Bachelor Happy Hour - The Wedding 411 with Abigail & Noah

Episode Date: December 5, 2024

Today on “Happy Hour,” newlyweds Abigail and Noah are back on the podcast! Joe and Serena kick off today’s episode with a wedding question we're dying to know: which Bachelor Nation guest was the wildest at the reception? Then, we dive into the entire wedding weekend! Joe, Serena, Abigail, and Noah are catching you up on everything you need to know about the beautiful weekend of love. It’s like a FaceTime catch-up with your Bachelor Nation faves that you won’t wanna miss out on! Plus, we get a look at what’s to come for the lovebirds now that the wedding planning is officially done! Grab a drink, cozy up on the couch, and tune in to hear it this all and more. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is an I-Heart podcast. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly, and now I'm seriously suspicious. Wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, luckily, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend's been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone.

Hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That seems inappropriate. Maybe find out how it ends by listening to the OK Storytime Podcasts and the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts, Politics. On this week's episode, I'm joined by all-time great Hooper and basketball analyst Candace Parker, who gives insight into her candid new book, including why she waited two years into marriage to come out. I never envisioned being with a woman. I'll just be honest.

Like, when I close my eyes at night, every night, I was like, I need to find my prince charming. Like, it was never a princess. Make sure you listen to this episode is politics on the I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Emanzor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom.

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Open your free IHeartRadio app Search Emergency Intercom And listen now Hey everyone, welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour I'm Joe And I'm Serena And we are here with Abigail Abigail, welcome to Bachelor Happy Hour

You're having me, Joe And some random guy next to her No we are here with Abigail and Noah Welcome, how are you guys Welcome to the podcast glad to know you still got it even though you look like trash right now Joe Zings we're awesome we are awesome thanks for having us on thanks for coming we haven't seen you guys in what like a month now

last time we saw you was your wedding last time I saw you was in that wine bar at like midnight in the heart of Tulsa oh yeah oh yeah oh yeah oh yeah that was a long night Who was the drunkest person out of the Bachelor Nation group of people at your wedding? There was no one that was like a very obvious standout. I feel like Anna was very hype. When we got on the party bus after the venue to the wine bar and bathed at a hotel, I felt like Anna was on another level. But I wouldn't think

drunk Anna doesn't do shots Like I've never seen her take a shot in my life She makes Chris take all of them And I she came up from me I was like I just did a shot And I was like I don't know what's compelled you to do this

But we're in for a ride for sure I feel so honest I never saw anybody too lit Everybody just the bar Everyone stayed at the same level And just slowly slowly kept going higher So nobody was like

Too tossed out It's the person that's drinking the most lit. So was you guys. Well, when we, Noah, when you left the golf course, I was, I was like,

I'm pretty drunk. Like we were, we were drinking. We were shotgunning beers. That was a long day. Was that the day of the wedding though? No, that was the welcome party.

Yes. Yes. So that's the good thing. That's the good thing. Since we're starting with, my computer just doesn't. Oh, since we're starting with no format from.

We'll just walk out. That was the thing about having a three-day little bender is you didn't feel like, oh, my goodness, we got to make the most. We got to party like crazy. It was kind of like spaced out. So it didn't feel as bad that it was spaced out over three days. And, you know, when you were drunk at 10 and I was right there with you doing shotguns, you know, it was nice because we spaced it out. Granted, I went to my rehearsal. I was very busy.

I hope you enjoyed your nap. But, well, let, yeah, let's, you know, I want to, I want a little bit of a format with this podcast today because I don't want to, let's know, um, but let's take it. Let's take it from the beginning. So, um, the wedding, right. Like, Well, let's start with the third day. No, no, no. The wedding, the wedding weekend, okay? The wedding weekend. The first, we arrive in Tulsa and you guys have a housewarming party. Whose idea was that?

