Bachelor Happy Hour - Rachel Nance Part 1 — ‘Paradise,’ Falling Out, and a Fan Who Went Too Far | Happy Hour

Episode Date: August 11, 2026

Today on “Happy Hour,” we’re sitting down with Rachel Nance from Joey’s season of “The Bachelor”! Rachel is overdue for a FaceTime catch-up, so she’s here to ...give our girls all the tea. In part one of our interview, we’re diving into her single life, what dating has been like post-show, and so much more. She gives us her answer on whether “Bachelor in Paradise” was on the table; will we be seeing her on the beach? Then, she gets into a recent falling out she had with a certain someone in Bachelor Nation; where do they stand today? Plus, we’re getting the tea on a fan who took things way too far. Where do things stand today? Tune in now and make sure to check out part two, dropping tomorrow!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:03:01 Charity and I'm Rachel. And today we have Bachelor alum, Rachel Nance. Rache, welcome to Bachelor Happy Hour. Thank you. My other age and Charity and my sister. My sister. I'm like, I'm a little nervous and a great way for this episode because this is about to be our FaceTime catch up. Oh, hello. Rach, we're Terry and I have been planning to FaceTime. It's been like, no, no, we'll text each other like, hey, we should call you. I'm like, never do. And she's like, she's like, oh, I'm working nightship. I'm like, Okay, well, call me tomorrow. And then I'm like, oh, so sorry. Like, I either forgot or I'm like, just kidding.
Starting point is 00:03:35 I actually have a meeting. It's insane. And I'm like, this has been long overdue. So. And we like, I'm Ph. Oh, actually, I can't see you. I said, okay, that's fine. No, it somehow, I'm like, the universe doesn't want us to align right now.
Starting point is 00:03:47 And that's all right. Because in due time. Because it needs to happen right here. And thank you guys for allowing me to be in the presence of this FaceTime. I am so excited because Rachel, it has been a minute. since we have seen you on TV. First of all, why is that, will it ever change? And how has life been since?
Starting point is 00:04:11 Life's been full of a lot of ups and downs in the best way possible, I think. I would love to be back on TV. I think in the dating capacity. I don't think that's meant for me. Throw me in, like, amazing race. You know, throw me in, like, a military show where I need to survive. Let me show you my skills. But dating, I don't know if that would be an option for me.
Starting point is 00:04:33 Still single, if you can't tell. So why then? Because you just said you're single. Right. And you did so well the first time. Why not a second? I don't know. I'm really more focused on, I'm back in nursing.
Starting point is 00:04:49 And I started my little nursing Pilates brand that's been taking up a lot of my time. So that's kind of my boyfriend right now, I guess. still a single mom to my child, Noah, who is listening attentively on the bed. Yeah, I don't know. Why? Is there a show? Tell me what show. I mean, Paradise.
Starting point is 00:05:07 I heard, I heard that's her in paradise. Is renewed just in case you didn't hear that one? It is. Okay. Okay, here's the thing, though. Charity knows this. Y'all can't have me go, and if the list isn't good, I'm not going. Do you know what I'm saying?
Starting point is 00:05:20 Like, I'm not going to go, and they're all foul. Well, I would never entertain nor support such a thing. You know me. So if I have any say in it, my girl needs some good guys. So I'm actively recruiting and, you know, putting a word in or two. Right, because Rachel, it's so crazy that even though a season isn't airing right now, me and Charity had the honor of meeting so many incredible men from Taylor's season. So what would it take to get you on the beaches of paradise next year?
