Bachelor Happy Hour - Our Plastic Surgery Updates | Golden Hour

Episode Date: October 18, 2024

Today on Golden Hour, Kathy and Susan are joined by their bestie (and nurse for the week) Nancy! Our hosts are freshly post-op from some plastic surgery, and they are giving you all the updates! We kick off today's episode recapping Wednesday's episode of “The Golden Bachelorette.” Then, we're getting into their procedures, Nancy's caretaking, and more. Plus, the trio lends a helping hand and gives their advice to a listener in need! Tune in now to hear all this and more and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is an I-Heart podcast. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, luckily, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend's been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone.

Hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That seems inappropriate. Maybe find out how it ends by listening to the OK Storytime podcast and the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics and on the latest episode of Spolitics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't say publicly? Many of them are in fear of their political lives. We continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your constituents. and there's life after Congress. Make sure to listen to this episode of Politics

on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Yumanzoor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD,

oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, Psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour.

Thanks for joining us today, Susan. I'm so excited to be back. We have so much stuff to tell today. And if you haven't heard any of our past ones, You definitely want to hear this one. So go check those out before you see us today. We're sharing everything. We are.

And you know what? If you have a question for us and after today's episode, you're going to have lots for us. All you have to do is go to bachelornation.com slash golden hour and send them our way. You're going to blow up our computer after today. So to start with, let's talk about Jones episode last night. Okay. But first, we've got Nancy with us today.

We just want you all that Nancy's going to weigh in, too. So here we go. Last night's episode. In a word. Sad. Sad. Nancy. Quiet.

Mark. Let's talk about Mark. Oh, poor Mark. He thought she had her. I love that man, but, like, they were on that boat, and they're driving along, and I think John was, like, grasping, like, what can we talk about? Finally, she goes, beach, and then she goes, have you finished when they drank their champagne? And he gave, like, one word, like, one word answers, the conversation didn't flow.

No, but I think he. He thought, based on what we saw, what I saw, he thought that they had a really good date. That's what I mean. And then I think he was blindsided. Yeah, but here's the thing, guys. Here's the thing. The show is 90 minutes, two hours. It could have been two days, the silence, like the airtime of what it took to say nothing.

I felt so uncomfortable for him and so uncomfortable for job. Although when they got to the back of the boat where the cheese. Brad was and all they did communicate a little, but once again, they talked about how he had the bird. What was it? The humming bird that came and they shared that. Well, I think by this episode, I want to see some more uplifting things. Yes. And it seemed to keep going back to his ex-wife, his former wife. Well, and Joan, too. Joan, talking about her John and his. We need more hope. We need more love. We need to look for. Can I just say this. dress she had on.

Oh, my gosh. I handed to Harry. Wait, Nancy, are you surprised that Susan has turned the conversation to fashion? No. Shocker. We're still on Mark on the boat. Right. Mark was in love with that dress she had to be.

He ought to be. She looked good in that dress. Let's go to the event with, well, first of all, can we just skip by Pascal and his tidy whitey's? That was hysterical. No, no. That was his stark. He was proud, too.

He was proud. I give him a lot of credit for doing that. I can't. That sounds like something I would do that. You and Pascal. I want to see you in Tidy Whitey Susan. Good luck. You and Pascal.

Okay. Let's talk about Keith for a second. They go on the date and they go and they're both, they're having a wine tasting and it's 32 years. Fun day. And fun day. Until they talk. But then they talk to the. I'm sorry.

Until they don't. They talk about 32 years of marriage. We're crying again. like what do we know from the ex-wife they haven't talked in 10 years what do we know about Keith his wife was a drug out of him he raised his kids

so we know he's a good guy he stood up to the plate otherwise we didn't learn anything else about hobbies or what he wants to do in the future or I don't think Joan could have been excited about what he was saying when she said give me one one day of retirement what you would do

remember he had not really much to say I mean it was just she needed to hear some exciting let's wake up and have coffee go outside look at the sunshine maybe we'll blow leaves or maybe we'll get to that in a minute okay wait a second what about what about um the whole deal with um chalk at the bowling alley i mean first of all you know he was obvious again it's obvious to me that's our man yeah we we all think it's pretty clear Chalk is getting a lot of television. Well, I will give Chalk credit, though.