That was a lot of fun. That was maybe one of my favorite parts of the trip. I personally always like the first day of the trip because it's the beginning and there's so much to look forward to. I usually don't like the last day because that to me is the most depressing our wedding day no the day we flew out that's all I heard

the last sentence the day after the wedding where you have to fly home no let's not about the wall party yeah we did our we did when we moved here our engagement party which was a similar similar similar format

and we had so many people that didn't know each other coming from different you know, walks of life that the house parties seem like the best icebreaker. I don't want to have to like make sure everyone's friends and like hold more than two people's hands, you know. So house party was awesome. It was so much fun seeing the different groups. And then it twinkled into the night. It just took a kind of form of its own, I guess. There's like 90 people that showed up. But was it exciting for you guys to like show off your house as well. I was so excited to come see the house.

Why it was funny. I spent like all day cleaning. I was like, okay, we're finally. showing off our house. And then we had so many people in the house. I felt like you couldn't even see the house. It was just like all these heads and everyone's lining up for the margaritas. And I was like, welcome to our house. You can't see anything. But I promise it looks great. No, it looked great. You could see it. You can see it. I mean, you're going to rip up your kitchen floors anyway now, Abigail. So it doesn't even matter. Where are you ripping up your kitchen floors? We're making a few changes to her. She got too many. She got too many compliments. over the wedding weekend, dude.

Too many style preference points. Now she wants to change it all up. I kind of confused her. She didn't expect people to like it that much. So now she doesn't like it. I want people to hate this house. Would you ever call in outside help, you know, for the floors? Oh, yeah.

Oh, we're not doing the floors. Yeah, we're not doing the floors. I'm turning a new leaf a little bit. Yeah. I would suggest that. I need to do less, Joseph. I'm doing too much. So this one, we're going to actually.

try to have a plan in order. We're going to have I'm not doing hardwood floors because I'm not that's not a good idea. So we are going to have outside help for this one. Okay. Do you're available? Yeah, I could help.

I don't think you want that. I don't think you want that. I could help. But the welcome already was so fun. Everyone got so drunk off of whatever you were putting in those margaritas. Those margaritas were so strong. We had to restock the margaritas after two hours.

I know. looked over and your sister was like walking in with two massive bottles of tequila. Thank God. Ivan brought, Ivan brought, Ivan brought, Ivan brought, I was drinking that. Yeah. At one point, you were drinking something brown. I don't know. I was, I was, I, I leaned in. I leaned in that weekend. I really did. I thought it would be sweet to offer some of the bachelor people, some of my like special stuff. You know, some of my buffalo trays I have under the bed. That's what it was. Buffalo trace. What a waste. Joe was drunk. swishing buffalo trace around like it was listerine didn't even get to appreciate it you know what else at the at the house party everywhere you looked it was just noah's face on a different body like all of you guys

look the same like for those listening noah has like a hundred siblings and they all sound alike they all sound like everyone's got a baby mustache and like half-closed eyes and kind of yet even like your sister Like I'm talking to your sister I'm like this is crazy I'm talking to female Noah But like I'm waiting for I'm waiting for one of them To like bust my balls But they're so they're so nice

And then I'm like So nice Yeah Godering out with me Did you guys remember all their names? No no And I don't don't even ask me one They're all lovely

I could recognize their faces Because it's just Noah's Okay so then we go We go into day two Which is the welcome party. Did you guys plan that yourself or did you have a planner come in for that?

So for the rehearsal dinner, welcome party, we did that on our own, just the wedding. We had a wedding planner. And basically for the welcome party, we just wanted to be like round two, just everyone get together,

spend time. But we wanted to do it at a place that's kind of represents Tulsa. So we've hit the Mayo Hotel. It's kind of one of the more historic places in Tulsa. And just thought it would be a really cool place. to show off Tulsa. That night, before we got there,

there was like a bunch of birds that were all gathered together and, yeah. I like where you're headed with this, Joe. This is the stuff. You start to notice these things. There's birds planted them. There's grass that your feet can go on.

