Bachelor Happy Hour - Moving On | Golden Hour

Episode Date: March 28, 2025

Today on “Golden Hour,” Kathy and Susan are back answering your questions! We kick off the episode with a much-needed catch-up. Kathy and Susan give their thoughts on “After the Final Rose”— the love, the drama, and, of course, the big announcement! Will our hosts be beach-bound? Plus, we get into Susan’s new show and the story behind her broken wrist. Then, we dive into all things breakup-related — divorces, losing your first love, you name it! Tune in now and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That seems inappropriate. Maybe find out how it ends by listening to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts, and on the latest episode of Spolitics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't say publicly? Many of them are in fear of their political lives. We continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your constituents. and there's life after Congress. Make sure to listen to this episode of Politics

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We're very excited to be back. Kathy, are you ready for today? Yes, I am. But before we get in today's episode, said, Susan, we've got to talk about AFR. Holy smokes. Baby. Whoa. Can I just say, hometown girl, Newton, Massachusetts, one. I knew. Yay, Giuliano.

Wait, did you cry? Did you cry? Did you cry? I need to know. Did you cry? I've been crying since the season began. But here's the thing. I knew. And I think I said last time, this was going to be a horror show at the end. It always is, because there's two left but the name of the game it is but here's the thing grant started this whole thing uh with everybody he could see everybody has his wife and the mother of his children and i'm falling for like with 22 of them are pretty close so as it's like the little engine that could that engine built steam until it came to afr and you knew that train was going to go down hill real fast and collide and crash. And Latia, I felt so sorry for her. Yes, and I think the world is asking right

now, I'm sure all you listeners, one of the things that she confronted him with was, why did you keep going? Why did you keep telling me? It was me. It was me. I remember Leslie thinking it was her but and then the other side of me thought that is the game here that is the show it is the show someone's going to get the heartbroken but here's the thing like with leslie because she's our friend we love you leslie if you're listening um there are things that went on behind the scenes that made leslie think she was the one right and i'm sure in this case there was behind the scenes things too. Right. But she was calling him on from this first date. I know. The words that he spoke to her. And I genuinely believe, I mean, in my heart of hearts, I believe you can fall in love with

two people at the same time. And then you have to make a choice. Yeah, but do you really believe you who believes in fairy tales? Do you really believe that he didn't know who he was going to pick until right before the ceremony? There's no way, Susan. No way. It's good editing. It's It's good TV, no way. And now the proof of that is Juliana, when Latia said, did, how did, you know, saying Juliana's going to have a lot of questions for you. And Giuliana said, no, I don't know any questions. How about that? Yes.

Well, you know why? I don't know. I'm out of producer. I don't have an insider track. But I think that's because Grant said things to her off camera that she knew she was the one. And she, and that's what I believe. Okay, I'll give you that. And I think...

We'll never know. We'll never know. I also... Oh, no, we're going to get them both on the podcast. And we're going to grill them. We're going to put them on two hot seats. But anyway, I thought my heart broke for Litea. Her face.

Her face. Oh, she was mad. She was angry. And when he said, I hope you don't think differently of me. So I do. Yeah, I do. Yes,eree, Bob. I do.

Going back to her saying she doesn't have any questions. What was your thought when she said that? My thought was, if things happened behind the scenes that made her know she was the one, I wouldn't have any questions either. Okay. Okay. However, that's where you went with that. That's where I went.

However, watching it back, though. Yeah. Watching it back. Well, there might be maybe not. There might be a disconnect. But what I was thinking was, what better way. I wish I was that strong of a person. What better way to start a relationship than letting go of the past?

Obviously, you knew there was another woman. Let go. Don't ask questions. Me personally, that would be that other voice in the back of my mind wondering and having a billion questions. But I think they're off to a good start because she's not going to ask. They make a cute couple for sure. Oh, they do. They're adorable.

Both either one would have. His mom is saying, Grant's mom is saying he could. see the love, she could see the love Latia had that they, I mean, that was all heartbreaking. I still, though, I'm focusing on the positive. They're in love. They, they started, she's got a gorgeous diamond ring. Thank you, Neil Lane. I want one of those. Neal. If you're listening, I want one of those. I say please, please, pretty please. But I. See buple. They are starting out on a really positive note. They seem to love each other. The parents seem to all get along, be happy for them. I think another.

positive is Grant has reconnected with his dad. When I was crying, that's what I asked. Were you crying? Oh, my God. They were both tearing up. Grant has been to hell, especially with his dad.

And his dad is remorseful. I mean, he just wants to be a part of his life. I thought that was beautiful. And I think that Grant, I think those are some of the positives. You know, people go, oh, it's reality TV. None of it's true. There was a lot of truth on that show.

And so that's, you know, We're done with the season. He's moving to Massachusetts to Boston. Yeah. I'm just, I want to be in the parade. I want to fly back to Newton. I want to be in the parade. But they seem happy.

They have a great relationship with the parents. They're going to Italy to make pizza. The season's over. We're going to move on everybody, Susan. Wow. About the announcement. Oh, okay. First of all.