Yeah. Because he's making an effort. Yes, he can tell that he sees. He wants Joan. He's going to go grab her at the bowling alley, sip aside her, and he's trying to take over. Who was it? One of the guys said, you, Chuck,

they're all of us on this group date. Can you get off of her for a minute so we could have so long? That was gone. He didn't stop. His arm went right back around, June. Yeah, but wait a minute. Joan, we, listen. We know Joan, right?

We're friends with John. Joan did not look comfortable. She kind of was, her body language is like, oh, a little. She wasn't. So her sheet were up, she was leaning in. But she wasn't cuddling him like this. She was not leaning in. She was kind of straight up.

He had his arm around her like that. Careful of the boobs. Sorry. It all goes back to her. Always about Susan. I don't know. I think this, this episode we're getting close. You know, hometowns are next week.

I think it's pretty clear that a lot of these guys, as kind as they are and as many life experiences I've had, they're really struggling to open up, at least it appears that way on the episode when it comes down to having a date with John. And are they ready? You wonder, are they really ready to move forward? I don't think Mark's ready, do you? I think Mark broke through something last night and the shock telling him that it wasn't going to be them. but I think he's actually ready now. He accepted that, that it wasn't going to be Joan,

but I think now he's more open and kudos to Mark, right? And I think that's what this show has done a lot for Charles. He had resolution, but he's ready to go out and find love. So I think it's a good thing. That's the good side of the show, I think, and her dress, of course. Well, and I just think Joan, the goal here is for Joan to find love, and I think she does, and we have to keep that in mind. But these guys are just, I think it's sad that they are struggling so much to find conversation.

And maybe it's not that in real life, but on the show, it's just missing that. Can I just say one thing? If this camera crew for a bachelor for anybody followed us around for the last 36 hours, I'm telling you, we'd have the highest ratings. But this is Joan's season soon. So it's not about you. It's about John. It's about Joan. Right back to Joan.

It's Joan. Of God, that show is done. All right. Well, we love the episode. We can't wait next week for hometowns, but... Yeah, that's going to be fine. What do you think? Who do you think she's going to...

I said chalk from the beginning. I did too. But we haven't seen the hometowns. Maybe there's more... I think there'll be more... Listen, there'll be more drama. There is going to be drama coming. There's some kind of twist, you think?

I think so. I think so. There has to be. Oh, yeah. We're going to get twist and turns. turns. I'd be shocked. Literally, I'd be shocked if shock did not get this hotel

even, wouldn't you? I think she's had the most connection with us. On the camera, that's all we've seen. We don't know. Maybe somebody leaves us back. Maybe somebody, who knows? So Nancy's here with us today to help us review Jump Season, but she's here for another go away. So this episode, ladies

gentlemen, is going to be a little different today. We are going to talk a lot about what happen with Kathy and I and Nancy being here to help us. It's more about plastic surgery today. Yeah, this is about real. People say Kathy and Susan are real. You have no idea how real we're about to be. Nancy here. Hi, Nancy. Hi. I'm just recovering. It's noon. I just got up because I was up all night. She actually came in my room and woke me up at 1.30 in the morning to take my bed. Okay, but let's back up for a minute. Let's tell everybody what's been going on. I flew from Texas to Philly. Susan took me in for plastic surgery. I had a lower facelift. And I had CO2,

which is a very strong laser. I had IPL laser, which takes care of the brown spot. I PAA is a beer, Susan. And it's a grocery store. Okay. So I did not have beer. I had an IPL laser. And then I had another laser for my chest. It's all to resurface skin, get rid of brown spots. My face puffed up. I look like Humpty Dumpty or Squibobbubb Spongeb Square Pants. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly and now I'm seriously suspicious. Well, wait a minute, Sam, maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot.

He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now hold up, isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor and they're the same age. It's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him?

Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet. So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I'm Jemail Hill, host to the Sports and Politics Podcasts Politics. And on the latest episode of Politics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't say publicly? Many of them are in fear of their political lives. And that's been part of the challenge.

But we continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your constituents, to stand up for your constituents. And there's life after Congress. And you should be willing to actually want to be able to look back on your time in the House of Representatives knowing that you can keep your head held high because you did the right thing. Donald Trump is gone in three and a half years. But their legacy or their failure to stand up to the extremism and the unprecedented assault on America as we know it will be with them forever. Make sure to listen to Spolitics on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast.