It's a different ballgame out there when you leave the apartment. Do we tell you we end up going to that steakhouse that you recommended, bowl in the alley, and it took us like three laps around the block to find it. Oh, to get in? Was it good?

Yeah, it was good. Oh, wasn't it fantastic? It wasn't fantastic. I want, I want, my martini was 10. Next time I'm, next time I come, I want to barbecue in your backyard. Yeah. Yeah. That was the toss up.

We had three days. We want people to have fun and do stuff in Tulsa that you wouldn't normally do. We didn't get out to the ranch. We didn't get to, you know, assless. chaps. We didn't get to do the things that cowboys do. This was a good this was a good warm up, you know? This was step one. Noah promised. Noah promised me

assless chaps. I had a lot of promises that weekend, Joseph. Okay, let's talk about the wedding venue because I'm not just saying this because you guys are on here. It was like, it was an, it was just an incredible wedding. And the

the venue was just so beautiful how did you find it well and also not that like Tulsa was very beautiful like your neighborhoods are like really gorgeous like really well taken care of a lot of birds but the venue you felt like you weren't in Tulsa like it

you felt it was like very European oh my God that was the plan you could take over go ahead so yes our venue was to Billbrook. And I basically ever since we moved to Tulsa, I knew I wanted to have our wedding there just, it's big enough. It's all outside. No shade to kind of the barn style, but a lot of

venues in Oklahoma, kind of the barn style. And that just personally wasn't what I wanted. So I thought the Philbrook was. And I knew I wanted a black tie wedding just for everyone to dress up. So I thought the feelbrook was just a really fun venue just to kind of teleport somewhere else for the day. And I think a lot of people have fun dressing up and all the outfits were elite. How long will have a waiting list? It used to be a guy's house. That's the one. Yeah, I actually knew.

I actually, I told you that. Oh, yeah. Who told you that, though? I did. No, no, no. Actually, no, it didn't tell me. No. You're one of your best friends.

I believe his name. His name also might be Aaron. He, uh, the one who wore the cowboy hat to the wedding. He's the one that gave the speech at your welcome. Aaron. Yeah, yeah. I got two Aaron Michaels. Yeah. Yeah, no, he gets, when he gets kind of sauced up, he knows a lot of random Tulsa facts. And I'm glad that one stuck because the Philbrook, we wanted to go to before we had a wedding planner. I was like, we got to go to the Philbrook.

You know, eat Little Caesars go to the Philbrook for the next few months, save the money. And they're like, no, it's booked. We're like, oh, okay. Then we got a wedding planner. And it was like, The world's yours. Bill of Brooke is open and that's what we're like, okay. Well, they were open. Yeah, I was going to say, how did you get it? Yeah. How did this work?

Well, so that's why our wedding was on a Monday because we had the dilemma of all the Saturdays. Saturdays were booked out for 2024 and we knew we just wanted to get married in 2024. We did not want to keep wedding planning into the next year. And there were two dates open. There was a Sunday, end of October or Monday, the beginning of October. and our wedding planner said you obviously choose but I will just say Tulsa weather the first half of October is beautiful more likely to have like 70 degree weather really nice no rain or the second half of October is typically like storm season and we actually left out because I think it ended up raining on the Sunday that we the other option so we may oh really so the club the museum was closed on Monday significantly cheaper and

And it fit with the whole three-day little, then you can take one day off of work sort of thing. So it ended up working actually to our favor. It ended up working better. But that's kind of how we thought process behind it. I remember going to the weekend, I was like, oh, how's it going to feel being at like a wedding on a Monday? But once you're there, you're like, it's almost like days don't exist. Like it could be any day of the week. You know what I mean?

Like you're like, I'm at your house. I'm at this bar. I'm at dinner. I'm like, you're on vacation. It's like, it's kind of a Saturday for all I do. We haven't had regular jobs in quite some time. So a wedding on a Monday for me, I'm just like, okay, it's fine. It works.