Wait, wait, are we going? Do we get to go? I don't know. I'm sending out my emails. I've already sent them out. Here's my name, my number, my social security number. Yeah, what are the dates? We're available.

We're available. So I thought it was interesting. I mean, we don't know, right? I can tell you what we do know. We know Gary Levinston is going, and we know Leslie from our season is going. But it was so weird because when they made the announcement, like I'm just, you know, wondering,

I'm waiting for my phone to ring. Like, are they going to call me? Did they call you? I thought of, no, the first thing I thought of, why am I not there? Why am I not there? Why is Leslie there? What's going on? And that I called you, did I not? Yeah. And I said, did you hear anything? I said, I'm waiting. I'm waiting. I got my phone on, you know, on speaker in case I call. But here's the thing. This is going to be exciting. I wonder, I, there have to be more golden's coming. I mean, that's what Jesse said. Well, you can't do a show with two of them. I mean, come on. Well, if it were you and me, they could. Well, this is true. This is true. I don't know. I want to know. I want to know. Did they say where they're going or anything? No, they would never tell us that. But maybe they didn't call yet because I have a boo-boo. I don't know.

Oh, speaking up. Okay. So I'm excited to be excited to be considered. Hopefully you and I are going to go. We won't know until we know. But we'll let you know first. Oh, you'll hear a screaming. You'll hear us screaming.

We'll make announcements. Wait, Susan, I know you. Before we get into your broken wrist and your show, don't give me this that you, as soon as you saw that announcement, don't tell me you weren't going through your resort clothes, your summer bait. I pulled out the suitcase. I'm packing. Are you kidding? I better go. All right. Let's talk about your show that is coming out. Oh, that's really exciting. Did you see? Well, of course, you saw. Yes. I sent it to you. I saw. I'm so excited. And I got to meet Demi, of course, and Claire from Paradise as well as Bachelor. Great people. So what is the premise? I want to know.

What's the premise of the show? Tell me what it is. We are a lot of We were locked in a mansion, and we were trying to escape to win a million dollars. There was 20 of us, and I can't tell you. I mean, you know on our show, Kathy, I was unapologetically Susan. Yeah. Okay? Yeah. Once again.

Uh-oh. Did you make meatballs? Did you make meatballs? Of course I did. Of course she did. And that would be the day that I can't share because it's coming. That's pretty funny. So you had fun, you had fun, made new friends?

Fabulous, fabulous. I know I want to, I'm sorry, go ahead. The house wide, Spencer, I mean, all kinds of people. Vow from Dance with the Stars, him and I are like Bonnie and Clyde. That's all I'm going to say. Okay, I'm going to ask you, did you win a million bucks? I can't tell you that yet. If you did, you're taking me to Italy.

A deal, deal. Listen, you've been doing a lot of traveling, so I'm going to guess that you might have won a million bucks. Well, that I can't wait. And when does it come out, Susan? Traveling. Do what it does for April 11th. They're going to download on Hulu all eight episodes so you can binge watch. Binge it.

Yeah, baby, get the pizza and the wine. I'm really happy for you. I truly cannot wait to see it. It was a lot of fun. Now, I'm assuming, because I saw you after that show that you taped, even though you wouldn't tell me anything about it to your bestie. That's why we signed MDAs. Oh, right. Okay, thank you. You were fine. You didn't hurt yourself.

But as I see you now, you have a broken risk. Tell us about that, Susan. Oh, yeah. So we were going up in St. Martin up to Aunt Marcell. We were going on a hike. They were going to surf and I was going to film. And you parked the car here and it takes about 25 minutes. And the terrain isn't that rough, but it was, and the water's hitting the rocks.

It's like rough ocean. Okay, women, stop. You know I'm a big hiker. Please, God, tell me you had on hiking boots. I had sneakers on. Oh, Jesus. Okay. That's the beginning of the end right there.

I was like getting winded, you know me. And I'm like, oh, my God, there's the end. We're almost there. I was so excited. And you stepped down at this one point. The bottom of my sneaker hit gravel and slid. And I went to fall back and I went to break my fall on this giant boulder. I'm sorry.

Sure enough. But here's the worst part. I had to go back. It was only 25 minutes up. It took over an hour to get back down these steep hills. It took over an hour with the broken bone to get back. And he would put the bag and then walk back and make me stay and help me down a little step because, God forbid, I fell again.

It was horrific. They took me to a French hospital. And I was nervous about that, of course. It was $250 just to walk in. I didn't care. I needed help. He casted it, told me I was going to need surgery, a plate and screws. I flew home two days later after the swelling went down and had the surgery. And there's a giant plate and four screws, which is a lot like you two years ago. Why do I have to do everything you do? But when you ever, so when Susan called me from St. Martin and told me

she had a broken wrist, I knew, I knew what was happening because I fell not hiking. I fell playing. I I fell playing with my granddaughter on a sport court and broke my fall the exact same way. So I said, here's what's going to happen to you. But as always, Susan has to outdo me. I have two small screws and one small plate in my wrist. And I have one large plate. And four screws. So Susan, you win again.

