Bachelor Happy Hour - Trouble in Paradise | Golden Hour

Episode Date: May 16, 2025

Today on “Golden Hour,” we’re back for another episode of diving into your questions! Love has been on the rocks this week for some of our listeners, and we’re ready to talk them through major relationship roadblocks. We kick off the episode with our question of the day: How do you navigate an argument with your s/o while you’re in public or around friends? Then, we dive into our questions: Is this groom-to-be’s request for his wedding day a red flag? Can you save a relationship when conversations fall flat? We’re dishing out our best advice for all these questions and more! Plus, we’re closing out today’s episode with a round of “Makeup or Breakup.” Would you try to make it work in these scenarios or are you outta here?! Tune in now and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is an I-Heart podcast. All right, West West, Prop here from Hood Politics with Prop Podcasts. You know I get down. You come from the urban areas. You understand politics more than you giving credit for. Between Jerry out here, Mandarin all over the place, hop-out boys snatching up family members

and two wars that was supposed to be done in 24 hours. Not to mention Epstein. We had to reach out to the homie Jamil Hill because she's going to keep it a century. In America, what sells in politics are narratives and storylines. Like, we treat politics like we treat sports, which is part of the reason why we're in the situation we're in right now. Listen to the hood politics with prop podcasts on the IHard Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Umanzor.

And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh, my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you.

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Listen to America's Crime Lab on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome back, everybody, to Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour. Once again, Kathy and I are joining you for some excitement. some questions, some games? I mean, Susan, is this the best part of your day? I'm telling you. I enjoy it. I do.

If any of you have any questions, we love to laugh. We love to answer your fan questions. And you know what? If you want us to answer your question, you have to write and submit it. And the way you're going to do those is go to bachelornation.com slash golden hour. And submit away. One, two, three. However many questions you want to ask, submit away.

Send us everything, your questions, your updates, and your comments, whether you agree with what we talked about. And I love that part. No, because not everybody agrees on everything. We want your updates, all of it. You can also DM us on Instagram at Bachelor Happy Hour. Okay, Susan, are you ready? We're going to get into the episode.

Really, because we have a lot to cover today, lots of questions. Okay. Let's start with our question. the day, okay? Ready? What is the best way to navigate having an argument with your significant other while you're in public with friends? I can answer this for Susan. She carries a mini baseball back in her purse that extends. No, see, what I don't like is my whole attitude change. You could see it in my eyes on my face. Yeah, but the best way would be just shut your mouth until you get out of here. So the way I, the way I, my husband and I used to have a look. Like if we,

should be a code word. Well, it wasn't even a code word. It was like I would, my eyes would get big and I would look at him like, don't do this. But not that. Are you serious right now? Yeah. I would never say it. I would just give him a look. And, and honestly, sometimes it was a little strained. And then we'd have the argument. But folks, if you're out there and you think it's ever. a good idea to argue there is no navigating an argument in public. Don't do it. It's bad form. It will make your friends and everyone else feel uncomfortable. And it makes me feel uncomfortable. Yeah. Don't bring your problems into your friends around, right? I mean, do you agree? Yes, I do agree. I don't think it's a time or place to do it. But I also feel like it

ruins the night or the day, whatever you're doing. It's just ruined until you can talk about it. For everyone or just you? When it's happening and you're not having the argument yet and you're trying to keep from having an argument, it's ruining it for me. Yes, but isn't that better than ruin it for, you know, to have a scream and fight in front of people? No, no, no. I'm saying let's just, like when you and I were in St. Martin, let's just say, I mean, you know, you aren't my significant and other, but we're friends. Let's just say you and I had a disagreement. Would you really, when we're with all our friends that we've made and say, Martin,

would you have ever gotten into, never, we wouldn't do it. I whisper, we'll talk about this when we get home. Or I would give you my Kathy look and you know, we know each other now like, right? Yeah. So people don't do it. It's never a good form. It ruins friendships. You know what else, Kathy?

you've witnessed I know I have couples arguing in front I've been in the backseat of the car where I won't mention their name two of my dear friends and we're on our way to lunch or dinner at a restaurant and they're going back and forth I jump in yo yes because you know why you jump in because it's uncomfortable because exactly and you're trying to make a copacetic you're trying to smooth everything over and of course that never works right no and then I feel the one that's picking on on the other one, and I'll call that. And the other one said, yeah, I don't like it. I don't like, I actually have been in those situations. You know what I do? I leave. I say, you know what? I'm telling you, when you were as married as long as I was, if that happened, and it did

happen a few times with us, I would look at my husband and say, Daryl, oh my God, I just got a text. The babysitter is sick. We got to go. Oh, yeah. I didn't care if they knew I was lying or not, or I'm out. I'm not doing it. Are you an Irish goodbye, girl?