Monday. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly and now I'm seriously suspicious. Wait a minute, Sam. Maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast. So we'll find out soon. This person writes, My boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot.

He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor, and they're the same age. And it's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing between them.

I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet. So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his person? professor or not. To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I never envision being with a woman. I'll just be honest. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts, Politics. On this week's episode, I'm joined by basketball legend Candice Parker, who stops by to discuss her candid new book, The Can Do Mindset, in which she shares why she waited two years into marriage

to come out. Like when I close my eyes at night, every night, I was like, I need to find my prince charming. Like, it was never a princess. Like, that never entered into my mind. But, you know, as I learned, sometimes life gives you things wrapped in a package that you didn't expect it. And that was just, you know, and honestly, it took me a long time to be okay with myself. Make sure to listen to this week's episode of Spolitics on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Yumanzoor.

And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you.

Open your free IHeart Radio app. search emergency intercom and listen now. What was both of your, what was your standout moment of the entire weekend? And then what stressed you out the most? I think the standout moment for me was honestly just seeing everybody get along. I feel like that was the biggest compliment that we got all weekend that I really enjoy was nothing to do with like. the decorations and whatnot but everyone just said all your friends and family are so nice so easy to get along and we just took a lot of pride in that because we are very selective with who we're friends

with um obviously you can't choose family but we lucked out with family um so that was just uh very hard-warving to know that everybody got along so so well um stress moment well you didn't so favorite part was that yeah yeah and then stressful moment I mean, maybe it's just like coordinating with family. I think it's when we were golfing. Her stressful moment. What? I heard there was some,

there was something that happened. I was chill that day. I think just the most stressful thing was we had an amazing wedding planner, but I was doing the other two parties on my own and just trying to like communicate with that many people and making sure everyone's like there at the right time. And then, yeah, I just, I'm not a planner, and I never want to try to communicate with that many people again. So that probably was the most stressful.

Was anything stressful for you? Yes, glad you asked. So my favorite moments, tie, probably the first look, right? Yeah, that's special. That was really good. That was awesome. And then my second favorite moment was dinner party, right? Lights are down.

Sun's gone. and we're at the top of the dinner table, music's playing, and I'm looking out, I look to my right, I see Abby, it's beautiful, everything's beautiful, I look, all of our friends are getting along, people that don't know each other, and I'm thinking to myself, all right, it's a crazy world, but this moment right here is good. That's like the thought I had that like encapsulated the whole weekend. I was like, ooh, this right here is good. So that was kind of my favorite. And to tie it in with the most stressful. I really, Thomas,

Thomas gave me a good idea later right before I walked down the aisle that I should get a cane for a few of our dance to come down. So that was probably the most stressful moment for me because I did see a goose a little goose cane

in the billbrook somewhere. How is this stressful? It's true. How about the, were either of you stressed about the mouths? I saw the, I saw the, I saw the cane, never saw it again. So I actually feel really good that you didn't find that cane. I think that's for the best.

If all your wedding, you're walking down these long-ass stairs, Abigail's got a massive dress one with you with Rocky and your cane. Like, that's just not practical. And I'm laughing because he brought it up and I heard cane and I shut it down so quickly. So I don't know how you had to get time to feel stress about it. But if that's all. He found time. He found time.

To be honest, I'm actually surprised, Noah was, you were much more behaved than I thought you that you were going to be. I thought you were going to be pulling out shots like a cane and. No, dude. I'm married now. Yeah. And I couldn't find the canes. I couldn't. How about the, how about the, how about the, how about the, how about the vows were either you freaking out before your vows, like just like nervous?