I didn't want to win this one. I know. But I will tell you, you're going to be fine. You just have to be careful. It's painful. It's painful. If anyone is never, so we both had dislocated bones. That's when you fall backwards on your wrist, it's almost impossible not to dislocate a bone, said my surgeon.

Was it your right hand, Kathy? Yes. No, when I tell you you and I do the same thing. And I, wait, can I just tell you, I was with my, at the time, five-year-old granddaughter, and I am scribing in pain. And I've called my children, Susan. Do you think either of my two children in Austin entered their phone? Of course not. Of course not.

You need a 911 judge, hell? Oh, no, that's exactly what we did. After that happened, they put me on one of those emergency things. So when I dial them, and they said, please use it sparingly, because it will come through. If they're in a meeting, it's free. Well, listen, you've had the secret. Wait, when we got to the destination, of course, he said, go to his son, go. He wouldn't go surfing, of course.

And I go, no, no, no, I'm not going back. Just sit me down. They laid towels under a little bit of a shady part. just so I could sit and gather my thoughts. I was shaking the game was so bad. And I was like, I don't want to walk back. I don't. Can you get a helicopter? That's about right.

I couldn't hold on. Susan, so when she got home, she's calling me from the airport. This hurts so much. I said, sweetie, you're going to be okay. I wish everybody knew the conversations that Susan and I've had since she broke this wrist. But the good news is you're back. Your wrist is healing. Yes.

You know, you're going to be fine. You're going to do some rehab. You have a lot of people who love you and care about you. Thank you, everyone, for sending all the well wishes and the questions. I hope I answered all of them. It hurts. It does hurt. You are well-lived.

I'm not giving up. Kathy can do it. I can do it. But do you know what you're getting for Christmas from me? What? Hiking boots. Okay, but you've got to go hiking with me. That's my first sight.

I hike all the first. liked it a lot. Oh, hiking is so much fun. Take a picnic lunch, a bottle of wine. I didn't do that. I think it was oxygotten. They gave me. Oh, that's perfect. And motoring. Yeah. Well, you know what? Just take it slow. Do what the doctor says. Do the rehab. Yes. You got a lot of good things coming up in life. Listen, bachelor nation. I was going to say, Bachelor Nation, please put out the good vibes for Susan and me. Haunt whoever you know that send e-mail. you know, telegrams, whatever. That just showed my age. We want Kathy and Susan.

We're not watching unless Kathy and Susan are on the table. Wait, I have a question. If you go, if we go. I won't be able to do cartwheels. Oh, I'm sorry. That's why you can't do a cartwheel? Wait, I want to know bikinis. That's all I wear.

Oh, God. Yes, and I'll have a chunky belly, everybody. So start your negativity and put it in a hat. Okay, I don't want to hear it. It is what it is. I am 68 years old, and I got a little pudge in the middle. So, well, I'm going to be on TV. You know what?

You know what? I am going to not be, Susan. I'm going to have on the banded suits from the 1940s, you know, the long sleeves, the long skirt. With a hundred sunscreens. With a hundred sunscreens, that's right. I don't know. Ornice is always on the beach, right?

You're asking me? I've never been. I just hope it's not. Well, those people didn't have air. addition. I would never do that. Well, listen, Gary and Gary Levinson and Leslie, we are so happy for you. We hope more

of the Goldens will come. We hope that you heal Susan quickly. You're well on the way. We can't wait for your show. Got to get out. It's all good. It's all good stuff. And congratulations again to Juliana and Grant. We wish you a lifetime of love and happiness. And get ready because we're getting you on these podcasts. We want a dish.

We want the dish. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Well, wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes,

My boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school politics? That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor and they're the same age.

It's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet. So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I'm Jamil, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts, Politics. And on the latest episode of politics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party.

What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't say publicly? Many of them are in fear of their political lives, and that's been part of the challenge. But we continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your constituents, to stand up for your constituents. And there's life after Congress. And you should be willing to actually want to be able to look back on your. your time in the House of Representatives knowing that you can keep your head held high because you did the right thing. Donald Trump is gone in three and a half years. But their legacy or their failure to stand up to the extremism and the unprecedented assault on America as we know it will be

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and had no idea of the hell awaiting him the next six months. The first night was so overwhelming, and you don't know who's next to you. And we didn't know what to expect in the morning. Nobody tells you anything. Listen to shock incarceration on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. All right. So today, we're going to be answering more of your fan questions.

Make sure, because we love hearing from you, that you're submitting your questions and your comments. We love, love, love. How many times can I say love reading them? All you got to do is go to bachelornation.com slash golden hour and send us all your thoughts and wishes and comments. Yes, absolutely. Send us everything, your questions, your updates, your updates. and your opinions, because that's what we're here for. You can also DM us on Instagram at Bachelor Happy Hour. Okay, Susan, are you ready to get into this episode? Because today, like most great days, we are going to start it with the question of the day.

