Bachelor Happy Hour - Saying the Hard Part | Golden Hour

Episode Date: June 4, 2025

Today on “Golden Hour,” we’re diving into your questions! We kick things off with our question of the day: What did you learn about yourself from your last relationship or fling? Thi...s definitely got the tears flowing! Next, we touch on some tough conversations. How do you mend a broken sisterhood after years of being compared? Am I considering children for the wrong reasons? We’re getting really honest. Plus, we wrap up today’s episode on a silly note with another round of “Icky or Picky”! Tune in now and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 This is an I-Heart podcast. All right, West West, Prop here from Hood Politics with Prop Podcasts. You know I get down. You come from the urban areas. You understand politics more than you giving credit for. Between Jerry out here, Mandarin all over the place, hop-out boys snatching up family members
Starting point is 00:00:17 and two wars that was supposed to be done in 24 hours. Not to mention Epstein. We had to reach out to the homie Jamil Hill because she's going to keep it a century. In America, what sells in politics are narratives and storylines. Like, we treat politics like we treat sports, which is part of the reason why we're in the situation we're in right now. Listen to the hood politics with prop podcasts on the IHard Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Yumanzoor.
Starting point is 00:00:43 And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you.
Starting point is 00:01:06 Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. What would you do if one bad decision forced you to choose between a maximum security prison or the most brutal boot camp designed to be hell on earth? Unfortunately from Mark Lombardo, this was the choice he faced. He said, you are a number, a New York State number, We own you. Listen to shock incarceration on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Starting point is 00:01:41 I'm Jamel Hill, hosted the Sports and Politics Podcasts, and on the latest episode of Spolitics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't say publicly? Many of them are in fear of their political lives. We continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your constituents and there's life after Congress. Make sure to listen to this episode of Politics on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Do we really need another podcast with a condescending finance brof trying to tell us how to spend our own money?
Starting point is 00:02:17 No, thank you. Instead, check out Brown Ambition. Each week, I, your host, Mandy Money, gives you real talk, real advice with a heavy dose of I feel uses. Like on Fridays, when I take your questions for the BAQA. Whether you're trying to invest for your future, navigate a toxic workplace, I got you. Listen to Brown Ambition on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Welcome back, everybody, to Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour. Thanks so much for coming back and joining Kathy and I today.
Starting point is 00:02:56 We're real excited to be here. We are always excited to get together and share our thoughts with you guys and our lives and everything else. And some advice. Always, always some advice. And also tell stories about ourselves that we know no one's listening to, right? Just you and me. But today we're going to answer more of your fan questions. And we've said it a million times, but we really mean it.
Starting point is 00:03:23 We love to answer your questions. We love reading them. you have to do is submit them. That's the key. You have to submit them for us to read them. So go to bachelornation.com slash golden hour and submit away all your questions, your comments, your thoughts. Come on, do it. I mean, the updates everything. All of you, all you have to do, you can also do, just be on Instagram at Bachelor Happy Hour. Quite simple. It's so easy, right? Okay. I know. All right. We are going to get into the episode right now. And as always, we are going to start with the thought of the day.
Starting point is 00:03:59 No, really, the question. All right. What did you, oh, Susan, I want you to answer this question. Okay, ask it. What did you learn about yourself from your last relationship or fling? What did I learn about myself? Don't be so hasty. And when you see a red flag, it is a red flag.
Starting point is 00:04:24 is a red flag even if you want to make it not so red and i'm going to say susan i'm going to give you some credit here i've you know susan and i are quite good friends and i know about her dating life you have done a good job i'm going to get i'm clapping for you a good job a very good inside joke folks um you have done a good job of yes she's laughing hard here You have done a good job of really figuring out when it's time to say goodbye. Yeah, it takes me long still. But you're doing better. It comes quicker now.
Starting point is 00:05:01 Thank you, Kathy. And how does my hair look today, Susan? It's excellent. Can I just tell everybody, I know, the question of the day is, what did you live for your last relationship? It has been so long since I've had a relationship. I can't remember. So now I'm going to talk about my hair because that I remember. Susan. It's like what you learned about yourself even in your last relationship. You know what I mean?
