Bachelor Happy Hour - Meet the Family Part 2! | Golden Hour

Episode Date: August 21, 2024

Today we are back for Part 2 of our family episode with Susan and Kathy's kids! We're jumping right back in and answering some of your fan questions; we get some multi-generational advice on in-law issues, work problems, and more. Then, these Golden families play a round of "Never Have I Ever" and we are not holding back! From sneaking out to teenage secrets, we're getting into all of it!  Tune in now to hear all this and more and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour. This is part two of our family episode with my son Kyle and his wife, Candy, and Susan's daughter, Brittany. We are so ready to dive back in, aren't we Susan? Oh, yes, we are. And you just named them all. So it's our children, guys. So let's get into some of those fan questions, okay? Let's get into them.

This is going to be fun, guys. So we give people advice, and we want you guys to give your advice as well as we read along. You ready? Ready. Yeah. All right. Okay, here we go. The first one is from Talia.

She's 33 years old, and she's 13 years old. and she is from my hometown of Boston, Massachusetts. Hello, Golden Hour podcast. I have a question for you, ladies. I am recently married to my husband, and we have a lovely relationship. I'm dealing with a bit of a debacle with my in-laws, though. Ever since we got married last year,

they insist that I call them mommy and daddy, like I do with my own parents and have done my whole life. I know some families adopt calling their in-laws mom and dad, but that has just never really felt natural to me as they are my husband's parents, and I've called them by their first name for years. Every time I call them by their first name now, they correct me. But I just feel weird calling someone else's dad, daddy. Ooh, L-O-L-L. My husband wants me to make them happy and he doesn't think it's weird, but I do.

What do you ladies think? Any advice is appreciated here. Thank you so much, and I love the podcast. Well, Talia, I'm glad you love the podcast, and all I have to say is, Ew. What do you guys think? Brittany, what do you think?

Mommy. For me, I do call people, like, I'd say ma. Hey, mom. So, varro, your mother-in-law, you'd call me ma. Yeah, I call my mom. Hey, ma. But they say that to other mothers, too. So it's just, it might be a North thing, a Philly thing, I don't know.

But I'm fine with that. Mommy and Daddy. I don't call my own parents' daddy and mommy. When you cry, you call me Mommy. Yes. Okay, what about you? What about you, Candy? Yeah.

What does she call you, Kathy? Fabulous mother-in-law. Oh, God. She calls me Kathy. I've called in laws before mom and dad. Mom and dad. But mommy and daddy feels very young. Feels weird.

It just feels uncomfortable. Yeah. But you know what? Here's my problem. Kyle, who is my son, sometimes calls me Kathy. And what do I say to you, Kyle? Right. But why do I call you Kathy?

I don't know. Why do you? To get her attention. Usually that's the only way to get her attention. Exactly. Susan? I know you. We're not best friends for nothing.

Yeah, that mommy and daddy thing is a little weird. I will tell you, though, Kyle, I don't know if you know this. My in-laws, who are both residing in heaven now, wanted me to call them mom and dad, and I literally choked on it because I didn't think of either one of them as mom and dad. And so I would literally struggle, like choking it out, because to me, I wanted to call them by their first name. And my husband, Daryl, always called my parents by their first name. So it always felt really weird to me.

I think it's so uncomfortable. I think the right thing to do is say to your children and your in-laws, hey, call me whatever you want as long as it's not a four-letter word. I mean, you know, just they got to be comfortable. I think the ma is an easy way out of it, you know. Candy, do not call me Ma. What's JJ calls me everything. That's because you are everything. All right.

All right. Wait, wait a minute. One one second. Kyle, what do you call Candy's mother? Oh. Yeah, Marilyn. Yeah. Her first name.

Okay. It's 2024. You know. Which means what? We're not moms and dads. Everything's changed from when we grew up. Except that you and are still single. My mother called my dad's mom, my nana.

She called her mom. Really? Yes. That's an Italian thing, Susan. Okay. It's Italian. Maybe she said, what was her name? Talia.

There you go. Okay, Mommy. Talia, good luck. You know what the most important thing is? Just have a happy marriage. Don't worry about what you call them. Just have a happy marriage. I wouldn't do mommy and daddy.