Yeah. originally we wanted to do it private or I wanted to do private bowels just because public speaking makes me nervous and then speaking publicly about my feelings makes me double nervous. The vows were like one of the scariest since I've ever done. I did not think I was going to be so nervous. I actually have no fear of public speaking and I literally said to my dad before we walked down the aisle, this is what a heart attack feels like. Like this is like a terrible moment for me. Why it's still nerve-wracking? Because it's not like talking to your husband. That's like the nerve-wracking part but I think it's just like for me you're thinking about so many things

you're like taking in the moment but then you're like okay there's pictures and videos going on so you're like trying to stay composed and then you're like wait I'm not crying enough do people think I'm cold-hearted and it's just so many thoughts going through my head at the time but honestly I didn't laugh at all I don't even remember saying I cried a lot I you're perfect seeing any of those thoughts I was thinking all right lock in on an item this this is how you don't cry, right? You did cry. The whole time.

Lock in on it. Say your words. Just go through. Honestly, don't even mean it. Just get through. Okay. Then you mean it, obviously,

as your marriage goes on. But I just got to get through. And then I looked to my right. Ben started crying a little, our efficient. And I lost that. I lost that focal point that I had locked in on

and I started looking at Abby. Boom, gone. It, I couldn't hear myself. after then. So I hope the vows were good because I cried the whole time. But I have to read your vowels afterwards because I couldn't understand like the second half of them because he was kind of crying. And I just can't understand people when they're crying. You know, not the best combo. The day after the wedding, I was like, okay, I need to go

breathe through your vows recording. And it was funny because I had been, you know, I work in the hospital, I work in the ICU, a lot of situations where one would cry or not cry, never cry, ever. But then there, yeah, I couldn't really have much. So, vows were good. Obviously, I don't care that I cried. I thought everything was amazing. But it couldn't understand me. That's why I did see that Joe cried a little during my bow.

That kind of made it easier. Like a baby, just bawling the whole time. Just one tear drop just came down my eye. They were full and I was like, is he hung over? It's hitting him in the right spot. Both. I was the perfect temperament for the wedding. Okay.

How did you guys have? I'm glad to hear that show. Thank you. How did you guys pick your first dance song? Oh, my last hour. Yes. That was our song. We adopted that song when we were dating.

That was like our come out of hiding, you know, when you're hiding in your relationship and you come out of the closet and you're like, okay, we're actually together. That's what our song was when we released it on Instagram. Yeah. Oh, I know that. Is it the song you used in the reel that you posted? That was our, yeah. I don't know how we listened to that song, a million. Yeah.

Do you think if I was not invited to the wedding, would you guys still have done like the fresh mozzarella and the pasta stand? We did it just for you, Joe. That's what I thought. That's what I thought. The idea was that, though, because that was great. You said that confidently like you weren't a plus one to start with. I don't know which bang was on that one.

Well, no ask just three times Are you coming? Because I'm not going to send you an invite If you're not coming to my wedding. I needed to know. I said, are we invited? Joe was training for a marathon. He was taking a serious serious.

Yeah, that was just like, yeah. If you're not coming, let me know. Because then I'm not going to invite you. I'm like, how about this? How about you invite me? And then you'll see from my response if I'm coming. I'm like, you can't quarter people to get up to her a wedding. I probably let down that hard, you know, softly.

Okay, so the weekend, the week, the wedding's over, weekend's over. Honeymoon, mini moon, what do you guys do? We went to Bitter, Idaho. We! We just got a little cabin. Really, the goal was Jackson Hole. Noah's brother has been a few times and he loves it so it's been our list

to go to and but we just wanted to get like a cabin and just have like a little bit more privacy versus like a resort so we found one on the Idaho sign and it was perfect we were there for a week I'd like to go on record and say that for about two three months

I laid out this whole extravagant plan for our honeymoon about Japan and Hawaii and the Philippines and we ended up in Idaho so How far was it How far? No, I'm so glad we went to Idaho

This is what I'm saying Idaho is amazing How far is the cabin From Jackson Hole? 30 minutes Yeah, 34 minutes And you guys rent your car, right? Mountain range

Mountain range Jackson, where we were staying So about 40, you drive either way Okay, so you drive like up and around Yeah And we saw Moose one to three moose

every day. It really looked like Canada from your stories. Really? Yeah, a little bit. Ooh. I like Canada. You guys should go to Canada. Like you are such you're such like nature, mountain. Are you talking about like the west side of Canada or like by Toronto?