Starting point is 00:05:24 You know what I always? But Kathy got married at 12 and was married for 105 years and he passed, unfortunately. It is unfortunate, really. But let me just say, I, what I know about myself is and, you know, no tears, but sometimes I do cry thinking about this, I am enough. I don't always feel like I'm enough. See, I am going to start to cry. But I am enough, and I'm just waiting for the guy to come along who sees that I'm enough and is excited to have me in his life and may be excited to have him in my life. But until that happens, I'm going to talk about my hair. So here's my question about my hair, Susan. Okay. You did a bad thing by breaking your wrist because you can't cut my hair. And a few weeks I'll be back.
Starting point is 00:06:16 My hair is getting too long. I need my haircut. Can you speed up the healing of your wrist, please? Well, we have to see each other, so no, I can definitely do it in a couple weeks. Yes. You look fine. Can I just say, no, they don't understand. Susan's hair is really short.
Starting point is 00:06:36 And to me, I need a haircut desperately and all you people out there. Everyone that does not have this short of hair, they do not understand. And within four weeks, this stuff has grown out. It's hard to style. But you guys always say, oh, my God, it's so sure. It looks great. It looks great. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:06:55 And let me just say, I'm crying for you. First of all, I need to put 20 products in my hair to help with the frizz, the curleys, the all of it. Susan says, hold on. I'll be ready in five minutes because she gets in the two minute. Two minute. Oh, come on, 30 seconds. We'll talk on the phone and she'll say, hold on, I just got to draw. I'm not, this is the truth.
Starting point is 00:07:17 Hold on, Kathy, I just got to dry my hair and literally 30s. Okay, my hair's trying. And I'm like, oh, dear God, I have to dry my hair with a round brush. I have to put product in it. Then I have to use a straightener. And I still don't get it right. Okay, but there's a butt. Yeah, what's the butt?
Starting point is 00:07:34 The butt is Kathy can go four days with that hairdo. Susan, sometimes twice a day, has to wash hair and blow it dry. Okay, Susan, enough about my hair and hair talk and all things hair. we're moving on to our fan questions. But I do promise I will do it. Oh, you'll do me here. All right, perfect. That's all I need today.
Starting point is 00:07:54 All right, I'm going to read the first one. Here we go. Question one is from Anonymous. Hi, ladies, I really need your help. How do I get my family to stop comparing my sister and me? We're five years apart in completely different fields and are both living our lives. We are two completely different people, and yet we're still constantly compared by our whole family. They've put us into categories our whole lives, the pretty one, the smart
Starting point is 00:08:21 one, et cetera. It's gotten to the point where my sister and I don't talk. She harbors a lot of resentment towards me and always has. What do you suggest I do? Susan, weigh in on this because we both have sister. I'm guessing she's the pretty one. Because, you know, when I see like a set of twins and one has so much beauty and the other one's kind of door, I always my heart bleeds for that twin but these aren't even twins they're five years apart well I can say to you I have a sister
Starting point is 00:08:54 who I'm very close with and her name is Susan just like you I love women who have the name Susan she is 11 months you get you welcome friend she is 11 months older than I am where Irish twins I think is what they call we almost shared a womb there's all these things and I'm
Starting point is 00:09:10 just stay with me don't tell me I'm wrong I'm listening my sister was a absolute showstopper, gorgeous, blonde hair, blue eye, bikini-clad, gorgeous girl. That's what they're talking about. And I was a chubby, fat, brunette. Well, my sister was smart too, but that's where I succeeded. I wasn't pretty, and I wasn't petite, and I didn't have a good figure.
Starting point is 00:09:40 So what did I do? I made myself smart. I made straight days in school. That's what I did. But my sister and I are very close. I come from a family of seven, and she's my, you know, we talk almost every day. So I don't understand. That's where I was going.
Starting point is 00:09:57 You have sisters and you talk with your sisters. And I've met your sisters. You don't look anything like them. No, you know what my sisters would complain, not about my parents, but about the teachers at school. When they would get into the grade that I already had that teacher, they go, ah. another chatty becola and they're like mom mom because they weren't like me well and that's so funny you say that because i was except for my half-brother i was the last one of all the girls and i was a person and i when i got there they said that no this was cruel they'd say to me you're a block my maiden name is block you're a block girl you don't look like because they were blonde and petite and then i'm not tell you, it's one of those things that happens in your life that's hard to get over. I don't know why Anonymous, you're not speaking to her.