No. Okay. This is from Michelle and she's 41 from San Jose, California. Hi, Golden Gals. I absolutely love your podcast. So I thought I'd write in. I have a weird situation. I could use some advice with. Over the past few months, I've had to take some personal days off work for IVF treatment appointments as my husband and I are trying to have a baby. My boss asks me every time why I need a personal day, and I thought that's literally the point. They are personal. Yes, my boss and I are friendly, but she won't drop it and even asked if I was going to job interviews during these personal days. I am not. I am just not comfortable sharing that we are undergoing the IVF process because it's been a long journey for us.

don't want her getting excited or anything. She keeps joking that she needs to find a replacement for me when I find a job. And I really don't know what to say at this point. How would you handle this situation with your boss? Curious, your thoughts. Thank you, ladies. I'm going to let you younger ones handle that. What do you think, Candy and Brittany? Yeah, I wonder if she could just assure her boss that she's not looking for another job and just respectfully say this feels really personal to me and when I'm ready to share, I'll share out, but I promise you I'm not leaving. Oh, I like that answer. What about you, Brittany? Yeah, I say this is going against everything in the professional world. You cannot ask that, but I do want to reassure you I'm not looking for a job.

personal means private could mean medical and i think that you're outside of your zone wait you would say all that to your boss have you met my daughter hey brittany's my daughter brittney you'd be looking for a new job no because if they fired me then they'd be soon kyle because i wasn't looking for a job i was trying to have a baby what about you kyle yeah so like i'm a supervisor i have to ask you know, I have to ask my people questions sometimes, and like Brady said, there's laws and rules and employment law and whatnot. I think I would give the boss some graces that she said that they're friends. So she's sort of asking and the person writing the letter just doesn't want to share it's personal. That's understandable. So she just, I think she just needs to communicate

clearly. She just needs to say, hey, like I appreciate you asking. This is kind of something personal that I'm dealing with. Like Candy said, I'm not leaving, if that's your concern, I'm not, I'm not looking elsewhere, but it's something personal, and I'd just appreciate not discussing it right now. He's got to just be, just tell them, just straight up. What about you, Kathy? What do you think I'd do, Susan?

Moral quandary. Why don't I have to play that damn game? I'm not playing. You know what? I have been pretty good friends with my bosses, so that's kind of hard for me to answer because if it was a really good friend. I would tell. I would say, look, I don't want to talk, you know, but this is what's going on. But if it was a boss didn't know me very well, I'd honestly, Brittany, I don't think, believe it or not, I don't think I'd be as forthright as you. I think I would lean a little bit more like candy. I would say, you know, I'm not leaving. I assure you that, but this is something, I'd soft pedal it. I'd soft soap it because I don't like, believe it or not, confrontations and I wouldn't want to be confrontational. I know, you're laughing over there. My children are laughing. But I don't like confrontation.

I don't like confrontation either, but I've had health issues. So my health or anything medical should be private. Pause. Just pause. It's not confrontational. Brittany says what she wants to say and that's it. You don't get a word in. She's done.

She goes. What? Hey, Brittany, I'd like you to send me your CV. I'd like to see your employment history. when we're done with this. Does anybody want to guess what I would do? Yes, I was just going to ask, Susan. What do you think, Candy?

Candy, what do you think, Susan would do? What do you think, Candy? I feel like you and Brittany might be on the same page. Oh. Kyle? Maybe some four-letter words. No. Wrong again.

Brittany? What would your mother do? You know me. Kathy. I think, I think Susan would, look at them straight in their face and say this is so personal to me i don't want to discuss it no my daughter my guess she tells every single bit of information and if they don't like it or say anything it's that wolf yeah i tell wait a minute you would tell them this very personal

thing that you're going through ivy after oh no do you understand this woman when i was in labor had the camera up in there. I'm like, no one wants to see this, but she will, she has not vaccinate everything and tell everyone. Okay, right. I'm just, I'm going out on a limb here now. Susan, I've got to rethink our friendship. I don't want a camera anywhere near that. Don't worry. You're not bare and children. She's got to zip it, Kathy. And then she can't. Susan, you really need to zip it. Holy smokerone. I should know this. Yeah. Kyle, I just want to point out here, Kyle. The truth shall set you free.

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Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. Moving right along. Thank you for sharing everybody. We're going to move on here. This is this question is from Darren. He's 64. And if he's single, he's mine, Susan.