Starting point is 00:05:52 What is a characteristic or what do you want to see in someone in Parish? Because a lot of these men are men of faith. They have jobs. What are you looking for? Are they men of faith? Because I feel like some of them say that and charity knows who. It's just, you know, and it doesn't, it doesn't, it's not aligning with. Got to come back. But, yeah, I am. Man of faith is my number one. I don't hide that. I love, I love the Lord. I need someone who's confident in themselves because I feel like I have a lot of good things coming for me. and I between the show and now I have talked to men or tried to get to know guys and very quickly
Starting point is 00:06:31 I learned that what I'm working on almost diminishes what they do and they weren't in a sense and I think that's why I've been unsuccessful in dating is because they realize like oh she has she's like a lot of goals and she's doing all these things and because they haven't gotten there it makes them feel smaller than me so I think I need someone who's just more secure in themselves who's willing to lead and be independent in their own because I'm very independent, amongst many things. That's just the few. Yeah. So I do have a question because I obviously know more information than most, but are you
Starting point is 00:07:08 opposed to dating within Bachelor Nation? Like where do you stand with that? No, no, no, no. I think there's always, you know, one good human in a pile of mud. So I think that I, you know, there's, I'm never. always open. Yeah. Whatever is in store for me. Have I been successful? No. But still hopeful. Okay. I want to take this back. You said previously that there are men who said that they are men of faith, but maybe necessarily it's not aligning. What do you mean by that? And is it anyone
Starting point is 00:07:45 possibly that we could know? Yeah. I have nothing. I'm not going to say their name because I have nothing. bad to say about this person. I will always, always have love for him. I think certain things were handled differently than I would have. And Charity was... Like what things? I just think we were very close. We were really good friends. And the way I would have quote ended the friendship, I would have handled it differently. I am very loyal to my friends. and I think there's someone who's come in my life where we need distance. I always respect the person I've known longer, and I think I would have had more of a conversation or just shown my appreciation for that person.
Starting point is 00:08:34 And I don't think I received that from this person that was so close to. But again, I've nothing bad to say about him. Always will love him. And if he sees this, so sorry. But, you know, we had a good friendship that no longer, I think, exists anymore. And at the end of the day, I think it made me feel like I meant nothing to this person when we did a lot together. My family loved him and adored him. Still does. But and then when faith is put into it, I pulled you at a higher standard and standard that I don't see something my dad would
Starting point is 00:09:09 do because he's my best example of a man. I take that very personal. And so I'll love to this individual. Yeah, that was my question. Do you guys still communicate, if any? No, there's no communication. Wow. Or turkey. You said that he wasn't loyal in the sense of what loyalty to you? No, I think my loyalty to my friends is that if I know we have a closeness and I know we spend a lot of time together, if something were to change my first priority before distancing myself is to making sure that person is okay. and I didn't receive that.
Starting point is 00:09:52 So it sucked. It hurt, you know. I was like, you know, I'm very hurt. Now I'm getting over it. And I, you know, again, I always will respect him and have love for him. But if things aren't handled the way that I think I should have handled it, it just kind of stings a little bit. Yeah. Do you feel like there's ever, or do you feel like there's room for reconciliation or for things to,
Starting point is 00:10:17 maybe hopefully be mended yeah yeah i mean i'll see him again at some wedding and um yeah yeah it'll i have no hostility or i'm not if i were to see i'd never be angry again i absolutely i hope he's so happy with what he's doing um but i'm always open to being friends again if that's a possibility, but if it's not, I'm also okay because I've taken the time to be like, it's really fine things happen. And I still have friends who've supported me through it, even though maybe I'm more affected than this than he is. But yeah, I'm never, it's never a closed door. You mentioned that he had met your parents. That's a pretty big step. Yeah, because we were, we were really good friends. It wasn't like, it wasn't like he met a couple. No, no, no, no, no, no.
Starting point is 00:11:12 my family, also in Hawaii, everyone is like, obviously my parents met Charity and Don. They got obsessed with Charity and Dot. Literally love. It's disgusting how much they love them. But, you know, in Hawaii, everyone meets everyone's parents and instantly you're just taken in. That's just how it is. So for my family, it's like once you meet a friend of mine, instantly, they're just going to want to take care of you. And so when somebody abruptly changes, they're like, wait, what happened?
Starting point is 00:11:33 Like, they're like my son. So they were very sad about that as well because they, you know, they just thought they were okay. And it is okay because let me tell you something. What's next? We'll be what's next and we'll be greater. So with that being said, when do you feel like you are ready to put yourself back out? Like obviously you mentioned that you have a lot of projects, a lot of goals, things happening. But is there a desire or you're just like, honestly, no.