Starting point is 00:10:55 I think families do that. I think they just put people in categories. We all do it. You know, I do it with my three kids. It's not. You know, Kathy, what you're saying right now, it sounds like the parent issue. And why have neither one of them gone to the parent and said, mom, You're causing friction.
Starting point is 00:11:15 And why on earth are they not speaking? That's my question. Why are, why? Whatever the parents say, why aren't the kids, the two sisters close? I don't get it. I don't know. I don't have an answer for that. And I feel for you, babe.
Starting point is 00:11:29 I really do. And I would go to my sister probably first. And we're agreeing again, aren't we, Kathy? Oh, my God. You should see her face right now. We're agreeing again. Go talk to your sister. Yes.
Starting point is 00:11:41 Go talk to your sister. It's your blood. It's your sister. you've got to make it right and share how you felt over the years whether you were the smart one or the pretty one whatever the case may be but go share and say you want this to be over I was about to say I agree with you Susan I was about to ask maybe maybe Anonymous doesn't want to be close to her sister but I think she does I hope she does and we're thinking about you thanks for sharing yeah let us know and you know what Family is really important. It is. Do what you have to do to make it work. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:12:20 And thank you for sharing with this. Not just what you need to make it work. Build a relationship with their sister. Because you know what? Your family is always, I tell my kids this all the time. Your family will be there for you. No matter what. Ups and downs, no matter what.
Starting point is 00:12:34 Not in this case so far, but you want to make it that way. Exactly. Good luck, Anonymous. Absolutely. All right. That's West. Prop here from Hood Politics with Prop Podcasts. You already know our get-down. If you grew up in our urban areas of comfort of struggle,
Starting point is 00:12:51 you understand politics much more than you giving credit for. Feds taking over American cities. Government hop-out boys, hopping out the van, snatching up your theo in them, two wars that was supposed to be solved in 24 hours. Jerry just out here mandering all over the place. The turfs. And of course, the Epstein of it all.
Starting point is 00:13:10 Well, this week we decided to shoot our shot, and boy, did we pull up from the logo. to see if we could get somebody to come tap in with us. And the one and only Jamil Hill pulled up from this politics podcast to keep it a whole century. Because in America, what sells in politics are narratives and storylines.
Starting point is 00:13:27 It's like we treat politics like we treat sports, which is part of the reason why we're in the situation we're in right now. Listen to the hood politics with prop podcasts on the IHard Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Yumanzoor. And I'm Drew Phillips.
Starting point is 00:13:43 And we run a podcast. called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you.
Starting point is 00:14:04 Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. Imagine that you're on an airplane and all of a sudden you hear this. Passengers, the pilot is having an emergency and we need someone, anyone to land this plane. Think you could do it? It turns out that nearly 50% of men think that they could land the plane with the help of air traffic control. And they're saying like, okay, pull this, pull that, turn this. It's just, I can do it my eyes close.
Starting point is 00:14:35 I'm Manny. I'm Noah. This is Devon. And on our new show, no such thing. We get to the bottom of questions like these. Join us as we talk to the leading expert on overconfidence. Those who lack expertise lack the expertise they need to recognize that they lack expertise. And then as we try the whole thing out for real.
Starting point is 00:14:56 Wait, what? Oh, that's the runway. I'm looking at this thing. Listen to no such thing on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I never envisioned being with a woman. I'll just be honest. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports. in politics podcast, Spolitics.
Starting point is 00:15:14 On this week's episode, I'm joined by basketball legend, Candice Parker, who stops by to discuss her candid new book, The Can Do Mindset, in which she shares why she waited two years into marriage to come out. Like, when I close my eyes at night, every night, I was like, I need to find my prince charming.
Starting point is 00:15:34 Like, it was never a princess. Like, that never entered into my mind. But, you know, as I learned, And sometimes life gives you things wrapped in a package that you didn't expect it. And that was just, you know, and honestly, it took me a long time to be okay with myself. Make sure to listen to this week's episode of Spolitics on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Hola, it's HoneyGerman. And my podcast, Grasasas Come Again, is back.