I was just going there. Why do you always talk? always because I'm from Boston and I know how to move it along okay from Darren he's 64 he's from Duluth Minnesota hello Kathy and Susan I am writing in with an unfortunate situation I haven't brought up to my family yet because I need some unbiased advice on what to do here my wife passed away years ago so I'm turning to you as women my age who may know what to do I was at the gym in a neighboring town this week after a work delivery. While I was there, I saw my daughter's fiancé being very, let's say, handsy with another young lady.

He didn't see me, but I am certain it was him and that they were acting inappropriately. I left the gym and also saw his truck in the parking lot. He is supposed to marry my daughter in five months, and they have been together for years. But this is not what I expected from him when he asked me for my daughter's hand in marriage. Do I say something to him or her or both? They still seem very happy and are planning the wedding full speed ahead. But I am paying for this wedding and now I am uncomfortable. Let me know what you think I should do.

Thank you both. Oh, therapist, Candy. What should he do? We'll let Candy go first. no what um wait uh i don't know so i would have a hard time um intruding um i'm going to say like i might check in with my daughter uh to see how things are going with the relationship um and i hear the concern about paying for it honestly my first thought was I wonder if they have an open relationship I don't know like maybe they have an understanding I don't know and so if she's happy marrying him

then she's happy marrying him if they've been together for multiple years she don't know wait she first of all I just want to point out the difference between Susan and Candy. Candy is a therapist who sees all sides of every issue can imagine, you know, spaghetti and... And Susan's down in the basement with a bat

about to kill the guy. I mean, what about you, Brittany? Invite her to the gym and let her seat for herself. I'm scared. You know what I would do? I would protect you, Brittany. I would protect you. Kyle, what would I do?

I would want you to say. Divorce because people protected me when I was marrying a crazy. What would I do, Kyle? I don't know. I was thinking about being a protective girl dad. I would probably initiate a conversation with him. And I'd be like kind of, well, I wouldn't do the Susan baseball.

I wouldn't do it, but I would have a conversation. I would be more subtle about it, but I might say, yeah, so, you know, saw you at the gym the other day. And then I see how he responded to it and kind of go from there. And let me just say, Kyle is. six he's a firefighter he carries big people out of burning fires he's six two he's extremely strong this guy's gonna be yeah he's married susan and he's a little old for you i mean he went 10 years older he's not going 40 years old so give it a minute kyle i agree but i would have walked right back in and made him feel uncomfortable while he was doing it without words you don't even

need words then yeah and and i will say also not uh candy makes a very good point not just because I'm married to her. But that's one of the things I've learned is to be more, like, rational, look at things a little bit more rationally. And so I hadn't thought about that. But what she said was true, like, this is a different day and age. They could very easily have an understanding of the relationship and the dad very likely wouldn't know about.

So that's entirely possible, too. Okay. Well, I'm old school and think like we do. And it could have been nothing. Yeah. I'm going on a limb, Kyle. If you, if I ever get engaged, which hell will have frozen over. that happens. But if that should happen and you see anything like that, you better take a baseball bat

to the guy. Just say. You're stating unequivocally. You're not into ethical non-monogamy. Excuse me? Ethical what? What would you do? Wait, I want to hear, what was that word? Ethical non-monogamy. What? Ethical non-monogamy is what he said. It's basically going outside of the marriage. but yeah no i'm not into i'm not into i'm not into that kyle thank you i'll let you know if i see your future husband in a groping other women in a in a gym got it would you it was julian's future bride do what julian is her son brittany's son

if it was because if it was kyle's daughter he's going to go have a conversation if it was julian's future bride and you're witnessing this what was the first reaction so she's hitting on someone else. Well, she's going to know that I see, but I am also going to discuss with my son. I feel like I'd already know because we have a very open relationship with communication that if he were in an open relationship or what was it? Wait a minute. Wait a minute. Wait, I can tell you, Brittany, whoa, whoa, whoa, let me just tell you where this is going, Brittany. Your mother was there with the camera when you're delivering. You're going to be there with a camera when your son has sex for the first time. It gets worse every

generation that's what's going to happen here i'm just saying i don't need no any cameras but julia will tell me i'm not going to like you it kathy shut up susan how about if you and i find one guy and we share him i mean come on because i'll have to do all the cooking now moving right along but really i mean what do you say to that you need more information you really do you need either more information on their relationship but but here's the deal this is what they sent us we have to give our comments if i were that father i'd have to say something not right away to my daughter but find out what's going on and susan no you would take the guy you would talk to that guy without a baseball bat

Kyle and I are on the same page. These two women over here with this open relationship, I don't come from that, okay? I don't either. It's just something that we're aware of that people choose now. That doesn't come to mind. I'm respectful of that. Yeah, I know. Susan, are you choosing that for your relationship?