And it's a good one. You ready? Have you or a close friend of yours ever experienced a really tough breakup? What was it like and how did they get past it? Oh, I'm going to let you handle this one. Because let me say, how long is this podcast? Susan's going to give us, oh, I don't know, five or ten examples of serious breakup she's had. To be honest, my most hurtful was when I was very, very young.

The part that hurts me is because I'm usually the one that ends it and it takes forever because I feel so bad. But what came to mind was, I love you, cousin Donna, don't be mad. But when somebody breaks up with Donna. oh my goodness she gets upset just a tip upset like you could lock her up and throw away the key until she feels better it's unbelievable she don't hear you she makes cousin donna i love you i'll make it better if it ever happens again we won't rely on she just she can't she wants to know why i said donna there isn't a why it's just unaccepted no she can't she can't cousin don't have to move on oh i feel so bad a letter don in the next time.

Wait, I, you said a young, you said a young, because I will tell you my worst, remember I was married very young, my worst breakup, and there were very few for me, was my first love in high school. And it was, his name was Seth,

and I just, he was just the love of my life. I, I, and I kept breaking up with him, he'd take me back, and then one time he didn't. And it just broke my heart. It really, hurts watching your kids get hurt my daughter's first breakup oh my god i think i went on prozac

it was devastating i mean i think first loves and first breakups are tough don't you yes yes every breakup is tough when one side is hurt you know you know how do you get past it you start dating somebody else or you you you realize at the end of the day it was for the best because that's time heals all is what i say and you have to you have to to go through. I don't know that it heals all. It makes things better. Well, you get back to being yourself again, but it's a yucky thing. I don't wish it on anybody. I mean, if everybody could just agree that they're not doing great and the relationship, you'll still miss it and you part as friends. Part as friends? Yeah. That's the, Susan. That's the, Susan.

Yeah. Tough breakup does not equal ending as friends. I know. By definition. I wish. It could be. Yeah, well, you know, I wish pigs could fly. Let me know when it happens. All right, then. Let's get into our fan questions. I'm going to read the first one. Kathy, ready?

Ready, ready, ready. All right, this is from Anonymous. Hi, ladies. I'm about to file for divorce. And I feel like I'm standing at the top of a massive mountain. What should I be expecting? We have two kids and have been dealing with fights marital issues for the past four years. We really can't take it anymore. I just don't love him anymore,

and everything he does bothers me. I don't want to have my kids grow up in a tumultuous environment. tumultuous, thank you. Well, guess what? Nobody should fight for four years in front of their children. That's what I'm going to say right off the bat. What should I prepare myself for? What should I do? if he doesn't react well, would anybody, oh, wait a minute. He doesn't know you're getting the divorce. Well, here's the thing. She said, she also said, we always said that we wait to divorce if we ever did until the kids are in college, but I really can't take it anymore.

I just don't love him anymore. And everything he does bothers me. So she is about to file for divorce from him. and I'm guessing Anonymous that he does not know that you are filing for divorce. What should you prepare yourself for? Lots of legal bills. Lots. You thought the fighting was bad?

It's, you know, it's going to come as a huge shock to him if you file for divorce and he has served with papers. So my advice to you would be tell him that you want a divorce and that you're going to file for divorce. Don't let him be served. without him knowing it's coming. And what should I do if he doesn't react well? Well, he's probably not going to react well

because guess what? Divorce is not just about money, but it's always about money. It's about children and visitation. Who gets the house and the vacation house and the cars and who's going to pay the mortgage on the house and how much time do you have to go through this list? So it's going to be really rough.

But if you don't love them and you can't take it anymore, you're doing the right thing, but I think you need to talk to him first about it. What do you think? Absolutely. We should talk to him, and he may react just fine. He might be as miserable as she is. It sounds like they're both pretty miserable. But you do need to discuss it.

Don't surprise him with papers. Talk to him and say, listen, I've done a lot of thinking, and either one of us are happy. So how about we get on the same page and move this along? sure that you work with someone on telling the kids. You know, kids can survive divorce really well if you do the divorce and, you know, the follow-up if you do that well. But, you know, one thing I will say to you, do as I say not as my mother did, do not trash your soon-to-be ex-husband to your children. It is their father, their dad. be kind

be kind and let your children love their dad they didn't get divorced you are yes sorry I have you wish you luck

and yes if he is on the same page it should go smoothly but I've never seen a divorce go that smoothly sometimes I have I've seen a few but for me I mean you saw me just jump into this

yeah you saw me jump into this question because my parents were divorced and it was like did you ever see the movie the War of the Roses Yeah, but I hardly remember. It's where they're hanging from the chandeliers, fighting. They literally, that was my parents.

I mean, it was so bad. It was awful. And the kids don't need, kids feel that, you know? That's what I'm saying. That's why I said, keep the kids out of it. It's just, it's not a good thing. You want your kids to grow up and be healthy and happy, and you want to move on and find happiness in your life.