Starting point is 00:16:07 This season, we're going even deeper into the world of music. music and entertainment with raw and honest conversations with some of your favorite Latin artists and celebrities. You didn't have to audition? No, I didn't audition. I haven't auditioned in like over 25 years. Oh, wow. That's a real G-talk right there. Oh, yeah. We've got some of the biggest actors, musicians, content creators, and culture shifters sharing their real stories of failure and success. You were destined to be a start. We talked all about what's viral and trending with a little bit of cheese. A lot of laughs and those amazing Vibras you've come to expect.
Starting point is 00:16:44 And of course, we'll explore deeper topics dealing with identity, struggles, and all the issues affecting our Latin community. You feel like you get a little whitewash because you have to do the code switching? I won't say whitewash because at the end of the day, you know, I'm me. But the whole pretending and code, you know, it takes a toll on you. Listen to the new season of Grasasas Come Again as part of My Cultura Podcast Network on the IHart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. we have another anonymous today kathy hi kathy and susan i love your podcast and tune in every week well thanks
Starting point is 00:17:21 you always give thoughtful advice and feedback i have a few questions and hopefully they make sense together but my first question is do you know anyone who decided not to have kids for whatever reason and regretted it later in life? First question. Second question, for a little background, I'm 32. I've been married for about five years. I've never really had a strong desire to be a mom and have kids, but something happened when I turned 30.
Starting point is 00:17:58 I feel like there's so much societal pressure to have kids, and it's almost frowned upon to be married and not have any. My mom also passed away about a year ago. a year and a half ago with breast cancer. And we were so close. Part of me feels like it's almost my grief that is wanting to fill a missing void in my life. Not having my mom around is really hard because she would always put my mind at ease about these things. If I have a child to fill a void left by my mom, is that a bad reason? It feels like an impossible decision. grateful for any advice
Starting point is 00:18:38 and I am like both of you when it comes to packing my suitcase I try everything on and pat too much thanks again love you both hope to see you on the beat
Starting point is 00:18:51 oh yeah we do that a lot I don't even have an answer for this question I mean I do I know people that decide it not to have children so do I and they're perfectly content Nobody has ever really regretted it.
Starting point is 00:19:07 Maybe as they got older, they've spoken. You know, if I had kids, maybe I'd have some help or, you know. But that's a choice that only you can make. I don't think there's anything wrong with it. With not having children? No, that's something that's not for you, then it's not. Well, here's the thing. You know, this is a tough question because there's like a lot of pieces in it, but anonymous.
Starting point is 00:19:34 that she said if you if you are having if you are only having a child to fill the void left by the death of your mom there i you know i'm not god i'm not a therapist i'm nobody uh is it a bad reason to have kids i can't tell if it's a good or bad reason to have kids all i can say to you as a mom of three and susan is also a mom of three yes that children take a lot of care love, nurturing, time, energy, and responsibility. So if you're not up for that... And it won't replace the time off? Exactly. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:20:16 So don't have a child to replace the void because guess what? It won't. Do you agree with that, Susan? Happy in your life the way it is. You don't... The peer pressure because of all your friends and the social, everybody's having kids around this time. it's okay do you do what makes you happy yeah and i know that 30 mark kath because i used to say
Starting point is 00:20:41 if i don't have a child by 30 oh yeah i don't know i i have known women who have changed their mind not at 30 but and the 40s and they've had a child and they've been glad they did but they had made the decision that they wanted a child they didn't make the decision to have a child because they wanted to fill a void left by a mother, a sister, whatever. So as well as how does your husband feel that? Yeah. Right? I mean, what are you two want together?
Starting point is 00:21:16 Yeah. And I think that, Susan, that is a brilliant, that is absolutely, you really anonymous, that's a conversation for you to have with your partner, your spouse, whoever. Now, when it comes to packing, you could call us, but which we'll definitely be there. When it comes to pack and call Susan. No, actually, I'm a great packer. You're a great picker outer. But she forgets things.