Starting point is 00:12:08 Like I don't want to date right now. have no interest like i would i'm i'm okay i'm covered right i am exhausted mama's getting up at 4 30 do you know i'm saying she's working 13 hours you know she got a dog so i am so ready to date i just would rather be single until it's worth it and i see some of my friends who are dating or engage or whatever and they tell me things i'm like oh i would rather just really really really wait But I have found myself lately because I'm going to be 30 soon. I have found myself feeling a little sad sometimes like, all my friends are dating and they're engaged,
Starting point is 00:12:50 having kids and buying houses. And I'm over here working on my little projects here and there. So I do find myself sometimes almost sad a little bit because you always think you're going to be somewhere that you're not. But then I look back a year ago and I'm way farther than I was a year ago. But yeah, I am ready to date if you know. one. It doesn't send me a resume.
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Starting point is 00:17:42 Listen to Bill and Juliana. The podcast. On the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your podcast. I feel what you're saying a thousand percent. I just turned 30 and it felt like I had this like midlife crisis because dating in California is so difficult. So I'm curious, how are you meeting guys when you do come across them? Are you on the apps or is it more in person? Oh, so, right.
Starting point is 00:18:15 So LA, we don't date in LA, sister. No, yeah. We don't do that. No, no, no. So people don't understand. So I live in OC now. And so it's a little bit different here. I have met people when I go out to events or through friends.
Starting point is 00:18:27 My one girlfriend ran a hinge for me for a little bit. And I did meet a guy in OC and we dated for two, two and a half months. And then cold turkey, nothing. So, yeah. Was that his doing it was cold turkey? No, we talked about ending things because I was like, it's not working. And it was totally fine. Be friends because I think being friends first is way better.
Starting point is 00:18:56 You know, you have a foundation. So we decided to be friends and then one day it just stopped. And I'll, and I'll just, okay, cool. That's totally fine. So right now I don't, I don't, I'm not meeting. I'm not meeting. I don't know how, right. You mean, you're in L.A.
Starting point is 00:19:12 So it's like. I haven't been on a date in over a year. Like, truly, it's difficult out here. And you said you were on the apps for. a second, but the guys on the apps aren't necessarily great. How are you feeling about reality TV, you guys? Because we do have some of them out here. Would you ever date someone who was on another show?
Starting point is 00:19:32 I would. I would. You know who, okay, so I don't watch reality TV. If you guys are watching Love Island, I know he has a girlfriend, so whatever. But my friend messaged me this picture of this guy. Oh my gosh. He was sent home and then came back because the girl, the guy that she chose was bad. he was Asian and white. I don't know what he's name is. This season? Carl.
Starting point is 00:19:55 Carl. Yes. So my friends, I mean. Oh my gosh. She was like, she's like, can you please find him? I want you guys to go on a date. And I was like, girl, I don't know who this man is. And I was like, girl. I'm like, no, he's totally wiped up with some girl, I think, from the show. So I was like, well, I was like, yeah. She sent me a photo. And she's like, you guys would be so cute together. I'm like, right. Right. If he was single sister. Like, let's be. Hello. Very key. And we will wait. Well, wait, because they don't have the best track record. Me and Charity just realized there's no one together from last season. So maybe just a couple months. Yeah. So, yeah, I'm like, this season I'm giving them X amount of, I hate to even say that. I'm like, I don't want to give people a timeline.
Starting point is 00:20:35 But that's the reality. But he is the one that's like number one on my list. And I'm like, if there is any great guys, it would be him. Because we obviously seen it on Love Island. We've seen his character. We've seen how he like, obviously handled his situation with Anaya. That's who he's with. So I'm holding out, but not holding my breath at the same time.
Starting point is 00:20:55 I don't know anything about him. My friend is texting me and she's like, he works out a lot and you work out. And, like, I forgot what she said. He seemed really sweet on the show. I don't know. She watched them. But no, I'm not against someone who did reality TV. As long as you don't want to be the center of attention more than I shouldn't.
Starting point is 00:21:15 Yeah. And, you know, that comes, it's a strange territory. I feel like they're the perfect example. It's a perfect example. He just don't care. Hello. Whenever I've been with Don and Charity, you know, Charity's out here, you know, she's taking her content and Dotton's just. Oh, like actually, yes, Rachel, he really couldn't care.
Starting point is 00:21:36 He could actually hit him and his big self. He's like up there looking at like looking up at this guy. I'm like brother. And he's just. No, he really is in his own zone. And I respect that as much as he respects what I'm doing. And it works. So, hey.