I'm telling you, if I'm dating a guy, it's over, over and now. I wish you luck. I'm just here to tell you, Susan would say something. Susan, would I go? Would I say something? To my daughter? I don't need to know you anymore. I don't know you anymore.

We're not playing moral quandary. I'm afraid to answer. Oh, yeah. All right. All right. Now we're going to have some real fun. Another game that I am not a fan of. They did this to me on national TV.

I had never heard of this game. And we are about to. to play. Never have I ever. Great. Can we just say the game on the show on the Golden Bachelor was if you hadn't, if you had done the thing that they talked about, you had to eat ice cream

or you didn't want to answer. My ice cream bowl was filled at the end because these reprobates these. Zip it, Kathy. We'll get to that. Susan did some wild stuff. Wild stuff. So we are throwing it back to the infamous game played on the Golden Bachelor and now we're going to play it with our kids okay buckle up everybody

we have no idea what the questions are so honestly we're all in for a surprise but you have to answer truthfully everyone hear me we have to answer truthfully everyone's going to answer since this is a podcast we'll say the prompt and everyone say out loud I have or I have it and we'll go around and discuss. Wait, can I just say, can we make this truth or drink and I just sit and drink and not answer? For everyone, Kathy. All right, all right, go. Go.

Snuck out of the house when I was a kid or a teenager. I haven't. I haven't. I have. I have. You did, Kyle? Susan, did you? No.

Kyle, when did you? I was scared out of the house. wait a minute we have to make this a three-part series when did you sneak out of the house kyle that's like the least bad stuff that i've done kathy now's not the time okay just write it down so you don't forget oh i'm taking notes we're going to have a little conversation my tiniest little window i had to shove my little body through it's great my basement was in the basement brittney was it the basement i knew candy when did you sneak out candy when i was in high school right out the front door I'm sorry, where were your parents while you were sneaking out of the front door?

Sleeping, heavily, sleeping. Let me just say, guys, for all of you young teens who may be listening to this, there's all kinds of cameras and ring things that buzz. Yeah, you're screwed. How about gotten a tattoo? I haven't. Many. Kyle and Candy I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

My niece Gianna just got a half a sleeve. Wait, Susan, do you have a tattoo? No. Okay. Kyle and Candy have enough for all of us. I love that. Kyle's got really cool tattoos. Candy, I just know you have some.

I haven't looked at them, but Kyle's got some really cool ones. We're going to get more. Wait, Kyle, what is the best tattoo? I hear you get addicted to ink, right? Once you get one, you want that. That's very much the thing. What's your favorite? What did you change your mind?

mind what's what sorry well i asked what your favorite tattoo is and susan asked what have you changed your mind like it anymore so what happens if you if you change your mind too bad um i mean you can get like wazard off i guess but you're still going to have like scars or whatnot or a cover up done i actually had a cover up done one of mine is a cover up of something i previously had you can't see it anymore but um i don't i don't have a favorite i like them all for different reasons i'll get pierced you could take it out. Caitlin, my daughter has one with her dad's initials, and I think that's really cool. Candy, do you have a favorite one?

I have three large chrysanthemums on my back, and they are for each of my children. Why chrysanthemums? Maybe she likes them. All right. I'm going to do three tulips for my three kids. Whatever. Move along, Kathy, next. All right. Lied about my age. I haven't.

Younger I have. Yeah. And I said I was 21 and I wasn't. I have. Oh, wait. Oh, yes, I did. When I was a teenager, I lied about my age. In the Bahamas, I was in a, never mind. Okay. Bought my siblings, Kyle, you better think carefully. bought my sibling something I wasn't supposed to. Nope. I haven't.

Brittany, have you gotten your brother's beer? I have. Kyle, you haven't? You haven't done anything for your answer? I'm not admitting to anything specific. I didn't buy my siblings anything. I wasn't buying anything. for Douglas or Caitlin I was it was buying it for myself they were the goody shoes they weren't

doing it's true that's why I liked you Kyle no can I just say you Kyle's the sweetest of my three children but he's also pushed the envelope of my three children okay have any has anybody forgotten a family member's birthday I have not I don't think I have I have I remember sort of kind of after the fact, but yeah. Like, who's? Whose? I remember feeling really disappointed with myself that I forgot, I think it was last year, right at the end of the day about Dad's birthday, actually.