Starting point is 00:21:37 Oh, stop. I'm just, we're going to have hair talk again if you don't stop. Okay, moving on. We're going to let us know. It's a tough decision anonymous. Let us know. We really hope that you make the decision that's right for you and your partner. That's the bottom line.
Starting point is 00:21:56 Let us know. And I have to see you on the beach. Yeah. Okay. we are going to play a fabulous game today, Susan. We've done it before. We call it icky or picky, but you and I added the third term, ooh. Ooh is like get rid of it as fast as you can. Icky, picky, or ooh. We're just going to read, we're going to switch off. We're going to read hypotheticals. And you and I are going to say whether we think it's icky or just being picky.
Starting point is 00:22:21 And I'm going to get us going here with the first one. Okay. Okay. They tell you they've never read a book in their life and are proud of it. I would say they were lying because you have to read them in school. So you know I love to read. What would I say? Oh, I'm going to go further than that. Ew. Wait, can I just tell you?
Starting point is 00:22:45 I just wonder why. Wait, I just have to tell you a little short story here. This is the fun of this podcast. We get to throw in our lives. Because we get to throw in our curves. So I was talking with one of the guys on Jones season, who is a very nice guy. And I read a lot of books on my Kindle. And when you read on your Kindle, at least when I read it on my Kindle, I don't always remember the name of the book.
Starting point is 00:23:08 I get so involved in it. Kathy, I'm with you. Okay. So this guy who's a super nice guy and reads a lot himself, said to me, Kathy, what's on your nightstand? Meaning what book you read? I literally couldn't remember. And I said, I read on my Kind of my Kind of. And I said, I can go get, I said, exactly.
Starting point is 00:23:29 I said, I can go get my Kindle. He goes, never mind, it's okay. But I thought he must think I don't read. You know I'm a voracious reader. I love to read. But it was just so embarrassing. What's the time? You're not alone, Kathy.
Starting point is 00:23:42 Oh, thank God. And I'm done the book and I can tell you what it's about. Still don't remember the title or the author. Okay, I'm not going to say the guy's name, but if you're listening to this podcast, know that I do love to read. And I was really embarrassed. This is a good one, Kathy. They correct your grammar in casual conversation.
Starting point is 00:23:59 Hello, Kathy. Is that icky, picky, or Kathy? That is, can I just tell you, I am. The eye and the me. I in the me. Listen, can I tell you how bad I am, Bachelor Nation people? When we get questions and I'm reading them, I will correct it if it says I. Yes.
Starting point is 00:24:20 I will correct it and just, I was an English teacher, it's grammar. sorry. And I always was told, no, you say, I, not me. And Kathy's like, no, it's me. Because it's all, it gets into compound subjects and object of the preposition and object of the... Her and her sister,
Starting point is 00:24:38 she's the brain. And you're very good at it. And I come to you for advice when I'm writing something. I'm sorry. I don't mean to be icky or picky, and that's probably an ooh for a lot of people. So I apologize. All right, West West, Prop here from Hood Politics with Prop Podcasts.
Starting point is 00:24:58 You already know our get-down. If you grew up in our urban areas of comfort of struggle, you understand politics much more than you giving credit for. Feds taking over American cities, government hop-out boys, hopping out the van, snatching up your theo in them, two wars that was supposed to be solved in 24 hours. Jerry just out here mandering all over the place.
Starting point is 00:25:17 The turfs! And of course, the Epstein of it all. Well, this week we decided to shoot our shot, And boy, did we pull up from the logo to see if we could get somebody to come tap in with us. And the one and only Jamil Hill pulled up from this politics podcast to keep it a whole century. Because in America, what sells in politics are narratives and storylines. It's like we treat politics like we treat sports, which is part of the reason why we're in the situation we're in right now. Listen to the hood politics with prop podcasts on the IHard Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast.
Starting point is 00:25:49 Imagine that you're on an airplane and all of a sudden you hear this. Attention passengers, the pilot is having an emergency and we need someone, anyone to land this plane. Think you could do it? It turns out that nearly 50% of men think that they could land the plane with the help of air traffic control. And they're saying like, okay, pull this, do this, pull that, turn this. It's just, I can do my eyes close. I'm Manny. I'm Noah.