I have become an Irish goodbye girl because I get very sad saying goodbyes. It takes too long. Well, I told you, we've had this conversation before. I am always grateful to be invited to a party or a wedding or whatever. So I always make sure I say thank you to the person. But I don't go around table table. Well, you know, I'm leaving out. I will go up to the host and say, thanks.

I've got to run. This has been wonderful. And then I make a B-line for the door. I hear you. All right. You're going to get into our fan questions for today. Susan, please take the first one and make it a good one. I'm going to take the first one and it's from Marissa.

She's 29 and she writes, hey, golden ladies, I'm getting married in a few months and I need some thoughts on if this situation with my fiancee is weird. We were going through our shot list with our photographer and he wanted to make sure he had a first look shot with his mom. mom because she's keeping her dress a surprise from him until the big day. Wait. Sorry. I'm just, I'm dying over this question. Keep going.

I'm sorry. I am an only child, so I don't know what boys' relationships are like with their moms. But I know you both have sons, so I'm hoping you can help. I feel like the first look should only be something that the bride and groom do on our wedding. day. Is it weird he wants to do one with his mom, or is it sweet excited to hear your thoughts? I want to be, I want to be that generous, loving, can see things always person. But Marissa, no, this is your wedding day. Mom, back off. I'm sorry. I really. I really. as I get older, Susan, you know, we've talked about this.

I'm much more of a go-along to get-along girl. So I wouldn't argue it. At first look, no one's going to see it. I wouldn't make a case of it. Only they know it, yeah. Exactly. Only they know it. So let it go.

Do I think it's weird? That was your question. I think it's very weird. It's different. It is different, but also a mom must feel damn good in that dress. Yeah. I mean, she wants to surprise her son. He obviously has flattered her or complimented her along the way.

So let them have their moment. Not first. You're first. You're first now. Well, not only that. I'm saying it's a moment. It's not the first dance. It's let them, you know, it's not like they're doing it in front of your wedding party and your, and your guest list.

So let them have their first thing. You know, the mother's son dance, all that. She deserves that too, right? I mean, I will tell you, and as everyone knows now, my, oh, wait, can I just say, Kyle and Candy's anniversary is Saturday, their first anniversary. So I'm giving a shout out to them. Susan married them one year ago today. She was the, not today, but in Saturday, it was the officiant.

So happy anniversary to them. But I'm here to tell you, the thought never crossed my mind. For your first look. No. And I looked, I looked great. But you know what? The day was all about Candy and Kyle. It is about them. But if they have that cut, don't make a fuss. No, don't make a fuss. And don't resent her for it. Wait. So you were just to thought right out of my brain. What if this is just the beginning, the harbinger of the relationship? I thought of that too, guys. I did. Like, what do you get yourself into today?

So, no, but so, so what do you think about that? Like, you know, how, That may be setting the, setting the scene for their life. I think the bigger question, Marissa, is, is, are you in a threesome with his mother? I'm just saying, you know, make sure. It's his idea. She says, it's my point. He wants to do it. I just said.

So is he going to say mom has to come for dinner every Sunday night? Mom wants to go on vacation with us. I think the wedding picture, I'm just saying, see, you know. pay attention to where this is going. Let them do the picture. Let her think it's sweet. It is sweet. Okay.

It is sweet, but I'm just saying, wouldn't you want to kind of pay attention to their relationship? Keep your eyes open. But she just wants a first look for her son and her at the moment. Whatever. He wants it. He wants the first look. No, because she's holding, she's not showing them the dress. It's a surprise.