So if you get the divorce, do it the right way. And also, know, talking to your husband. That man is going to be in your life for the rest of your life because it's your children's father. So better to be civil about everything and get a good man. Okay, moving right along. Good love, good luck anonymous. Okay, the next question, Carly writes, hi Kathy and Susan, I really need your help. I'm pretty sure my boyfriend is still hung up on his high school girlfriend and I don't know what to do.

They were together all through high school and broke up when they went to college. We're both 27 now, and I never thought an X from high school would be a problem, but I really think it is. He is still in contact with her via her Instagram DMs. I have snooped, and I didn't find anything incriminating, but the amount of times he reaches out and talks to her is stressing me out. He saw her at his 10-year high school reunion, and the way he looked at her made me sick to my stomach. She is single, which really stresses me out. What do you think I should do? Ouch.

I think there's a little bit of jealousy here, but he's obviously not over her. In other words, she's thinking if that other girl, the high school sweetheart, said, boo, I'm ready, come back. He would jump and leave her like a hot potato. You think he would? I don't know him.

I don't know him, but she's snooping. He keeps reaching out to her. He's looking like a damn fool. Obviously, the woman's not biting. Well, how do you know she's not? Well, if he keeps reaching out, she doesn't find anything incriminating. Like, you don't know that they're not me.

We don't know. Here's the thing, Carly. You know, I know I'm going to sound old-fashioned here, but where there's smoke there may be fire. If he's, why would he be reaching? Unless, well, there are a few things we don't know. If they live in the same hometown and everybody's friends with their high school friends,

you know, maybe that's one thing. but I'm not reading it this way. 10-year high school reunion, chit-chatting. I don't know. I think you have to have the conversation with him. But again, Carly, I would phrase the question that you're feeling insecure. You're feeling. How many years ago is it, Kath, that was in high school?

10 years? And he's still talking to her. But you know what I'm saying? Again, I'm big on not accusing. You can't go in and say to your husband, they are married, right? Yeah, they're married. You can't go, oh, no, it says boyfriend. Oh, I thought they were married. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I think you have to, I think you have to fess up and say, you know, you're feeling insecure. I don't know how long you've been dating him. You know, how long have you been dating this guy? Are you going to get engaged? Are you thinking about marrying him or is it a casual relationship? We don't have enough information here. How serious is this boyfriend, girlfriend? Maybe it's not that serious. I don't know. We don't know.

It doesn't say how long she, Carly, you don't, we don't know how long you've been dating him. Carly, you need to write us back. Tell us how long you've been dating him. Are you guys living together? Are you in a committed relationship where you're talking about marriage or at least foraging a life together? Kathy, do you think if she brings it up to him, her suspicions or her feelings that that would be a good idea or a bad idea? Oh, I would bring it up with him. Do you think it'll solve anything?

I would put it on me. I would say, I'm feeling a little insecure. Of course, she'd have to admit that she's been, you know, looking in her DMs. But you know what? You could say, hey, have you been talking to him? And if he's talking to her, what if she says no? Then you know. But it would be how the woman's responding to him.

That's how I would make my decision whether or not I was going to bring this to surface. wait a minute how the woman is responding to who like he keeps reaching out to her and what are the responses from those messages well again we that could be meeting and perfect we don't we don't have enough information i'm telling you we don't but you have every right to feel like you're feeling that's for sure yeah for sure you do you do but and if you do decide to to talk to him carly do not uh accuse him tell him it's how you're feeling don't be susan yeah exactly and tell him how you're feeling don't be susan yeah exactly and tell him how you're feeling and see what he says but you know what if he says what i haven't talked to her in 10 years except at the reunion well then you have your answer then you have your answer and i would move out and you know take all the food and the nice sheets with you oh god all right good luck sweetie question number three patty asked hi ladies my son is going through his very first heartbreak and i don't know how to help him he's 18 and have been with his girlfriend for three years from what i understand they broke up because she doesn't want to go to the same college as him, and they both

don't think distance will work. It's been about a month since the breakup, and I just can't get him out of his room. I never had a serious boyfriend until college, and that breakup was a breeze for me, a story for another day, L.O.L. So I don't have a lot of experience with this stuff. What can I say or do to help him? Thank you so much. Oh, God, I hate that. I hated a nothing you can do baby there's nothing you can do well i think she can tell him that she's there if he wants to talk you don't think she said that i think i think that if if he really this is you're going to be surprised when i say this susan but patty if you really cannot get your son to come out of his room that is cause for worry in my book i mean it's been a month and he is not coming

out of his room? I mean, does he mean, literally? I know. Well, they're going to college. And you know what? How many college kids know they break up and they agree to do their things. But when they're home, they'll get back together to see if it's as strong as it should be. That is what college is about. Well, I'm not arguing with that. And I honestly don't think that distance, especially at that age, particularly at that age works however you know