Starting point is 00:26:17 This is Devon. And on our new show, No Such Thing, we get to the bottom of questions like these. Join us as we talk to the leading expert on overconfidence. Those who lack expertise lack the expertise they need to recognize that they lack expertise. And then, as we try the whole thing out for real. Wait, what? Oh, that's the run right. I'm looking at this thing.
Starting point is 00:26:40 Listen to No Such Thing on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, my name is Enya Umanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psycho babble.
Starting point is 00:27:10 Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. I never envisioned being with a woman. I'll just be honest. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts, Politics. On this week's episode, I'm joined by basketball legend, Candice Parker,
Starting point is 00:27:29 who stops by to discuss her candid new book, The Can Do Mindset, in which she shares why she waited two years into marriage to come out. Like when I close my eyes at night, every night, I was like, I need to find my prince charming. Like, it was never a princess. Like, that never entered into my mind. But, you know, as I learned, sometimes life gives you things wrapped in a package that you didn't expect it. And that was just, you know, and honestly, it took me a long time to be okay with myself.
Starting point is 00:28:02 Make sure to listen to this week's episode of Spolitics on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Podcast, Grasas Come Again, is back. This season, we're going even deeper into the world of music and entertainment, with raw and honest conversations with some of your favorite Latin artists and celebrities. You didn't have to audition? No, I didn't audition. I haven't auditioned in, like, over 25 years. Oh, wow.
Starting point is 00:28:32 That's a real G-talk right there. Oh, yeah. We've got some of the biggest actors, musicians, content creators, and culture shifters, sharing their real stories of failure and success. I feel like this is my destiny. You were destined to be. We talk all about what's viral and trending with a little bit of chisement, a lot of laughs,
Starting point is 00:28:52 and those amazing Vibras you've come to expect. And of course, we'll explore deeper topics dealing with identity, struggles, and all the issues affecting our Latin community. You feel like you get a little whitewash because you have to do the code switching? I won't say whitewash because at the end of the day, you know, I'm me. But the whole pretending and coat, you know, it takes a toll on you.
Starting point is 00:29:11 Listen to the new season of Grasasas Come Again as part of My Cultura Podcast Network on the iHart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. All right, here's the next one. Yeah. Oh, could you, they talk in a baby voice? Is that? And they do it a lot.
Starting point is 00:29:32 You, is that icky, picky, or who? It's so icky. Itchy. They still call their mom, mommy, or their dad, daddy as an adult. Huh? Whatever. Picky. I mean, that's picky. That's not icky. Yeah, that's picky. All right. They get, oh, Lord, I got more stories. They get road rage and scream at other drivers. Ikey. Can I tell you, my husband did this all the time. Oh, my God. And I used to say, Daryl, please. We're going to get shot. I know. I used to say, stop. They can't hear you. Only I can't.
Starting point is 00:30:15 hear you and it's driving me up. They don't hear you screaming. I do. And he would constantly do it. So one time we were driving on the interstate going, you know, cross country. And he was railing about somebody driving and he was screaming at them. And I had warned him. I said, if you don't stop, I'm going to turn the car off. What? Why you're driving? I did. Kathy, what is wrong with you? That is icky right there. You could have lost you. I just, I couldn't stand the screaming. And so I was in the car with my daughter the other day. I'll be damned. I said, oh, my God, you're just like your father. Because she was, she goes, these people are, she started a railing. I said, oh, dear God, your dad is watching down from heaven. Stop doing it. And she looked at me and she goes, I just can't take bad drivers. I said, you know what I'm going to turn the car off on you? It's not like she was screaming at the people. She just voicing. Oh, no, she's screaming. No, Susan, let me demo for you. What's the hell's wrong with you? Put your.
Starting point is 00:31:15 blinker on if you're going to take a... Do you think they're hearing that? You know when you drive with me, why are you in this lane? Why are you in this lane? This is the fast lane. That's Susan. Yes, but Susan, do you think the person in that lane hears you? Nothing. Who's hearing you? Do you think
Starting point is 00:31:31 I like hearing that? What do you say? My passenger. Thank you. Passenger wants a pass on the screaming. Note to Susan. All right. Go on. All right. They post inspirational quotes on their Instagram every single day.