Wait, from him. wait a minute first look shot with his mom because she's keeping her dress a surprise from him and he wanted to make sure he had a first look shot with his mom he's doing it for his mother

because he loves his mom you got mommy's overbearing sometimes I know I'm going to take heed for this I'm just saying take the photograph let the mother have her moment in the sign and we want to see the picture I want to see the dress yeah I want to see the picture and just make sure he knows

mom is not coming to dinner every Sunday unless it's my son and then Kyle I'll be over at 6 o'clock every Sunday all right let's move on okay let us know how the wedding goes and by the way congratulations

hope you have a fabulous wedding All right West West prop here from hood politics with prop podcasts you already know our get-down if you grew up in our urban areas of comfort of struggle you understand politics much more than you giving credit for. Feds taking over American cities, government hop-out boys, hopping out the van,

snatching up your theo in them, two wars that was supposed to be solved in 24 hours. Jerry just out here mandering all over the place. The turfs! And of course, the Epstein of it all. Well, this week, we decided to shoot our shot, and boy, did we pull up from the logo, to see if we could get somebody to come tap in with us. And the one and only Jamil Hill pulled up from the Spolitics podcast to keep it a whole. whole century.

Because in America, what sells in politics are narratives and storylines. It's like we treat politics like we treat sports, which is part of the reason why we're in the situation we're in right now. Listen to the hood politics with prop podcasts on the IHard Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Yumanzoor. And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom.

If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast. for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD Oh my god, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness psycho babble. Yes, yes. Then emergency intercoms the podcast for you. Open your free iHeartRadio

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at this season. Oh. Well, this season we're leveling up. Each episode will feature a special bestie and you're not going to want to miss it. Get in here! Today we have a very special guest with us. Our new super secret bestie is The diva of the people. The diva of the people. I'm just like text your ex. My theory is that if you need to figure out that the stove is hot, go and touch it. Go and figure it out for yourself. Okay. That's us. That's us. My name is Curley. And I'm Maya. In each episode, we'll talk about love, friendship, heart rates, men, and, of course, our favorite secrets. Listen to the Super Secret Bestie Club as a part of the Michael Tura podcast network available on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast.

I'm Jamil Hill, host of the Sports and Politics Podcast Politics. And on the latest episode of Politics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. what do Republicans say to you privately, that they won't say publicly? Many of them are in fear of their political lives, and that's been part of the challenge. But we continue to say to them, you were elected to defend your constituents, to stand up for your constituents. And there's life after Congress. And you should be willing to actually want to be able to look back on your time in the House of Representatives, knowing that you can keep your head held high because you did the right thing.

Donald Trump is gone in three and a half years. But their legacy or their failure to stand up to the extremism and the unprecedented assault on America as we know it will be with them forever. Make sure to listen to Spolitics on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. What would you do if one bad decision forced you to choose between a maximum security prison

or the most brutal boot camp designed to be hell on earth? Unfortunately for Mark Lombardo, this was the choice he faced. He said, you are a number, a New York State number, and we own you. Shock incarceration, also known as boot camps, are short-term, highly regimented correctional programs that mimic military basic training. These programs aim to provide a shock of prison life, emphasizing strict discipline, physical training, hard labor, and rehabilitation programs. Mark had one chance to.

to complete this program and had no idea of the hell awaiting him the next six months. The first night was so overwhelming and you don't know who's next to you. And we didn't know what to expect in the morning. Nobody tells you anything. Listen to shock incarceration on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Okay, Hannah writes, hi Kathy and Susan, love your podcast. My name, name is Hannah and I'm 27 years old. My fiancé and I have been together six years in January and lately he's mentioned how we don't interact with each other that much anymore. We have lived together for almost four years now so we obviously spend a lot of time together and I feel that's why we have lost a lot

of interaction. I don't get that. We spend a lot of our time together watching our TV shows. When we go out to eat, we don't have much to talk about. So we just just sit on our phones. I don't want this to break us up because I really do love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him. What can we do to get our interaction back to what it used to be? What says you, Susan? This is not good.

Not good because it was just a week ago. I was out and I was looking around, not on my phone. And I was looking at this couple. They were obviously on vacation together. and there was no conversation. And I thought, how sad. You've got to talk about something. I don't care if you're being annoying.

Talk about something. Well, wait. She says what can we do to get our interaction back to what it used to be? Let me give you a couple, one, two, three. Put your phones down. Don't bring your phones. Put them in your pocket and say, we're not having any phones.