Starting point is 00:21:49 It's a different, you know, area code where he stands because he's so high up. Like, Charity's just literally doing her own thing. Homeboy, literally, it's, I love it. It literally works. I do have a question about dating and obviously dating, whether that's someone from reality TV or just a regular person. Are you prepared for someone or has this happened to where someone's like, I remember you or I recognize you from The Bachelor? Like, what is your response to that? Like, how do you handle those situations?
Starting point is 00:22:21 Okay, so it happened to me for the first time. The time that my friend did my hinge and I met the guy and we dated for a couple months, first of all, he was so sweet. He literally drove an hour to take him on my first date, opened every car door. He was so, I have nothing bad to say about him, a little Southern boy. But we went on our first date. We went on our first date and we were mini golfing. And so I'm going.
Starting point is 00:22:44 And this girl was like, Rachel. And so I said, I said, no. I was like, no, it's me. I get that all the time. It's crazy. I'm so bad because I was like, I don't want to come up. You don't know what that person is. So I was like, oh, no.
Starting point is 00:23:00 And she's like, from The Bachelor, right? I loved your season. Can we take a picture? Actually, she's like, it's okay. It's okay. I was like, oh, and so he's standing there and he thought we were just friends because he didn't fully, I guess, hear the end of two and I thought he heard.
Starting point is 00:23:13 So I walked away and he's like, are you good? Isn't that your friend? And I was like, oh, no, we'll just talk about it later. So later on in the night, he's like, what was that about? And then I said, oh, I was on a reality TV show. He's like, no way. I said, yeah, I did The Bachelor. And he goes, okay, that's okay.
Starting point is 00:23:31 Oh. And every date after, some, it's, they would come up. It was so random. They'd like, can we take a photo? And he's like, I've never realized that the Bachelor is that big of a franchise. And I said, yeah, I'm any of the brother. So, wait, I'm so curious, though, because it, never came up before you guys had the first date like he never that's so interesting it's hard to
Starting point is 00:23:52 bring it up and you i feel like for me it's do you want to bring that up would i be the type of person to date if i'm putting that as the first thing okay so my mom's tough my mom's at church trying to find me a husband that's actually probably the perfect place your mom at church and she's doing the lord's work but then she told me she met this guy she called me she's like rachel i met this guy six three like you're type to a t you know palm shaded plays volleyball like all the things and then she goes well we told him you were on the show and i said i was like why did you tell him that he's like why she's like i mean you're famous i said no no no no no no some people take that as oh you're that desperate to find someone like you don't know how someone is a brink show and so now
Starting point is 00:24:37 when i meet people and they ask for my instagram i just always say you can have it just don't look too deep into it if you find anything about me because because I don't know how they're going to respond. And so I had one guy, he found my Instagram. He's like, oh, so is this like your thing? Like, you just like to post pictures. I was like, yes, he is instantly. Oh, you know.
Starting point is 00:24:58 Oh, well, that's a message. Yeah. And so what if I do so? Hey, so you're ugly. Got it. So you want to do. Got it. Oh, that's crazy.
Starting point is 00:25:09 It's interesting how to handle it. Yeah, I think it's a really good conversation for everyone who's single in this space because it's like do you bring it up on the first date? Do you not? Because I have dates where I have brought it up like right away and dates when I've waited. And the times I've waited, it almost felt like you were hiding something. That's why I'm getting that. Yeah. I don't know how. I'm like, that's why I'm asking because I'm like, obviously I've never been in that position, but I'm like, I feel like I would just come out the gate. Like, this is what it is. Because I don't want anything to be uncovered. I hate saying that, but like uncovered or like,
Starting point is 00:25:45 thinking that they found something about me. It's like, no, here's it all. And if you like it, you like it. You know, I feel like it also saves time too, because if I got a response, like, that guy gave you, I see you later. But I think you can figure it out, like, if you just Google my name, they're, I mean, that's right. Yeah, I feel like we're all in this, like, age of internet where it's like, okay, I'm going to do some research on who I'm going on a date with. At least I am. I have this friend, and he's like, oh, can I call you? I'm in a meeting. He's like, yeah but you're a nurse like why do you have a meeting at 10 a.m.