Hi, my name is Enya Yumanzoor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes.

Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free IHeart Radio app. Search Emergency Intercom. And listen now. Susan had her surgery yesterday. What happened to you, Susan? So I had a lifestyle lift, and I also had a breast reduction in lift,

so I can't wait for my girls to be up higher, but I'm afraid they're going to be so small. I'm not going to recognize them. So we are here. Nancy came, drove down from Alexandria to help take care of us, and we have been, she is a great nurse, folks. I've been, well, I was supposed to be taking care of, The two of them.

The patient. That's easy. Give them medicine. Get them water. However, when you're at Susan's house. No, you tell them. So when she got here, I was blowing leaves. She goes, oh, I like to do those things.

I do. I love power tools. Since then, Nancy has blown the leaves and I have to emuls them after she's... With the lawnmower. Okay, so Susan, sweep the floor, wipe the counters. What's wrong with this picture? I'm in all about my... And then we swept the floor and Susan goes, Nancy, can you come over here because she can't bend over?

That's my job. I'm supposed to be taken care of. There's one little fleck. There's one little fleck over there that you missed. I'd like to say that it's not Susan's on drugs, but no, this is Susan. Can I do say one thing about that one Percocet I took? I was feeling no pain, girls. She was dancing.

Then when it went away, my ears were burning. Okay, so here's the laugh. I don't take a lot of pain pills. My ears have been hurting a lot, but Nancy and I in the corner were saying, oh, God, it's going to be awful. Susan's going to be a baby. Susan's going to be a baby. I kept warning them. Just don't make fun of me.

I know I'm going to cry. I can't take pain. So yesterday. So we made sure that we had pain meth. It was one thing. I did pray. I talked to the Lord. I really did.

I said, please help me get through this. Yes. And I prayed to the Lord that I look at Humpty Dumpty. And magic, here I am. So yesterday the doctor asked me for a picture. He says, because I said, my face is really blown up. They said, could you send us a picture? It was bad.

It was bad. It was so bad. They said, get in here. They said, can you be here in 30 minutes? Sure. Nancy gets in the car, drives me. Susan did surgery. She doesn't know what's happening.

She could care less. She's, you know, in Perkissette. So, I was under. Excuse me. I was in the O-R. Whatever. So Nancy drives me in, and you know you're in trouble when you walk into a doctor's office and they all look at you and everyone doesn't say where they go, come right back.

No, they said, hurry. Hurry right back here. And they put ice packs on me. I can't even tell you. I looked in the mirror and it was like, who am I? Now, today it's a little better. You're down to here. You're good.

I think you're looking like Kathy up until about right at the top of your team. I mean, I've always said I'd like to look different, but I didn't have this in mind. Right. And today I'm going to take my first show. So I might even do the unveiling for you guys. Oh, God. Are you ready? No, no, no.

Right, no, don't do it now. Why? Do the unveiling for the screen. Okay. Susan breaks every rule when it comes to surgery. Every rule. I'm nervous. Easy.

Oh, God. Okay. Oh, I got a chin strap. Look at her. She looks like Santa Claus with a, had a shave. Oh, okay. There we go. Okay.

Oh, it's going to be stuck. If it's stuck, don't pull. Oh, I can't even. If it stuck, don't know. So while they're doing the unveiling, let me just say a lot of people have written in saying, why did you do this? You're beautiful the way you are.

Thank you to all you people. Don't pull it. I can't pull it. Thank you for all the nice comments that were beautiful. But we're doing this for ourselves. We're not doing it for anyone else. Right? Yeah.

We're doing it for ourselves. Yes. And I think that make me feel good. I'm 67 years old. Why should not? And I think the thing with the CO2 laser, which you can go and get, even without doing any plastic surgery. Oh, here she is.

Don't pull from. You've got the flying nun. The flying nun. I used to watch that. Look at that jaw line. Beautiful. And the nice thing is with the laser, though, even if you don't have plastic surgery, you too, everybody can get a CO2 laser and it refreshes your skin.

Some people do it once a year. Don't I look refreshed? No, but your skin ends up looking. like a baby's butt. So these two, you'll see them next week, and you can see if their face looks like a toddler. So let me just say, people, it doesn't. This did not hurt.