That would be one idea. Another idea would be do something that you don't typically do. Go hiking if you've never hiked before. Put some spice back into your... Yeah. Put some spice back into your relationship. The fact that you said we don't, we obviously spend a lot of time together.

You know what you're missing there? You're saying quality time, quality time, Hannah. What are you guys doing together? If you're taking each other for granted, that is not going to bode well for, a marriage. So I would encourage you. And shock value, too. I would talk about something sexy

or I bought something. Maybe you see it on me. Just get a little rise, get it's interest. Is everything always about sex with you? No, no. I said do something fun first. Go for a hike and when you're out of breath telling me you can't breathe. I mean, that's conversation. Or you break your wrist.

I'm just saying, I think the red flag here for me is she said we obviously spend a lot of time together. They live together. And I feel like that's why we have lost a lot of interaction. Let me say to you, Hannah, when you're married, it can, you know, you have things to do. You have kids to raise jobs to do, houses to clean, laundry to do.

But you better be finding time for each other and making each other feel special or that relationship is doomed. Do you agree, Susan? I totally agree with you. Again, we agreed. I don't know. So what can you do to get your interaction, get some spark, change it up, put the phones down, put the phones down, take a weekend together. And think about what I just said.

I was sitting in the restaurant watching people and there was no interaction and it was boring and that's not who you want to be. You need to put some kind of a spark conversation. I don't care if you're talking about the next door neighbor, but talk. Well, did you hear the one thing here is he mentioned her fiancé, Hannah's fiancé, we don't interact with each other that much anymore. And so if he's saying that, that is, he's giving you a warning there, Hannah. Yes, he is. You better, you better figure it out and figure it out together how you're going to put that spice back.

They watch all those TV shows together. You could talk about the show. I mean, or say, you know, I got to say. You just talk. I mean, silence is okay. Do you think watching TV every night together is a good relationship? No, not every night. But some people work hard.

They come home. They eat. They're tired and they put on the TV until they go to bed. Yeah, you know what they need to do? Take a 10-minute walk together and talk about their day. What was important to you? How are you feeling? Make them them feel special.

These are things I've learned in my life. And so, Hannah, I get it. And invite other people even sometimes, you know, change it on. have another couple join you for what talk oh okay just checking step up your game get let us yeah step up your game Hannah interesting yeah yep yeah let us know how it goes we wish you the best he sounds like a good guy you sound like a great girl but you got to work relationships take work Hannah nobody says that when you get married it's a job it's a job it takes work You got to keep each other.

So I hope that you guys regain and refine what brought you together and rekindle that love and attraction that you found and let us know. Please let us know. You got this girl. Okay. The next one's from Anonymous. Hi, ladies. I feel really embarrassed asking this, but I really feel like you guys can help.

I've been with my boyfriend for six years and I love him so much. Lately, our sex life has been slipping. I haven't been able to work out due to some health issues I've been dealing with. So I've gotten really insecure and down about my body. I also take antidepressant so my sex drive is really low. Basically, I never want to have sex and it's starting to affect my relationship. What do you suggest I do to break out of this rut? I'm still extremely attracted to my boyfriend.

I don't know what it is, though, when he goes to. To initiate, I just never want to. I miss having that form of intimacy in my relationship. So any advice would be much appreciated. Thank you. I mean, it's so sad, but the first thing that came to my brain was fake it till you make it. Have sex even if you're not interested. But then I thought.

That's different too, though. It's do they know? Well, oh, man, seriously. Maybe if they're getting answers and they're happy. Talk to the doctor, changed the antidepressants. I don't know how old you are, but hormones, there's, there's, I would Google it too. I don't think they, she's been with a boyfriend for six years. I don't think we're talking about it.

I don't think anonymous is an older person. I don't. Maybe try something different, like something that, you know, that he can turn you on with, whether it's a sex toy or something that's going to stimulate you differently. than how it's been. Yeah. I mean, I think sex drive comes and goes. It does. You're not, but I also think antidepressants are certain medications.

There's no question about it. Reduce sex drive. There's no question. So I think Susan's right. Go and talk to your doctor. In the short term, you know, sex is an intimate, it's part of a relationship. And it's if, if he, He's not, if he's interested in having sex and you're not, that is going to hurt your relationship.