Starting point is 00:26:17 And I was like, oh, no, it's a meeting for like this plan for this Pilates thing that I have coming up and he's like, oh, it's like they have so many questions. I'm like, let me just tell you guys that the game. I did this. You've heard the chaos. Now you can see it. Do we want to jump right in? Watch all your favorite podcasts from start to finish right inside the free IHard radio app. Make some noise. Oohie. Catch every laugh and eye roll on shows like Bestie listen. Hey, Jonas. and Las Culturistas.
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Starting point is 00:28:36 And then some days I'm here and I have to go pick you up at school and then bring you back. I was just like, hell no. This is a space where moms trade the highlight reel for the real real, whether you're a new mom, a veteran mom,
Starting point is 00:28:48 or just trying to make it to pick up on time. This season of Good Mom's Bad Choices is for you. Listen to Good Mom's Bad Choices from the Black Effect Podcast Network on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Bill, why is my eye twitching? Does this mean I'm in perimenopause? Maybe I have adult ADHD. I need to look this up.
Starting point is 00:29:09 Where's my phone? Juliana, your phone is hot to the touch. I think it's asking you for a break. You know what? Maybe I should just ask chat GPT. Or maybe we can. can ask an actual human. Yes, like a couple sex therapist. Whoa, that escalated quickly, but okay. Because I have questions. We have questions. And I bet everyone has questions. Like,
Starting point is 00:29:28 is it normal to sleep in separate bedrooms? We do that. How about this one? Is bribing your kids bad parenting or just negotiating? Oh, and I still do need to know why was my poop green that one time? Hypothetically, right? Okay, well, instead of letting the internet guess, we've got actual people answering these exact questions. And laughing with us has got to be better than spending three hours down a rabbit hole online. Listen to Bill and Juliana. The podcast. On the IHeart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your podcasts. I'm Emily Oster. I'm an economist and data expert. And I'm Perry Wilson. I'm a medical doctor. And this is our new podcast, Wellness Actually. Because you're getting a staggering amount of health and wellness information nowadays, and some of it is
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Starting point is 00:30:50 Listen to Wellness Actually on the Iheart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. And to flip it around, I wonder how the men from our franchise go into dating when they bring it up and how the women respond. We know how they go into it. It's very clear how they are all going into it. They love that. I have seen back when I tried to go on Hinge before I got banned, men who have been on this show with pictures of them on this show on their profile. I cannot.
Starting point is 00:31:38 Please, you know what? I need to hold my tongue. And sometimes, no, I would love to hear your opinion. No, I'm like, you actually don't need to hold your tongue. I'm like, this is the place to do stuff. To me, that's a pink job. Like, to me, that's for the girls. you know what I'm saying that's just that but that's my preference like some people love it my
Starting point is 00:31:58 preference is you have callous on your hand and you should be like doing something else separate from like I have no problem with you going on TV once but that's your whole like personality after it doesn't work for me okay so we now know that's not what rachel's looking for I'm totally like if you're like oh I did this oh my gosh everyone has a pass but if if your whole thing now is like I want to just keep doing that okay and you know what's something like disgusting about some of them is like they probably banked on this being their big break and I'm like oh my gosh and that's why I want to set you up with someone from her season there's like a few that I'm like perhaps I love Taylor's men we truly got to talk to them and I feel like they're
Starting point is 00:32:41 normal a lot of them are normal some of them not so much yeah me all men of faith and all men With jobs. Can we say a name? Okay. I believe his name is Ron. I feel like Ron and Rachel would be very cute. Ron. Is that...
Starting point is 00:32:59 Ron. Love Ron. We're kidding. Love Ron. Love Ron. That's all you need. Okay. Great.
Starting point is 00:33:05 I like him. I was like, okay, when I was interviewing, I was like, wait, very cute. You know? And I feel like maybe personality. I don't really know. I don't remember where he lives at, but... What's your type physically? send me his stash.
Starting point is 00:33:20 What was that, Rachel? What's your type physically? Do you like someone tall or what do you normally like? So, okay, this is so hard to say because growing up and back home, I've always dated shorter guys because everyone back home is so short. So my first was 5-8 and I'm 5-7. And so it never bothered me. Then when I moved to the mainland and I realized that there's something in the water here, I was like, they get bigger. I didn't know that.