Okay, Susan, that's enough. This did not hurt. It doesn't hurt. It's just tight, and my face feels like it's gravel. Like, this is all the. It's taking all the dead skin off. Yeah, it's going to take, I might lose five pounds. It's going to take off all the skin.

And suppose I would look normal again just with smooth skin. I have a lot of brown spots. sun damage. So apparently it's going to get rid of it all. So we've had a lot of support and a lot of support from Bachelor Nation. Caitlin Bristow reached out to me yesterday and said, wait, did I miss something? What did you do? And so I told her and she said, oh my goodness. And she said, we're brave. She said that this is something she thinks she will do. Also, all our producers from our show We have all been warm and fuzzy. We hear from some of the producers said to me on the phone last night,

oh, and we're going to send Susan and Kathy a gift. I was like, we're going to have to pay her. No, but I think I need a gift. You have the gift of friendship. However, Nancy's going to do this, and Kathy and I are both coming to take care of on Nancy's house. That's right. We are really, honestly, true, true friends. Would I have a question.

Do you think we started a trend? I have a lot of leaves. Wait, does this mean? It's February. I'll be shoveling snow. I know. Do I have to cook? Yeah, Kathy, I got that.

You got a clean. I got a clean. But no, really, we're so happy to be able to share this with all of our Bachelor nation bands, everybody, and we did this for us, not for anything else, but to make ourselves feel. And I would say, don't you think it's sort of like 50-50. A lot of people have said, yay you, yay for being public about it and sharing it. The funny thing for me is.

people said, I can't believe it. She's having another facelift. Friends, here it is. This is the first one. Remember they said, yeah, cheek implant? They said no cheek implants. These are mine. But that was because of a hair change.

Yeah. It's got all those comments. But most people have been very supportive. Very kind. Yes. And we've even had people that already called the doctor's office. Yeah. Right. That's amazing.

Yes. Kudos for that. Well, I think we all feel good. And as we all get older, you feel good about, doing something for yourself and taking good care of your skin and somehow this doesn't feel like I'm taking care of my skin on now wear million sunscreen yeah big hats I'll take care of this face that's for sure right is our life going to change no no yes there's still no men in our DMs unfortunately but you'll feel more confident

we're going to look at guys and feel good I mean now I have a little I at least have an excuse like who wants to date this it's going to get better though but thank you all for listening and allowing us to share all this wonderful stuff with you know every day we're sharing stuff on her Instagram and if you have questions you can write into

bachelornation.com because we like we said there's nothing off limits we'll share whatever where you put your reviews and your questions you can even question about the surgeries and about Nancy I'm going to put my phone number if anybody needs me to come take care of them

She's up for hours. I also do yard work. Nurse Nancy. Nurse Nancy is the best. And I push pain predication. Yes, she does. Even at 1.30 in the morning. You have to stay on top of your pain.

I love you. Yeah. Thank you. This has been, we love Nancy. We love each other. We love being a part of Bachelor. We really do. You guys are the best.

So in case any of you are wondering, we're not done yet. I'm not done yet. On Monday, I'm going to go get SpongeBob face. I'm going to do the CO2 as well on Monday and kind of go through what I've watched Kathy's face do. It's a little scary. But wait, just so you all know, the doctor already said the reason that my face blew up like a balloon is that I have thin skin as opposed to being thin skin, which I'm not. I have thin skin. And so that blows up and gets very red.

They said Susan's won't be that way. We'll see. I'm going to take pictures. But it doesn't hurt. I want everyone to know that if you've ever thought about how. having laser, it doesn't hurt. It just looks scary. I'm ready for Halloween, but it doesn't hurt.

And Kathy is looking at the girls being up high and small and she's thinking maybe her should be up higher. I don't know if that's another surgery. That might be. These cones of, what is it? What's the stuff they put in? Silicose. You guys, I am from another country.

I mean, these silicone things that they put into you, I don't have any. It's an implant. I feel very left out right now. She's a little old school there, yeah. But the implant is to, I wanted a lift and a reduction because I always thought that you could see my breast entered the room before I did. Yeah. Did not want that.

And I'm 67, so they were love. So I wanted it lifted up. But to stay rounded up top, they do have to put something in. All I know is I had a breast reduction done 20 years ago. And those three children that nursed ruined my boobs. That's what they do. That's what they do. But I do know one thing, it's not surgery,

but I promise out loud on this podcast that I not only am going to take care of my skin, but I'm going to work out again. I'm going to take care of my body. And I'm going to get into shape. I mean, maybe not the best shape, but for 67, I'm going to build some muscle. You know what? It's about doing your best, Susan. I'm so proud of you working out.