Oh, wow. You know, my husband, my ex-husband, and my sons are convinced my birthday's March 3rd, and it's March 2nd. And I would get hurt every single year. now my daughter says it's tomorrow don't screw it up what about you candy no that's not okay oh here here's a good one go ahead susan go showed up drunk tipsy high to a family function come on that even a real question

look at look at Brittany she's got a chesh her cat's smile on her face I can honestly say I have not I can honestly say I don't believe that when have I ever showed up drunk

or high or tips See, wait, I didn't say, wait, the question, children. Wait, it does not say left a family function. It says arrive to a family function. She was very clear. I heard it. What? Kathy.

Kathy. Drinking before you entered the family function is I have. No. Drunk, tipsy or high. Yeah, well, we know you don't get drunk, but you drink. Okay. I did the other night. Okay, there we go.

All right. Use a fake ID. Yes. Yeah. No, I haven't. Yes, you have. No, I have never used to fake ID. She comes from under a rock.

I swear to you, I've never used a fake ID. I haven't. I don't think I have either. Thank you, Candy. I love you. Call me Ma. Mom. Mommy.

Mommy, mommy, dearest. No, that was my mother. All right. Oh, God. I came and read. No, we're skipping the next one. I didn't want to know the answer to that. I don't even want to know.

No. Accidentally heard my parents doing the deed. Oh, I did. I remember that. Kyle, please. Oh, God, he's thinking. I don't think so. Oh, thank God.

What about you? I don't think so. See, we're good. Bachelor nation, we are discreet. I walked in on my parents. Yeah, well, and I remember my dad would, it would be like before he would go out of town on business. Yeah.

And then his back would hurt the next day. I remember Kyle. I walked in and was frightened when I saw that. I go, mom, the next day. how does that it's so big how does that mom i was crying freaked out i remember i walked in on my dad in the shower once my dad traveled um he worked in new york during the week and came home on the weekends and our Kyle you remember the my parents house had that den and so the windows faced the backyard and we were all out in the backyard and i was like

I don't know, 14, and I looked in the windows and they were just had their hands all of each other. I would like, I ran just, it was like the worst. I died. I never envisioned being with a woman. I'll just be honest. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts, Spolitics. On this week's episode, I'm joined by basketball legend, Candice Parker, who stops by to discuss

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Psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. How about cheated on a test? Kyle. Many times.

I think everybody's done that, except Kathy. I never cheated. I haven't still failed it, so I don't know. Candy, have you, Candy? I don't think that I'm. This is why I love candy. Move along. How about taking alcohol from your parents' liquor cap in it?

Oh, Kyle, don't you dare lie. So I did, and it was, I did not water down the vodka. That was Caitlin. I watered it down. No, can we just really quickly? It would be just water. But my brothers, it would be just water afterwards. But I could take a mincello or something.

Yeah, let me just say, for those of you in Bachelor Nation who aren't scientists, alcohol does not freeze, but water does. And my kids had a party, and I am a vodka drinker, and I came down the next night and to get my bottle of vodka in the freezer because I like it really cold. And lo and behold, it was frozen. And I looked at Kyle and Caitlin said, okay, which one of you put water to my vodka? Kyle, who did it? Caitlin did. And when I asked Caitlin, what does she say? I said I did.

Yeah, and there you have my family right there. How do you like having twins? Same thing, same thing. Okay, this one I don't want to ask. Have any of you had a one-night stand? Oh, geez. Yes. Yes.

Many. Kyle. Susan. She's just. I haven't. I haven't. I sadly, I believe that. Can I just tell you?

It's a shame. Her ice cream was melting. I need it. This is one. on the show. I literally finally said on the show, okay, I have never done laundry and ironed on a Sunday night. Yes, I haven't. I remember that? Ice cream. Wait a minute. She's never made out in the backseat of the car. Now, we're from the 70s, okay? Who said I haven't made out the back seat of a car? You wouldn't eat out of the front seat of a car?

Well, back seats more. I don't think that was the question, Susan. The question was. have you done the deed in the back seat of a car? And to that, I say no. Remember what's her name said? Oh, on the dashboard, on the steering wheel? Wait, what's the question here? Have you ever had sex in the back seat of a car? No, Kathy, that was our question on the show.