Am I right? Yes, it is. And you don't want a monotonous sex life either, that it's the same way every time. Yeah. Change it up. Yeah, but here, but she's saying she doesn't want to have sex when he initiates. And that's so funny. You said that, Susan, because she said, what do you suggest I do to break out of this rut?

You're not in a rut. You don't want to have sex. Call it what it is. You don't want to have sex. You need to get some help. about increasing your sex drive, how to, your libido, yeah, and go back to the gym and you're feeling really insecure and down about your body. He's obviously not complaining, feels sexy in your own skin. I mean, it's easy to say, but start saying your affirmations in the mirror at night,

you know, put it out to the universe. I have a sexy body. I have a sexy body. I have a sexy body. I have a sexy body. a sexy body. I am worthy. I am wealthy. I am wise. All right. We are, you know, I, listen, anonymous. I think you've got to get some medical help, maybe some therapist help. You know, that's not our strong suit here. But I think that you are right that it is starting to affect your relationship. So go and talk to your doctor, talk to a therapist, maybe a sex therapist, maybe fake it till you make it. But you got to try something different from what you're doing. If you keep doing what you've been doing, you're going to keep getting what you've been getting. All right, West West, Prop here from Hood Politics with Prop Podcasts.

You already know our get-down. If you grew up in our urban areas of comfort of struggle, you understand politics much more than you giving credit for. Fans taking over American cities, government hop-out boys, hopping out the van, snatching up your theo in them, two wars that was supposed to. to be solved in 24 hours. Jerry just out here, mandering all over the place. The turfs. And of course, the Epstein of it all.

Well, this week, we decided to shoot our shot, and boy, did we pull up from the logo, to see if we could get somebody to come tap in with us. And the one and only Jamil Hill pulled up from this politics podcast to keep it a whole century. The American public is used to being entertained. We're a consumption society. So what Trump figured out is entertain them, and they'll never question you. Listen to the hood Politics with Prop Podcast on the IHard Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, my name is Enya Yumanzoor.

And I'm Drew Phillips. And we run a podcast called Emergency Intercom. If you're a crime junkie and you love crimes, we're not the podcast for you. But if you have unmedicated ADHD... Oh my God, perfect. And want to hear people with mental illness, psychobabble. Yes, yes. Then Emergency Intercom is the podcast for you.

Open your free IHeartRadio app. Search Emergency Intercom and listen now. Hola, it's HoneyGerman. And my podcast, Grasias Come Again, is back. This season, we're going even deeper into the world of music and entertainment. With raw and honest conversations with some of your favorite Latin artists and celebrities. You didn't have to audition? No, I didn't audition.

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And on the latest episode of Politics, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries joins me for a candid conversation about the state of the Democratic Party. What do Republicans say to you privately that they won't say publicly? many of them are in fear of their political lives and that's been part of the challenge but we continue to say to them you were elected to defend your constituents to stand up for your constituents and there's life after congress and you should be willing to actually want to be able to look back on your time in the house of representatives knowing that you can keep your head held high because you did the right thing Donald Trump is gone in three and a half years but their legacy or their failure to

stand up to the extremism and the unprecedented assault on America as we know it will be with them forever. Make sure to listen to Spolitics on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. The Super Secret Festi Club podcast season four is here. And we're locked in. That means more juicy cheesement. Terrible love advice. Evil spells to cast on your ex. No, no, no, no, we're not doing that this season. Oh. Well, this season, we're leveling up each episode will feature a special bestie and you're not going to want to miss it get in here today we have a very special guest with us our new super secret bestie is the diva of the people the deep of the people i'm just like text your ex my theory is that if you need to figure

out that the stove is hot go and touch it go and figure it out for yourself okay that's us my name is Curley. And I'm Maya. In each episode, we'll talk about love, friendship, heart breaks, men, and of course, our favorite secrets. Listen to the Super Secret Bestie Club as a part of the Mycultura podcast network available on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. Okay. Now, are you ready, Susan? It's called makeup or breakup. And we're going to play this just you and me together girlfriend okay we're going to take turns reading hypotheticals and then we'll say whether we would break up or try to make it work okay so i'm going here i'm going to start us off your husband confesses that they or he secretly took out a 30,000 dollar loan before you moved in

together and never told you you only find out when debt collectors start calling asshole tell me what you really think so you pay the debt why are you not paying your bill well let me just say that ship is sailed because now there is a debt collector

so what do you do do you make up with them or break up with them you make up with them if you love him I mean he's stupid you're going to pay that $30,000 no he is he can't A debt collector is there. If he had the money.