It's all about taking care of ourselves and feeling good about ourselves. This isn't, we didn't do this for another man. We, or a man. Is there a man? Yeah, I didn't do it for me. There will be. There will be. I know it. But it's about making ourselves feel good. And you know, it's a personal decision.

Some people want to do it. Some people don't. But I don't know. It looks like I have earrings on. I don't know what they are. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly and now I'm seriously suspicious. Oh, wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra.

Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor, and they're the same age.

And it's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them. I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him. because he now wants them both to meet. So do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I'm Jamil Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts Politics.

And on the latest episode of Politics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't say publicly? many of them are in fear of their political lives and that's been part of the challenge but we continue to say to them you were elected to defend your constituents to stand up for your constituents and there's life after congress and you should be willing to actually want to be able to look back on your time in the house of representatives knowing that you can keep your head held high because you did the right thing Donald Trump is gone in three and a half years but their legacy or their failure to stand up to the extremism and the unprecedented assault on America as we know it will be with

them forever. Make sure to listen to Spolitics on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Humanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free iHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now.

My surgery, it's going to be in, I think, January or February. And I'm going to be doing the CO2 laser. a little tweak. I mean, doing the lifestyle, right? Just a little bit. And you know what, Nancy? That's just a little bit.

When people tell what it did that little bit. Where's mine? I already have your swollen. But you could see your incision line turn to the side. Look, that looks amazing. I mean, there's such many minds. I'm so excited. It's, it's, I don't know.

Well, it's, here's the thing, though. People say that when you start plastic surgery, it's hard to stop. We don't have that much time, Kath. No, but. I agree with that. I think you can get in a mode of, well, I did that. Now look at my lips or look at my neck. And I think you're right.

I think you have to just do it a little bit. I don't want to look different. I'll never give up Botox, though. Oh, listen. I want to get cheek implants. Oh, stop. I'm kidding. I have cheeks.

Everyone thinks I had my nose done and a cheek implant. No, I'm not doing it. I'm not doing it. But this is us. We are real. We love that you're tuning in. And we can't wait to share more. What do you think?

I think we should do it. And we're going to be there for Nancy, I promise. And guys, when you think about writing and say, Nancy, don't do it, you know what people are going to do. You know they're going to write and say, Nancy, you're beautiful just the way you are. You know what the answer is? Thank you. And? But we're going to do what we want to make us feel good.

That's right. Yeah. I want to take care of my skin. So, guys, we do have a little bit of extra time. How about if we do one listener question and let Nancy in on it? Okay. Sounds good thing. You like that idea?

Not only does Nancy Moliard. She has very good advice. Okay. So what we do is read this question and we each give a piece of advice. And it's exactly how you feel from your heart, you know, what you think about this. All right. Kathy, would you like to read it? Sure, let's go.

Here we go. Hey, Kathy and Susan, my wife loves your podcast and recently got me into it. I feel like you guys would be the perfect people. to help me right now. My wife and I have been married for almost two years and I love her so much. I recently screwed up big time on her birthday. For some reason, when I made dinner reservations to celebrate, I completely mixed up the date of her birthday. So when we got to this restaurant, she's been wanting to try for ages on her actual birthday. We didn't have a reservation and the place was completely booked. The guy didn't really help when you said, I'm sorry, your reservation was

for next week, not today. She was disappointed and her feelings were hurt, understandably. But she was so understanding about it and even forgave me right away. Honestly, that made me feel even worse because I know she was really looking forward to it and I let her down. To make matters worse, things have already been a little tense lately when it comes to stuff like this. Between my best friend's bachelor party and my crazy work schedule, I've missed quite a few things she wanted me to go to. She knows that these are either scheduling mistakes or things I just cannot miss and are out of my control. But I can tell she's been bummed out, even though she's tried to be understanding about it all. Now our anniversary is coming up.