You know, I'm sorry. Inquiring minds want to know. Brittany, have you ever had sex in the backseat of a car? Kyle, don't answer. Brittany, have you? He already answered. With my husband. Oh, that's sweet.

Oh, please. I thought I did a good job of raising my kids. I'm beginning to rethink this. I'm moving along. Have you ever secretly returned a gift from a family member? We don't do anything secretly. You'll know immediately if one of us doesn't like him. We're like, here's the receipt.

Returning, it's something you like because I want my money to be spent the right way. Like, you have to like it. How about you, Kyle and Candy? I have. I don't think I have. Kathy? Because you said secretly, right? Yes, secretly.

Yeah. It's kind of like what Brittany said. Like my mom, like everything, oh, gift receipts. Oh, okay, this is the right one, but not like in secret. Wait, I'm making this one up. Have you ever re-gifted a gift? Oh, hell yes. I can't do it because if I hate it, I'm not going to be embarrassed to give it to somebody

that's going to think I did. No, the key is re-gifting kids gifts. They don't use it. Oh, birthday presents. Oh, yeah, that's a new. I like that. All right. Here's the next one.

Oh, God. Oh, Kyle? Perfect. You can just say yes right now. Dated or hooked up with someone 10 plus years older. Brittany, we already know Kyle's answer. He's married to her. How about you?

I don't think over 10 years, honestly. How about 10 years younger? No. Candy. Candy. yes sirree and for me at this point susan we're getting damn close for me 10 years older means i'd be digging in the ground you know this point it's different but when i was the single and younger that then it would have been a little weird being 10 years younger than me it'd be like 16 like that didn't

make sense in my timeline so i'm a different judge for that i have a question for the children all of you not you kath because you already schooled me what and i'm not a child What does hooked up mean? Hoking up. Oh, God. Define hooking up. Please. What does it mean? She said it.

Don't overthink this, Chilands. What does it mean to hook up? Yeah, having sex. Brittany? Yeah, having sex. Candy? I'm the only one on the planet. She already said it.

She said it first. And there, and Bachelor Nation, there you have it. Kathy may be a purist and not have done all these things, but she definitely knows what hooking up means. I didn't think it went all the way. I hooked up with somebody. We made out. That's what I thought.

I think it has several meanings. No, it does not. I think the meaning is true. I think it has several meanings because, yeah, you can be hooking up with someone. It's kind of like a dating and you're together. Except, except Susan looked it up in the dictionary and it says having sex with the intention of not having a relationship moving forward. So, Susan, go talk to Daniel Webster, who's six feet under, and argue with him.

Hooking up means having sex. I think about his intentions behind it. That's a whole different story. I just didn't know. I didn't know. Stood up a date or ghosted someone. Have you ever? You have?

Kyle. Kyle. Kyle Swartz. Are you kidding me? You're shaking yes, too? Brittany? no that's messed up guys yes it is

hey brittany wait susan can i adopt brittany for the rest of this show because i'm really disgusted with you kyle i hate it when i got ghosted i cried i was so upset i've never do that to somebody kyle didn't i bring you up better than that that is so rude i'll be i'll be even more honest like i've ghosted and i've been

ghosted it happens yeah we didn't ask if you were ghosted We asked if you were to ghost it. It works both ways. Yes. Yeah. I've been on both sides. No, I don't care about the ghosting. That happens.

You've stood someone up for a date. That's the same thing, Kat. No, it isn't, Susan. Do I have to explain ghosted to you now? Ghosting means you don't show up, right? No, it doesn't. No, no, no, no. To be clear, no, no, standing up is like we have a date and then you just don't show up.

I have not done that. Thank you. I have been in communication with somebody and then just stopped communicating. That's what ghosting is. Oh, okay. Honey, Susan, listen, when I come and visit you in a few weeks, we're going to sit down. We're going to have a little lesson in terminology in the 2020.

Moving right along. Had sex while my parents were under the same roof. Oh, I don't want to know this. I love this game. You have, Kyle? Can't. With candy, your daughter-in-law. I can't get the words out.

Brittany, you too? Brittany. Oh, let's see Toby. Oh, wait a minute, wait a minute. Hold on, hold on, hold on. That's because we just were in New York together. That's different. Yes, it is.