I would take over the finances and make sure that payment is made. What about you? Well, if we're going to write a check, it's over. Let's not do this again. Like Kathy has 30,000 just floating around. You're going to get a spanking tonight. You said your husband, if you weren't my, I got to be honest, if you were my boyfriend and I was living with him. Totally different. He's out. It's her husband.

I take marriage, you know, very seriously. I'm with you. We would have a very serious conversation about finances going forward. And I would want to see check stubs or, you know, whatever. There would be an arrangement. I'm not divorcing him over that. However, however, wait a minute. However, he's going to take another loan of 30,000. You know why? He's going to buy me a Philip Petit Diamond and Christ. watch. No, man, that's a hard one. Okay. Your partner admits they drunkenly kissed an X at a wedding but swear it meant nothing

and immediately regretted it. WTF drunkenly kissed an ex. Kiss my butt. No. Uh-uh. No. You're going to break up? Oh. No, I'll just be pissed off for a while.

Oh, listen. Susan the big talker Kiss my ass. Oh, are you going to break up? Seriously, seriously. Okay. Okay. Takes two. I'm going to go kiss one of my ex.

How do you feel? But it's not going to mean anything. You're not really going to do that. No. I would, I would, you know what? I got to be honest.

I was, you know, I was look at words. I'm being honest. You're going to laugh at me. All right. But I look at the, the specificity of the words.

Your partner? I don't know. Has he been my partner for a week? He's out of there. If he's been my partner for a year, I'm going to have a conversation with him. It really, to me, would depend on how long he's been my partner. And how would that conversation make you okay with this? What would that conversation sound like?

If I'd been with him long enough, I believe I would know, I, just Kathy, I'm not saying all women. I think I would know his intentions and I would know his character. And would I like it that he did it? Absolutely not. But I will tell you, it would know. make me on guard. I'd be wary. I'd be cautious. I'd be looking to see. And if it ever happened again, if it ever happened again, he'd be out. Because I, you know what? I don't, you and Susan, we people, Bachelor Nation, we talk about this stuff offline. Susan, how many times have I said to you

the man that I'm going to be with, I'm going to trust him implicitly. And he could trust me implicitly. And if I don't have that. But then sit like this happens and the trust things. Well, that that's what I'm saying then I'm going to be wary and if I've been his partner for a month a month and a day it's over and you know what don't drink anymore if you can't handle it well alcohol is an excuse I think for bad behavior yeah it is it is all right here's the next one okay your partner refuses to post about you on social media after two years together, saying they like to keep their private lives. They like to keep their private life separate when you confront them.

But they frequently post about their friends, jobs, and hobbies. Susan, I can tell you this happened to a very good friend of mine. Okay. This actually, and you know why? He did. He would post pictures. I mean, I bet this is like this. It could be them.

Yeah, it could be them. But I'm going to, and I'm not going to mention their names. But I will tell you the advice I gave her, and I turned out I was right. You know why he didn't post her? He had a girlfriend in every port. Yep. He travels a lot. He had girlfriends in Europe, girlfriends in Texas.

And I said to her, if he weren't, I remember we had this conversation. I said, if he were not posting at all, that would be one thing. That's a red flag. But he's posting pictures of his. friends, girls and guys he's with, like his group things, his hobbies, everything, but not her. And I said, that's a red flag. And when about six months later, guess what? She found out, bye-bye. And guess what? It was by-bye. That's a break-up. That's absolutely a breakup. All right. Your husband gets fired from their job for misconduct. And by that,

she means flirting with coworkers sending inappropriate emails. They insist it was harmless and blown out of proportion. He got fired? Fired? You're all done. Because they'll probably lie. I mean, again, I don't know. I don't want to sound wishy-washy. God, I'm turning, I'm morphing into you, Susan.

I don't want to sound wishy-washy. It would depend how long I'd been married to this guy. Yeah, and how bad the inappropriate emails were. I'd want more details. You know what, Kathy, I'm a jokester and say things. It might be, I'm giving them the benefit of the doubt if he shows her everything. And she goes, oh, seriously, you know, I get it. But you're stupid.