Canada's more the west coast. But I mean, the East Coast is beautiful as well. My boyfriend's professor is way too friendly and now I'm seriously suspicious. Well, wait a minute, Sam, maybe her boyfriend's just looking for extra credit. Well, Dakota, it's back to school week on the OK Storytime podcast, so we'll find out soon. This person writes, my boyfriend has been hanging out with his young professor a lot. He doesn't think it's a problem, but I don't trust her. Now, he's insisting we get to know each other, but I just want her gone. Now, hold up. Isn't that against school policy? That sounds totally

inappropriate. Well, according to this person, this is her boyfriend's former professor and they're the same age. And it's even more likely that they're cheating. He insists there's nothing. between them. I mean, do you believe him? Well, he's certainly trying to get this person to believe him because he now wants them both to meet. So, do we find out if this person's boyfriend really cheated with his professor or not? To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I never envision being with a woman. I'll just be honest. I'm Jamel Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcasts politics. On this week's episode, I'm joined by basketball legend, Candice Parker, who stops by to discuss her

candid new book, The Can Do Mindset, in which she shares why she waited two years into marriage to come out. Like when I close my eyes at night, every night, I was like, I need to find my prince charming. Like, it was never a princess. Like, that never entered into my mind. But, you know, as I learned, sometimes life gives you things wrapped in a package that you didn't expect it. And that was just, you know, and honestly, it took me a long. time to be okay with myself. Make sure to listen to this week's episode of Spolitics on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Yumanzoor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency

Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you. Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. I want to hear more about Idaho, though.

Sorry. Back into Idaho. We wanted remote. We wanted to recharge Abby's book, our wedding. I was doing a couple of reno stuff. fun houses we had a really busy tiring few months so idaho was like the recharge we didn't want to just go to like a spa and do that we kind of wanted to be by ourselves in nature get a recharge but still kind of classy that's what we found in idaho all the food every restaurant was amazing

the food blew me away like nothing really ultra process out there so like every single restaurant we went to just taste it like someone was cooking it. I'm talking somebody got the pestle mortar grown down the meat. It was like three ingredients. The first day we bought groceries because we're like it's Idaho. Don't want to risk it. You know, you know, it knows what people in Idaho you like. And then it was great. Then we went to breakfast and lunch. We're like, we'll try one. The best sandwich I've ever had, maybe. And then we're like, okay, well, that was lucky. These people, whatever, it's just one restaurant. We tried another. So we're like, why are we buying groceries at this point?

I have the best Asian food in my life in Idaho. Really? No way. Did you have to drive to Jackson Hole or was your area were restaurants in your area? No. Victor was more, it's like a small town. I think it's like 1,200 people. So there's only 10 restaurants, like kind of small ones.

Jackson Hole is much more resorty. It kind of has the ski resort all. the main street. So we went to the ski resort one day, got a really nice dinner. But we honestly preferred the Idaho side. It was a lot more chill. We had a couple driving days where we went to some lakes in the mountains. I almost chopped my hand off with my drone. We had a lot of like just exploring days. Grab a bunch of snacks. See you in six hours. Are you so happy you did that instead of that big trip. I feel like it would have been so much after your three day wedding weekend. I knew we were going to be tired after the wedding, but I didn't realize I would be so exhausted, like mentally, socially, physically.