Starting point is 00:31:49 Yeah, I think it's sweet. I think that's picky. I think that's sweet. Nothing wrong. Okay, they refer to them, they refer to themselves as an alpha male. Like I say, I'm a type A personality? No, alpha male means not only am I a male,
Starting point is 00:32:08 not only am I superior to you, but I'm an alpha male. It's redundant. It's redundant. please i think it's picky i do it's picky yeah okay they walk really really slowly in public and don't notice you're ahead hell i don't care if long as i'm getting my steps and i don't care that's picky that's picky all right they drink milk with dinner as an adult what the hell's wrong with
Starting point is 00:32:38 that i know what it's wrong picky picky susan susan we are green on all of these just about this is that kind of a day i'm telling you they face time people in public without headphones icky that no well that's not icky that's irritating that's it's who almost that's what you say it's ew it's yeah we're especially in the nail salon okay i'm sitting there and i got to hear this girl's conversation and they're allowed i can't even think this is my zen time will you be quiet i'm getting a pedic yourself up Moving by the long. This is Susan's world having a manicure and pedicare.
Starting point is 00:33:21 Okay. They still, this, I'm just going to say there's icky, picky, ooh, and get the hell out of my life. This would be this one. They still follow and like all of their exes posts. Bye-bye. So long, farewell. Adja, adja, adja. I mean, no.
Starting point is 00:33:43 way. I mean, seriously, is that icky? Like, my ex doesn't post, really, but if you put something out there, my kids are in it, of course I like it, but no, no, that's just weird. Move on. Get a life. Go buy a life. Okay.
Starting point is 00:34:00 They clap when the plane lands. There are people that are really scared. Yeah, and I got to tell you, I fly with my granddaughters and we all clap when the plan lands because they think it's fun. We do our cruise in June.
Starting point is 00:34:15 Yeah. We're going to Greece. I'm going to clap when that baby hits the ground because we have to be on there so damn long. Wait, can I just say I'm flying from Texas? It's friggin 14 hours. That's why God made first class. Crazy. 14 hours. All right.
Starting point is 00:34:30 They won't kiss you if you have lip balm on because they don't like the texture. Who kisses on the lips like that? Friends, I mean, I do not. One on each side. Well, wait a minute. You've been in the French West Indies too long, girlfriend. If you're dating a guy and he says he won't kiss you because he doesn't like to text you, that's ew and icky.
Starting point is 00:34:56 I agree. I mean, just get over yourself, really. All right. They refer to your relationship as hanging out even after months of dating. Ew, itchy. Here's the door of what, you know, don't hit your ass on the way out. That's right. I mean, seriously.
Starting point is 00:35:13 You talk about marriage on the second date? Well. Depends how you feel about him. That's a picky. I mean, I think of yours into him as he is into you. Then you might think it's picky. But in general, I would say that's icky for the most part. In general, I would say that's icky.
Starting point is 00:35:34 On the second date, yeah. It's icky. In general, I'm not saying again. But if they were not talking about you two get married, they're just talking about being. Oh, what? They're talking about their marriage to their first wife. That's, ew. Making it broad and big.
Starting point is 00:35:49 So let me just say. Kathy, if you find a man and you really like him, and it's a second date and he says, would you ever get married again? Would you like to get married? That would be like that. That would be okay. That would be okay.
Starting point is 00:36:02 But I thought I took this to mean, you know, Kathy, will you marry me? Could you sign this first piece? Yes. Could you sign this, could you sign the pre-nup, please? The papers. I don't know. We have covered, wait, do you have any, I need one more good story for you before we wrap?
Starting point is 00:36:21 Come on. Give me something that's going on in your life. Some good fun story. I don't want screws in my arm anymore. Kathy, can you see the bruising that goes all the way up my arm? I mean, again, Bachelor Nation, I'm going to remind Susan, because I am her good friend, When you follow the doctor's, it's, it's, ooh, because you're not following the doctor's orders. All right, till we get to grease, till this wrist heals, if this wrist will ever heal, that is going to be it for today.
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