Don't ever do it again. It could maybe not be a breakup that you would make up, depending on what was in the emails. I would have to see the wording. How about you? What if he just, yeah, but, you know, that's a slippery slip. too. Honestly, for me, it would be, again, I'd look at what I thought his intentions were. You know, if it's my husband, I know him pretty well. And for me, I might not leave him right that minute, but I think it would really cut into, it would cut a swath into our relationship.

Yes, it would. Yes, it would. So it's a makeup and maybe breakup. We'll give it time. That's a, can I just say I have turned into Susan? Susan always says, both. You can't have both, Susan. You have to pick one of them. No, I don't. All right, Kathy's now adopted that. Makeup, maybe breakup. All right, go. The next one. Your husband quits his job without telling you, and he has no plan. Babe, why did you do that? I don't think that's a breakup because there's obviously a reason, right? I got to get more facts. I need more facts. Yeah, we need more facts.

I would say... You don't break up over that. I don't know. If your man quits his job, you're going, don't let the door hit you in the ass. I'm going to... You know what? How are we going to pay the Amex bill? The $30,000.

Yeah, I just bought myself a new Philippaitee diamond and crusted watch. How are we paying for that one? I don't know. That is, again, it is not a breakup imminently, but it might portend. I love that word. Well, he'd better go get a job. Yeah, exactly. All right.

Your partner lies about small things constantly. Where they are, who they're with, how much they spent but nothing major. Those are all major. Red, red, red, red. Don't crimson. Crimson. Crimson. Don't lie to me.

You know, can I tell you? It's stupid. Okay, wait, I have a question. With your husband, were there any, like, I can tell you what my negotiations, a non-negotiable was with my husband. Did you have any non-negotiables? Like you do that and we're done with your husband? Yeah, probably if you ever cheat or, you know, lie or I don't know.

So with my husband, I said, I can deal with a lot. But if you ever cheat on me, I'm out. And he said the same thing. That was my thing. That was all. Understand. So we have to go back to another question. You're sending emails to other women.

Oh, wait. You're out. all right go okay your partner never takes your side when you're in public if you're having a disagreement with your friend for example even about something silly he never sides with you i'm not breaking up with him but i'm not breaking up with him a new one when we get home what is your problem like why can't you ever agree with me yeah yeah i would i mean would you would you I wouldn't break up, though, or would you wait to you got home? Well, me, if it happens and he's doing it again, I probably go, why do you always do that?

You never side with me. In public, you would say that. Yeah. But would you get home and get more angry? No, I'd just nip it in the butt. No, no, you think that would nip it in the bud? He never, ever takes your side in public. Why?

I want to know why. And you're going to ask him around all the friends that are... Well, it depends on what you're saying and what the situation is. Not every time now. But something I would go home and talk about, yeah. Yeah, I'm not breaking up. No. But I want to talk about it.

Why do you never... And he's going to have to buy me a very expensive makeup gift. There she goes again. Well, that was fun. Wait, why does it... I mean, here's the thing that worries me about us. You know me and you know I'm joking. And that I don't need a man who could buy me a $30,000 watch.

Now, if he wants to, I'd be, you know, if somebody wants to give me a red box, that would be Cartier or a blue box, that would be Tiffany. I would be like, thank you so much. But that, would that be enough for you for a guy? For what? To give you gifts? I'm saying, would that be enough for you to be interested in a guy if he showered you with expensive gifts?

No, I need to like him. Would you give the gifts back? no Susan's vehemently shaking her head no no hell no not just no hell no I didn't find those guys in my lifetime I mean you know I had a husband who bought me some nice gifts but I you know I had a guy

I had a guy I dated I swear to God he bought me a set of mixing bowls he bought me a steamer of a frother for my coffee as like sweetest episode for a day like a birthday or something or just random gifts. No. For my birthday. No, just like Christmas. It was like utilitarian, you know, you know, here's a, you sit them down and tell them. This is not how you do. Can I tell you what he gave me for

my birthday, though, that I still love, because you know, everyone knows me. I'm a voracious reader. He gave me a Kindle, the top of the line Kindle. And you know what? Can I tell you how often I think of him when I read on that Kindle? Not at all about the book. That's right. Oh my God, you really do know me, don't you? All right. This was so much fun.

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