I think that you're right going to college is a time for exploration and having fun and meeting new people so I don't fault the girlfriend for breaking up with him do you? I mean no she's trying to be honest

yeah but I do I would be concerned that your son who's 18 has not come out of his room I might get some help with that I mean I'm not a therapy again but if he's been in his room for a month he's taking it maybe more harder than he should I think I mean it's his first one Susan a month in your bedroom I know that's a long time that's a long time so what you can do to help him maybe maybe you know talk to somebody if you get one of his

friends to come over and talk to him and see if his friends can help i mean time does heal i think honestly but when she wrote this it should be about over by now like it's it takes time it has to take its course yes probably better now i don't know when she wrote us patty yeah patty you need to let us know uh what the scoop is now now we're going to yeah that that's worrisome to me and i know we love our children and we hate to see that our heart's broken but patty it truly is it's a it's a right of passage it happens to all of us whether it's in high school you know college if you if you've never had a heartbreak patty you're one lucky girl yeah i want to hear her story she said story for another day call us yeah yeah let us know we want to hear your story you could be anonymous even we

don't have to know it's you but thank you for writing and we'll keep him in our our prayers here yeah My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Oh, wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate.

Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor, they're the same age. And it's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet. So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend

really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I'm Jamil Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts, and on the latest episode of Politics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't say publicly? Many of them are in fear of their political lives, and that's

been part of the challenge. But we continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your constituents, to stand up for your constituents. And there's life after Congress. And you should be willing to actually want to be able to look back on your time in the House of Representatives knowing that you can keep your head held high. you did the right thing. Donald Trump is gone in three and a half years, but their legacy or their failure to stand up to the extremism and the unprecedented assault on America, as we know it, will be with them forever. Make sure to listen to Spolitics on the IHeart Radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Umanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips.

And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a cross, crime junkie, and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free IHeartRadio app.

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I just normally do straight stand-up, but this is a bit different. On stage stood a comedian with a story that no one expected to hear. The 22nd of July 2015, a 23-year-old man had killed his family. And then he came to my house. So what do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? A new podcast called Wisecrack, where stand-up comedy and murder takes center stage. Available now.

Listen to Wisecrack on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hola, it's HoneyGerman and my podcast. come again is back. This season we're going even deeper into the world of music and entertainment with raw and honest conversations with some of your favorite Latin artists and celebrities.

You didn't have to audition? No, I didn't audition. I haven't audition in like over 25 years. Oh, wow. That's a real G-talk right there. Oh, yeah. We've got some of the biggest actors, musicians, content creators,

and culture shifters sharing their real stories of failure and success. You were destined to be a star. We talk all about what's viral and trending with a little bit of chisement, a lot of laughs, and those amazing Vibras you've come to expect. And, of course, we'll explore deeper topics dealing with identity, struggles, and all the issues affecting our Latin community. You feel like you get a little whitewash because you have to do the code switching?

I won't say whitewash because at the end of the day, you know, I'm me. But the whole pretending and coat, you know, it takes a toll on you. Listen to the new season of Grasasas Come Again as part of My Cultura Podcast Network on the IHartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcast. All right then. Well, today we're going to play, Who's Most Likely to, Kathy? We'll switch off reading and say who between the two of us

is most likely to do it. Okay. I'll start. Who's most likely to talk their way out of a traffic ticket? Well, I'm just going to answer that question since I've never had one. And Susan just talked to herself her way out of one. I'm going to go with Susan. I cannot.

Susan, you want to, you want to fess up about the traffic ticket you got recently? Yeah. Yeah, it was late. I was tired. I had a pee and I was speeding. However, wait, how fast were you going, Susan? I don't want to talk about that. Oh, okay.

It was on the parkway. I mean, if anybody knows, there was three digits. There are people fly. Okay. Three digits. No, no, no, he clocked me at 94. Yes, but you told me you were going over a hundred. Well, he didn't cock me at what over a hundred.

Oh, so I guess it didn't happen. If it was in the forest and the tree didn't, no one heard the tree fall, it didn't happen. It was a straight away. Do you know my bucket list, it's like to drive the automobile so I don't get a ticket? Like, that is my thrill. In Germany? Yeah. Where else is the automobile?

I've done it. I've done it. Well, I bet you didn't go 100 or more. I was in a car where they were going to fast. You were driving that. You're damn right. I wasn't. No, but he was a break.

cop he was young he could have been my son and he knew i was tired he asked where i was going all that stuff and then he said listen i'm going to write down that you weren't obeying the traffic sign i mean the um signs and i go okay thank you i'll pay just don't give me points no points on listen all right get caught going through a partner's phone have you ever done it susan yeah i have you yeah i have to yeah Yeah. I always catch them going through mine. Go ahead. Knock yourself out. There's nothing to not. I don't really care because I was nothing anything. With younger kids today, they know how to have.

Oh, they can crack into everything. No, but they can, you can hide. I can hide it. Let me tell you, I found things through it. An ex-anthony, poor little Anthony. Yeah. Mm-hmm. You dirty dogs. Oh, I found stuff when I went through. That was the beginning of the end of that relationship. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Go ahead. Okay. Oh, I am famous. Irish exit at a party. Who wants to do the long goodbye? You ready to go home, Kath? That's another 25 minutes if you have to think about everybody. And then you've got to hear why you're going so too. I just go. Okay. Yes or no. Just a yes or no. We'll do. Do you always thank the host or hostess at a party and say good night to them before your Irish exit? It depends on the party now. Not necessarily. Oh, I always do.