I'm thinking big diamonds. Now our anniversary is coming up and I really don't want to mess this up. I want to do something special and thoughtful to show her how much I appreciate her and make up for missing some of these important moments. I just don't know where to start or what would feel meaningful. enough. Any ideas for her I can make our anniversary unforgettable in a good way this time and show her how much she means to me. I don't want her to feel like I'm taking her for granted. I'm really bad at this so I need all the ideas I can get. Thank you so much and love you guys. He sounds like a sweet. He sounds like a nice. Nancy, yeah. Go ahead, Nancy. What do you think? Well, the first thing

I think is I would do something as a surprise. I would find out what's her most other than that restaurant, you could go back there. But what about a little weekend away? But a total surprise and then send her a note or send her something beforehand and say, you know, pack for the week, pack for a few days, not telling you, you know, pack for the beach or pack for cold weather and not tell her, but then say, I am so, you know, be vulnerable and say, I just can't believe that I did that and forgot. But I think the main thing is show action.

I think when somebody can tell you how great you are and how much they love you, but when they show you, when they show you how much they love you, it's all that. I love the idea of doing a surprise, Nancy. I think the surprise trip, make her feel really good. Because she'll know that it's not something you're saying, it's something you're doing. You took the time to plan something. And if you take her like on a weekend retreat, do like couples massages, have things. planned that shows her how much you don't think and little things during the weekend yeah

first of all I got to send my hat to him yeah for him to come and ask this kind of a question and say everything that he did yeah I think he's a good guy do you think he has a single brother he's definitely capable do you have three single brother I couldn't agree with you both more and then have a special gift yeah but having everything lined up whether it's wine tasting massages whatever it will be a hot tub naked I don't okay wait a ladies Ladies, ladies, come on. What? All of that's fine and good.

If it were you, you'd love the weekend, but wouldn't you want just a little bobble? I think a bobble, if you can do it, never would never turn jewelry down. Jewelry, Susan. Oh, some diamonds. Remember in the beginning when I said have that special gift there? Yeah. That's what I was referring to. A bobble.

And by bobble, we do, you know, some diamonds. Diamonds are a girl's best friend. But emeralds aren't bad either. Well, it's an anniversary to depending on which one. Yeah, forget it. If the, hey, let me say. If it's your second anniversary in its paper, get over it. Put the diamond in paper and call on a day.

I also think giving her the gift first, because then she'll think that's her only gifts. Or perhaps give the weekend, and she thinks that was it in the very last moment. No, no, no. I like that too. You want to wear the bubble. Yeah, but after you have the bibles, she's like happy and. anniversary, you know, back and forth. And then she would never expect to go on a trip, a little trip.

You know what I said? I just hope she remembers to get him something after all the Falms he did. Can I just say, though, this, I love this being the romantic that we all are. She is so lucky to have a guy like this who is really, so congratulations to you. You're doing good. Just the fact that you're writing to us and thinking about what you can do to make it special. We love this. Gives us hope for our futures.

We want to find a guy something like. you. That's what he said. Where's his brothers, his father, his uncle? Thank you so much for writing it. And let us know how it goes. Let us know what you decide. We can't wait to hear. If you need some advice, you could call us. We could plan this. And that's another thing. If you don't feel comfortable like you're going to get it right and do it, do you have a secretary or a best friend or her best friend to help you plan this, there's nothing wrong with that. Or a travel agent, you know. It's not that hard. Reach out. There's a wonderful, wonderful, amazing thing called Google. Look it up.

Right. Good luck to you, babe. Okay, well, that is going to do it for today. Oh, my gosh. We're going to go soak our faces in vinegar. I'm taking my first shower. Susan's going to take a shower. Nancy, it's time for you to get out and mow the yard. I know. That's coming. Oh, and I have trash duties. You'll see that later.

But we loved having this chat with you all. And again, if you have questions or comments, please feel free to follow us on Bachelor Happy Hour, Golden Hour, and write your questions into bachelornation.com slash golden hour. We look forward to hearing for you. And thank you for having me today. We love having you. And until next time, and maybe pray for more healing,

and we'll see you next time. Thank you. Ciao. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, luckily, it's back to school week on the

OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend's been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That seems inappropriate. Maybe find out how it ends by listening to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics. And on the latest episode of Politics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't say publicly? Many of them are in fear of their political lives. We continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your constituents. And there's life after Congress. Make sure to listen to this episode of Politics on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Yumanzo.

And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you.

Open your free IHeart Radio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. This is an IHeart podcast. Thank you.