Starting point is 00:33:45 Homegrown, baby. Cornbread and cornbread. I'm open to, I've dated, you know, I'm pretty open. I think my, I do kind of, kind of, my record shows that I date more like a certain look like a build. I like kind of fitness, taller. I like someone who doesn't talk as much as me. We're quiet.
Starting point is 00:34:10 We like them quiet. I don't know if Taylor's been her quiet. I have no idea. But like not like introverts. like I want you to talk, but I think, yeah, I don't know, I feel like Charity knows my type more than me, probably. I think so. Yeah. I don't think I really know my type.
Starting point is 00:34:28 I think so. You're close. Yeah. But listen, and sometimes, like, your friends also, like, you might have a preference, but I'm like, I feel like I do a good job at this. I make me off. In worst case scenario, I'm like, you guys might just be really good friends. But I feel like energies might, you know, there might be some compatibility there. So I think we should give it a shot.
Starting point is 00:34:53 A picture in the chat if you want to take a look. Okay, take a glance. Yeah, take a glance. Oh my gosh. Can I make this bigger? Very nice. Oh, wait, he's adorable. Hello.
Starting point is 00:35:05 What is he? Isn't he? I think he's, is he mixed with Filipino? Oh, gosh. Okay, wait. Okay, okay, okay. She said hands up and I'm ready. No, no, no. I don't know. I'm open. I'm open. You don't know? I always just feel like when they're a Filipino down the line are related. I don't know. Okay, okay, okay. See, I don't, I'm not, I'm not privy to that.
Starting point is 00:35:32 She's like, that's my cousin. Literally. Like, I met my mom's met someone who's like, oh, yeah, my great auntie's last name was Andres. That's my middle name. And my mom found like a third cousin randomly when she was out and like, yes. Yeah. We will just. act like that's not a thing. But I'm, I'm like, this is a chiseled man. This is a very sweet man. He's a good conversationalist. We had, we interviewed him on the podcast. So if you want to go and listen to that interview. Very nice. I feel like I have something up my sleeve here. Oh, I love being Cupid. Perhaps in Paradise, question mark, so I can watch it. Rachel, we have to meet him too. What are you talking about? We need to find, what are we doing here? But you like them a little bit. Rachel, you haven't been on Paradise.
Starting point is 00:36:15 yet. So this is your, you need to make a debut. Hello. I would, I probably, if I, whenever they film it, if I, if I were single, I wouldn't say no. Okay, so we have it here first. You have a, I was about to say. We will see Rachel, Nancy. Rachel Nance. Rachel Nance first hand. Yes. Strong maybe. It's a strong, strong maybe. But it depends, right. Like, I have so many, I don't know, like, I have so many good things coming. I don't know when they film. Like, you know. Summer? You know, we don't have to worry about that, you know? We don't have to worry about that. They have AC now.
Starting point is 00:36:47 Don't worry about it. Katie, you're always trying to get me to do something. I love you. I don't love you more. We'll see you in Paradise, baby. Yes, we will. Almost Paradise. I see it now.
Starting point is 00:37:00 I love that. Okay, well, speaking of Paradise, what is one thing that, I don't know if you watch the last season, what is something that you're like, it needs to change, or it needs to be better? Or I love this format. I loved how this was. So that makes me more competitive. impaled to go. So I didn't watch any of the seasons before, but I watched half of this one,
Starting point is 00:37:20 obviously, because my squirrel Leo was on it. And from what I could tell was, I think it needs to go back to its OG ways. I don't, I don't know the, the huge comparison, but it felt almost like it was becoming a game show versus find a date and find someone. Because if I found something, they would have just dipped and not even worried about any type of money. I think I would have been like, you know, let's just go home and be happy in Hawaii. and not talk to anybody. But I think the way it was filmed was beautiful. I do listen, Kathy on this, I would need her there every season.
Starting point is 00:37:53 I don't care. Kathy doesn't even have to find anybody. I need her present. Like she is a character. She's a prominent role for TV. So we need her. So I support it. She should be the bartender.