I was just like, I want to do nothing. So yes. And I said, go ahead. This is more important. I bet. No, I was just going to say, like, we were with you guys the day after our wedding, like, by the pool all day drinking. And I feel like I woke up the day after the wedding exhausted, but like we just kept going and everyone was still in town. I was still energized. I remember going to dinner that night. We went and said hi to my family. And then we went to dinner with Joe's friends. And I was dead. Like it was like a type of tired I had not experienced before. It's like socially like your social batteries drains and yeah, it's just go, go, go and your body crashes. And that's what was nice is it was like a recharge. We weren't really on our, we didn't have brand stuff. We weren't worried about wedding posting.

We weren't worrying about like anything like that. It was like sunset, moose, food. You're living off your land. How many animals can I see? Can I make a baby? And can we get the most out of this five days? And it was exactly that. So, but like, you walk outside.

You walk outside your cabin, right? And you're like, we're in nature. What do you, what are you doing? So, no, it's called enjoy nature. No, but yeah, okay, that's what I want to know. You get some Chris Aaron, your lunch. You look at the T-Tob mansion. No, no, no, this is good.

What a beautiful beautiful. curiosity is where it all starts. First, it's the birds, then it's the deer. Next, you know, you might catch a sunset and look at a mountain yourself. And then you enjoy it with the first thing that you go with. So it's just conversations. We did a lot of walks with wine throughout the neighborhood. I'm trying to find our hammock.

We had a hammock that we were in Teton National Park. So the Teton's. Yeah. Our hammock in our backyard was facing the Teton's like every morning and night. So it was a lot of just taking stuff in, chilling, talking about Bitcoin. When I talked to Abigail last week, she was telling me about the trip. And she was like, I don't think Joe would like it. That's why I think you're wrong.

I think I would. I think I would like it. I didn't think Joe would be like Mexico either when we went to Tulum and Joe loved it. Yeah, that was right. And he thrived. Except for the nature day. I don't think with Joe. No, he did not like.

the synodize. But he wasn't curious then. Listen to all these questions. Sonotes I'm not interested in because I don't like bats. Bats carry rabies. If you get bit by a bat, then you have to get a rabies shot. I don't want to have to go through all that. You're talking about those. You're talking about those tunnels and pools of water that the mine's been using for thousands years. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. He doesn't trust that. I, and I like being, I would like Idaho, because I would like to go sit outside my cabin and look at the landscape and start a fire and relax and recharge that way. There was a wood-burning, a wood stove sauna, not an electric. Like, I had to go in there and get the wood started, get it warm up to an optimal temperature,

then get in, like be a very manly man, you know. So I think that's something that you would have. It was all health and wellness. It was all health and wellness. That's what I meant. you would like that yeah i think i think i would love it what are we are you did you ask the um the the japan trip or are you doing that also separate another yeah so our big trip that i personally want to do before that trip is we kind of want to do like a family history trip so my family is from scotland and then he's polish so ideally i would love to do like a scotland in Poland, more kind of nature in Europe, and then we'll see how much energy we have after that. And then Japan would still be on the table.

A Japan-Asia trip needs at least two weeks to a month. Our honeymoon, we just did like a week. I want to go and do it proper. I really want to go to Seoul, South Korea. Mm-hmm. So. It's nothing to do what we were talking about. Would you like to go into any other places?

if it is naming off places behind. I'll stay out of this for now. Abigail, how is, congrats on the book. How's the book going? It's good. It's definitely slowing down. I think writing a book, so it's a lot of work for,

obviously, like two years, and then the marketing, it's just all at once. I feel like you have to cram it into two, three months, but then after that, it's chill. So we're in the chill period. Obviously, it's still available. So you guys can go pick it up on Amazon and Barnes & Noble,

but no, it's chill. and I it was a lot. Yeah, you had a hectic period between the book tour and then wedding planning. So it's probably nice to just kind of...

We talked about that on our hunting moon. I'm so excited for this stage. I feel like it was so busy leading up to it this last year was a busiest year in my life and I wasn't even in the hospital. Now it's like, okay, what do we do now together?

