make the wrong decisions. I've made some decisions that I wish I didn't. So, yes, it could be answered like you're saying redo. But that's, like she said, that's why we are, where we are, and who we are today because of the life's decisions. Well, I don't want to rewind all my life. Well, it doesn't say that, you know.

Well, if we're imagining, let's imagine how we want it. Oh, here's a good one, Kathy. All right. Would you rather walk in on your adult children or have them walk in on you? No brainer. Oh, for me, I'd have them, much prefer them to walk in on me because there's no one in my bed. Oh, stop if there was. doesn't say that.

Yeah, we don't like either one of those, too. Would you rather travel the world for free for a year or have $50,000 to spend however you please? They need to add a comma in there. I mean, that's not enough money to do that. It's not a comma. It's some more zeros. That's what I mean, out of comma, you need a couple more zeros.

I would travel. You and I both love to travel. We'll travel to year. And I would travel free for a year. And it wouldn't have to be at five-star restaurants and five-star hotels. Well, because of you and the five-star restaurants. I need the five-star restaurants. I like food.

Kathy, tell me, did your mom not cook or like, what was it that she, Kathy, eats to live. Susan lives to eat. I love good, maybe because my dad was a butcher. I don't know. I had the best meats and Italians. You know, we cook good. I'm just saying. I like good food, but.

Like, if I give you something great, you'll go, that's very good. Okay. I'm going to give you a rather question because I already know the answer. Okay, good. And then you'll know what my answer is. Okay. Would you rather walk five miles or eat a spaghetti dinner?

Both. I'd have to walk the five miles and I can enjoy the spaghetti dinner. Susan, you can't walk five miles. Let's be honest here. Who can't? You can't. I challenge you, girlfriend. I can walk five miles just down when I was in Austin.

I know it was only a mile. but you were impressed. What did you say? Wow. I was impressed. It was a mile. I'm a walker. I can walk.

I can't run. I cannot run. But I'll walk five miles with you any day. I'm telling you, I would rather go for a hike, bike, bike ride, kayak, walk than just about anything else. I love to walk. No, you love to eat. I do. That doesn't mean I don't like to walk.

Hey, next time we're together, Susan. I'm getting your sneakers. We're going to do, we're going to put it up on Instagram. You're going to walk. five miles. And I'm going to be picking you up off the pavement. Easy. No, you're really not. You're wrong. I challenge you to that. You're wrong. You heard it.

You all heard it. You heard it. Okay. You heard it. I'll track it. All right. Would you rather be able to speak any language or be able to communicate with animals? I would rather speak any language, many languages. I do communicate with my animals. My cats, seriously, my cats are like dogs.

Okay, that's creepy, but okay. What are you mean? I don't talk to them like that. get your head out of it oh no I would love so true story yeah I have studied let me count them I'm pretty good she's going to brag she speaks a lot of the language no I don't that's where I was going I'm pretty good at English I took five years of French I've taken I don't know four or five years of Spanish two years of German I pretty much can ask for a bathroom and a glass of wine in any language well we were in St. Martin you were starting the little French thing then Nancy chimed in with hers.

It was kind of cute, as I know, I said. You know the one, you know the first? You know, the first one I learned? Woulevo, cochebeau with me? You know what that means? Do you want to go to bed with me? Oh, Jesus. Okay, well, let's not share that one.

Would you rather be the funniest person in the room or the smartest person? Oh, Kathy, you got both of those to say. So do you, sweet big. But if you had to choose one, I don't know. I like being funny. Yeah, I think I like being funny. I like being funny.

Would you rather go back to the past and meet your loved ones who passed away or go to the future to meet your children or grandchildren to be? Definitely the latter. Oh, see, I'd rather go back and see my loved ones. Oh, I want to see the future ones that I didn't get to meet. Yeah. Well, you will. You'll be looking down to see angels.

Remember, you'll be flying down. My angel wings. Angel Susan. Here she comes. Oh, man. Well, I hope you guys enjoyed us again today, because we love doing this. And we'll be back every week to do it. And that's it for this episode.

Thank you so much for joining us today on Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour. Really, thank you guys. We've enjoyed it. We hope you've enjoyed it as much as we have. Please follow us. We have new episodes coming out every week, and you won't want to miss one. We've got so many great plans. Future guests, call me.

And make sure to submit your questions. because we love reading them out loud. We love to talk about it. Go to Bachelornation.com slash golden hour to send them in. Okay, Susan, I'm not above begging. If you know any good-looking single guys who might be interested in dating Susan or me, please send them our way

because I'm going to pick the best one for myself and the second best one for Susan. Of course she is. Of course she is. DM me and let me see what you got. Listen to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour on the IHeartRadio app or wherever you listen to your podcast. Thanks for joining us and we'll see you next time.

My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly and now I'm seriously suspicious. Wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, luckily, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend's been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem. but I don't trust her. Now he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone.

Hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That seems inappropriate. Maybe find out how it ends by listening to the OK Storytime podcast and the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, my name is Enya Yumanzoor. And I'm Drew Phillips.

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