Starting point is 00:38:05 Oh, please. She wouldn't even measure. You know she pours a strong drink. She's not measured. But that's why when Auntie Susan came to talk to me, that was amazing. Like I loved, I loved having like an aunt or an uncle come to visit. I like the mentorship. I feel like that'd be really sweet, but it is doing a disservice to them when they have less time or like when they get sent to them and we have to pick someone. It was just a very
Starting point is 00:38:27 interesting dynamic. And then it wasn't there for love. It was like, let's just send them home to get more of, you know, whoever meant the most sense at the time. So yeah, I'm not sure, but I heard they had AC. So, hey. It doesn't matter. We will see you on Sand next. Next. So I'm very excited for this. This is like breaking news for everyone in Bachelor Nation. And you know what? With this news, I think one rumor can finally stop being spread around town. And you know what that rumor is. Wait, is it about me? It's about you. And it's about our beloved Bachelor Joey. The most insane. Okay. I actually forgot about that. The most insane, like really the most insane theory. I just like, that's crazy.
Starting point is 00:39:17 I still see it. How is this still happening? I have no idea. I'm like, girl, I am, I've been, I'm tired. Should we explain to the audience there is a fan of the show who for years has been, I guess, has been, I guess, not in a way. What's the right word? There is, there is someone who has watched the show, saw you and Joey. have a relationship on Joey's season.
Starting point is 00:39:46 And since then has been convinced that you and Joey are meant to be. Yes. The right way to put it. Or that you guys are having like an affair and it's insane. Yeah. I'm like this little Ted Bundy is running around finding information. You know, you were here during this time and he was here doing this race. I said, mind you, he's fully in love with Kelsey A as he should be.
Starting point is 00:40:08 Like, who isn't? I am myself. And they try to court, like if I'm at work, they're like, oh, you didn't post it. this day. Neither did Homeboy. I'm like, oh. You know, Ted Bundy is a great, like, I hate, that's a crazy metaphor, but I'm like, yeah. I'm sorry. I was in the mind. I'm sorry. No, it's, no, I agree because I'm like, this person is not a fan. She's a, she, he, it is a parisocial demon. And that's what I call on her. And I'm like, it's the most outrageous theories that I think Bachelor Nation has seen, or I don't even think
Starting point is 00:40:41 everybody in Bachelor Nation knows about it, but nonetheless, enough people have seen it and heard about it to the point where I'm like, if I have to call somebody out, I'm like, I don't even know who she dislikes. I'm like, out of the three of you guys, she hates one of y'all. And I'm like, I can't figure out who it is. I'm like, does she hate Kelsey? Does she hate Joey? Does she hate you? Because I'm like, it's the most absurd theory and rumor known to me. So absurd. Also, so now, someone was commenting on my story, or like a post that I saw. They said, please tell me the rumors are fake because we thought you were nice. And I was like, okay, guys. But it's just funny at this point because it's, it is hilarious.
Starting point is 00:41:21 Yeah. You know, they look crazy. Girl, I'm busy. I don't have time to be cheating. Like, hello. Hello. Hello. And she's a woman of, she's a woman of God. She would never. That's what I'm saying. This is one content creator, Joey, which is so ironic, his name is Joey. but he even posted he commented on the post he was like rachel's a woman of faith she he's like i guarantee she would never even a million years think about doing this i'm so insane i'm sorry i know i can't stop laughing at it because i'm like the way if that if rose returned i p address she would be behind some some bars i'm like i don't play i don't but enough about this sorry the demon you know you know
Starting point is 00:42:05 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, everyone, that is all for part one with Rachel. Make sure you stay tuned for part two dropping tomorrow. Bye. When Democrats are messing up, I say it. When Republicans are messing up, I say it. I'm S.E. Cup, a journalist and political commentator. And on my podcast, Off the Cup, I help you make sense of the often nonsensical news.
Starting point is 00:42:30 I do this on cable news, too, but on my podcast, I can really let loose and be my honest, unfiltered self. I just want to talk about something that happened this week because it's so bonkers, so stupid. Such incredibly bad politics, we have to talk about it. Come for the hot takes, stay for the sanity. Listen to Off the Cup on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Munga Chitigula and I'm back with a new season of my podcast, Skyline Drive. This time I talked to scientists, biopunks, curmudgins, blues owners, super seniors, and Goa's top cryotherapy lab to try to understand this obsession with living forever and what it means for all of us.
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