I mean, most of the time. But if I'm scooting, most of the time the host or hostess is, or there's a couple are talking with people and I don't want to go announce that I'm leaving. All right. Get scammed online. Whoa. That's Susan. That's you.

Oh, my God. You know why? Susan's online all the time, shopping. That's why she's going to get scammed. Well, that doesn't necessarily mean shopping. Like I came to mind the dating site. Remember I told you the scam. out there, Kathy, they're not real.

They have pictures, like you could kind of tell them. They use the word M-A-M instead of I-M. They'll go, M doing this or M-going. Like, are you kidding? I got scammed when I first did it, like, years ago, 15 years ago. Okay, so I was right. All right, accidentally sent a screenshot to the person they were talking about. Who's most likely?

I know it's you. Just fess up. You've done it. I probably have. Yeah, Susan don't say, oh, shit, I just sent to the wrong person. I'm like, oh, you're getting caught sometimes sending something bad. No, I never say anything that bad. Nothing that I can't say to their face.

I mean, I might be embarrassed, like, but hey, you should know. I told you the story about when I went to Italy and one of my clients, I never wrote in the diary ever, but I used to have a copy book under my bed when my boys were going through five years of hell. and I would write down my thoughts at night just to get me through it was my way of therapy but this client I was going to do my eat pray love and I was going to Italy for 15 days by myself and she gave me like a journal and it was great I wrote everything all my experiences what I thought of what I felt the train ride from A to B long story short at the end of the 15 days I flew over to Barcelona to meet a girl from work who wanted to go on this trip with me and there was no way

I was doing that. But I'll meet you in Barcelona. And she was very particular. And like she doesn't like morning. She sleeps in. She's an only child. You can't get in a cab. She gets car sick.

She's got to be in the front. If they have air fresheners, we got to get out. You can't talk to her in a cab. Like a lot. Long story short, I tiptoe in the morning, breast my teeth, my bathing suit by the toilet so I can sneak out of the room so I don't disturb her. I go have breakfast.

I'm having a little cup of Chino and I'm writing. So I see her go to the beach I was there about an hour and a half And I go down to the beach And my book's sitting there And I say hi About 45 minutes in She was in the water

I was in the water She comes out and she goes Oh is this your journal My heart skipped the beat I go mm-hmm Do you mind if I randomly just read it I go oh shit I hope to God you said yes

I said not at all Knock yourself out. She reads the middle. She opens a random page, read a couple pages. She was like, oh, my God, you should write. She goes, I felt everything you described. I could picture it. So where are we going with this story?

Listen, listen. She goes to another part, and I'm feeling it coming. Kathy, I know it's coming. And she's like, I'm serious. And she goes to the very last page, and you had to see the expression. I'm looking at her. She's like, really? And she keeps reading it.

It was all about her. And she closes the book and goes, I'm that bad? I said, I tell the truth. You're hard to love, but I do love you. That's how it is. That's a very long-witted story. Congratulations. Oh, who's talking about long-winded?

Who has anybody read their diary? I'm starting. It's not a diary, though. I never looked at it like that. My thoughts? Look it up in the dictionary. Diary equals your thoughts. But you know what?

It was the truth. And we talked about it afterwards. Well, then that's what you get for asking. She's cruel, people. That wasn't cruel. It was real, honest. Oh, my gosh. All right.

All right. Okay, fell asleep in the middle of an important event. Oh, guilty. Have you? Yes. Okay. Have you? I fall asleep in school.

and in college before but not not an important event okay get a tattoo on a whim no i no neither one of us would do that no no create a fake profile online just to spy on sound i did that with my friends one i was going to say i bet you would do that yeah hell yeah okay you're more likely i'm going to go on that all right got what accidentally start a fire oh hell that who do you think that That would be me. Probably more than once. Remember I did it in St. Martin? Oh, yeah, but you don't think it would be me since I don't call it.

No, Kathy should not be in the kitchen, right? Yeah. It would be an accident, though. Oh, I'll say I love you first in a relationship. Susan, Susan, Susan, yeah. Forget someone's name mid-conversation. Daily. I've done that.

Yeah. Daily. Daily. We both do that. It's called aging. All right. Oh, wait. Oh, come on.

Oh, why would they even write this one? I don't, Susan, you don't even, guys, I want y'all to listen, pack way too much for a weekend trip. Susan is going to weigh on a little quick trip here. A week. She doesn't need anything. She's got enough for a month and she's saying, oh, I got to take another suitcase. This girl has to have underwear that match her bras, that match her shoes, that match her ear, Oh, my God, it's ridiculous.

I like to have choices. Some people, when they pack, they go, this is for Monday, this is for Tuesday, this is for Wednesday. I go, what if you don't feel like it? What if you feel like throwing a... Suck it up, buttercup and put on your dress and get moving. Look, who's talking? Can I just remind you of two weeks ago that Kathy and I both had to go buy another suitcase, second year and a row, by the way, another suitcase for all the things we bought.