Yeah, what's the plan? Yeah, what is the plan? Is everyone asking you about kids yet? I think a few years, kids, unless that whole Moose Honeymoon thing went, you know. Other than that, you never know. That's what you guys were doing when you went outside. What? Yeah, that's what we were doing when we went outside.

Way to put those together. I spent too much time on this podcast. What's next is we're leaning, we're leaning further. into this home reno um i'm gonna call it a business now it's not yet a business but we're leaning in yeah we have a lot like that but off so that's next i love that any um and then we're we'll let before we let you guys go what are you doing for the holidays anything special chilling what are you doing well funny enough my parents just missed here two weeks ago i cannot believe I just can't believe.

You know that Noah convinced Abby to move to Tulsa and then they convinced her entire family to move there. Her sister, her sister's cute little dog. Both her parents, they've all within like a year moved to Tulsa. I will say, I will say your neighborhood is very charming. It is super beautiful. I can understand that fail. Yeah, I can do it.

Is that what you were going to say? Honestly, more than I ever thought, like I really, get the appeal of living there having visited. You guys just have really gorgeous neighborhoods. The city of Tulson Commerce is not paying me enough for this steady work I've been putting in. That's all on. That's actually

true. That is true. I agree. But yeah, so my parents are here. So we'll be doing all of the holidays in Oklahoma. We won't be going back to Oregon. So yeah. With them, I'm assuming we'll do kind of a chill. Very Scottish. Because ours is fun, but ours is not chill. Yes. Well, there's a lot of you and your mom, I was so fun at the wedding. She was literally tearing up the dance floor.

Wow. It was like all of you guys. And she just like came up and started joining all of you guys. No, it wasn't. We were at the bar grabbing a drink. Me, Chelsea, Serena C, and Anna. And your mom, Noah was like, come on ladies, let's dance. She got us all on the dance floor. What do you guys do? what are you guys doing uh what so what are you guys doing tonight are you trying to do something with us no i was just asking are you just chilling or what are you doing i'm doing a girl's dinner there's a place in uh tulsa that does like um prefix dinners every wednesday to like a theme and it's like wine pairing's dinner so i'm going to go do that with the girls tonight i'm golfing and then i've finished some i got some home projects that i'm

allegedly doing later. Nice. Well, I want you guys to enjoy the rest of the year. You had a really busy year. So just this is these next few months. Take some time for yourselves. Relax and enjoy it. That's the advice.

You're reading from something. I thought you're screwing with that. I was like, what? Are you saying? Where is this going? I'm like, that does not sound like. Joe. No, we, we agree. I don't know where that came to them, but I agree. Totally agree. Oh, that's actually true. And I was, I wasn't going to say anything. And then I thought Joe like start

to break character. I was like, okay. I saw Serena's face and I'm thinking she didn't, this is fucking she'd say. This is wise. I don't know where he got this. Hey, I did want to say one thing from our wedding that my family and all of our friends said in they said, especially even Joe was cool, I heard. the bachelor people how chill nice down to earth everyone even joe was pretty much that's so nice yeah i got along with everybody it was just a great group of people like your entire guest list everyone was so fantastic yeah um all right well you guys thank you so much for coming on bachelor happy hour and taking the time out of your busy schedules i really do want you to enjoy the rest of the year Thank you guys for coming up at your happy hour.

Thanks for having us. Thanks for having us. Can't wait to see you guys in Idaho. Yeah. Yeah. Actually, we could. Keep getting immersed in nature, Joe. You got big things coming ahead of you.

And I can't wait to see how it works out. I actually would definitely go to Jackson Hole soon if you guys would like. And to all our listeners, thank you so much for tuning in the Bachelor Happy Hour. We really appreciate it. Make sure you download and subscribe because we will have new. interviews, fresh interviews every week. And thanks for listening. We'll talk to you soon. Bye. Bye.

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