Look, they're laughing. Please tell me. Is it not New York? It's not New York when we're on vacation? Have you ever read through a family member's phone or diary? Oh, hell yeah. are you kidding me Kyle I got your phone I got Caitlin's phone afraid of what I would find no no no no I did when you were kids I tried to find

something out but no I didn't do Kyle's I didn't know Caitlin's wait a minute wait a minute Susan oh now see she's rushing by because she didn't want to answer that one we're going right back did you look in your children's phone susan yes definitely I did Lizza look at her she says it like she's on the witness stand yes sir i did and i'm proud of it and i would do it again sir absolutely kyle have you ever gone through my phone no candy i've never gone through your phone i say for you you know why there's nothing in my phone but a lot of really there's nothing there all right have you ever blamed the fart on a family member no family no family pet

A family I blame it on anybody No I own it In the car and locks the doors And the windows Here comes another one I don't fart She don't have sex

She should have been a nun Sorry Britney go ahead I'm just saying We often have the last thing peeing yourself from more than like the part. Okay, wait a minute. Susan, have you laughed so hard you've peed yourself? A hundred million times.

Candy and you? I actually got it fixed. So I don't do that. I never have. Yeah, it was great. I could jump on a trampoline now. I could laugh. My sister, that's a thing.

I never have, I swear I've never had that issue either. Miss Goody, two shoes. No, I'm sorry. Peen yourself or not. paint yourself is not goody two shoes. It's just, it's a physical phenomenon. You're not laughing hard enough, Kat. Thank you. Oh, seriously? I don't

laugh hard enough. Really? You want me on the floor? That's it. I was in roller blades. It's in my swooshy pants and not coming out. Wait, I like it when you get a two-pack. Did you ever get a two-pack? I'm sure. What the hell is a two-pack? When you laugh

so hard, I always I always say, oh my God, I got a two-pack because the pain, the muscles in your stomach are so tight. I don't have a six-pack, so mine's a two-packs. You think she's getting a workout from it and getting abs. It's true. Okay, we're leaving that one.

We're going to end this little segment on something that I wish would happen. Yeah. Pay attention. Pay attention. Listen up and make this happen. All three of you. All three of you. And anyone else who's listening.

I have or have not set my parents. up with someone for a date. Please. Crickets. Mic drop. Well, yeah, look at them. Wait, I just wish everyone could see them. They're all, look at them.

They're just like, uh, they're thinking. Who could I ask? I'm talking. I told you to go on the show. I feel like that's the best one of all. It's the best one. It wasn't a date, though. I didn't get a date.

Yeah, you got a piece of pink cord. Stop complaining. Oh, and, and mom, I just want to say, for you, I don't need to set you up. You are very good at advocating for yourself. Really? The question was the question. We were in New York and they were talking about some guy that was single and you're like,

set me up with them, blah, blah, blah. Like you speak up for yourself. Yeah. Can I just tell you? Wait. And they run because they're scared. No. Thank you.

If you did it, Kyle, they might have approached her. I'm just saying. Yeah. Can I just tell you? tell you, the guy Kyle's talking about in New York, 69-year-old, really good-looking guy. Seriously, a good, listen, super good-looking guy. His wife died. I hope you're listening, sir. His wife died two years ago, not even, not even two years ago. And so the family that we were with a bunch of family members, extended family members, I said, what, what's the matter with you?

Why don't you fix him up with this guy? He text the guy. Ready? his wife has not even been gone two years yet he's already living with another woman seriously good for him okay and i think that's going to do it for today's episode and you guys were fabulous you're going to have to come down to austin when i go down there because i'm a parking a fire engine i've never been and my friend who just moved there recently my best friend from college so i need to come visit you are so welcome to come we're all going to descend on Kyle. Hey, Kyle, if they all come, can we go to the fire station?

Can we go up on that really high ladder that whatever that thing is called that goes really high up? You know, my new place from Matt doesn't have that anymore, or doesn't have one. Kyle, I'll drive the engine. They can get up on the ladder while I drive. Susan, would you? You can drive my chief vehicle, my battalion chief vehicle. Yeah, Kyle doesn't. That's not a fire engine, is it?

I'll, you know, I know people. I'll get you on an engine. Kyle. Kyle's the one that runs the fires. Wait a minute. Kyle, you would let her drive a fire engine? No. No. Okay. Fine. All right. Well, this has been so grand. We have loved getting to chat. I have found out things about you, Brittany, that I am stunned about. Kyle, we'll take it up later, what I've learned about you. And we've had so much fun with you guys. This was a blast. It really was. I hope you guys out there listening and joined our kids as much as we did. Really, because we love our kids.

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