Excuse me, good friend. Who bought a suitcase last year? You did. Okay, you bought one this year with me. Okay, see, it's two to one. And the only reason, I could have fit all mine, but I would have had to pay $100 for overweight, where I get two bags free.

All I'd do is pay the price of the suitcase. Can you hear Bachelor Nation? They're all crying for you, Susan. You poor thing. You poor baby. And this is why I don't have enough of retirement, but I look good. And she looks good. She shops until she drops.

Look, who's talking if you guys only knew the way she shopped this time and she can't blame me. I'm just saying. All righty. Okay. Have a secret situation. No one knows about what's a situation ship, Kathy? A situation should be. A situation should be anything.

It could be a relationship with someone. It could be I robbed a bank and no one knows. That's a situation. Well, a situation or. a relationship it's just a thing it's a I have a secret thing let's say that that no one knows about situation relationship I'd say you

I think you're right actually because I don't tell my life's an open book well my life's mostly an open book but I do have a few secrets oh Jesus send a risky text after two glasses of wine I don't know bachelor nation who do you think on that one because you know after two glasses I am two sheets to the way because I'm not a good drinker

and I've seen Susan do it I've seen her send text Susan what are you doing I'm just sending a little text don't put your phone down no no I'm just going to send a little text that would be sure wait it says risky I don't know now be careful

they're not risky no risky just means like do you want to regret this in the morning yeah exactly exactly fake and emergency to leave a bad date i've done it i really haven't i just not an emergency i just said my my you know my i got to go my kid you know what i said there's you see that bus out there it's got my name all over and i got to catch it how about getting banned from a dating app no oh neither one of us

oh why i mean you have to be pretty stupid to do that well i've told people off i mean i mean i I've reported a lot of people. Oh, I have too. Yeah. I mean, on my Apple phone, delete and report junk and block and report people, I'm all over. It's like a full-time job. I don't know. What do you people out there do?

Huh? Tell us the truth. After two glasses of wine, do you send a text that you may not be happy about the next day? I mean, I'm guessing most of us when you reach a certain age, have. done some of these things. I think many people have Irish to exit at a party. They've gone through their partner's phone. That's like legal.

I'm sorry. Packing, what, going through someone's phone? No, exiting without saying a bye Irish way is legal in my book. Well, I don't think. It's legal. Well, I was going to say legal, I mean, ethical or legal? Legal covers everything. Or not.

Okay, this was too much fun. We thank you all of our listeners today. We hope you know a little bit more about how Susan packs for her weekend trips that she has enough clothes for a month. Can I just next episode, let me talk to you about Kathy packing for a trip. It takes 45 FaceTime calls. She's got to try it on. She doesn't know how to hold the phone when she's getting dressed. I get dizzy.

I'm ready to throw up. I'm like, get an iPod stand. Can I just explain to your phone? Can I explain to you why? Because I want to look nice, but I don't care if everything matches. I'm more about going and having the good time, but I don't want to be embarrassed and have someone say, what the hell does she have on? Which I would never let you out of the room.

I wouldn't let you look bad. Would you let my hair go blonde, though? Probably not. So much for that. Make sure you follow Bachelor Happy Hour as we have new stuff coming out every week. And I don't know about you guys, but you don't want to miss this stuff. Am I still talking? Look at her talking right over me.

Can you zip it for one minute? Let me finish my line. Go ahead, Kathy, get it out. I know. I just can't. Like, at this point, do people not know that we have new episodes coming out? Well, we're supposed to remind them. Listen, I want to just, before we leave, I want to do one more public service announcement.

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Ciao. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly and now I'm seriously suspicious. Wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, luckily, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend's been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone.

Hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That seems inappropriate. Maybe find out how it ends by listening to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts, and on the local, latest episode of Politics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't say publicly? Many of them are in fear of their political lives. We continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your constituents and there's life after Congress. Make sure to listen to this episode of Politics on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your

podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Yumanzo. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you.

Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. Hi, it's Honey German and I'm back with season two of my podcast. Grazias, come again. We got you when it comes to the latest in music and entertainment with interviews with some of your favorite Latin artists and celebrities. You didn't have to audition? No, I didn't audition.

I haven't auditioned in like over 25 years. Oh, wow. That's a real G-talk right there. Oh, yeah. We'll talk about all that's viral and trending with a little bit of cheesement and a whole lot of laughs. And of course, the great bevras you've come to expect. Listen to the new season of Grasias Come Again on the IHeartRadio app,

Apple Podcast, or wherever you get, Podcasts. I just normally do straight stand-up, but this is a bit different. What do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? Answer, a new podcast called Wisecrack, where a comedian finds himself at the center of a chilling true crime story. Does anyone know what show they've come to see? It's a story.

It's about the scariest night of my life. This is Wisecrack, available now. Listen to Wisecrack on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is an IHeart podcast.